i am just too autistic. Its either mania for me when i am all highenery, provoking people with saying dumb silly things etc. Or i look like serial murderer , anry at entire world and only answer with grunting. No middleground for me
ive been down to 10% bf with abs, a nice physique, quite IST and here's a secret. Nobody gives a fuck, especially when you wear clothes. If you wear your physique like a badge of honour, i think it will actually turn women OFF of you. Your physique should be passive, something that you dont even account for when assessing your dating value (the objective reality is that it does increase your dating value, but you shouldnt treat it like it does). If you dress nicely, arent fat, put yourself out there and have stability (house, car, good job) women will come. Being jacked isnt included in that. As other anons have mentioned, its a bonus. Most women wont want to date you soley because you're jacked. If they're 18-22 they might if you also have a tier face chad and/or are tall. But women arent going to come running because you have abs.
yeah, you have to be great at everything, and everything must be effortless to you. When they see you worked hard at something to increase your status its automatically over for you
Used to think it was my beer belly and unkempt hair that made my gf started losing feelings towards me. Lost a ton of weight, got a chiseled face and an adonis belt and as it turns out, the reason she lost feelings was because I am emotionally abusive and mentally ill druggie. Believe it or not but your personality matters. Gonna try to change my ways but regardless I kinda doubt this current relationship will work when looking at everything i hindsight and can't say I blame her.
You're weak, your comfort life made you turn into a weak man.
Just know that we incels are training with 10x more intensity than you, we are coming for you, and you will be defeated.
You wouldn't last a day in our shoes.
>lose weight >got fit >got job >got social life >got gf >miss a couple work outs >bad thoughts return with a vengeance >abuse client at work, immediately dismissed >gf makes a joke and I insult, threaten, break up with and block her >mutual friends start messaging me asking wtf is going on >delete everything, grab bug out bag and drive back across the country to parents house >resume neet life style and rekindle friendship with vodka >register for another name change so no one can find me
just wait
the duality of gays
go talk to them retard
>you lied to me
Lifting by itself wont get you a gf. At best its supposed to give you the confidence to go and talk to girls.
You're angry and, most likely, boring to talk to. This negates all the effects of your good physical form.
Unless you become a person a woman can just have a nice conversation with, you won't get a gf.
i am just too autistic. Its either mania for me when i am all highenery, provoking people with saying dumb silly things etc. Or i look like serial murderer , anry at entire world and only answer with grunting. No middleground for me
if you're a person that a woman can have a nice conversation with, that's how you become her friend
Silence, India.
Did you talk to women?
what did you expect, a amazon delivery or something?
thats not how life works. You don't "get" a girlfriend. They are the result of something.
>lifting for women
You're just ugly bro. A good physique if just a bonus. If you don't have an attractive face then it's not gonna do you much good
ive been down to 10% bf with abs, a nice physique, quite IST and here's a secret. Nobody gives a fuck, especially when you wear clothes. If you wear your physique like a badge of honour, i think it will actually turn women OFF of you. Your physique should be passive, something that you dont even account for when assessing your dating value (the objective reality is that it does increase your dating value, but you shouldnt treat it like it does). If you dress nicely, arent fat, put yourself out there and have stability (house, car, good job) women will come. Being jacked isnt included in that. As other anons have mentioned, its a bonus. Most women wont want to date you soley because you're jacked. If they're 18-22 they might if you also have a tier face chad and/or are tall. But women arent going to come running because you have abs.
yeah, you have to be great at everything, and everything must be effortless to you. When they see you worked hard at something to increase your status its automatically over for you
>Be me
>Enjoying time with my gf
>she blonde, blue eyes, big tits and petite
>Having an amazing time
>Wake up
>realize im still single
FUCK YOU DREAMS!
Used to think it was my beer belly and unkempt hair that made my gf started losing feelings towards me. Lost a ton of weight, got a chiseled face and an adonis belt and as it turns out, the reason she lost feelings was because I am emotionally abusive and mentally ill druggie. Believe it or not but your personality matters. Gonna try to change my ways but regardless I kinda doubt this current relationship will work when looking at everything i hindsight and can't say I blame her.
now comes the hard part, talking to them
Congrats. Now you are at 0.
fix your personality
If lifting fixed autism IST would contain nothing but elite members of society
You will only get a gf if you have traits like strong chin and jaw above 6,2 etc etc etc
Weightlifting does not matter
Self improvement does not matter
All that matters is genes genes genes
Yes, I did
You lift for women.
I have a woman, she sleeps in my bed.
Each day, I wake up with a fresh hope in my soul.
Each day, I grow stronger and wiser towards a higher goal.
It is to drive fear into the hearts of wicked men and crush them.
You're weak, your comfort life made you turn into a weak man.
Just know that we incels are training with 10x more intensity than you, we are coming for you, and you will be defeated.
You wouldn't last a day in our shoes.
Post pic, OP. Until you do, I will assume you are a 20% bf fatty
>lose weight
>got fit
>got job
>got social life
>got gf
>miss a couple work outs
>bad thoughts return with a vengeance
>abuse client at work, immediately dismissed
>gf makes a joke and I insult, threaten, break up with and block her
>mutual friends start messaging me asking wtf is going on
>delete everything, grab bug out bag and drive back across the country to parents house
>resume neet life style and rekindle friendship with vodka
>register for another name change so no one can find me