Ive been going to the same gym for over a year and no one has ever talked to me.

Ive been going to the same gym for over a year and no one has ever talked to me. Ive been seeing the same people several times every week and nothing.
I always hear stories of people who make friends in the gym or make small talk but no one talla to me.
I only say hi to the recepcionist but not even she talks to me. She just says hi and thats it but ive seen her have conversations with other people.
Why does this happen to me?

  1. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    idk but i dont want you to talk to me
    i think people who say this must be going to bro-y weight lifter gyms specifically

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I dont talk to people, but I want people to talk to me. But they won't do it

  2. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    you are negatively charged, and repel others with your suffocating aura. channel this ability to slip into places unnoticed and acquire sensitive information from those who are brainfogged by their innate desire to escape you

  3. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I hardly talk to anyone these days because most people seem to be harboring some serious mental problems.

  4. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    The only person I ever talk to is my old HS/college oneitis who ended up married to a guy who was her second choice after she moved on from me when I made it obvious to her I was too retarded to ever be anything more than friends.

    I saw her today and had her dieing laughing and now I can't get her smile out of my head.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      go to a different gym what the fuck

  5. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    How do I get better at talking to people? I do try to put myself out there but I'd say I can be pretty boring most of the time. The talking usually ends after like five minutes, I really just want to branch out a bit socially. I have a friend group but I'm sure they'll leave me soon.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I also go to a local boxing club but I’m inconsistent. Even then I wasn’t that good with talking to people

  6. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    you need to stimulate people's interest. the best technique is to use a trigger in their subconscious so that you are seen. Try hiding behind a device or pillar, then give a loud little squeal, then proceed to other exercises as if nothing happened. They will be induced to see you and gradually you will be part of their daily thinking. Then there are just consequences.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Good idea, I'm gonna start throwing the weights when I finish, so the whores see me

  7. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Same here OP.
    I always have a stern, stoic look on my face even though I'm a really nice guy once you get to me and I love having conversations with strangers

    I'm also tall so I think I probably just scare people away. How do I become more approachable?

  8. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I’ve been going to the gym for almost 2 months now and just the other day some jacked bro talked to me and a wicked hot girl smiled at me today so I introduced myself, but nothing more. I think you may have to go out of your way to chat people up at this rate. Try working in with someone you see a lot, that’s usually a decent enough in to start a conversation.

  9. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Actually i remember a few years ago a naked old man talked to me about football in the changing room. I had to control myself to not stare at his penis and he wouldnt stop talking

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Ahahahahahahahahahahahaahahhahahahaha that mind battle

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      how big was it

  10. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    OP probably smells or is creepy. I bet he is a pajeet.

  11. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I have the opposite problem, I'm an autistic sperg but for some reason everyone befriends me, every time I go to the gym I have to stop at at least 5 guys for a short chat. It's kind of uncomfortable.

  12. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >try my absolute hardest to not look at women at the gym
    >if I ever meet eye with them they always glare at me and start grunting loudly during their workouts when I'm in ear shot

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