i made a decent amount of gains and my girlfriend started saying shit like "you gonna stop?" or "you're narcissistic"
what does it mean?
i made a decent amount of gains and my girlfriend started saying shit like "you gonna stop?" or "you're narcissistic"
what does it mean?
It means your gf is insecure
time to move on
Gains goblin
you’re spending too much time in the gym and not enough with her which is selfish
holy shit you’re right. this is my first gf, i’ll quit the gym asap i don’t want to lose her. thanks for the advice
i usually workout when shes at work or sleeps tho
Time time to get a better gf
She knows you're getting mired by other girls. She doesn't want to get better herself, so she wants you to stop.
You can now upgrade to hotter b***hes, congrats.
youre now officially a HighValueMale™ and shes scared youre going to move on to a life without her, full of glitz and glamour whilst fricking victoria secret models
>you made it anon!!
Women only ever tell you to stop doing things.
>captcha: k4rASS
She's afraid you will become more attractive to other girls and might leave her. They always do this kind of shit. For example, once I had really hard day at work and was thinking about going to gym next day. Ex was all like "yeah yeah, no need to go, it's alright, just do some lazy stuff :)". Ended up going of course
i'd never leave her :<
start cucking her
i’m cackling
She's worried you're going to leave her. That means she's going to be more inclined to do what you want to keep you happy. Congratulations, you're winning.
>That means she's going to be more inclined to do what you want to keep you happy
Either this or she's going to cheat on you "before" you find another girl
You should work more on your lats
Same issue with the wife. The real issue is they want you to be hot but they want to be hot and they're getting jealous you're looking better. They have low self esteem because they are women and are afraid you will get hit on or will leave them. They will cope with this by using copious amounts of makeup and attempting to pose in a way that will make them look skinny for social media pictures, which takes about 1.5 hours after its all said and done and in the exact same period of time they could have ran like 7 miles and probably lost more weight running than attempting to look skinny. Women are followers not leaders anon. You can't call them out but you also can't be a huge dick to them. You have to tell them listen I want to be healthy and in shape so I can live long and see my kids graduate and walk my daughter down the aisle you can either hop on the bandwagon or go get a seat on the sideline.
>using copious amounts of makeup and attempting to pose in a way that will make them look skinny for social media pictures, which takes about 1.5 hours
Having a gf who
>doesn't use social media
>but who is also hot
>and not a friendless sperg
is one of my proudest achievements.
You really believed her when she said she had no social media? Anon...
>>"you gonna stop?"
No
>>"you're narcissistic"
Yes, and you are actually ruining my public image.
If they want to play psychological chess, take that shit 3d.
I'm not saying she is a she-devil or anything like that, but actually analyze your relationship and see if there are other examples of insecurity that are making you feel pressured to not do something any reasonable partner should be okay with you doing.
I gave in for 2+ years with my ex wife before I realized I had nothing left to give for all her mini micro demands. She even made me second guess about wanting to lose weight because she had an eating disorder or some kind (she just wouldn't eat).
I didn't realize I was being abused to accommodate her insecurity and trauma and you dont deserve that either OP.
She's insecure. She thinks you're going to upgrade and she's too lazy to improve herself to keep up with you. She's being a gainsgoblin and is swole shaming you