Obsessing over physical appearance is shallow because it shows a lack of focus on more important things in life, such as character, intellect, and per...

Obsessing over physical appearance is shallow because it shows a lack of focus on more important things in life, such as character, intellect, and personal achievements. It also reinforces the damaging idea that a person's worth is determined by their appearance, which can lead to low self-esteem and a range of other mental health problems. Additionally, focusing too much on physical appearance can lead to unhealthy behaviors, such as extreme dieting and excessive exercise, which can be harmful to a person's overall health and well-being. Instead of obsessing over physical appearance, it's important to focus on developing a positive self-image and building a fulfilling and meaningful life.

  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Stopped reading halfway through to tell you focusing on being aesthetic changed my life and that you are gay.

    I think I'll continue to be hot which makes it easier to excel in the alternative copes that you aren't even good at.

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Dyel cope.

    Just mire brah. Haters gonna hate.

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Yes to most men obsessing over appearance is cringe but ugly men are constantly rejected and treated like shit because of how they look. They can't just repress it all away because it's effeminate when every time they go out into the world they're ostracized thanks to it.

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Don’t care still lifting

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    No because i want something pleasant to look at. If you want to be looking at a orc for the Lord of the rings you do you.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I would like to look like an orc

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    That's true to some extent, as you age you should focus more on health and enjoyment rather than aesthetics. Needless to say that looks matter more than they ever have, so it's important to focus on that first

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Haha nah bro looks don’t matter. There’s
      no way that from a glance of any person, an impression of his personality can instantly form. I don’t believe that even by looking or talking with that person a whole story about his entire character can be told. It’s false to think that these impressions can be formed quickly and easily which can enhance or distress our opinion on a person. People aren’t that judgmental.

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Bro, I hate to break it to you, but "body positivity?" Yeah, it's just for women. There's no male equivalent of Lizzo. Why do you think all the landwhales who spout this nonsense are only interested in Chadzilla?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      underrated post also OP is a dyel or a fat fuck.

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    post body
    beauty is its own excuse

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    A fatty wouldn't be able to sell my ideas. People don't respect intelligence they respect what makes their balls recede or ovaries tingle. A fatty is not going to be able to sell his ideas as well as a badass, all other things being equal. Nobody respects fat managers or fat cops or any other fat authority figure.

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I learned that obsessing over my appearance makes me more anxious, which makes me less attractive. I still put care into it, but I take a bit more of a lax approach nowadays.

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    gay

  12. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You autistic fuckers keep not understanding the basic concept people usually understand by the time they grow out of their teenage years (like i did) - your appearance is literally the front door to all those things you mention. You can have a great intellect, tons of achievements and a fun personality, but if you look like shit most people won't even want to engage in a conversation with you because looking like shit usually correlates to having the rest of the package.
    Imagine you've built a theater. It's got premium staff, best interior in the world, magnificent recreation areas, but in order to watch the movies you'd have to touch the door handle made out of literal shit. Would you want to touch literal shit every time you want ti watch a movie? Most probably not. So wouldn't many others.
    Your looks are the doorhandle that opens the pathway to the rest of your traits, which are the cinema. If your looms are shit, most people will just try to avoid shit, even altruistic and positive ones, since that's in our nature.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      So if I have bad genetics I’m doomed to be alone?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Based post.

      So if I have bad genetics I’m doomed to be alone?

      Depends on how bad but yes it's possible. Still, being fit will massively improve your chances because a big, strong ugly fucker can at least command respect whereas a bald, ugly skinnyfat dyel is just a pathetic sack of shit deserving nothing in life.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >literal shit door handle
      lol that one got me, thats hilarious to picture in my head.

      pretty true as well, OP ignoring the fact that self esteem can be derived from positively changing your own appearance. OP being a gay like always, sure dont be a total narcissist but if you want to just give up on everything while youre at it be my guest.

  13. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Eat big to get big

  14. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    being healthy will give you an aesthetic enough physique without much effort. still you say this as if dedicating a couple hours a week picking something up and putting it down is going to completely derail your focus and goals in life. strong healthy people are going to be much more mentally healthy and satisfied than fatties trying to justify their pathetic beings through copes riddling the OP

    The body is the avatar of the mind. A pathetic body is a often the home to a pathetic and simple mind

  15. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Found the fatty

  16. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Obsessing over anything, including physical appearance, is a neurotic compulsion to cover up buried anxiety. The obsessed doesn't really choose to obsess; their brain is running an unconscious avoidance program. So
    >dude just care about the important things in life
    doesn't do anything until the real source of anxiety is brought to awareness and faced. /End psychblog

  17. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    the pseudo intellectual liberal movement of considering all practices of physical care such as staying in proper shape, skin care, higeine, hair routine..etc is merely sloth masquerading as sophistication. If you look like shit it implies that you're a lazy sack of shit no matter how much you achieve otherwise, you're automatically labeled as a rapist, you'll be considered a burden to your otherwise fit social group and your delusions of "superior persona" will fall short and cause you sexual frustration from repeated rejection.
    In short ; OP is either a woman or a manlet but he's a gay nontheless

  18. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >lack of focus on more important things in life, such as character, intellect, and personal achievements
    nobody's saying you can't work out and focus on other stuff at the same time, you're just lazy.
    >it's important to focus on developing a positive self-image and building a fulfilling and meaningful life.
    which we do through lifting, dumbfuck.

  19. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >such as character, intellect, and personal achievements.
    Imagine your disappointment upon finding out that these things don't matter either.

  20. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You are stupid because you think looks and all these positive character traits are mutually exclusive, like you can't cultivate a great personality/interests/soul and also care about your appearance or be attractive and fit. I am actually kind of amazed that you actually seem to believe this. makes me think that you are dead last in the genetic lottery and resent everyone who is more attractive than you (which is everyone). You emanate heavy energy of "incel who believes he's the good nice guy and women are stupid for ignoring such perfect boyfriend material instead going for all the attractive asshole jocks, but is actually a piece of shit without self-awareness or honesty"

  21. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Op is right though. Work out because it's: good for your body and mind; it's practically useful to be stronger instead of weaker.

    If you primarily work out for any other reason, you are mentally ngmi and most of you don't even realize the gravity of that

  22. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    People judge each other harshly and swiftly. Society is shallow. You can be the most thoughtful and talented person in the universe and there will still be tons of people that won't give you the time of day based on their first impression of you being skinny, fat or ugly.

    Welcome to real life gay.

  23. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >character, intellect,
    Genetic so what's the point of obsessing? You have control over your physique

  24. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Being attractive moves you up social hierarchy making success in life easier

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