Personality Gains

After getting shredded, how do I make social gains???

  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    get a life. easier said than done, but thats really it. experience builds character

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Here is the progressive overload method:
    1. say "Hello" with a big toothy smile to everyone you see while going on walks, or out and about
    2. start going to social events of all kinds in your area, practice even just small talk and focusing on having fun while talking to people. Remember it only has to be fun for you and you will maximize your fun by being fun. This is how flirting works and you should do it with everyone.
    3. Practice creating and holding sexual tension when talking with women. Be flirty and push the envelop but don't go too far. The only time you can go past it is at end when she can either safely/discreetly accept your invitation or politely and safely decline and you aren't stuck with any tension left. You can practice tension with women without ever breaking it if you want to.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      *you will maximize your fun by being positive and inquisitive when talking with people. Avoid religion and politics outside specific groups. Talk about relatable things even if it is just the weather. Again remember the focus is your fun,not theirs. They are just coming along for your ride.

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    bros...should i just take the black pill and make an insta/facebook account ?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      i hated having a facebook, 10 years later am glad i deleted

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Yes you absolutely should. Nothing weirder than meeting new people and telling them "I don't have facebook / instagram / snapchat / whatever normies use". Like how the fuck are they gonna contact you? Noone is gonna bother to add your fucking number and call you / message you like that. I only had a facebook account, and it worked fine when I spoke only to 5 people. Then I went to university, talked to some girls and ALL of them were surprised I have neither insta nor snapchat.
      Snap is cool if they want to give you random pic or something they don't want others to save. So, some goofy photo of her face or maybe how her ass grew and her pants don't fit anymore lmao. This shit also creates so many mires. In the last 3 months I've recieved more compliments than I've had in my whole life.
      So yeah - literally 0 disadvantages to creating social media account, with all of the benefits.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Noone is gonna bother to add your fucking number and call you / message you like that.
        lol
        lmao even
        if a girl wants you she doesnt care you dont have ~~*snap/insta/fb*~~

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Well of course if you're attractive girls will even send you messages through pigeon messengers to your jail cell if you demand so.

          For the vast majority of men that's not actual reality and they are only shooting themselves in the foot by not having any social media

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            not every girl will go out of her way like that. its so much more effort to put in for something you're not even sure will work out. most of women will find it creepy that you don't have social media - they will think you are trying to hide something from them or that your ideology is abnormal and extreme ted kaczynski wannabe

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Everything you wrote is true for the vast majority of men.
              But if you're legitimately attractive you can get away with almost anything, doesn't matter what you say you're in. You can say that you only use IST as social media and they would still giggle and be interested in you.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                yeah, of course. but you most likely are NOT top 1% in attractiveness, so don't make it harder for yourself.
                >Everything you wrote is true for the vast majority of men.
                Yes. Exactly. Men usually do the first move, they usually make the most important decisions and they are the ones chasing after their potential partner. But women are most often not like that.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >12/15/22
      Try reposting this in 10 years. That's the minimum amount of time before you can post a screencap you gay.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Make a bumble account. Girls on fb do not want your dick I promise you.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      It won't make a difference unless you're already a normalfag.
      I have those accounts but because I don't know people, I never talk to anyone there.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah, let me, as a shut-in 35 year old autist, go make social media accounts..... that will surely help me....i totally wont be targeted for some MK-ultra shit, nah, that wouldn't happen lol.... ill just stay anon thanks

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You get social gains by being social and going outside, meeting people and doing stuff.

    Instagram may be "social media" but 99.9% of shit you see on there is not going to be local to you.

    I guess you could use certain social media in a smart way to find groups of people who share your interests in your area, talk to them, and then go to meet them IRL, but purely using social media to socialize with people doesn't fucking work, it's the same as going on IST for social gains.

    TL;DR get a hobby and pursue it with local people, obtain friend groups, socialize.

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    That image is every single man in my town

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      sounds like a pretty cool place

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Yes I love it here

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Depends on where you are starting.
    If you truly have no friends, there are some options of finding new contacts, but it will take time and rejection to make friends. Family is a good start, as they are less inclined to say no. Consider apps like meetup or spontacts or any real life clubs. The climbing gym I go to has regular meetups where you can find climbing partners if you don't have one.
    When talking to people aim for being authentic and open without being inconsiderate and hurtful. You can read all you want about this but in the end it's just trial and error. Also you want to filter out people that don't fit you.
    Work through some psychology books like "The Anxiety and Phobia Workbook: Revised and Updated Seventh Edition and Difficult Conversations" and "How to Discuss What Matters Most"

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Nighthawks is kino

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