I hung out at my best friends place yesterday I haven't talked to him in a while and he has a gf now (soon to be wife) and I actually had a good time for once in a long time but seeing them together made me realize how lonely I really am. How do I mentally cope from this? Will exercise help me cope with shit like this?
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>tfw all your friends and family members are in relationships
I know that feel
>Will exercise help me cope with shit like this?
Fail an overhead press and let a barbell crush your skull
Walletmax, have a good time with your life, ask around if there's anyone people know who would be a good match for you. How old are you by the way?
I just turned 24
You've got time, just make sure you're actively looking for someone.
Its so brutal and she is super cute with a nice big ass in short shorts when I was over she was crawling around on the carpet floor when we were playing games she was trying to pop her back at one point and literally went in doggy position and stuck her ass all the way in the air right in front of me
>best friends place
>haven't talked to him in a while
Is there a reason for this? Were you busy with school or work or were you just "busy"? (After work/workout just goes home and does computer)
He lives in Arizona and I live in San Francisco.
Your best friend lives out of state? Bravo for you for keeping tabs, how was Arizona fellow Cali gay?
No we both live in the same state
I can't even read these threads anymore. I've been there done that... struggled through my 20's watching people who've basically been together since highschool or just out of college settling their lives down and getting married.
I was invited to all their weddings... and declined them all. I took a chance with being a groomsman at the wedding of someone I formerly considered to be a best friend... I got scolded because I tried to get to know a couple of the bride's friends... was later ostracized from the group because I was still single.
People are buttholes and no matter how much you think you can trust someone, the best case is to take matters into your own hands and get away from people like this.
Life's a lot better without fake people in it.
OP, if he's truly your friend then be happy for him. take this as a sign that maybe you're not putting your needs first in your own life. Take time to understand what you want and just work towards it.
It took me too long to figure that out. Frick everyone else and go for what YOU want.
GO GET YOURS. NOW.
>because I was still single
lol you just have shit friends or from some shithole,
>you just have shit friends
I live in a gorgeous western state. Yes, people here are absolute shyte.
>I got scolded because I tried to get to know a couple of the bride's friends...
I feel like there's some information being omitted here
>I feel like there's some information being omitted here
Oh yeah? If you're Trevor then put me on blast you fat frick.
Actually I don't know who you are, but your response has confirmed that in all aspects of your life you are the problem
> (You)
>Actually I don't know who you are...
You're here too. lmao.
Yeah you absolutely deserved what happened lmao
Why do incels never realize that they are the problem in their lives? It's not porn or the israelites or sneed oils or soi, it's them and their shitty repellent personalities.
>anon thinks they know everything about someone from a couple posts.
I was able to find better friends and even have a kid. so, your assertions are shallow at best.
You know what really hurts? having been in a shitty relationship before and now not only are you alone but you see people in happy relationships and it hurts extra bad because even when you had what you wanted it was bad and left you hurt and broken instead of happy and fulfilled
I don't care i just want a gf
That's a special kind of sting
the only productive way to channel those feelings of jealousy is exercise and self-improvement, otherwise they are going to poison you
Even exercise and self-improvement can poison you if you think you're somehow better for doing so, without any demonstrable difference like getting a gf/fiance yourself.
There are tons of single losers here who have nothing going for themselves who think they are somehow better for squatting 3 times a week. These guys are losers.
I say slip further and further into madness with an eventual murder spree of hookers and random homeless people until you get caught then shoot it out with pigs when they come to get you.
Best answer
Going to the gym will get you around people. Go to meetups or something. Keep putting yourself out there.
You'll find someone.