Is it possible to be too intimidating to attract women?

Is it possible to be too intimidating to attract women?

  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Unironically yes but not how you think.

    I've had the girls I am friends with but never dated say that I intimidated them. NOt just because I am larger than most but because of my drive to improve and ambition in life. If they don't feel like they are enough for you they will be intimidated and avoid you. They even said that despite being humble and friendly it doesn't help much.

    It's annoying because I think I am the way I am because I wanted to attract girls as a teenager.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >i'm a virgin because i'm too driven
      The copes you cunts come up with are hilarious

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Not a virgin but yeah dude when you make it you'll find out.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >tfw too handsome and intelligent to get laid

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >tfw too handsome and intelligent to get laid

        tfw my penis is too girthy and long but it still can’t keep up with my muscle definition and fullness

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I've sorta had that happen to me as well. A girl I was with for some time always complained that I'm always trying to do something and never stopping. She didn't like it. I liked to work out, talk to new people, working a lot on my career training, learn new things, work through something or another in my mind, etc. General self improvement was how I spent at least half of my time away from my job in some way or another. I wasn't like that absolutely 24/7, but regardless it was a stick in our relationship because her dates were to just sit on the couch with me and watch shitty TV. My dates were bike around my town and show her cool things I've found on my own, or just generally get out the house, and some point or another shed complain I'd start talking her ear off about something I've been mulling on for a while. She said she liked I was trying to better myself, but she didn't like that I was doing it a lot. I really don't feel like I did, I wasted lots of time on my own, don't get me wrong. But the general populous it's weird to do that kind of stuff.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Keep doing what you do. I am the same. And i respect people who are active and always learning. Couch potatoes or gamer nerds, sitting on their asses all day can fuck off. Sooner or later EVERYONE will realize that their time on this god forsaken planet is limited and that one should cherish every second and absorb as much experience as possible...if not...they will regret it on their death beds.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I'm happy to know I'm not the only one. I think it's important to stick with it and find someone who will do it with us or at least support it.

          Smart girls are the best in my experience for this. They can identify why they feel like they do and realise they shouldn't. I exclusively date smarties now. Ygmi

          I feel like my gf is stagnating bros. Over the past 3 years I switched the jobs twice to up my pay, became a regular at the gym, got gud at my sport, etc. Meanwhile she's still the same - and I mean she's still a nice lady but she barely cares about earning anything above bare minimum and only does her hobbies which she has a lot.
          I guess you shouldn't ask a lot from a woman as long as the house is clean etc, but I can't help but think I'd be able to save more if she'd also applied herself. Am I wrong for thinking that?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            she needs a reason to improve. either out of fear or out of love
            figure how she operates and help guide her

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Hey, 90% of people are stagnating. They get a more or less comfortable job, arrange themselves with it, find a good enough partner, have some sort of lifeplan and that's it. Change is not something that a lot of people will go through once they settled in. So, your GF is actually "normal" (which doesn't mean good nor bad). My advice: talk to her about it, not with anons.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Creative people need to sit and think and do mindless activities to unwind. Retards who think at 2 thoughts a minute need constant physical stimuli like dogs or children.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Mindless activity can be active tho. I take it you don't run? It's perfect to unwind, almost meditative.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        And that, ladies and gentlemen is why the opinions of women are fucking worthless. Good on you for staying on the path my man. Spending time with lazy motherfuckers like that will only hurt in the end.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I'm happy to know I'm not the only one. I think it's important to stick with it and find someone who will do it with us or at least support it.

        Smart girls are the best in my experience for this. They can identify why they feel like they do and realise they shouldn't. I exclusively date smarties now. Ygmi

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >be at office thinking out loud
        >I should really start reading more theology again
        >female co-worker stares at me
        > "why?"

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Literally me. Dude, i walk down the city and almost every woman checks me out, simply because of my height, the mucles are a big bonus of course. When i interact with women, most are very timid and shy or super flirty. Anyway, i am boasting but i shouldn't because i don't take advantage of it because i am retarded.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Ask Markus Rühl

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      that also stems from low insecurity on their part.
      >t. 6-month girlfriend still tells me I ignore her and I'm just using her as a sex doll even though we text constantly and spend the weekends together

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >giving her the attention she wants.
        It will never be enough.

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I had a girl in high school say that I was too intimidating to date because I was so smart.

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Do mustaches intimidate women?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I have a mustache comparable to the ones ITT and I never talk to women. Surely they're intimidated by it.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      you are not don frye or dan severn or any of those other 90s UFC fighters that looked like they were IRL adaptations of GI Joe characters. If women aren't attracted to you, it's not because you're too manly.

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    i intimidate women with my autism and alien like demeanor. the muscles rope them in and then BAM autistic body language pushes them back to where they came from

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Studies have shown that birth control pills make women prefer the nintendo epic onions face types. That shit is genetic suicide in one generation.

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Yes, but that's not you.

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    NO,you cant be intimidating to ALL WOMEN
    but...
    >Is it possible to be too intimidating to attract SOME women?
    Yes,some women for whatever reason could be to intimidated to get close to you,either you are too muscular,too handsome,too smart,too polite and a myriad of other things
    But all women?No,Impossible.

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    yes, but not in the way you think

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It's wierd, everywhere I go women can't stop laughing, sometimes they laugh out loud in my face. I think they think to themselves, hmm imagine that guy fucking me... LMAO and they can't hold it.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      How tall are you?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        6'2. No I don't think it's because they like me, I could be driving and the same reaction. Something about me is so goofy that it makes women laugh, most of them, but I've no idea what. I have a normal facial expression

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Post head

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Got me there, I have a bit of a wierd shaped skull

            >I have a normal facial expression
            are you sure you don't have incel lips

            No incel lips, but I am an incel so I might give off a wierd vibe unintentionally. Girls call me cute sometimes but I am a 25 year old kissless virgin

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >I have a normal facial expression
          are you sure you don't have incel lips

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    intimidating to women = creepy and weird

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Yes but there are two types of "intimidating "
    Ugly men are always intimidating (op)
    Good looking men are only intimidating if they never smile

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Such is life
      Captcha xjdjd

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Such is life
        Very autistic, almost gnomish

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Ned Kelly said that you gnomish moron. Shut your plated mouth.

  12. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    If you're 6'5 250 lbs, shave your head and with a bunch of nazi tattoos yeah women will be afraid of you

    Your average IST poster is a DYEL brown manlet or just a turbo incel addicted to anime and video games. These are not intimidating, just sad, pathetic "men" who are too delusional to accept the fact they're nothing but genetic garbage

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      More than half the userbase is european,just check the posts newfag

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >european

        So, the continent where at least 70% of people are muslims and africans?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          there are more christians in europe then in the usa

  13. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >in high school had several girls say that I am intimidating looking
    >heard several times at bars or clubs "don't be so serious", "you look like you aren't having any fun", "you should smile more", "you look so tense", etc
    It's just my resting face...

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Hey that ain't too bad. I get that from everyone. My own father tells me that I look intimidating, and I should smile more. I sometimes notice that I'm frowning literally 24/7. I'm attractive(like really attractive, I'm not bullshitting you) but I have a big skull and a big frame +unstable mentally and autistic behavior. That really intimidates people and pushes them away from me. Not only woman too. It's really a curse man

  14. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    it is possible yes. but if you have the social skills to show a small amount of vulnerability as a strong person.. women will be GUSHING for you

  15. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    When I was younger I was told I was intimidating because I didn't talk very much. I still got all kinds of laid because I was attractive to females. I can imagine still being a virgin to this day if I wasn't though.

  16. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I shaved my head recently
    The girls that knew me before told me I look less approachable now

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Ugly or mean?

  17. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    There might be some truth to it. I was at a party and this chick was checking me out. My friends told me to go talk to her. When I looked at her we locked eyes for like 3 seconds. Then she put her head down and walked away. My dad always told me I constantly look pissed off. So idk.

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