Self-esteem gains

i had fat/ugly girls and gay guys aproach me before and had sex with a some fat chicks before but i still dont feel confident and have too low-self esteem to aproach cute girls,how to get better?

  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Easy way is to fuck pretty escorts in your area. Did it myself and i went from a permavirgin too scared to look women in the eyes to be able to joke and hold a conversation with pretty women. You just need practice.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This is probably it. I even had sex with a hot cutie and she was really into it and shit, but I have to remind myself it happened. Not much changed in the long run, I've turned into a recluse yet again. I will invest in whores.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Imo best option right now. Im not playing the buffoon to entertain a 5/10 single mom on Tinder when 200$/h will get me great sex with a hot girl.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          $200/hr? That's gonna be the greatest $3 of her life.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >he doesnt know about msog
            Lol. Lmao even.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Oh I know all about misogyny

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      how do you go about finding escorts without getting fucked over?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Depends where you’re from. Search for a escort review board in your area that’s your best bet. Or look for website like eros or tryst to find local girls. Watch out for fake pics too some will try to bait and switch.

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    How do I stop being a loser? I try to put myself out there but most people think I’m autistic or just weird. I do try to have normal conversations but I’m quite boring honestly. I have hobbies like weights, sometimes boxing/photography/guitar. I used to have other little hobbies as well like beginner wood carving, language learning, crochet/knitting etc.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Ever considered that its the people you meet who are boring? You seem like you have various hobbies. nowadays people watch netflix and TikTok and that’s about it.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Well not really, they seem to be able to hold conversations better and are able to make jokes, they just feel more natural compared to me. When I socialise I find it difficult to have that natural aura others have

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Then you might need to learn about small talk and practice. I dont think there's any other way to do it. But also understand that conversation with women is usually vapid and pointless so there’s that.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah that’s fair. I might just try talking to random people at a pub or something then

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        This is true
        You gotta realize a lot of people suck ass at conversation. It sounds cruel but once you realize the person you're chatting with isn't very good at socializing, it becomes 10x easier to chat. Because you think they're judging every word you say, but the truth is they're just unironically not as interesting of a person as you in most cases, or not as good at expressing it.

        And once you realize that, you just stop giving a fuck how you come across to them. It's liberating. Try it

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          This isn’t true for me, if anything I’m what you’re describing. I’ve been by people I’m the most boring person they’ve met before. Even with hobbies and stuff I just can’t seem to be interesting or anything. I’ve started going out more since I have a group of small friends but even they think I’m weird. I would like to branch out since I’m sure they’ll leave me at some point

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        he could be reserved and poor at communicating what he does and is into. I feel kinda the same way, i got hobbies, am always building shit, money wasting side hustles, have enough ideas for projects to last me a lifetime, yet I've had people that know me ask what I even do all day since im a borderline hermit. Cant fathom a life without constant social interaction. That dickhead even made some comment on how if i had a gf i'd need to 'learn how to love' or something. Fuckin clueless and no desire to go deeper

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          True. Not everybody is a "social butterfly" im kind of an hermit too. And yeah some people can be dickheads like they dont understand that saying foul shit like that can hurt.

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    realize your worth

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