>seeing a new gorgeous girl. >about to have sex for the first time last night. >couldn't get hard

>seeing a new gorgeous girl
>about to have sex for the first time last night
>couldn't get hard
It's over
I'm quitting porn
Fuck these demons that did this to me
Fuck myself for allowing this to happen

  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    it's not porn it's nerves

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Nice try demon

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Fpwp. Fuck you.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      fippy bippy

      Nice try demon

      https://i.imgur.com/sdhWYY2.jpg

      Fpwp. Fuck you.

      No, he's right. I'm a certified coomer and I got it up my first time, but randomly went soft as I was ploughing. Was embarrassing as hell. So I stopped masturbating for an entire week and went again, same thing happened. I thought I had erectile dysfunction. But I kept going back and the third time, I finished. And now I can masturbate and fuck like Bill Clinton and I always can finish. It's all mental, it's stage fright.

      Nofap is cultish tbh

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    ya blew it, she thinks you're gay now

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I will never understand this. Sex is some of the most fun stress relief a man can have.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Here is your Chad sticker, have fun, fuck off

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You might be gay? Don't lie, have you ever gotten hard over a trap or naked man? Society tells us to be straight but I think guys like you and many others should explore what their bodies and minds are telling them

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      finding trans women attractive is not gay

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >t.ranny

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          no. im a straight guy and i have a gf, my gf is bi and she finds trans women attractive too

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >bi gf
            enjoy her cheating with a lesbian

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        It's not a woman if you can't impregnate it.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          t. boomer

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Nah, I'm just a human being who expects others of my species to also be human beings and not chemically and surgically altered monstrosities.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Yes it is, anon. Just admit you also like cock (aka you're at least bisexual) and there's no issue.

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I've been seeing her for a month or so and she has been telling me she wants to take it slow. So I've been building this up in my head and when it finally happens nerves kick in and nothing happens. Then I start thinking about it and once you start thinking about it it's really over. Idk how to get out of my head about this shit.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      How do you not become diamonds the second you put your mouth on her nipples?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Hence the issue

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      did you kiss and touch her beforehand or did you just straight up take your dick out?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Plenty of foreplay, I got her off multiple times without my dick. I was rock hard until I go to physically insert and I lose it. Honestly this has happened my first time having sex with a new girl but usually I can get over it. i just like this one a lot so I guess I'm more nervous than I usually am with a random hoe.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          have her suck you off or something before you dive in

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I've been seeing her for a month or so and she has been telling me she wants to take it slow. So I've been building this up in my head and when it finally happens nerves kick in and nothing happens. Then I start thinking about it and once you start thinking about it it's really over. Idk how to get out of my head about this shit.

          https://i.imgur.com/FtETOh9.png

          >seeing a new gorgeous girl
          >about to have sex for the first time last night
          >couldn't get hard
          It's over
          I'm quitting porn
          Fuck these demons that did this to me
          Fuck myself for allowing this to happen

          Your mind isn't associating actual sex with sexual arousal or orgasm, basically. You've gone too long without sex and only jacking off. I had the same issue when I had a 6 year dry spell. I would be hard while I was pleasuring her, but would go soft as soon as my dick got any attention. Nofap, viagra (really easy to get), and L-citrulline sorta helped me, but it wasn't some miracle cure.
          What cured me was finally having sex. After that first time, I have 0 issue performing and I'm horny as fuck. It's of course a catch-22 since you can't get hard.
          My first time with my GF I had a couple drinks in me; just enough to relax, but not so much to have whiskey dick or reduced motor function. It started like any other night: kissing, fingering, etc. which I had no issue being hard during. Then she pulled me on top of her and I was suddenly inside her. It happened really quickly, no more than 5 seconds, so my dick had no time to get soft. No condom obviously.
          My advice to you is to finger your girl in a position where it wouldn't take much for you to slip it in. Don't bother with condoms. Just get hard and get inside ASAP.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >I was rock hard until I go to physically insert and I lose it
          Ive heard of people havng difficulty getting hard afterr death gripping, but this...

          people are saying this is porn induced, BUT IT SOUNDS PRETTY GAY TO ME

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            It's because it's not something he's used to doing in order to get himself off. His mind wants to fuck his hand, not the wet hole its never/rarely experienced before.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              idk man,that sounds even gayer somehow

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      It means you really like her and your brain is doing you dirty because you also wanna fuck her like a slut and you know how not supposed to deep down

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I coom to porn three times a day for my entire life and I have sex perfectly fine you are just low test

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i had this when i first got a gf. It's literally because of porn and jacking off. You have to stop if you ever want to have a normal sex life. No way around it. Stop jerking off you absolute retard.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This
      Stop jerking off and watching porn
      + Take maca root and l-citrulline
      You'll be alright anon

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Depending how long you fucked your brain with porn, it will take months before you get rid of your erectille dysfunction. As a motivation you can build a good relationship with her until that day comes.

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It's because you eat too many eggs, reduce your cholesterol, PIED is a myth

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    If you like the girl just fucking eat her out and don't worry about it.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      absolutely horrible advice

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Why?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Enjoy not having threesomes dude

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Why?

      No matter how much the girl says she's fine with no sex, it will eventually become an issue to the point you either break up or figure out how to fix the ED.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        So how do you recommend fixing the ED?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          See

          This
          Stop jerking off and watching porn
          + Take maca root and l-citrulline
          You'll be alright anon

          +Kegels
          Also drink a beer before hand. Not enough to effect your dick but enough to get loose

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          The first step is figuring out if it's even ED. ED is a cardiovascular issue often treated with viagra and exercise. If you're under 40, chances are the problem isn't ED. It could be low libido from low testosterone, but you'd have bigger problems than just the inability to have sex. Chances are that the problem is actually sex anxiety from years of fapping and celibacy. The best way to cure sex anxiety is through experience with an understanding partner. Keep trying to have sex even if it's like trying to stuff a rope down a hole. Eventually penetration will happen and, when it does, the anxiety will go away.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          bro the question has been answered 40 times in this thread, are you just choosing to ignore the solution? it's stop watching porn and stop masturbation. it's that simple. Don't jerk off for a week and you'll be hard as a rock.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Start doing cardio every single day moron

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    its not porn lol ur just a nervous autist, this will happen to u maybe 1-2 more times until you feel comfortable enough with the girl

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Quitting porn is the best decision you'll ever make.

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    If she is a good girl she will understand.
    >Qt flirts with me and tells me she likes me at a party
    >Already had a hotel booked in Toronto so I could go see an Anime movie
    >She is also a weeb so invite her to come along
    >She accepts and we work out that she would crash at my place the night before to make travel easier
    >First night have great sex multiple times no problem
    >Get to Toronto and check in the hotel
    >Start to get frisky and for what ever reason anxiety kicks in
    >Lose boner mid foreplay and start to panic
    >She tells me to relax and not rush
    >End up cuddling and talking until my anxiety clears
    >Get boner and go back to plowing her
    >End up having sex like 34 times throughout the entire weekend
    >Fast forward three and a half years and she is now my wife.

  14. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Unironically just order Viagra and use it for a bit.

    You're trapped in two feedback loops. The long term one is a cycle of shame and anxiety, after having convinced your brain that porn/masturbation, and not sex, is the stimulant you're after. You know this is fake, vow to quit, but then something will happen (stress, bad day, whatever) that'll make you slip up and restart the cycle.

    The short-term loop happens when you're with a girl. You're nervous, you feel you need to overcompensate, do everything right, yada yada. This all creates stress which makes your dick go soft.

    In order to cure the long term cycle you need to cure the short term cycle, and feel good about yourself and positive about your body and dick. But this is easier said than done, especially because rewiring your pleasure receptors back to something normal takes time, discipline and dedication. In that time, you're also stressed as fuck because you're trying to get off with a girl but keep failing, which makes you want to go back to porn and jerking off.

    V helps break through these cycles quicker. Pop one and in 20 minutes to an hour you'll be set and ready to go for multiple rounds. This in turn will make you get used to sex, and relaxing around it, as opposed to it being this big. fucking. deal. emanating a sense of failure everytime it doesn't 100% live up to your expectations. Hopefully you'll also come to realize that occasionally masturbating when horny isn't a big deal, as opposed to the NoFap bullshit ARGH I JERKED OFF ONCE AFTER 15 DAYS MY LIFE IS RUINED I WON'T BE ABLE TO HAVE SEX WITH A GIRL FOR PRECISELY 23.75 HOURS.

    And no, under no circumstances whatsoever should you use Viagra as a crutch long-term while also reverting to your porn habits. Think of it as a jumpstart. Also don't think this is a solely you issue. I'm convinced that this issue is incredibly widespread among young men of this generation but, surprise surprise, no one wants to talk about it

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I had the same issue as OP and Viagra didn't help me. 60mg didn't make me hard. It just made me slightly harder than I'd normally be IF I could get hard in the first place. I had to slowly become comfortable with my girl and my own body. I think sleeping together naked instead of insisting on keeping my boxers on helped a lot with that. Letting her see my flaccid dick and learning it wasn't a big deal. Fingerbanging her while my hard dick rubbed against her side. And, eventually, getting to actual sex. I wasn't even on any viagra when it happened the first time. I'd just had a couple beers.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        literally same thing happened to me. i'm 20 and fit. i couldn't get hard when I was trying to hook up with a coworker about two months ago. so i got some viagra and we used it about an hour before we tried again another time. nothing. next time we just decided to not take sex so seriously and just do whatever came naturally. rock hard.

        just like you said it was absolutely more to do with me being comfortable and confident (I'm a very anxious guy) than any physical issue. pills or not blood isn't going to go to my dick if my body is too busy worrying about something else.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Girl isn't doing her part. Just get her to lick your nipples while cupping your balls and you'll be stiffy in a jiffy. Pre insertion strokes are bad while you're getting the hang of it imo, don't want to shoot rope while you're still dangly rope.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >just like you said it was absolutely more to do with me being comfortable and confident

          yeah don't be

          >too busy worrying about something else

          Girl isn't doing her part. Just get her to lick your nipples while cupping your balls and you'll be stiffy in a jiffy. Pre insertion strokes are bad while you're getting the hang of it imo, don't want to shoot rope while you're still dangly rope.

          your natural erection is your part dummy

          >verification not required

  15. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Happened to me. Always imagine my problem would be cumming in less than a second, instead of basically feeling absolutely nothing.

  16. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Had this happen to me bro. I ended up buying a bunch of viagra as an emergency stash so it never happens again. I had a dream girl ghost me afterward cuz of this. Feels bad

  17. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'll join you bro.

  18. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Get some cialis for next time.

  19. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    since this thread is related to sex
    bros im a dropout neet, same with gf. had sex last week and it came positive today on a test, what do

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      she's pregnant or you have an std? I can't understand based on the context

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        preggo

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Get off this shithole and get a fucking job

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >came in her last week
          >pregnancy test is already positive
          on the bright side, you don't have to listen to

          Get off this shithole and get a fucking job

          because she's cheating on you

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      If you're both NEETs that are already accustomed to sucking on the teet of the government, have your child and become the welfare king and queen you're meant to be.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Sex last week
      >pregnant today
      Big doubt on this one, seems too early for hcg to be present also why would she be taking a pregnancy test when she shouldn't even be on her period yet.

  20. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    OP I had a bit of this. I'd been in a long term relationship, very used to not using condoms, then we split.
    Suddenly for the first time in my life, I'd have problems with getting hard. Usually, I could have a nice hard on, then the second I had to fuck about getting a condom, it went away. There's nothing more pathetic than your soft dick and a baggy condom.
    So, anyway. I fixed it. First, a couple of drinks before, but not too many. Second, absolutely no jerking off from two days before (I was used to "clearing the tubes" when I wasn't using condoms because the sensation is so different). Thirdly, I got some backup viagra. I used this to ease in with new partners, and then stopped taking it once I was comfortable. Lastly, if you can let them rub your dick against their wet pussy, you'll be really hard. Maybe even stick the tip in if you're lucky. And then you need to just need to get good at quickly putting on a rubber.
    Best of all is once you've been fucking a while and they decide to go on the pill or whatever

  21. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    men, also, here are some excercises to increase blood flow into pelvic area.
    sitting all days is destroying our pelvic muscles and blood flow

  22. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I stopped watching porn and masturbating recently, I used to literally jack off minimum 3 times a day and watch porn for at least an hour. I sort of relapsed by looking at instathots but I was the hardest I've been in a long time and decided to measure. I realised I've got a huge dick. Like it's 7.5 inches and without factoring in the significant curve. It's kind of thin at the shaft (5 inches) but it gets up to 5.5 inches towards the head. Honestly boosted my confidence and I have no desire to watch porn anymore.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      same story anon, went from 5.0x5.3 to 5.2x6.7 with lowFap and Never Porn

      your inch and a half is hiding under your browser tabs, close them and touch bush

  23. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Meet girl at uni
    >Finally get to do the sex
    >She does the ahegao face
    >Feel so stereotyped that I lose interest
    Do today's grils look at tiktok whores for inspiration? Why would anyone think going crossed eyed and sticking your tongue out would look erotic? I really think she just profiled me as a nerd, therefore I like anime, therefore faces like in the hentai would arouse me.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Meet boy at uni
      >Finally get to do the sex
      >Do thing saw on app
      >He gets upset
      ?????

      Holy fuck anon she was trying

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Will ahegao faces be this generation's fake orgasm?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      zoomettes are watching too much porn and tictoc

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      The "Tongue out, eyes out" is basically in hentai anime/manga where the girl just get fucked so hard that she blacks out from orgasms/being forceful, basically starts getting off from being humiliated.

      Asians are wild fuckers.

  24. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >see the most beautiful woman I've ever seen, in the sexiest outfit you can imagine
    >start raping her, having the time of my life
    >another hot one shows up, start fucking her too
    >wake up
    it's over
    I'm never waking up again

  25. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >recently finally at 26 lose my virginity and keep seeing the girl regularly
    >a bit average looking but cute
    >sucks my dick if I just ask
    >blowjobs aren't really that stimulating
    >handjobs aren't really that stimulating
    >have to wear a rubber and it takes me like 30 mins of effort to cum
    >I can pretty much only cum from doggy
    >already once have gone completely soft during sex because it took so long to try to finish my dick just gave up
    I feel like the best part of sex is that first time she runs her fingers lightly under your shirt, after that it's just downhill

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Ask me how I know you:
      >are circumcised
      >have death grip
      >watched way too much porn, most likely not vanilla

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >are circumcised
        nope
        >have death grip
        ehh kinda, maybe. It's not like I squeeze hard but I pretty much have to keep the dick muscles flexed enough time to be able to cum. But yeah I've pretty much fucked up my shoudler from tensing it too much while jerking off.
        >watched way too much porn, most likely not vanilla
        yeah I guess sometimes and more when I was younger. I mostly jerk off to pics of pretty girls naked or in lingerie. Most porn is kinda disgusting.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          So it's deathgrip then, you will literally have to stop fapping until it fixes itself. You can start fapping again eventually but with the lighest grip, if you can't cum from that, you don't get to.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      https://i.imgur.com/FZsDT4p.jpg

      >are circumcised
      nope
      >have death grip
      ehh kinda, maybe. It's not like I squeeze hard but I pretty much have to keep the dick muscles flexed enough time to be able to cum. But yeah I've pretty much fucked up my shoudler from tensing it too much while jerking off.
      >watched way too much porn, most likely not vanilla
      yeah I guess sometimes and more when I was younger. I mostly jerk off to pics of pretty girls naked or in lingerie. Most porn is kinda disgusting.

      I gave myself death grip too and the first time my girl gave me a BJ was so underwhelming. Fortunately, she works in construction and her kegels are stronger than my grip.

  26. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I had that shit with my recent gf after years of being a porn coomer
    It fucking sucked but if the girl is willing to stick around you can eventually fix it through persistence and just continuously trying
    It’s fucking embarrassing though

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