saturday night? Posted on January 29, 2023 by Anonymous what is on your mind anon? any goals, fitness or otherwise? any struggles? thread theme:
My goal is to stop watching Japanese women fucking dogs
That's a good goal to pursue. I genuinely wish you luck
The good news is that it shook me off of all types of porn.
The bad news is watching a literal 9/10 happily suck dog dick is a complete mindfuck.
Women orgasm from rape.
The difference between humans and animals is the mental capacity for choice.
Trust me, you're nowhere near my depravity.
>I sucked the neighbor's dick when I was 13 and he was 12 in order to get him to suck mine
>I've fucked a gay guy at gloryhole and came in his ass (I'm not gay, I'm just depraved and horny)
>I've sucked a gay's little dick (literally it was like 4") in order to get him to suck mine
>I've fucked a married woman in a mental health ward just because she came on to me
>I fucked a girl's best friend for life and made out with that same girl within 6 hours without having brushed my teeth after eating her BFF out
I jerked off to beastiality for the first time yesterday. I'm so fucked up man.
for me its watching girls pee
I don't even like beastiality there was just a women fucking dogs thread on 4chan and someone linked a video and it make me horny so I rubbed it out. I felt immediate post nut shame. I honestly need to start no fap.
>there was just a women fucking dogs thread on 4chan
i see why everyone here loves pol
This is where Erectile Dysfunction comes from. You don’t want to be watching shit like that. I saw that link too. Wish I could unsee it. We live in hell fren.
Man, that was like the first degenerate shit I looked up when I was young. Age 14.
It's understandable. You either get disgusted or so rock hard that it's almost immediate.
>Don't do it again
I just gotta stop getting off to ameture chicks fucking clear dildos. Firewall blocking reddit tommow
My bestaliaty fetish started with beast hentai on reddit
Man that’s not even that bad
I’m fighting the urge every day to pay girls while I jerk off
The humiliation is so hot to me sometimes I can’t even get hard without sending money and it’s disgusting
>started watching trap porn
bros what the fuck happened...
You became based
>short hair daisy
yh. daisy prior to mainstream popularity had a more natural beauty appeal to him. now the bitch just looks like plastic, similar to chanel santini
nah I became a disgusting piece of shit and even as far as trannies go that one just looks like a gay anyway
Stop jerking off, don't watch porn, go for a walk and calm down.
Finally got a job.
All my female coworkers are too old or ugly.
Good, dating at work is retarded.
No, you don't.
If you loved her, you wouldn't actively pursue other women.
Stop lying to yourself.
ain't pursing them man, met them at work and through casual friends. Have had multiple women from this real life situations take initiative to set things up
>inb4 you're bullshitting
idc if you believe me, I'm not really actively pursing at all.
I've had married women come after me, so I believe you.
However, I phrased that wrong.
Stop fucking other women.
If you loved her you wouldn't fuck whores that throw themselves at you.
>whores that throw themselves at you
Not that anon, but a little confused about this subject if anyone can help.
If a girl basically throws herself into my lap and I have to put in zero effort to fuck her… she’s definitely not girlfriend or wife material right? I’m not that special right?
If this is true… I’ve only dated whores. I’ve never gone on a date before fucking a girl, it’s always been I have to fuck her first
LMAO holy shit I’ve only dated whores. Here I am feeling weird about my recent ex but I literally came inside her the first time we hung out and only took her on a date AFTER that
Correct. Quality women won't risk rejection like the "throw-themselves at guys" types of whores. The throw themselves types are desperate for a man of your quality (whatever those qualities are) and use their pussy as a bargaining chip. God only knows how many other guys she's fucked by throwing herself at them.
Also,... Men who don't exercise their options and approach women they want tend to get the damaged, desperate women because they see you are shy and they think they can lock you down by batting their eyelashes.
If women are throwing themselves at you, chances are good you need to look in the distance for the women who aren't throwing themselves at you - they're attracted, but they don't need to risk rejection so they want you to approach them.
I think the most confusing part for me is my first gf just looked like a whore. I knew she was a thot. Had a feeling she did exactly what you described. Used me because I was obviously inexperienced super shy guy and no man would date her. I only dated her for the experience just to catch feels anyways (she took my virginity).
BUT my second gf didn’t seem like a whore AT ALL. Seemed family and work oriented and like she wanted to build her future and all that shit. She seemed super inexperienced in bed whereas my first gf was pornstar level. Like this new girl couldn’t even suck dick, she was tight as hell, didn’t really seem like she knew what she was doing and she thought I was a sexual deviant freak for some light choking and hair pulling, any time we ducked if I did something different it was new for her and she’d comment at times she felt insecure because she’d never done XYZ and didn’t want to embarrass herself.
But I literally came inside her the first day we hung out. We just got drunk played drinking games watched Netflix in an air bnb
She hit me with the typical
>oh I never do this btw, it’s just because it’s you. I wouldn’t do this for anyone else
It seemed genuine from her. So I’m pretty confused. Was she a thot or not?
>lol i only fuck whores and all the women i fuck are all whores, i only date women if i fuck them first
>but im not a whore, those women are all the whores, i judge the validity of my gfs of how big of a whore they are in bed when i fuck them, why are women such whores lol i deserve the most virgin undeflowered women who will fuck me within 5 mintues of meeting me and only do that for me
please have a nice day degenerate
Hello woke BLM antifa Sסyboy please go back.
>get pathetic behavior called out
>spouts IST buzzwords
any woman who would associate with you is mentally ill
>in his feelings over another man’s life
not in my feelings at all. just keep acting like a whore, fucking whores, then getting angry about being with whores with no self-reflection. couldnt care less lol
dating at work, sure, but what about fuckingv
Would not recommend
>cheated on my gf multiple times with different women
>none of them really minded
>still love her a lot, want to be with her
>realize I'm doing it simply because I can
not sure what exactly my problem is here, or if there is one, or what exactly is going on. not a situation I'm used to being in.
any real oldheads have any advice here? dudes with actual experience with this sort of thing
talk to her, dont say "hey babe I'm cheating on you or anything" but find out why your not getting what you want from her, it honestly sounds like her sex drive might not be lining up with yours or you feel like your missing something she cant provide.
I sleep 9 good hours a day, I eat before I hit the gym, I'm pretty new so I should be getting noob gains, And I STILL keep failing sets. No idea what Im doing wrong.
Please provide the following
Typical meal before gym
Specific sets you are failing
How did you come to cheat on your gf? Like what situations got you there lol
You’ve already gone too far. As soon as you cheated you’ll never go back to just being with your gf. She’s now just one of your fuck friends that you live with. Be her friend and tell her what you’re up to on the side and let her decide what to do about it. It’s retarded doing this shit and thinking you still love your gf/wife. You only want her now for comfort and it’s selfish.
Whiny bitch post incoming.
I'm getting sick of my "friend". She is a single mother. I had a crush on her when I first met but I've been able to see her just as a friend. We've been talking to each other for almost 1 year now and its becoming increasingly clear she has absolutely no respect for me. I'm really starting hate her guts. I was her friend because in the beginning we had some really great conversations but now she is incredibly rude to me and only talks to me because I'm the only one who is putting up with her whiny shit.
In the gym, I was sick last week and I haven't been able to go. I went today and it was an awful session but I'm going to keep at it. I feel as though I am stalling on the bench. I'm only at 160 lbs bench press but I've been stuck there for about 4 months. I don't really know what I'm going to do about this.
Going to study like crazy this semester.
single mothers are awful people, more bews at 11
I had a “friend” like this. One day I just messaged her asking if she wants to fuck. She was appalled and I was like “lol”. A couple weeks later I saw her rollerblading down the street. We saw each other and for a moment I considered walking a different way. Then I said fuck it and kept walking. When she saw me continue walking on path towards her, she sat down and put her arms on her knees and put her head down. When I walked past her I heard her sniffle. I think she was crying. I didn’t say anything and went on my way.
Something strong please.
>Friends with this girl
>She has a boyfriend
>She becomes more and more "friendly" with me to the point where it's definitely a bit too much between just friends
>Feel like she's setting up to either dump him for me or cheat on him with me
>Don't want any of that shit
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I guess I’ve quit TRT after only about 6 months on. Wasn’t worth it. Don’t take it if you’re not hypogonadal. If your levels are just “low” even for your age ex: age 27 390 total, you need to fix your lifestyle AND GIVE IT TIME. I’ll probably feel like shit for the next 1-2 months. Not too worried about recovery because my nuts are still massive. Oh well. You live and learn. I wish it didn’t take being such a retard in order to learn in most instances for me though…
>one of the few hobbies/activities I do and things I enjoy is officiating sports, mainly soccer
>last night I was doing a boys varsity match at a local high school, the school I actually attended and graduated from over a decade ago
>was excited to do it just because it would probably be a good game and expected to go home Friday night happy
>turns out the school's coach is a complete asshole from England who all the refs in the league hate and most have refused to work his games
>the team's players feed off this and they behave like absolute shit too despite being really good players and usually winning, their behavior overshadows it
>do the game last night
>coach multiple times tells me the opponent is faking injuries
>their spectators are jeering at me because I call way more fouls on their overly aggressive team and the opponent when they are down
>end up throwing the entire bleacher section out of the game after they are heckling a kid who landed on his side and hurt his ribs because "he's faking"
>send off the coach after the match for running right into my face to confront me about whatever bullshit
>week ends with this shit show and also probably never going to be doing any games of theirs again
I just wanted a nice Friday evening bros. Not like this, not like this...
hey anon, I'm a volleyball umpire myself but I get your struggle. You did a really good job handling their behaviour, and putting your foot down with sanctions and showing that team how to properly conduct themselves! Keep it up, I struggle sanctioning / penalising players but you need to do it several times in your career to make people respect you <3
Britfag here. Our football yobs are fucking scum and you have my permission (and encouragement) to break this cunts knees.
Having a pint of Guinness. Alone, obviously.
My struggle is a "health problem" that's slowly getting better. Might be lymphedema.
Dying to get back to lifting, but I just can't right now since my arm swells up like a bastard; so I've been doing a stretching routine during recovery.
A single mom 10 years younger than me is really laying it on thick and I don't know if I should take the bait or walk away.
Getting involved with a mother means getting involved with a father, and you just know he's a trashy-ass, deadbeat motherfucker if she didn't stay with him.
im trying to get into boxing but my family and peers aren’t very supportive. for reference we’re upper middle class and im getting the impression that they think it’s a “low class” kind of activity. coincidentally, a lot of the amateurs and pros at my gym ride the line of poverty or are former addicts. am i overthinking all this shit?
Boxing is cool but MMA is based, do some of that. Unless your family and friends are out right objecting and stopping you from doing it just try talk it out every now and then. You still make your own decisions but take what they say into perspective, if the only reoccurring argument is that it’s a “poor man’s sport” ignore them but if they bring up anything valid address it and discuss with them. You shouldn’t be breaking ties with family over minor things like them not liking your hobbies(unless you’re a degenerate gay).
Well do you care about status? its not like you are a "lower class" person if you do it, but stuck up upper class people will probably view you weirdly because of it. Because to them theres no reason why an upper middle class person would ever need boxing afterall
Yes, join. I've attended my boxing gym for 2 weeks and I fucking love it
This guy is half right but fuck anything they say about it. Don't cut any ties, just do it and don't waste one brain cell on their criticisms
>"Thanks for helping me all the time. Maybe I should treat you for lunch sometime."
>"No. I'm just happy to help."
Wasted a whole day playing videogames and talking things out with my ex. What sucks is that often when you meet your girlfriend's family, you see this profound happiness and relief in her parents that their daughter is grown up and having healthy relationships etc etc. And when things don't work I feel like I've betrayed the parents, since when her parents approve of you they also trust you to act according to their daughter's best interests and guide her. This has happened 4 times now? The parents often seem somewhat insecure, and worried that something they did ruined the relationship. Like maybe they think they're too poor, that they're too messy, they drink too much, are too busy or uncaring. It makes me sad for them to get that impression.
Got hit with a random overwhelming feeling of depression. Nothing bad happened. Still went to the gym. Can’t bring myself to eat. Wandered target after gym for no reason. Stared at the tv for about an hour. Just going to sleep.
Just woke up. Feeling better. Weighed myself this morning so feeling a bit better. Just glad I didn’t splurge on Taco Bell last night.
I threw a work party and only one person showed up out of 20. Most of them didn’t even text me to let me know they couldn’t make it.
Well, now you know that people hate this shit.
It's nothing personal.
I’m not a boomer with an office job. I work fast food and we have parties all the time that people seem to enjoy.
That is unfortunate for you
>shes all over me, laughing, having a great time, she starts asking me what I do for work and shit
>finish doing thing, shes about to leave
>ask for number
>"put your number in my phone"
>I know full well thats a no and shes not interested
I'm tired bros.
I have lots of friends who are girls, they would 99% of the time give a fake number if they didn't want to talk.
She just worries your gonna blow up her phone like an autist. You made 1st move by asking for # and now it's up to her to text u back. As someone who fucks I regularly ask to give girls my number, instead of theirs and most tell me they appreciate it cuz it removes a big chance of autism taking over and texting too early
Better than most incels keep it up king!
Had a strange series of interactions yesterday and they kept me up the entire night. I have gf but was at bar playing pool and a sweet and objectively very attractive girl told me "I'm lowkey in love with you but i have to go now" after i gave her vague conversation for 20 minutes. Then she grabbed my hand and held as she walked away so I didn't get a chance to tell her i had a gf but the validation was nice yeah a bro braggin a little but it felt nice. Then at a different bar with my gf and her friends a guy waited for me to go to the bar for her to tell her "you can do better you know." The confrontation with the medicore manlet that followed was all verbal and he was ironically very arrogant but made it clear he didn't want the smoke as soon as I asked him why he had said that. In the end he walked off but the snake like maneuver had a bro seething the rest of the night and if I were more barbaric and actually fit for it I would want to hammer in his teeth. It is a good reminder that even a non confrontational person like me will be faced with situations where it is necessary to confront and therefore a reminder to get fit. So I didn't sleep then went to the actual gym for the first time in months at 7 am.
proof that we really do be living in a hypergamic society...people getting options and offer left and right, it's basically open secret that at any point in the couple could branch swing their way out of it.
Crazy innit. Gotta take some deep loyalty for above average people to stay together.
i went to a bjj class today with a friend but that shit was expensive as fuck so i didnt join the gym. then when i got back bros. i went to the regular gym after eating. then i did pull ups on the assisted machine to failure. trying to get some real ones in hopefully soon. trying my hardest bros. then i did dumbbell bench, ohp, barbell rows. then i did skull crushers with a easy curl bar to failure and left. my goals are to get to real pull ups and deadlift my bodyweight. i weigh 175. currently at 100 pounds newfag in the gym basically but just got back into seriously. last year was me rehabing injuries from a while back and some new ones. so its like ive only had one month of lifting lmao. i'm trying bros.
girls think i hate them because I am so quiet around them. i feel so uncomfortable in public settings and having conversations. It's not just girls, i can hardly have a menial "how's it going" conversation with an elderly man. even the girls i've been with with have commented about how strange i am, and not in a funny way they mean it. I turned 20 a month ago, this has been an issue since forever and I thought that by now I would have figured it out!!!!
Unless several ~~*women*~~ have said that they hate your it’s probably all in your head. Swear to god just put your self in awkward situations until you get better. Think like cold showers after gym, initially it’s uncomfortable but you know it’ll benefit you long run. Same thing for above.
i don't think they hate me, i'm worried that they think I don't like them them because of how aloof i am during conversation. i will go out of my way to avoid talking to people, but not because i don't like them, it's because i'm so uncomfortable
apparently i am infp
you're right this is probably the only solution
>apparently i am infp
I wouldn't be surprised in the slightest. You could learn more about your type and what it means and all and it might help, has for me
At the very least it helps you understand yourself
you need to practice man I don't know what else to tell you
I've had several women (not necessarily ones that I've fugged) tell me they thought I hated them or were mad at them because I either didn't keep in touch (i.e. blow their phones up everyday) or some time went by between us being in regular proximity to each other (i.e. gym or classmate or coworker) and actually getting to talking
And no, none of the women had made any attempt to talk to me or even so much as smiled, they would even autistically avoid eye contact the same way I do
Weird advice but maybe look into MBTI, it could tell you things about yourself and others
It's unlikely youre notable enough to be that obnoxious or hateable. Most situations you're in, unless you're STRIKINGLY good looking or ugly, people will either not notice you, or forget you about 10 seconds after you leave.
Use that as encouragement to practice talking to men and women you don't find attractive.
Found this today on a probably dead account. Remember lads, you could always be worse
I have the chadlite face, the 182cm or so of height, the charm, the lmao2pl8 bench.
So why the fuck am I still a virgin at 22, AAAAAA!!! I feel like the last 8 years of life were just ripped away with nothing to show for it. I have a decent job for my age and working on finishing my degree, but what the fuck is the point if I haven’t tasted the greatest pleasure? I loathe the circumstance surrounding me until now and the rest of the world for the obtuse and absurd challenge I’ve faced to get here, with fuckall to show for it still.
I was a virgin until 25 and I had girls hitting on me all throughout high school
Don't feel bad
Sex is overrated, it's good sure, but a loving relationship is more important
>girl talks to me
>DUDE GIRLS WERE ALWAYS HITTING ON ME ALL THE TIME THAT'S WHY I MA VIRGIN UNTIL 25
A girl I've never spoken to gave me a love letter.
Another girl had a crush on me and she told me after the fact and her friends told me during, but I chickened out of it.
Another girl said she wanted to see me naked.
Told a friend that I liked this one girl. She had never spoken to me before that. All of a sudden she tries to talk to me. I pussy out like a bitch.
My new best friend has a cute ex, she's really easy to talk to.
He tells me that she likes me.
I'm not gonna violate the bro code.
TLDR: I'm sorry your ugly inside and out and random women don't want to fuck you.
There's something called not going for the low hanging fruit, you know.
Hot, classy women don't hit on guys because they don't need to risk rejection, so they expect the looksmatched Chad to be confident enough to be the initiator
I couldn’t care less about meaningful relationships, those are a meme, women aren’t useful for anything but their bodies, I just want to fuck as many hot young sluts as I can, as aggressively as possible. Would lean bulking for a few months and then cutting to abs be enough for tinder/bumble sluts? With my aforementioned stats
shave your chest and anglefraud for the best results, worked great for me. got up to 1200 matches back in 2020 after traveling the east coast.
I’m really struggling with my weight anons. It’s got me embarrassed. None of my clothes fit. My work uniform doesn’t fit. My shirts ride up my belly if I reach for something. I hate the feeling of my man tits. I’m 66 inches tall and 205 lbs male.
Every morning I wake up and tell myself I’m gonna OMAD. and every day about two hours later I get hungry and say fuck it I’ll try again tomorrow.
This has been going on for like a month.
Seriously I need something or someone to hold me accountable. Ideas?
I'll hold you accountable. In one week (February 4th) post a thread at noon with this post in the OP saying you've changed for the better and you're losing weight. If you don't make that choice, don't you dare lie.
>66 inches tall 205 plbs
5 foot 6 90 kilos. My man you’re just using you needing someone to hold you accountable as a way to not be held accountable. I know you won’t read this shit cause you just posted it to tell yourself that you’re working on something and that you’ll read the replies soon but let’s be real you ain’t ever gonna look in this thread again. You’re gonna go back to LULZ and s like the fat gay you are.
I stopped caring about girls in the gym to be honest. I'm tired of them looking at me and when I try to initiate even the most modicum of interactions they give me the cold shoulder or act like they want nothing to do with me then immediately start staring at me again.
What broke the camels back is one girl would BLATANTLY and I mean would constantly turn to look at me and outright flipped her shirt up so I could see her tummy as she wiped sweat from her face and just stood there right in front of me doing it.
I finally went up to her and said what's up and almost immediately she had her walls up and acted like she didn't want anything to do with me to the point she walked away abruptly. Then when I go hide on the 2nd floor embarrassed she shows up with her friend and constantly sways back and forth and would twist her head to look at me the entire time.
I hate this shit and now I just zone out and not even look at anyone in the gym anymore.
I feel you anon, i would just love to be in the gym with a blindfold on at this point.
Gave up on trying to talk to them, it worked a couple of times but i cannot describe how uncomfortable it feels when they do what you described.
But then again i cannot sustain myself and not look back like a freak on 3 scoops of pre blasting some low budget hardstyle on my headphones. I just want to workout bros…
Asked today to take turns on the Smith machine to the shy gym qt who I started talking recently. I felt like superman when she asked me to lower the the bar for her "because Im (she) a midget" and then proceeded to ohp her squat.
She is actually average height and it's not the first time she self deprecated herself to me.
She has big, black "freightened prey" eyes that tingles my (sex) predator instincts.
She loves working out and I see her everyday with her brother, sister and mom, it's very wholesome.
Help me bros I don't want to raise my expectations but I want so damn much a muscle mommy to work out together and give me a spot on the bench with her sweaty crotch over my face.
I need the warm embrace of a female. I have so many people that I talk to at school but here I am saturday night sitting on my computer. I need a better social life.
same here man.
Water, with apple cider vinegar.
I think I've lost my drive to improve, and my purpose. All my friends and peers from the fight gym I attend are advancing in sports and other pursuits in life. I just feel too tired to try most days and want to give up, but I still have a lot of responsibilities and an heroing is pretty gay.
There's a few opportunities to get back in the horse and push forward, but the thought of failing in front of everyone (again) and having nothing to show for it, among other insecurities and excuses, is holding me back.
My question is, how do I find that fire again?
i always see "learn to like other people and new things" in self-help books
how the fuck do you actually do that
i feel like i was born without a "normie organ" and i'm some kind of amputee freak in their world
Started lifting after a long time, so my muscles are incredibly sore.
I wanna quit the job I'm at currently. Not only am I being paid in what one would get in an internship, I'm being made to do other work outside my job profile. Been thinking of hopping into graphic design, coding and UI/UX. A bit of job experience made me realise you can get a decent job if you really know how to sell yourself the most.
>getting head my girl of 3 years.
>she doesn't swallow this time, instead just finishes me off with a handy.
This has never happened to me before, I'm not sure why this fucked me up so much, but I feel kind of did something to piss her off that I missed.
anyone had something similar happen to them?
I have job interview on Monday afternoon. Hopeful it will work out
I feel like shit. I’m a degenerate who has let his food and porn addiction fuck up his life. I’m quitting or else I’ll never make it.
Stay strong, anon. Confront the demons head on wearing the Armor of God. YAGMI
My kitchen sink has been backing up for almost a week now. This is the 7th time in less than a year this has occurred, and maintenance does nothing to fix this.
Monday I'm going to the office and telling them I'm moving out on February 26, and they can shove their lease up their asses or I'll report them to building code inspectors and call my attorney.
It's a completely empty threat, though, as I've already reported them to the code inspectors.
Screw dating and trying to appease women. Youre just endlessly chasing something that will never come and acting like a dancing monkey for some whore. Time to focus more on the more important things in life like friends and family. Played some vidya with my little brother today, hadn't spent time with him in a while. Made me think that I actually mattered to someone. I am a terrible role model for the kid but he thinks I'm cool for some reason.
Maybe it's time to start being a good role model anon.
Man, I fucking wish I had a girlfriend...
It would be fun to have a hot girl to play guitar for, cook with, hold hands while walking together, kiss, caress, have sex with, spank, etc.
Sure; there'll be some arguments, complaining and maybe some "fights", though it's still better than being a solo act every day.
I get a few matches on dating apps, though these women pretty much never reply.
It doesn't matter if I ask questions with depth like:
>What do you have planned for today/tonight?
>Why do like taking vacations at ....?
They almost never respond.
It's worse irl, because I'm from a country where the VAST MAJORITY make friends at a very young age like during kindergarten, gradeschool, then they honestly can't be bothered to make friends after that.
I wish I was kidding...
Even if I got lucky and met a decent woman in this cold, grey and socially fucked up country:
What the fuck should I talk about?
How do I prevent being put in the friendzone and become her boyfriend or her fwb?
Anons, can you share some good advice with me?
I'm so fucking tired of being single and not getting laid.
I hit the gym, I honestly only get compliments from other guys at the gym and my family.
My other hobbies except for weightlifting often are drawing and playing videogames sometimes.
I seriously wish I had a girlfriend or at least a friend with benefits.
Don't try and be a decent human being to dating-app-using whores, because they aren't decent human beings themselves.
You literally have to sling shit in terms of conversation to get anywhere on dating apps.
Anon youre not interesting enough. So work on that, read books, get better at convos, talk about shit that makes her think and gets her talking, a bit of humour etc..
>You're not interesting enough.
>So work on that, read books, get better at convos, talk about shit that makes her think and gets her talking, a bit of humour etc..
I go through their profiles and pictures before I ask them meaningful questions like:
>why they like going to ... for vacation
>what they have planned for today
>what dish they'd eat if they can only eat said dish for the rest of their life, etc.
>what is it about (insert artist's name) that makes you listen to their music?
I DON'T ask them mundane questions like:
>How are you doing?
>Where are you from? etc
Because these questions are fucking boring and women get bombarded with these dumb questions all the time.
If you honestly think I'm not interesting enough, then which books do you recommend reading?
Us men are pretty much the ones who have to initiate almost all the fucking time (when it comes to texting, talking to a woman irl, etc) because women just can't be fucking bothered to put some effort too or they've been conditioned to let us (men) initiate basically everything.
Read about psychoanalysis, general philosophy (not the boring ancient greece kind, the relatively contemporary one) get something youre ACTUALLY passionate about, not something you do as a token hobby to impress chicks, socialize and most importantly dont try to find girls on dating apps.
It literally doesnt make sense unless youre hot and looking for mutual masturbation
everyone says "learn to be happy on your own" but the fact is, we're social creatures and we're meant to have a partner - most people will never fully be happy alone.
Having a *good* gf is wonderful. I love cuddling up in bed and watching TV together, commenting on the scenes and making little jokes. Stroking her arm as she's cuddled up against my chest. Resting my head upon hers and smelling her freshly washed hair.
I thought I'd be really lonely after breaking up with my gf but the scariest part is that while I am a little lonely, I'm mostly OK enough to keep going. I want a gf but I'm OK just sitting at home and playing Escape from Tarkov. On the positive side, I have been lifting and making noticeable, steady gainz, when I am ready in a few more months I will do a cut to get to low body fat percentage and put myself out on there on dating apps,
If you're going to get with a coworker, it better be because you think there's chemistry between you and you could get married - otherwise, it's a very, very bad decision. Imagine one of you catches feelings for the other and when it's broken off, you have to keep seeing each other at work - and worse, work with each other.
Why did you break with your girlfriend?
Like I said
I'm sure there will be arguments, complaining and maybe even a few "fights" in a relationship.
Though sounds like you were having a lot of good times with her.
I'm mostly okay by myself too, though I'd be lying if I said that I didn't want a fwb or a girlfriend to do all the things I mentioned and do stuff she likes too.
I genuinely feel bad for younger anons.
I'm 35 so I've had more than enough time to come to terms with reality and I didn't want kids 20 years ago. That never changed.
I can't imagine coming of age in a world of app based dating. That shit is cancerous.
These young women are insane.
They literally hate being women except for when they can use that pussy to their advantage.
I’ve always wanted a family, climbed thru a mountain of shit from my childhood and got redpilled when I started dating. Women are insane and easily think they’re 4 points better than they are. I’m demoralized and getting close to your age. Life is a cruel bitch.
My brother is getting married to a white pseudo-trad gal that I would rate as a 7-8 so they do exist, but he is 6'2" and making 100k+ a year.
You have to snag a malleable girl from a conservative family.
Preferably white, Asian (Korean or Japanese), or Hispanic. In that order.
That’s the problem, I’m making shit money and why my mental health is shit. I had no guidance growing up, figured everything out the hard way.
I want it but I’m 2 years of endless hard work away. I need to transform my life before I’m good enough
Go for a trade or programming.
Trades are physically harder, but far more based.
Web Dev is chud central.
>going to Disney
this is not based
I tried programming and I hate it. I’ve been thinking about a trade of some sort but no strong leads
Most women just want a man that they can treat like a puppy that does the majority of chores and will provide a second income. I see women talk to their BFs like they are dogs in public... it's quite sad.
There still are good women out there, so don't give up hope completely; but at least be willing to write off 90+% of women, and never settle for less than you deserve.
Don't date above women older than 22 unless they have only had one serious, longterm boyfriend.
If you see at least one red flag on a first date move on. The bad ones always do the courtesy of telling on themselves by proudly showing red flags.
one of the biggest red flags a hole can show is going on a date with someone who uses IST. bpd mental case, stay away
I fucked picrel once and she posted on /b
99% certain she posted her tits
Thats not georgia
No, that's from San Antonio, Texas.
sounds like youre happily married congrats anon
Oh no, I'm not married, I'm a mental case.
You couldn't pay me enough to get married and raise kids.
Humanity is evil and virtue is a lie that we tell ourselves.
Your life must've been pretty shit to think that, but youre wrong. There is good in this world
There is good, but there is evil and there is indifference.
I can not, in good conscious, bring life into the world as I know it.
That doesn't mean I hate humanity. I love humanity. We are a beautiful species as a whole, but we have failings that I can not inflict upon potential children.
zoomers are statistically having way less sex than any other generation that has ever been recorded in data.
bros i lost my job and now i cant go to the actual bar
Save up enough for one drink. Nurse it the whole night and if people offer to buy you a drink, accept
I'm going to Disney with my wife tomorrow and I'm excited. Might even use the hotel gym to stay on track
Fucking gay. Going to get a lollipop and a pinwheel hat? Think your wife will let you go on the rides?
>feel ill for a couple days
>bring cough drops to work instead of calling out like a bitch
>still going to the gym, that's probably where I picked it up anyway
>now in the coughing and congestion stage of whatever I got, it's not bad but it's been going on for like a week
>according to rumor covids been going around
>dad says I need to get a COVID test and won't shut up about it
And then what? So CNN will have more accurate datarinos for the next round of pandemic larping?
(Yes, he binges CNN, has the CNN app, spams political memes on Facebook to the point where I blocked him off my feed, he's an irl feraljak)
COVID or otherwise, if you were going to catch it, you already have. No, it's not leprosy, no it's not AIDS, no it won't make your skin fall off, no you are not "high risk" because you had a back operation last year. You didn't give a shit when you thought it was the flu.
Cable news boomers are mentally ill
>massive alcohol lightweight
>had a single 8.2% beer and then a white russian with only 1 oz kahlua and 2 oz vodka
>buzzed right now
this is pathetic
Seeing alcoholics desperately try to get drunk while they slam shots is significantly more pathetic anon, don't be ashamed
I haven't had so much as a beer since early 2021 (not an alchie just not a habit of mine), if I drank one Coors light right now I'd probably start walking into walls
>He thinks that's lightweight
bro, you had like three drinks, you should be buzzed
He's had two drinks, a beer and a white russian.
That being said, I agree with
I used to drink heavily. It just made me fat and cost more money.
I like being a lightweight. It's more cheerful.
a shot is 1.5 oz of 40% proof alcohol. kahlua is only 20% so 1 oz kahlua = 0.5 oz of a regular shot. 2 oz + 0.5 oz = 2.5 oz which isn't even 2 shots worth
speak for yourself retard. It takes me at least 8-9 beers or 6 shots to feel anything. and It goes away in 30 minutes
drank a total of three times in my life. all three I was intent on getting blackout drunk. only got buzzed one of them. I think you are just a pussyboy
Biggest retard I have ever seen post
Get a load of Billy Big Bollocks here
I'm mostly a lightweight as well. Means I can get nice and tipsy for cheap.
that's not lightweight man, most beers are 4-5%, so an 8% one is like two beers plus like a shot of liquor. You should be buzzed. this is honestly a good thing and a normal thing
Least you know your limits. Trust me its not fun to be the most sober
Tomorrow is the NFL championship games. I have been a huge 49er fan my entire life, haven't missed a game since 2005. The NFL is the only sport I still watch. Still live in the area. If the 49ers won the Super Bowl I would be happy for some fleeting hours/days then would be miserable again because of how pathetic my life is. I likely wouldn't even attend a parade because I would be alone and that's how pathetic I am.
I just hope they beat the eagles so my brother shuts up, you know phili fans. Keep your head up man. Idk what you are going through but just enjoy the game tomorrow.
Got a random bout of depression over Monday and Tuesday this week. I was depressed like this back in high school but I haven’t felt the urge to kill myself since then and it feels pretty weird looking back on it. I can’t think of anything to cause it and I even got annoyed at my crush coming by my dorm to check on me Tuesday (she thought something was up because I showed up late and left immediately from a class we share without talking to anyone). I feel like I may just be fucked in the head at this point since the only thing that I did to mitigate it was write my thoughts into a journal since that helped in high school, but I suppose my main concern is how quickly it came and went.
Depressive episodes can happen for random shit. This doesn't reflect negatively on you, just means you have to make sure you feel as good as possible so they're not as bad. Being fucked in the head is an just an absurd over exaggeration, you are not your thoughts.
Are you getting enough sleep, sunlight, vitamin D? Are you doing things that are important to you? This won't make depressive episodes go away, but it damn well reduces a lot of fallout.
Might just as well hit up your crush and talk about shit, if you're afraid she thought negatively about your from that.
Haven't gone on a date in a decade at this point. None of the bars near me are social bars. You are supposed to go with friends you already have and talk amongst yourselves.
>nutted in my sleep again
the specifc reason i dont do nofap is to avoid wet dreams
I… im not on nofap
just go back from the strip club with a bro. First time I've went ever. It was alright I guess. Soon as I walked in one told me she thought I was really cute, but I'm sure she tells a lot of people that considering she wants their money.
Strip clubs are unironically a lot of fun, as long as you don't go alone, you don't go too often, and don't think the strippers are really into you.
yeah not that bad considering I made it out of there only spending 55 bucks, including 2 beers, admission, and a short little lap dance.
I like how the one I was talking to admitted they did outcalls and she said verbatim: "if they like you whatever happens, happens, since it's not on site." So she basically said, I'm not saying we do prostitution, but sometimes things just happen.
slightly off topic but anyway
>at upstairs cardio section of my gym
>on a treadmill second to last from the corner
>about 15 mins in a girl hops onto the treadmill next to me corner side
>starts by bending over and sticking her arse out to do some weird stretch thing
>literally no one else is in the area but her and I and every other cardio machine available
I have no idea why this happened and it has never happened to be before, and im chubby as fuck. Anyone have a similar situation hapen?
She wanted attention. Sounds like she got it
>get left on read again
fuckfuckfuckfuckfuck I am going to storm Match Group HQ and suicide by cop in minecraft
message her a couple days later and say "sorry! i've been super busy lately..." and then continue with something else. it'll make the girl think you didnt see that she left you on read
I feel empty and angry with myself
I few years ago my friends would tel you I’m an extremely empathetic person who is very patient and understanding and willing to help however he can
Now I’m just an asshole, I have no idea where it’s come from but I have fuck all patience for other peoples problems or issues and I’m kinda toxic. I feel like part of it is brought on by my partner. She’s an extremely kind person, who tries her hardest. But holy shit is she dumb, just so actually dumb, she has no hobbies and no friends and can’t hold a conversation. Because she’s such a nice person and because she’s been dealt such a shit hand through so much stuff (her family treat her like shit, her job sucks, she owes money because of some unfortunate accidents that are genuinely not her fault) I feel obligated to stay and help her instead of just leaving despite her being the source of 75% of the stress of my life. Anons don’t fall into a trap like I have
Do you dislike her or do you dislike the shit situation she has found herself in? If this has been going on for a long time, you possible have built up a lot of resentment towards her which can be tough to get rid of.
My ex was often naggy, undiplomatic and imo stupid which made it impossible for me to resolve situations in a fair matter. Over time, my resentment of her actions grew until I started to think that I hate women in general and not her being the way she is, justified or not.
To manage anger or toxicity, you would have to actively try and be nice and kind to your gf. It's harder when she's fucking up, but you would have to force a lot of empathy towards her. If you don't want to stay with her, odds are you would have some residual shit that carries over to the next relationship. Toxic attitudes are just as much habits as being open and kind, even if you were inherently the latter.
I don’t dislike her, I can see she is a kind person, just not someone I think I’m compatible with, and the frustration she brings due to that irritates me to no end because as her partner I’m around her most of my free hours and as I’ve mentioned she has no hobbies nor friends and I seem to be her only interest, I’ve tried to improve that over the last year and it hasn’t changed anything.
I too have kind of felt that resentment spread to women as a whole somewhat but I’m trying my best to curtail that. What keeps me there is her shit situation, I would feel guilt ridden to leave her, alone, indebt and trapped where she currently is
I completely agree with your statements about anger and toxicity and I do try and I have seen small improvements here and there but sometimes it’s just too much, to be with someone who has so much reliance on you but your a largely independent person causes a lot of friction that has translated to this feeling of day in day out dread and stress
Tough situation. If, as you mentioned, you have tried to get her into some hobbies, make some friends, and she hasn't done much, then you are somewhat out of options since that seems to be a potential source of your issues with her.
She is most likely relying on you as a crutch in her situation. But while you may be what she needs, she isn't that for you. It's a highly unfair situation, and it would be ridiculous to say that you need to stick with her through thick and thin if she does nothing to fix the issue. It's not your job to sacrifice your own wellbeing for someone that is making you miserable.
Your situation does remind me of my own with the aforementioned ex, funnily enough. My only recourse was just breaking up. Even if I felt guilt at making her life harder again financially, emotionally etc. it had to happen. The logical progression of that relationship would be either me dying on the inside so she can get whatever she wants, or me becoming abusive towards her in an effort to make her change. Neither of those would make me feel better.
You have to always look out for number 1. If the only thing keeping you there is guilt, you are a prisoner and not in a loving relationship.
I agree with you. I knew it would most likely have to happen but I kinda needed it reaffirmed. She seems to be the source of the majority of my stress and like you said I need to look out for myself despite the guilt and I can’t wait years for the moment it gets better. Thank you for the talk
Take care. You'll pull through in the end. Just let her go gently, it's not easy for anyone.
I'm in a post-breakup funk. I've been journaling a lot and analyzing my neuroticism (lol) to get to the root on why I'm such a complete loser.
After a few months I concluded that I've been a perpetual victim. I socially isolate myself and make bad decisions to destroy my body and mind (alcoholism and doom-scrolling).
I'm just constantly terrified of some made up rejection that's never even happened to me.
I had a gf and a healthy sex life for 7 years but still felt like an incel that got lucky once and no woman would ever be attracted to me.
The reason or the source of my social autism doesn't really matter. The truth is that my life is a result of my actions. It's time for me to do the really hard stuff and start to socialize again. I'm 28 with no friends and no history of friends, so it's going to be pretty tough to make this breakthrough. Wish me luck fellas.
You're not a complete loser, m8. You've been dealt a tough hand and there is no one in your life that taught you have to make it work.
It's tough to get rid of it, but you have to cut off doomscrolling etc. Your head needs to be in a better space so you can reduce alcohol intake. Victim mentality is bad because you need to feel like you are in control of your life so it's easier to be in control. Fear can poison your mind when nothing short of death is ever as bad as you imagine.
Keep your chin up and believe in yourself. You can't keep a relationship going for 7 years and and not have developed the skills necessary to start another one. Need a refresher for social situations - you can learn it. Fear being unattractive to women - you can become more interesting. Your life is in your hands and you can do it. Believe in yourself and take the necessary steps.
Thanks you bros for the supportive posts, it actually means a lot to me. I take your advice to heart and I'm really looking forward to the future for the first time in a while. Cheers.
>why the fuck are you calling yourself an incel
I don't know but all I can say is that I got stuck in a negative feedback loop for like 10 years. I constantly told myself that I was worthless and undesirable that NOTHING could convince me otherwise. It's part of the reason that I broke up with my ex. If we didn't have sex for 5 days then I would tell myself it's because I was a freak that can't turn a woman on. It's sick and I'm trying to get better, but I have to reprogram my brain to be different.
This has got to be bait, right?
You had girlfriend and a sex life for years.
So why the fuck are you calling yourself an incel?
What the fuck am I
suppose to say, while I'm the one who's been trying to get a fwb or girlfriend?
Hey bro i went through exactly the same thing with exactly the same mentality as you, except i was lucky it was after 3 years of dating.
It gets so much better just dont be afraid to fail, go out and put yourself out there and eventually you will meet someone truly worth your time (friend or partner wise). Year and a half has passed and honestly i cant recognise myself how much better things are. (Lifting is crucial aswell ofc)
didnt eat yesterday but got really drunk and went to some birthday party
argued with everyone over dumb shit, had a fight with a really dear friend (tomboy female no homo)
went home, took benzo feel asleep
now I'm deciding should I eat or continue drinking
have a hard time finding job recently, no gf for 12 years, last two years have been nothing but downward spiral and I have hard time motivating myself to stand up and move on like I used to, I'm really tired
also 30, so it's basically over for me
You can't keep doing this to yourself. You deserve better. Your life doesn't have to be this way. Drink some water, make a meal.
I drank some wine and smoke cigs
but will go out to eat soon, wont lose whole day to drunken stupor
You can do this, do things outside your home so you don't get sucked drinking.
Youre throwing your toys around and making a scene like a toddler. Your behaviour suggests you're waiting for a stern but loving mother figure to swoop in with words of comfort and guidance, to tell you that you're a big boy and youre loved and everything will be all right.
What you're doing is social self sabotage and eventually even your close friends will get sick of your shit, and that's difficult to come back from. Take ownership for yourself. Start by acting like the responsible adult in the room and meeting your own basic needs: food, water, sleep, hygiene and grooming. Then take it from there. Good luck dumbass.
At what point does regular alcohol consumption become a legit problem? I'm at about a bottle of wine a night, say 3-4 nights a week. With the occasional stretch of getting blackout here and there. I'm aware it's poison and no amount is healthy and yadda yadda. But shit is very nice. Cash, even.
When you begin to feel physical need to consume alcohol and later on also physical withdrawal symptoms like headache, sweating and shaking hands when you go without it. And it sounds like you're either already there or close to it
>I'm at about a bottle of wine a night, say 3-4 nights a week.
copious but not legit problem tier
>With the occasional stretch of getting blackout here and there.
this combined with the previous one makes it pretty close to or reaching problem levels
>have a group of friends i usually hang out with
>known them for years
>suddenly they don't talk anymore in the group chat
>checked social medias and saw that they were out without me this weekend
How do I cope with this?
>had a thing for older women when I was growing up
>in 7th grade I asked my 27 year old history teacher to go to the winter dance with me
>got turned down but I convinced an 9th grade girl to be my date
>started lifting in high school because I wanted to impress college girls
>ended up marrying a woman who was 7 years older than me
>had a son with her
>fast forward 11 years
>son is now in 6th grade
>he starts working out with me in our home gym
>assume he wanted to increase his strength for hockey or something
>go over the core barbell lifts with him, have him do calisthenics
>so how long will it take me to get big muscles?
>like more than a few months?
>yeah. You haven't even finished puberty yet
>really? how can I gain muscle quickly? I want to impress Ms. Peterson
>Ms. Peterson is his homeroom teacher
>Ms. Peterson is in her mid 20s
>tfw my son inherited my autism
HE IS BASED BROTHER
YOU ARE RAISING YOUR BOY RIGHT
just started reading Erotic x Anabolic and holy shit is it based.
I have a gf and she loves me extremely and is obsessed with me. However is always that lingering regret in the back of my head that when we first started talking I was in love with her and ignored everything while she was still looking at other options and just liked me. The more i think about this the more inferior I feel to her and I compensate by hurting her emotionally all the damn time.k0
That's in the past, why do you give a fuck!?
She's your girlfriend now.
Yet I wonder why I
still haven't to get a girlfriend or friends with benefits.
Christ, what am I doing wrong?
My guy, you are very clearly upset about your situation and want more people to help you.
Could you answer some questions, maybe I can think of something useful to say?
-How fit are you? You hit the gym, but would you look good without a shirt on?
-How would you rate your face realistically? Are you average looks wise, on the uglier side, better looking?
-Do you take care of yourself? Any pimples, acne, bad haircut or ill fitting clothes?
-How old are you and what country are you from? Online dating hasn't worked out for you so do you know of any spots where women go to have fun? Do you know of any social events, concerts, bars, anything that you could visit and have a good time in?
-How are your social skills? Have you had conversations with women before?
-How good are you at drawing? Have you showed your drawings to any guy or girl and did they like it?
-Do you have any other sorts of interests that you could do together with a woman?
-Do you read books?
Of course, if you don't want to answer to me, answer them to yourself. Getting any GF at all is very simple when you know what you have to do. The bits and pieces coming together may seem obtuse at first.
You have to remember women don't love men the same way men love women.
She may be attracted you at first, but she needs to fall in love with your character; which takes time.
Men can instantly fall in love, and will ignore poor character traits because of love.
If you've been a total badass and she's warmed up over time, that's a good sign. If she is head over heels (love-bombing) you off the get-go, that's a bad sign.
The looking at other options things is just a thing of the time we live in. Because she has so many options, it doesn't really hurt to look around; as long as she's not relegating herself to being the town bike and giving everyone a turn.
I don’t fucking understand this and I find it repulsive. I feel the same way. There’s other reasons which are more important but this is one reason I broke up with my ex. 90% sure she was talking to other dudes. Which I felt comfortable with despite that it’s repulsive to me because I knew I was the best option. But I wasn’t talking to other girls and we established we were committed.
How the fuck do you deal with this and simply turn a blind eye to it? It’s fucked up. Yeah all women do this shit, not even just early on. And it’s one thing if it’s happening before you guys are committed because we should be doing the same thing in that instance. But knowing she’s pursuing other men while you’re only pursuing her makes you feel like a half cuck. It’s fucked up imho.
I was more than fine with it at first because I assumed it would be just talking to get attention from some loser until I opened up to her about it making me feel insecure at times and a day later she tells me
>fine I’ll just go keep someone else up
To get her way in something and get me to stay up talking to her
There’s no avoiding it. I don’t have the patience to talk to multiple women even if I had the options to do so. I fully understand this poster saying it makes him feel inferior. I think the only way around it is to do the same shit and not commit to one girl if she’s your only option but idk if that’s correct
>Be porn, fast food and alcohol- free for almost a full month
>Begin working out regularly, no videogames
>Workplace arranges a winter party
>Free drinks and food
>Get drinks out of habit
>Relapse at all my vices during the weekend
>Don't work out
>Disappointed in myself
Feels like shit, but I will rise again.
>still not answer from that company that flew me over to the site and the hiring manager said that wanted me on board during the last interview
>the HR staff hasn't got back to me after I asked for updates two weeks after the interview
I guess that ship sailed a long time ago. I'm gonna message them on Monday to see if there is some change.
>wife doesn't want to have kids
>she gets worried that she will get pregnant even while I'm wearing a condom
>decide to forgo sex for both our sakes and put of principle
>gets mad at me for no having sex
Happy wife happy life bro hahahaha
Fuck that. I'm going to divorce because of that and other things.
perhaps you should talk to your wife, usually works for most people
I assume your wife wants you to get the snip, but in typical female fashion has decided to communicate that with you through telepathy instead of actual words.
Talk to the stupid cunt and ask her what she wants because she evidently THINKS she made it obvious enough.
Not even that. She literally doesn't want kids. Which is fucked up because she told me that she wanted to have kids before I married her.
i got what i (thought) i wanted, turns out its hell and i dug myself so deep that crawling back up will make everything else collapse
I love woman
Story time to when I encountered a ISTcel
>getting my morning cardio in
>its pitch black before sunrise, because I like running in dark
>almost bump into a guy and have to give way to this guy walking towards me from the otherside of this small sidewalk we are on
>i turn around and see this guy walking literally like pic rel except he is walking much slower and has his chest pumped in the air and is walking in. cheesy/comical way (almost like in cartoons)
>i am visually stunned by his slow stride across an empty road flexing as much as physically possible while in his casual gym attire
>I stop and stare at this guy for a solid 30 seconds
>the worst part is that he does not stop walking like this and continues to walk in the same manner
Who is he? Why was he walking like that? Where was he going? What was he doing in gym clothes at 4am on a dark empty road?
These are questions that haunt me every so often each time I am reminded of him
i need to start doing this to boost my testosterone
>have to move in with my mom again (I HATE LANDLORDS)
It's over, isn't it? I have a pretty good job so that's the only thing going well in my life.
I just feel so lost in life, so far behind my peers. Having a normal family and social circle just isn't something I can do. On top of that losing my independence, losing my quiet little oasis, is just another kick while I'm down. I won't get into details, but after moving my new home had an issue that made it impossible to live there and my landlord refuses to do anything about it despite me complaining about it for half a year. I'm not going to find a new home anytime soon, not in this market.
I work so hard, yet things only ever get worse. One of these problems would be manageable, but everything together? I'm going to be that 40 year old loser that everyone laughs at. Normies don't ever bother listening to your side of the story, especially not women. If you tick enough loser boxes, you're a loser. And I tick all of them except unemployment.
I can't even lose weight because my mom uses olive oil like it's salt.
one of my best friends is ultra-catholic to the max and he is anti lifting and he is getting in my head lately telling me that im wasting time lifting weights and i should devote all my time to god etc. although he is redpilled in some areas he is beta af in this one and im thinking of cutting him of just because of this because i think its a crab in a bucket mentality, also he is a dyel
Paul did write that your body is a temple that houses a divine spirit, wouldn't it therefore be reverent to maintain that temple properly rather than let it decay? Proper hygiene and some basic conditioning seems to be in order.
Social skills are called that for a reason. Like every other skill, including picking heavy things up and putting them down, it requires practice. Some are naturally better than others, but we can all practice to be pretty good.
You're still young, so use your youth to practice. Go to as many social events as you can, even if you have to drag yourself there. The more you do it, the better you get and the more fun it becomes. The same way rooning doesn't become fun until you can keep it up for 10 minutes without coughing up a lung.
There are no fewer than four (4) girls at my gym who have shown interest in me but I'm too much of a fucking sperg to talk to any them. I'm sick of being single but the thought of pursuing a girl and ending up broken hearted is utterly terrifying. It doesn't help that I'm a 32 year old virgin and have never had a serious relationship in my life, even my parents have given up on me and don't bother asking if I'm dating.
How to I grow a pair and ask one of these girls to go hiking with me? I can't spend another Valentine's Day alone bros.
I’m certainly no expert, I’m in the same boat but 21. Asking a girl to go hiking for a first date is probably an awful idea. Go somewhere public. She doesn’t want to be alone in the woods with a man she doesn’t know.
Hiking was just a suggestion, I'd help them pick out purses if it meant I could spend time with any of them.
>I'd help them pick out purses if it meant I could spend time with any of them.
Then your mentality is fucking horrible and you are putting them on some sort of pedestal, which they just don't deserve. And it's not even about disrespecting them. But dating is supposed to be fun for both parties and there's no reason you should want to engage in some activity that would only please her and not you.
It's also the reason why you are a 32 year old virgin. You are afraid of asking a girl out because you treat them as queens that give their attention only to the most deserving. And that's just not true at all. Girls have a ton of insecurities themselves. They don't only date 8+/10 chads because there just aren't that many men that meet these critieria. Also if you would ever get out of your house and looked at couples you would notice plenty of pairs where the guy is clearly uglier than the girl.
It might sound like a meme but it actually is literally 90% about confidence. If you are confident then it masks all your poor qualities because in their mind, if the guy asking them out is confident, then he has nothing to be insecure about.
All humans instinctively despise insecure people because it makes us think they have low value. And often it's true because insecurity literally comes from low sense of value. So don't act insecure, don't apologize, don't act like asking this specific girl out is a big deal to you.
Sounds impossible? It literally takes practice. You just have to accept that asking a girl out can have a negative outcome of her declining and that's just ok. Same goes for dating.
careful, a lot of guys interpret anything as interest when its not
remember that your ego thinks highly of you
moron, interest is not even a prerequisite when it comes to something as casual as striking a conversation with a girl. The issue with 90% of men in this thread is that you are straight up afraid of women
a 32 year old virgin is telling me I'm afraid of women? what the fuck
>retard can't realize that there are more than 2 anons posting in the thread
then why are you even talking to me, you didn't even understand what was I saying or why was I saying it
what an absolute retard
I’m not that anon and I’m not gonna read through your guys’ back and forth, but I’m 27 I’ve had sex with like 8 women and I’m still terrified of them. Legitimately afraid of them.
Can’t talk, can’t breath, can’t look them in the eye, hands shake etc.
It sucks. No amount of experience helps it. Only feel at ease around them if I had the same day. All my hookups were luck related tbqh. Even though I don’t put them on a pedestal and I consider them nearly subhuman and idiots that can’t do anything for me that I wouldn’t be able to find in every single other woman out there, it doesn’t change this.
But I suppose it could be worse, I could be a 32 year old virgin one year away from wizard status.
Been drinking heavy every weekend for a few months. I look forward to getting drunk all week.
It’s not affecting my life poorly… I just get really happy, I don’t go out, I never get angry, I can afford it. I’ve put on weight but I attribute that more to my poor eating habits lately.
Just don’t like how much I like it. I wanted to take a month off and went 2 weeks. Stress from work/school got to me.
I can't believe this is my life. just playing video games and neeting around and having no friends. only talking to my parents and siblings and being unable to form relationships with my peers in my age group. holy shit. life is just a big pile of shit unless you create some kind of order out of the chaos
>unless you create some kind of order
you should have learned this a lot sooner, it doesn't take a fucking scientist to fucking logically understand what I'm saying
the more you put in, the more you get out
so stop fucking making excuses, get out there and do whatever the fuck it takes to reach your fucking goals!
whatever it fucking takes to achieve your goals goddammit
>move from employment to entrepreneurship to save on paying exorbitant social security and income tax
>instead pay for med+social+income a flat rate of approximately $250 as long as I don't make more than $80k which I never will
>still doing the same 160 hours a month, just invoicing a few companies instead of one
>same benefits written into the contract
>gf immedately hooks me up with a friend of hers who needs some work done on her startup's website
>startup is loaded, so charge them double my current hourly rate
That's kinda cool tbh. Might make some spending money for once.
>go to a friend's birthday
>some girl doesn't show up
>apparently he wanted to introduce us
>might do it later
I'm not open to anything other than fwb's, but it's still cool.
I have come to the conclusion I am only sad about my exes because I have no other bitches.
It’s been puzzling me for a bit why I would feel so shitty about women I never really cared about or saw as long term, or even dated for that long anyways. Women who I actually really disliked beyond the sex.
And I realized:
I am only feeling shitty because I don’t have any other women in my life. I don’t miss them, I miss the companionship.
I suppose it’s relieving to come to this understanding. But— actually nevermind. I was gonna say idk how to fix it but I do. I need to continue with what I set out to do and become my strongest self. I’m going to make it. We will all make it.
my therapist asked me what I wanted in a partner and I genuinely couldn't think of anything besides frequent, accessible sex.
Girl cut me out of her life, acted like nothing happened and is having an absolute blast. Mutual freinds dgaf about me. I was blindsided by this and still care for her deeply. Praying to God he helps me through this bleakness, she was cold as ice when she let me know she didn't want me in her life. Why am I the only one crying over it?
In the age of mass online dating, most women are heartless, cold-blooded monsters that treat men as disposable. Accept this harsh truth and work on your vetting strategy so that you hold the power
Woke up , tried to pray it didn’t go well. Realized I ain’t shit , never been , and fuck everyone who will claim otherwise lmao.
Pissed off because couldn’t find me a cheap ass brand tracksuit like what the fuck ? Deleted IG and sold my PS , now I seriously got so much time on my head that I don’t know where the fuck to shove my fucking ass , I like the feel tho and this song is a banger lmao. Hope everyone is doing great and all best wishes.
I give up on women
I decided to quit trying with girls completely
I said I would quit doing things cause I think girls will like it and just do things I enjoy
So I started going to the gym less and rock climbing more, eating more, drinking more, playing more videogames
And now I’ve gained 15 lbs and I think I’m addicted to alcohol cause I wanted to take a break and couldnt
I fucked up so bad anons. I lied about being enrolled in uni to my parents for years, im dirt poor too and i just cant take it anymorr I have been abused by beating as a child and just feel like cancer all the time. I feel only pain and im in so deep lie after lie that its really over bros. I am making a plan to kill myself by motorcycle soon so nobody suspects anything. I ride like a maniac literally all the time so people would probably think its just the result of recklessness.
Guys never keep things inside of urself for too long. It will eat you up. If you have decent parents always go for the truth. Dont make same mistakes as i did guys please.
It's never too late to turn things around anon.
Appreciate these words bro. But for me it is. Mentally in a abysmall spot. Future non-existant. It really is the few people i have got that somewhar care for me that im still here. If i could go back and undo some things maybe there was hope. Just mentally very tired and no one or where t9 turn to anon. I am always ready for everyone to help too but feel so alone myselr
Guess it's time for this:
>grow up awkward kid but with lots of potential
>eventually develop insane social anxiety
>finish school, go to uni
>spend 4 years pretending to study, smoking weed, jerking off and nothing else
>few friends left from school but I can barely stand being around them
>anxiety is so bad I can't attend classes, almost pass out grocery shopping, can't talk to strangers, just thinking about going on a date makes me dizzy
>spend all these years just shoving my problems down the road
>one day have a complete breakdown where the reality of my life overwhelms me
>khv at 23, degree 5% done in 4 years, no real hobbies, friends, interests, experiences
>have health issues from anxiety
>total loser incapable of even basic human functions
>worst of all I realized I don't even have emotions anymore
>I just feel empty all the time
>realize this can't be it, I cannot die having lived a life like this
>something changed in my brain that day
>buy book on CBT for anxiety first thing
>tell parents I failed my degree(i didn't) and switch from engineering to CS
>constantly face insurmountable hurdles
>don't allow myself to back down
>had horrible moments like sitting in first lecture of new degree with a pulse 200bpm sweating like a pig unable to concentrate
>things only get better slowly
>but I keep at it day after day doing the things I have to
>today is little over 5 years after that day
>bachelors in CS with top grades
>got into one of the best master programs in the country
>moved to new city on my own
>held a small job for the first time ever
>went on a date
>have new hobbies
>actually make new friends among my classmates
>1/2/2.5/3.5 at 185cm 80kg and practice other sports besides lifting
>get mired constantly
>can easily and confidently talk to strangers
>held multiple presentations in front of 10-30 people at uni and got a perfect grade every time
>anxiety barely present anymore
>every day I wake up I'm excited for my future
Add to that:
I felt similar to you. I told so many lies on top of lies on top of lies over those years. Some people I told this part of the truth other a different part. Just remembering which life I had to fake for what person kept me up at night.
But I made it out, and I was and still am a gigantic pussy. If I managed to, anyone can. You just need to find the will in yourself to do so.
And you cannot imagine what a freeing feeling it is to have these giant walls that surrounded you all your life just fade into nothingness. It's hard to put this fundamental realization into words. It's not really "thinking I can't do X". It's more like "I'm not a person who does X". Fuck who others think you are. And especially fuck who you think you are.
28 and you made it? Nice anon
28 and I lost my community cause a girl decided I wasn't worth it and 'freinds' seemed to take her side. apart from that work is well but the isolation and headspace is killing me.
How'd you overcome the hurdles and mindset?
> I lied about being enrolled in uni to my parents for years
>I have been abused by beating as a child
So your parents beat you when you were a child and you feel bad about lying to them over some cash? Fuck em.
>. I am making a plan to kill myself by motorcycle soon so nobody suspects anything. I ride like a maniac literally all the time so people would probably think its just the result of recklessness.
Boomer teir way to go out. It hurts like fuck if you survive. Having bones screwed and wired together burns and aches like crazy. Had my patella shatter from a car collision, sucked ass.
>Guys never keep things inside of urself for too long. It will eat you up. If you have decent parents always go for the truth.
Sometimes I have to keep things to myself to protect those I love, they do eat you to death. It's the burden of being an adult.
I discovered a previous unknown uncle this year a baby my grands gave up. I cannot bring it up to my dementia grand ma or emotionally fragile sis. My sis found my Mas corpse in bed last year.
Families are fucked up, focus on you. If I can survive you will too.
Bros I'm so nervous I told a qt coworker I liked her and she likes me too and she's super excited about going out with me and spent all day texting about places we wanted to go together.
Bros I feel like I'm going to fuck this up and give up on women I haven't had a woman show interest in me in so long.
Remember when you go on a date with her: You are there to have a good time and see if SHE is a good match for you, not to try and act like the person you think she wants you to be
>buhuhuhuhuhu muh job so herd bros buhuhuhu
>buhuhuahaha me gf left me bros shes getting fucked by some moron or some chad buhuuu
have a nice day normalfags. die.
right mogs left. look at that brutal skull mog. fwhr mog. eye mog too, cavill has beta eyes
muh job so herd bros buhuhuhu
its actually the opposite, everyone on fit talks about how their white collar job in engineering/software/law that pays them insane amounts of money is actually so easy and they barely do any work
Just did some winter hiking with a friend and her bf, had fun, nice views, good way to hang out and clear your head. Cheers
>friend and her bf
>book an acupuncture session and a massage
>done by a small kinda pretty asian lady
>she tells me to take off everything other than my underwear lay face up
>immediately get a chub
>she tugged at my boxers pulling them down slightly to get the needles in
>when she was massaging me face down she would nearly pull them down completely to rub some more
>get a semi and leaked pre
Hope she enjoyed it as much as I did. Booked in for next week. First time a woman has touched me in 4 years.
Show her your needle next time.
Got nothing to do on my rest day and it feels like I'm going stir crazy
>got led on and ghosted by coworker because I was plan B before holidays
>she started acting weird really distancing herself
>keep my cool no awkwardness on my end
>got a promotion and am now going to be working in her area
Please help me master the art of indifference, I don't wanna come off butthurt I also don't want her thinking I'm still trying to get at her. Now with that said, if she's DTF I'm game.
I feel lost. I’m a stemfag, fourth year in my PhD program studying cancer. I came in with the usual naive hopes of my efforts helping cancer patients in the long run. But over time, I’ve seen that no one in this field actually cares about helping people. They just want to advance their own careers, get the grants, publish the papers, looking smart, get meaningless awards, etc. helping people is the last thing on our mind. I try to cope by saying the ripples I’m making today will become mighty waves in the future, but it’s breaking down. I’ve grown to hate academia, but the only other option for me to get a job is to go into industry, and you have even less freedom there. I’m mostly focusing on going into another field when I graduate, like developmental biology.
>cancer field is a huge runaround to make money not cure anything
I could have told you that 10 years ago and saved you the trouble lmao.
But seriously I'd go mad if I spent all that time, energy, and money just to have that rug pulled from under and to realize you're not going to really "help" anyone. And you'll find developmental biology to be so heavily polarized by politics you'll be setting yourself up for another disappointment.
Yeah academia is just a huge jerkoff for the most part. I was really disillusioned when I first got to work with PhD candidates and professors at a student job and realized most of them are utter retards. I'm so thankful I'm a CSfag and can just run to some high paying comfy job when I'm done with this masters
I'm going on a big vacation in April but I didn't let myself cut enough since I was afraid of losing gains.
I was hoping to get nice and low by then, I have like 20lbs to lose. Is this hopeless?
Have you cut before? If not it's probably unrealistic for you. Start cutting either way and stop falling for drastic IST bulk/cut memes. Be fit not IST.
I've had 3 one night stands where as soon as I put my dick in them, I go soft. I'm hard as diamonds with the foreplay but it's like subconsciously, my dick won't let me fuck any one.
I have split up from a 9 year relationship only 4 months ago. Could this be a problem?
I can honestly just see my dick magically working if I'm having sex with my ex.
go see a dominatrix and ask her to shame you for going soft during sex, like really verbalize it to you, make you go through the classic negative ''blow-up'' experience where the girl gets really mad about it.
Ask her to pretend like ''what? I don't turn you on, you fucking limp dicked gay, you're low testosterone, fuck you and your little flaccid dick, ahahaha what a gay'' like really ridicule you, and humiliate you while stroking your cock and edging you.
Tell her basically ''send me the most confusing mixed signals of shame, guilt, ridicule and sexual tension you can''.
That should fix it. Sometimes you just need to go through the worst experience to realize there's nothing to have anxiety about. If you can come out of it, almost like laughing and full on proud with your energy ''like yeah so what I'm limp bitch, what are you going to do about it?'' like you're over it, even bold and teasing about it.
I think it could do the trick for you.
This is the right place for blogposting, right?
I've been eating clean for 3 weeks now, down about 4 kilos, 94 to 90 @178. Meat, veggies, fruits, dairy, nuts. Rarely juice or vitamin water. I don't count calories but I get my pound of meat daily. Also 60/90/130/170kg for 3 reps. My goal is to shed at least 15 kilos.
I've bought a piano and been playing it for over 3 weeks as well. A thing from my childhood. I enjoy it.
I've been living on autopilot for the past 2 years. I am stressed and constantly feel shame and guilt. I've had headaches over this for the past year. Day to day, from dawn till dusk. My life completely depends on my family's good will. It's a fucking cage I cannot escape because I'm not independent enough despite wanting it so much. If I break it, all that awaits me is low-end jobs that I feel I won't be able to survive, and of course my family bonds will worsen.
For starters, I just want to get rid of that headache.
And I'm not drinking any alcohol until I hit my weight goal. (god I hope this stays true, it just must)
Mu propuse is kinda cringe,my propuse is to look like Eren's titan
>befriend girl that lives down the hall in my building
>nothing major, just chit chat or grab food in the cafe at the entrance to our building, sometimes grab food at this place on campus when we run into each other
>occasionally go drinking together (with a group of people)
>never think anything of it since I'm a goober
>never hung out at each other's place for whatever reason
>one night I'm writing a final paper for a class when there's a knock on my door
>it's that girl and she's just wearing a bathrobe
>more or less barges in and just starts to hang out and talk about whatever
>I am able to tell that she is wearing nothing under the robe since I like to keep my place cool and her nips are poking through the robe's material
>I think this is kinda weird, but whatever, I got a final paper to finish so I just entertain her chitchat then eventually shoo her away
>fast forward two days later
>head out to take a final exam
>she's coming out of her place with a bunch of boxes and a man she introduces to me as her dad
>'Well anon, it's been a lot of fun, but I'm moving today, glad to have met you!"
>fast forward two or three years and I realize she was (probably) trying to bang when she showed up practically naked at my literal doorstep two days before she moved away
>never saw or spoke to her ever again
Autism is not cool
this is probably one of the worst ive seen posted
Unfortunately I do exist. There was also a time I met a girl at a bar and we made out a bit. At one point my friend pulled me aside and told me to get her number or try to take her home. I asked him "why would I do that?" not realizing it was basically a sure thing at that point. I've gotten a lot better, but these two instances haunt me.
we've all had bad ones. a year ago for 2 weeks straight the girl sitting next to me was asking me for movie recommendations and constantly dropped that she didnt have anything going down that weekend. she didnt say a single word to me after i fumbled that. ive got more of course but that is one that i got a good laugh out of.
Yep, that’s enough IST for me tonight
Refuse to believe actual people like this exist
on the other hand, I've had times where people said I'd be an idiot to keep not doing anything about it, and then it turns out they weren't interested. so now because of that I'm probably not gonna take anything to mean anyone's interested in me again unless they just say it
Every time I get to know someone that I think is strictly better than me, I learn that they're human like me and I get sad
I have no idea about what I'm hoping to find exactly, other than I keep being disappointed that I haven't found someone bigger than their humanity
When do I become the big guy?
Is this really stickied mates??
>Be me, work at a gym
>Year ago have a girl who frequents on the weekends
>Cute, banter energy, clearly flirting with me
>Comes in alone on valentines day and I still do nothing because I'm not sure what I want. She seems pretty sad when she leaves
>Last time I see her, transfers gym
Fast forward to now
>Suddenly start thinking about this girl again and how I threw a golden opportunity
>Download tinder/other shit to see if I can bump into this girl again. No luck
>Find out she signed back up at the gym right around the time I started to think about her again
It's like God directly gifted me a 2nd chance. Like directly one of those "If I could go back in time" scenarios. Now I just have to bump into her again and see if she's down to hang out.
congrats anon similar situation here, date lined up in a month when shes back in town. texted a lot back and forth though and i kinda cut it off not sure if it was the right move but id rather just talk in person.
based anon you did the right thing
here's how you play it fag.
First of all honesty and integrity above all, otherwise you're going to come off real weird, or out of line. You tell her
>Hey...glad to see you back. How have you been? I missed you (as a light joke, not a needy puppy).
Basically getting re-acquainted on a formal, but personal level. Letting her know, you remember her, you cared for her, and you are still connected with her. Then, next you express this.
>You know back then, I sort of felt sad that you left like that, with no goodbye. I sort of viewed you as my friend here. We had some good times just joking around, felt like you were my gallows mate 🙂
Telling her, I regret that our bond was broken, softly first, just testing the waters, also letting her know, you want to be in the loop, in touch. Next you move on to..Can even joke and say ''let me know next time you plan to leave 🙂 '' sort of like poking at the abrupt departure behavior in her, you know not even a goodbye.
Then, if she's full on warming back up to you, joking around with you, apologizing or even just taking that bond you had seriously, you continue with...
>I'm glad that you're back, but now I feel like I can't let you become ''the one that got away'' again. I really liked you, and I want to hang out with you outside the gym. Regardless of if you stay or leave, you know. We should hang out. ''
Also if she asks you ''why didn't you ask me out/ask me to hang out back then, then?'' you play the honest regret card and say something like ''you know like when you have a good time with somebody, and it feels free and effortless and you don't really notice or make note that you should actively pursue it because it's going so good? That's why...I was so lost in the good vibe that I forgot that I sort of needed to make it something more stable. So I guess I needed to ask you to hang out, but I didn't notice time flying by. I'm really sorry about that, if it hurt your feelings.''
100% autism, you legit have no business giving social advice to anyone
>date for years
>don't really connect with anyone
>but we can't really see this progressing long term
>i lose weight
>clean up my life, career, hygiene, everything
>getting a lot of attention from girls now
>i can't connect with any of them
>see Her again three years later
>we grab coffee to catch up
>we connect again - so easy to talk
>i feel normal again
>she's married and unhappy
>she tries to kiss me when i hug her good bye
>i'm not bad enough of a person to have an affair
>she won't leave her husband, i'm not asking her to anyway
I hate every part of this. I hate every part of this. I hate every part of this.
what a fucking slut Her is...
stay away from that bitch she is all kinds of wrong.
someone program my back and bicep set for me
doing fine. Gained about 10kg over the last few months but now that I have a treadmill I have been burning 400 calories from cardio daily and this has also encouraged me to fox my diet as I hate thinking that 90 minutes of cardio is wasted on some chocolate I would regret eating immediately after. The weight is going to drop off me and I will finally reach my goal weight after 5 years
my gf has a uti and it's been almost two weeks since I last had sex
I'm fucking sick of this shit. she wont even blow me
>she wont even blow me
she's not your gf
walking outside is free and fresh air makes any exercise 50% more effective
>i'm not bad enough of a person to have an affair
you'd be doing that man a favor
>thinking about this girl
kind of a funny experience last night. some guys i know were playing a small show at a small bar and k went to go see them. one of the guys gfs was there and ran up to me and gave me a big hug when she saw me, saying shit like i’m so glad you’re here you’re so cool etc. i was almost blushing and i’ve only met her once. and then she said i should go talk to her bf (my friend) because he was telling her that he hoped i would show up and would be really excited to see me and how cool he thinks i am etc. it was really nice but just not something i’m really used to hearing from anyone. then later after the show was over and everyone was really drunk he told me that he was really glad i came and that he values my opinion on their music and playing. idk why he’s a much better guitar player than i am but i guess we have had some good talks about music. pretty boring story just something that i e been thinking about today
First time of my life I had a birthday and can't even get excited about it.
I'm turning 26.
Just don't really have much at all to look forward to. Gym feels nice, that's about it.
Will turn 26 soon too.
Just as you, I have nothing to look forward to.
Whenever my parents will die, I’ll soon follow…
I am in love with a high dollar escort. She is very calculating and knows I am a poor fag. Asked if I could see her this week to take her out for oysters. She said ‘sure but I can’t promise you anytime this weekend’.
I guess she is getting fucked by some rich dude(s).
I have this dream I can save her and take her from a life of whoring but I am starting to realize she did a discounted cash flow analysis and has realized with how beautiful she is that whoring is a positive IRR for her.
Jesus dude, why would you do that to yourself?
Drank alone tonight bros and played video games.
I had 8 drinks. Poured a 9th but poured it down the drain cause I felt I had enough.
I’m afraid of how good alcohol makes me feel. I just feel like everything’s okay and I’m happy. I will focus on school early in the week to make sure I can get drunk on the weekend. It doesn’t negatively effect my relationships or life besides weight gain.
I took 2 weeks off and I drank heavily tonight and last night. If I limit my drinking to only weekends it’s not that bad right?
Drinking alone is absolutely terrible for you. You already sound like an alcoholic. You know the first thing this addiction does to you? It makes you rationalize drinking. And you will never stop because the next thing about alcoholism is it forces you to drink more and more, which you will of course somehow rationalize. You can't substitute happiness and being ok with yourself with alcohol for long. And trust me on all I wrote above because I come from a family of alcoholics
Shit sucks cause I’ve never felt as happy, content, or satisfied as I do who I drink
Like, the first time I tried it I was like, oh, so this is what being happy feels like lol
Cause I don’t think alcohol has made me more depressed, it just made me realize that I haven’t felt happy in ages
I know that feel bro, believe me. The thing is, it's temporary and then it destroys you. If it hasn't negatively affected some aspects of your life yet, then it will eventually.
I feel you man, alcohol makes me relaxed as fuck.
I feel like it just allows me to let my guard down which in turn just allows me to enjoy life for a little while.
I am so fucking afraid of this feeling that I desperately avoid drinking although lately I've been indulging quite a bit.
>used video game for escapism
>video game feels hollow now
I am switching to watching movie I guess.
Too bad you can’t lift throughout the day because I would have enjoy that tiny bit of escape through lifting.
IST idk what I'm doing wrong, I've gone to the gym for an hour a day for the past 5 months, and I have nothing to show for it. I feel like I can't lose weight no matter how hard I try.
I'm 6"6 (2m)
I do 20-30 minutes of hilly walking on the treadmill, at 4.8kph (2.9mph).
I don't know what to call the machines but the one that makes it hard to clap, the rowing machine and squats with Weights on, I do 25 reps at 80kgs on all of those or the closest equivalent.
The exercise is fine. Could be better but it’s fine.
If you’re not losing weight it’s your diet. Eat less. Tracking calories is the easier way to be sure you’re eating less.
What exercise stuff can I do better. I've just been going with what felt just outside my comfort zone with the exercise.
I hate my sister. I hate my aunt. I hate my mother.
Turns out my hate for woman comes from my shitty relatives. How can they be so useless. I can't wait for them to die
>went out yesterday with this girl I’m seeing
>not my usual type, but still pretty
>went back to my place
>hard as a rock
>take off my pants
>soft as a rope
>girl is visibly frustrated
Now I can’t take this shit off my head and it will surely impact the next time we try something.
I wasn’t even drunk
What kind of porn do you fap to?
Amateur, but I haven’t jerked to porn in a while.
I think the issue is that my dick is not used to sex anymore and needs some calibration. I was in a 2 year long relationship until last month, but we had to do long distance for a while. In total I haven’t had sex since October.
Still, can’t let it get into my head too much
Loneliness is a constant struggle
I've been trying to meet new people but that's just been one big failure for me.
All I do is just go to work, and sit at home.
>work for a local sports club as a coach
>another coach for a different team in the same club and I start to hit it off
>she’s cute, albeit a bit overweight, so am I
>go on a few “dates”, just us grabbing dinner
>start texting all the time, feel like we’re getting along pretty good, she seems to like me quite a bit
>something feels off
>cannot get over the fact she is 21 and I turn 26 in a few months
Just feels wrong bros. To think I was graduating college while she was still in highschool, almost feels like I’m dating a player that I coached. Maybe I’m being ridiculous, but I just have this feeling that I can’t do this. Just her to leave me alone
You're being ridiculous. Go ahead an throw away being happy if you must though.
gay. stop making excuses. Look at Leo di Caprio. Dude won't date chicks unless their half his age.
act like a man!
>go to family gathering
>get ill as soon as I come home
It's over, my gains lost like tears in the rain.
>inb4 vaxx claims another
>about to work out at home
>not really feeling it
>try to get test boost with softcore jav
>yes bb, let's do this
>hang from pullup bar, facing screen
>nip nong now rubbing her butte
>start doing neutral grip pullups
>have an erection, makes me lol
>feels kinda tickly on the way up
>feels kinda good bros
>slanty chan is getting into it
>pause halfway through the movement, where it feels good under tension
>bros am i seriously gonna
>literally coom from pullups
>didn't touch benis a single time
I cannot believe this