after a solid 10 year porn addiction i dont get aroused by women anymore and my fetishes have become bizarre. I've given up porn but will fapping still ruin my recovery?
is complete abstinence the only way to get my libido back?
after a solid 10 year porn addiction i dont get aroused by women anymore and my fetishes have become bizarre. I've given up porn but will fapping still ruin my recovery?
Yes because you will inevitably be fantasizing all the hours of porn you have watched.
Congratulations on breaking Free from porn addiction! Yes, you need to give up masturbation as well. I struggled with this part too, but when I turned it over to Christ, He gave me the strength to give it all up for good.
I unironically have great relationships with women for the first time in my life (not romantic, just enjoying being around them) and find normal women attractive once again.
Another thing, you have to leave this board for a while, too many people try to tear you down and make you stumble. I'd recommend getting a rosary or memorizing some prayers, and when you feel tempted, turn it into a prayer and ask for God give you His grace instead.
Not larping, this is the only way out I can find.
I think, in general, if you have to ask if the road of self-improvement HAS to be hard then the answer is decidedly yes. You succumb to the temptations of life because they're easy. Necessarily then must the road out be hard.
>i traveled 100 miles to reach this level of degeneracy, do I really have to travel 100 miles to get back?
yes, yes you do. Form new habits.
-t. recovered cookie cutter porno addict.
what is cookie cutter porno ?
>this post disappoints Big Lenny
You mean that old black guy with a giant gut ? I saw him in many body building clips and I don't get the lore. Is he like the bobo of body building? Just a court jester to make fun of ? Redpill me on Big Lenny
Porn's the issue, masturbating is fine but if it helps you to not do it you can do that as well, at that point you're just training discipline and abstinency with it.
>my fetishes have become bizarre
So what kind of fetishes are you talking about?
women urinating on insects
and snail crushing
abstinence from orgasms, yes. maintain erections for long periods, just don't cum
chudgroomer detected
huh? what the fuck? why are you obsessed with trannies?
groomed ofc
The first chud I saw was on one of the Newgrounds RPG adult games where you try to seduce women. You clicked "get jiggy with it!" and then a porn pic would pop up. One of the girls had a dick and I liked it.
The second one was Linetrap. I've liked them ever since and don't feel bad about it at all.
In a similar position myself, anon. I have graduated to chud porn recently and I just can't stop!
Hard exercise does wonders for libido, but it has to be HARD. Run up and down hills for miles at a time until you can barely walk. Go to failure on multiple lifts and blast out 30+ minutes of high intensity cardio on an elyptical or bike. Eat a big meal as soon as you get home with lots of meat. You obviously can't do this every day, but on the days you do the libido will hit like a train by the time evening rolls around and it should start normalizing on non-workout days after a while.
really just start doing more cardio
>my fetishes have become bizarre
Might just be worth going without it, yeah. Its not just going to be about getting away from the stimulus, but the idea of some of the stupid acts and visuals