>I'll just start hitting the gym. >these bullies w- ACK Posted on April 20, 2023 by Anonymous >I'll just start hitting the gym >these bullies w- ACK There's no escape is there
Never show weakness or vulnerability to women
This. Honestly just make up a life story for yourself that's based on slight truths. Me for example? I was a fucking loser like pic related. Everyone gave me shit BUT here's the important part, Everyone did know who i was so technically everyone knew me at school and i was popular, so it's not a lie when i tell girls i was popular in highschool because it's actually true.
>Never show weakness or vulnerability to women
This. I mean, you can, technically, if you dgaf about the woman in question.
if you think like this, there is literally no point in getting into a reltionship with a women. of course only if you define a relationship as an << relationship. intimcity can only be reached by opening up and being honest about yourself, else it's not possible to establish a deep emotional connection. if you don't want that, then there is no reason to put up with all the hassle of a relationship, instead just stay single and fuck around. you don't even need a relationship for children. a relationship is only needed if you want an emotional connection
Bullshit. A relationship gets you sex on tap and a roommate.
>relationship gets you sex on tap
ever heard of friends with benefits?
>and a roommate.
you don't need a relationship for that, you can get a roommate anytime, or you can fill that void with a dog
>Intimacy is built through exposure over a long time, and a deep emotional connection is built by being genuine, so just be genuinely strong all the time.
>be genuine, but not about your weak parts
you are contradicting yourself lol
Yes just be strong all the time. It's called being a man everyone used to do it since forever until young boys started getting raised by women and told it was ok to cry.
But it wasn't women, it was the media and it started in the 90s.
Yeah just get a ffb and a dog. Great advice from a great female brain
what else do you need a relationship for
just tell me
>sex on tap
lmfao buddy boyo you can't be this delusional
>t. never had a gf
>t. never had a gf for longer than 2 years
Dumbass modern idiot watched too many films. How often do you think your great grandfather cried or admitted he was weak in front of your great grandmother? Intimacy is built through exposure over a long time, and a deep emotional connection is built by being genuine, so just be genuinely strong all the time.
Stop watching porn incel
Your great grandfather didn't ahve an intimate relationship with your great grandmother by our modern standards. They married because they were expected to and had kids because they had to (With no real pension plan etc.).
Intimacy is a meme. Marriage is not about love.
this is why the gayreeks loved men and married women
>How often do you think your great grandfather cried or admitted he was weak in front of your great grandmother?
Never, he just came in from the coal mine, had his bath and then went to the pub to get pissed and fight
>deep emotional connection is built by being genuine, so just be genuinely strong all the time.
what does mean being genuine mean?
i got back with my ex cause she begged me for it and it was a few days before she left for her phd country and she said that we won't be able to last because we didn't built enough connection? what did she mean by this?
>i got back with my ex cause she begged me for it
You're betamaxx simping and wondering what she meant by leaving?
Well I was the one who broke things off. I blocked her from everywhere and when she came back in January 23 i held frame and didn't do anything. I hooked up with another girl in november 22 but i was dry since then. So when she came back for easter holidays for 10 days she was calling/texting that she wanted me back.
We met 2 days ago and we almost fucked but she said that she is mad at me and left. I ghosted then she called me again last night and said she wanted to try again. Back in January she didn't fuck anybody else but now she gives me the vibe that something might have happened. I don't know.
Should i leave?
she breaks my balls everytime she comes around tho. i can't escape this shit. i had her blocked since oct 22, the sad part is that lots of whores are interested in me but i hate casual sex
>i hate casual sex
>takes back exes
Yup, betamaxx simp.
>Yup, betamaxx simp.
instead of namecalling give me actual advice?
I did: Leave her alone. Ghost her. She doesn't exist to you anymore. Now live your life normally.
He wants to keep talking until somebody gives him advice that aligns with what he actually wants to do.
Then he'll thank them for their advice and do the thing he wanted to do.
Don’t end statements with a question mark. There’s some advice.
>I held frame
Jesus christ, get off the Internet once in a while
>he is betamaxx simping
>when the girl is the one begging to come back, not him
you're getting your buzzwords twisted there, virgin, stop pretending to be a relationship senior when you've never had any
he is still a betamaxx because she is a whore
oh this thread is still up?
Bros i dont trust her tbh, i was talking to her for an hour trying to squeeze out every ounce of truth, she said she didn't fuck anyone during our break but only had a 'talking stage' with a guy. i tried to learn more info but she said they stopped talking. i think they fucked but i'll never know. she texted me tonight before she left for the airport that she loves me so much and she was happy to see me for two hours. (we didn't even fuck i just met her 2 days straight and talk while she was here for a month)
my granfather has dementia right now and is unable to do anything himself
my grandmother still loves him and you can tell she wants to take care of him.
just because you are a loser who will never have love doesn't mean its impossible
>friends with girls
>try to advance stuff into romance
>start to act completely genuine around her
>she drops me saying it won't work out
>3 months later she finds a guy exactly like me (I mog him though) and starts dating him
>although I have a slight better haircut
I'm sorry man but it's just fact. Women hate weakness. A friend of mine told me that his gf started acting cold after they went to his father's funeral, and shortly after she dumped him. I have been dumped because I told my then-gf about the mental issues I had as a teen (long behind me). My brother attempted suicide once and the only people who supported him were either male or our mother.
Women are hard-wired to see weakness in men as repulsive.
>never open up
>surprised that you're only attractive to hoes who hate it when guys open up
t. sensitive guy who always gets girls to fall in love with him
Post female with timestamp.
You mean my gf? We don't live together and she probably wouldn't agree anyway since she's a normie. It's not rocket science that you will get females that you're attractive for.
You're an idiot, man. You don't have a relationship with a chick to open up to her emotionally and have intelligent conversation. You have one for getting sex and having children.
Newsflash: You are a man. Nobody on this world cares about your feelings, nobody ever will, except God. Boys usually learn this in early childhood, and learn to bottle everything up. Why didn't you? Your feelings literally do not matter. People don't want to know about them.
>You're an idiot, man. You don't have a relationship with a chick to open up to her emotionally and have intelligent conversation. You have one for getting sex and having children.
One moment bro, yesterday we had the ceiling of my house drop into my mothers head (thankfully she is ok by a miracle)
I was shocked and of course i didn't call my gf crying although i had high anxiety and took her to the hospital. When the time came and met her with high cortisol that I had, i told her in a playful way that the ceiling blah blah blah... She seemed shocked and was waiting if i was gonna react like a beta or shocked and i just changed the subject as if nothing happened because i knew at that moment it was matter of life and death. Literally having your mom/dad on a deathbed is a death sentence on how you handle it.
Could i have done it better?
Did you just have a stroke or is it me?
its you i guess
>you don't even need a relationship for children.
Is it possible to learn this power? Genuinely more interested in raising successful children than being with a boring woman for life or whatever at this point
>Genuinely more interested in raising successful children than being with a boring woman for life or whatever at this point
based, same here lol
i just want some decent breeding material so i can raise a bunch of chads
>Is it possible to learn this power?
Not... from a white guy
Become a foster parent, they'll never let you adopt as a single male
You're a stupid fucking whore and you're not trying to help men. He's absolutely right, and you know it. Showing any vulnerability to a woman is the end of romance, end of attraction, and she will forever hate you for it. There is no return from it either.
>end of romance, end of attraction, and she will forever hate you for it. There is no return from it either.
why is IST so dramatic? Its ok to show weakness. if a giga chad shows some weakness you think she will dump him? Nope he is 190cm with a good jawline, they will find it cute tbh. Just dont be ugly
Good bait, almost had me
>if a giga chad shows some weakness you think she will dump him? Nope he is 190cm with a good jawline, they will find it cute tbh. Just dont be ugly
Nope. Your attractiveness is determinant on your perceived status
>be me 190cm IST, decently attractive, successful
>but typical ISTcel with autism in regards to women
>had multiple women who were crazy into me
>asked me out
>had sex with me
>went on dates with me
>only to lose interest the moment they learn I'm in my mind 20s, never had a gf or any serious relationship at all, don't date much, don't use dating apps or social media at all
Women want chads mostly because they want to beat other women getting a top tier male. Once they stop perceiving you as the "big prize" your looks won't matter much. If you're Henry Cavill with a lisp, shizoid personality and no social life you'd have a hard time dating anything above a 6. That just is the reality. Women like to call it "personality", but it's more about how they feel about in a social context with has little to do with your actual personality
>never had a gf or any serious relationship at all, don't date much, don't use dating apps or social media at all
unironically they dont care about that man made shit if you are attractive.
>unironically they dont care about that man made shit if you are attractive.
You don't get it. You will immediately be less attractive in their eyes if they find this out.
>Mysterious and dark? Now you are awkward and creepy
>Athletic? Now you are a gym obsessed incel
A woman doesn't just feel attracted to you for your objective looks only, like most men do. She feels attracted to the feeling of who you are. She wants to be the one fucking the quarterback, not the creepy guy huffing glue under the bleachers. Even if they look identical. Now before you autistically screech at me. Yes this isn't black and white. Yes if you look like a model you can be as shizo as you want. But for the average ISTizen it's a good rule of thumb to hide your power level as much as possible.
On a side note, this why confidence is so important. You need to project through your behavior that you have a certain social status. If you act like you are a chad, you will more likely be perceived as one
i mean man made shit is neutered jungle stuff, in sense of fucking they probably dont care as long as u look good, but for survival more or less they probably will. we are comical creatures arent we
You're picturing Gigachad shedding a single tear over the memory of his family dying in a housefire.
If he bawled his eyes out slamming his fist on the table over getting bullied in high school he would look like the classic "cool jock is actually a cowardly softie" trope.
Gigachad stops being Gigachad the moment he shows weakness.
this classical drivel about "emotional connection" or "feelings" is a clear sign of vapid intellectual emptiness.
also, trying to find out your partner's weaknesses is a sign of a predatory mind, and sharing one's weaknesses is a sign of a servatory mind.
Think the word your looking for is servile
Your wife is not your best friend, nor your therapist. Treating her like that is going to destroy your relationship. You can be open without using her as your crying bag. You can be very intimate and honest without over sharing, or volunteering absolutely every shitty thought that crosses you mind. If she asks you if something is bothering you, you can say yes and just move the fuck on.
>if you think like this, there is literally no point in getting into a reltionship with a women.
holy shit, FINALLY someone on IST had an epiphany
didnt read the rest of your post incase you messed it up
>if you think like this, there is literally no point in getting into a reltionship with a women.
well I don't
>so much seethe in the replies
The people replying to you don’t live in the real world, evidently. Yes IST fags keep trying this emotionally distant strategy and see where that gets you
This. They're biologically programmed to seek out the strongest males.
This. There's a reason men bottle shit up until they're drunk with bros.
Why not take it out on minorities?
Prison is literally gay. It's much easier to just have a little sob with the boys then literally forget about it while you sing about how much you hate an oddly specific minority group then get kicked out of the bar for it.
>Why not take it out on minorities?
Why would I take it out on my White brethren?
Showing vulnerability in front of a woman is as if she showed you her grossest habits.
u are wise guy
>don't talk about it
>have a nice day
oh wow what a great plan haha at least I showed my gf/wife how alpha and antifragile I am.
>Talking to your gf about how shit you feel will magically make you non-depressed
Why do incels believe this?
Support means something when you are depressed
if she uses it against you she doesn't deserve you anyway
why would you want to be with a vapid whore?
just pump and dump women like that
>if she uses it against you she doesn't deserve you anyway
blue pilled, damn IST is a dangerous place sometimes
if you want to fuck women, why even date them?
you are acting tough for the sniff of pussy, just fuck them and then find somebody else
That actually is a good point
Expecting women to be emotionally available is the biggest cope. When they want you to be emotional to them is only good in their imagination. Aka women don't know what they want.
their problem, not yours
>Support means something when you are depressed
>she doesn't deserve you anyway
Alright kids, gather round. There is no "deserving" of another or their time. You are never obliged to do anything for someone else unless you are being paid or earning/returning a favour.
Get it through your heads bros. Every notion of romance is a fabrication and the only support you have in life is your own grit and determination. You fall, you can wallow for a while if you don't mind losing valuable time, but get your ass up if you want ANYTHING.
how does that make my claim wrong?
yes i agree, if you want something, you need to get it
women who leave you because you "showed emotions" are whores who you don't want to be with anyway
>talk about it
>also femoid now keeps this info of you in her back pocket so she can use it to manipulate you when necessary in the future
>talk about it to GF
>GF leaves you
>get more depressed
>have a nice day
>get depressed about my now ex gf cheating on me with a fat sugar daddy
>become a alcoholic
>start going on tinder after 2 months of being broken up looking for a revenge gf
>lost job because of alcoholism
>lost my driver’s license because of alcoholism
>match with a even hotter girl and we hit it off
>can’t see her because no job no license and she is 50 miles away
>start getting drunk and depressed
>start opening up about my situation
>get blocked by a girl who would of been my perfect match
Quite alcohol for good after this
This is what bros are for, you retard.
This. Do none of you know how to make friends with other dudes?
>undepress yourself because you realize depression isn't real
>man drives to Mexico to kill himself, does drugs and bangs hookers instead, decides to keep living
This is how shallow you "depressed" people are. You're not depressed, you're just losers who are too sheltered.
real men suffer in silence.
i’m not that anon but suffering in silence doesn’t make you a real man either but no one will understand my problems so i rarely speak about it. i just keep going forward and getting more tired in my head day after day.
It was the crying that tripped her up
>believing that any post on relationship_advise is real
Are you retarded?
The problem is not that he was bullied, or a virgin until 46, or that he used to be a huge loser because of x,y, or z, or that he used to have autism, or that he used to be beat by his mom, or that he used to secretly fantasize about being pegged by a dominatrix
the problem is he shared this information with a woman whilst crying. Literally just never overtly admit to a woman any weaknesses, if she discovers it herself then that's a different story and you have to find a way to laugh it off and downplay it or parlay it in some form, but NEVER admit it overly and start crying in front of her.
>complain to cousin's flat mate about how shitty the last girl I was seeing was to me
>She's rubbing my knee and being sympathetic
>bang her 3 times and she comes over to cook me food and complains when I go silent over texts
>be with last long term gf
>3 months into relationship and open up about how my Dad was an angry, abusive arsehole
>she wants to have sex and doesn't understand why I don't want to have sex after being so intimate, emotionally, with someone.
Depends on the woman.
Based. You can explain bad shit that's happening and what you need to do, but you can't show weakness or vulnerability over it.
>Yeah my mom died
>The funeral is in a week, going to fly out for that
>I've been named the executor of her estate so I'll need to go through that stuff with a lawyer
>Could you please feed my dog while I'm gone, thanks
i tried to cry after my gf left so i get it out off my system but i couldn't even cry after she left. i hardwired my brain to never feel emotions and i said to myself: 'You've became souless now' then i went to bed.
I'm at a point where I can pretend that anything from the past didn't even happen and move on like it really didn't. You would think there is a lot of pent up stuff I have never processed but I really don't even think about it and have no emotions attached to it. When my girlfriend broke up with me the only thing I felt were anger about the complications this caused for the future, like having to find a new apartment and moving.
hahaha oh boy are you in for a wild ride in 20 years
im older than you retard
I cried at the latest james bond film and my gf of 4 years ran off with another man 3 months later. I'm convinced they are linked.
>never cried in front of her before
>in fact never cried for a decade before that
>I don't even like the movie it just caught me off guard. It's the worst bond film, feel stupid for letting it get to me
We had just bought a house together and discussed what school to send our kids to, picked out their names and everything. NEVER cry in front of women guys. Even if you think this doesn't apply to you why take the risk? You can be vulnerable but never actually shed tears, they are viscerally disgusted by it and they aren't even consciously aware of it so they will tell you its not true but they don't know themselves and it is true 100%. That doesn't make them evil, its just the way they're wired but we men need to be aware of this
I really hope this is a Larp but she sounds like a retard. How old are you both?
I'm 34 and she was 27
I have read the books, I love them and I do hate craig's interpretation of the character in general. I don't have a single mother, both parents have been together 40 years. Like I say, I don't think it's a good movie, I just hadn't read any spoilers and it totally caught me off guard with the emotional music and build up. I know it's emotional manipulation but that's what film is sometimes. Totally undeserved for such a silly film to go for an emotional payoff and imo it is the worst film in the franchise. It just took me by surprise is all
I don't know man, we seemed solid, really happy up until that point
If I can be blunt you sound pretty faggy. It's not surprising to me you cried watching a ~~*James Bond film*~~ and I doubt it was surprising to your ex-girlfriend either
>I cried at the latest james bond film
I sincerely hope you were crying at what they did to Ian Fleming's character but I bet you were crying at the shit they put in there specifically for the women in the audience.
In fact everyone in this thread ought to read the books to learn how to act in front of women since their single mothers taught them to be all emotional and shit to women just like they were to mommy
>We had just bought a house together and discussed what school to send our kids to, picked out their names and everything.
Nah she left you before the latest james slop movie
>don't cry for 10 straight years
>cry at 007 film
The only time I cry at the movies is when I'm paying at the concession stand am I right? 😀 😀 😀
No but seriously you're gay dude
It's the riddle of women.
They may claim they'll be there for you, want to know your secrets, etc. You may well want to share, and have someone you can count on... But don't you cannot depend on women that way, it absolutely will destroy their perception of you. It's not even their fault either, it's not a conscious choice, it's deep seated subconscious biological impulse. So you can't really even hold it against them. You just have to deal with it.
WOMEN ARE SUPPOSED TO BE WEAK. THEY ARE WEAK. They want to feel small around you. Why do you retards think they hate manlets so much? They want to feel powerless. We all know women are emotional, they want to feel powerless EMOTIONALLY even more. If you show them vulnerability, you are essentially showing them you are emotionally weak. You’re showing them they have some power over your emotions if you cry over an argument or something. Yes, even if you cry cause your good friend died or some shit. Women don’t care. Their retarded woman brain just says crying = bitch. They are allowed to cry in your arms. You are not.
The only woman on the planet you’re allowed to cry to is your mother, it has been that way since the crib.
source: actually dealing with women. you incel
I'll have you know that I've been mentally ill and weak all my life and have gotten rejected by women precisely because I've been trying to be someone I'm not. This weekend I hooked up with a girl and was brutally honest with her that I've never had a gf, barely had any friends growing up, am unemployed, etc., then she invited me over the next day to fuck once again sober. And we will once again be meeting up to fuck and I told her some really pathetic shit about myself. If you start crying like the guy in OP then she'll probs see you as a fag but I think if you state who you are and you've truly accepted it you come off as kind of strong
>If you start crying like the guy in OP then she'll probs see you as a fag but I think if you state who you are and you've truly accepted it you come off as kind of strong
Ding ding ding, we have a winner.
One of the king things about Women that makes their preferences seem so mysterious to Men is that they're drawn in far less by what you are today than they are by what a gut feeling tells them you'll be tomorrow. Women are all fortune tellers, innately wired to eyeball a set of heuristics and derive a rough gut-feeling idea of what your future is going to be like. If their gut tells them that your future is a place they'd want to be, they want you. If their gut tells them you're on your way down, they don't. A weepy dope who feels sorry for himself is instinctively repulsive, even if he has "his shit together" today, because it's probable that one of the next storms in life that invariably comes will simply blow him over and take her down with him - while even an objective loser feels like a catch if he has a firm constitution and is animated by the faith that he can't/won't be kept down forever. He's been a nobody in the past? He's still a nobody right now? So much the better if he's not a bitch about it - the tough times behind him never knocked him out of the game so the tough times ahead probably won't either.
Fuck man I think you are right 100%
>start crying like the guy in OP then she'll probs see you as a fag
kinda unrelated but is it ok to fuck my ex just for my reputation? i unironically fucked her like a maniac in the old days but had to drop since she has bpd. im starting to think that she thinks im a fag because i rejected her like 10 times in the last month and i don't want her to feel that way. should i destroy her pussy then ghost?
>I'm worried about what a bpd chick thinks of me
Lmao she's still manipulating you from beyond the grave and you don't even know it. Just stop.
fuck i was holding the line for 6 months and we met last night. what do
everytime i do that she says im the worst person that she ever met and how could i behave like this to a creature that i once loved. the problem is that she lives next door. she is away for a month from tommorow tho so i have some breathing space.
Lmao if you weren't enjoying this situation you'd have moved out since long
this i enjoy that some sometimes, not proud of myself tho
you're being manipulated and not for your own good nor her own good
be better you will feel only regret the very second you cum inside her again
This is my experience too. If you get fucking weird about it, start crying and making a weird annoying scene…well you’re just annoying and likely mentally unstable. It has nothing to do with being vulnerable in particular.
But being vulnerable in front of a woman? This can be catnip if done authentically. I have always been rewarded for being open and honest with women. Hiding anything is something they will pick up on and it will make you less attractive. Maybe some dumb bitch might be fooled.
How can I ever truly love a woman knowing she would lose interest in me if I were to ever show any kind of vulnerability?
Welcome to adulthood, enjoy your stay.
A dog loses interest in its owner if its not fed. Still we love the dog. Sometimes you just see past things like that.
>A dog loses interest in its owner if its not fed
No shit retard if you starve a man he won't give a shit about friendship or relationships probably
Don't compare something like hunger to fucking innate foid bdpd
Nice hyperbole dumbass. I never said starve the dog just not feed it. A dog in general but especially a puppy will love you when you have a treat but the second it is out of sight it doesn’t give a fuck about you. jfc, the spergout was not warranted.
Be content with yourself only
Never open up and keep it all inside
Women are just for sex and cuddles
The silver lining is that if you are a healthy male, "opening up" will seem like an alien and slightly disgusting concept, even if you have reasons for wanting to opening up.
When I was in the 6th grade, I was extremely depressed because of my parents divorce, I was also a late bloomer so I was smaller and younger looking than other boys, and my clothes were old and too small for me, making me a perfect target for bullies. It hurts when I think about that time in my life.
But I don't tell my wife about that because it's important to me that she think of me as a strong man, same with my son. It would be worse for him to see his father as having been weak than to have a father who commiserates with every bad thing that happens to him in middle school.
This obviously should not apply to a long term committed relationship. But in pretty much every other situation, it's true. Women don't like a whiny, mopey, downer bitchboy. They want a man.
i accidentally cried in front of my gf for first time yesterday but it was because a relative died is that a good enough reason or will she dump me soon?
She’s probably already fucking another guy. Sorry bro
depends of the woman and the situation you give her. is she kind? is she a cunt? will you keep crying?
ideally to anyone, but NEVER to any women even near one you want to plow.
women deserve to be beaten for their crimes against humanity
I would rather suck a cock than open up to a woman
we know dude
I'd be a fag too if I could get that kind of pussy.
Honestly, sucking cock would be less gay than crying in front of a woman
Oh another absolutely real, not made up, actual real plebbit attention story.
You really think incels go online and make sockpuppet accounts where they pretend to be caricature evil women to reaffirm their rent-free boogeyman??
They ABSOLUTELY do.
Lmao of course.
The story in question is ridiculous. If it’s true, that woman is an outlier.
Yeah, a woman didn't write this. If one did, it would be three times as long. The guy who wrote this made an effort by including a few "I feel" statements, but it's way too concise. First of all it's missing an intro about how long they've been dating, which all women mention, even though it's irrelevant. There's no preamble about what prompted the conversation in the first place. Also no attempts to shift blame from herself or excuse her thoughts (stories about being abused in the past, or conditioned by men to believe certain things)
this. plus the fact the account doesn't exist anymore and the pic was mysteriously taken 25 minutes after the thread was made
>that time I drunk-cried on my gf's titties while I was blackout drunk and vented all my stress I was feeling at the time
Better relief than 2000 hours with some garden gnome therapist. She broke up with me obviously but I'd do it again
i cried infront of my gf and we’re still together. not blubbering like a fucking baby, but i was going through a manic episode at the time. i’m also there for her when she has troubles. i think i’m gonna marry her.
Don't make the same mistake as me, I was depressed and let my couple fall apart. I live in constant regret now
She's cheating on you and deep down you know it.
nice cuck fetish, Moishe
My ex thought it would help her concentrate on school if we broke up. She was crying so that got me going as well. We did get back together a few months later, but she had her own problems.
Probably the only time I've cried in front of someone I'm not related to.
Why are they like this?
>Why are they like this?
The women who survived were the ones without loyalty, the ones who fucked the winners at all costs. Now every woman is descended from women like that.
women who stayed loyal to fags and cucks got raped and killed when the enemy tribe came through and fucked shit up
women relied on men for survival for almost all of history, up until recently with the feminism shit
why do you think "chad = huge jacked hypermasculine guy"? it's etched into their DNA, now since wealth = power, women became huge gold diggers
everything you see about women complaining about the "ick" is just them revealing their innate survival instincts
it's also why men are generally so interested in sports/competition and tools/weapons, these things replicate the militaristic conflicts we used to engage in throughout history
go read about the mongols vs arabs and imagine how you'd feel if you were a defenseless woman who became a mongolian baby factory for until you hit menopause and then got killed, all because the men of your nation were weak?
shit sucks, can't blame women for being gold diggers
Why do you believe this is a real woman and not a 4chantard that created this post to induce rage in incels ?
Who do you ask of femanons to post tits for proof on IST, while a random post with a throwaway account on Reddit should be believed at face value?
>Why do you believe this is a real woman and not a 4chantard that created this post to induce rage in incels ?
"Men believe what they wish to be true."
- Julius Caesar
A friend of mine passed away and I got blackout drunk on whisky and ended up crying while my gf stroke my hair and I told her about him. Is this the only acceptable reason for a man to cry or is it over anyways?
Yeah, you're allowed to cry for someone else but not for yourself
If the friend is male and you had a long term non gay ambiguous relationship then you should be fine.
I don't get it, what does any of this have to do with going to the gym?
God women are fickle
it gets worse, women will literally lust after the bullies
The use of "seething" makes it blatantly obvious that this was written by a dude.
This, it's always funny when incels don't realize they can only converse with memes anymore and can't understand how they get spotted so easily by normal people.
IST didn't invent the word "seething" holy shit dude, it's an extremely common and widely used word, and it was used in a completely normal, typical, non-memeing context.
I don't think women use that sort of language, especially Ledditors.
lol, see what I mean? You don't realize that you're just spouting memes.
What the fuck are you smoking dude?
The word "seething" does not originate from IST.
>The word "seething" does not originate from IST.
In that context it does.
The word chud also doesn't originate from 4chan, but guess what?
That reddit post is older than "seething" being used as meme
When my bf (I'm a man) said told me about being bullied in the past, I felt
>absolutely seething for the people who would ever do that to his kind soul
>felt closer and more protective through his vulnerability
Finding a bully attractive is disgusting and not relatable at all
No shit moron, you're a man, and you've got protective instincts towards those you love, its written in our dna. Women hate weakness in their men, it disgusts them on a genetic level. It really is simple.
>even homos have more sense of honour than women
Brown male hands typed this
do am*ricans really have morons on their mind 24/7?
women lusting after bad guys is a trope as old as time itself, you can even get away with rape if you're hot enough
none of these reddit stories are true lmao
all reddit stories are written by someone who looks like pic unless proven otherwise. if it’s anti-white rhetoric just imagine some fat Hispanic or paki.
As much as women suck, men are probably worse. They literally only care about cooming and then they roll over to watch wh40k videos on their computer immediately after.
The fact that that's a problem for you, tells me that you're a woman
>not wanting to cuddle with the gf after sex
as long as i cum, i come to my senses
Are you gay oh wait you totally are.
Wonder what dating a woman like that would be like. Good? Bad?
>then they roll over to watch wh40k videos on their computer
Did even try asking to get a game of kill team going?
have you ever considered if you had something interesting other than your hole they would want to do other things kek
>demoralization thread #947376463627374
smells very gnomish in here. smells like dog shit.
>made up story
Telling a woman you are vulnerable is the same as a woman telling you how many dicks has he sucked.
You just don't say it.
So you're saying you've sucked a few cocks? It's not a problem for me to tell any women how many dicks I've sucked because the answer is zero.
>tfw open up too easily about being bullied in the past/being a virgin
Women aren't for genuine relationships, especially not nowadays.
Whatever you say, panty boy
>supports his wife through her struggles
>instantly cheats on her husband and ditches through his struggles
Women aren’t capable of love
>Women aren’t capable of love
Nobody is. Love doesn't exist. You only think it does because you watch too many movies and animes.
Women are only capable of loving their children.
And even that isn't a given. Cot death is almost always murder.
Love is a chemical reaction to make the human race continue
Some people deserve to be bullied.
>Some people deserve to be bullied.
i was bullied really hard in HS but now those gays 10 years later got mogged. they are all bald and skinny, the stacies have the same look on me because they know my past but they are post wall roasties now anyway.
But yeah the one guy i feel kinda sorry for was the hardcore bully who has cancer now and he like 50kg
why do you feel sorry for him? got what he deserved didnt he
Stuff like this makes me wonder if it’s even worth trying. I’ve never had a gf before or even so much as held hands but it seems like to achieve that I need to pretend to be something I’m not… and is that worth it at all? Idk.
You're pretending relationships are more than they actually are, that's your problem.
>Stuff like this makes me wonder if it’s even worth trying.
You can only answer that yourself: Are you immune to stress, alpha male who doesn't give a fuck about the inane rants of women? Then you can try a relationship. If not, don't bother.
> Are you immune to stress, alpha male who doesn't give a fuck about the inane rants of women?
I guess not. I’m super stressed mentally but i can be calm under pressure in real situations, like I performed well when I became a pilot… but emotionally I’m kind of a wreck.
That being said though, I had a friend who cried in a public gym with me after his tinder date rejected him. It was the most shameful thing I’ve ever seen and I’d never do anything like that, but he has a girlfriend so idk.
Yeah, don't bother with women. And I don't even think less of you for admitting that shit, it is what it is. But a woman will chew you up and spit you out. The only kind you'll be able to get is an abuser/manipulator, and she will take you for all your worth.
It's funny, really. 50% of women ages 24 to 40 in the West will end up single AND childless, according to insurance and demographics statistics from major hedge funds, banks, etc. People who's multibillion dollar enterprises depend on those sort of predictions are CERTAIN that an entire generation of women is going to end up alone and childless. Let that sink in.
It's easy to overcome. Either get over your trauma so you can talk about is casually, almost jokingly, or never reveal it.
Dont take life advice from this god forsaken shithole
The only feeling you should tell a female is you feel weak and need to go work out.
There is nothing wrong with a woman having the natural instinct of wanting a man that looks like he can dominate, just like there is nothing wrong with a man having the natural instinct of wanting to rape. The problem is if you cant control it.
You don't have to do much to destroy a person, you know, if you have that person's affection.
If I can't be honest with my gf, I'd rather not have one at all.
Wow an anecdote on a gay subreddit, time to stress this anecdote to all the 4 billion women on the planet
Is this thread fucking true? I cried in front of my gf yesterday because she is leaving for another country. How fucked up am i?
why do you care?
>If I can't be honest with my gf, I'd rather not have one at all.
somebody actually gets it
>why do you care?
i loved her king, she loves me too but i cried because i told her im breaking up with her. she told me that she will be visiting me every 30 days and i said ok lets try
makes kinda sense
>You'll be fine. Love transcends all.
wtf is that
big if true
>You are right for expressing your feelings for the people you like.
IST says is the worse thing to do? where is the fine line of not showing weakness but not hiding everything that you feel?
Showing weakness is being strong and confident. We are just humans in the end, not perfect gods. If you hide your problems and weakness the only thing that will happen is that you will bottle it up until you have a meltdown or lash out against something or someone. Theres nothing better than opening up to someone and still be accepted
i really can't tell if this is a bait of a genuine advice
Why would you consider it a bait? The thing is most people are bitches scared of losing loved ones, they are scared of opening up and being rejected, it hurts double because it triggers people low self esteem. Theres nothing more chad than doing what you want and living with the consequences. "She ended with me bc i cried? Lol fuck that bitch hahaha". "I absolutely cant be my true self, what if people reject me? What if people abandon me?" Whatever Read no more mr nice guy, he talks about it.
The men are talking, sweetie. Go play with your dolls
Just not scared of losing friends or girlfriends if i be myself, if i want to cry or sperg out i will and no hole will stop me. But you are such a pussy bitch that you have to fake being ok because you are scared of people rejecting your failed self
Damn you're drowning in copium my dude
What do you gain with deceiving people into being worse?
I can ask the question right back at you.
No you cant because what i am saying will benefit peoples lives, make them happier, more confident and with better friends. What you defend is being fake with people and hiding things so they dont see your weakness and leave you, a clearly low self esteem move
No retard, I advocate to be stoic with women. Once you show emotions to them they instantly lose respect. If you want to cry do it to an old male friend / family member. Don't be a sad bitch cry baby.
So what if they lose respect? Why do you care about what women think? Why do you care enough to spend energy acting some way around women?
I showed my emotions to my ex
Only because I subconsciously wanted to get rid of her and it worked a little too well
And it backfired immediately after I started getting used to being with her and then at that point I didn’t want to loose her
Moral of the story never show weakness to a woman
>never show weakness to a woman because of my personal anecdote
It seems you misinterpreted your experience. Didnt it turn right for you?
I quit alcohol after realizing it made my life worse and it self sabotage me
I got rid of a objectively terrible woman
That I shouldn’t have been In a relationship with in the first place
But I could trace back the exact day when the whole relationship went south
Was the day I got drunk and cried In front of her
Things were never the same after that day and no matter what I tried it never could work out after that day
So you start dating a horrible woman that shames you when you open up to her, then you end your relationship with her and your life gets better, so you stress your experience to every woman on earth?
Honestly you are right when you think about it
My life did get better and would of been 20x better if only
I never drank
I would of been dating a younger hotter nicer girl
Hade it not been for that terrible drug alcohol
I am sober now and my life is better
>Theres nothing better than opening up to someone and still be accepted
agreed, too bad that at this time it can only happen on prawn farming taiwanese online communities
It's not don't show weakness, it's don't show it to women. If you show it to your father, brothers, or good friends the problem is still solved
>where is the fine line of not showing weakness but not hiding everything that you feel?
There is no fine line. Either you hide everything or you're a gay.
>she is leaving for another country
>she is leaving you
So crying will not change anything more than solidify this fact.
You'll be fine. Love transcends all.
Fuck the doomer
Literally the start of a NTR doujin
really depends on the girl, anyway these stories are made by incels/blackpillers/trannies and i'm not even shitposting
if a girl is bothered by something like this she ain't worth a damn in the first place
You are right for expressing your feelings for the people you like. Its not only good for them but also good for your mental health. If she is such a bitch to feel negatively about this its her fault and you should end your relationship
What benefit would one ever get by severely admitting to being bullied when you were younger?
writing emotions down or telling them to somebody has a profound positive effect on your mental health
who else than the person you are intimate with?
>My wife says she wants me to open up and talk about my problems.
>I do, its general stress and work, nothing new. Was working 80 hour weeks almost constantly for multiple month. Only saw my newborn daughter for about an hour a day. Expect Mon-Tues for 6 hours.
>Listen to her incessant complaints and bitching all the time. Try to just give her a vent and help where I can.
>One day she says she’s tired of hearing it, turns into a bitch. Causes fighting/pissing contest between “our” situations in life.
>I shut down and revert to my previous tight lipped attitude regarding my issues.
>She cannot fathom 3.5 years later why I don’t talk to her about my emotions.
Just to add. This did take what little emotions I had left away, I’ve always been a bit cold but understanding and kind.
Now I have two kids, i’m tired 24/7 and workout every other day. Thank you full body routines for keeping my sanity. But after that shit, outside of the people I love I have nothing left but happiness for my kids, sex drive like a mother fucker, and a deep rage that is caged. I will talk with anyone but her about my shit and it makes her mad but she knows I won’t talk to her about it expect when she’s fucking up the checkbook which is already her fault as always. In general I’m cold af to everyone now.
Tldr: I love women but godamnit I hate them so much.
Keep it up dude im sure your relationship will last for decades
Learned a hard lesson there bro, but doing this is probably saving your marriage. Stay aloof, maintain frame, I would also recommend hiding as much of your assets as you can in case she does try to divorce rape you. In her female mind what you're doing is more than enough justification. You're still doing the right thing, because if you did the opposite it would also be more than enough justification.
I would rather be single forever than have a marriage like this
Bro that's the whole fucking point. The ONLY reason for marriage is kids. And you are going to suffer to make it somewhat work. And you will never make the bitch happy, and you'll always be on a knifes edge with divorce-rape. So you better be fucking sure you really, really want kids.
so never have a marriage and just find a surrogate mother?
Yes, I'm leaning towards that. But first I need to make a lot more money. I'm already comfortable as a single man, but paying for baby mamas to preserve my genetic legacy is going to cost a lot, I imagine.
Enjoy getting alimony-raped.
at least i'd be less miserable with a vapid bitch of a wife
You clearly are too young to have many married friends. You will learn.
Then enjoy your single life. There are only 2 options in life, relationship with a crazy bitch or single. Now choose.
Welcome to adult relationships. Do you think it's a coincidence that nobody marries anymore?
It doesn't have to, just long enough that the kids can move out. lrn2biology
Sounds like the problem is that you've been findommed into being a 80 hour a week paypig and you expect your Dom to do more than take your money. It's the wrong fetish fetish for you if you are looking for more.
you'll have to swallow it up if you're american, just get a side chick
I don’t understand wtf is up with people like that, how are they so oblivious/retarded as to not understand what they are doing?
>went away on a trip
>come back home
>find out all my pets died in my absence
>feel like fucking shit and i am told to just tough it up
>they still get mad at me for my unwillingness to do anything and wonder what could it be
I mean wtf man? And i am talking about my fucking family
Being a man is hard. Just be glad you aren't a woman.
I fucking hate women so much, every time I try to break up with one they cry and beg and want to spend the entire fucking day talking about the issues and try to resolve it, so I decide I’ll let them break up with me by just being fucking emotionally distant and treating them like a meat toilet that I can’t stand being around when we’re not having sex(I even withhold sex sometimes to imprint that I’m sick of them) and even then they won’t fucking break up with me they’ll actually try even harder to work at the relationship it’s so fucking annoying there’s like 4 possibly different girls trying to sleep with me currently and I can’t bang them because of gf
Why not just block them on everything and walk away? Like bro just leave lmao
because he is human with emotions and not some sociopath?
>being fucking emotionally distant and treating them like a meat toilet that I can’t stand being around when we’re not having sex
How is this less sociopathic than just ghosting?
why doesn't he just open up about his problems and find a solution instead of going to both extremes?
>opening up to women
Have you not been reading the thread you fucking buffoon
>Have you not been reading the thread
Half guys in this thread said to open up fag
Because in my version I’m slowly lowering the temperature instead of pushing them into the arctic sea
Because women are psychotic and doing that is inviting trouble. I’ve done that once and she showed up at work screaming that I raped her. I had to quit because it doesn’t matter if people know it’s a lie, when you’ve been called a rapist infront of customers no one wants to see you there.
>yeah dude you’ve spent the last year(s) with this girl but just fucking go complete sociopathic on her just because you want to have sex with other women.
Again, how is that any more sociopathic than current MO?
>and I can’t bang them because of gf
Said nobody ever.
Just cheat. your gf totally would in your situation.
incels going apeshit over some incelpasta again
I hate alcohol so much
I remember how it ruined everything
How it’s ruined my life by being the only think in the world that can make me cry
I was unironically the bully in school and feel bad for it ngl.
Is it more likely that she was disgusted because he "opened up", or that she was disgusted because 25 year old grown-ass men aren't supposed to get all weepy about the way they were teased in school?
You are allowed to get teary-eyed when telling a story about being 15 years old if a family member or close friend died horribly, or if you watched. You get a pass if it was a beloved pet as long as you don't sob. But crying about how you got called a queer and beat up makes you a gay, and a woman is not evil for not wanting to hitch her wagon to some bitchboy who still suffers from teenage angst. Straighten the fuck up.
Everyone got bullied in school to some extent. Most people grow beyond it, and it's just something that makes you angry if you think about it too much. Going "boohoo these mean boys were mean to me ten years ago" just screams that you haven't matured a day since you were 14.
>Everyone got bullied in school to some extent.
And the real kicker is that everyone did at least a shift or two playing the bully, too, or otherwise mistreated any number of people totally pointlessly. Selective memory just keeps those experiences harder to recall when you're a gay bitch who's wrapped up in a self-serving identity as a victim. Let the gayy little story about how you were a little angel who just got mistreated by the meanie world go and you WILL start to remember times where you ruined somebody's day just because you fucking felt like it like the ornery little shit you could be sometimes. Then you can finally grow the fuck up, when it finally sinks through your thick skull that "the bullies" were by and large just like you and you just like them, and that there is no missing x-factor in your makeup that makes you a special object of mistreatment and contempt. (You were supposed to do this within like a month of graduating high school, so you'd better hurry the fuck up)
>And the real kicker is that everyone did at least a shift or two playing the bully, too, or otherwise mistreated any number of people totally pointlessly.
Absolutely. I was bullied in late middle school and early high school because I entered a proto-redditor depressive, anxious and holier than thou phase at the time that in retrospect made me extremely unlikeable AND the bullying would have stopped immediately if I showed any balls or even if I started working out or having any hobbies besides minecraft.
But in elementary school I was very popular and well liked, and I used this popularity to commit very sadistic acts of bullying over kids who did nothing to me.
Once I even beat up a kid to the point he cried, for no fucking reason.
Bullying is a complicated issues, but if you're a victim of it you need to see it as a tool for self reflection and trasformation and not whine about it
These wise posts will go ignored.
My best friend recently talked to me about this. He said that he opened up one day and cried or showed weakness in front of her and that he felt she lost respect for him that day. She would have never broken up with him but she just didn't treat him well anymore. So in our last conversation he basically said there are only a few ways to gain their respect, one is through success and all the traits that make you a successful person, and if you aren't successful yet, violence and never showing weakness. Not violence towards them, but showing that you are capapble of violence. He said he basically chose the next best situation when some guy hit on his gf in a bar in front of him and beat the guys ass. His gf was actually mad at him for "freaking out" over that but the same night she called him over desperately begging for his cock. Ever since then everything has been fine between them again.
Another tip for dealing with women. They want to be literally the ugliest, most worthless bitch you've ever deigned to be with. They want you to have lowered your standards for *them*. Otherwise they think they can do better. If they think they're more attractive, smarter, whatever than previous girls you fucked. It's rather bizarre really.
I don't cry. I let pictures of anime girls do that for me.
"He abused me, he struck me, he overpowered me, he robbed me." Those who harbor such thoughts do not still their hatred.
I learned how fickle girls were around 2nd grade where my playground crush was head over heels until I simply got a haircut…
baldingcels on suicide watch
One strat could be to show vulnerability really early in the relationship to see how she reacts, then if she gets turned off it's no biggie and you can just find another one. If you bottle it up for years and then cry and she loses interest thay would really suck
>tell losers on IST to man up
>Wahhh wahhh NOOOO! I need my gf to be my mommy!!!1!
What a bunch of fags lol
What if I was the bully AND also got bullied?
I had an established group of friends that I hung out with and we kinda bullied those trying to hang out with our group if we didn't approve of them, nothing physical, mostly verbal or completely ignoring them.
The way I got bullied was weird, because the guy who bullied me was this scrawny little guy who was a foot shorter than me, at that point I already had like 10 years of martial arts behind me and it had changed my worldviews and attitude towards things and mellowed me out a lot.
He was a class clown that did whatever to make his friends laugh with him (or at him). He tried his damnest to get a reaction out of me, often verbally, throwing around my school bag, he knew he couldn't get physical because he'd be immediately thrashed around, but knew I wouldn't hurt him no matter what. Nobody else took part in the bullying except chuckling at the things he attempted.
This was very short lived as it was only before a specific class and never saw him elsewhere in the school. I met him again in a communion camp where he pulled a prank of spraying my blue shower gel into my hand when I was asleep and I woke up with half my face blue. After that, never seen him again.
I gotta say, if I wasn't as disciplined back then, I would've probably done something awful to the guy, not worth it. Can't even say that the best way to avoid bullying is to be the bigger guy, because sometimes the little guys overstep their boundaries and bully you BECAUSE you can't retaliate, otherwise you'd hurt them bad and you'll pay for it one way or another.
But on that note, don't expose any vulnerabilities to women, or they'll think less of you.
>the guy who bullied me was this scrawny little guy who was a foot shorter than me
doesnt matter if they are in group. i got bullied in the army by a group of manlets because they just hated me... thank god they are all bald now and half of them are in jail
When I went to army, there was this one guy who just hated my guts for no reason. When we enrolled he was chill but multiple months in he started to act like a real asshole, mostly towards me.
I tried to conduct myself in a way as to completely avoid making anybody hate me, and tried to stay quiet and not be a loudmouth and be a stand-up guy.
In hindsight I regret that I never asked them what was their problem with me, I would've greatly appreciated the insight on terms of general human psyche.
You'd think that people between the ages of 19-25 would have even some of their shit together, but it was like college all over again. I was one of the oldest guys in the entire company, so it felt like being around very infantile adults, some guys were allright.
It's weird when someone treats you like dirt and you've made sure not to offend them in any way. Understanding their feelings would be invaluable information to conduct oneself better in the future, or learn what ticks people the wrong way.
when he was being an asshole, do you think it was for his own entertainment or did he genuinely seem like he hated you?
sounds like he wanted to act like a tough guy by picking on a guy least likely to fight back
It’s your own fault showing weakness to someone who wanted to breed with you. Only deep platonic relationships can handle sensitive information.
I was waiting for a bus and a couple of nigs came up to me. One started talking shit about me and threatened to smack me with a gun. I walked away because there were two of them he might’ve actually had a gun. Smart decision but what if I was with a woman? Would she leave me? What would I do if I was with a woman in that situation?
>Would she leave me?
Yes and rightfully so you fucking pussy.
>fights two possibly armed nigs
I will defend your honor m’l-ACK
You obviously have low test and can't fight, better fix that soon.
if you ever get on a bus with a woman you deserve this retard. Get a fucking car
I live in the city though
If you grab her arm with a stern look on your face and get her out of there without fuss or fear while brushing off the chimp comments, you're cool-headed and decisive and will keep her safe - stud. If your voice cracks and you look at her and then back at them while you waiver and wait for some kind of signal from her about what she thinks before eventually slinking away and asking her to follow you - gay.
Man I'm sorry for americans
My 6 year girlfriend, who I financially supported through college and into her starting her business, gave me an ultimatum when I finally opened up to her about my depressive and suicidal thoughts.
I told her about my past with these thoughts, and had been ok for years, but my cousin committed suicide and it triggered all of those old emotions.
As I'm holding her hands and crying on our bed, one of the first things she has to say is an ultimatum. If I don't go to therapy then she'll break up with me. She was upset that I was depressed and didn't tell her sooner. My fucking boss at work was more supportive and less selfish than her in that moment of weakness.
I go to therapy and get better.
A year later she tells me she lost attraction to me. One of the reasons being that I was depressed and suicidal and only went to therapy because of her (???), and that she's constantly scared of me breaking at any time. I broke up with her.
It's hard for me to think that I just got a shitty partner, and that this isn't just a woman's nature. It's hard for me to ever deeply open up to a women again in my life. Thank you for reading my blog.
you should have killed her
>gf of 3 years broke up with me because I'm autistic
>still stings 8 years later
>not even hugged a girl since
I dont have proof(cant find pass for account) for this but I unironically wrote this story 3 years ago there is nothing real about it I am not a woman I was just sad and bitter I still am tbh
This just means he's physically weak now, and his recent outburst
>highlighted that he was not well liked at school
>demonstrated that he is just as weak now as then
>shown that it still bothers him to the point he will literally break down in front of a partner some 12 years later
If he was physically strong and attractive, all this would have been to her was a touching moment where he let her in.
You have to understand that him crying about his upbringing is having the same effect on her as if a girl came to you crying about how she got fucked by 3 guys at the same time when she was 14.
You're immediately going to re-evaluate, aren't you?
They are equivalent, like it or not.
Being weak as a man and being loose as a woman are anti-patterns. She did the right thing.