Saturday feels because friday is too short for cunts that actually work

Saturday feels because friday is too short for cunts that actually work

  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm working a dance party tonight and a 60 year old man is wearing a pink wig and schoolgirl outfit with roller blades. I hate this place.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Lmao. Starting out the night geekin, nice.
      I'll take a twisted tea and can I smoke in here?
      Captcha mkwjh

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >twisted tea and can I smoke
        The gay bar's down the street, "sir"

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Damn dude you better lock that shit down for the end of the night, nothing like old man bussy

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Based old Man not giving a fuck

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Is he wearing it ironically...?

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I started fin today and I’m really scared. I want to believe that it’s safe like I was told by medical professionals but obviously anons here have different opinions. I can’t tell if I agree with them or if I have been influenced and am being irrational. My sex drive is insane already so I could use a tone down but what if it really slows down? What if it makes me suicidal like I used to be and I ram a knife into my neck on a whim?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      What the fuck

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I started taking it like a month ago and stopped. I honestly had a high libido and that shit weirdly killed it in a way. I was able to go days without jerking off. I still did but it was more about seeing if I could get it up.

      Then I got with a girl and couldn't fucking keep it up. I feel fucking stupid and terrible. Fuck my hair.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        In my experience its better to start with a small dosage and work your way up. When I went in balls deep a few years ago there were time when my dick wouldnt work and I was 22 without having that issue before. I recommited to it a little more than half a year ago and I did 3.5 months taking a quarter pill, then 3.5 on a half, and just started taking full like two days ago. I also skip random days and dont take it on weekends if im going out. But yeah my hair loss has at least slowed down big time so thats cool

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Started it last year and don’t feel a difference. Most other anons are just trolling

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      imagine getting filtered by fin kek
      you are like a babby
      >pinning test C
      >pinning EQ
      >taking anadrol
      >fin
      >cialis 10mg
      >minox

      Roiding is based I love being a roidchud, living as a natty is a fucking meme if you arnt a genetic god. Seriously if you are average or less or KHV you have NOTHING to lose by not roiding, you arn't even living a real man's life.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      How old are you?

      You'll likely be fine on fin. You can also take literally half the dosage you're taking (I assume 1-1.25mg) and it'll work with an even more reduced chance of side effects.

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >another Friday I'm home alone and miserable
    >no friends to go out with
    >sick and tired of being alone
    >my happiness is slowly diminishing doing the activities I like alone
    Please give me new ideas bros

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      You can start off by sending a bond my way and I might let you follow me around on osrs and answer all questions honestly.
      Captcha nratk

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Unfortunately I am in the same situation bro. The only thing that I can say is don't give up.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >another Friday I'm home alone and miserable
        >no friends to go out with
        >sick and tired of being alone
        >my happiness is slowly diminishing doing the activities I like alone
        Please give me new ideas bros

        [...]
        Same boat as you anons, basically realized all my friends are deadbeats and the ones I am closest with who are great guys live far away.
        Even when you guys feel alone, remember there are people in a similar boat. Never lose hope, love you guys.
        [...]
        Move on to the next one anon, she ain't worth your time.
        [...]
        Honestly anon it seems like you're doing pretty well. Finish up that degree and good luck on that teaching job! I liked the part about not looking down or adverting your gaze, I need to do something similar. Godspeed.
        [...]
        Absolutely based.

        I've been with 6 women but I still feel like essentially a KHV because I've never had a proper relationship and I have absolutely no fucking clue what I'm doing and have no prospects. No friends in the area or social activities to meet people through and dating apps are fucking trash.
        >1st girl
        Met her at a party junior year of college, she commented something like "Wow, you sure can drink a lot" and I drunkenly said, "I've got a handle of vodka back in my room, how about we go back and see how much of it I can get in me before I pass out." We went back and fucked, repeated like 3-4 times but I honestly only remember like one instant from one time because I was so drunk every time. Doesn't count because I drunk-lucked my way into it.
        >2nd girl
        She was traveling abroad to the US and she'd conned her boyfriend of 6 years into letting her have an open relationship while she was there. I was the first and only guy she fucked here, we both caught feelings, I convinced her to break up with her bf, then I broke up with her a few months later. But we were only together for a month or so while I was here, then like 6 months of long distance. Doesn't count because she was ESL.
        >3rd girl
        Got a bj from a drunk girl after a party. She was super into it and didn't seem that drunk, but she avoided me afterwards and probably thinks I #metoo'd her even though she was all over me the entire night (a guy who was into her tried to cockblock me for like 3 hours and still got it in). Doesn't count because she was drunk.
        >4th girl
        Weird friend thing where I kinda talked her into being with me, she was really conflicted but finally we fucked. Had an on/off thing for multiple years, I was in love and she had strong feelings for me but because of distance and me being a drunk she would never commit. Eventually I got sick of it and started drunkenly blowing up at her and now it's over for good. Doesn't count because it wasn't a real relationship.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          cont.
          >5th girl
          Met a cute nip chick while traveling europe, we traveled together for a week and fucked like rabbits but I was on ~~*SSRIs*~~ at the time and I couldn't fucking cum, only came like 4 times in the week despite us fucking constantly. Doesn't count because ESL.
          >6th girl
          Dating app chick, she wasn't even attractive but it was the beginning of the pandemic and I was lonely. She was like 50 miles away and her roommates were worried about covid so they didn't want anyone in the house seeing people outside for a while, we started sexting and I had a lot of fun but then we met up and she wasn't as attractive as her pictures (and pictures weren't great). She was going to stay the weekend but I could barely get through one night with her, the second she arrived I just wanted her gone but because I'd been sexting her all kinds of dirty things I was going to do to her, I had to follow through, I lost interest in sex for like 3 months after that. Doesn't count because fugly and she was retarded.

          So no proper relationships, and all the girls I've been with happened for really dumb reasons. Now I'm approaching 30, on probation (can't go to bars or drink), kinda fat, and I have no fucking prospects. Girl number 4 was hot and had this entrancing way about her, like she was so reserved and shy about sex and I completely opened up her world with it. Fucked up my standards for women and I doubt anything will ever compare. Match with the occasional qt on apps who I know would make me get over this girl if we got together, but conversation never goes anywhere. So now I'm stuck and bitter and sad and likely to stay that way till I die because I want to get together with chicks who are way out of my league and anything less feels like settling. By the time I'm 35 I'll only be able to get 30 year old chicks at best and they've already hit the wall. I can already feel my hymen regrowing.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I have never had a one on one conversation with a woman outside of my immediate family.

            You've done it before, you can do it again. Precedent is in place for you to achieve a better relationship. Why give up? There is no benefit to giving up.

            Some of us have nothing and fear we will never have anything.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              What I'm saying is, I feel like the only difference between you and me is knowing that I've done it before. But in terms of actual practical knowledge of how to do it again, I have no fucking clue.

              You can do it if I can do it. I'm just not sure either of us can do it.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I get that. All I can say is that I havent given up and WAGMI.

                I am in the process of recovering from 6 years of basement dwelling. We're both starting from a shit position. But I'm really enjoying the process, no matter the result.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I have never had a one on one conversation with a woman outside of my immediate family.

            You've done it before, you can do it again. Precedent is in place for you to achieve a better relationship. Why give up? There is no benefit to giving up.

            Some of us have nothing and fear we will never have anything.

            I would give both of you my default advice of talking to strangers

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              can you give some advice on how to do this? I'm not a sperg or anything, I can have normal conversations if someone else initiates or if I have some actual reason to talk to someone, but just approaching a stranger and starting conversation with them, I have no fucking clue how to do that. Advice?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Make an RS3 account (ironman if you can't stand spin2win) and go for a quest cape

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Unfortunately I am in the same situation bro. The only thing that I can say is don't give up.

      Same boat as you anons, basically realized all my friends are deadbeats and the ones I am closest with who are great guys live far away.
      Even when you guys feel alone, remember there are people in a similar boat. Never lose hope, love you guys.

      >ask girl out on tinder
      >she says she needs to take a raincheck on a coffee date over the weekend
      >no response since
      >find girl IRL
      >invite her to join my group of friends/coworkers
      >she says her sisters are in town and she might not be available for something we want to do over the weekend
      >sure fine, she's not available, shrug it off
      >fast forward one week
      >ask her if she wants to go out with us again and do something fun
      >she says her sister's still in town for the rest of the month
      >Get super sharp feeling I'm being lied to again
      >Been listening to this song for 3 hours now

      Feels like I got big and confident and it didn't even matter. Strong suicidal feelings. I'll make it through but I just wish this wouldn't happen to me.

      Move on to the next one anon, she ain't worth your time.

      pint of Duchesse please

      Week has been weird. Started off stressing over a failed state assessment to get my teaching credential. Put off applying for a doctorate program until next year. Coworker hit on me and said she's not surprised both guys and girls are interested in me. Got a call from a principal at a school that wants to hire me, told me to come in next week to check out my new classroom, get acquainted with the school and staff, and meet my new coworkers. Been thinking about my ex a bit, not really to see what went wrong but I kinda pity her. Decided to go to AX alone and try the San Diego Fair alone too. And I leave for graduate school in 2 weeks, my last semester.

      life is weird, kinda feels empty not being able to share nights and express myself to the person I thought I would marry after 4 years together. But I'm getting closer to my friends who've always been there, we just don't hang out often. Going to try to pick up new hobbies and try meetup when I get back from school, not really interested in dating, just want to meet new people and get new inspirations. I also realized what my new goal is: to never avert my eyes or look down again.

      Spending another night lifting in my home gym, but I'm looking forward to it. Hope you guys all have a good evening.

      Honestly anon it seems like you're doing pretty well. Finish up that degree and good luck on that teaching job! I liked the part about not looking down or adverting your gaze, I need to do something similar. Godspeed.

      >collect interesting maps
      >pic related is the earliest and favorite of my collection
      >1935 promo map for the Berlin Olympics
      >a certain Austrian painter was in charge of Germany in 1935 so the map has a ton of swastikas scattered throughout
      >everyone thinks it's cool though
      >my Soviet parents
      >random friends who have been to my house
      >even my bosses who spotted it hanging on the wall on my wfh webcam, granted they didn't see the swastikas at that distance
      >went to the park with this gnomish chick, offer her some tea at my place
      >showing her all the other cool stuff I have hanging on my walls
      >get to the map
      >telling her what it is, showing her closeups of some of my favorite cities on it
      >notice her face falls
      >"I don't think you should have that hanging on your wall"
      >drinks her tea and leaves soon after
      Wasn't the one. My last gf loved that map and I love it too

      Absolutely based.

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    KHV Dyel, recent wizard THAT finally met someone great. Terrified I'll fuck it somehow. I'm inexperienced and It shows, worried she'll figure it out and just leave.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Remember this to simplify things, with this woman you're going to hangout,have fun, and hook up. Don't treat things like a date, treat it like a friend you're hanging out with, make sure you break the touch barrier though

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Breaking the touch barrier has been the hardest.
        >Treating her like a friend
        This was my go to mindset and has worked wonders. We joke, we tease each other. We talk and its effortless. It feels great but just working up the courage to touch her or even try to kiss her has been nerve wracking.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          How did you meet her? Have you two gone out? When the time is right do a quick wrap around her shoulder with your arm and tell her she's awesome

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            We meet on bumble and have spoken for like a month now and we've actually done our second date already with a third on the way.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              29 year old here going through a very dry spell, never touched dating apps because I'm shit at taking pictures and have nobody to take pics for me. What kind of pics did you upload? Did you get multiple women reaching out?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                So one pic of me at an outside bar with clear lightning and another one of me (full body) at an anime convention has gotten me the most likes. And the split is like 9/10 cute slam piggies 1/10 gorgeous women so for the first time ever, I have options I never had before.

                And the anime one I'm just dressed normally in a decent fit next to a cosplayer that's gotten me tons of comments.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >30 year old wizard virgin
                >another one of me (full body) at an anime convention has gotten me the most likes
                >on a dating app
                what in the fuck

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Times change anon. Anime is more mainstream than ever.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Just two pics? What made you pick bumble over hinged,tinder and other apps?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I misspoke. Sry senpai!
                It's hinge. With hinge you can tell which picture they picked and they can leave comments.
                The most liked pics are Bar Pic, Con Pic. The rest are me traveling or hiking.
                So I come across as nerdy but not onions and someone who's active.

                My prompts are a bit onions even to me but its just me talking about making playlists and enjoying life.

                My stats: Maybe 5'9-10, could be shorter tbh but I don't have manlet mentality cause I never cared for it tbh.

                210ish lbs, I lift but not as much as I should so I'm far off from achieving 1/2/3/4

                What's planned for this third date? Can you take her to shoot some pool? You can touch her when helping her fix form and shit

                I think she's deciding and it'll most likely be a chill place.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >think she's deciding and it'll most likely be a chill place
                What did you do for first and second date? Is this third date scheduled?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                1st Arcade
                2nd Nice Dinner (I paid and tipped well)
                3rd TBD
                4th Her favorite movie at a smaller theater

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Suggest you go to a pool hall, or out for a hike?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Too hot for hikes rn
                Pool Hall could be an idea, I was thinking escape room but never done one so not sure what I'm getting myself into.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Go to pool hall, you can touch her by helping adjust her form and most pool halls have nicely stocked bars. Trust me it'll be a good date

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Hire a pro photog. $200 bucks an afternoon and a few locations and I was good to go.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Forgot to add, you're very likely to get friendzoned or ghosted if you don't start making physical moves on this third date. After the second date you should've been making out

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                he should have already had phone/webcam sex and potentially even real sex before even going on a date with her

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                This is what scares me the most. I'll have to summon the courage to make a move on this 3rd date somehow.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                What's planned for this third date? Can you take her to shoot some pool? You can touch her when helping her fix form and shit

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              So dating apps are the way after all? Not sure what's popular in my country, so I will just bite the bullet and install Tinder.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >Breaking the touch barrier has been the hardest.

          This is what scares me the most. I'll have to summon the courage to make a move on this 3rd date somehow.

          >I'll have to summon the courage to make a move on this 3rd date somehow.

          HOW DO YOU DO THIS WITHOUT FEELING LIKE A TOO FORWARD CREEP

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Beer, please

            I've been reflecting about some things in my life and came to the conclusion that, right now, I'm the happiest I've ever been.

            >Feel a lot thinner now, clothes are beginning to feel to large
            >Met lots of new people and made new friends through sports and gym
            >Seeing lots of improvement in flexibility and coordination
            >Self-confidence has increased a lot
            >Social anxieties are almost gone
            >Friend is going through the same things and I'm helping him find the way

            And most importantly, I've been seeing myself as someone valuable and likeable, have been opening up to others more and fixing the traumas caused by bullying in school. A gf would make everything absolutely perfect, but I'm still happy regardless. WAGMI, bros, believe it.

            Unless you begin by grabing her tits, pussy or legs, she won't think of you as a creep, that idea has been put in your head by too much time browsing this site. It will feel awkward for you at first, but just go for it.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Not too many feels here.

              Been living w my twin for several years now. He’s my best friend. He’s gonna be moving out to live with his gf of 4-5 years soon.

              I’m bummed out that my best friend will be moving to a different city soon.

              Other than that, life is good. Fit, easy 100k job, pretty gf.

              Hell yeah brother, WAGMI

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >Fit, easy 100k job, pretty gf.
                Anyone know why this exact thing describes 90% of fit posters?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Take the federal job pill, brother. 100k and full time remote for my gig.

                I’m not 1/2/3/4 or anything but I workout 4-5 times a week and do some rock climbing too.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                tech sector? do you have a security clearance at all?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Yeah, kinda tech. Mostly data and statistics stuff. Just a base security clearance, not even a drug test

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                what is your background

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                A masters in statistics, basically. I got hired to the gov straight out of school.

                It can be tough to get a foot in the door but a bachelors and some hard skills like python or some other type of data coding will get you a long way.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Ah, a fellow victim of feminist brainwashing. Anon women enjoy flirting, if she is on a date with you she is clearly interested.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >Breaking the touch barrier has been the hardest.
          [...]
          >I'll have to summon the courage to make a move on this 3rd date somehow.

          HOW DO YOU DO THIS WITHOUT FEELING LIKE A TOO FORWARD CREEP

          I live in NJ so lots of Italian Americans here but what helped me was touching more people I meet in general. Doing the shoulder handshake and so on

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Wassup coach Corey

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I love corey

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Me too. Have you read the book 10-15 times bro?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Terrible advice

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      You got this bro. You are a stud and you can handle this. She’s into you for a good reason and relax you’ll be fine.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      30 year old khv and you met a girl? Can you please explain how you met her and what you've done with her so far?

      >t. 30 khv never been on a date and know it's over for me but this would give me hope

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I'm also a 30 year old khv

        have no friends either

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      30 year old khv and you met a girl? Can you please explain how you met her and what you've done with her so far?

      >t. 30 khv never been on a date and know it's over for me but this would give me hope

      I'm also a 30 year old khv

      have no friends either

      How come you guys still "hope"? I've given up on women entirely and I still have 3.5 years to go for my wizard loicense.

      And even if an opportunity presented itself I 100% wouldn't go for it before hitting the age of 30.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >How come you guys still "hope"? I've given up on women entirely and I still have 3.5 years to go for my wizard loicense.
        I'm 30 and gave up on women years ago because when I was incapable of even holding friends through high school and college, the most openly social times of your life, I realized there was no point. I've literally never even asked a girl out.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      good luck anon. maybe this is too optimistic or like pre-cope but I think the type of girl who has the kindness to understand your inexperience will be a keeper, and if she doesn't maybe she isn't it

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      You can do it anon!!!!

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      She will eat you alive and it's going to be very painful, good luck

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >ask girl out on tinder
    >she says she needs to take a raincheck on a coffee date over the weekend
    >no response since
    >find girl IRL
    >invite her to join my group of friends/coworkers
    >she says her sisters are in town and she might not be available for something we want to do over the weekend
    >sure fine, she's not available, shrug it off
    >fast forward one week
    >ask her if she wants to go out with us again and do something fun
    >she says her sister's still in town for the rest of the month
    >Get super sharp feeling I'm being lied to again
    >Been listening to this song for 3 hours now

    Feels like I got big and confident and it didn't even matter. Strong suicidal feelings. I'll make it through but I just wish this wouldn't happen to me.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      You got ghosted twice, and even if she was lying so what? Don't let those thoughts win just because two whores were stupid. Oh yeah, and maybe don't listen to that.ve4mx

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    man
    Man i thought the pandemic was bad
    I wish i could have it back
    >free weekly covid money for losing job cuz covid
    >play csgo all day and all night
    >drink vodka whiskey rum every day/2nd day
    >tinder thots, snapping and calling lots of girls while im drunk and letting the alchol work its magic
    >all while im playing csgo and raging at ruskis inbetween calls
    >tinder date every weekend just because i managed not to get fat and then was hitting the gym when they relaxed restrictions
    >best year of my life
    >10 euro return flights to italy
    >wish i had it all back

    Now i have an ungrateful girlfriend who keeps bsing me, "i will show u i care when u show me u care", i have a 9-5 tech sales job (could be worse, its remote), and i hit the gym 5 days a week. Ive been cutting for 2-3 months now and im nearly 10% bf but my bitch just doesnt care. wont fuck unless she is drunk. pissing me off. i miss the hook ups and random raw sex. i have been with this girl a year and she wont let me cum in her even tho she went on birth control, we have a holiday but i think i need to break up and date randoms until i find the literal perfect girl to settle down with

    i dont know lads, it gets harder the older i get to justify living. at this point i think i will save either to go into my dream career or i will buy a flat in portugal/spain and keep working remote sales while drinking and fucking hookers every day

    just kidding, tomorrow no more pity its back to the gym and loving my girlfriend 🙁 the grind must go on until im dead and lifeless with a meaningless smile on my face

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      If you can get laid that easy just dump her

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Never forget you live the life you choose

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      you honestly sound like an insufferable cunt

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    pint of Duchesse please

    Week has been weird. Started off stressing over a failed state assessment to get my teaching credential. Put off applying for a doctorate program until next year. Coworker hit on me and said she's not surprised both guys and girls are interested in me. Got a call from a principal at a school that wants to hire me, told me to come in next week to check out my new classroom, get acquainted with the school and staff, and meet my new coworkers. Been thinking about my ex a bit, not really to see what went wrong but I kinda pity her. Decided to go to AX alone and try the San Diego Fair alone too. And I leave for graduate school in 2 weeks, my last semester.

    life is weird, kinda feels empty not being able to share nights and express myself to the person I thought I would marry after 4 years together. But I'm getting closer to my friends who've always been there, we just don't hang out often. Going to try to pick up new hobbies and try meetup when I get back from school, not really interested in dating, just want to meet new people and get new inspirations. I also realized what my new goal is: to never avert my eyes or look down again.

    Spending another night lifting in my home gym, but I'm looking forward to it. Hope you guys all have a good evening.

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I went to a concert with some friends that I've known for a while but never been to a concert with before
    One of them sat like a stone the whole night, complained he couldn't "vibe" around people he knows, and the other started an argument before we left
    It was the first show I've been to since covid in early 2020 I just wanted to have fun bros

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >sat like a stone
      Hilarious

      What concert?

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Cousin made it safe from Ukraine, very happy this weekend bros
    >She doesn't know I Zpost on Twitter

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >pretty much every weekend of march, april, may, and june thru last weekend was filled with me doing a sport activity i enjoy
    >most of my day is distracted with doing this activity, exercise, sunlight, some social interaction, etc.
    >too busy during day and tired at end of day to have my suicidal thoughts
    >also had those events to look forward to during my miserable week

    >about to have probably 3 straight weekends of nothing to do
    >about to not leave house all weekend for three weeks
    >will sit on computer angry about doing nothing, next thing i know the day will be over with another wasted day
    >will be considering suicide entire time

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      force yourself to read a book. might not stop the suicidal thoughts and in fact might exacerbate them, but perhaps the days will feel less wasted.

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    in the last 6 months

    >moved out of my parents' house and bought my own place
    >got a 20% payraise at work
    >gotten a motorcycle
    >lost 30lbs and gone from 225 bench to 315
    and yet I still feel like shit

  12. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    1 day down, 1 more to go at this family reunion. I don't wanna be here. I want to be home and not in Bumfuck, Iowa. I'm trying to make the most of this boring, gains killing situation but fuck me does it suck.

    Anyone else just say fuck it and decide to Grinch-max their life?

  13. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    i cant fucking dump my gf for the life of me, shes completely untrustworthy now but everytime i break it off the first sign of it actually being over i get her back. im almost 30 and a bit weird and antisocial so i tell myself i will never meet anyone else nor have children if i ditch her making myself feel like im choosing between being alone forever or a relationship without trust. noone will give a shit but good to vent this, i dont trust any of my friends or family enough to talk about it

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      How is she untrustworthy?

  14. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >collect interesting maps
    >pic related is the earliest and favorite of my collection
    >1935 promo map for the Berlin Olympics
    >a certain Austrian painter was in charge of Germany in 1935 so the map has a ton of swastikas scattered throughout
    >everyone thinks it's cool though
    >my Soviet parents
    >random friends who have been to my house
    >even my bosses who spotted it hanging on the wall on my wfh webcam, granted they didn't see the swastikas at that distance
    >went to the park with this gnomish chick, offer her some tea at my place
    >showing her all the other cool stuff I have hanging on my walls
    >get to the map
    >telling her what it is, showing her closeups of some of my favorite cities on it
    >notice her face falls
    >"I don't think you should have that hanging on your wall"
    >drinks her tea and leaves soon after
    Wasn't the one. My last gf loved that map and I love it too

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Cool map anon thanks for sharing

  15. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I lost my vCard yesterday
    Now I realize all the signals woman put out to me and how easy it is to play into it.
    I feel once we're on that date I can bring it to homebase.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      What Signs? T. Retard

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah, if you got the date you pretty much have the fuck.

  16. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'll take the usual old fashioned.

    Not exactly sure what to do with my life right now or how to feel about myself as a man. I'm pretty directionless atm.

    The long short of it is that I was born with birth defects and I let the insecurity of that ruin much of my young life. I didn't have a male role model, raised by a single mother and my sister so you can naturally assume that on top of said birth defects I was also treated as though I had lesser value in the household. Not a strong upbringing for self-confidence.

    Anyway, I basically bullshitted life until I was "fixed". Having blown several chances at relationships or improving my life out of cowardice before then. Because I was like
    >I need to be fixed, then I can be me
    >I need to leave my small town and flee to the city
    Two weeks after I was "fixed" the pandemic hit and I stayed for another year. Figured it was over with after that, so I finally made the move out, to go to school and to be me. Age 26 at the time.

    And I blew it. I absolutely capsized. The covid restrictions/return bullshit absolutely crippled my ability to start a life here. I fell into a deep depression, felt like a failure. Wound up seeking therapy, getting better every month.

    COVID is finally memed away. Finished. But I'm just about out of savings so I'm going to either need a job here or move back home. I want to follow my dreams and I think that's easier in the city closer to home, but socially things are getting better out here now. Maybe I just feel bolder now that I'm leaving?

    I'm trying to weigh whether I should feel proud that I took a big leap and have kept myself alive and afloat this long, have learned about myself a lot. Against how much of a failure I should feel like.

    People tell me I'm too hard on myself, that my standards are too high. But I feel like I'm still just
    >27 y/o KV
    >No degree
    >writer ambitions
    >8 years of retail experience
    >Passable looks

    I feel like a loser. Hard loser.

  17. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I am worried about the environment, but I feel powerless. I limit consumption, buying things, eating meat, etc. in order to lessen my impact but it's like trying to stop the tide. One person can only do so much.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      its not the individual that fucks the environment, anon
      its the govt
      dont worry about things you have no control over and you will be a lot happier

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Remember that you are being gaslit into lowering your environmental footprint so that your country can triple its population and have you all subsist on that reduced living standard. A cattle farm with grass for food and other animals like chickens to balance out the cycle is carbon neutral, in some optimal cases even carbon negative. But that cattle farm is blocking the way for some apartment complex full of Somalis who can subsist on a tiny hydroponic garden or cricket farm.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >He fell for the propaganda.

      You deserve to be a slave.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Good goy

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      For every lightswitch you turn off, there are a million Indians throwing trash in the ocean and a million Chinese filling the ozone with noxious shit

      Don’t worry about it

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      blow up power plants or start destroying roads, be the change you want to see

  18. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    If someone killed someone dear to you and got away with it, how would you respond?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      if it was me they killed i would thank them

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I wouldn't be here if that were the case now would i

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I would seek out therapy, of the spiritual and/or psychological kind.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        That doesn't make the perpetrator feel 47 stabs with a kitchen knife

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Either accept it and move on, and live a legal life. You do not have to like them / forgive them / anything of the sort, but if you wish to live within the system, you cannot harm or truly interact with this individual. Prolonged exposure to somebody that killed a loved one will inevitably lead to you attempting revenge.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Slave response

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      With gods wrath.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      kill them, god says that thou shall not commit murder. I would simply enact gods will upon them.

  19. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >My oneitis ex who's virginity I took and wanted kids with in the future kept ruminating in my mind
    >Recently newer gf broke up with me because she had her own issues and 'didn't want to drag me down' even though I was a great boyfriend
    >Oneitis ex thoughts intensify
    I still feel like I could've played it better a year later and I don't know how to get her out of my head. I thought I'd have kids and marry this girl but then she started partying and suddenly lost interest. Lately not feeling my happiest and friends have their relationships crash and burn left and right, seems like it's one of those periods again. I'm starting to feel numb since I have no motivation or drive anymore. I wanted kids all my life but I can't even find a loyal partner. Thanks for reading my blog.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Brother, if she started partying and lost interest, then she was never the one for you, and you’re conflating your ideas of what you want with the person she actually was. Looking at it through rose colored glasses. There are more women, ones who share your ideals and dreams. WAGMI man

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Recently newer gf broke up with me because she had her own issues and 'didn't want to drag me down' even though I was a great boyfriend
      iktf. My ex has been hitting me up saying she has new 'perspectives on us and all', wants to meet up. I am like meh, I am pretty sure my new perspectives don't align with hers
      >just want a loyal partner
      you would think this would be a simple quality you can find pretty easy.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >I am pretty sure my new perspectives don't align with hers
        My ex and I didn't align either. I am heavy right wing, she's heavily left wing, not wanting kids. She told me she'd be cool with it if I pumped them in someone else though, and I can still invite her for threesomes.
        >you would think this would be a simple quality you can find pretty easy.
        Apparently not. I am very much of the mindset 'we'll keep going and build it up, through thick and thin' but apparently I'm the odd one out. Just sucks being dumped all the time with
        >You're a fantastic boyfriend but I lost interest
        >You're a fantastic boyfriend but I need to work on myself
        etc. Things are not going well and I've been waiting for months for it to improve. So far it's only getting worse and I'm slowly getting more and more demotivated. /rant

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >not wanting kids
          how old are you?
          idk it if helps anon but i realized after my last relationship, that only I can look after myself and my feels. No one else is responsible for me. I looked to my ex for some support and to respect my feelings when it came to me feeling uncomfortable about her lack of boundaries. Instead, I should of taken responsibility earlier for my shit and know that I can't change a person
          Maybe do an inventory of what/why your ex's said you are fantastic bf. Maybe they were just being nice and letting you down gently. Maybe you were too nice?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >how old are you?
            25 now
            >Maybe they were just being nice and letting you down gently. Maybe you were too nice?
            Nah, they lie and try to convince themselves of loads of stuff, but I am a good supportive boyfriend. Too nice? Maybe, but I do what I want and don't get swayed by my partners.

            >I am heavy right wing, she's heavily left wing, not wanting kids
            I'm so sick of the retards on this board needing to bring your politics into everything.

            When talking about relationships politics play a decent part, especially since both sides carry certain characteristics and beliefs with them. Thereby I'm not making any political claims, I'm merely pointing out we're polar opposites in certain regards which can cause friction. It's a bit reddit to just comment on something that annoys you.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              How far into the relationship did you find out she was heavy left wing and didnt want kids?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I don't recall exactly anon. We did have very open communication, especially at the beginning, so that's on me. Another friend even told me that she's lovely but that I'm wasting my time since my goals are obviously different.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >I am heavy right wing, she's heavily left wing, not wanting kids
          I'm so sick of the retards on this board needing to bring your politics into everything.

  20. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Considering carrying a lighter with me so I can discourage myself to stop looking at women while in public.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >see sexy lady in public
      >burn down a Wendy's

  21. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I am getting closer to my ideal body but still not there in my eyes but to normies I'm thick,solid,tight and attractive. I'm a khv at 30 and just recently went to a new gym in the commercial gym chain I pay to use. I noticed one of the pt girls full on looking at me mostly because I'm the 'new,' guy at the gym even though it was pretty crowded. I'm thinking of talking to her in a romantic manner and trying to actually do something for once.
    She's easily in the higher tiers of attractivness, fit,cute, big tits and nice ass with a slim waist. I just don't know if I should try to or not. I also don't know how to open her up since she's technically at work.

  22. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Tequila por favor.

    So have any of you been successful at giving your life meaning/enjoying life despite being a loner? I'm approaching the latter half of my 20s and still have a fair bit of difficulty forming any relationships with men as friends, or women as romantic interest. The couple of friends I do have can go months at a time without communicating if I don't reach out to them, so I'm pretty much making my peace with the fact that I'm a loner and forming social bonds just flat out isn't easy for me. The ship of recovering what little bit of my youth remained for a healthy social life has sailed. I should've figured this shit out years ago when I was still a pimpled faced teen wasting too much time cooming, but whatever, the past is the past.

    The thing is though, I don't want to sit in my room all day wallowing in self-pity and posting on sexist Kazakhstani image boards either, and would still like to put myself out there. I guess what I'm asking is what is it like injecting yourself into social environments as a loner/by yourself? Like going to the movies, concerts, festivals, bars, etc.? Will it ease my emotional anguish (being in public/ a social milieu despite being alone) or just exacerbate it seeing socially successful people around me?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      If you never insert yourself into social scenarios you'll never find what you're looking for, best advice. I've been hurt before, and its hard to not count the hurts, but I've tasted love and it's beautiful.
      Also your image makes me want a high res remake of inferno cop and that's made me sad

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Hey man I don’t have any advice for you, but I relate to you 100%. I could’ve written this post.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        thanks anon. It is somewhat comforting knowing there are others like me, even though we'll most likely never meet.

        I can relate. The worst part is the misanthropic tendencies I've developed over time. Not many positive prior experience to fall back on, so not much reason to believe things could get better.
        What helped me was joining a group/club where everyone is engaging in a similar activity. The key is it has to be an activity where you can fuck off by yourself and no one will mind because you're busy. For me, that's kickboxing. I manage to talk to some people at the gym, but whenever I have a real low mood, I can fuck around on the heavy bag during class and pretend I'm grinding fundamentals or combinations.
        Drawing or playing an instrument may help. No matter how bad it gets, you're not alone.

        >The worst part is the misanthropic tendencies I've developed over time. Not many positive prior experience to fall back on, so not much reason to believe things could get better.
        yeah it's a surreal almost contradictory kind of feel. I have so many previous failings that I don't really expect things to get better and have basically given up in a 'I am what I am' kind of way, but I don't want to roll over and die either. I still want to live. Maybe there's a glimmer of hope still buried deep within my psyche. Who knows. Been looking into the martial arts thing too btw funnily enough.

        friends come and go. its not that hard to make acquaintances at work. hell, go out to a bar with your coworkers, chat up some random strangers or some shit.

        Just talk to people, put yourself out there. You need to quit overthinking this shit like a gay. Also as you get older, your friends will have less and less time to "hang out". Learning to cope with loneliness is part of growing up.

        >Just talk to people, put yourself out there
        yeah anon did you read my post? That's what I was suggesting. I was just wondering the dynamics of 'putting yourself out there' by yourself, alone. The concerts, bars, festivals, etc I was talking about? Most people already have friend groups to go with them.
        >Also as you get older, your friends will have less and less time to "hang out". Learning to cope with loneliness is part of growing up.
        Funny because I've basically been alone since adolescence even before "growing up" and never had 'young, wild, and free' phase. Coping with loneliness has just been my normal for the vast majority of my life.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >Maybe there's a glimmer of hope still buried deep within my psyche.
          Hold on to that no matter what. I didn't mean to be demoralizing in my initial post. We're still young and the more we try, the more opportunities can arise.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            thanks anon. I've been trying to motivate myself with sentiment of pic rel. (not to go full poltard) But it oddly gives me a little bit of hope. Even if things are hopeless, I can still fight to the end and go out like a man.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Not that anon but I really hope you guys make it. I wouldn't wish this shit on anyone.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I can relate. The worst part is the misanthropic tendencies I've developed over time. Not many positive prior experience to fall back on, so not much reason to believe things could get better.
      What helped me was joining a group/club where everyone is engaging in a similar activity. The key is it has to be an activity where you can fuck off by yourself and no one will mind because you're busy. For me, that's kickboxing. I manage to talk to some people at the gym, but whenever I have a real low mood, I can fuck around on the heavy bag during class and pretend I'm grinding fundamentals or combinations.
      Drawing or playing an instrument may help. No matter how bad it gets, you're not alone.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      friends come and go. its not that hard to make acquaintances at work. hell, go out to a bar with your coworkers, chat up some random strangers or some shit.

      Just talk to people, put yourself out there. You need to quit overthinking this shit like a gay. Also as you get older, your friends will have less and less time to "hang out". Learning to cope with loneliness is part of growing up.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Checked
        >Also as you get older, your friends will have less and less time to "hang out". Learning to cope with loneliness is part of growing up
        but I'm starting to believe this is a Western phenomenon. Developing countries seem to have tighter knit communities. While adults have less free time for just hanging out, they still engage in meaningful activities. In bumblefuck Africa, nogs can walk down the street and talk to their neighbors, go out and hunt with other men, etc. Idk, maybe it doesn't have to be that bleak

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I can relate
      Learn a foreign language especially a harder one that very few people learn
      Russian Chinese Arabic or even just Spanish if you want to talk to beaners
      It’s helped me greatly was able to strike up conversation better with people of my target language than Americans

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >The couple of friends I do have can go months at a time without communicating if I don't reach out to them, so I'm pretty much making my peace with the fact that I'm a loner and forming social bonds just flat out isn't easy for me
      this is what im noticing in my later 20s, i had 15+ ongoing people i talked to & this week I stopped messaging people first and now i only have 3 people who talk to me. loner 4 life

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      You are literally me. I guess we need to put ourselves out there.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >I don't want to sit in my room all day wallowing in self-pity
      go out and do things. I try to go out into nature at least once a week, whether it's hiking in the mountains or kayaking on a lake. Set goals for yourself

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >So have any of you been successful at giving your life meaning/enjoying life despite being a loner?

      No I have not. Instead I deteriorated into the biggest loser you can possibly imagine at the age of now 30, and all of it is caused by being a complete social retard. Every aspect of my life is utter shit, and every piece of it can be directly or indirectly tied to being a social loser.

      People here on IST like to pretend like they are Ted kaczynski and are completely antisocial wanting to live alone, but that is extremely rare. I also see people here who talk about how they are happy being alone because they hate people, and I know for a fact that they are probably teens or early 20s, and by the time they reach late 20s they will be miserable about it.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >I also see people here who talk about how they are happy being alone because they hate people, and I know for a fact that they are probably teens or early 20s, and by the time they reach late 20s they will be miserable about it.
        this so much. Being alone when I was younger never bothered me that much. But know being older and seeing everyone around you settle down while you're stuck alone is the most potent fucking suicide fuel. I dunno man the the shit just wears on you. I remember reading a while ago how big of a stressor loneliness can be on people even akin to smoking, and now I think I'd believe it.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I somehow lived with this thru my 20s and when I hit 30 last year I now have panic attacks and suicidal thoughts 24/7. I mean I was never happy about being alone, but somehow I just lived with it I guess. But it's as bad as possible for me because despite my life being utter shit due to loneliness, I am always annoyed by people and can barely tolerate being around them. Loneliness is definitely one of the worst things possible for a person's health.

          I just hope to get the courage to kill myself soon.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Do you have a job where you’re around people or can talk to people? I find that that helps me.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              I have a terrible job that I'm humiliated to go to every day. Yeah I'm around people, I don't work remote or anything like that, but since turning so and mentally completely falling apart I barely even speak to anyone anymore. I used to at least joke around and all that.

              It's just over for me.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Not true m8. Let’s explore some options.

                What is your current shit wagie job? Are you living at home? Are you at least lifting and doing cardio a few times a week?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I can tell you, friend. I used to be extremely anxious and barely talked. I've slid in and out deep depressions a few times. I'm not the best looking and like another poster in this very forum, I too have a glaring physical defect. Literally and figuratively.

      If there's one thing you can do to fix that..it's to do as you just said. Put yourself into social situations you find uncomfortable. Don't get down on yourself when they don't go well either. Sometimes they wont, some people are cruel..but generally, everyone wants to make a new friend. Everyone wants to interact with new people. Everyone wants someone to relate to and to LISTEN to them.

      Try doing that and being affable, compliment them and find out what they're passionate about. Really hone in on their interest and ask plenty of questions.

      It's hard, but far from impossible. If I did it, so can you

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Vodka for me please.
      Brah, I used to think who the fuck would like to be friends with me? ME? HAHAH. But I realized no matter how they look, if you meet someone nice, you just become friends with them. So that’s what I did, I became nice. I stopped critiquing people, I genuinely heard them and showed empathy, I showed myself honestly and without covering shit, and I did friends! Be genuinely nice, have your boundaries, don’t fake shit, just be a nice person. The second step is talk to people. They’ll not be repulsed by you brah, just be nice! Everyone enjoys nice people, NOT fake people with second intentions, but genuinely nice people who wants a fren. Third step: Don’t be nice to girls for pussy, be nice cuz you’re nice and that’s it. Be nice and honest, you might get rejected, take it good, you’ll life without regrets and eventually find a nice gf! Or your female friends might get you one cuz you’re a nice cool man! That doesn’t mean fuck appearance btw, be clean every day, cool haircut, casual clothing that fits you+gym and you’re good to go. WAGMI

  23. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Looked at a gym vid I took end of last summer and I was looking fukin thicc and beefy. Bigger arms, chest, general frame.

    Since the Fall I've lost almost 20lbs. Main just because:
    >shit sleep due to work
    >eating less due to work lunches having to pack lighter
    >workout changes on the big compound lifts from little injuries
    >stress and depression from all number of shit

    Hoping this summer I can get big and strong again. I'm still 200lbs but I'm 6'6" and it looks skinnier now on my frame. When I was 220lbs I was nice and burly just how I liked.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      What/how do people like you eat to passively lose weight? If I stopped counting calories I'd probably eat 3500-4000 every day.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Mainly light lunches. I'm a supply teacher and if I'm working at a middle or god forbid elementary school I could get like 20 minutes or less to eat lunch. So I throw together four hard boiled eggs, a carrot, an orange, and that's it.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          One meal a day?

  24. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I have absolutely no idea what a decent, non-ToXiC male-female relationship looks like or consists of besides fucking

  25. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Daily anxiety attacks and I don't even know why maybe because I stopped drinking (even though I had some drinks yesterday at a social event) or maybe because I was dumped by someone I really liked, I'm just tired of feeling lost , before I met her I was happy person and enjoyed my life ,bit then I had to met her date her and fall for her just to be dumped out of the blue when I didn't even see it coming, anyway that's life now some day I'm motivated some days I'm just sad....

  26. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It's so nice not knowing what day of the week it is
    Feeling real motivated and confident the last few days, might cut down on IST and other media and actually get shit done

  27. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Whiskey please.
    God where do I start. I haven't been doing that well lately. The loneliness is getting to me. Between work and my trade program I barely have time to drop into discord and catch up with my friends. Whenever we meet up in person I just feel so far behind - they all have actual careers and are advancing in life and I'm still living with my parents, barely scraping by with the hours I can get at work. The only real social interaction I get is going hiking two or three times a month with my old HS oneitis (better than going alone), and while it's been long enough that the feelings have mostly faded it's still hard not to imagine what could have been if I had been a better person, or to put an imaginary partner in her place when we're driving or getting food. She, and other friends, keep telling me that I should try online dating but I don't even know where to start there - all I do is work and school and I don't think I even have time for a partner. I've lost a lot of weight this year (250 down to 205-210), but that's started to stall and I still think i've got way too much fat on me to look good.

    I know I just need to be patient and keep working on myself, but it's hard to keep going when I don't know if there's going to be an end to it all, you know? Maybe I do all this work and it all works out and gets better, but maybe i'm doomed to be lonely and broke forever and all this work is for nothing. I just need a win.
    Sorry for blogposting. Pic is from my most recent hike.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      It will all work out for you. You got this, anon.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Shit that looks like a nice hike, my dude.
      Everything in front of you is just something to conquer, to overcome. Weight loss often stalls but it'll come back round soon enough.
      Keep at it lad.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        It was alright, it would've been nicer if I hadn't had to go to work afterwards, there hadn't been a 7 mile drive up shitty forest service roads to get there (I'm gonna fuck up my suspension one of these days, I just know it), and if I could get out of my own head and quit imagining doing the hike with a partner instead of "just a" friend.

  28. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I want to be more masculine and the man of the house, but holy shit... With every cell, every fiber of my bod I hate, I hate housework so fucking much. It's like not enough that you were working through the whole week, you have to fuck up your weekend, too, because there's always something to fix or paint or make. And even when you think you are safe and you can get some peace, your wife just remind you of something retarded. Because hurr durr it's a man's job. But she's not that fast giving you a bj or something isn't she? No,of course not, because there's no such a thing as a woman's duty.... And you have to put on a smiling face for all this shit or else she starts cry... I don't want to complain that the playing field is not even, but holy fuck... If you are a woman you can just get any idiot while your body is in your prime then don't give a shit about anything anymore, while you are a man you should be prepared for anything. Emotional support, no, you are not allowed to have feelings, be strong, be muscular, no, it's not okay for you to check out naked women online, but she can drool like an idiot when she's watching softcore porn on Netflix with all those shirtless guys, be handy, be good with tools so you can work on the house, then be efficient in your work so you can earn money she can spend on stupid shit, no, don't even dream of ever seeing a dime... I'm so tired anons... Is there something wrong with me?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >is there something wrong with me?
      yeah, you're complaining about something without taking action. A house is a large responsibility, should be a shared responsibility which you both partake in equally. Talk to her about it or else its going to get worse.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Nah, nothings wrong with you anon. The only selfless woman I've ever known was my mother. I don't think the woman you marry will ever love you as much as a loving mother, at least not unconditionally

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Mothers aren't selfless. They're gratifying their own instincts by doing shit for their kids.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >emotions
      You should be able to express your emotions to your wife. That doesn't mean you become a simp and go to her for every little emotion that bothers you but if something is bothering you for more than a couple of days, she should take your feelings into consideration. Or find some friends/therapist to do that.
      >housework
      Maybe you can call a handyman once in a while so you can take a breather or enjoy a hobbies. I take pride when I fix something and look at it later. If you have kids or plan to, you can teach them this kind of stuff. I wish I paid more attention when my dad was doing handyman shit, when I was a kid
      There is nothing wrong with you.

  29. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >In med school
    >Finishing 3rd year
    >On rotation with an Indian doc
    >Think rotation went well, get call from regional dean asking what I think went wrong with my last rotation
    >Apparently this doc fucking hated me, thought I was borderline retarded
    >Don't understand why, dude never pimped me (asked med questions)
    >Get eval from him saying I'm retarded
    >Worried about matching into my program now
    >Indian is apparently very prominent doc in area, owns practice is multimillionaire
    >I got 80th percentile on my first boards so don't know why he thinks I'm retarded when he never asked me any questions
    >Think back on rotation, said things like "you should stop working out and just study"
    >Been working out everyday, look absolutely shredded
    >Patients kept commenting on how big I looked when rounding with him
    >Overheard him talking to staff saying he's having marital issues
    >Fucker is fucking me over because of insecurities
    This whole situation got me so stressed, literally all my evals aside from this one have been stellar and this guy just ruined me.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      You need to go to someone about that, not likely he'll lie and say you gave retarded answers. Your stellar record should give some creedence, just don't get emotional about this. I know it's stressing you bro but if you have an outburst at a critical moment you're going to lose any chance at vindication.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >This whole situation got me so stressed, literally all my evals aside from this one have been stellar and this guy just ruined me.
      That's a strong case anon. Just point that out and if they don't back off just push them
      >Test me
      >No, test me.
      >No not later, no rethinking, test me right now
      And point out in a professional way that he's just jealous lmao

  30. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Close friend of mine's father has stage 4 stomach cancer. Texted him last night just asking what's up, talked about our interests, but I can tell he's really going through it. Told him if he ever wanted to talk about it I'm there, but he hasn't and I get that, I'm the same way. Think a lot of men are. Just wish I could do more for him and his dad than just pray. They live in Europe so I can't visit them or anything. Feel so torn up about it, they don't deserve this.

  31. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    so like I'm DRUK right now.. anyone else? where are my bros at.

    theres this girl I liked, by the way. And it hurts because I know I never, ever had a chance with her, that there was nothing I could change, ot sucks man. knowing there was ntohing I could do, that who I am just sin't good enoughyou know? anyway

    I spent a few hours cleaning my car today. vacuum the interior, clean the carpets with a special foaming cleaner, waxing the outside. I wonder if our cars know how much we care about them. I like to think they do

  32. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Was this justifiable
    >be me in high school
    >I am fucking autist and the whole class know it
    >a bully decides to tease me and this pretty decent looking autist girl
    >he poked us and said that we did it to each other
    >we both decided to speak to each other saying we didn’t do it
    >I forget how since it was 11-12 years ago but we hit it off
    >she even likes my racist jokes about moron and we great each other by saying morning moron
    >one day we go to a school play together and she literally asked me out
    >I said no and she left
    >next day she wears hood makeup and a nice dress to class holding back tears
    >the reason I said no was that she smelled awful
    >also thought about getting with another girl but i didn’t have the balls
    Honestly I don’t know She wasn’t fat and had a decent face
    But omg her smell literally made dizzy

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >"morning moron"
      Where do I find women like this? Idc if they're stinky, that's easier to change than making one racist.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        You make them. Idk about stinky women but I've turned the girls I've dated (and the guys I hang out with) more racist over time

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >You make them
          This is true in my case. I basically had this childhood friend I made in primary school in like year 3, and over time she was comfortable with my racism and started to joke around and say bro and shit, I was really surprised when she started saying it because with women they don't really like to be racist.

  33. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >girl i really like said to me shes got a date on sunday night & she told me she shaved her pussy the other day
    bros why does this hit me so fucking hard? i feel like a pathetic bitch moping about it. i hate woman mind games so much

  34. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Weeks been ok. I've been unmotivated lately with exercise, even though I've got a small home gym set up. I know it would be better to workout in the mornings, but I seem to get home from work and don't want to do anything.

    I do MMA on Sunday's and I've been seeing gradual improvement, but my cardio sucks and I'm finding it hard to get into the groove of actually just doing anything that would get me working out regularly.

    Also not many friends outside of work colleagues, and since we live in a big city arranging peoples schedules is like herding cats, I've been thinking about joining a sports club or something, but my work schedule is weird I get Sunday off, but other days are variable, and I work from 9 to 10pm most days, so finding something that fits in, is challenging.

    Also feeling lonely, I've been thinking about hiring a PT to get my ass motivated, but with inflation crunch money is tight atm.

  35. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >gf in europe
    >constantly get days where I am awake from 3am to 10 pm so I can be with her and be functional
    I am a little tired

  36. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm actually doing fairly well. About to get a major pay increase at work and realized I'm ready to be serious about a relationship now that my professional life is sorted out. Got 4 dates lined up over the next week.
    just hoping the local housing market crashes so I can get a home next year

  37. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >don't want to get married
    >gf is catholic and she always just assumed she would be married
    >it upsets her that I have no interest in it
    >also upsets her that I would like to move abroad(even though I always tell her I want her to come with me and wouldn't put her in a position where we move somewhere that she couldn't work or live happily)
    >she's an incredible woman, very supportive but it just seems like it might reach a point where we split because our life paths diverge
    >she thinks I don't want to get married because I just don't have an interest in it
    >actually it's because I don't want to be in the position where a woman can fuck me over like it happened to my dad

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Don't expect to ever have a lasting relationship for life if you are reluctant to marry. If the girl is actually what you say she is, then just go for it. Otherwise she will eventually just leave. I mean, you have to consider this decision extremely carefully, but ultimately having these trust issues is going to ruin your relationship

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >>she thinks I don't want to get married because I just don't have an interest in it
      it's because I don't want to be in the position where a woman can fuck me over like it happened to my dad
      Maybe talk to her about it? Discuss a prenuptial agreement.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >prenup
      >no fault divorce is illegal in catholicism

  38. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Feel really good bros
    >3 years ago was posting here
    >Fired and unemployed, gym is all I had
    >Got job, effectively gone from 0 to 100k in 3 years
    >Lifts fucked over Acovid but now 3 to 5 plates on all
    >Feels like I made it

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >>Got job, effectively gone from 0 to 100k in 3 years
      American? What do you do, just program?

  39. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I've already cleaned the house, done the shopping, went to the pool for a swim, made food. It's pouring rain outside. And pouring rain in my mind.
    The day has just begun. I have no idea what to do. But I feel like I have to do something active. Too tired to work out though.
    >tfw only have physical activity hobbies but can't do them all day
    >tfw don't enjoy passive activities like video games or tv any more
    >tfwnogf
    >tfw just want some pussy on my face

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Try going to the ice rink and as some girl to help you learn how to skate.

  40. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Had 2 months without any problems but now there is blood in my shit again. Its very likely that my doc will prescribe me corticosteroids so atleast bulking will become easy as fuck again

  41. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Got back together in February with a girl I briefly went out with last year. I broke up with her last week. I'm pretty fucking retarded because it was obvious it was gonna go that way but damn she felt really special.

    Realized I've also gotten kinda fat, probably around 18%. Gonna focus on getting that back down. I was very excited to spend the Summer with the now ex-gf, but now Summer looks to be just going to work and the gym for the next three months. It's been probably over a year since my romantic life had nothing going on, not texting anyone, not bumping into anyone I like, just nothing.

    A lot of my friends are abroad or working most of the time so Summer is shaping up to be pretty fucking boring.

  42. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I love these threads. You guys are such losers lol

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >I'm not a loser!
      >Posts on IST

      Choose one, larper

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Not everyone on here are losers. We just hate nerdit.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          That's just what I would expect a loser to say

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Sounds like cope for someone that never made it.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Sounds like projection for someone that never made it

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I made it. Not you.

  43. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Bit of a dilemma. I've never wanted a relationship and I don't value sex enough to prefer it over jacking off either. Problem is while I'm happiest single, I still miss out on the personal benefits that come with relationships like touch, someone to do stuff with, intimacy, being less awkward in certain situations and being able to relate to others better. Dunno how to negotiate missing out on so much growth because I just dont want the source of it.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      if you find out how its possible then let me know. tfw want all the gf experience without being tied down & needing to hang out with her all the time

  44. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    finally found a pic that broke my last μg of dopamine that I didn't even know I had
    I'm sure I've had a cold since march because I can't stop masturbating
    I'm going to run, I don't know, I'll probably end worse because it's 0ºc outside
    I just want to make it, bros

  45. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Rum and Diet Coke.

    >I’m probably going to prison for felonies
    >get a girlfriend while on release
    >she joins the military
    >it’s a daily struggle not to cheat on her

    I know cheating is wrong but my time is limited and this relationship probably won’t work out. What a year.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      when a girl joins the military it is game over

      t. military

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        She's fucking all the other dudes there so you might as well.

        >no response to his felonies
        >lol dude shes gonna be a whore

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          You will never be a woman

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      She's fucking all the other dudes there so you might as well.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Bro... no Barracks Bunny is staying chaste. She is gonna fuck some soldiers.

  46. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I work on Saturdays.

    Bittersweet feels though. I keep dreaming of the girl I know I can never be with. No interest in women at all, but she keeps appearing in my dreams. It is better it will never happen. I have work to do.

  47. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Im having one of those days where I keep wondering if theres something on my face or if im on a wanted poster. A lot of people glare at me.

  48. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Hard seltzer, thank you.

    So my current gf who really loves me and almost worships me has a history. Her ex fwb of 4 years put his dick in her ass without permission, she did not resist him in any way. The day after she found out that her asshole was damaged. It kinda looks like some muscle got torn and it should really be on the inside. She doesn't visit this ex for a while but the goes back for more after like 1 year? This bothers me because every time I pound her doggy I can see the torn asshole and it drives me fucking insane?

    Lift for this feel, please help, what do?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      If her asshole is damaged she 100% knew what he was doing and was fine with it. If it's not something you think you can get over, cut your losses and dump her.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >She doesn't visit this ex for a while but the goes back for more after like 1 year?
      Dump her

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      lmao even without the rape that girl is a mess. fwb for four years? shes a hooker who didnt even get paid

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Sounds like she made that shut up and has hemorrhoids

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      fucking hell

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >ex fwb of 4 years
      more like ex-bf she regrets

  49. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    GF of 6 years has moved on in only 3 months. Last we spoke 2 weeks ago, sounded like she wanted to get back together. I dont know how ill ever fall in love and trust again.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I feel your pain brother. Just found out yesterday from her friend that my gf of 2 years moved on within 2 weeks. We did everything together and I did everything for her. Waiting outside her work for hours to take her home, getting soil for her garden on weekends, going to restaurants every Friday, walks every Thursday, and more. Once you meet someone new, your thoughts will be of her and not your ex. Just take a break and enjoy being single for a while. You'll make it through bud, we both will.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        You sound like you were a total bitch in the relationship anon. Btw the person that does the dumping got over it long before they dumped their gf/bf. If you’ve duped a chick before you should know this. Currently in such a situation myself. Basically over my gf and we haven’t even broken up yet. It’s been a slow death of our relationship over 6 months and she thinks everything is fine (or maybe just pretends it is like I am) the partner that is in denial is always caught by surprise, but if you honestly look back, you can see the signs possibly even years back

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Oh for sure I was a bitch, I was her slave. I knew I had to get out of there. It was too hard for me to leave emotionally though, I was too weak. She had mental issues and became abusive, and ironically, my therapist tells me abusive relationships are more painful to leave and stay away from than healthy ones. It was a total shitshow.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        GF of 6 years has moved on in only 3 months. Last we spoke 2 weeks ago, sounded like she wanted to get back together. I dont know how ill ever fall in love and trust again.

        For future reference, women break up with you in their heads months or years before they actually tell you. She was getting over you way, way before you even knew.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I cant stand it man. We created a world of our own together, had our own weird way of speaking and things we thought were important. Then she doesnt even have the decency to tell me shes moved on. I have to find out on my own.
        >Once you meet someone new, your thoughts will be of her and not your ex.
        I dunno man, ill always have in the back of my mind that you can spend a quarter of your life with someone only for them to treat you like nothing one day.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I feel your pain brother. Just found out yesterday from her friend that my gf of 2 years moved on within 2 weeks. We did everything together and I did everything for her. Waiting outside her work for hours to take her home, getting soil for her garden on weekends, going to restaurants every Friday, walks every Thursday, and more. Once you meet someone new, your thoughts will be of her and not your ex. Just take a break and enjoy being single for a while. You'll make it through bud, we both will.

          Anons, it's going to be okay.

          Girls who move on fast because girls are never single. Every girl has a legion of dudes waiting out your relationship to hit her up, then once she's single she's got a harem of guys to fuck around with and choose from, or not choose at all and just be a hoe.

          However you've learned a good lesson, and that's that you have the capacity to love someone and they don't. Their next relationship will go the same way. They will move on in life jumping from novelty to novelty on whoever gives them the rush of goodfeels next. A lot of girls are like this. A lot of dudes might be too, but I only have experience with girls.

          It's hard out here for a dude. Modern dating is stacked harder against you than ever in history. Never give up though. Even after a million heartbreaks, maybe the next one will be the one.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I wanna kms honestly. I just wanted a girl to have kids with and move to the middle of nowhere. Now im jaded and bitter and the pool of available women will be even less able to pair bond and have even more previous partners and baggage. I dont want to play the game.

  50. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Literally one day after deciding to be extra frugal for the next couple months my car wouldn't start at 4:30am. Had to walk a mile home worried about the towing and mechanic bill because I was sure it was the starter. Just walked to the auto parts store and bought a new battery and prayed on my mile walk back to the car that it was just the battery that needed replacing.
    It started right up and I'm super relieved to only be down $200 rather than $500+ I was expecting. Also forearms feeling pretty good from farmer carrying the fucking battery.

  51. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >girl is into me
    >I am not into her, at all
    >her friend is supportive of her
    >the friend and myself work in two adjacent buildings so we sometimes go to and from work together
    >she also lives on the way I take to go home, but I've still got a somewhat long distance to get home if walking
    >talking about this retard girl who's into me most of the time, she's her wingman
    >two days ago, extremely hot weather outside, I ask if I can barge into her apartment for a second for a glass of water
    >obviously yes
    >7 hours later I am balls deep in her, our bodies completely drenched in sweat, my back and triceps completely scratched by her nails
    >the talk afterwards is cool but awkward, she didn't plan on this to happen (and neither did I, honestly)
    >she wants to keep this a secret because she doesn't want it to look like she's been plotting against her friend
    >she's also taller than me but wants to visit my place tonight
    Wat do?
    Cuddling for hours after so much time felt like Heaven, but I don't want to be in a down low secret relationship. Help

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Do you feel anything for this girl? If not, go for it, it doesn't have to be an actual relationship. Once you start feeling something, cut it off.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Honestly man, go for it. Not much to say besides that.

  52. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >friend introduces me to his gf’s sister
    >super fucking hot
    >she thinks I’m cute and cool
    >we instantly hit it off, are making out within like 2 hours
    >it been years since I’ve vibed with a girl this hard
    >the 4 of us are at the bar, having fun all night, I’m telling her to hold my hand when we’re walking out, she’s sitting on my lap in front of everyone, etc
    >make out for 30 minutes before we all leave
    >more oxytocin released that night than the previous like year combined
    >next day text her, basically get ghosted; several hours between responses, etc
    >I ask her out, 24 hours later she finally replied and rejects me
    >what the fuck

    I don’t get it bros, it’s been 3 weeks since this happened and I’m still not over it.
    >just find someone else
    I wish I could

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >vibed
      god i hate zoomers

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      you over pursued, women interpret that as 'this guy is desperate and thirsty' - which it sounds like you are

      you have to give them a slow drip of your attention and affection (try and make them work for it if you can)

      stop caring about finding someone and find yourself instead, focus on your goals and lift

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      She just wanted you for the night

  53. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I will be in L O N D O N for the first time on Monday, I’ll be there about a week, wanting to explore smaller towns in the UK too

    Any advice or recommendations? I’m an Ameribong.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Some good lesser-known places in London include Sir John Soane's museum in Holborn, the Old Operating Theatre in Southwark, and the Grant Museum of Zoology. Nunhead Cemetery or Abney Park Cemetery are nice to walk around but may be a bit far out. I'd also recommend walking along the river from Waterloo to London Bridge, you get to see/go on the Golden Hinde which is (probably a replica of) one of the ships to first go around the world. The Barbican estate/greenhouse is worth a look if you like modernist estates. Tourists seem to like Covent Garden, Greenwich, and Camden. The East is onions/Portland, the West is 'normal'.

      For other cities, Oxford is worth a day trip at least- the covered market used to be interesting and there are a bunch of old pubs around, as well as everyone saying "wow, this is like 'arry pottah!". Portsmouth is good, you can go on HMS Victory as well as see the remains of the Mary Rose, there's also a bit to do (seaside amusements/arcades, etc.). Winchester is ok too (it has the roundtable on display) though it is small for a day. Windsor Castle is good too, mostly due to the room dedicated to the defeat of France.

      "Wetherspoons" is a cheap and cheerful chain of pubs here that are everywhere. They normally have the cheapest pints in town and are weirdly crap and interesting at the same time, worth a visit if you want to see native bongs on the lash or want cheap microwaved food. If you can find a greasy spoon cafe (there aren't that many about now), I'd go there and get a fry up as it's probably the highlight of a Bong's life.

      I recently did the Tank Museum and Corfe Castle which were both fun. I've assumed you are a history nerd and ignored the North of England, no idea why.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Thanks mate, really good info.

  54. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm lonely bros.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Going to be honest with you dawg.

      Nobody fucking cares. It’s just you, and it’s always going to be just you. Make some friends, be content with being your own best friend, and do what YOU want to do over anything else.

  55. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Gin martini, 2 to 1, twist of lemon, thanks.
    When I found IST I was a 6' king of manlets and weighed 376 lb. I grew up fat and have been fat my whole life. I didn't know what was what when it came to diet and exercise and IST set me down the path of lifting and not being a fat piece of shit. I'm still a 6' king of manlets but I'm down to 229 and still going strong. Life has gotten so much better, I literally cannot fathom going back.
    From the bottom of my heart, thank you IST
    We're all going to make it

  56. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I took a home fertility test and it showed I'm sterile. What the fuck do I do now?

  57. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Im not white

  58. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm afraid to cut because I will lose strength but I'm afraid to bulk because I don't want to be a fatass. 5'11 ~178lbs. I feel guilty eating because it feels like I'm feeding a bad habit (I don't have abs but I don't look bad either), but I know I should and that my ancestors ate multiple meals a day. I want to look good but it's not for myself, and I hate that I seek validation from others. Though, I don't know if we can truly validate ourselves, I cannot think of a single individual that has lived without others.

  59. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Well bros, I did it-- got married a few weeks ago, wife bought a nice house before prices spiked, and we both have great jobs and are doing part time grad school. Just gotta lose a bunch of weight since I've been neglecting my diet but at least I've been lifting a ton

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Why did your wife buy it bro?

  60. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm 21 and going on the first date of my life next saturday with an actual hot and tall 8+/10 girl and honestly I can't believe this is happening to me. I have been a gymcel for the past 3 years but my social skills havent caught up with my physical ones. How do I not spill my spaghetti and seem like a total autistic freak? I have never even kissed a girl and the last time I spoke to one in a friendly way was a year ago. all tips are welcome.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Just b urself

      On a serious note - just be yourself. I was 100% in the same place as you are and now she's my gf. I assume if you have a date set up she already likes you in some way. Don't overthink anything, don't push anything, just have fun. It's gonna be alright, you got it Anon!

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Be your most friendly version of yourself. Talk about your passions, your interests, and what your hopes/dreams for the future are.

  61. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    started training martial arts again after going to gym for couple of years and before that was training martial arts..

    my whole fucking body feels amazing training martial arts, since it's whole body aerobic exercise and I also didn't lose any gains.

    fucking love sweating, heavy breathing and conditioning. lifting weights just doesn't fucking prepare your body even close to martial arts.

    literary saving my life and sanity

  62. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >so fucking depressed I can only think about how depressed I am
    I need help, I don't even fap anymore

  63. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >wake up saturday morning
    >should be happy that it's the weekend
    >have no one to do anything with like my entire life
    >just sitting on my computer entire day
    >hate that i do it but have nothing else to do
    >try to go outside
    >just bike aimlessly then come home

    put me out of my misery please

  64. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >depression, the thread
    that said, i feel your pain anons

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      do you know what "feels" means man?

  65. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Do good feels count?
    I finally hooked up for the first time since I broke up with my fat ex girlfriend.
    She's a fit girl with a great body in her late 30's
    Incredibly horny and destroyed my endurance.

    Take the milf-pill, bros.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Based and proud of you anon. I want a MILF as well.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        A MILF seems great until she cries on your shoulder about her miscarriages, failed marriage, and dying parents

        And realizing that there’s no realistic way for you two to actually be together long-term, it’s a total dead end fueled by sex addiction

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Based. I fucked a recently divorced milf 3 times last year. She was in her mid 40s and I was 21. Milfs go fucking crazy for young cock. My only mistake was cutting it off too soon. I could have learned a lot from her.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Where do you even find women like this?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          THE GYM

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            How does one approach older women at the gym?

            There’s a strong chance they’re married or will think you’re being a creep

            Probably classes right?

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              easy bro, just be charming and handsome

              tip: acquire confidence by hitting on old women at the gym.

  66. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I wonder if I'll ever lose my virginity.

  67. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I still struggle with insecurities even though things have been going well for me. I'm also lonely with no close friends anymore after moving to a new city. Ive been going to church which has been helpful with the feelings for a while but they still come
    Do people suffer from depression their whole lives?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      well anon you and me are not so different. things have been going well for me for some time now and I still do struggle with insecurities & random mood swings.

      I think the answer to your question "Do people suffer from depression their whole lives" boils down to this: you are most likely high on the trait 'neuroticism', just like me, and this will mostly stay the same throughout your life. So, because of this, it will be normal to experience negative emotions quite often throughout your life. But the upside is that with experience and perhaps through knowledge such as Stoicism or Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, you can learn to control these negative emotions far better.

  68. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Girl went on two dates w me last week. Made out both times. Texted me out of the blue that she isn't ready for a relationship a few days ago. First non shitty dates in a long time so I'm pretty bummed about it.

  69. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I struggle with the morality of my OnlyFans account. Because I'm unvaxxed I lost my job and wage for Amazon.. I set up an OF with my gf and upload videos where she sucks me off and I cum on her face (my fetish lol). It's super hot editing that stuff and reliving it that way, but there are days where I think this is absolutely haram and I don't know what to do. Im 33 and really don't want to go to college again but my career is going nowhere right now.. I think I continue doing this until I'm debt free and then? No idea man. I loved my old job so much and it was high payed. And now i so something a borderline retard could do

    Also I have trouble gaining muscle and I don't know what I'm doing wrong. I train hard, sleep good (mostly) but some days I just don't eat enough and the next morning my scale says Iost 0.4kg muscle again.... I bought weight gainer now (1100kcal/shake). Maybe it'll help

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >payed
      >borderline retard

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Ye not my first language and this is a common mistake

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      struggle with the morality? you're pimping out out your girlfriend to thousands of pathetic internet losers, which part are you struggling with?

  70. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Saturday night playing Dragons Dogma
    >creating and naming pawn based off coworker that is a long term relationship and has never been single
    >this girl actually tried to get me and her friend together a year ago but I fucked it up because autism, without even fucking her
    >and I kept comparing her to my coworker that I actually liked Jen

    It’s over for me.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Man I need to reinstall this game. Got stuck at the DLC because I was stuck at the eye ball boss. One of the best games I have ever played. Also the game just keeps going after you kill the final boss, which was amazing. Shame it has no coop

  71. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    19 hours into my fast. Another 21 to go. It sucks, but I need to get this discipline down.
    Downloaded and deleted bumble within 24 hours this week. Felt tempted to get it again a couple hours ago. I won't do it for the same reason I need to keep going with the fast.
    I look forward to the gym tomorrow since it's the first day I'll be back in almost 3 weeks after vacation and immediately getting sick upon my return.

  72. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm tired of being married to a deadbeat woman who refuses to work but I'm also scared of getting divorce raped. Other than developing a time machine and not getting married in the first place, what advice do you anons have for me?

  73. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Pornography is kicking my ass, I don't even know why I even keep fapping, because I regret it immediately after I'm done and I can feel my brain being fried for most of the day but I always come back to it. I don't do much besides working as a cashier for the summer and the time before that is a general blur. I have no gym nearby and I have some side hobbies I want to start on like creative writing but I never seem to get to it outside of brainstorming ideas

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >I have no gym nearby
      >Posts on IST

      Really activates my almonds

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I had one I was able to go to when I was at university but I'm home now, guess I'll just do bodyweight exercises and get back on the wagon

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      go to the park, if you don't live in a shit city, there should at least be a calisthenics section or a dedicated fitness park near you

  74. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >be me 2019
    >have crippling anxiety (can't hold a conversation with the slightest intimidation factor without fidgeting and submissive/nervous body language) even though mentally i don't care significantly
    >hmm i must have something wrong with me biochemically
    >work on reducing stress through food and supplements
    >it works
    >holy shit
    >but i also lost my happiness, emotionality, libido, energy and creativity

    now i'm stuck trying to go back to that former state of super high energy and wellbeing even if it means i become totally panicked again

  75. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Think I might've picked up HPV from this skank I banged a month ago.

  76. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >qt I been talking with comes over with a friend of hers cause they were nearby so only got a few mins to clean up kitchen and living room in my apartment
    >we hang out in my kitchen
    >my big cat goes by to my room down the hall
    >her friend wants to see the cat cause she loves kitties
    >follows it down the hall to my bedroom
    >I was sick during the week with a sinus infection that's just clearing up
    >bedroom's a fucking mess with used tissues all over from blowing my nose, literal moisturize bottle on the headboard
    >her friend must have walked in and seen a room that looks like a fucking coomer sex dungeon mess
    >there's no way that she didn't tell her all about it and how weird it was after they left
    >hasn't texted me since and this was monday

  77. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >used to be able to fap forever
    >now struggle to do a minute or two
    Wtf is wrong with me? Does it make that much of a difference to go from daily to once a week or two?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Age, depression, shitty diet, fatty, could be anything.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I'm 26, not depressed, don't consume any drugs other than one coffee a day, underweight if anything and I eat pretty well other than a few desserts every now and then. I feel like I should be in a good spot with this no?

  78. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >girlfriend minding her own business
    >ask her if she's going to get me a fathers day gift
    >she says "no, why would I do that?"
    >"you call me daddy so much I thought you would"
    >she looks at me stonefaced and doesn't say anything
    >she left a few minutes later when I was doing something else
    >we haven't spoken since

    Did I go too far?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >>"you call me daddy so much I thought you would"
      disgusting please kys

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      you hit an insecurity, nice

      enjoy the meltdown you're going to face about having kids

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      thank you for taking this bullet for me, i considered asking my lg this as well, better not

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Based. My gf never calls me daddy but is planning to have my kids someday, so we've been getting each other gifts for Mother's and Father's Day

      How does one approach older women at the gym?

      There’s a strong chance they’re married or will think you’re being a creep

      Probably classes right?

      Unless you look like a complete goblin people will generally be nice to you if you try to talk to them between sets. What you talk about is up to you but a couple of guys at my gym (including me) have gotten dates without a problem. Just listen to your gut

  79. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I hate liking someone knowing they most likely dont feel the same way back

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I’m assuming you guys posting shit like this are in your early 20’s or teens

      Eventually you stop simping and stop giving a shit

      Then women actually start liking you. Problem is that you don’t care anymore.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Very heavily true post.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I'm 26 and I still care too much and simp. How do I stop

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Get your heart broken one last time by a girl you really give your all to.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            But I've had it happen a few times already

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I'm 30 yeas old next year and in my entire lifetime I've only ever had one girl I liked like me back and it lasted as a two year relationship but she was also toxic and insane.

      Since breaking up I've had nothing but girls sometimes engaging with me but ultimately leading me on then ghosting me for another guy they start posting pics with a week or after not responding anymore. Now I look at pictures of couples on IG or whatever and I get frustrated and autistically scream "HOW" in my basement apartment because it literally now just feels beyond my comprehension how two people can meet eachother and be mutually interested and begin a relationship. I don't understand how it happens. I don't understand how or where these people meet and once they do how they continue to be interested in one another because it's never really happened to me.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >once they do how they continue to be interested in one another
        you do realize the interest fades and people split, divorce?

  80. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Go on work trip for a month
    >Gf dumps me in the middle of it because she doesn't feel like she's "being prioritized"
    >Barely react, tell her I'm going to focus on work and she can call me when I'm home if she has anything else to say
    >She goes apeshit and starts trying to walk it back, obviously thinking I was going to beg her to stay or whatever
    >Ignore her
    >Got home today
    >Feel completely fine, almost relieved in a way
    >Read a book in a cafe for a couple hours, talked to the cute barista, went to the gym, going to spend the rest of the night cooking some pasta and relaxing
    It's going to be alright, bros
    What movie should I put on in the background while I make my arrabiatta sauce? Something pretty and laid-back

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Fellini's Amarcord

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Never heard of it but I enjoyed La Dolce Vita so I will download it now and give it a try. Thank you anon

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Cheers m8, it's very colorful, very wacky, a very memorable scene with some big breasts, the Italian countyside, all the good stuff

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >I survived leonard stecyk's 11th birthday blowout bash 1964
          Now that's a deep cut reference I would not expect on IST.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            /fitlit/ lives on in our hearts forever, brother

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Weekend at bernie's

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Had a similar experience once.

      >be me in uni
      >wind up involved with a deadbeat girl who lives 2 hours away
      >she's really hot though and my first real girlfriend
      >bend over backwards doing shit for her, she doesn't drive so every weekend I'm driving up there and back to be together
      >she's depressed and shit takes meds for it, says she needs to see me all the time
      >gets to summer time
      >one day she starts passive aggressively texting me about how I never do anything for her like get her flowers or some shit and says she'll just start doing romantic things for herself cause she deserves it and me driving two hours to see her is and seeing eachother is bare minimum
      >tell her it probably does feel like bare minimum when she's not the one having to do it and if she feels I don't do enough for her then maybe she can go find someone who does
      >she shits her pants starts crying and apologizing and begging me not to leave her

      Eventually we broke up and she launched an absolute shitstorm psychotic maelstrom onto me but better off now. It's amazing how that can work when a girl needs you more than her.

  81. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >have created an extremely elaborate fantasy in my head about me getting into a relationship with a girl that I briefly met 2 or 3 years ago and haven't seen or talked to since
    What the fuck? It was just one of those random half-conscious fantasies you have when you're about to fall asleep that I somehow retained the next morning and it hasn't gone away.

  82. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I wanna stop existing. I don’t wanna kill myself or even die I just wanna not be. My very self is a delusion, an illusion. Any thought that I could ever be happy is built on false premises. I see no point in chasing the carrot on the stick nor do I have the willpower: neither to try nor to end this miserable game. I guess I’ll just coats for now.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      *coast
      FUCK

  83. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >I live in an apartment
    >sister came over to vent about her husband being dead and it being the first fathers day without him and how tough it's been with her kids, etc
    >she leaves i walk her to her car
    >on the way back my neighbor , a guy i've never spoken to outside of "good morning" says to me "You were having a lively discussion!"
    >I'm a little confused by that weird comment so I say "I'm sorry, what?"
    >he laughs and says "Who was that?"
    >I say "Who are you?"
    >Now he looks confused
    >I walk back to my apt

    Did I fuck up here? We weren't being loud, no one was screaming or anything. I don't want to have to move again already.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >'who are you?'

      i love that, got to throw that around next time a bare acquaintance thinks he can comment on my personal affairs

  84. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    My father just told me he takes no pride in being a dad.

    I cannot sleep.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      because of you, or what

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I told him I resented the way I was brought up and asked him why he let it happen. That was his response.

        I do not know what kind of answer I was expecting but that certainly was not it.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Tell him you take no pride in being a son.

  85. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Lul you fake as fuck piece of cunt trash. I knew what you were the moment that shit happened

  86. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Idk how to ask this properly, but how do you know if you like a girl just because of hormones/chemicals or if it's something more "real"? There's this girl I know that I think about sometimes, but I'm no exactly head over heels either, so I just want to know this so I can stop doing it (she's already taken)

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      The default way is to rub one out and then take a good think about her in the 5 minutes or so immediately afterward.

      can you give some advice on how to do this? I'm not a sperg or anything, I can have normal conversations if someone else initiates or if I have some actual reason to talk to someone, but just approaching a stranger and starting conversation with them, I have no fucking clue how to do that. Advice?

      I think the key is more understanding when the other person wants you to fuck off. Usually it's a level and when the level rises too high then you need to excuse yourself. Short answers, looking elsewhere, etc.

      Other than that just tell them your name and ask them where they're from. If you want an excuse say you're new and looking for things to see/eat/do/etc. If you're doing something together then talk about whatever mutual activity you're doing. Don't overstay your welcome, but if you feel like you've moved on past the small talk stage and had something interesting to talk about, ask for their number.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        thanks for the advice. Do you have recommendations on places where this is appropriate to do this versus not? stores? restaurants? parks? kinda clueless here.

        I get that. All I can say is that I havent given up and WAGMI.

        I am in the process of recovering from 6 years of basement dwelling. We're both starting from a shit position. But I'm really enjoying the process, no matter the result.

        thanks man, this helped inspire me a bit. What sort of stuff have you been doing lately to get out of your basement dwelling shell?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I sometimes do it on public transit if it's a girl, or sometimes even a guy, reading an interesting book with no headphones in. I actually had a girl chat me up once while I was reading, except I had a gf and I was reading a bad optics book (For My Legionaries by Codreanu) so I didn't say much to her.

          Otherwise, parks are alright, you can do stores or the street if you really want but I don't really try that unless something deep in my soul compels me to say hello. You can also look at events in your town if there's any and make idle chat about that. "What do you think about X" where X is something you're both seeing/interacting with is in general a great way to start a conversation. Again, same rule, if they give you short answers or start to look uncomfortable just tell them to have a nice day and then do whatever you would've done had that person not been there.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            got it, I think the reading people thing is probably my biggest hurdle, but I suppose some of that comes with practice.

            how fit do I need to be for this to work? I'm not super muscular but I've got a decent bit, it's currently covered with too much fat though. Goal is to shed 7kg (down from 97 to 90 at 188cm) and I'll still not be shredded or anything but I think I'll look decent enough. I'm 28 now and realizing that I need to find someone soon or I'm going to be stuck with post-wall chicks, girls with massive bodycounts, post-divorce chicks, and/or women who already have children, none of which is how I once dreamed my life would turn out, and I still haven't given up hope for some sort of ideal outcome.

            Good to hear. Age 12 to 19 I spent an average 8 hours a day in my room on a screen. It destroyed my eyesight, stunted my growth and destroyed any form of social skills I had. My parents just fucking watched.

            Currently 21 and I just graduated University. I joined my military reserve. If you want to be sorted out, they do a great job. To break out of my shell I've been fishing, making terrariums and just trying to be more physically active and outdoorsy. To build myself I started with the absolute basics that I was originally failing. Brush my teeth twice a day, go to sleep at 12, wake at 8. Eat proper food, experiment with dishes.

            I still don't talk to women but I've been making small steps every day. Going from a degenerate loser to a loser is the best feeling I've ever had. I feel I've got to tell you that I regret every second that I hesitated or thought to give up.

            hey man that's great to hear, and you've got so much time ahead of you. You could be in a great position to crush puss 2/3s of your 20s if you keep at it.

            I'm 28 and my life is actually mostly figured out and in a good spot, apart from not having any friends in the area (moved to a new city 6 months ago to buy a house) and not being fit enough to get me very far. Also balding, but I got on the meds recently and have FUE scheduled for a year out -- hoping I'll be able to be fit enough then that, combined with the hair, to have a lot better odds. I quit drinking several months ago after a decade of abuse that really stunted me and prevented me from doing a lot of the basic things like brushing teeth, showering, going out in public, etc. but I still managed to develop some hobbies while drinking (pretty good cook, go camping, reading non-trash literature). I've got a good job, make close to 200k, I'm over 6 foot, above average face... I feel like on paper I'm a pretty good catch but in practice I don't have any clue what I'm doing trying to meet women post-college. Working on getting out more, I started bouldering recently and I feel like if I can stop being so nervous that'd be an easy place to strike up a conversation and meet people.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              >'ve got a good job, make close to 200k
              its funny how literally everyone on this board is an ultra wealthy software engineer

              >ranting this much about something when you have an ideal life
              have a nice day

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Ideal life and still have no hope of finding a partner. Which is the thing I'm trying to figure out. If you want to be bitter. You seem like the sorta person who goes to /cbt/ and shittalks everyone with a better body than you

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                200kchad reporting in, cope and sneed
                Funny how people who work on computers find a relatively niche corner of the internet to gather on, would've never guessed

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Thanks man I have no intention of stopping or slowing down.

              Regarding your issue with the women in your league. I think you're downplaying the ability of a mature, well earning man of snagging a young attractive woman. I often see stories of these post-wall women complaining about age gap relationships. Probably because it threatens their ability to compete.

              That ideal outcome you talk about is still within your grasp in my opinion. A 21 year old woman with a 30 year old man is not rare. I think 10% of all marriages have a 10 year gap in Western countries. You sound like you have the right idea, develop hobbies, interests, wealth and physical attractiveness. Stave off vice.

              This does not guarantee your ideal outcome, simply increases the chances. Nothing guarantees outcome. So you just have to maximise the chance. Good luck man.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                thanks man, this is encouraging.
                > I often see stories of these post-wall women complaining about age gap relationships. Probably because it threatens their ability to compete.
                this is one of the few things that occasionally give me hope. Girl #4 from my post above, the one who wouldn't commit to a relationship with me because of my alcoholism (which I realize now was partially a coping mechanism for her manipulation and emotional abuse -- not that I'm not an alcoholic, but she was one of my major barriers to staying sober), was pretty hot but is approaching the wall fast, which I told her at one point when she was being a dick to me. Even though I'll never see her again it would give me some sick satisfaction knowing that while she is quickly losing most of the value she has, I might end up replacing her with someone much younger.

                Keep up what you're doing, I have strong faith that yagmi.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              >I'm 28 now and realizing that I need to find someone soon or I'm going to be stuck with post-wall chicks, girls with massive bodycounts, post-divorce chicks,
              Remember that what you described will always float around the dating pool because nobody else wants them. The girls you're looking for tend to already be in relationships but not all of them are. And who knows, maybe there's something about you in particular that one of them is waiting on

              As for fitness it plays a role but it's relatively minor one. Dress well and get a good haircut to complete the looksmaxxing but otherwise just keep trying and failing until you think you could improve something else.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >And who knows, maybe there's something about you in particular that one of them is waiting on
                Different anon here. Pretty much this and many women have a type that isn't the money/chadbod. The first girl I was ever with liked skinny white dudes. Also 28 and been flirting hardcore with this 23 year old qt and catch her staring and her smiles give me dopamine. I lift for future children and family.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Good to hear. Age 12 to 19 I spent an average 8 hours a day in my room on a screen. It destroyed my eyesight, stunted my growth and destroyed any form of social skills I had. My parents just fucking watched.

          Currently 21 and I just graduated University. I joined my military reserve. If you want to be sorted out, they do a great job. To break out of my shell I've been fishing, making terrariums and just trying to be more physically active and outdoorsy. To build myself I started with the absolute basics that I was originally failing. Brush my teeth twice a day, go to sleep at 12, wake at 8. Eat proper food, experiment with dishes.

          I still don't talk to women but I've been making small steps every day. Going from a degenerate loser to a loser is the best feeling I've ever had. I feel I've got to tell you that I regret every second that I hesitated or thought to give up.

  87. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >mom has cancer
    >our house is literally falling apart
    >ceiling panels caving in and bulging, one fully broken
    >insulation exposed in several spots
    >one room is basically entirely fucked and molding out
    >mom can't take out a loan because her bankruptcy just got discharged and have to wait 2 years
    >all of the government programs are super specific and typically age 65+ only
    >I don't want to take out a loan and fuck my credit in my 20s if I can avoid it
    >repairs will probably end up running upwards to $10k and even that loan would probably fuck either one of us
    my life is almost literally falling apart around me right now and I'm losing my will to fight bros
    I started reading berserk again to try to find some more motivation and I think it's working a little bit but it's still so hard
    I just want a peaceful home that I don't have to stress about any time it looks like it's going to or does rain

  88. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I have this crippling fear that someone will find out I'm a 27 khv and that my future gf will dump me once she finds out about this too, it's making me a lot insecure than I should be. I can talk to people just fine, including girls, no one ever suspected anything but I still fear this.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      do you value relationships or casual sex more

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Relationships I guess, I'd like casual sex too but what I really want is companionship

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          get a dog its called mans best friend for a reason

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I'm not that lonely, I have my family and friends, but I want something more intimate. Also I wouldn't want to fuck a dog, I'm not a white girl

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Do note though that the dog doesn't speak English and you'll have to bury it one day, so depending on the companionship you want you might miss out

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              I'll have to bury the girl someday too. I guess the difference is the dog will at least be dead during the burial.

  89. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I wish I could feel as happy as I did drunk bros. I feel like life is just much easier once im a couple rum and cokes in

  90. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >browsing the tind
    >come across girl who's a legit beauty
    >26
    >5'11 and a half (I'm 6'6" so this is wife material to me)
    >works a real job as a medical lab tech not a fucking barista
    >creep her socials
    >she's been in a longterm relationship for years
    >her boyfriend was actually just a homely dude who must've been funny, like several leagues below her
    >trying to figure out how I can fucking possibly meet this girl

    Me getting frustrated seeing girls on tinder I'll never get to interact with is a regular thing but this one's different. It frustrates me so much I know if I could just meet this girl in person I'd get her interested but I'm stuck in this fucking hell of being so close yet so far. My options are basically to send her a DM where I'll either never even be seen or if I am then congrats I'm just fucking text on a screen, or never see her at all.

    I did have one facebook friend in common with her but I asked her about an intro and she said she didn't really know her well. Another one of my old friends is mutual followers with her on IG though so I'm gonna ask him if he knows her well enough that he could maybe get me the intro. I'm just so fired up bros like god damn.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Me getting frustrated seeing girls on tinder I'll never get to interact with
      What do you think are your top 3 characteristics? Like say you're in a row of 100 men but you get to pick what you get to impress her with. Could be anything from face to voice to playing guitar to whatever you can do standing in that lineup. And then ask where you can find yourself that you end up doing that semi-naturally
      >inb4 pickme mentality
      We're all pickmes to some extent, that's how we get ahead in life

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >pickme mentality
        I've never understood what this means. I've looked it up and still don't quite get what it's referring to. Could you explain?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Usually it's what girls call other girls when they think they're going above and beyond just to impress some guy they're attracted to (trying to get "picked" by the guy). Guys complain about guys doing it but they don't have a catchy word for it of their own

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Well if I had to look at it from a girl's perspective:

        >6'6"
        >IST
        >funny

        I dunno. I have a stable job, I play instruments and perform live music once in a while, write, athletic, I'm handsome. I have mad confidence in person, the problem is mainly just trying to meet any particular girl in person.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Idk the first two should be good enough to get your pick of the litter on apps. But also you could walk into any room and stand out by that metric.

          Really I think you'd be fine if you weren't hung up on the girl that got away no matter how much of a catch she is. But it's not like you'll see her again if she says no so you could just say something stupid like "hey, thought I saw you on Tinder but accidentally swiped past you, what's up" and hope your IG pfp sells it

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Nah man if you're not paying into the dating apps you're sorted straight to the bottom under the paypigs and not being seen. Doesn't matter how perfect you get your lead picture, if you put 7'2" in your bio, if you craft the perfect witty bio under it, all that shit doesn't matter cause you're not even being seen.

            I know because I did pay out for Tinder Plat for a year and the difference is night and day.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Paying def updoots you but ~5 years ago when I used Tinder I figured out you could jack up your elo by left swiping a bunch, and it usually gave me way more attractive girls after I did that.

              But I don't use apps anymore and don't know what's changed under the hood over the years

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                5 years ago is a universe of time in Tinder algorithm progression. That was before Priority Likes, Boosts, MultiSupers, etc.

                Generally now I just use Tinder to see who's in my area that I can maybe hit on if I see they go to popular spots or work somewhere public or go to a certain gym.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I don't know if the underlying algo changed a lot though. Like if you're doing it for free, what the optimal strategy is.

                Either way, I haven't used a dating app in years and all of my game now is in person. At the gym, local events, nights out, and so on.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >Either way, I haven't used a dating app in years and all of my game now is in person. At the gym, local events, nights out, and so on.
                Ye, that's the way to do it. Dating apps strip you of every good thing you have as a man, your presence, voice, sense of humour, and reduces you to text on a screen.

  91. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    A white Russian please. A girl is into me at work and my autism has not scared her away yet. Even today I was talking to a coworker and I caught her staring with her cute smile and I smiled back our coworker gave me like what's going on here look. I told her I wouldn't murder her if we took an trip lol. Her face was priceless.

  92. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Someone make a new thread bread please

  93. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Real quick: How do I tell the moron voice in my head to shut the fuck up?

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