Is there a gym for personality?

Is there a gym for personality?

  1. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    Yeah, school. Where you're meant to socialize and emotionally come into your own.

    • 5 months ago
      Anonymous

      I fucked up and studied instead

      • 5 months ago
        Anonymous

        Cope harder gay, you could have (and should have) done both.

    • 5 months ago
      Anonymous

      What if you didn’t socialise in school much?

    • 5 months ago
      Anonymous

      Is that a joke?
      School is a day care-(with room for indoctrination)
      Even if it's not a public or bad school you don't develop properly through involuntarily Action environments & social interactions

    • 5 months ago
      Anonymous

      It's only that way because it's enforced
      Things aren't necessarily meant to be that way
      I value education a lot btw more than almost anything but not the way it's done now generally

    • 5 months ago
      Anonymous

      >involuntary environment
      >"this will prepare me to interact with people!"

      • 5 months ago
        Anonymous

        Stamping your feet and demanding life occur on your terms won't make you better with people.

      • 5 months ago
        Anonymous

        Yes!!!!!

    • 5 months ago
      Anonymous

      I grew more at my job than in school, but then again my job isn't full of massive gays like my school was.

    • 5 months ago
      Anonymous

      College is better for that honestly

    • 5 months ago
      Anonymous

      I had the 'tism and nobody told me. Now level 35 khhv wizard. Wat do.

    • 5 months ago
      Anonymous

      yes, therapy/a psychologist

      https://i.imgur.com/JR8P0Eb.jpg

      Is there a gym for personality?

      I firmly believe after going through this journey myself that being a stone-faced high inhibition generic looking person is not normal or natural and is caused by some form of social trauma and failure to properly incorporate the self/the unconscious/the shadow. I was like this because at my root I was deeply afraid; afraid to express, afraid to share, afraid to let loose. I was terrified of the world and others and withdrew into my mind as a coping mechanism, becoming hollow as a result; I spent years and years like this. The day I realized it was a pathology and I didn't need to be like that forever was like coming out of a never ending nightmare/fugue. What a surprise I lost my virginity that same year as well, accomplished more than I ever had before in my life, and was far happier as well

      • 5 months ago
        Anonymous

        I’m happy for you anon. I hope to have sex one day too

    • 5 months ago
      Anonymous

      Not sure if this normie shit is ironic or not. If by "socialize" you mean Ted K's definition, then sure

  2. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    Buddhism.

    • 5 months ago
      Anonymous

      >refuses to elaborate

  3. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    Hard work builds character

  4. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    hardship

  5. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    The gym presents some good opportunities, unironically.
    Start forcing small talk on the reception staff and personal trainers, be willing to spot and receptive to being spotted, and just say hi to people if you cross paths and make eye contact.

    • 5 months ago
      Anonymous

      But what if they say hi back? Id be screwed

      • 5 months ago
        Anonymous

        You introduce yourself and shake their hand if they're someone you see on regular basis, or you leave it at hello if it's someone you haven't seen around.
        Don't try to lead conversations if you are socially inept, but get the feel for asking basic questions.
        Reflect and learn from each experience.

    • 5 months ago
      https://boards.4channel.org/o/

      >The gym presents some good opportunities
      no, almost any other sport I can think of is better for that.

  6. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    ego kills to failure

    • 5 months ago
      Anonymous

      any way except drugs?

      • 5 months ago
        Anonymous

        maybe if you have 50-80 years to spare

  7. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    Waiting tables is like social skills bootcamp. Worked for me, highly recommended

  8. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    Clubs, religious orgs, sports teams, and volunteering groups.

  9. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    SOMETHING IN THE WAY
    MMMMMM HMMMMMM

  10. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    somebody post the senator armstrong roidhead vs skinny smoker model

  11. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    >sales job
    >travel agency job
    >improv/acting
    >not being an avoidant gay in grade school/university with an unwarranted superiority complex

    • 5 months ago
      Anonymous

      >not being an avoidant gay in grade school/university with an unwarranted superiority complex
      Shit does anyone know where i can get a time machine

      • 5 months ago
        Anonymous

        The past is the past; let it go.
        But you don't need a time machine to stop being an avoidant gay with an unwarranted superiority complex NOW, now do you?

  12. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    Yeah, it's called a normal gym
    Socialize gay

  13. 5 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Is there a gym for personality?
    Actually a great question. There's not. Its just alot of trial and error. As the anon stated earlier, its about talking to everyone you can. And noticing people good at it, and learning why they're good at it.

    I didn't really get good until I had to attend a ton of receptions for my job, and interact to get work done. What I learned was to have a list of people to definitely talk to, ask questions, and have a goal for the conversation. After years of this, I can pretty much walk into any social situation and talk to anyone I don't know.

    Its really all practice.

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