My girlfriend has asked me to move in with her. I said yes but I need room for my home gym and it's probably best if we clear out the living room and put it there so it's on the ground floor. But she said no because she likes her living room and what would guests think. Is this a red flag should I dump the b***h?
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Any alternatives? Other rooms, garage, shitty shed in backyard? I imagine that if there are multiple floors, there are alternatives. Living room is important too, for social reasons, putting gym there is weird bro.
FPBP. Grow up anon. Home gyms are supposed to be tucked away out of sight. You gotta be huge without people knowing you even work out.
“Wow anon your muscles are so big! Do you work out a lot?”
“Nah; I just go for a run once a month”
Frick that. He's right about needing a living room for your wife, but you shouldn't hide your shit away like a good boy. Poverty Chads lift in the front yard.
>should I dump the b***h?
Yes
You already resent her and why on earth would want to be with someone you resent? It will only get worse as time goes by.
>living together with a woman
Ngmi
dont move in with a woman until you marry her. I and many other have learned that lesson the hard way
why?
dont move in after marrying them either
this.
Nothing kills your sex life more than living in the same house with someone everyday. You get used to them too much. At minimum sleep in different rooms and let her stay in your room for sex only.
> Don’t find out if you like living with her until you’re married.
This is terrible advice
Truly awful advice, absolutely live with them first. Are you really going to legally entangle yourself with someone that you haven't even spent a month living with? Absolutely moronic idea
>Are you really going to legally entangle yourself
Idiot. You're already legally entangled if you move in with them. Hope you never have to find out how shit this is.
Getting someone off your lease is way easier and cheaper than going through divorce you moron
The idea is that you don't intend to separate if you've chosen to marry her. If she's not worth sharing a life with then she's not worth sharing a life with.
>don't move in with a woman until you are financially bound to her for half of your wealth
L
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>What is common law union?
dump her
>living in a state with common law unions
lmao, just lol
moronic american advice
Yeah because America is known for its sexual reservedness and doing things traditionally.
moron. If you think America when you hear that then your country must be turbo degenerate.
Move in with her but never marry. There I fixed it for you.
Bingo. Life on easy mode. I am convinced that the marital contract changes women for the worse. It makes them feel too secure so they stop trying. My gf and I have been together for 13 years. She cooks, cleans, stays thin, and we have a great sex life. If we had been married, we almost certainly would have been divorced.
Sounds moronic as frick.
I'm too fricking lazy to reply to all the other stupid morons who replied to you, so if that's your case, take notice. There's something nowadays called CIVIL UNION, which means that it doesn't matter if you're married on paper with her or not. If you're living with her, you're already legally bound to her just like you've been married. You motherfrickers are unironically dumber than a bag of dicks and doorknobs combined, I'm astounded how you guys can walk and breathe at the same time without choking to death so fricking dense you are.
In what dumbass fricking country are you in a civil union by virtue of living together? Are you suggesting that roommates in college are in a fricking civil union? This is the dumbest shit I've ever heard in my life.
I lived with someone, in the UK. It didn't work out. I literally just left the house. Simple as that. I let her go on the lease alone and moved somewhere else. Changed any bills that were in my name to hers. It was the same as leaving any other rental property I've been in.
If you own the property together that's different, but if you think just occupying the same place as someone else makes you essentially married then you're moronic beyond redemption.
this anon is right
but its a common law marriage and it kicks in after ~7 years, civil union is marriage performed by the state and not religious (includes gay marriages)
>it's another episode of "anon is a stupid arrogant amerishart who assumes everyone else is as cucked and israelited as amerisharts are".
hahaha what a moron. You literally do not know a person until you've lived with them.
So your advice is basically, marry someone who you don't know.
You need to grow up. I guarantee you I'm a more hardcore fitness enthusiast than you'll ever be, but who in the actual frick puts a fricking gym in their damn living room. You're a fricking idiot if you think that's acceptable. I won't even mention the fact that you're moving in with her and not the other way around... although I guess I just did.
>who in the actual frick puts a fricking gym in their damn living room
seems like its either that or a room thats not ground floor(dont do this)
>who in the actual frick puts a fricking gym in their damn living room
Me, nerd.
>So your advice is basically, marry someone who you don't know
Somehow there was less divorce when people did this vs getting to know them like people do these days. Absolutely moronic degenerate.
Based.
This is actually true. It's called "Common Law Marriage" look it up morons so you don't get caught with your pants down and dick your hand.
If you live with a women for 6+ months and/or share any bills together you are technically married in certain areas, especially more liberal areas like Colorado. You may not get the tax benefits as being married but you sure do get fricked w/alimony and such when breaking up with said women.
This is good advice.
https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/jomf.12530?af=R&
You're right, and the seething replies just reveals how many virgins post here
>moving into the woman's appartment
Yikes
it's only natural for the beta in the relationship to move in with the alpha
Just get a gym membership holy shit
You might actually make some gains for once having a variety of equipment to use, instead of just being limited to powershitting exercises
>no clue how to lift without machines
Typical zoomer. You'll be a ghost once your little novice phase is over, kid.
Your gf is supposed to move in with you. Why are you moving in with her?
You sound like a homosexual, a moronic one at that.
>moving in with gf
Lmao you loser
>power rack in the living room
Your gf is right, that shit is tacky and will look bad when people come over, have a dedicated room, basement, or garage for that shit. You’ll want to have your own little lair for that shit anyways.
Your post is bait, and you don’t have a gf.
Never move in with your gf. Always have separate places. Thank me later
Get a soloflex
>My girlfriend has asked me to move in with her. I said yes but I need room for my home gym
Move in then ask her to move out.
Mods, mark this thread as SOLVED
I can't believe the anti-misogyny comments I'm reading in this thread
I unironically dont see it, what comment besides the OP using the word "bitch" is derogatory specifically because of the genetils involved?
he said anti-misogyny. As in, he can't believe the dumb b***hes in this thread are siding with OP's dumb b***h of a gf.
Yep, it's fricking over.
Throw her through a wall
All you need for a home gym is a pair of adjustable dumbbells and maybe a bench
why not get a gym membership or move into a building with a gym?
>why not pay monthly for something you already own
genius
Tell her it's either you and your home gym, or her living room
>is this a red flag
Yeah for you. Putting a gym in your living room is autistic af.
>af.
fr fr no cap
Yeah it fricking is lmfao you guys are hilarious tho
>Cohabitation before marriage
Ngmi
The relationship, I mean
Seen this shit play out before.
>stupid enough to move in w/current cumdumpster
>arguments constantly at the 3 month mark
>leave for work after one of these arguments
>come home to find ALL equipment sold on marketplace for dirt cheap while b***h laughs and threatens to call the cops for domestic.
Use your fricking brain anon. You never move into a woman's place. Guard your shit.
She can do all of that in your flat if she's psycho enough
The iron will never judge you
Lmao put your homegym in the basement where it fricking belongs you autist
gym membership dude. You don't pay for the membership to use the equipment, you pay for the membership for the privilege of not having to store that shit in your house
yes she wants to get you fat
>living together with a woman
It's over buddy boyo. You fricked up and ruined your relationship. Welcome to hell.
no, she's right. expecting her to get rid of her living room for weights is fricking stupid.
find another room, or sell them and buy a gym membership with the money.
She will dump you eventually and it will be both emotionally and logistically painful to move all your shit out.
t. happened to me
>putting weights in the livingroom
Holy shit, are you moronic
>moving in with your girlfriend
Never mind, you are.
I need help, homegymbros.
I want to buy a power rack, the problem is I'm from Brazil and most power racks here under $1000 are shit tier since Brazilians love to use shitty steel
What should I look out for when buying one?
The most decent one I've found so far is pic related:
They claim the steel tubes are Gauge 14 (2mm) 50 cm x 50 cm
The space between holes is 7cm
Weights 90 kg
2.20m tall x 1.16m wide x 1.22m deep
$600
The seller said this can stand up to 1100 pounds but I seriously doubt it given this is gauge 14 steel.
What are the chances they're bullshitting me and I will end up dead under a pile of steel?
uhhh 14 gauge steel is pretty fricking strong. I build buildings out of 18 gauge.
Garage Gym Reviews said I shouldn't go lower than 12 gauge steel but I guess you're right, it's not like I'm planning on going anywhere near 1000 pounds... I'll trust you.
Thanks, bro.
why do you have all that equipment?
>all that equipment
>the guy is still DYEL
maybe if he put as much time and effort into training as he did into collecting, he’d be better off.
>Moving in with her instead of her moving in with you.
I've been taught that's a bad thing to do.
>moving in
>to HER place
lmao, it's over anon. Do NOT move in with her, despite whatever emotional horseshit she throws at you
it's a POWER GRAB
Don't fall for it bro, please
>My girlfriend has asked me to move in with her.
But why
The only real reason to move in is if you're planning on marrying soon (which implies you want to build a life/family with that person). That's a functional reason to move in, as you can't really raise kids living separately well. Move in if you're planning to marry, but if you're just dating, what's the point?
Relationships do not get better or funner the more committed they get. They're always best in the beginning, and that's partly because it's fun, and fresh, and you don't see each other every spare minute of the day.
Just maintain you're separate lives and enjoy each other's company when you want. It'll be funner, the sex will be better, and I guarantee she'll work harder to keep you happy. More commitment is not going to make things better.
>my girlfriend
Already stopped reading bro
NEVER move into someone's shit, you're putting yourself in a weak position. That same person is gonna use that against you later trust me
delete her contact
get a lawyer
hit the gym
all you need is a removable pullup bar, movable dips bar, 2 dumbbells and a adjustable bench my homie dont be an autist and if you really want to train with barbells get a gym membership
>Home gym in the living room
Why do people move in with their dating partner? Just wait until you are married. Otherwise you have to move out when you break up and she steals half your stuff.
garage it