Is my body unattractive

>Be me two years ago, obese and generally unhealthy , one day finally decided to do something about it
>Ffw now, went from 81 kg to 65 kg to 70 kg, still dyel but already a lot better than before. Occasionally got mired when I’m shirtless and wear fitted clothes.
>Always got voice mired by girls online and when we meet up they also mired my body , sometimes my face.
>They start losing interest in me usually on the 3rd date, they all say I’m boring and bad at texting.
Am I just really ugly or do they got a point? If they’re already interested in the first why do they end up ghosting me

  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Boring and bad at texting
    Lmao you've fell for the "dick pic bad" meme haven't you

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Never heard of that meme before, what is it

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You look better than a DYEL and therefore almost everyone

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Got another nippleboy for the collage

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Thanks for making me self conscious about it gay

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Seriously, what the fuck is up with people's nipples??

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        It's the water

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Around 40% of all males develop gynecomastia during puberty.
        In most cases, the lump disappears but the nipple remains fucked.
        >T. perky nips

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          the nipple remains fucked because the gyno is still there

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Pls post collage

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    have a nice day

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    you're not unattractive. you're starting to look real good right now. you should charisma- or personalitymaxx now. maybe find some good hobbies and do your sets in socializing until failure.

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    sounds like because there isnt enough substance or something, be genuine and maybe try to voice instead of text if youre better at that. seems like you must look a lot better than before, i think you look good but you should keep it up 🙂

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      They always say that my voice is warm and masculine , but I think maybe because it’s kinda deep. I seriously don’t know what to talk about on a date, when things got awkward I just ask them if they want to play sudoku on the phone or something.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        sudoku? Honestly that just sounds awful

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    yeah you have a shit personality that's about it. just think about it, do you want to hang out or date someone female or male that is REALLY boring and uninteresting? they might be interested first but when they check the cards, it's another thing.

    i can attest this to myself. for a short while when trying to make an impression i can appear as a completely different person. funny, outgoing, cracking jokes etc. but probably if you took me on a date i couldn't hold on to that for too long and i'd come out as something different.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Fuck, I don’t really have a lot friends, the only reason I have friends in high school is because I give them answers. What should I do? I’ve been alone for quite a long time now

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >they all say I’m boring and bad at texting
    >Am I just really ugly
    Are you literally retarded?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      https://i.imgur.com/FklPYTU.png

      >They start losing interest in me usually on the 3rd date, they all say I’m boring and bad at texting.
      >they all say I’m boring and bad at texting.
      >>>Am I just really ugly?
      Are you retarded?

      lmao this

      in general, OP, you aren't in a great place, if you are not interesting at 30. The worst thing about this, is you can't really be interesting on purpose. Like this anon said

      yeah you have a shit personality that's about it. just think about it, do you want to hang out or date someone female or male that is REALLY boring and uninteresting? they might be interested first but when they check the cards, it's another thing.

      i can attest this to myself. for a short while when trying to make an impression i can appear as a completely different person. funny, outgoing, cracking jokes etc. but probably if you took me on a date i couldn't hold on to that for too long and i'd come out as something different.

      you can maybe make an impression for a few dates, but you can't fake it for very long.

      Unfortunately, I don't have any good advice for you. I could say read books or find a hobby, but if your reason for doing that is not sincere, it won't be interesting to you, and so it won't make you more interesting as well.

      Keep working out though, at least you have that going on for you.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Any advice for cutting while your mom likes to guilt trip you if you don’t eat her food? Her food is really good and she’s very passionate about cooking, she also doesn’t want to me to be too skinny. What should I say without hurting her feelings?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Well, you should just ask her for smaller portions. Explain that her food is great and you really love it, but it's too much for your goals at the moment, but you promise to eat more when bulking. Explain that these fitness goals are very important for you and that you feel great when accomplishing them. Sincerity is the most important thing, I'm sure your mom will understand and will help you in this journey

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You need to cut more if you're looking for aesthetics. The big muscles you have already

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    funny nips rest aint bad at all

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >They start losing interest in me usually on the 3rd date, they all say I’m boring and bad at texting.
    >they all say I’m boring and bad at texting.
    >>>Am I just really ugly?
    Are you retarded?

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You look like a relatively average male for a healthy human with slightly high body fat. Relative to average Americans you look quite a bit better, but you're not going to be impressing anybody at all.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Do you think I’m 15% body fat or more? It’s all because of mom’s cooking goddamnit 🙁

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Your body is good enough, really good by normie standards, but since you haven't posted face I'm going to assume you're not a gigachad so you need to become a non-threatening friendly jester cuck basically (start watching netflix, sending lots of emojis, and complaining your colleagues immediately) or quit dating entirely. Don't listen to the gays telling you you have a "shitty personality". If you aren't boring to the average woman on dating apps and social media then you're a massive gay.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I don’t post my face because I’m not comfortable posting my face here, but I’d rate my face 4/10. And I forgot to mention I’m 5’8, I don’t have Instagram and I don’t watch Netflix too. Is it really over for me?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Listen you fuck, it's never over if you take the rapepill, now stop asking bullshit questions or I'll beat your ass into submission and fuck you prison style hard no lube

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >I don’t have Instagram and I don’t watch Netflix too. Is it really over for me?
        Yes

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >you're not a gigachad so you need to become a non-threatening friendly jester cuck basically (start watching netflix, sending lots of emojis, and complaining your colleagues immediately) or quit dating entirely.
      What are you even saying?
      Op, just bee yourself unironically. Quit worrying about other people, explore things you might be interested in. If you've been curious about martial arts, wanting to make a career change, wanting to get into the habit of reading, wanting to get into woodworking, just do it. Try out different things, befriend people that you get along well with, and don't force shit. Forcing shit makes things awkward, just do things that you want to do

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >65kg
    anon, youre a manlet

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Yes I’m 5’8

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I'm also 5'8" and 104kg. Lift heavier and eat more in that order. Chicks worth keeping always dig the overweight guy who can throw them around with ease. They call this the teddy bear physique and we all know how women get with stuffed animals.

  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    how were you fat at 81kg, are you 4 feet tall?

  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >obese
    >81kg
    are you 5 foot?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Not obese but fat, considering that I didn’t do any physical activity and was always studying at that time my body look really shitty. You get what I mean, now I’m too afraid to gain weight

  17. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >and bad at texting.
    Texting is now a dating requirement? I'm glad I never got addicted to shitphones.

  18. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Try to get sex as soon as possible, you have to fuck them before they realize they don’t like you then move onto the next girl, don’t even wait for them to ghost you. Ideally plan dates with not a lot of talking possible and get physical asap. Speaking as someone with no personality like yourself, that’s the maximum enjoyment you can get out of women, you won’t find a loving gf or whatever.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I’m still a virgin at 20, how tf do you get girls to sleep with you?

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