I got IST but in my mind I'm still a beta? Any lifts for this?
A girl I was seeing left me because I didn't satisfy her sexually. She wanted me to choke her and pull her hair but I couldn't. I want to love women not hurt them.
I got IST but in my mind I'm still a beta? Any lifts for this?
A girl I was seeing left me because I didn't satisfy her sexually. She wanted me to choke her and pull her hair but I couldn't. I want to love women not hurt them.
>I want to love women not hurt them
Sadly its not about men ever. Do you want them to love you? You have to choke them and pull their hair.
At least thats my experience.
It's everyone's first experience with women. You were raised to respect them and shit, and once you get intimate with them they ask you to beat them. It's scary at first but eventually you'll get used to it. I know of no women who are not like this. And you also have to read their minds when they want to get slapped across the face, because if you read the signs wrong you go to jail. But if that's what she wanted and you miss your chance, then she's going to leave you.
Getting a girl is one thing, but keeping her is a whole different game is all I'm saying.
>I want to love women not hurt them.
Why, are you gay?
deadlift
Get a fetish for dominating failed men (traps/sissies/crossdressers/trannies/femboys etc) then after you learned to dominate them properly go back and frick your girl with your new found sexual dominance, just like how she wants it.
Women are looking for surrogate daddies these days since women don't ever get disciplined or corrected by males, ever growing up, it's an experience they crave.
They want someone to relieve them of being in control, when you do all the rough stuff you have to realize it's not actually humiliating for her, that's a male mindset. Women want to be relieved of responsibility, being manhandled and lovingly choked around is a cathartic experience for many women that enacts their desire of being able to let go.
tl;dr: Women are driven by anxiety and fear, being manhandled literally alleviates this by providing her a surrogate daddy experience. For her it's a moment of roleplaying where "daddy takes the wheel" and she has to do nothing but be a female.
It's not really a hateful act, though I understand why you feel that way. Romance and "love" is a concept invented by males from a time when we had absolute and totalitarian control over the women sex.
Also it's not humiliating for her, on the contrary women feel empowered by it. Let go of the male mindset, she is not a man that feels humiliation when on his knees.
To elaborate Romance is a justification and mental construct developed AFTER the fact that you have proven that you can release her from all her anxieties.
Also why you need prevent yourself from getting feelings until you had sex.
It sucks that it is this way dude, I'm like you, I wanted the romance, the love, the purity etc etc.
But women these days are not wired like that, if they ever were. I mean think about it in the medieval age, the ideal of the romantic knight, Romeo & Juliet. But that age also promised women a complete enslavement and bondage to her husband, while not neccessary by violence a woman had her anxious state of mind permanently curtailed by religion. custom and law.
Good post. There is two layers to the dynamic. Level 1 is the inherent biological craving women have for some male dominance. Layer 2 is that in our society, masculinity is so rare, that women often grow up with emasculated fathers that never sound proper bounderies for them and upheld them. This makes it so that women do not inherently crave dominance and masculinity on a biological level, they get an added level of craving for it because their father failed at being masculine. Its a double craving
women were a mistake holy shit
youre the mistake for reading incel ramblings on IST and thinking it applies to all women. kys.
you sound like a massive homosexual, kys.
>look at me i read pickup artist crap and use their terminology i sounds like a philosopher i know so much about women
That's incredibly well put
idk where he got it from but his arguments > your lack of any
Instead of strawmanning try to prove him wrong
>Dominate women
>No consequences
Literally my fetish
Wow you’re literally me I’m still in love with her too even though she said it was just casual sex
>A girl I was seeing left me because I didn't satisfy her sexually.
Know that feel brother. Although I left her because she wouldn't tell me what was wrong but I believe that's why she became so cold
>I want to love women not hurt them.
It's 50/50 for me, honestly.
find different women OP. Or frick cute boys instead.
>I got IST but in my mind I'm still a beta? Any lifts for this?
no, lifting won't make you an alpha
you're a beta for life, come to terms with it now and you'll be happier in the long run
>She wanted me to choke her and pull her hair but I couldn't. I want to love women not hurt them.
Based. You are actually becoming a beta by trying to change yourself for a woman.
if you loved her, you would give her what she needs. you don't have to really hurt her, she just wants you to be assertive and dominate her