>met wife at the gym when she was fit and tight. >over time she stopped lifting and gained weight

>met wife at the gym when she was fit and tight
>over time she stopped lifting and gained weight
>looks like this now
>gets upset any time I suggest she loses weight

I can't take it anymore, bros. How do I handle this? She makes twice as much as me, so I can't even use that. I'm basically a trophy husband at this point. I feel like I'm gonna cheat on her eventually if she keeps going like this.

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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Welcome to married life, yes, having affairs is the normal solution.

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Then do it. Once she notices your needs are met without her she'll act straight. You don't even have to actually do it just scare her straight, make her paranoid. It's the only way I promise.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I already barely have sex with her even though she's always badgering me for sex.

      • 3 weeks ago
        all fields

        Nah, she's a total straight edge. She can't even jaywalk. Also, she's really obsessed with making money and not asking me for any.

        have a nice day homosexual

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          What are you so upset about, incel?

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You in 10 years

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      LMFAO what the hell who created this

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        low budget productions

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >skinny dude resorts do fricking fat slampigs
        many such cases

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        this is the kind of art that can only be imagined with first hand experience

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        ahahaha I have the same question

        very good. speaks to me

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Kek. May I have the self respect to never let that happen to me.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I've been in this situation a few times.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      LEL,…horrible prospect, but so close to the truth for a lot of folks.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      It's not my proudest moment but atleast i had sex once

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Virginity would be preferable to that.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This is so true it's not fair bros. Women have it so easy it's ridiculous

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Literally me right now. My gf used to look like OPs.

        This is our reality. Women can get attention, shelter and sex no matter how messed up are their bodies.

        And men are doomed to having to tap low tier women no matter how hard they work out.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      COOOOK

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I wish my wife's ass was that big

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >mfw that was me 10 years ago

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This is me rn.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      i cant get over this shit, this image is a masterpiece
      the wojak looking in the mirror at himself but also the viewer with THAT expression, its wild

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      you can make money with these bro

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      does anyone know the source or have more of this artists images?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I have this one saved
        I know there are others out there

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        https://i.imgur.com/Nqb6nZs.jpeg

        I have this one saved
        I know there are others out there

        ill start dumping my folder for as long as i still care. i only have like 5 others though

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          might as well dump them all. They're fricking hilarious

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous
          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            might as well dump them all. They're fricking hilarious

            i dont know the original artist for sure. there was a thread a while back where some anon posted a few, sounded like he was making them himself.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous
              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                https://i.imgur.com/D4VPm0B.jpeg

                [...]
                ill start dumping my folder for as long as i still care. i only have like 5 others though

                last one i have. just a variation.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                https://i.imgur.com/MXYZ5DH.jpeg

                [...]
                i dont know the original artist for sure. there was a thread a while back where some anon posted a few, sounded like he was making them himself.

                to be fair these two ain't even that bad

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Yeah I think you have em all. I have five in total as well. There was a car one as well that ik I am missing.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      The image intersects a broad spectrum of feelings.
      Does it depress you?
      Make you diamonds?
      Even, nostalgic for the once and former slam pig now a distant memory?
      Like this anon pointed out

      i cant get over this shit, this image is a masterpiece
      the wojak looking in the mirror at himself but also the viewer with THAT expression, its wild

      I find the reflection haunting. It's as though he's lost in the moment contemplating these conflicting emotions where the past, present, and future, coincide to the rhythmic sound of flesh meeting flesh.

      Plap, plap, plap, plap...

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      How do I avoid this fate?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        don't marry a mexican or trailer trash. They're both guaranteed to blow up after age 25.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Literally me right now. My gf used to look like OPs.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >My gf used to look like OPs.
        thing is you should have realized OPs pic is also fat. look at the cellulite and chunks all over her. if she looks like that when shes single and at her best shes only going downhill.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous
    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      i lost my v card like this. i lasted 30 seconds then had to pull out and my first shot of nut hit the back of her head. is it over for me

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      l o l

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      pityfrickjaks are the future

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      American simps who encourage women this fat by screwing them and raising the fat prostitutes ego should be castrated

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Agreed

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      first time i've laughed at a wojak image in forever

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous
    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      pure kino.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Holy shit, imagine this happening to you. Jesus Christ.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        This happened to me, like literally almost picture perfectly, from the purple lighting room, fatass, round mirror, doggy style and pile of clothes. I literally took a picture in the bathroom mirror to remember how bad it felt

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          kek what about the mobility scooter in the back?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            no, replace that with an overflowed uncleaned litterbox. ill draw it some day

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              man I’ve been there before too. Right when I finished and the post nut clarity hit, the cat shit in the litter box and made the room smell even worse

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      https://i.imgur.com/Nqb6nZs.jpeg

      I have this one saved
      I know there are others out there

      Kino

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Missionary so you can watch her fat breasts.
      There. Problem solved

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Missionary so you can watch her fat breasts.
      There. Problem solved

      Also, doggy is a shit pose, objectively. You don't see any hot part (face & breasts), only a back that could be anyone.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >could be anyone
        Sometimes that's the point

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I've been in that scenario, except I was happy and I was flexing in the mirror, while simultaneously enjoying the waves the fat ass was creating while smashing my abs.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      YO.... I'm on day 15 NoFap and was feeling weak about a braphog from work who's constantly sexually harassing me. I'm glad this wojak exists and that I saw it in this moment, God literally spoke through your memes to me anon. Thank you.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      there's a classic IST screenshot about a guy fricking a hambeast, somebody post it

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This is unironically profound. If it were a painting it would be in a museum

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Op in a few years

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >the dirt on the mirror
      Exquisite

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous
  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    if she makes more than you, she's going to ditch you anyways. Cheat on her

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Nah, she's a total straight edge. She can't even jaywalk. Also, she's really obsessed with making money and not asking me for any.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >she's a total straight edge
        >she's really obsessed with making money
        If she was straight edge she would be shitting out kids and homeschooling them not chasing a back account number.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Who said she doesn't want kids? The only reason I'm holding off on that is because she'll get even fatter.

          >homeschooling
          Lol frick off. I'm not raising anti-social autistic losers.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >I'm not raising anti-social autistic losers
            Wouldn't want to have any sons that make less than their wives, are too cowardly to tell their wives to lose weight, and consider cheating because of muh dik. You're right you should send them to public school.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              What's wrong with public school?

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                they're ghastly, underfunded shitholes in red states and absolutely NOT a place where you would want to send your child. Anyone with money sends their kid to private school and anyone who doesn't have money but also doesn't want their child to be embroiled in turf wars between hicks and Black folk homeschools

                The ones in my area of rural Massachusetts are comparable to European schools and have separate departments for trade programs and AP classes for the kids headed to higher learning, but that's not typical in the US

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                You actually think that blue states have better schools? I actually laughed. They literally want to eliminate advanced classes for "equity" and the teachers are more focused on union BS than teaching. That plus thinking that "European schools" are something to strive for means that your opinion is completely invalid.

                I hope that you're one day able to scrape together enough savings to live out your Europoor dream.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >You actually think that blue states have better schools?
                unironically yes. I see boys graduating from high school ready to go on to careers as mechanics, electricians, and carpenters. I also see ones entering college as sophomores because they already have so many credits from AP classes. I also know that there are some shitty school districts particularly in the poor minority areas, but on a whole public schools are far, far better here than any public school I ever saw in a red state where people would rather send them to private schools to be brainwashed into mindless, incurious Christcucks

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                The psychological damage from "diversity" is too great to quantify. Sure AP classes or whatever help segregate but they still have to deal with these kids in electives. They still have to avoid the occasional Black person brawl in the hallway. They have to play sports with Black folk. The list goes on.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >They literally want to eliminate advanced classes for "equity"
                They only say this, but it will never happen in a school district with white, israeli, or asian parents.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                the israelites are the ones coming up with it in the first place
                the asians will go along to get along but send their kids to private tutoring
                the whites eat it up
                all three send their kids to private school the second they can afford to even when they push this shit for public school kids
                public schools should be abolished

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >sending your kids to the equivalent of the public zoo

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              yes? thats the point? life is a jungle, they have to become the pack leaders or solitary predators, but they have to go through the zoo

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >being poor and living in a shitty school district
              lmao

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >I want my kids to be sheltered and autistic

                Enjoy your kids getting bullied by shaniqua and Tyrone, timmy

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                The shaniquas all had crushes on me and the Tyrones were my friends/respected me.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                You do know that "Timmy" shot the Black person who asked him what the frick he was gon' do.

                The solution is make sure that your son toughens the frick up and doesn't go through life like a b***h getting dabbed on

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                My kid's kindergarten class has exactly 0 black kids in it. Not everyone here lives in the shithole south or some ghetto inner city.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >I want my kids to be sheltered and autistic

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Why the frick would anyone have kids these days? I have a choice between
            >Sexy, fit wife that ages gracefully because she never squeezed out a rugrat and had time to take care of herself
            Or
            >Fat, ugly, matronly hag that will never lose the weight because she has "I grew a whole human" excuse and a screaming, screen addicted goblin that will likely get brainwashed by social media into being a homosexual and brainwashed into hating me no matter how good of a parent I am.
            Which one you think I'm gonna pick?

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              You will try to go with the first, then get extremely bored of her.
              Then you will either cheat on her or stay bitter and resentful

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                I've been fricking the same girl for 10 years. Obviously it's not as exciting as losing your virginity but I'm definitely not tired of it. My wife has a great personality but this is IST and no one cares about that. She's built like picrel except she's white and no tattoos, has a 26 inch waist and a 40 inch ass. Have you been outside to see what she's competing with? Why the frick would I give up plowing a body like this by cheating? You're either (1) young and never been in love (2) a porn addict or (3) your girl is fricking ugly. Possibly all of the above, either way you're a homosexual.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                I think porn and the internet killed romance. And I don’t just mean that in a flowers and chocolate kind of way, but in the original sense of the word. When you’re with a woman for a decade plus you have a bond that can’t be replaced by casual sex. I still remember by last hookup before I settled down. The sex was amazing but there was a weirdly hollow feeling after. I feel bad for guys whose minds have been obliterated by the internet and porn into thinking that’s the ultimate goal

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                It's all about effort. Porn takes none, hookups are short term effort. Great sex and romance in a marriage is a lot of work but it's worth it.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Feminism/female empowerment killed romance or the relationship between the sexes, women haven't been women for years and insisted on creating men that weren't men but still want the original roles at the same time. The internet just let's you see more clearly and quickly how much of a repulsive lost cause women are because they can't shut the frick up and NOT post everything they're doing wrong online.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Oh wow another ISTner who has a sexy loyal fit wife with a huge tight ass. So original
                The projection was also a great original touch.
                Never seen that before either.

                >Im gonna keep my hypothetical wife childless to just coom endlessly in my little cuck condom while she takes hormone destroying pills.
                Talk about being a young porn addicted ugly person....

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                She has an IUD. No hormones. I'm not posting her pics so I can't prove anything to you. Believe what you like. The caveat is she's been fat before and I stayed loyal. That was rough but my loyalty has been awarded. That won't happen to OP though.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Moderately based

                She has an IUD. No hormones. I'm not posting her pics so I can't prove anything to you. Believe what you like. The caveat is she's been fat before and I stayed loyal. That was rough but my loyalty has been awarded. That won't happen to OP though.

                Cringe. I fricked up my wife's body by giving her a baby and I want to do it every damned day since. Seeing her as a mother is the ultimate completion of her as a woman and you're letting her down by withholding it

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >my reductionistic view of women only is objectively correct and will always occur
              moron. You sour, humanity hating weak men always expose yourselves with your warped world views. Nieztsche called you a gay 200 years ago. (He was right.)

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                I don't hate humanity. I show respect to parents because someone has to do it or the species dies. I just don't know why anyone would actually want kids these days. If they wanna be miserable to perpetuate the species then great, glad it's not me. Also I can't tell if you're a woman or not. I am thinking you are because only a woman would say something this moronic. 1/10 women who gives birth doesn't become a fat unfrickable hag. Great, the exception doesn't disprove the rule.

                Moderately based

                [...]
                Cringe. I fricked up my wife's body by giving her a baby and I want to do it every damned day since. Seeing her as a mother is the ultimate completion of her as a woman and you're letting her down by withholding it

                > t. The lengths people will go to in order to justify an irrevocable decision.
                My wife is really the one that doesn't want kids. If she really wanted to and agreed to do all the parenting while I paid for everything and played with it then I would knock her up to make her happy.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                A woman who doesn’t want kids especially after her friends start having kids is a big fricking red flag.

                Imagine staying with a broad who doesn’t want kids and you give up on procreation. Leisure and hobbies only take you so far and when you’re both 50 it’s going to be super bleak.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Everybody should be free to make their own decisions. But when a person doesn't want kids it tells you ALOT about them and what they value in life.

                They're the types to go to sleep dreaming of hedonism, taking drugs, having sex non stop, eating whatever they want.

                They're the type of people that view hedonism as the end all be all, they'll come to realize that that lifestyle will bring you nothing but misery. Nothing will make you feel more empty inside, less fulfilled than a life in which you seek nothing but pleasure.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                When you're 50 your kids will speak to you about once a month and see you out of obligation on holidays. Once a week if you're lucky. I really hope that's not all you have to live for at that age because holy shit that is grim. You also have a 1/5 chance and growing every year of having a gay son. You already know your daughter will be a thot. Inb4
                >Not my kids
                Yes your kids, you're not the special exception.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >When you're 50 your kids will speak to you about once a month and see you out of obligation on holidays
                IG if you're an insufferable homosexual with nothing to offer?

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                20% of people arent gay, what kind of ridiculous gay propaganda have you been reading

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Zoomers. And I just Googled it, it's 30% of zoomers now, not 20. Our kids will be 40% homosexuals, our daughters will be twice the prostitutes that our generation's women were, they'll let people marry dogs. Once you let homosexualry in, your society falls further and further into degeneracy. By the end of it we'll be like the Greeks and we'll be fine with pedophilia--the ((people)) running the world already are.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Nah shits goin' DOWN, yo!
                Bout to get CRAY up in dis b***h!

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                iirc those numbers are being driven by brainwashed girls. I don't think zoomer boys are actually gay at higher rates than before, appearances aside.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Most of those numbers are women calling themselves Bi because they think some women look pretty, are afraid of men/had a bad experience, or want to be more ((inclusive)). It's still very bad but not as bad as the numbers would have you believe.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                When you're 50 you should have multiple children all having grandkids for you to spend time with.
                This whole thread is full of israeli anti-natalists gaslighting white people into not reproducing and the morons at IST fell right into it.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                kek you're 20 at most overdosing on redpills

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Who said she doesn't want kids?
            lol
            >48_years_old_want_someday_meme.jpg

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >she's really obsessed with making money and not asking me for any.
        I found your problem. You married a man, and she married you because you're evidently basically a woman.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Well, normally the man is supposed to be raising the woman's lifestyle, but you failed spectacularly in that department. God I hate weak men so much it's unreal

        If she didn't work, sure. But she does and we split the bills on everything. You what's funny? She usually has to borrow from me at the end of the month because she spends her money on absolute garbage.

        [...]
        Lol. What are you basing this on? Women's worth is entirely based on their looks. No one gives a shit about a woman's income and career.

        >Also, she's really obsessed with making money and not asking me for any.
        >You what's funny? She usually has to borrow from me at the end of the month because she spends her money on absolute garbage.
        explain yourself

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Do you understand what borrowing means? She pays me back. She doesn't want me to buy her shit.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Sounds like you have a husband, not a wife. No wonder she won't listen to you, your roles in the relationship are reversed

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Depends. Like for high work level jobs that make money, Hinge is absolutely brimming with desperate female lawyers. For a woman to be in that kind of high work, high education field she has to be kind of autistic or something. Your average 20 year old starbucks barista has more confidence than a 25 year old law student with a triple figure job lined up. If you're fit and having a working wiener you can keep any woman.

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >blue hair
    >tattoos

    I bet you are both garbage

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      That's not her, moron.

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >dyed blue strands of hair
    its over

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >doesn't read filenames
      Fricking newbie. Zoomers are literally brain-dead.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >she looks like this
        >NOT LITERALLY, DUH

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          What does the word "like" mean you collosal homosexual?

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You should probably divorce her so she can find a better husband. I mean damn bro she makes your income, has stuck by you all this time, and now you're considering cheating because she looks average? You're such low value husband man what do you even bring to the table? I can't believe you typed this out wanting sympathy.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      twice* your income excuse me, even worse.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I make above average income myself. She just makes more. I don't need her money and I supported her while she was studying.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        And now, like her, you have lost significant value. You don't raise her life style, she raises yours. You bring nothing to the table. You call yourself a trophy husband but you're more like a ball and chain. And now you can't even stay faithful because she gained a few pounds after getting married? WTF did you think was going to happen?
        >I supported her while she was studying.
        Do you want some kind of a reward? Wow I supported a girl while she was hot and frickable. Now she gained weight and I literally can't stop myself from eventually cheating.
        She really fricked up choosing you man. So many guys out there and this is the one she ended up with.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          You're a roastie, aren't you? No one else would defend a woman getting fat after marriage. A free tip, honey: women can't raise a man's lifestyle because you don't pay for our shit.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            If you want to be babied by opinions that agree with you, don't go onto a website that's 18+. What kind of weak coping homosexual receives criticism and decides the only answer is it must be coming from a woman?
            >A free tip, honey: women can't raise a man's lifestyle because you don't pay for our shit.
            Well, normally the man is supposed to be raising the woman's lifestyle, but you failed spectacularly in that department. God I hate weak men so much it's unreal

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >Well, normally the man is supposed to be raising the woman's lifestyle, but you failed spectacularly in that department.

              Awfully sexist to assume a man has to raise a women's lifestyle. Stop infantilzing women.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >Awfully sexist to assume a man has to raise a women's lifestyle. Stop infantilzing women.
                I hope this is a joke

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                it is
                he's trying to press the narrative that he is some feminist roastie for
                not agreeing with the weak homosexual op who acts like a literal b***h

                Do you understand what borrowing means? She pays me back. She doesn't want me to buy her shit.

                not convincing, homosexual larper

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Women are infantile, have you ever been in an argument with one?

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >Well, normally the man is supposed to be raising the woman's lifestyle, but you failed spectacularly in that department. God I hate weak men so much it's unreal

              If she didn't work, sure. But she does and we split the bills on everything. You what's funny? She usually has to borrow from me at the end of the month because she spends her money on absolute garbage.

              https://i.imgur.com/HxthfIN.jpeg

              >If she doesn't then her income doesn't actually matter if he's barely seeing any of it.
              What matters is he is literally worth half what she is but thinks he's owed some fit frickable wife because balding sub 5'10 divorced dudes on podcasts said so.

              Lol. What are you basing this on? Women's worth is entirely based on their looks. No one gives a shit about a woman's income and career.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >Women's worth is entirely based on their looks. No one gives a shit about a woman's income and career.
                This is where OP and his wife went wrong. They live unnatural lives, they were tricked by israeli teachers that a woman's money matters, that she needs it, that both genders are equal. The longer you live in deceit, the more stress it gives you and the harder reality will snap back

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >Well, normally the man is supposed to be raising the woman's lifestyle,
              Not for the last 50 years. As soon as women started working, they lost that privilege. Thank your local feminist. If I can't get a sandwich served to me by a thin woman in a sundress, then she can't get doted on.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Nta but you do sound like a triggered roastie. If you’re really a guy, can you actually not put yourself in the shoes of a guy who NEEDS sex yet is utterly repulsed by his wife? It’s a predicament we’re all afraid of, don’t even try to deny this

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Seconding this.
          Anyone who thinks they're justified in cheating because their spouse gained weight is a complete piece of shit. You took a vow before God to be faithful to her, and yet you're fine breaking that vow like it's nothing. You are absolutely 100% not a man, you're a child. And you deserve anything bad that happens to you.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            In essence it's
            >I ruined this woman, now let me go ruin another

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >You took a vow before God

            Lol frick off christcuck. Civil marriage. Your israelite fairytales mean nothing to us.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >civil marriage
              the same institution that brought us gays playing house
              good job idiot, you played yourself

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                gay marriage is illegal here. Keep seething.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >gay marriage is illegal here.
                sounds like you need a little democracy coming your way at mach 1.4, anon
                hope your non-religion saves you from globohomo

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You couldn’t be any more wrong. Men will always be 100% justified to cheat. As a man, getting women is an uphill challenge so any opportunity that arises must be taken. Men have to cheat as much as possible because it’s in their benefit to do so especially if they got fit recently and missed out before. There’s nothing more important for a man than to have a mistress or rotation of women. Women on the other hand cannot cheat, they go through life getting easy access to sex and can and will use sex as a resource to obtain whatever they want. They all have this secret cabal not to frick in their relationship and will gain weight once they see they don’t need to put effort. Frick that, men cheating will always be justified.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              This guy gets it. Especially since for most men they are late bloomers so by the time they’re 40 they are often in the best shape and financial/social position of their life but instead of playing around and reaping the fruits (as women do in their youth) they’re chained to some sexless harpy.

              I don’t see anything wrong with cheating so long as you do it right: don’t let your wife/family find out, play it safe to not get STIs and don’t fall in love.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >but instead of playing around and reaping the fruits (as women do in their youth) they’re chained to some sexless harpy.
                You couldn’t have said it any better. I’ll be honest I missed out early on in my adolescence and eventually got in a relationship that is now 7+ years. Things have slowed down and I know she’s putting little effort to keep me around.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Same with me. I missed out on some things because I had zero self confidence as a teen. As a freshman I turned down or pretended I didn’t notice obvious advances literally 20 times because I was to scared. Now I’m in the best physical shape of my life, I make 6 figures and have a great career, I am a great talker and have a sort of eccentric charisma. And I’m married and my sex life is far from ideal and it was creating a lot of friction between us and I was getting resentful and angry.

                Now I just cheat whenever I’m away at conferences. Peak COVID made me realize life is short and I’d rather take life by the horns than turn into some bitter resentful husband who peaked later in life but had his balls locked away. My father in law is like that and frick that.

                So I’m a great father, good husband, good colleague, good friend and neighbor. I just have sex with other women opportunistically and it is exciting and fulfilling. I will never get my youth back but I’m enjoying playing around now. If I refused to talk to my wife would I be justified in being upset that she sought socialization from other people? Of course not. Sex is a key part of a relationship and while cheating isn’t ideal it allows me to continue in this relationship and be content with sex 3-4 times a month with her.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Now shoe on the other foot, you're wife is getting sex elsewhere. She is sucking dick with the same lips she kisses you with. How does this make you feel anon?

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >but what if…?
                His wife isn’t cheating on him IRL so why should he care

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                And his wife thinks he isn't cheating irl. What's to say everytime he is away at a conference, jamaal isn't round there railing her too.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Ok but him cheating or not doesn’t affect whether or not she cheats, so why should he care. If she is cheating on him then it’s only fair that he does too. If she’s not - sucks for her. So why not? (If he actually is in this situation it’s most likely a LARP)

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Because you'll find a lot of people who cheat would be outraged if they caught their partner cheating. People are hypocrites. I was asking him if he is a hypocrite. If he doesn't care if she is, then that is fair enough. I just find it hard to believe that he won't care.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Men have different needs than women. As long as he's taking care of his family I don't see the issue.
                Throughout historyb married men have had concubines, mistresses, prostitutes or slaves available to them because their wives were for producing offspring not pleasure.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Ah so you are a hypocrite then. As long as she is taking care of the house and kids, nothing wrong with jamaal taking care of her either. Throughout history, women have had affairs with the help and stable boys, while their husbands have been away on business matters.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >I just have sex with other women opportunistically and it is exciting and fulfilling.
                I'm about to start a job that has me travel and stay all over the world for up to 2 weeks at a time. How do you hook up with girls on the road?

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                you are deluding yourself if you still count yourself as a good father and husband. The problem with cheating is you stop making the effort to fix your relationship. The toll of your discretions will come someday - suddenly and hard.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Same, except I have a problem where me and this girl hit it off so well I may leave my wife.

                We're literally perfectly compatible. Unfortunately we have a one year old and I don't know what to do, but I essentially checked out and want out.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                That’s tough. Kids make things very complicated and it wasn’t until I had kids that I realized how horrible it would be to divorce.

                you are deluding yourself if you still count yourself as a good father and husband. The problem with cheating is you stop making the effort to fix your relationship. The toll of your discretions will come someday - suddenly and hard.

                I haven’t stopped making an effort it’s just that I’ve come to terms with my wife’s decreased sex drive since we had kids. It doesn’t and won’t match mine so I go elsewhere to get my fill. Nothing more profound than that.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              This guy gets it. Especially since for most men they are late bloomers so by the time they’re 40 they are often in the best shape and financial/social position of their life but instead of playing around and reaping the fruits (as women do in their youth) they’re chained to some sexless harpy.

              I don’t see anything wrong with cheating so long as you do it right: don’t let your wife/family find out, play it safe to not get STIs and don’t fall in love.

              >woman-tier rationalizations

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Why is it that they get all the opportunity to enjoy their sexuality and options, sometimes even during a relationship, and the man has to be this stoic ascetic individual missing out all because of “woman tier rationalizations”. I’d rewrite that as human tier rationalizations because it will always be in our nature to desire sex. They shouldn’t be monopolizing it. Men need to be Cheating at all times.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                You sounded like a woman before, now you just sound like an incel.
                Men and women are different. Break free of your feminist programming.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                It’s never fair man.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Life isn't fair, get over it.
                Men are fungible and replaceable, sperm are less valuable than eggs. We are imbued with the instinct to protect and coddle women because we need them to survive: as a family, as a tribe, as a nation, as a species.
                Incels have a pity party over this simple biological fact because they want to be women. They are literally trans women, men with the brains of women, but none of the biological characteristics that make women more valuable.
                Men say frick all the gay shit and do what they need to do to create a better life for themselves, their family, and their nation.
                Keep your eyes forward and lead the women in your life towards a more wholesome and chaste existence instead of reacting to their trifiling bullshit.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                you're mentally ill

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                You're satan

                Not an Incel I’m in a 7+ year relationship but often feel too neglected because I’m always working on myself, my career, and our future and I notice she’s not doing her part and doesn’t go out of her way to make me feel wanted or as if the work I’m doing is valued. It’s tiresome and I feel trapped because I know she’s good to me and good for me but I find myself always believing the grass is greener. Part of me knows it isn’t, but the other part is always wondering and fantasizing. The stuff you said holds truth though.

                >I feel
                >I feel
                >I feel

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Ah I get it, you’re one of those people who thinks men have to be stoic and cannot do anything beyond your pseudo-Christian /misc/ fake Greek statue shit. Commit suicide at your nearest convenience.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                You sound like a woman.
                This is why your gf doesn't respect you.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                how many times have you been told you sound like a b***h at this point?
                are you autistic by any chance?

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Not an Incel I’m in a 7+ year relationship but often feel too neglected because I’m always working on myself, my career, and our future and I notice she’s not doing her part and doesn’t go out of her way to make me feel wanted or as if the work I’m doing is valued. It’s tiresome and I feel trapped because I know she’s good to me and good for me but I find myself always believing the grass is greener. Part of me knows it isn’t, but the other part is always wondering and fantasizing. The stuff you said holds truth though.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >Keep your eyes forward and lead the women in your life towards a more wholesome and chaste existence instead of reacting to their trifiling bullshit.

                Kek lil bro hoped on the thankless pack mule train.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >Men and women are different. Break free of your feminist programming

                Which is why men can cheat

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Obviously cheating would make him a piece of shit, but gaining weight makes her a piece of shit. At least OP is thinking about how to improve their situation, something women don't do

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Everyone talking about how she makes more than OP so whatever needs to come back and read this. Her current financial situation is a result of OP's investment.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >oh no anon has standards and is disappointed the woman he married is completely different to the woman he now has

      homosexual. Not everyone desperately clings to the first crumb of pussy that will willingly give you a modicum of attention. How hard is it to hit the treadmill 20 min a day after work

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >completely different
        She gained like 15 pounds come down off that period Sabrina.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Another week, another “my wife got fat, what do I do?” thread. If anyone here had the definitive answer to your question, they’d be a billionaire by now.

      It sure is roastie in here. Gotta love how women get to have zero accountability for themselves. God forbid a man wants to be sexually attracted to his wife, right?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Gotta love how women get to have zero accountability for themselves.
        Women don't have agency, anon.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >zero accountability for themselves
        He makes half what she does and brings nothing to the table but is crying about how he's powerless to stop himself from cheating because she went from hot to average after marriage (did he think this wouldn't happen????)
        Weak men make hard times. Stop making excuses for them.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >she went from hot to average after marriage (did he think this wouldn't happen????)

          All men see women let themselves go after marriage, they just think it won't happen to them because she's special and loves him.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >did he think this wouldn't happen???
          Why do roasts think this is normal? I'm just as fit as I used to be before I met her. Getting fat is not okay.

          >and brings nothing to the table
          Except for at least half of the bills and housework. Keep seething, fatass.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >mean damn bro she makes your income

      If she actually takes up the bulk of household spending then sure. If she doesn't then her income doesn't actually matter if he's barely seeing any of it.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >If she doesn't then her income doesn't actually matter if he's barely seeing any of it.
        What matters is he is literally worth half what she is but thinks he's owed some fit frickable wife because balding sub 5'10 divorced dudes on podcasts said so.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >What matters is he is literally worth half what she is but thinks he's owed some fit frickable wife

          So if a man is double a women's net worth he can get as fat and slobby as he wants and she doesn't get to complain, while still fricking him when he wants

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      What I have noticed in my young life so far is that women cant be convinced to do something by the power of words.

      The only way you can convince a woman to do something is through the power of a group.
      Hang around fit and tight people.
      Bring fit and tight people to your house.
      Have her meet fit and tight women etc

      Do you even know what marriage under God means? The two incomplete halves become one.
      >You are fine the way you are honey
      Do you train only your right arm or only your left arm?
      Hell no. You train both equally.
      The body your wife has in also your responsibility.

      If she constantly refuses to adhere to the path you carve it means that she is not your other half. Simple as

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        You will never be christian.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Do you even know what marriage under God means? The two incomplete halves become one.
        Hollywood trope. You need two whole individuals to form a union. If you have an incomplete person looking for someone to complete them the relationship is fricked from the start, god or no.

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Heehee my butt

    >is flat
    >is flabby

    Very disrespectful.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      frick off sybb

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >She makes twice as much as me, so I can't even use that.
    Pathetic.

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If you're juicy and she's not, you're in luck - it's beach season. Go get you a bunch of goddam mires right in front of her at the pool and beach. Lap up the attention, let her get the message the hard way. You don't have to cheat on her, but make sure she understands you have all the options you could want.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I do that every year, it doesn't work. She just whines a bit and that's it.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Does your wife actually believe there's a threat to her ownership of you? You may have to start reciprocating the mires a little. Flirt back. She needs to get upset enough about it to do something, and it's up to you to push that until you find the line.

        If she just absolutely does not give a frick no matter what, time to start evaluating your marriage. I shudder to suggest it, but couples therapy could work. She makes more money? Great, divorce goes in your favor. Don't cheat, you need to be clean as can be in divorce court.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          You need to make her feel jealous by flirting with younger and hotter women

          Then do it. Once she notices your needs are met without her she'll act straight. You don't even have to actually do it just scare her straight, make her paranoid. It's the only way I promise.

          Welcome to married life, yes, having affairs is the normal solution.

          OR, he could stop being a pussy and just tell her to lose weight.
          >heh you need to cuck her or flirt with other women. Make her feel like a piece of dog shit. Then she'll lose weight.
          I swear IST needs a race verification system to keep browntards out.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Not OP, but I did this with my gf 9 months ago and we almost broke up cuz of it. She was on a diet for a month before slowly stopping and regaining the weight. Part of me regrets not cutting the cord back then since I get so many obvious mire from actual fit women

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              I was upfront about it and had the opposite experience. I basically said I respect her too much to not tell her and that I didn't want to resent her. It was hard for her to hear but it was fine. She was very fit in the past though so she enjoyed getting back into it. You also have to support her in whatever way you need to like making sure she has a set time to go to the gym, compliment her, encourage her, etc.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Wow, someone who's actually mature and intelligent on IST. It's like finding a unicorn.

                >OR, he could stop being a pussy and just tell her to lose weight.

                How you know this moron has never had a girlfriend. Any type of criticism that could be upsetting they will get upset.

                >How you know this moron has never had a girlfriend. Any type of criticism that could be upsetting they will get upset.
                Grow the frick up and act like a man. If you're scared of your girlfriend or wife getting upset with you for being honest with her, you're a pussy who deserves to be walked all over by her. It's literally your responsibility as the man in her life to guide her, to be her leader. Not in an oppressive way, she's not your fricking slave, she's more like your daughter, you need to treat her like someone who you're responsible for taking care of. And a man being afraid of his wife/gf is as pathetic as a father being afraid of his child.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                This is all essential. But most girls will test your mettle, and you have to never relent. If she starts making good progress and then starts backsliding, you need to tell her. Not in a “arggg what is wrong with you!?” way, but more in a “aww you were doing such an amazing awesome job. Is everything ok? Are you ok? No you didnt lose all your progress, it’s normal to backslide, just dont give up! You got this!”

                Just think about the emotional manipulation play the israelites used on women to get them to willingly enter the workforce. You need to use the same play. It works. “You are awesome. Everything you do is great. Nothing you do is bad. It would even be more awesome if you did [thing i want you to do], cuz i think it’s really badass when people [do thing i want you to do]. And if you start doing [thing i want you do to], i will be very very impressed. But if you don’t, it doesn’t matter. Cuz everything you do is good.”

                Never attack her head on. But you can pair the “everything you do is awesome” with “look at that OTHER woman who is a fat disgusting slob omg”. She will pretend you shouldnt say that about other women, cuz she is virtue signaling, but her internal experience of you saying that would be “yea that woman is disgusting. But wait am i as fat as her? Omg does he secretly think I’M FAT?!?!” Then she’ll continue exercising. If she doesn’t react this way and instead starts purposely getting fat to test your faithfulness or something, obviously dump her.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Kek. I did the same 6 years into my relationship. She was doing some "dancing meditation" and I just walked up and said "hey - you're FAT". She thanked me and lost the weight in 3 months. Couple years later told me she respects me for it, and thanked me.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            And just makes you think we haven't talked about it? She's been on a "diet" for months now and has lost exactly zero kilograms.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >OR, he could stop being a pussy and just tell her to lose weight.

            How you know this moron has never had a girlfriend. Any type of criticism that could be upsetting they will get upset.

  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >"Bite me" tattoo
    This bawd is not marriage material anyway just threaten to dump her and don't bluff.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Why are there so many moronic newbies on this board who can't figure out that's not OP's woman?

  12. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I remember reading another post where an Anon was in the same predicament as you. Although his wife knew and understood the benefits of working out, she wasn't willing to actually go to the gym with him.

    Then he watched a movie called The Whale with her. Upon watching it, she made the realization on her own that, if she didn't do something about it now, that she would end up like the protagonist. He said:
    >She is determined now.

    So that would be my recommendation to you. You can either be upfront (i.e. "This is why I want you to stay in shape.") or secretive (i.e. "One of my friends recommended this movie to me. Would you like to watch it with me?") about it. Ultimately, she has to want it for herself, not because you want her to; this is the most effective strategy that I've seen for it. Good luck.

  13. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >wife wants sex but doesn't give it to her
    >my wife looks worse but I would love to be fricking her every day yet she has 0 desires, hormonal problems that made her go through menopause at 30, and only ever is willing to give a hand job which is terrible and filled with disinterested boredom

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Same X10
      >When we have kids will you still have sex with me?
      >Sure anon, you just wait...
      Sex 1 time a month
      Have to nag for a week beforehand
      Then have to tell now is the time
      Get to bed naked, she still playing with her phone, have to ask her to undress and start the sexy time.
      All of the above while getting fatter by the day.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >um honey can you please get off your phone
        Grab that shit and throw it. She will like it trust me.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        You're lucky you even get it once a month I get it once a year if I'm lucky.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          holy shit.is marriage life really doomed like this?do women just stop getting horny
          whats the point of having a wife if you need to jerk off to some porn

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Your kid become the priority and your sex drive starts to decline but usually out of sync with your wife’s. Life becomes less about you and more about your family BUT sex is still very important to a relationship there is no denying that.

            Once a month or year is totally on those anons. For whatever reason they won’t communicate with their wives properly. I would straight up tell my wife that I was considering cheating if I was in that position and all else failed. Let her know sex is critical and if she doesn’t want to provide then it’s either I get it elsewhere or we breakup the family. Put the ball in her court. But that’s assuming I tried everything and also didn’t turn into a fat slob who treats her like my mom or whatever. You need to keep the romance alive and put in more effort.

            Everybody should be free to make their own decisions. But when a person doesn't want kids it tells you ALOT about them and what they value in life.

            They're the types to go to sleep dreaming of hedonism, taking drugs, having sex non stop, eating whatever they want.

            They're the type of people that view hedonism as the end all be all, they'll come to realize that that lifestyle will bring you nothing but misery. Nothing will make you feel more empty inside, less fulfilled than a life in which you seek nothing but pleasure.

            I know plenty of DINKs and they are pure materialists/consoomers living for the pleasure principle. They live bleak lives but tell themselves they’ve got it made and kids are such a drag look how miserable and sleep deprived all parents are. They are members of a hedonist antinatalist death cult. But they have more disposable income so all us parents are sooooo envious kek ya fricking right

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Married a Latina from the deep south.
            Rough sex on tap 15 years and counting.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Your kid become the priority and your sex drive starts to decline but usually out of sync with your wife’s. Life becomes less about you and more about your family BUT sex is still very important to a relationship there is no denying that.

            Once a month or year is totally on those anons. For whatever reason they won’t communicate with their wives properly. I would straight up tell my wife that I was considering cheating if I was in that position and all else failed. Let her know sex is critical and if she doesn’t want to provide then it’s either I get it elsewhere or we breakup the family. Put the ball in her court. But that’s assuming I tried everything and also didn’t turn into a fat slob who treats her like my mom or whatever. You need to keep the romance alive and put in more effort.

            [...]
            I know plenty of DINKs and they are pure materialists/consoomers living for the pleasure principle. They live bleak lives but tell themselves they’ve got it made and kids are such a drag look how miserable and sleep deprived all parents are. They are members of a hedonist antinatalist death cult. But they have more disposable income so all us parents are sooooo envious kek ya fricking right

            This advice of communicating is absolute bullshit. Men have zero leverage in the modern world. Told my sexless wife that I've had enough and she told me to initiate divorce. Men aren't allowed to have needs, it just irritates women and gives them a vulnerability to pick at.

            Even if it works, the sex would be terrible. You cannot force her to be into you.

            If I take the divorce road, my kids will forever know me as the piece of shit who walked out on his family over some tail. Sex isn't so good that I'm willing to watch some other dude raise my kids while paying for half of all the expenses.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Sex is expected in a marriage. The whole point of a romantic relationship is sexual exclusivity. You are literally vowing to only have sex with one person for the rest of your life. If they aren't providing that, then they aren't keeping their end of the bargain, and there's no shame in leaving. Men especially need sex to be mentally healthy. Your children should be able to understand that at some point.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I'm 45 and we typically only frick 2-3 times per month, usually while she's ovulating. But at this point that's plenty for me. Much more than that gets to be kind of a hassle to the point I'd rather take 5 minutes to jerk off and get back to whatever else was doing with my personal time.
            Wife isn't obese, not super-fit but kept her shape remarkably well despite popping out 2 kids. It's just not the priority it was when I was in my 20s or even 30s. I'm sure if I had a harem of 20 year old 9/10 thots I'd want to frick more often, but still not like when I was younger.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >start the sexy time
        You're a redditor, fix your cucked behavioral problems and your wife will suddenly want to frick you again. Srs.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        That life sounds miserable asf ngl.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Same X10
      >When we have kids will you still have sex with me?
      >Sure anon, you just wait...
      Sex 1 time a month
      Have to nag for a week beforehand
      Then have to tell now is the time
      Get to bed naked, she still playing with her phone, have to ask her to undress and start the sexy time.
      All of the above while getting fatter by the day.

      You're lucky you even get it once a month I get it once a year if I'm lucky.

      I haven't had sex or even a handjob since my wife got pregnant fifteen months ago.

      I miss it so much, guys. I'd say I try to initiate it once a week, but she just shoves me away or makes a comment about me thinking about only one thing.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Why do You allow her to be so disrespectful? I would tell her to enjoy being a single mother and bail.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          You're so giga based and rad.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >just be a doormat to an out of control b***h

            If only you could do this without losing the kid, losing the house, and 50% of everything else you own

            You could take your child with you but you'd have to make haste. I rent Black person and goodluck catching me to pay anything. Catch me if you can.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >If that were me, I'd just hop on my motorcycle and ride off into the sunset while getting a blowjob from three models

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          If only you could do this without losing the kid, losing the house, and 50% of everything else you own

  14. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >I can't take it anymore, bros
    Then make that clear to her and if things aren't changing then leave.
    Can you not have a straightforward and direct conversation with your own fricking wife?

  15. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    So i got back with my ex gf 1 month ago because she was reaching me all the time and i eventually gave in and we fricked and we had been having a great time since then. She told me on the space of 5 months she didn't frick anyone which is true but she was hanging out with the other neighbor almost every day she told me but nothing to worry about. 3 days ago when we walked the dogs the other guy appeared and i didn't say hi because i was on a phone call and she proceeded to defend him that i did 'wrong' for not saying hi. 2 Days ago she kept tallking about the guy and i started smelling something fishy so i went through her messages with him: When she was single she was sending him photos with her underwear, the other guy wasn't making a move and she was upset and she was telling him 'why don't you touch me'. She was constantly at his place etc etc. That didn't bother me because she was single and i had her blocked from everywhere and this is now where it gets spooky.
    The guy texted her last night and he said:
    >Your anon is mad because i have better face than him,
    >Yeah you are prettier but he has better body than you (who mogs who?)
    >Anon is clearly in love with you and i don't want to get his heart broken, but can i touch your ass for one last time? he will not find out

    And the b***h put some smileys in there and she told him: when i kissed you you said it's pointless are you jealous now?
    And he was telling her that I'm a simp and that he can't be jealous of me.
    The funny thing? I didn't give a frick or send her a single message in the last 5 months. In the last month she was the one who was simping me.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Shw wasn't simping. You were a tool she needed to make the guy she really wanted jealous.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You should frick her one last time and then move on. Not worth the hassle or just keep it casual.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      if this was me i'd take her to a bumfrick hotel nowhere for a date night and dump her ass right there in the middle of the night and never see her face again

  16. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    simple anon. Get super jacked. She will fret jealous and insecure and as an attempt to not lose you she will lose weight

  17. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You need to make her feel jealous by flirting with younger and hotter women

  18. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Unless she puts on weight this physique is nice actually perfect for kids yk

  19. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    My libido is really high but my gf is just not doing it for me anymore. Nothing has changed with her body, and I still love her and find her objectively attractive. She just doesn't rev my engine. I have to fantasize about other women during sex sometimes to stay hard. I'm constantly thinking about cheating and feeling horny, but I rarely get the urge to frick her even when I'm horny and she's right there.
    I fricked a lot of pussy before settling down with this girl. How do I make my dick stop craving novelty?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >how do I stop male behavior guys!1

      I'm almost sure now that every other post on this site is by an underaged zoomer now

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      you have to spice it up. talk to your girl about how you can reintroduce novelty back into your sex life

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      lick her pussy a lot before you frick it
      if that doesnt make you horny, you're doomed
      licking my wifes pussy always gets me diamonds

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >licking my wifes pussy always gets me diamonds

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Send your wife over so I can eat her out instead homosexual

          https://i.imgur.com/sSAV9cP.jpeg

          >met wife at the gym when she was fit and tight
          >over time she stopped lifting and gained weight
          >looks like this now
          >gets upset any time I suggest she loses weight

          I can't take it anymore, bros. How do I handle this? She makes twice as much as me, so I can't even use that. I'm basically a trophy husband at this point. I feel like I'm gonna cheat on her eventually if she keeps going like this.

          I just jerked off to your near nude wife's ass anon. If I can do it 2 hrs after raw dogging my girl, you can do it too, I believe in you.

          PS. Post her breasts next

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >How do I make my dick stop craving novelty?

      Get fat, cut your balls off, do whatever possible to lower your T levels since you don't like being a man. Men want variety. Don't let women convince you that there's something wrong with you because women don't want variety. Their entire arguments are I don't act like this so men must be defective.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Sex life is stale. Try some exciting things.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I’ve been with my gf for a while and I felt this way too. Sex wasn’t frequent enough for my liking and I was just getting bored. I tried new things which she is down with trying but not really into a lot. Lots of anal, ass to pussy a few times (awesome but too risky for UTIs), piss stuff, DP with toys, giving her a facial then sneakily putting on a wiener ring to stay hard to frick her while she’s covered in cum. That kind of stuff.

      It is easy to get caught up in trying porn stuff which will eventually be too much for them so I usually have a 3:1 ratio where I’ll do vanilla loving sex three times and then try something I want to do. If I’m not into the vanilla sex I’ll remember pissing on her breasts and face or fricking her while her face was covered in cum and it’ll get me really horny.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous
    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      israelite bros, we got another one

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      you were supposed to have a kid with her by now
      historically and biologically you would bang your mate relentlessly for a year or two and if she didn’t get pregnant youd lose sexual interest in her and find a new girl

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Sex for pleasure is low vibration energy and appeals to the animal insticts of man.
      The less constructed it is the better it gets.

      In a relationship with a woman you build a construct. Your relationship becomes more civilised and of a higher vibration.
      Of course sex pleasure suffers because now you have ascended and you are in the position to bring children to the world.

      You cant be a creator and a pleasure seeker at the same time.

  20. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    She doesn’t look that bad, OP. I could say she looks better than a lot of women out there
    Don’t cheat, man. It’s not worth unless you have a dead bed case.

  21. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If my gf even got her chunky ass down to this weight I'd consider it a win. Never date a fat guys. I'm in too deep and it's over for me but you can learn from my mistake

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I got my wife to shed most of her weight. The trick is not phrasing her weight loss in terms of what would make YOU happy, but in terms of expanding her own possibilities. I would constantly praise her in terms like "doesn't it make you feel better to have more energy to do the things you love?" or "don't you enjoy not having to deal with physical discomfort all the time?" or "baby our sex life feels like it keeps getting SO much better as we become healthier together." If you're also on the chunky side, make it an activity you do together, the solidarity with her man will keep her focused and on track

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Thanks anon I will try this. And actually no, I'm not a fat. I'm more of her trophy bf. (Maybe a strong term but I am in better shape than all of the rest of our peer group or any of her friends and colleagues.) I built her a program a while back and she followed it for 3 weeks but she fell off when I got hard. I try to emphasize that anything is better than nothing but it really only ever works when it's "her idea," so I try not to nag too much and create a negative association with fitness.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I meant when "it" got hard. Fricking kek

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          yeah, chicks think differently than men do. If I had a work out buddy that was pushing me to go the distance I would appreciate the hustle and dedication, but for females they take it as a sign of a man trying to "change" them. It's fricking aggravating but that's the man-hating world we live in. Like any negotiation, the trick is to make them think that what you wanted them to do was their own idea, and that requires an extreme amount of patience and being content with marginal changes that add up in the long term

  22. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >bite me
    respectfully, would

  23. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    She's taking you for a ride.
    She's pretending to get upset

  24. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Is she hispanic? If so, you did it to yourself.

  25. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    story as old at time. "Met my wife doing ....., but after marriage she stopped." She only did the thing to meet someone with no real interest in the thing, fully intending to stop and get fat after marriage thinking you are now trapped by marriage and or the kids.

  26. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Listen up buddy, most people on here are homosexuals and you can tell that by the posts above. I’ll give you some real man to man advice like your father should have. Whenever you feel like cheating, just do it, so it discreetly and never get caught, but do it, never regret it, never think about it. Having enough money for escorts is preferable.

  27. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Do you have kids? Either way use this as a way to get her to lose weight:

    >babe I really want us to be as healthy as possible so we can live long good lives and be with our kids as long as possible. We should also be role models and show them the benefits of a balanced healthy lifestyle.

    >babe it’s really important to lose weight and be in really good shape if we want to have kids. It’ll reduce the chances of complications and [see above]

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Need to be firm on that shit. No room for wheedling and whining.
      >hey honey when are we having kids
      >never if you keep the fat rolls lol

  28. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    They only way you can keep women in shape in a marriage is if you're capable of fricking someone younger and hotter than her in less than a week. If you already are capable if that, she never loved you you're just a wallet that she can support herself with.

  29. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    i don't see the problem? you have a free license to cheat on her, and if she divorces you you get half her income.

  30. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    ultimatum or divorce.

  31. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >She makes twice as much as me, so I can't even use that.
    Congrats on winning the alimony game. Also anavar only cycle should fix this.

  32. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Have you tried telling her, hey were going to the gym etc.

    Also, she feels like she has obtained you, there's no dread left. Keep working on yourself, take her on date nights where attention from others is visible (but obviously don't reciprocate that attention.) so she can see you would have options if she wasn't there.

    Also she's making more than you....not a good position for you to be in, she has more leverage/power to leave you.

    You allowed the power dynamic to be skewered in her favour, the obvious outcome is that now she thinks she can do better else where....

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >skewered

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        ?

  33. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Would absolutely frick that ass, you're just a pussy, OP

  34. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    How do you actually cheat safely? Anyone you frick in town could see you on the street with your wife and sperg out. Being on tinder will get you seen by her friends and there's no possible excuse. The only way is to go out of town and meet a girl at a bar or something, but how often are you really out of town alone, and in a position to pick up chicks?

  35. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    billions must reply to bait thread
    this board is beyond dead holy frick

  36. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Mine got fat and I was honest with her about it. After a lot of fighting and hurt feelings she lost the weight and she's 10x happier. Without coming out and saying it, she's made it clear that she is only going to stay fit if I fund a fit lifestyle. She pretty much buys whatever she needs on my dime. She buys premade meal prep, protein for satiety, sees a nutritionist/trainer, adjustable dumbbells to workout at home. I bring this up because OPs wife makes more money, and because of that I don't think it's possible to get out of his situation.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Oh and I make double her income. Keeping her fit is worth every penny and I would spend more if I had to.

  37. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If she looks like the girl in your pic I don't see what's wrong. Sure she's not a fitness model or whatever but that's not too bad, plus she's got a comfy body. Must feel good to rub your face over her body.

    You're an butthole if you cheat on her for this.

  38. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    How to I get my insecure 30lbs overweight gf to lose weight, even though I told her I would like her to lose weight and that I would support her?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      See

      I got my wife to shed most of her weight. The trick is not phrasing her weight loss in terms of what would make YOU happy, but in terms of expanding her own possibilities. I would constantly praise her in terms like "doesn't it make you feel better to have more energy to do the things you love?" or "don't you enjoy not having to deal with physical discomfort all the time?" or "baby our sex life feels like it keeps getting SO much better as we become healthier together." If you're also on the chunky side, make it an activity you do together, the solidarity with her man will keep her focused and on track

      You have to phrase it in terms of being a doting partner fretting about their partner's long term health. You just want them to be able to do the things they enjoy doing together well into your 50's and 60's.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Not all women are equal. If being nice doesn't work, bully her. Tell her she's fat as frick. Most women respond well to rudeness

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Talk to other skinny as frick hoes infront of her and put her on fricking notice. Use birth control. Any b***h you with should know the program, or she's not that into you.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      See

      I remember reading another post where an Anon was in the same predicament as you. Although his wife knew and understood the benefits of working out, she wasn't willing to actually go to the gym with him.

      Then he watched a movie called The Whale with her. Upon watching it, she made the realization on her own that, if she didn't do something about it now, that she would end up like the protagonist. He said:
      >She is determined now.

      So that would be my recommendation to you. You can either be upfront (i.e. "This is why I want you to stay in shape.") or secretive (i.e. "One of my friends recommended this movie to me. Would you like to watch it with me?") about it. Ultimately, she has to want it for herself, not because you want her to; this is the most effective strategy that I've seen for it. Good luck.

  39. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Mine's the other way around.
    Left at 27, right at 39 after 2 kids.

    She started running and watching her weight by herself after I started becoming fit and less of an embarrassment.
    She's nuts about her weight now.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Slushai, a tebya v armiyu ne zaberut?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Nice file name. And you're a lucky guy, most women at 39 are obese hags.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >nuts about her weight now
      women

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This is the trick, if you are or become fit your wife will naturally follow your lead. So if anons on here are talking about their wives gaining weight and looking like a slob what can we infer about them?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        speak for yourself. my gf is 5'3" 150lbs and looks in the mirror and just gasses herself up even though she is objectively overweight. I weighed that much as a cross country runner in high school at 5'11." it would be fine if birth control and zoloft hadn't stolen her sex drive from me (we're up to twice a week up from once every other week). I make her pay 1/2 house bills though so there's that

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >living in sin with a fat chick on israelite pills after having run xc in high school
          I can't tell which of these decisions is worse

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            don't forget your meds

            That’s tough. Kids make things very complicated and it wasn’t until I had kids that I realized how horrible it would be to divorce.

            [...]
            I haven’t stopped making an effort it’s just that I’ve come to terms with my wife’s decreased sex drive since we had kids. It doesn’t and won’t match mine so I go elsewhere to get my fill. Nothing more profound than that.

            divorce seems hard on kids. I don't have any nor do I plan on any, but if you stick it out for the kids you're a champ. would be easier if we didn't have that stereotypical male sex drive but then we probably wouldn't be here. it is what it is

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              That’s why cheating exists.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        This, and you'll have to find things to compliment her on if you want them improved.
        Want her arms to look better? Make a small remark that they look more defined after she's done a (pointless) arm "workout". It'll motivate her to put in some actual work. It takes time and patience, though.

        >39 after 2 kids.
        daughters? because It would only make sense for her to stay fit in order to set an example for her children

        Yes, and it does seem to work. My older one is afraid of getting fat and loves to poke fun at me when I lose my flat belly during winter. I'm a bit proud.

        Based. She looks great.

        Thanks, bro.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >39 after 2 kids.
      daughters? because It would only make sense for her to stay fit in order to set an example for her children

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Based. She looks great.

  40. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I am SO glad that I don't fall for chicks much at all. God damn it must be awful loving someone after they've fallen to bits.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      never falling for a chick means you didn’t even try to live life and find a true love. Some of us fail for reasons beyond our control and get spurned or betrayed, but to not even try? You’re a failure

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        B8, you don't know what it means to have standards. True love is hippy bullshit homie, learn to live without someone else's leash

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          true love is possible in life if you set it for yourself as a goal, just as being jacked
          you know what happens to people who say “i’ll never be jacked”? they never get jacked.
          You’re selling yourself short and when you’re a pathetic old man with a broken or nonexistent family, you will remember that you had a choice in life, and you chose to not even try. You’ll die bitter, full of regret and in pain, suffering and loneliness

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Nice cope, but I don't worry about love at this point. I have more important things to focus on, like my career, investments, hobbies, projects, and friends. I'm happy that I purposely cut my family off several years ago, because they were dragging me down and holding me back from the things I find important in life. I have no reason to pursue a sensation that can be primarily satisfied by visiting prostitutes, talking with good friends, and adopting infants.
            You're deluding yourself that your emotions are meaningful and serve a purpose beyond your biological imperatives. When you're older and realize your efforts were wasted on a false promise of fulfillment, you might come to understand where I'm coming from. Go ahead, pursue your goals - I'll stick to mine.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              When you are older and you die in your deathbed you will be so glad to have a wife hold your hand.
              It is cringe for you now but watch your grand parents.

              The bugatti will warm the ass of some other butthole as you die...

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                He is just a brainwashed consoomer. He can't be reasoned with.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                My grandparents are both already dead. My grandfather was an alkie who beat the shit out of my grandmother and she died of an autoimmune disease while her second husband rotted away from the inside with dementia. I don't really care at this point what happens with the rest, since they've been dying off from drug addiction and ineptitude.
                It's not about the Bugatti, it's about making a difference. Our bodies will be irrelevant in the future, especially if the technologies being currently developed end up abused (as they always do). And besides, I'd like to have a little fun before I pass.

                He is just a brainwashed consoomer. He can't be reasoned with.

                I prefer to have few belongings, but thanks for revealing your presumptions about wealth. Securing a high passive income doesn't have to be about chasing baubles and goodies. For me, it's about being able to establish a background for higher fulfillment without undue risk. If I cared about love, I would sort that out first, but women are strictly an expense in my eyes. I'll buy and maintain one when I can afford the time and money to do so - with or without love involved.

  41. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    your fault for getting married in the first place.
    convert all your assets into crypto, disappear to SEA.

  42. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Just one of multiple other reasons not to marry women

  43. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    If you lose it to a fat/ugly chick it doesn’t count. It’s the same as losing it to a hooker or a troony IMO you’re still an incel

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I lost my virginity to a mentally ill israeliteess

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I lost my virginity to a mentally ill israeliteess

      Males can't "lose" their "virginity." Only females can be truly virgin and unspoiled. Male "virgins" have merely failed to achieve sex.

  44. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >reading this thread as a single goblinoid looking mother fricker
    guess it ain't so bad after all.

  45. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    do you have kids?
    can't cheat, can't divorce, you made vows.
    ask her how to help her. you need to talk to her. take her walking, then hiking, then speed walking, then running, etc etc
    make it fun, make it engaging.

  46. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    My wife went from a curvy, hourglass figure 140lbs to a sad, frumpy 220lbs.

    Sure her breasts got massive but now I have a hard time getting hard when I frick her.

    Marriage is a cruel cruel game my man

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      take her to a surgeon and then make her wear a waist trainer. dont argue

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Shit that’s rough. How old is she and how many kids/how old are the kids?

  47. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >mfw I’m the only person in this thread who doesn’t see a problem with this body

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You need to raise your standards, my brother.

  48. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    just tell her to get on ozempic and hope she isn't one of the 30% who quit because they don't enjoy its side effects

  49. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    I fricked a fat chick who also gave me herpes. Being a a jacked virgin would feel good imo. You can basically laugh at all the broken messes who have sex.

  50. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    She looks good.
    I would frick her.
    Stop being picky and enjoy your wife.

  51. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    like this now
    And? That's just a normal person. You're talking like she's gained 500 pounds or something. Get over yourself.

  52. 3 weeks ago
    bluwok

    looks like shes in normal weight and body, maybe you're just putting your frustrations out on her

  53. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Weird way to ask but sure op, I can frick your wife for you.

  54. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >ANON DO THE FAT WHITE GIR DANCE!
    >COME ON DO IT!
    >HAHA EVERYONE LOOK HE CAN'T DO THE DANCE!!! QUICK FILM HIM!

  55. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Looks like this
    That's a healthy gal right there. Are you gay?

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