No fap thread. Im a week in, feel miserable. Decided to stop watching porn fapping and cutting out about 80% of video games. I have depression anxiety problems. How long until i dont want to die
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No fap thread. Im a week in, feel miserable. Decided to stop watching porn fapping and cutting out about 80% of video games. I have depression anxiety problems. How long until i dont want to die
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Well. Do you have friends? People to talk to? If not work on that. Share your problems and build each other up.
A big reason for wanting changr. The biggest is me getting back into Christianity. But i have no friends no gf no wife. I actually surpassed my lifting goals. Got a 350 brnch 500 plus on squat and deadlift. But i became so depressed i turned into a dyel. So i wamt friends, gf, get my gains back. I have too much potential to waste my life being a comsuming coomer
My advice, go to a church. You may have to try a couple. I’ve lived all around my country (burgerland), move for work a lot. Last state I was in I couldn’t find a good church, kept going to some but they just didn’t click. Thought I was done with it all, couldn’t find new people to relate with on a deeper level.
State I just moved to last year, I go to the first church I find, found lifelong friends I’m already brothers with. Crazy how it works but the first step is doing something. I thought it was pointless going to church, no way I’d find anything of value, but I was wrong. I still had to make the decision to go, who knows why. Call that God or the Holy Spirit, I don’t know.
I hope you can find who you need friend. We all need brothers and sisters to help us, we aren’t meant to do this alone. Too many young people are so alone, makes me angry. Things would be a lot better if we could open up to each other more, but it’s hard to find the people and the situations in the first place.
this, I am not really religious but churches are still nice to go to
I've found a pentecostal one nearby that's run by a black pastor and sunday service is genuinely an entertaining enough time, it's nice to be among spiritual people
Church is boring
>no friends
And how is not touching your peepee going to help you meet people?
I don't want to be your friend if you are a heroin addict.
>Why would you care what I do to my penis hurrrerrrrr dkffjdjsnifbfkznsk
Seethe. Cope.
Funny, Jesus would. He literally hung out with the riff raff and only time he got mad was in church settings.
Posts like these are so annoying. Jes wasnt hanging out with sinners smoking blunts and playing xbox. He was around sinners to tell them to repent from their sins and give their lives to God. Jesus wasnt ok with sin. Never was. Never will be
> For John came neither eating nor drinking, and they say, ‘He has a demon.’ The Son of Man came eating and drinking, and they say, ‘Look, a glutton and a winebibber, a friend of tax collectors and sinners!’
You are fricking moronic and a white washed tomb full of dead mens bones.
Let me break it down beyond you’re dumb. Salvation is Jesus going to the sinner. He may say go and sin no more but it was never to the crowd, it was an individual conversation. Salvation is talking about heaven and what God is like. Saying things like you don’t have to ask God for food, if he feeds the birds he is going to feed you. Sanctification is a post salvation process. Salvation cannot be stripped if the name is written in the book. As John Piper puts it the reason there can be no jealousy over rewards in heaven is because it is like a sunken ship and a sunken gallon jug at the bottom of the ocean, though the carrying capacity is different it does not matter as they are equally consumed by the depth of the ocean. Sanctification is the process of going from gallon jug to ocean liner. I don’t know what it matters and it may not. Ultimately your job is to see God glorified among those who would be called. My ultimate point is stop bringing sanctification issues to a place where salvation isn’t even on the fricking table yet. You wanna argue about coomers, yell at the coomers in your church. Jesus would say repent for the kingdom of heaven is near and then talk about why you might want to do that. Let me remibd you what he didn’t do. He didn’t list the sins, he didn’t preach the law. As the creator of the universe he knows the law is written into every mans soul already because our breath is his breath. He saved the spicy stuff for those who were supposedly responsible for insuring the safety of peoples souls. Most of the time they didn’t do that, they would make new laws to unduly burden the common man and then create reasons why they were exempt from those laws and the real laws that were handed on the mountain. Sermon over I’m gonna go kms.
You’re wrong from literally the first sentence moron. Salvation isn’t Jesus coming to the sinner is it the sinner coming to Jesus.
Your entire tirade is filled to the brim with low IQ, armchair-Christian talking points. Sit your ass in a church pew or pick up a Bible. Otherwise, you’d be best just shutting the frick up.
Ok larper. The sinner does not come to Jesus. Jesus goes to the sinner.
>Behold I stand at the door and knock.
He literally cones to your house where you are. You are fricking swine.
Holy shit don’t tell me you a biblical literalist too. I’m not religious but even I can tell how bad you make Christians look. Get back to school on the short bus.
So you don’t know anything. Congratulations blind leading the blind. R.C. Sproul, look him up. You won’t but somebody will. The other guy needs tie a millstone around his neck and get to jumping though.
I think this is the one I’m looking for but he is one of the greatest pastors in his time.
And another leader Mark Lowery https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=z2aeDPsrAaQ
Oh wait last (You) but I just caught your opening insult. Yes I take the bible literally. It isn’t poetry or suggestions, it is the word of God. I can and have argued that there has been massive subversions by ~~*translators*~~ but because I serve a living God he will fill in the gaps for when my ignorance is too great and my wisdom too small. My fight is often with other Christians because it is still about them feeling superior to people like coomers, which is not the spirit of the living God. I also know there are major demons like Baphomet who lead their own armies for transgenderism, but getting into the weeds of spiritual warfare and the larger scope is not conducive to talks with people who don’t even know or believe in the first place.
>I have too much potential to waste my life being a comsuming coomer
Cooming and pporn is not your problem. Stop blaming your problems on the wrong thing its not helping you.
Why is this board constantly shilling for the israelite 2.0 god so much as of late? I know the term NGMI gets thrown around a lot, but if you're genuinely incapable of finding ways to lead a fulfilling life without getting on your knees for to let jesus cum inside you, then you really should just paint your bedroom wall red.
Honestly, if a religion will help them get out of their funk and be happier, then so be it. I just wish they wouldn’t have to pretend that it’s more than just a way to cope and live a somewhat fulfilled life, instead they have to buy into the whole god thing and think the Bible is more than some self help concepts.
Problem is, it only works if you're at least trying to believe it
They're fricking losers and religion is a cope for them because their lives would be completely empty without it. Just like all christcucks.
Because i wont be simulating being around people. I simulate my entire social life. Discord for friends. Video games for rewards. Porn for women. If i take those things away ill be more likely to want to be around people. I know, i used to be more social before i decided to spend all my free time staring at a computer screen
You need to focus on the things you should be doing instead of the things you shouldn't. Just saying "I will use less discord" is useless. You need to be put being social irl first, and discord second.
I am. Ive tried what you said before and always return to the computer. Its easier, more comfortable. If i stop the things then i wwill go out more. I cant just use a little discord, a little porn, a little masturbation. So im just not going to do any
>They're fricking losers and religion is a cope for them because their lives would be completely empty without it.
Please tell me how full your life is and truly fulfilling with your drinking buddies, fornicators, and friends who only love you in calculated ways.
>"Umm guys so there's this part of Christianity that I don't quite understand..."
>"Means you are demonic blind faith or leave and burn in hell"
Not friends in any calculated way there bud haha lmao
Projection
but he's still right
>lead a fulfilling life
Post what makes your life fulfilling and I will happily explain why it's just fleeting vanity and the sublimated hatred of others.
>instead they have to buy into the whole god thing and think the Bible is more than some self help concepts.
Read the book of Job and Ecclesiastes and stop listening to moronic Protestant heretics.
>Why is this board constantly shilling for the israelite 2.0 god so much as of late?
the alt-right and american first went full christian cuz the alterantive is trannies. seems NPC's need some form of israelite, whether its christianity or immediately go full israelite troony
Please tell us about your fulfilling and incredible lives, I am very curious to see what I'm apparently missing out on with only having a wife and son and money and friends and happiness and all that stuff. What does atheism bring to the table?
So you are a christian for the happyness of it? Seems as vain as being an atheist really. And no, there is no evidence that the christian god is the right one
People wan't the best lives they can get, religion is good way to achieve that, getting a free community and being given meaning is great.
But for any religion to be effective in improving their life there has to be a an genuine level of faith, not everyone is fortunate enough to brainwashed as children to have that genuine faith and not everyone can suspend their disbelief to convert to a religion as an adult.
Atheism brings nothing to the table in itself it's just the inability or refusal to go down the religious route to obtaining a better life.
> if you're genuinely incapable of finding ways to lead a fulfilling life without getting on your knees for to let jesus cum inside you, then you really should just paint your bedroom wall red.
I thought this way for most of my life, grew up in a non religious household and just saw no need for it. But lately I started being a Christian as well because I really enjoy the focus that it brings, praying everyday and thanking God for all the blessings in my life, letting go of my attachment to things and trusting Him, trying to walk through life with love for everyone I meet. It has had a significant impact on my life, and being around other people who act the same way is really nice. My work is Christian, we pray every morning and evening together and talk about the way God has impacted and bettered our lives and bettered our work. I myself agree with a lot of the principle tenets of Christianity but I do have a lack of belief regarding all of it. So much of it is similar to other religions and philosophies that I can’t help but think it’s all just one interpretation. But what I have is faith that if I become a person who embodies what Jesus stood for and I follow the Lord and his laws that I can create a heaven on earth for myself and others around me. Could I do that with Christianity? I’m not sure, probably, but I enjoy the community being Christian brings.
>Why is this board constantly shilling for the israelite 2.0 god so much as of late? I know the term NGMI gets thrown around a lot, but if you're genuinely incapable of finding ways to lead a fulfilling life without getting on your knees for to let jesus cum inside you, then you really should just paint your bedroom wall red.
Religion is good for most people and makes them better. Christianity is a pretty based religion other than the fact that they think some guy could be God.
It's not just this board, you terminally online homosexual. Touch grass. Young people all around are without hope or purpose and turning to Christ on their own after a life of atheism to find the guidance and learn of the morals that have been lacking in their life.
It's not a coincidence that the generations with the least guidance, purpose, and the most problems stemming from lack of morals are turning to Christ.
not really supported by data. people are becoming more muslim, that's true. in europe they're demolishing churches and turning them into stores or mosques
People are becoming more muslim because mussies have more children by factor of having 4 wives and being able to still marry women young even when it is illegal for everyone else. Add in how good they are at murdering others and of course it is one the rise. Mussies are an invasive species used by israelites to punish “christians”, but the synagogue is in ultimate power of both.
Demonic hands typed this post.
I will pray for anon
what is it with you no fap homies
you know you can jerk off without watching porn and without being a coomer addict, right?
How do you do without remembering of porn memories, like you just jerk off while thinking of that hot girl that was in your highschool 10 years ago
nowadays I think of my fiancé but before, yeah I unironically just imagined muh wholesome missionary scenarios with that hot girl from high school *6 years ago
I'm 27 and I'm still jerking off to the girls from school. It actually ruined my last relationship idk what the frick is wrong with me , I don't want to admit any of this to a therapist.
Each day I jerk off in front of girls on random video chats. I just can't stop and they seem to like it. Ughhhh I might never get around it its just too addictive.
I got banned from various streaming sites for doing this. I'd befriend female streamers over time then proceed to get really drunk a couple weeks into the friendship. They'd trust me enough to connect Webcams on stream and I'd have 'old mickey' out and in full pitch. Never got more than a couple strokes in but it was enough for me to continue off cam and bust a fat one.
Miss those days.
Do noIST first
Cold Turkey Blocker, yes I am on here but I wasn't on here at all for the last 2 months of 2022, will put the blocker on again soon
I'm around day 40 and I feel pretty good. I had a sexual dream this morning and I just thought no and woke up, wet dream prevented.
What's the recipe for the chicken thing. Looks good
The main problem with smoking is that it's smoke. Selective pressures from inhaling smoke would make us trees, which we're obviously not, so smoking really is that bad for us. We wouldn't be able to survive if we couldn't tolerate small amounts of it from fires, but it does a lot of immediate damage to the lungs that can take weeks to repair (or years with long term smoking).
Vapour is pretty nothing to our lungs, though, especially since the vapour are from oils that are typically liquid at room (body) temperature. Obviously research is still ongoing, and there are some carcinogenic additives (and nicotine itself is carcinogenic) but cancer isn't what causes short term shortness of breath. However, one conceivable edge vaping could give an athlete is that it causes them to routinely practice deep breathing. What I'm getting at is I'd love to write an episode of some moralistic Disney show set in junior high where this AC Slater character is dissuaded from vaping by his coach, but then he loses a match or sprint or whatever to someone who starts vaping immediately after he wins. The moral: Don't take advice from someone who ended up as a high-school sports coach.
Day 9 of no fap. It's been easy so far but the porn cravings are 24/7.
Do you guys have any tips on how to deal with constant urge to look at porn?
Is this feeling just something I have to ride out and eventually it gets better?
Block porn sites. Use the internet less. Lift weights and hike more. Leave IST
Yeah but I work with PC for like 12 hours a day total. Kind of hard to avoid porn.
>Block sites
The moment I get horny I just unblock them.
>Workout
The moment I return home I start thinking about porn.
You have to actually try. Blocking the site doesnt make it impossible to access but it makes you think "remember when you blocked the site, how you felt, why you did it" you have to hate it enough to not want it. If you are still at the "why would i hate it women are hot stage" you have a lot to learn
I'm at the stage where I find porn hot but at the same time I know it's pretty degenerate and it would be better if I didn't look at it at all.
It's like an inner conflict and for now it seems my dick is stronger than my brain.
I guess small steps. It used to be that I didn't question it at all.
>noooo you can't just make healthy decisions!
>you have to also give yourself over to Christianity otherwise it won't work!
Heckin based trad bros go with christ King praise him jesus is LORD stay on the path patriots in control fellow pedes
Christanons are literally worse than bronies these days, I would be embarrassed to join your gay little club
shalom
>girl compliments me
>get hard
>leak precum
Not as much as me
Theycallme the leaker
Ibeen drippin’ low and high
I won'tget to get what I'm after
Till the day I die
Broke 5 days of no fap yesterday.
Could feel the difference in how I felt, virility and all that. So frick if, I’m staying on no fap the rest of this year.
I almost broke my nofap streak yesterday.
then I remembered all of the times I relapsed, and how miserable I was. I also remembered the pleasure was literally 10 seconds, and then it was just remorse.
I'm just not falling into this trap again.
Read the Gospels.
I bought B+ from wholecelium. Grew them easily myself and dried them. Pulverized them and ingested 5g dried with lemon tek without any prior psychedelic experience.
I have successfully managed to break 7 year long gambling addiction and I don't feel the urge to look at porn. I tested myself and I got aroused but I had the willpower to just shut it down and continue doing something else. I now finally truly believe that a well-planned, well-executed psychedelic experience may it be through shrooms, meditation or turning to scripture that it has the power to reset the brain. Think your brain is wired like a computed you have not cleaned or formatted for years. I now feel "clean" and I think with clarity.
Looking at it. Taking shrooms was the best thing I have ever done in my whole life and it managed me to finally be spiritually free.
AMA
Wholecelium is so nice, the website looks so cool.
I just got some Microdosing from them, never tried it before.
How intense was trip? Everyone has very diff tolerance to shrooms I find.
I will be unable to talk at 2.5g and my friends will be just chatting normally talking about colours looking diff.
What was your trip environment?
I was alone. I did it in complete darkness. I listened to this playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/7AvezwqFZRmz3uDdUccPd9?si=953bdddb032b449b
At first I looked at my phone thinking there was something wrong with the mushrooms. But then I started breathing and I managed to control the visions depending on how deep I started breathing better and the visiauls became more intense. I then realized why the seasons are sometimes off. I understood that nature sometimes manages to forgets to breathe.
I wrote about my trip here: https://www.reddit.com/r/problemgambling/comments/zugnwk/i_did_shrooms_and_now_i_lost_my_aptite_for/
Yes sorry it's reddit but the information is key not the platform.
Thanks for the playlist anon, gonna use this for my next trip. Glad to hear yours was meaningful.
What does the trip feel like?
where did you trip and what did you do during the trip
I did it alone and in home.
Shroomfricks are so god damn annoying. You speak like a crackhead whos one month clean.
how's it feel to have all that weight off your shoulders? there's something to it right?
Heroic dose saved my life going directly from miserable active duty military life into miserable peak covid lockdown civilian life. I was humbled very firmly but then I was shown an indescribable deluge of infinitely important things, I saw the creation of all things and the death of all things, the concept of DNA being this infinite arcane technology containing the memories and souls of all living things, an intelligent computer-esque simulation of god across all space and time with the goal of simply achieving balance in the physical space we've been given, constantly adjusting for change across billions of living worlds.
nothing else quite matters after soemthing like that. you start to live for today, to see smiles on faces and to give more back than you take from that infinite accumulation of experience contained in all DNA, contribute new data instead of redundant data.
I have never had more focus, purpose, and unconditional love from all living things in my life, I swell up with joy just thinking of making some kind of positive change at any scale, the dissolution of the desperate ego that sees reproduction as the only means of contribution that overpowers all other things when it is inflamed is destroyed and replaced with love and the knowledge that accumulation of experiences in one life, and the impact that has on others by proxy far outweighs the contribution of simply adding more human experience vessels to the simulation.
I no longer fear failure or death, I know my DNA will contribute valuable data to the god mind as this vessel dissolves and merges with it
Whether or not this tool to access these revelations is respectfully allowed to everyone or if it's commodified and ruined forever remains to be seen, the next 20 years will see changes in human civilization beyond the wildest imaginings of science fiction for good or bad either way.
I should do no fap. I use my white towel as a rug to clean the spunk off and now the colour of the towel turned yellow for some reason. Some yellow spots more like.
Hitting the 7th day today. I know I timed my last one just after New Years ball dropped. No major difference tbh. There’s been two days I got home exhausted from gym/work and I went to bed at 1030, no time to think about pron.
>meal planning
virgin
day 28. asked my crush out on date and she said yes.
>the antichristian copes ITT
Kek, israelites, either we're setting israelites and witches on fire or this whole israeli anti-nation can burn.
Unless you found some unaltered Lutheran texts as your starting doctrine thesis, I highly doubt you are practicing an unisraelited version of Christianity. You can’t get a bible that their editors and printing presses haven’t touched in a store today.
Its so worthless if you are not addicted or have an extreme fetish. I did for like 3 weeks and would easily complete a month because i felt no need at all, but in the other hand i felt so depressed and stressed out. The thing is: i need to cum sometimes to endure my shitty life. Its cumming or using drugs and drinking
I just noticed I haven't fapped for at least 3 weeks.
Last time at the doctors office my T was 11 ng/dl, is that good?
>feel extremely lonely yet despise everyone around me
Please help how do I fix this? Everytime I hear people talk about their lives and tiktok I just want to smash their face in.
Anyways I went 1 week as well but now I guess my new coping mechanism is to fap to less degenerate porn and deleted my HDD, over 2.4 tb
sounds like you need to humble yourself a bit
>gf 9 months pregnant, no sex and almost never fapping these days
>start having wet dreams again
wtf lads
Your balls have to drain. But why aren’t you fricking the preggo girl? It is fricking great and actually knocking the bottom out will help get the kid out faster. Probably because you jizzed on its head and it needs to run away.
I did until recently, she doesn't want to and I don't find it particularly tempting either
Can I hit then? Not like she can get any more pregnant than she is right now.
i don't want to struggle it supposed to be easy wheres my heckin pillow
lmao gayg its been only 1 week
>willpower method
Try easypeasy
I’m 180+ days in and I feel like bursting.
I’ve resolved to go on a cut, too much fat on atm(skinnyfat) and bulking would only exacerbate the fat at this point.
>how to live a better life feat. christianity thread
>israelites instantly appear and ruin it
Many such cases.
>the rabbis ruled that since the majority of thieves in that city were israelites, the wine was undefiled
I love him so much.
Me to bro
Add workouts first time in the morning and keep going anon. You will get there.
>counting the days you don't jerk off
You morons missed the whole point.
>9 days
Anyone else finds randomly touching dick without even thinking about it or intending it?
im at 8 days, and yea I can relate
Working out so I'm ready for the crusades v2
I'm also a week in and I feel great but did it for religious reasons.
Secular/comfort/materialistic reasons would've been there for me to coom non stop.
No fap is a psy op. Use it or lose it.
Broke my streak tonight but I plan to start again tomorrow and do my very best to make this the last time I do this shit for the year. I will become more disciplined and focus on getting to the point where I can look at lust provoking images and not feel anything anymore
Return to the Oneness of God. Follow the revelation given to the final Prophet, Muhammad - read and know the Quran. Respect the past Prophets and messengers. Remember, Jesus is the Messiah, not the son of God or God himself. If you truly love Jesus you should know the truth about him. He will return nearer to the Last Day. Prepare yourselves for the Day of Judgement.
try to change mindset i recently told myself I am not a masturbator and really am telling myself its gross cuz its like fricking your own hand currently it is working I see ass I feel kinda aroused but I feel disgusted at jerking myself off maybe this'll help you anon
Don’t fap in church
You don't need to be religious to admit some of the morals (if not all) taught in the bible are worth following.
Anyway, I am a fap addict.
I went all of December without fap to see how it felt like.
The first week was miserable but at the same time my motivation and confidence started skyrocketing. It peaked around the second and third week. Even managed to get a few girls numbers even though I hadn't really talked to girls before.
Around the fourth week the high wore off and I felt miserable again, plus the blue balls and the boners I would get were annoying.
I realized the most efficient nofap method is just fapping once a week or two. You get the high from nofap before it wears off and sexual tension doesn't accumulate that much.
Try going a entire month without nofap to "fix" your brain, and then switch to fapping once a week or two. At least that's what I found works out for me.