My wife is left with this fat pocket even 5 years after her second c-section.

My wife is left with this fat pocket even 5 years after her second c-section.
She's not overweight by any means, her upper abs are even visible. But this fat pocket above the c-section scar doesn't go away, and it's really bothering her (understandably, and honestly I also think it ruins her otherwise good body).
She doesn't want another surgery because the risk of other complications in this area is too great, and I agree with her. I feel like she's given up on it and that doesn't sit well with me since she has been putting so much effort in her body over the last year.

Does anyone here have experience with this? Is there any specific routine she can attempt to remove this pocket?

Picrel: Left is her wearing a dress she last wore at 14 years old. The right side is off Google, her skin isn't this loose and stretched.

  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    When you do her from the back reach around and squeeze her lower gut so she doesn't feel insecure about it, also try for a third

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >When you do her from the back reach around and squeeze her lower gut so she doesn't feel insecure about it
      You've never been with a woman, have you?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        No

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          My girlfriend gets pissed when I squeeze her belly and she’s 130 at 5’7

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Mine suddenly lost some weight after I started doing this

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              >complains about disliking body
              >gets mad when I offer suggestions on how to fix
              she’s fantastic but women are women

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            hate that shit, i always loved to squeeze my exes little belly cause it was hot as fuck but she hated it, dont understand why.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >fuck gf at the time from behind
        >grab her by the lovehandles
        >she could lose a few kilos but is holding the weight in mostly the right places (tits and ass)
        >being a spirit of pioneering and exploration, I sort of tuck the love handles towards me for no particular reason at all
        >"Anon, you're imagining me being slimmer aren't you?"
        great advice if your goal is to make her more self conscious lmao

        >grab gf's belly or lovehandles or hip dips in the throes of passion because you love her whole body without compromise
        >"You're grabbing me there so I'll think about how fat I am! That makes me feel so self-conscious!"
        >avoid grabbing gf's belly or lovehandles or hip dips so as not to remind her of them so she doesn't feel self-conscious
        >"You're only avoiding grabbing me there because you're repulsed by how fat I am! That makes me feel so self-conscious!"
        Women simply cannot be helped. They're all born terminally retarded and are incapable of comprehending unconditional love.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          dawg I would be so happy and also turned on if my bf grabbed my love handles and tummy

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >dawg
            shut it chud

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          This so much! WTF, we should gas all women alive in the gaschamber

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I was on a date with a girl and just grabbed her bewwy to go "oochieoochieoochieoochie-oooo~!" and she suffered visible soul death and I think I accidentally negged her but it didn't seem on purpose and we ended up making out and I got to man handle her

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        You've never heard a joke, have you?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >fuck gf at the time from behind
      >grab her by the lovehandles
      >she could lose a few kilos but is holding the weight in mostly the right places (tits and ass)
      >being a spirit of pioneering and exploration, I sort of tuck the love handles towards me for no particular reason at all
      >"Anon, you're imagining me being slimmer aren't you?"
      great advice if your goal is to make her more self conscious lmao

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        My girlfriend gets pissed when I squeeze her belly and she’s 130 at 5’7

        [...]
        >grab gf's belly or lovehandles or hip dips in the throes of passion because you love her whole body without compromise
        >"You're grabbing me there so I'll think about how fat I am! That makes me feel so self-conscious!"
        >avoid grabbing gf's belly or lovehandles or hip dips so as not to remind her of them so she doesn't feel self-conscious
        >"You're only avoiding grabbing me there because you're repulsed by how fat I am! That makes me feel so self-conscious!"
        Women simply cannot be helped. They're all born terminally retarded and are incapable of comprehending unconditional love.

        My girlfriend loves it when I grab her love handles from behind.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >When you do her from the back reach around and squeeze her lower gut so she doesn't feel insecure about it
      You've never been with a woman, have you?

      I made the mistake of grabbing an ex-gf’s belly as I was falling asleep and good Lord was she pissed off. I had no idea why she was so mad at first, she certainly didn’t say anything. A week later she joined Weight Watchers.

      https://i.imgur.com/yRi1Gda.jpg

      My wife is left with this fat pocket even 5 years after her second c-section.
      She's not overweight by any means, her upper abs are even visible. But this fat pocket above the c-section scar doesn't go away, and it's really bothering her (understandably, and honestly I also think it ruins her otherwise good body).
      She doesn't want another surgery because the risk of other complications in this area is too great, and I agree with her. I feel like she's given up on it and that doesn't sit well with me since she has been putting so much effort in her body over the last year.

      Does anyone here have experience with this? Is there any specific routine she can attempt to remove this pocket?

      Picrel: Left is her wearing a dress she last wore at 14 years old. The right side is off Google, her skin isn't this loose and stretched.

      Would a tummy tuck really be that bad?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        If OP’s wife is a surgical nurse then she’s probably seen at least a few people die on the operating table. Or get horrible infections or lifelong complications. Certainly would make me more wary of a massively invasive cosmetic procedure with a painful 6 week recovery.

        My wife will probably do a tummy tuck after our last kid but we do go back and forth on it because of the risk. Also if you die, you’re screwing up your family big time. The prospect of voluntary, massively invasive, risky surgery changes a lot when you’re a parent.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Thanks for the response Anon. I figured that something like a tummy tuck would be relatively simple. Something to think about and research

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          It's not so much the dying with this procedure (that really shouldn't be the case). But the scars can fuse with the organs inside and create lots of trouble. We stopped banging in certain positions because my dick rubs against something inside of her that hurts her.
          Unfortunately, mating press and anything pushing her legs up towards her head become a no-go.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This, when I raw dog a fatty doggy I always reach down and clench onto that gut flap and just rail the shit out of her, of course I take time to eat out her robustly scented anus.

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Hi, 30+ year old boomer here with multiple kids. First kid absolutely rekt my wife's stomach. She had skin stretching (similar to the right pic) and diastasis recti, which is separation of her ab muscles.

    The only real options to fix the skin are surgical. Tummy tuck. Make sure you're absolutely done having kids before you do it and that she's at her absolute fittest/leanest before it's done, because doing it at an elevated BF% is pointless.

    >She doesn't want another surgery because the risk of other complications in this area is too great, and I agree with her.

    Then just learn to live with it. Skin doesn't really repair itself. Once it's stretched, it's stretched.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Oh, I guess I should mention that physical therapy did help A LITTLE with the diastasis recti, but it was mostly with pain/discomfort for every day tasks. It didn't really fix any of the structural damage.

      Once we're done having kids she will probably get her abdominus recti surgically repaired and do a tummy tuck in one fell swoop.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Make sure you're absolutely done having kids before you do it and that she's at her absolute fittest/leanest before it's done
      She got sterilized after our last kid and she's the leanest I've ever seen her. Unfortunately, I don't think that she'll ever agree to a surgery. She's a surgery nurse and knows about all the stuff that can go wrong.

      the thing is, I could live with it. But she is very conscious about it herself.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Have her take a look at MUTU:

        https://mutusystem.com/en-us/

        Also consider physical therapy.

        This is a good article from a woman that did the surgery. I agree that major surgery is a horrifying prospect. Don't blame her for being wary. Good luck.

        https://moneyfitmoms.com/diastasis-recti-surgery/

        Welp, this one's used up. Ditch and get a new one. Sorry but they're more or less single use items.

        /thread

        Can't ditch the mother of your children. You will never make it.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Thanks, the site brings up some good points.

          >Can't ditch the mother of your children. You will never make it.
          Based

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >Can't ditch the mother of your children.
          Who says you can only have one mother for all your children?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            My bank account says that.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              morons have half a dozen baby mommas and they got no problem with that

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Yes and they all grow up to be criminals or if they’re female they spit out more kids who grow up to be criminals

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Thanks. There's enough non-functional people out there already.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Arguing to do things morons do because morons seem to do it. Jfc.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >surgical nurse
        >voluntarily does C-section delivery twice
        >refuses to do a standardized abdominal surgery due to risk of complications
        just lmao, something key is missing here OP
        tell her you want to open a new 500,000 dollar life insurance policy on her, then schedule the appointment with your favorite plastic surgeon for her
        >if anything should happen to you i don't know what i would do
        >i'd probably move on and get another wife
        >but there'd be a 10 minute period there where i would just be inconsolable

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          See

          My wife literally wouldn't have survived her first birth because the child sat up right above her birth canal instead of head-first.

          The second c-section was necessary due to complications with the scar tissue from the first...

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      dude does this also help with vaginal tightness? My girlfriend has this same little tiny pocket (She had a daughter a few years ago) and shes literally in the gym 5x a week and has defined arms and upper abs, when she wears leggings you can barely tell its there but I swear her vagina just isnt tight like other girls ive been with

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Anon, do you really want to know why your gf is loose?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Anon, women's vaginas stretch out irreversibly when they give birth.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        There's literally a workout just for that. Kegels.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >She had a daughter a few years ago

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    My wife is in a similar situation--she's objectively thin at 5'8" and 120 lbs, but nevertheless has a small pooch and some very minor lose skin. First off, make sure she doesn't have Diastasis Recti (google it), which can give the appearance of being bloated/having a pooch around the lower abdominal area. Any lose skin is basically there forever unless she gets some sort of surgery (i.e. tummy tuck). If she truly has some stomach fat, the only option is to keep losing weight. As always, there's no such thing a spot reduction when it comes to fat loss, so the usual rules about diet and exercise apply here. If you wife truly is low body fat to the point of having visible abs then a bit of liposuction might be your only option. As a man with some mild gyno i sympathize with her frustration here. Finally, there's also the possibility that its not traditional subcutaneous fat in the sense that it could be a lipoma, scar tissue (possibly related to C-sections), or something else like a cyst.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Keep a mindful eye on if they are covering their belly button and if they have a fat face. A deceptive woman like this can't be trusted to be a wife.

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Welp, this one's used up. Ditch and get a new one. Sorry but they're more or less single use items.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      /thread

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    did you get your bull's opinion on this? I think he should weigh in honestly

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Warped mind, get help

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Should have gotten a hotter wife to begin with.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      there's literally nothing hotter than emotional connection. you're ngmi

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        you’re wife is probably a fat hag and this emotional bullshit is just pure copium

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    How distorted is your thinking if you believe this is a problem? Human beings age. Our skin doesn't return to teenage tightness. Get over it. Both of you.

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It's called deal with it. My-ex was C-section, it's just part of the deal of having kids.

    On the bright side she didn't get her pussy blown out by birthing the kid. And she didn't become a land whale after the kids

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I unironically had the opposite problem that the doctor had sewn my wife much thighter than she was before the birth.
      They said it was normal but I am not sure if anyone else had the same issue

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Sucks bro. The fantasy is being some big cock for a woman.

        In reality I was in a super tight woman and she tensed up in pain the whole time, couldn't finish cause it was a turn off

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    If you don't want to go for another surgery then roids, jump on anavar and get rid of the fat this way

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    reminder aging is inevitable and beauty is fragile. even if not now, sooner or later we all become ugly fucks and our bodies erode.

    that being said, are you sure it's fat or is it stretched skin (or both)?
    You can't obviously spot reduce fat, but if you lose overall bf%, abdominal fat is reduced as well. focus on abdominal strength as well. no, she won't get a "manly 6pack" unless she's training like a bodybuilder and taking roids.

    she could get hormones tested as well. different levels distribute fat differently.
    If it's more of a skin issue you can get a derm's opinion on treatments. there's no miracle and they're usually expensive though.

    most efficient option is obviously plastic surgery, regardless of it being full anesthesia or local.
    corseting could help granted it's a proper fitted corset but she'd have to wear it diligently. pretty sure cgl gulls have some guides on it
    I've also heard of diathermy, ultrasonic cavitation, and coolsculpting or whatever, but there's not much evidence for those

    or just accept it and come to terms with it, get a beer gut to match her

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    First pic doesn't look feminine at all. My head is fucked from excessive p0rn consumption but what a weird shape. Is this chud bait?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      It looks completely feminine man fix your perception

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      It looks completely feminine man fix your perception

      Honestly the shoulders being like 1.5x as wide as the hips is pretty gross for a woman and very obvious in the second pic

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >very obvious in the second pic
        The one that OP said he got from google images and is not his wife?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >very obvious in the second pic
        The one that OP said he got from google images and is not his wife?

        Exactly

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Reminder like 90+% of C sections are unnecessary, doctor just does them to speed things up instead of waiting around

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I've noticed women who have this happen to their stomach always wear heavy amounts of spandex and shit during their pregnancy.
    It's the same thing with tits. Women who wear overly supportive bras 24/7 all have saggy ass tits and end up getting some kind of surgery to try and fix it. Wearing tight shit that "supports" actually causes to opposite to happen is the redpill here.
    The skin completely forgets that it needs to hang onto the body when you constantly cover it up with tight spandex materials all the time.
    All the sluts on social media who let their stomach get huge and let their preggo bellies hang out always tighten right the fuck up after in comparison.
    Believe me I am a full time coomer and have experience from looking at several hundred accounts and it's ALWAYS the heavy spandex bitches that get blown out.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Interesting take. My wife (0 births) is like OP’s pic despite never having had a pregnancy. She doesn’t wear gym spandex shit but she does wear tights quite a lot.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >on social media
      take all that with a grain of salt. so much of it is photoshop, makeup, posing, surgery, and clothing trickery. obviously there may be truth to what youre saying but making generalizations based on social media is retarded

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Man just fuck her anyway. Least she bore you children. I'd kill just for a woman who looked like that and gave me children.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Like I said. It's bothering her more than me. But that also means that she can't be as loose as she could, because she's too conscious about it.

  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm currently 6 months pregnant, what can I do to not look like OP?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Abort

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Can't really do shit. Stay as lean as possible during pregnancy, lose weight as fast as you can, wait at least a year to see how much the skin pulls back naturally (and it does, just usually not all the way). At that point consider if you can live with it or want the tuck.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >stay as lean as possible
        This sounds like bad advice, you are healtier if you are not low bf, this is eHispanicially true for women and especially when your preggo. Malnourishment and pregg dont go hand in

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Lean for a woman is 22 body fat.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          It doesn’t mean get body builder lean. He just meant, be fit and healthy when you start your pregnancy. You’re going to gain around 30 lbs which will stretch your skin. You don’t want to start 20 lbs overweight so you end up 50 lbs overweight in the third trimester.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Just stay lean so your skin doesn't overstretch

      Congratulations btw!

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Don't wear spandex that "supports" your belly, it will ruin your skin. Let your skin support itself naturally.
      Don't let them give you a C-section, that's what fucked up OP's wife worst of all and doctors will do them for no good reason just because it's quicker than vaginal childbirth.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Oils, keep your skin hydrated, and start with ab excercises right after giving birth.
      You ruin the baby if you starve yourself.
      When breastfeeding, you ruin yourself if you cut.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >You ruin the baby if you starve yourself.
        just wanted to emphesize this

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Dont do c sektion

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Have better genetics and better conjunctive tissue.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Is Dad still around if you’re posting on IST? I hope so. Congrats btw

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Do cardio and constant planks afterwards, you will be fine, congratulations brah

    • 1 month ago
      I hate women

      No C section, eat liver afterwards, and use bio-oil on your stomach before and after birth. Also don’t get fat

      Also tits or gtfo

  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    God dayum she is fat. How do you honestly live like that?

  17. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Tummy tucks are routine cosmetic surgery. Save up a few pennies and bump her self esteem.

  18. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    real question is how the FUCK do I stop lusting after bellies?
    Like, expecially when it's just a little pudge and you can feel it across your chest when she's riding you (mine's taller than me ymmv).
    And those little grooves between the hip and ribs, just above the waist that I love drawing my fingers across and grabbing.
    I'm sick of it!

  19. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It is common for women to experience changes in their bodies after pregnancy and childbirth, including changes to the abdominal area. It is also not uncommon for some women to have excess skin or fat in the abdominal area after a c-section. While it is understandable that your wife may be concerned about this issue, it is important to remember that everyone's body is unique and will change in different ways after pregnancy.

    There are several strategies that your wife can try to help improve the appearance of her abdominal area, including:

    Exercise: Regular physical activity can help to tone and strengthen the muscles in the abdominal area and improve overall body composition. Your wife may benefit from working with a personal trainer or physical therapist to develop a safe and effective exercise program that is tailored to her needs and goals.

    Nutrition: Maintaining a healthy, balanced diet can help to support weight loss and improve overall body composition. Your wife may benefit from consulting with a nutritionist to develop a plan that is tailored to her needs and goals.

    Skin care: Proper skin care, including moisturizing and using products that contain ingredients like retinol, can help to improve the elasticity and appearance of the skin. Your wife may benefit from consulting with a dermatologist or skin care professional to develop a skin care routine that is tailored to her needs.

    Massage: Massaging the abdominal area can help to improve circulation and stimulate lymphatic drainage, which can help to improve the appearance of the skin. Your wife may benefit from seeking out a massage therapist who is trained in post-pregnancy massage techniques.

    It is also important to keep in mind that it may take time and consistent effort to see improvements in the appearance of the abdominal area.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      fuck off AI

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Thank you

  20. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >having two C sections
    That was your mistake - falling for gnomish tricks and not doing a natural birth which greatly benefits your kid

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      My wife literally wouldn't have survived her first birth because the child sat up right above her birth canal instead of head-first.

      The second c-section was necessary due to complications with the scar tissue from the first...

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        why would a breech birth kill the mother and not the child?
        unless the umbilical cord was prolapsed immediately on her water breaking then a butchered C-section was hardly required.
        sounds like a shit hospital

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          You know, killing the child instead of having her have a c-section does sound so much better. I don't know why I didn't decide on that instead!

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            even in worst case scenario child mortality rate is around ~18% in breach births
            your wife should divorce your retard ass

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Death by child birth was rare before C sections, <1%. Chances are the doctor just said what he needed to say to get you to agree to the C section to speed shit up and get extra money.

  21. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'd fuck your wife

  22. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    if your wife was chubby or did exercise this wouldn't have happened

  23. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    My wife is still 200lbs at 6ft tall after our 3rd kid. It's been 6 years since our youngest was born.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      She knows she has you locked in and that you can't or won't replace her so she has 0 reason to put any effort into her appearance.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Sounds like you're not lean enough to create the pressure she needs.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      surely most of it went to her tits, hips, legs and ass

  24. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >muh WIFE!! mu heckin reddit WIFEH!

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Piana was married at least three times that we know of.

  25. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Grim.

  26. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You could look into ultrasound cavitation.

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