Saturday night feels bar

What's been on your mind anon?

  1. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    This will be the week I talk to the cute girl at the gym who keeps appearing in front of me, I will not be a coward, no longer.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Hi, I keep seeing you around. My name is anon
      >What do you lift for?

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        I was thinking of saying something along those lines, kek. "So, do you train for a sport or something?"
        Just need to drag the small talk on long enough to see if she's smiling so I can ask her to meet me for a drink or something. I don't think it's necessary to try to have an extensive conversation in the gym

    • 4 months ago
      joyofsatan.org

      das it mane.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      Nothing much really. Moved to uni. Work is fine so far, loads of cool stuff here. Issue is that there aren't any women I'm interested. There was one that was interested in me and I turned her down. The roommates I told were surprised I turned her down, when I said I considered smoking weed was a red flag.

      There's no tomboys here goddammit. Not a single one. Is it an American exclusive phenomenon? None I can find in bongland. I've been to a karate club, a boxing club (very good workout would recommend) and a jiujitsu club and zilch. Is the solution dating apps? I can't stand them and want to find a long term relationship, not a quick shag.

      Or do I do the sane thing and give up? Lower my standards?

      also that AI website goin around on IST gave me feels recently, tfw no robot gf, or any gf for that matter

      good luck

      https://i.imgur.com/b4SK2ia.jpg

      i took in a sickly abandoned kitten last friday, it died yesterday and ive been feeling bad about it. it was only a few weeks old and pretty helpless. the vet gave me antibiotics but said there wasnt much else i could do besides keep it warm and try and feed it.

      poor little guy. sorry i couldnt do more for you

      As long as you did all you can. Don't feel bad. This makes me miss my cat, he's still staying with parents.

      That's rough buddy. Bizarrely I'm pretty much only attracted to giantesses. Like the fictional kind, and I've wondered if I have it better or worse than closet gays. I have, like, tiny versions of my ideal gf running around everywhere but the girl I actually wanna bBeth isn't real, and the idea of coming out of the closet is a joke, and not a funny one.
      You have actual ideal bf all around, but society is freaky and contentious about it, and the likelihood that any random guy you like likes you back is super low. I really dont know how gay ppl find each other. It must be difficult. But I know it's even harder to find a giantess who would date a normal sized dude.

      If you are one of those guys that needs 10+ meters tall I am so sorry. Consider nofap to help get rid of your fetish.

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        >good luck
        I just passed >her on my way walking out of the gym, it didn't even register that it was her checking in at the desk until I was out the door.
        I feel like I'm going to puke now.
        I haven't felt like this in years

        • 4 months ago
          Anonymous

          You don't have a crush on her. You have a crush on a model you have of her.

          Reminder, that as of this moment she is FARTING his CUM out of HER ASS on a TOILET and there is not a NEURON in HER BRAIN that even recollects your donkey ass.

          • 4 months ago
            Anonymous

            >as of this moment she is FARTING his CUM out of HER ASS on a TOILET
            always with the scenarios

            • 4 months ago
              Anonymous

              have to be real around these threads

  2. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    I’m a virgin at 20 which isn’t horrifically bad, but still a concern. How do I get women interested in me? I wouldn’t say I’m ugly probably average, but I’m 5’7. So overall I’d say I’m 4/10. I’m losing weight at the moment too. I would like a woman that’s also a 4/10

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      Outside of IST, that's perfectly normal. Stop obsessing about orgasm, you're the same bro after the nut ffs.

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        It isn’t really. Everyone around me says it’s bad not on the internet but people in jobs and friends.

        • 4 months ago
          Anonymous

          Ok then go have sex if you're so obsessed and realize the truth that it's not fulfilling at all unless it's with someone you love. You need to realize you're still young adults so 99% of you are still retarded and guided by others, as opposed to adults - 95% of which are retarded.

          • 4 months ago
            Anonymous

            I can’t have sex women aren’t interested in having sex with me. How do I get them interested?

            • 4 months ago
              Anonymous

              buy an escort

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      Join a church, volunteer there, be helpful and friendly but somewhat reserved with the women. You'll find what you're looking for

  3. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Just moved. Learning how to talk to people that I don't know at all in college. Sort of hard for me, any tips? Besides that, I don't have a depressing story. Gyms going well and my outlook is positive. Hopefully I can learn how to communicate well before the loneliness creeps in

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      as a fellow college freshman (yes im 18 mods) i guess just follow concentional advice (find shit you like, be friendly, dont be afraid to introduxe yourself bc all the other freshmen are going thru the same shit as you…)

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      be authentic. dont be a weirdo fag.

  4. 4 months ago
    Anonymous
  5. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Mexican mule por favor

    >Moms birthday
    >Take her out of state to a casino for the weekend
    >My birthday happens sometime later
    >She calls me once, I missed it and called her back 15 minutes later, no pick up
    >She doesn't try calling me again
    >Get pissed that she couldn't even put in the effort to try one more time
    >She tells me she had friends over and that's why she didn't call me
    >Tell her that fine, fuck her birthday, and fuck mine too, less hassle for me
    >Fast forward a few months
    >Clinic calls because shes got a major surgery coming up and shes not picking up her phone, it's a big deal and she needs to confirm
    >Call her, she picks up
    >Tell her clinic is calling me, and she needs to get that business handled
    >She tells me she's hanging out with friends she'll do it later
    >I'm about to tell her he friends can get fucked and she needs to be an adult, but I catch myself before we go down that route
    >She wants me to say hi to her friends (I know them but it doesn't really make a different)
    >I say I'm at work and hang up the phone
    >She calls me 7 hours later while I'm in bed to ask if I hung up on her

    I just...I wish my mom was an adult.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      I know that feeling bro. Being neglected and raised poorly by a dumb parent, only to feel responsible for them later and feel like I have to be the adult in that relationship. Though these days I don't give a fuck about her anymore

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        Mexican mule por favor

        >Moms birthday
        >Take her out of state to a casino for the weekend
        >My birthday happens sometime later
        >She calls me once, I missed it and called her back 15 minutes later, no pick up
        >She doesn't try calling me again
        >Get pissed that she couldn't even put in the effort to try one more time
        >She tells me she had friends over and that's why she didn't call me
        >Tell her that fine, fuck her birthday, and fuck mine too, less hassle for me
        >Fast forward a few months
        >Clinic calls because shes got a major surgery coming up and shes not picking up her phone, it's a big deal and she needs to confirm
        >Call her, she picks up
        >Tell her clinic is calling me, and she needs to get that business handled
        >She tells me she's hanging out with friends she'll do it later
        >I'm about to tell her he friends can get fucked and she needs to be an adult, but I catch myself before we go down that route
        >She wants me to say hi to her friends (I know them but it doesn't really make a different)
        >I say I'm at work and hang up the phone
        >She calls me 7 hours later while I'm in bed to ask if I hung up on her

        I just...I wish my mom was an adult.

        Don’t talk about your mother like that you pieces of filth

        • 4 months ago
          Anonymous

          Believe it or not, some parents suck at being parents. And it's okay to say that

          • 4 months ago
            Anonymous

            Sure, but that mexican guy is just being a moron about his mom being ditsy. Everyone has quirks and you're going to miss her personality quirks when she's gone. What kind of a catholic are you bro, I say va fangool to you.

  6. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Just a water for me
    Tachycardia and chest pain came back
    My mental illness is flaring up
    And I feel so damn lonely
    You guys are really the only thing keeping me going

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      stay strong anon
      oh and have some fruits too they might make you feel physically a little better.

  7. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    I think I'll be fine today barkeep, I'll whine again next week.
    Just give me a bottle of light beer, I'll drink it while walking home.

  8. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Right now I'm trying to hook up with this hot teacher at my school. Long story short she approached me last week and gave me some signs that she was interested. She complemented my physique, and said that "I would make a great husband." I made up a lie and said that I'm doing personal training on the side while I'm studying, and she said that she could get me into contact with someone who does that as a career and to message her if I was interested. it might just be the horniness talking but I think it was an excuse for me to message her. I realized I forgot to ask for her number, and was going to ask next week when I see her in school, but I just saw she had an Instagram account and was wondering if I should message her through there, since I have a couple shirtless pics and stuff there.
    What's the move here guys

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      Wait till you see her in person for God's sake. You and I both know there's a 95% chance that she'll think you're a creeper for messaging her on Instagram. Fuck the online bullshit. Good luck anon

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        Fuck I already did it why didn't you tell me this sooner. She hasn't responded yet but she posted some stuff on Facebook so I assume she has been on her phone at least, and it would look even creepier if I unsent the message. It was just me asking if she could get me in contact with the personal trainer dude so I doesn't seem too creepy, right?

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      DON’T
      As the other anon said, wait until you see her

  9. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm getting addicted to Overwatch again
    both the porn and the game

  10. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    I've been obsessing over my weight these past few months it's driving me nuts. I'll purposely not eat all day at work but binge when I get home and feel like shit for doing it. I'm not even fat I'm 5'10" 148lbs but I'm really want to stay lean but can't help eating peanut butter and ice cream

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      >but I'm really want to stay lean but can't help eating peanut butter and ice cream
      Imagine your double chin growing in. Imagine your muffin top hanging over your pants line. Still want the ice cream you fat fuck?

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        Yes I just gotta measure it out and put it in a bowl instead of eating it out the container

  11. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    >roommate decided to "clean the whole apartment" today
    >this means he took all the clutter out of his room and put it all over the living room and kitchen
    >decided to stop cleaning and go to the movies
    >I literally can't use the living room since his shit is all over the couch, chairs, and coffee table
    I'm gonna fucking lose it. He stopped cleaning few hours ago because he says he got tired.

  12. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    I accepted that I will never find another woman and my life has significantly improved. Months of repeated failure/striking out had worn me down, but I after giving up, I quit caring and everything went back to normal for weeks now.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      It’ll come when you least want it to

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        That's my fear. I've started withdrawing to prevent it. The more I thought, the more I realized I absolutely do not want to be in a relationship again. I'm old. I've been married and divorced. It's likely better for everyone if I just work and gymcel in my basement.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      I always lie to myself and say that I don't care if I never find a woman. I really do care but I also know that I'm too much of a loner to ever meet anyone and I'll never change my hobbies to incorporate meeting new people. Oh well
      >Well men like me, probably die alone, with some broken dream, on a dusty road, and it may be sad, but so is everything that's true
      Thanks Benjamin

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        Same

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah, MGTOW is giga-cope
        We are wired for pair bonding.
        I don’t believe it’s possible to be truly, genuinely happy and content as an aging adult without woman and children.
        It is biologically the only thing that matters. Anything else is cope

  13. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    I have a final coming up next Friday and I don't feel like I'll do well on it and without a pass on the final I can't pass the class. I don't want to take Econ again but I've been avoiding the material out of fear

  14. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    a few months ago a (female) friend told me that girls would be all over me if i'd just put on some muscle
    a few days ago a (female) friend said she was jealous at how skinny my legs are
    for some reason their comments fill with incredible rage whenever i think about them, especially when it's right before or during a gym session. not sure if that's a healthy response.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      An ex gf once told me that putting on muscle was disgusting. Me busting my ass and building discipline was disgusting while she was a fat fucking slob.

      Women are vengeful creatures

  15. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Am I balding bros? Only 22 btw

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      it's over

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      yeah you've got the future millard fillmore hairline

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      Obviously.

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        yeah you've got the future millard fillmore hairline

        it's over

        No…. Say it ain’t so… how long…. How long do I have left

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      I'd say yes. But I'm gonna give you some hopium and tell you that some people just have very shit hairlines, doesn't mean you will be bald in 5 years. A quick example is markiplier, back in 2012 it looked like he was balding yet 10 years later he has the same exact hair.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah looks like. Hope you have a good job.

  16. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    is it gay to find certain guys attractive
    like, cute lean guys, I'd do them, but I'm not attracted to men that women usually find attractive

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Is it gay to be attracted to men?

  17. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    I don't feel attractive even tho I've had a lot of women tell me or tell someone else I am
    I'm approaching 29 and never had sex or something you'd call an actual relationship, I've done "things" but I had a hard time getting hard
    I'm a total fuckup when I actually try, but when I don't give a shit about a girl and I'm just being a fucking comedian or some shit I end up making girls interested sometimes
    I don't know what is my fucking problem

  18. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    I just realised that my dad is a bit of a sperg. It all makes sense now.

  19. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Lately not good at all

    I've accepted that I have a personality defect that turns away women

    I just want companionship through this hard life 🙁

    I can't even talk about this to anyone, I told my mom that I was feeling down a while ago, she immediately wanted to rush back into my life which is not at all what I wanted
    Maybe my dad cares, but he just doesn't show it, instead I hear about how great my brothers are doing every time I see him

    Every passing month I lose more of my confidence and self esteem, eventually the pain of being alive will outweigh the pain of suicide.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      >she immediately wanted to rush back into my life which is not at all what I wanted
      she's trying man

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Lately not good at all
      >I've accepted that I have a personality defect that turns away women
      haha I've been thinking this too. They all leave sooner or later and I'm not a basement dwelling incel either. I go out with girls, kiss them, even play around with foreplay but no sex, everything seems to be going well then they disappear. Something about my personality is repulsive. Even girls who are very into me eventually lose interest and go. My shit must not be normal.
      Every conversation is a chess game, it's so tiring. I feel like a fallout character with 1 charisma and I see other people talking and it's so natural to them.
      I don't even have male friends.
      As if this isn't enough to fuck with my self esteem my looks are also going. The future looks dark bros.

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        Very similar to my experience. Girls are really interested initially, especially right after I meet them, and rapidly realize I am incredibly weird and ghost. They'll invite me to their house, make out with me, send a response 2 minutes after I text them before the first date, and then nothing after that. I can't tell if I'm actually attractive so they give me a chance and then drop me when they realize my personality defect or they're just toying with me/hoping I buy them food or drinks.

        • 4 months ago
          Anonymous

          they're so misleading too. Acting all cute in the dates, leaning on my shoulder, holding hands, telling their life story. I always make them laugh, keep the conversations fun, show them my best. The most frustrating part is not knowing what I did wrong. This last girl might've been the only person I've really liked in my life. She completely 180'd after our second date and started making excuses to not see me. I know for a fact she was talking to a guy while we were going on dates.
          I can't handle any more rejections this year, I have to take a break. I don't wanna give up cause I think I'll just slip into the void completely.

          • 4 months ago
            Anonymous

            I've done this shit before and it's when I feel uncomfortable around the person but am too scared to cut it off.

            • 4 months ago
              Anonymous

              How do you become non threatening enough to receive honest feedback? Is it possible, or is it like Plato's cave, you can just never know for sure?

            • 4 months ago
              Anonymous

              if I was uncomfortable around someone I wouldnt cuddle them and let them finger my pussy but that's just me.

              https://i.imgur.com/Dpf5pEY.jpg

              >The most frustrating part is not knowing what I did wrong.
              Sometimes it's nothing you did. Maybe she met someone else (like you said, she was talking to another guy), maybe her ex walked back into the scene, Women are largely nebulous and indecisive. It completely mystifies how someone could kiss me good night and then never speak to me again. Who does that? I could never envision such a thing myself.
              But, like I have said earlier ITT, I have simply given up on this and will focus on my lifting goals.

              Aint it the truth. I was dating a girl for about a month. Things seemed to be going fine. And then one day she acts like I'm the most annoying thing ever, and never wants to see me again. Mystifying.

              yeah I can't go through one of those again in the near future. Just gonna enter cocoon.

          • 4 months ago
            Anonymous

            >The most frustrating part is not knowing what I did wrong.
            Sometimes it's nothing you did. Maybe she met someone else (like you said, she was talking to another guy), maybe her ex walked back into the scene, Women are largely nebulous and indecisive. It completely mystifies how someone could kiss me good night and then never speak to me again. Who does that? I could never envision such a thing myself.
            But, like I have said earlier ITT, I have simply given up on this and will focus on my lifting goals.

            • 4 months ago
              Anonymous

              Aint it the truth. I was dating a girl for about a month. Things seemed to be going fine. And then one day she acts like I'm the most annoying thing ever, and never wants to see me again. Mystifying.

        • 4 months ago
          Anonymous

          How long can I keep clicking force things and listening to the computer "uh-uh" dingaling

  20. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Day 1885 of no-sex

  21. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    i am empty

  22. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Anyone watched the new dhmis series

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah. I wasn’t a fan until episodes six and seven then I started to love it.

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        Isn't it only 6 episodes? Or are you counting the original series on youtube too

        • 4 months ago
          Anonymous

          Oh yeah my bad. They have the recurring six episode thing in both the YouTube series and channel 4 one, don’t know why I forgot. Anyways what did you think of the show?

          • 4 months ago
            Anonymous

            I thought it was great, my favourite episode had to be the one where they were in the car. Despite sort of being portrayed as the dull one on the surface, I feel like red guy shows the most emotion out of the three and it's highlighted the most in that episode. The desperation in his voice when he screams "I'm not going back into that house" during his breakdown is almost palpable. My favourite moment maybe in the entire season was when when they sit around the fire in the junkyard at the end, and it really puts into perspective the futility of their situation.

            • 4 months ago
              Anonymous

              Yeah I think red guy is supposed to be the most relatable one, more human than the rest since he’s actually played by a human. I liked the yellow guys realisation in the next episode as well

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      That depends. What does "dhmis" stand for?

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        Don't hug me I'm scared

        • 4 months ago
          Anonymous

          I used to love their videos, I had no idea they were making new ones. Are they on youtube yet? I can only find two really short new videos

          • 4 months ago
            Anonymous

            https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLrmzlqTnQ8XVpN98IF-tMuP3BoEHo3DfE

  23. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    I really want to get into oly lifting but I'm the least athletic person in the world. I've been doing a ton of mobility shit and it doesn't seem to be helping. I don't even know where to begin.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      Just do it

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      If you live in the states I think your best bet might be a crossfit gym to learn from

  24. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Friend is spiralling into drug addiction, tried cocaine for the first time tonight and wants to take it further. I fear my pushing him to work on his body in the gym and build good habbits may be a lost cause. The drugs help him cope with trauma but I see danger ahead, I just wish he would come back to what he used to be but that may be selfish considering the emotional pain he claims to have been in before the drugs. My own life is going well but I will begin to struggle as he spiralls down

  25. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    I keep acting like a creep with women without realising it.
    >after college
    >share taxi with girl
    >we talk during the ride
    >reach the bus station
    >we pay and get out of the car, interaction obviously over
    >she goes sit alone to wait for the bus
    >my autist ass goes sit right next to her
    >akward silence for like 5 minutes while we just stay in our phones
    >realise I had no reason to sit there and that me doing so was creepy as fuck
    >quickly wake up to buy some chewing gum and then wait for the bus outside in the cold
    I always do weird shit like this, a few days ago some girl opened the door for me and I just let out a VERY silent "thanks" that sounded like it came from a serial killer who 10 minutes ago had claimed another victim.
    I need to stop daydreaming so much, this shit always happens when I'm on auto-pilot.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      So you're creepy, big deal. It takes all kinds to make a world. Just stop beating yourself up over it.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Not wanting to be cold makes you creepy

      This is the autismo part of the story

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      >a few days ago some girl opened the door for me and I just let out a VERY silent "thanks" that sounded like it came from a serial killer who 10 minutes ago had claimed another victim.
      You’re overthinking this interaction super hard
      I do the same thing but you gotta realize you’re probably the only one who notices shit like that

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      Why not continue the convo at the bus stop?

      >wow we catch the same bus xD haha where do you live?

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        Not him but I have an internal dialogue that gives me the worst possible advice in situations like this (like so absurdly bad it's basically an inside joke with myself and there's a 0% chance I would ever actually act on it).
        An example is I was at the gym and a really hot black girl walked in. The voice said I should walk up to her and say "I don't usually masturbate to black girls, but if you have an instagram I'll make an exception".

        • 4 months ago
          Anonymous

          Truthfully that probably would have gone over poorly BUT if you did that without giving a fuck you'd be laughing about it for the rest of the day. I'm reminded of the "pee in your butt story" from Mark Manson's book Models. He meets up at the club with a local poonslayer and at first he can't believe this guy gets laid because he's telling every hot girl who walks past that he wants to pee in their butt and keeps getting rejected. Meanwhile old mate is laughing his ass off and eventually some hot girl fucking laughs her ass off at it and away he goes. I guess the issue with us autismos is it isn't what we say it's how we FEEL when we say it. If you feel like a fucking loser or you're super self conscious you're going to communicate that no matter what you say. If you feel like chad the same applies, you're communicating it no matter what you say.

          • 4 months ago
            Anonymous

            I do think of heading to a club some time and trying out "I'm that gorilla dick bro, I make dyke pussy wet".

            • 4 months ago
              Anonymous

              Mate that black girl line was pure gold, I'd just go with that but switch up the ethnicity for whoever she is. It's peak fratbro, Chad would get laid constantly with that line. That said, if you're not Chad tread lightly.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      No one notices shit like that weirdo. The true redpill about normies ia that they are self - absorbed and she probably thought you didn't want to talk to her anymore. Which could be a nice move depending on how hot she was.

  26. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    I happen to work in a female dominated workplace
    would women read something into this
    like would they think I'm a homo or some shit

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      Yes for sure. You should consider your current job a temporary humiliation and start making plans for a career change right now. I'm not trying to demoralize you, I am serious about this and there's no reason why you can't break free from the current situation and find yourself in a better one, especially in this job market

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        I don't really feel humiliated by making more money than most people my age and basically having no bosses since I only hear about them when the CFO starts pissing in their ears

        • 4 months ago
          Anonymous

          That's nice and all but if I had a job that a woman could do I would be depressed and I would hate the man in the mirror every single day of my life.

        • 4 months ago
          Anonymous

          Cope. If it's seen as a woman job women will think that you're kind of a pussy.

  27. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    a girl invited me to come to her house tonight bros. I'm a little nervous

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      It's over, you won. Just don't tell her you'll give her the ol' lickeroo and you're good.

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        what is I take off my shirt and say "It's time"?

        Just don't be an autistic sperg, and don't go in with huge expectations; and you'll be fine.

        >Just don't be an autistic sperg
        kek well we'll see about that
        I will report back if there's anything interesting. What drink should I bring though? A case of beers or a glass of wine?

        • 4 months ago
          Anonymous

          > should I bring case of beers or a glass of wine?

          Maybe something in-between those two extremes in terms of sheer volume

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      Just don't be an autistic sperg, and don't go in with huge expectations; and you'll be fine.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      Not this anon, but any advice on how to close the deal on a sure thing like this? I'm in a similar boat and I'm scared I'm going to spill my spaghetti and dry her pussy up. I have done it before.

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        anon you replied to here and I have no idea but I guess we just have to keep trying, right?

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      Not this anon, but any advice on how to close the deal on a sure thing like this? I'm in a similar boat and I'm scared I'm going to spill my spaghetti and dry her pussy up. I have done it before.

      you need to be completely okay with not fucking her.
      in her mind, she's invited you over for a chance to fuck. so it's up to you to ruin it. but if you're expecting to fuck, then you're going to give off the vibes/energy of a dude who is trying to fuck. so you need to have the energy of a guy who doesn't care if he fucks.
      this creates a fuck-energy imbalance within the house. she was providing maybe-you can fuck energy, which is in a flux state, but on the negative end of neutral. so if you bring in i-want-to-fuck energy that's too strong, it'll be too much, and she'll switch her energy to do-i-really-want-to-fuck.
      so if you create a gap in your fuck energy, she'll have to fill that void with teasing-level don't-you-want-to-fuck-me energy.

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        I don't even really want to I just want to have a good time and not sperg out

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        wat

  28. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Hell of a time so far, Anons, and i'm only just starting

  29. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Its finally happened. I find myself lusting over fat women as long as they have okay looking faces.

  30. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Lost my was-virgin gf last month, she was always really submissive but switched last month and claimed I was an evil narcissistic psychopath. Her ass was really fat and its odd cause she was my only gf that I treated nice and wasn’t toxic to.

    I wonder if its because I pissed in her mouth and made her swallow it, she didnt say she hated it though.

    Regardless I just hope I can find another fat ass virgin to ruin and wife this time, any ideas on how to get over it IST?

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      can I get some advice on this? It’s been really bugging me out and pissing me off

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        You sound retarded, so no.

        • 4 months ago
          Anonymous

          why am I retarded

          • 4 months ago
            Anonymous

            probably because you think she broke up with you over mild watersports

            • 4 months ago
              Anonymous

              That sperg doing watersports is in and of itself spergy shit and I hope he never finds anyone again.

              • 4 months ago
                Anonymous

                how exactly is me pissing in her mouth spergy? It’s not even that bad of a fetish some retards like to get pegged and eat shit

              • 4 months ago
                Anonymous

                Kys

                everyone has a fetish calm down retard
                [...]
                how old is she and how old are you?

                If you need a fetish to enjoy sex you're either FUBAR or you need to go find someone you actually give a shit about.

              • 4 months ago
                Anonymous

                why are you getting so worked up over people's sex lives man, it's just ways to Hispanice up the sex every now and then

              • 4 months ago
                Anonymous

                Because there's clearly something wrong with you and sadly no amount of explaining will make you change so I'd rather insult you.

              • 4 months ago
                Anonymous

                It's pretty gross and degrading. You're probably too immature to have noticed her being fucking horrified but doing it anyway just to please you. Honestly you probably emotionally destroyed her. I have dated girls who didn't even want me to do oral on them. Women aren't men, some of them are not sick degenerate porn addicts.

              • 4 months ago
                Anonymous

                Yeah I think this is confirming what I thought but its refreshing to see it come from someone else, she kept saying things like “I will never trust any man again” and “I hope you never hurt any girl or anyone else like this ever” and it was really confusing but I did sort of understand just think its farfetched

              • 4 months ago
                Anonymous

                Yeah, I got the "using me for sex" line after my first sexual relationship and thought she was being mental but now looking back I completely understand what she meant and I didn't even piss in her mouth lmao

              • 4 months ago
                Anonymous

                Do you think it was fair for your gf to say that? Mine literally said that she got wet whenever I touched her and she knew my libido was high from the get go so I don’t understand why they can’t use logical reasoning to see that it’s not just about sex but just biological needs will be met

              • 4 months ago
                Anonymous

                >why they can’t use logical reasoning to see that it’s not just about sex but just biological needs will be met
                Breathing and eating are biological needs that need to be met, not fucking a wet hole, you fucking moron.

              • 4 months ago
                Anonymous

                Sex is a biological need, when I don’t fuck I just start jacking off relentlessly and I get coom brain. Which reminds me now that I’m single I need to stop wanking but I wouldn’t have that compulsion if its not a need

              • 4 months ago
                Anonymous

                The things we desire are the things produced through random genetic variations that caused those variations to stick around. Fucking *is* those variations sticking around. Breathing and eating are biological needs, but the pain and desperation we feel when we do not eat or breath is the same as when we do not fuck. It is the pain that corrilated with surviving long enough to pass on genes, and doing so.

              • 4 months ago
                Anonymous

                Yeah, it was fair. She invited me to a sleepover with two of her childhood bestfriends and I pressured her into going into the basement and having sex while they sat upstairs awkwardly. Looking back it was probably absolutely humiliating for her that her friends were hearing that happen. Also I fucked her like 7 times in one day once and I noticed a change in our relationship right after that. I guess she wasn't as impressed by my superhuman stamina as I thought she would be lmao

              • 4 months ago
                Anonymous

                I never had to pressure my bitch though she always wanted to fuck me, she was as eager as I was so its just confusing, except for the piss, but that wasn’t pressure she was just reluctant.

              • 4 months ago
                Anonymous

                Yeah, I got the "using me for sex" line after my first sexual relationship and thought she was being mental but now looking back I completely understand what she meant and I didn't even piss in her mouth lmao

                You need to realise that sex!=using her body to masturbate. Don't make it all about your pleasure, make her finish and cuddle for a while after, be affectionate and you should be good

              • 4 months ago
                Anonymous

                everyone has a fetish calm down retard

                yeah well I just don’t know why she would call me an evil psychopath and shit like that when I simped for her and that happened pretty recently before we broke up so I’m trying to connect dots

                she also said weird shit like I only used her for sex and blah blah even though I wanted to marry her

                how old is she and how old are you?

              • 4 months ago
                Anonymous

                we are both 20 infact we broke up on our 20th birthdays (hers is one day after mine)

              • 4 months ago
                Anonymous

                Lol gay move on your still a kid, she will get fucked by lots of chads in the coming weeks now that she practiced on you

              • 4 months ago
                Anonymous

                hate to be the dude who gives you bad news but she acted weird because she's attracted to someone else now. she'll be hanging around this new dude openly within a short amount of time. sorry bro, young girls act like this during breakups because they have options

              • 4 months ago
                Anonymous

                yeah bro I know how sluts work I lost my virginity when I was 14, I simply don’t think she has access to anyone better than me though, and she kept messaging me paragraphs for like a month after but I don’t respond to that when you say I’m a psycho etc

            • 4 months ago
              Anonymous

              yeah well I just don’t know why she would call me an evil psychopath and shit like that when I simped for her and that happened pretty recently before we broke up so I’m trying to connect dots

              she also said weird shit like I only used her for sex and blah blah even though I wanted to marry her

            • 4 months ago
              Anonymous

              It's legit possible that is why she broke up. I would break up with a girl if she had a guy pee in my mouth too.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      We need more details bro.

  31. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Girl i was with until recently, is being toxic with her posts on social media, doing things she knows that Will get a reaction from me. Holy shit why did i waste so much time. I feel like an idiot and she’s Living her life

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Holy shit why did i waste so much time. I feel like an idiot and she’s Living her life
      What are you even talking about??

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        I wasted a year on her. It bothers me

  32. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    >still hung up on oneitis and the rejection almost 5 months later
    >met new girl, is pretty and eagerly talks to me
    >she's cool enough
    >tfw look in her eyes and see absolutely nothing
    Is this simply how it's supposed to be? That it's always one person who's in love while the other doesn't really care? Man this shit fucking sucks, I'm tired of feeling like this.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      Have you tried not being a great bleeding vagina?

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        >he's never gotten close enough to a girl to fall for her
        I feel bad for you.

        • 4 months ago
          Anonymous

          >Currently living in my house with my wife and my home gym loving every second of it

          You're just a pussy.

  33. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    I started hating my gf. She will call me insecure for shit that I hate:
    She had invited a couple over her home, and I was ok with it and one hour before they came she asked me if it’s ok to invite another student from her class. I mean she is doing her phd aboard and I just know that dude is not safe.

    She tells me he is fat and stuff like that and that I’m insecure. This happens a lot. She even talked to her ex and she thinks she does everything and that she is in the right.
    Last week she was here with me she came to find me for my birthday and we had a good time but she is pain in the ass. I think she has bpd although not diagnosed.

    I want to block her

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      Sounds like my ex. She had ptsd tho
      And i’m still a mess after we broke it off 2 weeks ago

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        I’m burned out. I even got some panic attcks today. She fucked my mind pretty bad. She told me that I’m a bad person for leaving her and that I’m selfish and that I’m not a ‘saint’. She literally had male friends. 2 days ago she would break my balls for following a girl from my gym and she follows like 500 guys lol, I called her out on he bullshit but she won’t change.

        Btw my mind is so fucked up from all the shit that happened that I don’t even know what to say. How do I move on?

        • 4 months ago
          Anonymous

          Tbh This was the most messed up relationship ever. It fucked me more than anything before. She doesnt change, maybe she’ll chance for a period. But every single time, she reverts to her old self. I dont know, i Think the best solution is to break it off as i did, but it’s hard

        • 4 months ago
          Anonymous

          every time you feel like you miss her think about how fucking annoying it was to have her berate you over nothing. remember this is someone that objectively sucks and make yourself hate her. I find making yourself mad over it is especially effective when you're lifting. After enough of this the anger will start to wear off and you should just start feeling nothing towards her, maybe even sympathy to how pathetic her lack of self awareness is.
          T. had girlfriend who threatened suicide over me going out with my friends bc it was after 11pm

        • 4 months ago
          Anonymous

          Read this https://library.dhammasukha.org/uploads/1/2/8/6/12865490/a_guide_to_forgiveness_meditation.pdf
          It works, so damn well. Start meditating, start forgiving (mainly) yourself, then everyone else and you'll be so, so surprised how amazing it will make you feel in the end. Talking about feeling better than you have ever felt before.

          Note: Forgiving others does not mean to let them back into your life. It means to dissolve the tension, trauma and negative thought patterns that are plaguing your mind because of them. You are freeing yourself by forgiving, don't forget that.

  34. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm gonna jerk off and then go to bed because I literally have nothing else to do and nowhere to go. I hate myself.

  35. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    >engineering
    >in this economy
    Do a fuck ton of networking and you should have no issues.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      networking in my class is a myth, everyone is an asocial nerd and we share no interests, and theres smelly indians who will literally try touch my shit to ask me how I did something and I swat their hand away, I’m not making that up I had to swat a smelly Indians hand away from my work its tragic

  36. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    >29
    >Only living relationship I ever had was/is an ongoing affair with a married woman
    >Starring to doubt that I'll ever have a healthy relationship
    >Feel like my options are rapidly decreasing to women who are either out of shape, beaten up, mentally unstable or a combination of all three
    >Permanently sexually frustrated

  37. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    >started refereeing high school water polo a month ago
    >had never seen the sport before
    >barely got any training at all
    >have ups and downs with my performance
    >the high school girls all wear spandex suits with their asses hanging out that i have to see all the time and feel like a complete creep
    >did boys varsity tournament this weekend and performed like crap because its skill and physicality is way over my head and was angry and miserable the entire time
    this was a mistake

  38. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Met a girl at a party last week. Chatted a bit and exchanged info but not much more than that.

    Next day asked her out for a coffee and she said yes. Picked a time and place. We went radio silent for the rest of the week and we just reconfirmed it a couple hours ago. I'm a pretty good conversationalist but something about when I get really nervous I tend to fumble over my words.

  39. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    I got my upper wisdom teeth removed and dealing with sore jaws and a headache. It's been like this for 5 days and I am tired.

    I feel guilty for not going back to the gym. I haven't even done yoga or walking, just sitting at home or laying down and taking naps.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      wisdom tooth are an absolute, total, utter pain in the ass (mouth); totally understandable, anon. Go for a walk tho to get your head clear. Get well

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        Thanks anon I feel better. I wasn't even in that much pain but the jaw tension and headache just killed my mood for anything.

        I just wish I spent my downtime doing something "productive" like reading books but I didn't do that either, just lurked IST for a whole week straight.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      wisdom tooth are an absolute, total, utter pain in the ass (mouth); totally understandable, anon. Go for a walk tho to get your head clear. Get well

      Thanks anon I feel better. I wasn't even in that much pain but the jaw tension and headache just killed my mood for anything.

      I just wish I spent my downtime doing something "productive" like reading books but I didn't do that either, just lurked IST for a whole week straight.

      .. when do wisdom tooth issues arise if they are to arise? I think mine are basically regular teet, not inside gums or fucked up shit like htat

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        A lot of people just don't get wisdom teeth. Especially blond or red haired people. I'm 27 and don't have them and never will, confirmed by dental x-rays

        • 4 months ago
          Anonymous

          >Especially blond or red haired people

          >don't get wisdom teeth
          americans again

          • 4 months ago
            Anonymous

            I'm australian

  40. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Water. I've had with whisky tonight.
    >Be in pub with lads playing pool
    >8/10 girl present with a few friends, obvious lightweight, already drunk at 8pm
    >Kinda giving signals, kinda not
    >We relocate to a club with the lads, she and friends come along
    >Giving more signals, but not just to me, to like 3 of the lads too
    >Figure she's a town bicycle
    >Leave her alone so friend A can get with her (not necessarily bothered, college life is too stressful and I'm not into ONS)
    >Friend A gets with her (fair enough lad)
    >Parallel to this another friend, fren B, is going through a post-breakup closure talk with his now ex, call get girl B, (who's also my ex, fren B got with her like a week after I told her I'm not interested)
    >Later
    >Go to a different club
    >Town bike goes home
    >Friend A gets with girl B
    >Go home, actually not sure what to think
    Going to church tomorrow, and I'm going to have to ponder on this. Should I get gone for the town bike? Not to lay but to dance and make out? Maybe I misjudged her? I could have been up front and locked get in. Instead I let it pass by. And in regards to girl B, this is gonna create an interesting atmosphere now in the friend group. I'm a bit disappointed in friend A, getting with the woman who made fren B miserable by breaking up with him outta nowhere.

    I don't want to sound like a gay, but reflecting on tonight gives me to conflicting thoughts. "He who wills can" and "he who can does not have to".

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      It's completely up to preference. If I'm single I'll fuck anything I can, but don't enjoy it too much honestly. At a certain point in life it loses it's luster and a ons can be completely meaningless. Unless you're going through a dry spell, I wouldn't give much of a shit. Fucking that girl would've had no impact whatsoever on your life besides a couple hours of fun, and wether that fun is worth the hassle depends completely on how valuable it is to you.

  41. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    my team is the Patriots and they're last place in the division. after 20 years of domination i am not prepared to see us suck.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      Boston sports fandom is easily the most entitled in the entire country.

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        i'm not even from the area. i live in DC but i bandwagoned the Pats 15 years ago because my Redskins/Commies are so fucking pathetic.

        • 4 months ago
          Anonymous

          That's not better. I despise people like you. No loyalty.

          • 4 months ago
            Anonymous

            i'd agree but i would rather be happy and support a winning franchise than one who hasn't won a playoff game in 30 years.

            • 4 months ago
              Anonymous

              Yeah I guess if you have to abandon an nfl team out of disgust the redskins are top of the list as far as deserving it

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      >tfw oakland athletics fan

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        >tfw pirates fan

  42. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Gymcrush very modestly attractive but not hot
    >She is dominating my mind like never before just from a few instances of eye contact over the last two weeks
    I'm losing my mind, it is completely childish, I don't even know her

  43. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Diet soda here.

    >I achieved all of my goals, except for those last 30 pounds of excess fat.
    >I don't want to date until I lost those last 30 pounds.
    >Those last 30 pounds are hard as fuck to lose.
    >Fucking trapped on that loophole for more time that I want to admit.

    Any anon can relate?

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      Right here brosef but more like 15 pounds for me. Of course with or without it's over for me, only way I'm getting laid again is in Asia.

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        15 pounds isnt much anon. You are normal weight. Heck in america you probably are percieved as thin.

  44. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    My wife and I have started scheduling sex because of my low libido. I'd be happy with 1x a month but she wants at least 2x a week so she's made a Google calendar and scheduled us for "personal time" Tuesday and Saturday nights. It's been two weeks and I don't think I can take it any longer unless she lets me turn on the TV so we can at least watch Hulu while we're bumping uglies. Any tips?

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      have you tried opening your marriage? my wife is way hornier than me so we started opening it up.

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        You should try opening up your wrists next

        • 4 months ago
          Anonymous

          why are you so agro bro

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      Watch porn. My sex life with my gf go so much better when I got her to watch lesbian porn and pretend to be bi.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      How do you find a nympho gf anon?

  45. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    i took in a sickly abandoned kitten last friday, it died yesterday and ive been feeling bad about it. it was only a few weeks old and pretty helpless. the vet gave me antibiotics but said there wasnt much else i could do besides keep it warm and try and feed it.

    poor little guy. sorry i couldnt do more for you

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      I'm sorry anon. He was a cute little scrap too. At least you made his passing comfortable.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      F

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      I lift for him tomorrow godspeed anon

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      Damn.
      As for me, a girl is coming back to work at my place of work. She left soon after I spent a month making her a priority and asking her out all the time. I know she still has feelings but I feel like certain people have been trying to sabotage us and convince her that I was just focusing on myself- which was never true. I'm excited. BUT, there's a new girl I met and she's made moves before I even knew old girl was coming back. Really this would have been a lot simpler if the woman had just kept in contact with me like I tried to do. Now things are more complicated than they need to be.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      F. I will dedicate my workout tommorow to catbro.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      Jesus man. You did what you could

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      🙁 you tried.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      sleep tight little fella

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      he was strong in life, his spirit will find the way to the halls of his fathers

  46. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    black coffee, dark roast, and an oliva serie v melanio robusto
    i just have to keep going. the loneliness is a fact of life at this point i think. i turn 25 in a month. no gf ever, nothing like a friend since hs ended. college didn't work out first go around, i was miserable there. i am just trying not to think about these things. i have a big to do list i keep on my desk. its kind of stressful but i do get things done and check my little boxes. that's all i have keeping me going right now. just have to not be distracted by wanting friendship or sex or love. those things will only ever be distractions for someone like me. have to try to go back to college again. i'll get that set up in the next few months. job should slow down so i'll have time. might quit that any way, they pay me well but under delivered on everything else. more time to focus on the gym then, maybe go camping. i guess the only advice i can ask for is how to kind of zone out just enough you don't care about things but are just plugged in to being productive, any experience with this?

  47. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    wish i could slap some sense into my brother who chose to marry an exact clone of our narcissist mom
    on top of that the whore has literal retard genes and their kid will be a potato too
    he deserves much better than this i dont know why hes doing this to himself

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      i got into a fight with my brother when i confronted him about his abusive trailer trash good for nothing girlfriend. pretty much ended our relationship and we still dont talk hardly. they ended up getting married and had 3 kids before he realized she was a shit mother and partner and divorced her.

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        My sister's boyfriend was choking her and slamming her against a car so I went outside and attacked him with a copper pipe. Things were a little bumpy between us for a while but we got over it. I have a really tightknit family though.

  48. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    First order logic

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      >First order logic
      Ha me to. My class just got to quantifies and proof that sqrt 2 is irrational. I think I'm starting to understand mathematical proofs.

  49. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm just floating through life with no real path. I've got goals and wants but the mid section is what I'm struggling with. The day to day grind on how to get there. Every job I've had I hate and I've just been hopping from job to job with no real consistency. At my most recent job a dude over me is two years younger and loves his work, has a wife, kids and a house. I'm still living with room mates, single and no real clue what I'm doing. It feels like everyone is getting by and figuring out what they want to do except for me. That lack of direction is really what's getting me at the moment. I've read tons of books on the subject and still just feel lost. It just sucks thinking I've got the same answer to "What do you wanna be when you grow up?" at 27 as I did when I was 7, I have no idea.

  50. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Something strong and bitter.

    Just broke up from a 4 year relationship. What's with women expecting you to be telepathic. I thought it was just a comedic stereotype but it happened to me.

    She would never tell me what's bothering her, then suddenly she got pissed out of nowhere that I did not pick up her hints telling me "You should've been more observant." When I told her that she should tell me things directly she just straight up said "That will never happen."

    I am shit at picking up hints. I can't even socialize by instinct and feel, my mind has to go to overdrive manually going through every possibility and permutation to figure out what's happening. This girl is asking the impossible of me, I can't read minds goddamnit

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      >When I told her that she should tell me things directly she just straight up said "That will never happen."
      women shit on men for being bad communicators and then say shit like this

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        I do admit that she is emotionally immature. Always emotionally overreacts to minor inconsequential stuff like failing a quiz, a snide side remark from a classmate, me being too busy to talk to her, etc.

        We're both 22 years old, but I have to handle her feelings with kid gloves like I am dating a 13 year old. If we get back together, please tell there's a chance for her to grow up. Do women like these ever grow up?

        • 4 months ago
          Anonymous

          Sounds like she was a drain on your self esteem anon. The breakup was probably for the best and with a downer attitude like that she will probably have a hard time dating anyone in the future.

          • 4 months ago
            Anonymous

            She was great for my self esteem actually. She's absolutely perfect in every way, looks and personality wise. Her one and only flaw is her having the emotional stability of a 13 year old.

            It's not that bad if I frame the relationship as me having an imoutowife. But was there any way that I could've salvaged things if I were a better "elder brother boyfriend figure" to her?

            • 4 months ago
              Anonymous

              I'm not understanding why you'd want to spend forever with a womanchild. Do you honestly see a future with her?

              • 4 months ago
                Anonymous

                I do. Every other single thing about her is pure perfection for me, and I thought that her emotional immaturity is just something she will grow out of. I just had to wait a few years and she'll become the perfect partner for me.

              • 4 months ago
                Anonymous

                What you're missing is that women are constantly pushing at you, testing you to see how you react, if she pulls all this shit and you simp for her, you failed, her pussy is drier than the sahara and she'll never fuck you again. Women don't want men who think they're perfect, they want men THEY think are perfect. You don't understand the abundance 22 year old women have. Where I work there's a bog standard, chubby 5/10, 22 yr old girl. The other night we were drinking and she was swiping through tinder - match after match after match. Literally any time she feels lonely/undesirable she can get a hundred guys compliment her or get a guy over (and I've seen her do it a couple of times on nights out). The abundance of women is unfathomable. Imagine if you had unlimited possible women in front of you, it's really not gonna take much for your mind to start moving on if your current girl is pissing you off. Very few men on the face of the planet have the options of even an average 22 year old girl.

              • 4 months ago
                Anonymous

                https://i.imgur.com/nLEI0BQ.jpg

                Something strong and bitter.

                Just broke up from a 4 year relationship. What's with women expecting you to be telepathic. I thought it was just a comedic stereotype but it happened to me.

                She would never tell me what's bothering her, then suddenly she got pissed out of nowhere that I did not pick up her hints telling me "You should've been more observant." When I told her that she should tell me things directly she just straight up said "That will never happen."

                I am shit at picking up hints. I can't even socialize by instinct and feel, my mind has to go to overdrive manually going through every possibility and permutation to figure out what's happening. This girl is asking the impossible of me, I can't read minds goddamnit

                anon my ex was exactly like yours and she was 29. She'd cry about anything and it was emotionally draining. Every argument turned into her crying and me handling it, even if I was in the right in the beginning, or even if I was the one needing reassurance.
                I said to her face that it's manipulative behavior and guess what she did. Cried more. If you wanna spend the rest of your life with a spoiled toddler, by all means go ahead.

  51. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Stuck at home. No Fucking Car.

    Might as well drink a 32oz Bud Light.

  52. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    i was at an event and i hit it off with a girl for the first time in a year. turns out she actually lives in another state and ill never see her again

  53. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    I don't want her but I don't want anyone else and I'm probably missing out by rejecting every girl that goes near me

  54. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Finally got a girl who likes be despite all odds, nice night out on the town, take her back to my place. Push rope the whole night.
    Just when I thought I caught a break.
    Also nobody told me vaginas were so tight, I thought I could just kind of go in half mast atleast but pushing rope was very accurate.

    Shit's given me a lot to think about.

  55. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    >got out of relationshit with a narcissist 4 months ago
    >self esteem in the gutter even though I've been told I look handsome
    >try Hinge for a month, get a ton of likes
    >girls cancel day before a date, stop getting replies after a few days, girls matching with me and just never texting back
    >self-esteem crushed
    Maybe I need a picture of me snowboarding or in nicer clothes. Or maybe I should just use Tinder. I don't know how to do this shit. I just hate sleeping alone bros.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      Let me tell you from experience that women get intimidated by attractive men, they constantly fumble the bag and they’re just better (though some may argue otherwise) at hiding their cope than men.

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        >tfw too attractive so I get ghosted constantly

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        Smells like copium to me. I think I'm above average but certainly not chad level. I think I'm just too autistic when I text women online and they can feel it so they ghost me.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      I'm using hinge and going on dates. You gotta not get attached to anyone until you go on a couple dates with them and you know they are legit interested in you. Everyone else is talking to a bunch of people on the app. For any reason they can stop responding and you have to not let that get to you. It's a numbers game and you gotta keep playing it.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      Apps are cringe

  56. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm about to propose to my gf of 8 years. We met in highschool and have dated all the way through college and have both started our careers. She is the love of my life, I took her virginity. I'm absolutely terrified of what is going to happen when I ask her Dad to marry her. They have been tolerant of our relationship for all this time, but they never expected it to last and I think they may try to deny me her hand in marriage. Obviously we live in modern times but they're hardcore religious and won't accept it unless I fit their mold and tbh I feel like that isn't going to happen. I tried learning their language and culture. I know some now but I just don't feel like it is enough. I'm the type of person to normally brush things off but if we get married and her parents don't approve I just don't know if she can have a functional relationship with them from then on and that would be very sad.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      You've been together for nearly a decade, and asking her to marry you will come as a shock to her family?

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        Not they won't be shocked, it's just they just never expected things to go this far and I'm worried that they will draw the line there and she'll basically have to deal with them for the rest of our lives basically constantly bringing up the fact that she didn't follow their wishes and that makes her a bad person, or they would straight up cut her out of the family and disown her, which would be total bullshit but I can see it happening potentially.

        • 4 months ago
          Anonymous

          They sound like shitheads through and through. Force the issue. If she is the type of person who would choose them over you, stop wasting a moment longer with her.

          • 4 months ago
            Anonymous

            We've already discussed and she wouldn't think twice about marrying even if they said no, I'm just worried about the emotional damage that would do to her mostly. Family is a big deal for eastern europeans

            • 4 months ago
              Anonymous

              The alternative sounds like living in eternal limbo. Bite the bullet. Prove to them how much you love her by asking her to marry you. If they can't handle it, then fuck them.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      You are black and your gf is white or something?

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        Lol no I'm a white american and she is half ruskie/half turkish

        • 4 months ago
          Anonymous

          Then what are you worried about?
          I thought you were black at first, but you are white.

          • 4 months ago
            Anonymous

            I'm not muslim, I'm not remotely ethnically similar to her, and I barely can form a sentence in turkish

            • 4 months ago
              Anonymous

              You will never know if you don’t ask them.
              Sitting down and doing nothing is not a solution either.
              Sooner or later, the problem will come to your front door, so might as well as meet it before it does.

              • 4 months ago
                Anonymous

                That's dumb. Let her handle her own family, don't listen to this dumb guy. Wait until she tells you it's time for you to talk to her father. She knows her father better than you do.

              • 4 months ago
                Anonymous

                Retard, if she can handle her family from the start, he won’t have this problem.

              • 4 months ago
                Anonymous

                The alternative sounds like living in eternal limbo. Bite the bullet. Prove to them how much you love her by asking her to marry you. If they can't handle it, then fuck them.

                That's dumb. Let her handle her own family, don't listen to this dumb guy. Wait until she tells you it's time for you to talk to her father. She knows her father better than you do.

                I'm definitely not going to wait, I already have looked at rings and will not back down on the engagement no matter what happens. I actually wish I could go through with it tomorrow in fact, because agonizing over the potential outcomes is what is bothering me. I appreciate the words anons.

              • 4 months ago
                Anonymous

                Good luck. If I see on the news that a turkish guy allahu akbarred the head off of his daughter's bf I'll pray a rosary for you

              • 4 months ago
                Anonymous

                I'm actually afraid of her Mom's reaction more, her Dad is who I will ask but her mom is the one with all the power and she has reservations against someone from outside the country coming in and trying to run away with her daughter.

              • 4 months ago
                Anonymous

                Oh yeah, try to ask the dad. Maybe he will try to sweet talk her mom.

  57. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Saturday night and I’m doing leg day after bartending all day, my brother is working nights and I don’t see him as often as I used and I’m beginning to realize he was my only real friend I ever hung out with. How do I cope bros? Anyone else really tight with their brothers?

  58. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    I miss my cat. I got somebody who could foster her while I go to school. I'm going to get her back after and they send me pics of her, but I miss my little fuzzball, I miss going to bed without her purring on my chest.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      Your cat is cheating on you right now. She's getting dicked down by Chad while you're doing homework

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      *With
      Fuck phoneposting

  59. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm gay and I don't know how to integrate the fact that I am gay into my life. I'm a virgin and still in the closet, nobody knows.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      That's rough buddy. Bizarrely I'm pretty much only attracted to giantesses. Like the fictional kind, and I've wondered if I have it better or worse than closet gays. I have, like, tiny versions of my ideal gf running around everywhere but the girl I actually wanna bBeth isn't real, and the idea of coming out of the closet is a joke, and not a funny one.
      You have actual ideal bf all around, but society is freaky and contentious about it, and the likelihood that any random guy you like likes you back is super low. I really dont know how gay ppl find each other. It must be difficult. But I know it's even harder to find a giantess who would date a normal sized dude.

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        >I really dont know how gay ppl find each other. It must be difficult

        • 4 months ago
          Anonymous

          Finding gay people that aren't libshit sex pest psychos is difficult.

          • 4 months ago
            Anonymous

            Finding quality women is hard too. I'm sure women have an even harder time finding quality men. 99% of every group is human garbage because 99% of humans are garbage

            • 4 months ago
              Anonymous

              >tfw part of the 99%

  60. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    For the first time in a long time there's a girl who I feel a connection to. I was afraid I fucked it up multiple times but she still is talking to me - she has a lot of flaws but so do I, I had a bit of a horrible childhood from bullying, and only really relate well to women who have been through traumatic experiences. Needless to say this has caused some difficulties. I really don't want to fuck this up with her, I know that's the wrong mindset to have but I really like her a lot, she's a very genuine and authentic person and that's hard to find, truly. I already care a lot about her but I don't want to come on too strong, yet I also want to be honest. It's tough man. I already know I can tell her things I haven't even told my parents or my closest buddies.

    It's an odd feeling man. I don't want to get hopeful because I'm used to numb disappointment and "flying solo". I've always been kind of a loner guy and it's hard to imagine letting a woman into my life, I feel so awkward and uneasy.

  61. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    I finally take a step to conquering my fear of gecko.
    So, I read this book DARE and decide to use it to confront my anxiety. The book basically recommends exposure therapy and offers techniques to cope it. So, I used it and started poking the nearby the gecko. It was hard and anxious at first, but I did it. I did it again for another 2 days. Now, I don’t really fear it that much. Though, the gecko run away whenever they see me now.
    Gonna use it for asking a girl out next

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      Look out he's gonna get you

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        Cute

  62. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    After being socially autistic for my whole life I got a girl to actively seek me out and like me. I'm actually brimming with joy. I'll have 2 shots of Bailey's, please.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      What did you do to get her to seek you out? How were you socially autistic? Good work bro btw, keep it up.

  63. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    I got covid the other week and I've been feeling weak as fuck. lifts aren't as strong as i just feel out of energy.

    i am going to restart this whole thing tomorrow.
    anyone go through something similar?

  64. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    I have to wait for a medical issue to clear up before I start having sex with one of my ex's. Am I still incel status? Pic related it's my ex when I told I still loved her last week.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      >medical issue
      Been there, pal.

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous
  65. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    >need to buy new car, have something to drive in meantime
    >shop around, visit dealerships for test drives, have to negotiate with predatory sand moron salesmen trying to charge me 35k for a fucking sentra lol lmao
    >actually consider suicide because this is hell and roping seems like less hassle
    >Hurricane Ian projected to directly hit the area (didn't actually)
    >actually relieved because good excuse not to deal with car bullshit for a few days
    Is that weird?

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      look into ordering overseas cars, you can get something like a chevy cobalt brand new for like 15k

  66. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    After this month, I'll be taking some time off from my 2nd job. It's the dead season for tourism here, so I won't be leaving much money on the table, but I'll be spending the winter doing monk mode only leaving my apartment to go to the gym and go grocery shopping. I'm greatly looking forward to it.

  67. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    >jack off
    >get hard immediately an hour later

    Bros, normally jacking off would set me for a few days but since I've been working out I have an immense desire to breed that I can not satiate by cooming once.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah that'll happen

  68. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Guys there’s something wrong with me mentally, I can feel it but I don’t know how to effectively communicate it. What should I do?

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      >I can feel it but I don’t know how to effectively communicate it.

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        Love this band. I've listened to Deja Entendu first track to last hundreds of times.

        • 4 months ago
          Anonymous

          They literally have a perfect discography.

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        I haven’t made a significant friend or bonded with someone since I got out of the military almost 7 years ago. I think something got knocked out of place

        • 4 months ago
          Anonymous

          I USED TO BE SUCH A BURNING EXAMPLE
          I USED TO BE SO ORIGINAL
          I USED TO CARE, I WAS BEING CAREFUL
          MADE SURE I SHOWED IT TO THOSE THAT I LOVE
          I USED TO SLEEP WITHOUT A SINGLE STIR
          'CAUSE I WAS ABOUT MY FATHER'S WORK

  69. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    I quite literally don't know any women I'm not related to.

  70. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Making some solid social skill gains bros. I was talking to a group of 4 female co-workers at lunch last week, I was able to engage all of them separately and include them all into the conversation. I made multiple jokes and they all laughed. One asked me how does it feel to be so smart? I teased her and said it's hard to describe to someone of lesser intelligence and she took the tease well. This lady turned to another female co-worker and said "anon is so funny, his type of humour is just so funny to me" and the other co-worker concurred.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      >anon is so funny, his type of humour is just so funny to me

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        I've had two different female co-workers say I'm hilarious.

        • 4 months ago
          Anonymous

          If they initiate physical contact a lot it's a wrap.

          • 4 months ago
            Anonymous

            It's been all group settings so no opportunity yet. There have been a couple other signs too like she brought me lunch before and she stumbled when I engaged her on an economics topic (she has a masters in it lol).

            We have a week long work conference in two weeks coming up still dunno if I want to hit that.

  71. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Talking to God is amazing
    CHRIST IS KING my dudes

    Fuck all fake ass womyn
    You all will find your queen soon
    I love you all
    You all are doing great!

    Trans people will die off soon

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      I love you too bro.

  72. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    I went to a party for a couple of hours last night. It wasnt as daunting as i thought it was going to be. I had a few drinks and laughs with my friends. I really need to start putting myself into more social situations.

  73. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Had the first squat session after around 3 or 4 weeks of not doing lower body. Needless to say, the DOMS is absolutely brutal, I can barely walk, have to steady before getting out of a chair and getting on the toilet is a challenge. Wouldn't wish that upon my worst enemy.
    I also had a first can of classic Cola with sugar in 5 months. Tasted like sewer water. I wanted to vomit because it was so sickeningly sweet. And to think I used to drink multiple cans of this sludge every day for several years.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      I know what you mean, I had a break because of a bad flu, never got so sick, and I only squated 80kg 5x5.
      It felt like I got injured.

  74. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Sperglords

  75. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    I've been dropping preworkout farts and doing pushups all night. It is fucking brutal in here right now

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous
  76. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Mom was making dinner and asked me for help with the groceries and stuff. I don't mind helping, but there are so many little things she dumps on me that it kills the motivation to do. Should have insisted on having her write things down but honestly, that also feels like one more thing to bother with.
    Lesson learned: it's better to cover your ass and leave the other side having no excuses.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      are you 15?

  77. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    I accidentally got a gf, that's another story, but while dating her I never had the urge to jerk off so I went like 3 weeks without, then "relapsed" on Friday and again yesterday while I couldn't sleep.

    I did a few tens of strokes to suggestive pics of my ex that I had saved from when she had sent them to me. I feel super shit about this, I didn't bust to them or anything and I deleted nearly all pictures of her afterwards (over a thousand, might have been ~1800 files) but I feel super fucking filthy, as if I'd cheated on my new "gf" (she is technically not a gf but by all accounts is one) or something...

  78. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    I've never had sex to completion, mostly due to inability to perform. People tell me that sex is something more meaningful than just what a man and a woman do for pleasure when they're horny, but I don't think I fully understand this yet.

    Last night I got intimate with my best friend, she was staying the night at my place and despite agreeing some boundaries last week we were both very horny while in bed together. We agreed to get intimate for one night only, we made out, I fingered her and she gave me a handjob, we didn't go any further because we were both very tired but I get the impression we were both up for proper sex. So my brain was up for having sex with her despite telling myself last week that I should be saving sex for only people I love and want to make a deeper connection with, but I've realized I don't really believe that deep down. Now I fear this might screw me over eventually, for one thing I'm not particularly attracted to my friend besides her body which I think is not enough to warrant a date/relationship. I don't want to screw the frienship over, not least by doing fwb. What can I do about this?

  79. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Long time lurker, first time poster. I just need somewhere to let it out...

    I feel mostly like shit. It goes up and down but I feel quite trapped in my life and how I'm living it. It doesn't make sense because I know I've come far even if I compare myself to a year ago, but my progress just doesn't feel fast enough. Maybe I'm setting too high standards, who knows...

    My main issue is that I feel very disconnected from my peers. I've had a complicated life from a young age and as such had to move from home to home. I've always been good with people, but the lack of stability meant things were a bit tougher for me socially (e.g. clubs, extracurriculars). I still managed to spend time doing extra stuff and sports though where possible when I was around 5-11, I went to birthday parties, I went to Church (and didn't have insane anxiety) and was a happy kid.

    It went worse by the time I turned 1. Our life situation changed and I turned insular. The only thing I knew and was comfortable with was video games, so I just spent all my time indoors playing bing-bing wahoo instead of hanging with the other kids my age. I still had a good friends at school, but I didn't make an effort to spend time with them and now that I think about it, are they really friends if you don't spend time with them? They're only acquantances by convenience of being in the same place.

    I remember feeling boring even back then but I couldn't put my finger on it. I saw the other kids doing music lessons, sports clubs, other activities but just thought that I preferred video games and YouTube and that it seemed like a whole lot of "effort". Even then I understood that I'd slowly made myself into a bit of a loser, but just subconciously. I felt left out and unimportant, however it was entirely due to my own doing. I wasn't smart enough to understand that then though.

    (cont...)

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      This continued and I festered until the age of 18, fumbling through school, with terrible grades as my self-esteem gradually wore itself down etc... Self-hatred ensued and so did social anxiety. Addiction to video games, bad food and pornography also got worse and worse and only compunded the issue.

      I failed to get into the university of my choice (which is hindsight is a blessing because I wanted to do a useless subject) and just spent a year floating out of the system. I think that was a particularly challenging but also revelationary moment in my life. I realized a lot of my issues slowly, but only because I started getting more and more insular and spending lots of time on the internet. Reading stupid arguments. I realized the error of my ways and how my addictions were imprisoning and torturing my soul. During this time I isolated myself from my former friends, which was not good. I just felt an immense sense of shame and a failure for not getting into uni like them. Locked at home like a loser. A lot of them tried hard to get into contact with me, but I'd just string them along due to my own insecurities and bad mental health. I just wanted to move past that shameful part of my life, but in turn hurt myself.

      Eventually I got a job and starting working and getting a qualification at the same time. I go to work in person whenever possible and spend time with others so that I'm not just isolated at home. It's better to be out, especially at my age. It's been 2 years now and work is ok, been trying to progress. I've come very far in the past 2 years and I've got a lot more healthier habits, especially mentally I've grown.

      (cont...)

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        I just feel a bit stuck though, my life feels the same day in, day out. I feel isolated from people my age especially. I made an effort to see 2 friends from school, 1 of which is a good buddy of 10 years. Seeing him again was amazing and we get on well, almost like nothing happened in the 3 years I didn't see him. He's really good but had his own busy life so can't bug him all the time. The other friend has started ghosting me since we saw each other for the first time in 3 years so don't think he likes me anymore lol, he cares mainly about fucking and superficial shit at the moment and I didn't really reciprocate his passion so I think he didn't like it.

        At work most of the people are in their early 40s, not many people my age. I'm polite and speak to them, but there is a barrier. I live near a university and when I see the students walking past, ones that are younger than me , I can't help but feel I missed out. But I have a feeling it's just that the grass is greener, from what I've heard a lot of people struggled at uni in my age group since their first 2 years were anhiliated by COVID.

        I want to do something about it, but I'm just too scared. I need to bring myself back into the real world but I'm afraid for some reason. I've been making good steps, but this is the part that I used to find the most daunting. I can drive, but I don't have my own car. I just feel so trapped being at home all the time and I feel like looking for any excuse to be out of the house. I don't want to live like this anymore, it hurts my heart and soul. I'm trying my best to get better. If it makes any difference I am 22 years old.

        What can I do and has anyone been in a similar scenario? I'm desperate to free myself. If you read all this, thank you from the bottom of my heart.

        • 4 months ago
          Anonymous

          I'm turning 22 next month. I also live right by a university and have to drive through it on my way to work, and I get the same feelings. I still keep in touch with friends who did go, and a lot of them say it hasn't been worth it. But I think that might just be them consoling me. At work I have friends, mostly in their late 20s/30s and we get along well but you can still feel the slight age gap. In the summer there were a lot of college aged kids working there. A lot of them were friends with each other and would talk a shit ton about parties and things that happened at their schools and I felt like a loser. Although I did end up going to a party with a few of them. At least your job/qualification sounds like it's useful. I am currently just a line cook at a country club. Sorry I don't have much else to offer you. I guess I was just saying I could relate with the college part. My own problem is figuring out what the hell I'm going to do. What exactly would make you feel better?

          • 4 months ago
            Anonymous

            Thanks for the response. Yeah... to be honest it's not really a huge issue and writing it down did help a lot. I think I just need to make an effort to do things I enjoy, hopefully there'll be a few people around my age there. The issue is I feel like our generation is even lazier than other generations, so I fear that wherever I go I'll rarely have contact with people my age. But as our age group is leaving uni, hopefully people'll get off their asses. I'm most likely completely wrong though, I bet lots of people my age do things, I'm just assuming.

  80. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    I was walking past this guy I knew in my complex and he was talking to a girl I don't know. I said hey to guy then turned, smiled and greeted the random girl and kept walking. I think I heard her say "He's cute' as I walked away. Feels good being validated. Going to the gym now.

  81. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    I have sinned. God may forgive me, but I can’t forgive myself.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      what happened?

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        I stuck a dildo in my arse, and it felt good!

  82. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Anyone still ITT?

    Been single for 5 years now
    Weird that the last time i had sex was when i was 26

    Still skinnyfat but gonna bulk because fuck it

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      Google Cory Skyy and follow what he says. Listen to and do affirmations.

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        Who's that? Some Andrew Tate incel?

  83. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    how do i detect if a girl is interested when shes working

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      She tries to work you into her work routines or opens up space for you to push that.

  84. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    any skinnyfats here anons?

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      used to be

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        how did you escape?
        unironically

        • 4 months ago
          Anonymous

          What do you mean? There is no magical escape. The reason you are skinnyfat is that you have no or very little muscle mass + a % of bodyfat that would look normal on someone with muscle. The way you escape is by lifting and gaining muscle. Don't listen to any retard telling you to cut first, it's absolutely retarded as it doesn't solve the actual issue.

          tl;dr just fucking lift

          • 4 months ago
            Anonymous

            >Don't listen to any retard telling you to cut first
            this is what i was struggling with
            im on a slow bulk now
            lifting 4 days a week

            • 4 months ago
              Anonymous

              If you're a skinnyfat noob you can make gains without a caloric surplus.

              • 4 months ago
                Anonymous

                been lifting for 1.5 years now

              • 4 months ago
                Anonymous

                You sound like the rare case where a pt is warranted.

              • 4 months ago
                Anonymous

                why

              • 4 months ago
                Anonymous

                Because you've been lifting for 1.5 years four times a week and you don't have any significant muscle mass and still look skinnyfat

              • 4 months ago
                Anonymous

                not really

              • 4 months ago
                Anonymous

                Then just stop lying

              • 4 months ago
                Anonymous

                the fuck

              • 4 months ago
                Anonymous

                You're the one calling yourself a skinnyfat. I have no idea what you look like. You either are or you aren't

              • 4 months ago
                Anonymous

                ..

  85. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Thought my ex and I ended on good terms. Turns out she still feels super bitter and last night started posting subliminal shots at me. I called her to call her out on the behavior, only to be met with attitude and a cold hang up. I've learned the lesson hard now: fuck your ex till its backwards gentleman.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      Blokc her anon honestly, cry to your hearts content but do yourself the favor of blocking her EVERYWHERE she doesnt give a shit about you and you should not rin

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah, she blocked me everywhere lmfaoo. I'm not sad, it is what it is. Time to grind once again.

        • 4 months ago
          Anonymous

          you do you and let that be a lesson

        • 4 months ago
          Anonymous

          >i'm not sad
          >still reached out to her to bitch to her about some stupid shit
          Yeah, honestly sit down alone and really tell yourself it's over. I don't know why you care what she says now she ain't your hole anymore.

  86. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    The love of my life stopped loving me. when im not at the gym it feels like im on the verge of a breakdown

  87. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    so me and my ex broke up recently, after that she's started doing toxic shit on social media etc. stuff i usually would call out, i haven't this time and i have not answered her texts. But i'm a mess, this relationship have fucked me mentally like never before. What to do?

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      if shes being toxic you should be channeling your hate into being better than her. hatred is power

  88. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm about 32 years old. Since I was 14, I've basically spend all of my weeks and weekends alone if we don't count seeing parents. At this point I have just constant suicidal ideation. Can't be worse than this.

  89. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    open the sunday night bar already I don't wanna whine on a dying thread

  90. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'll take a ginger ale; a soda is about my equivalent to alcohol. Just found out my ex got engaged yesterday.

    She was my first real girlfriend, and it lasted about half a year. I'm 28 and she's 19, so the age difference really started to show after a bit. It was a very mutual break up, we both were feeling it, but there's the caveman part of my brain that still says she's mine. Honestly, I think she's nowhere near ready for a marriage, but I ain't the kind to throw around those kinds of opinions unsolicited. Those religious gals really like to get married early and fast, don't they?

  91. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    I have this coworker who never lost a chance to get touchy and stuff, one of the other coworkers even gave me a weird look once like "what the fuck are you two doing"
    how much of a fucking retard do I have to be to not have fucked her
    am I a fucking gay
    seriously I might as well just take it in the ass

  92. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    sometimes i wonder if you're still here

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