Men Motivation vs Women Motivation

Do masculine motivational channels put too much pressure on men ? From a traditional masculine perspective man should always have the imputus to be better and always strive to be better because ultimately our primary role is to be providers. But to what extent is it too much? At what point can you tell yourself, I am enough or is do you consider that to be defeatist attitude?

Vid if you are interested, https://youtu.be/YduQ10-miTU

  1. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    If you are the best man in the world, it's still not enough because other men want your place.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      That's good, I don't like getting bored. Anyone who wants my place can put a bullet in my head, if they can do it before I blow their brains out.

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        You wanna have a dude put something inside you or you blow him? I dunno sounds pretty gay.

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        As a man, the world expects you to become better and better and better but this is an endless chase. You will never be perfect, you will never be good enough. This causes many guys to become depressed and feel inferior.

        What Tyler says about "self improvement is masturbation" has some truth to it.

        On ther side, women basically dont have to do anything to become better. Like this guy says, "you are perfect" even being a fat, lazy, dumb piece of shit. Doesnt matter, there will ALWAYS be a beta provider cuck who will pay for your bills. Women are blind to this fact, they think the same rules apply to men and women

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          >As a man, the world expects you to become better and better and better
          Nah it doesn't and you are probably too absorbed in a self improvement circle to know this. The world itself only cares that you are capable of surviving and reproducing. Society doesn't give a fuck if you sti around being a fat fuck, all they want is you producing money. Not even women want a man constantly improving, they merely want a man who has improved himself to the point where he can protect them and their potential family.

          No woman has ever met a guy making 600k a year and complained that he isn't trying to improve his standing in life.

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          Generally speaking if you make six figures and have a house no one is going to pressure you to get to a million except for yourself. There's a point where people start getting uncomfortable if you keep succeeding.

          The men who feel depressed and inferior are making $40k/yr, and that's because they are. Your body knows when you're a fuckup.

  2. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    At some point, not considering yourself to be enough indicates a lack of confidence. Modern masculinity is extremely shallow. The drive towards constant improvement toward a goal that no one can quite articulate is foolish, especially in current times when the world is changing and traditional ideas of success become less and less applicable.
    Imo you should integrate femininity and masculinity into your personality. The are virtues to both and ultimately balance is what will lead you toward a better life.
    The Greeks had this conception of eudaimonia, which was something that was valuable in itself. It was a terminal point whose value was considered implicit. Modern masculinity can border on deranged and masochistic, and often posits that there is no terminal point and that the only desirable action is "forward" toward some unspoken, unformed future. You should reject this and temper your striving with an appreciation for what is.

  3. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    When I can beat ten men alone in a fight. Then it'll be enough.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Lotta guns hold 10+1

  4. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    People that make videos on youtube noticed the algorithm tends to favor open mouths in thumbnails. Makes me kek when they integrate that optimization without actually emoting, just 😮 .

  5. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Some of that dude's content is bretty gud. I enjoyed his twitter employee gets a real job bit.

  6. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    That was extremely unfunny

  7. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    kys

  8. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    This is why meditation+lifting is the ultimate combo. You can genuinely achieve peace with yourself and the world by getting seriously worked out and sweaty and tired, eating a bunch, and then resting up in a comfortable, aware state.

    Too many people think sleep is enough for rest, but with mindfulness you take a moment out to train yourself to be comfortable doing nothing and quietly, calmly observing. In this way, we cultivate equanimity and non-attached presence, and potentially also a sense of companion and warm-heartedness towards our fellow beings. What could be more badass?

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      >meditation
      get out of here with that pseudo science trash.

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        >getting psyopped by the new age shit and avoiding the CBT-like tools
        based cuck

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        >meditation
        >a time-tested practice going back several millennia
        >pseudo-science
        Yep, clearly the solution to focusing one's mind is Adderall, jerking off to porn, and copious amounts of time spent staring at a screen. Everyone before the 21st century had it wrong.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      How do you meditate anon? You use any videos?

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        things like sewing can be meditative. i took it up to repair clothes. now i want to turn it into a hobby.

  9. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    men like create things
    men want to create things
    but create thing is hard, so you need to be hard
    simple as

  10. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    So my gym has this chalkboard up on the wall.
    If you do a PR for the owner in DL/back squat/ bench press, he'll write your name and number up on the board.
    I joined this gym five months ago and saw this motherfucker with a 505 lb bench press (raw, he has a separate board for gear scores). At this time, my bench max was 300 lbs. But I saw that 505 and I thought, "I want to beat that."
    In these five months I've trained chest obsessively. I hit 375 last week. I'm coming for that motherfucker and no one will stop me.
    Why did I blog post?
    Because there's a woman's name up on the squat board. She has a 475 lb squat. I've seen this chick, she's built like a tiny tank. Must be 5'2" or some shit, mid-thirties, impressive shit.
    Anyway, I've heard other women look up and see her number and talk about her. They talk about how she probably looks like a dude, takes steroids, cheats. I've even heard one suggest that the number is fake and she fucks the owner.
    Women do not typically feel motivate to improve. They feel motivated to destroy. They don't want to rise to a higher level and match someone else - they want to tear down the people around them and bring them to their level.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      The women are entirely right and women who are strong like that will fail to produce children properly.

  11. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Its paradoxical. You should have a basic sense that you are enough as you are. That even though you are not the best you can be, even though you might not be very good at all by any standards, there should still be a feeling that you are good enough. I don't know why that is, but that is the way it is. At the same time as that is true, you should still strive to improve your self, especially if you are lacking in many areas of your life. This is contradictory because if you are good enough as you are, why should you improve? I don't know. Another perspective is that if you are somewhat put together, you are in school or have a job, doesn't matter if you are blue collar, white collar low,mid highly educated, as long as you got a alright job, you got some friends a social life, you dress reasonably well, you are okayish mentally, not any major things wrong then you are good enough and you'll have a decent life with good things in it life friends, wife, kids, home, vacation, a comfortable life where you can pursue your hobbies and interest within reason. It can even be something very wrong with you and you are still good enough, worthy of human compassion and companionship. Love from friends family, community. You are okay anon, don't be so hard on your self. You don't have to be a 10/10 chad. You are good enough as a 5.1/10 and that is the truth.

    The internet and self improvement places are filled with narcissists and broken people that are chasing high achievements because they think that is what they need in order to be loved. These people weren't loved enough by their parents so they didn't develop as healthy sense of self worth, or they where traumatized, bullied or something of that nature. Do not fall for their trap thinking you have to be a 8/10 to even have friends or a girlfriend. The people that lack a basic acceptance that they are a 5/10 and think they should die because of that are people that are sick in their soul.

  12. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Girl motivation is just the signs they put arouhnd Planet Fitness

  13. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    stagnation = degeneration, its human nature to continuously improve. youre a fool if you think we as a species could create a peaceful utopia and not tear it to pieces out of boredom basically instantly

  14. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Shut up gay

  15. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    >men should strive to be more feminine
    >attributes a bunch of characteristics that don't belong to women to them
    You're gay and retarded, as all pseudo-psychologists are.

  16. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    >men should always strive to be better because ultimately our role is to be providers
    That's not why you should strive to be better, retard. You strive for excellence because that's really the only goal in life actually worth pursuing, you strive to be better because realizing your potential should come before all other things in the world. Woman can't understand this because even at their peak they can't compete with men in anything, but a woman that at least strives for excellence is worth a lot more than one who doesn't, in my eyes. The same obviously applies to men, much more in fact.

  17. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Past a certain age, all a man should care about improving is his bank account

  18. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    >telling the most feminine men in all generations to even more feminine
    You're a gay and retarded.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      I wouldnt give the same advice that I'm giving here to a basedboy.

  19. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    bunny gays

  20. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm tired of people telling me I have to live up to some label they put on people who look like me, or have the same genitals as me, or come from the same place as me.
    I'm just me bros, and it's all I'm ever gonna be.

  21. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    >women’s motivation
    All the successful women I’ve met have either used men’s or gender-neutral advice.
    I’m thoroughly convinced Girl Power and all that other bullshit is a psyop to raise the generation shittiest generation possible

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