My man, even though you see a lot of hatred on this site, there are good women out there who would be just as good for you as her. Keep improving yourself and keep looking for another. There will come a day where you lock things down and you'll live a happy and fulfilled life with someone who you can raise a family with. It hurts now but you'll be able to get through it. Stay strong man.
>there are good women out there
nope >There will come a day where you lock things down and you'll live a happy and fulfilled life with someone who you can raise a family with.
nope
>nope
Yes. I actually live in the real world and not exclusively on the internet. Go choke on your waifus figurine in your dad's partially flooded basement you man-tittied bib wearing never even seen a woman in person waste of DNA
>be me >move 2 cities away >go through 3 jobs over 10 years >find one I like >she started working in the same department as me a month ago >she still looks amazing >she hasn't been with anyone else after me
I've been behaving very well and almost never flirt; even though, good women show interest in me. Please Lord give me the strength to resist her charms and beauty. I don't want either of us to lose our job.
>randomly have a dream about my first girlfriend 10 years after breaking up >think about her none stop for the rest of the week
why the frick are our brains such fricking c**ts?
I'm 29 years old, have been a part of many clubs and I have never felt anything you wrote there. I am not even sure what love is.
I mean I see beautiful/cute girls and I recognize them as beautiful/cute and would like to be intimate with them, but never ever did I go home and continue thinking about anyone really, except for maybe my close family members when they need help or something like that. Never understood the "oneitis" meme since I never experienced it. Doesn't matter was it school or at my swimming practice, all the same.
Am I broken? Does "falling in love" just happen or should I actually try to actively do something for that to happen? I just go through life, but this entire part has missed me entirely.
You're missing a vital part of your masculinity if you're just drifting through life. You need to be out hunting and achieving if you want to be happy as a man
It's common man I am 27 and the same thing except I just don't care about women and most other stuff.
I just strive to get better at other aspect of my life. As the other anon said deep stagnation always ends up bad so find something you want to get better at and do that at least.
Otherwise it only gets worse.
Getting jaded from being hurt in the past makes sense, but you may legitimately have mild ASPD if you've NEVER felt a genuine attachment. Like I can look back at how moronic I was over the chicks who I was head-over-heals for in the past, but at least I know that the pair-bonding part of my brain works.
>Get in a fight with (now ex) of 5 years >Breakup >Think it's just another one of those "hahahah we didn't actually break up, we were just bumping heads haha" type fights >Don't text or call because PUA advice says ignoring them makes em come crawling back >"Hahaha she'll hit me with a what's up any minute now" >It's been 2 months
Well that was an unexpected finale to a half a decade that I shared with someone. I guess hearing nothing makes moving on emotionally faster in the end.
My man, even though you see a lot of hatred on this site, there are good women out there who would be just as good for you as her. Keep improving yourself and keep looking for another. There will come a day where you lock things down and you'll live a happy and fulfilled life with someone who you can raise a family with. It hurts now but you'll be able to get through it. Stay strong man.
>there are good women out there
nope
>There will come a day where you lock things down and you'll live a happy and fulfilled life with someone who you can raise a family with.
nope
>nope
Yes. I actually live in the real world and not exclusively on the internet. Go choke on your waifus figurine in your dad's partially flooded basement you man-tittied bib wearing never even seen a woman in person waste of DNA
Not him, but I’m going through this now. I’m a week in and I know I fricked my relationship up, and I miss her, but this post helped. Thank you.
true man.
still get a prenup tho.
if they don't like the idea, then you know their intentions.
>be me
>move 2 cities away
>go through 3 jobs over 10 years
>find one I like
>she started working in the same department as me a month ago
>she still looks amazing
>she hasn't been with anyone else after me
I've been behaving very well and almost never flirt; even though, good women show interest in me. Please Lord give me the strength to resist her charms and beauty. I don't want either of us to lose our job.
there was a time i was like you op
now iam like
>iam happy im never going to see her again.
she hasn't thought about you once since she last saw you
>randomly have a dream about my first girlfriend 10 years after breaking up
>think about her none stop for the rest of the week
why the frick are our brains such fricking c**ts?
I'm going to see her tomorrow, god willing
I'm 29 years old, have been a part of many clubs and I have never felt anything you wrote there. I am not even sure what love is.
I mean I see beautiful/cute girls and I recognize them as beautiful/cute and would like to be intimate with them, but never ever did I go home and continue thinking about anyone really, except for maybe my close family members when they need help or something like that. Never understood the "oneitis" meme since I never experienced it. Doesn't matter was it school or at my swimming practice, all the same.
Am I broken? Does "falling in love" just happen or should I actually try to actively do something for that to happen? I just go through life, but this entire part has missed me entirely.
You're missing a vital part of your masculinity if you're just drifting through life. You need to be out hunting and achieving if you want to be happy as a man
It's common man I am 27 and the same thing except I just don't care about women and most other stuff.
I just strive to get better at other aspect of my life. As the other anon said deep stagnation always ends up bad so find something you want to get better at and do that at least.
Otherwise it only gets worse.
Getting jaded from being hurt in the past makes sense, but you may legitimately have mild ASPD if you've NEVER felt a genuine attachment. Like I can look back at how moronic I was over the chicks who I was head-over-heals for in the past, but at least I know that the pair-bonding part of my brain works.
i never ever had even a female friend op and im glad for it frick woman
I BLEED IT OUT DIG IN DEEPER JUST TO THROW IT AWAY
sorry op. at least you can still rape her in your dreams. losing your mom is rough.
Seriously bro's. How do I ask a girl at my gym out. I have negative experience romantically.
grope to failure 2 times a week
Just as well. If you did see her again, she'd be with the family she didn't have with you.
>Get in a fight with (now ex) of 5 years
>Breakup
>Think it's just another one of those "hahahah we didn't actually break up, we were just bumping heads haha" type fights
>Don't text or call because PUA advice says ignoring them makes em come crawling back
>"Hahaha she'll hit me with a what's up any minute now"
>It's been 2 months
Well that was an unexpected finale to a half a decade that I shared with someone. I guess hearing nothing makes moving on emotionally faster in the end.