>late night with the wife. >are you going to the gym again. >yes babe you know I have to. >Why. >I just do

>late night with the wife
>are you going to the gym again
>yes babe you know I have to
>Why
>I just do

She will never understand the male plight. The burning motivation I have to be stronger than my current self. The look of disgust I have for my weakness in the mirror. Sitting at home, watching Netflix, eating snacks is poison. I do it sometimes to entertain her but I know the second that becomes my lifestyle I'll get fat and unattractive. I'll be weak and a shell of my former self.

Therefore the only way to go is forward. Into the iron jungle and come out the other side lean, strong, a figure of peak virile masculinity.

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  1. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    "the iron jungle"

  2. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Invite her to the gym bro

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      I'm in the exact same position.

      If OP is a father then it's impossible.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      We have a newborn so she stays at home cosleeping with her

      I'm in the exact same position.

      If OP is a father then it's impossible.

      It's just something you have to do. I go late at night once the kids are asleep. She wants to use that time to lounge around, during the week I go to the gym. I do give her Sunday so we can catch up on our shows. I still go to the gym afterwards though.

      Keep yourself fit and in shape. It's the single best thing you can do. She may not appreciate the time away from her, but being hot and in shape goes a long way to being a better father and husband

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        I am in the same boat. I am 34. Wife is 34. 3 kids. She has been watching what she eats but doesn't do fitness anything, no walks, runs, nothing. She still looks good although the kids put some weight on her so she could lose a few lbs. I just get so bored on playing on my phone and watching netflix or whatever, I don't see how you can sit there and not want to exercise. I don't even have plight. I just want to be better for myself, kind of like golfing. You are never going to be on the PGA tour, and I'll never be a bodybuilder, but I still want to be the best I can be.

        Its more than just that, and you're right, but its about being the head of the household and setting an example. Be the best dad, husband, be in good shape, make good money. Do what you're fricking supposed to do.

        On the other side of the coin, if the wife doesn't get into shape and I get hotter and get hit on (this is already started happening) than I get good sexes because she gets really jealous, also her self esteem gets way lower so she lets me do more stuff to her in the bedroom since she is afraid I'll leave her, so that has been nice.

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          That's the male plight. To strive to be better than you currently are. Women don't have that. They are ok with whatever situation they are in, as long as it's comfortable. They want you to become like them because you being fatter is comfortable. But It shows complacency, which then they also eventually hate.

          Like you said. You have to be the leader. Even if you don't force her to the gym, just her seeing you make progress will turn her towards your path. My wife started doing regular walks when I told her walking was making her butt look big. I showed her my progress pictures of 40lbs down and a few thirst trap pictures and even now she watches what she eats a little better.

          Even better when the other dads in your friend circle are the "stay at home and watch netflix" types. I was playing with my son and another toddler. I heard from the kitchen "I wish (my husband) played with him like that". Then after the play date my wife was all over me about how I'm a better husband and dad than the guy. It's that example you want to lead, but its the sacrifices at the gym that make it happen

          The "please don't leave me" sex is a very nice bonus though

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            My wife has been an avid gymgoer for 5 years and has been going 3×/week even during pregnancy. You guys can keep imagining you're Guts though

            • 1 year ago
              Anonymous

              And how will she do that with a newborn baby?

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          Can you guys share pics of your wifes butts so we can compare and see whos the winner?

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            No, last time I posted my body or my family on here people larped as me. Creeps me out to know you sickos are doing this shit

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          Can’t imagine being a fit guy and having a wife who just sit and eat. God, this will never be me.

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            When the kids are young you don't have a choice. She needs to eat because breastfeeding is a priority and if she doesn't then the body will steal nutrients from her.
            After the kids are done breastfeeding then yeah it's cringe

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            Women gain 20lbs/kid per average on pregnancy. Then they have to wake up every 3 hours for 6 months straight. I know you incels don’t know this, it’s okay. I didn’t either until I had kids. They get a free pass for a bit but if they’re still fat by the time the kids go to school then yeah we’re gunna have a problem

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            It will never be your because you'll never have a wife

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        We are in the exact same position... Good to know there are other IST anons here.

        I am in the same boat. I am 34. Wife is 34. 3 kids. She has been watching what she eats but doesn't do fitness anything, no walks, runs, nothing. She still looks good although the kids put some weight on her so she could lose a few lbs. I just get so bored on playing on my phone and watching netflix or whatever, I don't see how you can sit there and not want to exercise. I don't even have plight. I just want to be better for myself, kind of like golfing. You are never going to be on the PGA tour, and I'll never be a bodybuilder, but I still want to be the best I can be.

        Its more than just that, and you're right, but its about being the head of the household and setting an example. Be the best dad, husband, be in good shape, make good money. Do what you're fricking supposed to do.

        On the other side of the coin, if the wife doesn't get into shape and I get hotter and get hit on (this is already started happening) than I get good sexes because she gets really jealous, also her self esteem gets way lower so she lets me do more stuff to her in the bedroom since she is afraid I'll leave her, so that has been nice.

        How do you do it with that many kids? Are they all older now? I have a 2 year old son and we're trying for another. I don't see how it will be possible for me to go to the gym on a regular basis with a 3 year and newborn.

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          I have a 2.5 and a newborn. It's tough. But like I said before, I just go at night. Put the 2yo to bed and the wife stays with the newborn. It's better that way anyway since she's better suited for childcare. Of course during the time you are home you should be taking the baby off her hands to compensate. My wife knows that I'm going to the gym. Sometimes she still tries to get me to stay home, but fundamentally she knows I'm going to the gym

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          I have a 3 year old a 1 year old and a newborn. I wake up at 5AM to make coffee and feed and let the dog out. I then am up doing dishes and laundry or whatever chore. The older 2 wake up and I throw them in front of the tv and get them breakfast. Wife and newborn have to be out by 8 when I work. I usually go to the gym at nap time around lunch or after they go on to bed at 8pm. Anyone who says they can’t make time is cope. You can do it if you stay disciplined

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            My son still wakes up in the night, I guess it will hopefully get better as he gets older but if we somehow had another baby in the house I can't leave her with dealing with both. I have about 20 minutes of driving to/from the gym so doing a workout in a lunchbreak will have to be rushed as frick. I'll make something work I guess.

            My wife has been an avid gymgoer for 5 years and has been going 3×/week even during pregnancy. You guys can keep imagining you're Guts though

            Being pregnant with your first is nothing. It hasn't even begun yet.

            [...]

            Old pasta.

            she fricks your black neighbour when you're out at the gym sorry anon

            Incel cope projecting his porn fetish onto a discussion for real men.

            • 1 year ago
              Anonymous

              >I have about 20 minutes of driving to/from the gym so doing a workout in a lunchbreak will have to be rushed as frick.

              Get a home gym. I work out after the kids are asleep.

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        Why do you watch shows with your family? I cant speak but when I do have a family, thats the last thing I'd want on in the background. Some israeli propaganda on corrupting the minds of my wife and kids.

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          You don't have a choice with women. They all get caught up in whatever new show all their friends are watching. As a good husband you just watch with her. During the day time? You absolutely must watch what your kids are watching if you let them watch TV. There are plenty of good shows for your kids to watch and plenty of bad shows that will brainwash your kids. My wife and I probably had to block at least 30 shows for being cocomelon spin offs. TV is a necessary evil though. Kids learn very fast by watching characters perform actions. My son would watch a learn to talk series as part of his learning time and he learned to talk relatively fast.

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            >learn to talk series
            read to your fricking child. mine has been able to read since he's 4 and has always been easy to understand when he speaks unlike most kids.

            https://i.imgur.com/0FwZRww.jpg

            As a man life is a Shonen anime. You are the main character who starts with nothing but potential. Your life becomes whatever you make it, how you use your potential and better yourself with it. The training you do, hidden talents you find within yourself. The guts and courage you bring forth from countless failures and successes. They all add up into creating your character, who you are at the current moment. You MUST continually improve, or you'll be stagnant and mediocre.
            Goals are nothing more than arcs, and you can even go a step further to giving yourself stats and improving your stats like a videogame.

            [...]
            Continually improvement is a way of life. It expands to everything not just the gym. The gym is the improvement of your body, but you should always be looking to improve your mind and spiritual well being. So yeah the gym is a hobby. A simple tool used to keep moving forward on my path of life

            >life is like a shonen anime
            stop using bugman analogies

            • 1 year ago
              Anonymous

              >there are dads that won't let their kids watch tv because its israeli propoganda
              at least let your kid watch old spongebob and shit

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        yeah keep telling yourself that. It will ensure you're able to keep working hard to pay the alimony when she takes your kid and settles down with her new boyfriend who isn't a meathead gymrat and actually cares about spending time with his wife and family.

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          Not possible she's madly in love with me and only gets more in love with me each day as her friends and sister have to deal with the fricked up dating scene. Everyday she leaves me little notes in my lunch. She's done so without fail since I started this job a year ago

          Cringe you are probably dyel as frick and this post s reams I'm 15. Taking a day off like she said won't hurt your noob gains squirt

          Cope. You must have no real ambitions

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            The dating scene is pretty easy for women

            • 1 year ago
              Anonymous

              Women have the easiest time getting a date. But they have a very hard time finding a high quality male that actually wants to settle down and start a family

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          Lmao NTA but this post reeks of cope and projection.

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          This is practically fedora posting in 2023.
          >TH-THOSE MUSCLE BOUND GYM RATS WILL NEVER WORSHIP YOU LIKE THE QUEEN YOU ARE M'LADY
          either touch grass or an hero.

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        three times a week if you go hard is enough bro

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          I do Push/Pull/Push/Upper/Push/Upper 80% /rest or upper 80%

          And I'm seeing good results. 3 days a week would make fasting much harder too. It's easier to stay on track if I'm constantly going to the gym

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            >It's easier to stay on track if I'm constantly going to the gym
            same, been like that with everything

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      >Invite her to the gym bro
      Very bad idea.

      She'll improve herself, and have access to better men. That means if she does a good job, OP will be worse or equal to her, which disgusts her, and then she'll look for the better men in the gym. Inviting a GF to the gym is a deathsentence for a relationship.

  3. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    >honey can you fix the sink it's been leaking for a month
    >NAH BABE I NEED TO PICK HEAVY THINGS UP AND PUT THEM DOWN I'M LIKE GUTS BABE I HAVE TO STRUGGLE IN A MANLY FASHION AND AIR CONDITIONED GYMS ARE PEAK STRUGGLE
    >I'm cheating on you with Tyrone, and I'm leaving

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      I doubt people go to the gym if they have a high priority home ownership issue like a leaking sink. Plumbing + Leaks = stop what you're doing to fix it. I didn't go to the gym for a month when I was tiling my basement.

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        Even with how autistic I am about going to the gym, I still took the weekend off to fix the sink when my garbage disposal failed. Or when a storm blew some housing panels off. Most of the time house repairs are as intensive as the gym, so I consider them functional strength workouts

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      You've never owned a home or been a husband, that much I can tell.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      Hah?

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      Let a ugly fat man frick you in the ass while your wife get fricked by chad in front of you with no protection and then raise chads autistic child like your hero and inspiration Guts.
      That will help your wife understand Berserk better.

      yeah keep telling yourself that. It will ensure you're able to keep working hard to pay the alimony when she takes your kid and settles down with her new boyfriend who isn't a meathead gymrat and actually cares about spending time with his wife and family.

      she fricks your black neighbour when you're out at the gym sorry anon

      https://i.imgur.com/3KPvy7S.jpg

      Nice wife bro. You mind?

      What is it with all the cuck fantasies here? I thought cuckoldry was a Reddit thing.

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        >fantasy

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          You have autism

          It's all ogre now

  4. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Let a ugly fat man frick you in the ass while your wife get fricked by chad in front of you with no protection and then raise chads autistic child like your hero and inspiration Guts.
    That will help your wife understand Berserk better.

  5. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    why do you talk like an anime character

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      As a man life is a Shonen anime. You are the main character who starts with nothing but potential. Your life becomes whatever you make it, how you use your potential and better yourself with it. The training you do, hidden talents you find within yourself. The guts and courage you bring forth from countless failures and successes. They all add up into creating your character, who you are at the current moment. You MUST continually improve, or you'll be stagnant and mediocre.
      Goals are nothing more than arcs, and you can even go a step further to giving yourself stats and improving your stats like a videogame.

      bro it's just a hobby u enjoy doing

      Continually improvement is a way of life. It expands to everything not just the gym. The gym is the improvement of your body, but you should always be looking to improve your mind and spiritual well being. So yeah the gym is a hobby. A simple tool used to keep moving forward on my path of life

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        >As a man life is a Shonen anime.
        I've never read anything more based

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        WAGMI

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        Nice wife bro. You mind?

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      OP might be an AI

  6. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    bro it's just a hobby u enjoy doing

  7. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    >home
    >gym
    Bring your wife and your kids

  8. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    I like anime but you anime homies are so cringe holy shit. You have a wife but you type like a 16yo, embarrassing. Just lift the heavy thing and don’t get all fricking gay about it goddamit

  9. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    The best thing you could do for your kids is to have a nice day so they can grow up without your influence in their lives

  10. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    I watch my soi entertainment in between sets kek
    Think smarter not harder
    >verification not required

  11. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    you look ridiculuous

  12. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    She will understand and appeal when your newborn is a toddler and you're able to pick them up and throw them around while playing

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      Definitely already happening. My son weighs 25lbs and I pick him up between my legs like an ab crunch. I can do it easily but my wife can't so when he tries with her he gets upset and runs to me.
      Also my wife usually asks for me to pick him up from the bath and carry him to his room.
      We play another game where I'm a dump truck and he's a trash can, I pick him up from the front, flip him over my back, and shake him. My wife can't play that game

      It's kinda like the ox parable, the more you play with them the stronger you get

  13. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Cringe you are probably dyel as frick and this post s reams I'm 15. Taking a day off like she said won't hurt your noob gains squirt

  14. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    >typing out a long post about muh evil women instead of nicely explaining it to her in a way she can understand
    makes me think you're a fake. anyhow, just explain it, geez.

  15. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    te

  16. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    she fricks your black neighbour when you're out at the gym sorry anon

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      Mutts law

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        It's truly uncanny how fried their brains are.

  17. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    >iron jungle

  18. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    This is a prime example that you can still be a manchild even with a wide (mistake but she's probably fat anyway) and kids

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      >being a fit and healthy father is now being a manchild

  19. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Women only ask you that to test your resolve. She knows your answer, but if she can whittle you down a little and make you give up even a single workout she can get you to get a vasectomy next.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      Funny enough, my wife wanted me to do something one time. I said no, then she said what if we have sex right now, then you'll have to do it. So it was funny, I complied I was horny anyway. Fricked her, did the thing she asked for. 2 days later another thing came up. "Do it and we will have sex right now" immediately told her no. You should of seen her face. Women really will try to hold something over your head and make you do tricks like a dog. The first time it's cute and funny, second time you're trying to manipulate me. She doesn't do it anymore after that

  20. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    The irony is that if you followed her advice and stopped doing the gym regularly - over time she’d become less attracted to you.

    A lot of long term relationships lose their spice because one of the partners let’s themselves go.

    Men must always be in prime condition. This keeps her attracted and also subtly informs her to keep her figure as well. She’s less likely to put on the pounds if you’re not.

    Then you see couples who both let themselves go. What a sad state of affairs. Two unattractive whales. Don’t become that.

  21. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    When I met my gf she was the chubby/bbw type now she’s just chubby. I always made gym and health a large focus of the relationship and my personal goals. I always told her health was super important to me in a long term relationship. I’m also dyel as frick but I’ve been improving and she has too. Haven’t even been together for a year yet and she looks better than ever and is still improving. She also makes more money than me and I have a shitty retail job, she wants sex all the time and has never been more attracted to me.
    Being fit really is the answer to all your problems. But the key is to be actually fit and healthy. Not a bloated roid monster. Women like healthy athletic men, they’ll do anything for them.

  22. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    This anon has bought into the validity of his surrogate activity to such an extent that he has created a mythology around a chain gym full of dubious chang-clang machinery and its ability to give him beginner gains.

    Have a word with yourself

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      Sounds like you need to do the same

  23. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    sounds like she wants to chain you down
    how about finding side girls

  24. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Please tell me women do not really

  25. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    >CRAWWWWWLING IN MY SKIN
    you overdramatic homosexual lol

  26. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    >I just do
    Give her a proper answer.

  27. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    women who actually think you have value will non stop try to sabotage you because they are insecure, sounds like OP is doing it right to me

  28. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    Jesus you went full Reddit mode on her

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      >newbies calling others redditors

  29. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Why won't she workout with you?

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      She stays home with the baby and we don't have daycare/grandparents

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        Why won't you workout at home with her? You could use her as free weight to lift.
        I lift my gf for squats and bench her.

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          You do that everyday? 7 days a week, for up to 2 hours? It's cute once. The next 6 days it's demanding. She's tired from watching kids, last thing I want her to do is sacrifice her sleep for my autistic gym needs. I dont have a home gym either, so nowhere to do pull ups or cardio

          I'm going to the gym now so she can watch by example. When we are done with the newborn/todler phase, she will have years of watching me go to the gym which will make her going much easier. The longcon, but the pay offs are immediate

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah, well, I don't workout every single day per se, I don't need that. I just do push and pull and workout my legs by hiking in mountains or hilly areas. I also do mtb all year round and go to work on it aswell.
            If you wanna go full autist powerlifter, then I guess, you rly do need 10/10 gym.

  30. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    she's cheating on you

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      Why do you think that?

  31. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    >ITT: married betas
    you chose this.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      Lmao, the left chick's hair makes her shoulder + bicep look vascular as frick in the thumbnail

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      What is beta about sucking on boobs, having regular sex. And watching your son shoot his first deer?

      What should I be doing instead? Playing wow?

  32. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    How does one bounce back after a divorce? You guys called it around summer that if I married that girl I would end up divorcing her. I’m sure every one remembers my story.

    Anyway I decided not to rope but I need practical tips to get over it. I’m at my basement right now back with my parents. I gained 10kg with a lot of muscle in it thankfully. The problems I’m facing:
    Cucked confidence
    Lack of options
    Trrrible haircut
    Facebloat from bulk.

    I know I should lean max but how do I stoicmaxx? I’m constantly in dread and fear and females can scent it. HELP KINGS

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      >divorced after less than a year
      What's wrong with you?

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