I feel the same way. I go to the gym to ignore it but recently I can't escape it. The loneliness becomes more and more unbearable everyday and I don't know what to do.
Why is coping such a bad thing?
People talk about it like it's avoiding the solution is way that makes you feel ok.
But improving yourself is never not the solution.
Nothing wrong with lifting for women (spoiler alert you're lifting to get women which is something you want so by lifting for women you're actually lifting for yourself)
Just don't forget to actually talk to them as well.
I’m a >2/3/4/5 roidmonkey boomer, married to a solid 10 ex international beauty queen and find absolutely no reason to lift other than women. Not sure how lifting for women is coping. Life is pointless without women.
Everything you do is for wammin / family >job for money for stable home life >exercise and eat right so you have the energy for them >etc etc
If anything, it makes you less narcissistic to make good choices for people you care about
>last time I had sex was 5 years ago >I lost count on how many women I rejected in this time >I don't know why I lift
I think something is wrong with me
How do I stop being a loser? I don’t think I’m that ugly I just think I’m mostly awkward when socialising. Nobody really likes me, I have a small group of friends but they’re all slowly drifting apart. I have no one else in my life. I’m age 20
I cannot comprehend lifting 4 women, it can be health, strenght, ego or pure vanity, but here you are, lifting to stick your dick in someone, just get a whore lmao
I never lifted FOR women. I always lifted to look like I just reeked of sex. I wanted the abs, the size, pretty soon I'm gonna jelq for girthgains. I just want to know I'd be so fucking hot to fuck.
but I can't fathom talking to women, like I genuinely feel like I don't feel worthy to speak to them, or anybody. so I never really did it for them, I'll probably end up roiding and dying early from body dysmorphia.
now can you shut the hell up you attention whore crybaby? Boo hoo cry me a river — hey, my bad man I’ll play you a little song on the worlds tiniest violin. If you were a vegetable you’d be a sliced onion you crybaby. If you were a pet, you’d be a pet rock because you’re dumb as a rock. If you were a an article of clothing you’d be a used diaper because you’re a giant crybaby and you stink. If you were a machine you’d be a vacuum because you suck
He lifts so that he looks like what other men project as sexy to woman — it’s defends mechanism gone mental illness derived from being bullied by other males during childhood. Anontard, if you’re reading this, remember that — training physical fitness is good for health and feels refreshing — keep this mantra until you stop trying to please those imaginary bullies in your head.
Lifting so you can stare in the mirror at yourself is chud mentality.
>I'm a virgin
you have to be 18 to post
How long have you been lifting.
That's normal, just keep doing it and you'll find lifting for the sake of it is more fun and motivating
I feel the same way. I go to the gym to ignore it but recently I can't escape it. The loneliness becomes more and more unbearable everyday and I don't know what to do.
Where you live man? Let's hang out.
Become schizo mode.
Why is coping such a bad thing?
People talk about it like it's avoiding the solution is way that makes you feel ok.
But improving yourself is never not the solution.
>Why is coping such a bad thing?
Cope.
This. Lifting to cope is good. It's either this or killing myself.
Nothing wrong with lifting for women (spoiler alert you're lifting to get women which is something you want so by lifting for women you're actually lifting for yourself)
Just don't forget to actually talk to them as well.
>waahhh I lift fer gurls
Just as long as you're lifting, man. Your reasons my change, but the iron remains the same. Pull your head out of your ass.
the day you can rid yourself of your foid worshiping brain disease, is the day you can start really living.
until then, shut the fuck up.
I’m a >2/3/4/5 roidmonkey boomer, married to a solid 10 ex international beauty queen and find absolutely no reason to lift other than women. Not sure how lifting for women is coping. Life is pointless without women.
Everything you do is for wammin / family
>job for money for stable home life
>exercise and eat right so you have the energy for them
>etc etc
If anything, it makes you less narcissistic to make good choices for people you care about
Keep lifting for women. The day you lift for strength is the day you get fat, then you'll have to diet and cardio for women too.
>last time I had sex was 5 years ago
>I lost count on how many women I rejected in this time
>I don't know why I lift
I think something is wrong with me
i lift to reject women
Same, but then I actually started noticing muscle gains and it went from only lifting for women, to lifting for me AND women
I lost my virginity last year and I was fatter than I am now. You can do it too.
How do I stop being a loser? I don’t think I’m that ugly I just think I’m mostly awkward when socialising. Nobody really likes me, I have a small group of friends but they’re all slowly drifting apart. I have no one else in my life. I’m age 20
at least you have a small group of friends
... age 20...
I cannot comprehend lifting 4 women, it can be health, strenght, ego or pure vanity, but here you are, lifting to stick your dick in someone, just get a whore lmao
I never lifted FOR women. I always lifted to look like I just reeked of sex. I wanted the abs, the size, pretty soon I'm gonna jelq for girthgains. I just want to know I'd be so fucking hot to fuck.
but I can't fathom talking to women, like I genuinely feel like I don't feel worthy to speak to them, or anybody. so I never really did it for them, I'll probably end up roiding and dying early from body dysmorphia.
oh well....
>virgin in his almost 20s
Dude, nice problem solved
now can you shut the hell up you attention whore crybaby? Boo hoo cry me a river — hey, my bad man I’ll play you a little song on the worlds tiniest violin. If you were a vegetable you’d be a sliced onion you crybaby. If you were a pet, you’d be a pet rock because you’re dumb as a rock. If you were a an article of clothing you’d be a used diaper because you’re a giant crybaby and you stink. If you were a machine you’d be a vacuum because you suck
Lift for the joy of lifting
Or for the numerous health benefits (especially long term)
It’s only a big deal if you’re not doing anyone.
Get a fleshlight. They feel 90% indistinguishable from mom pussy with a major detractor being that it’s asocial coomery.
Big mistake. There is no weight to lift the autism away.
Big deal. I'm a 43 year old virgin and I keep lifting. If I can do it you can do it.
What the sence to "pumping up for women"? Do you work as a masseur in a female sauna?
He lifts so that he looks like what other men project as sexy to woman — it’s defends mechanism gone mental illness derived from being bullied by other males during childhood. Anontard, if you’re reading this, remember that — training physical fitness is good for health and feels refreshing — keep this mantra until you stop trying to please those imaginary bullies in your head.
And how women will see his biceps?