Should IST also include a sticky on how to get laid?
I think so, sex is extremely beneficial for health, stamina & psyche
Should IST also include a sticky on how to get laid?
I haven’t had actual sex in fourteen years im so starved for physical contact its ridiculous
>ask her out
>she actually says yes
>first date goes well
>go on second date
>go home to her place after
>sitting on the sofa fridged as fuck
>scared to make the first move
>she hugs you
>you lean into her
>just hugging, tightly into each other
>first form of intimate human contact in years
My biggest fear, bros. I know it'll happen sooner or later.
I just hope I don't turn her off whenever it happens.
dont worry it will never happen
I fear this happening too. It's one thing when you're inexperienced, it's another when you're freaking out from lack of human contact and intimacy. I had a micro reaction like this when a girl hugged me once, so I'm afraid of something worse happening if I do get laid. I'll still try anyway because giving up sounds worse.
I just hope to be taking in the moment so I don't have time to dwell on on the emotional rush.
That's what I advise to you, try not to think about it and let it happen.
You can cry happy tears after you've left and are alone.
Start small with the contact, crying is not allowed, cry alone in your room or with a close friend/family, even then I say friend over family
>im so starved for physical contact
There's no shame in hiring prostitutes, just don't fall in love with them
>be me, late 20s
>never have a gf
>be mentally ill, such severe anxiety that I can't even remember what I did a few hours prior, have pretty much lost ability to make sense of emotions since all I feel is anxiety
>hook up with girl after bar whilst drunk
>fuck dead sober the next day, first time ever, but go soft due to mental issues
>been hanging out with her lately and texting and even though I always thought I wanted a gf and sex, now that I finally have it I just don't feel anything
>don't even know if I actually like her, don't enjoy sex and always go soft
>know that this would likely be the same case for anyone I might end up dating
I've just felt so dead inside for so long that I'm not sure if I'm capable of having a normal human experience anymore and I feel bad for the girl because part of me just stumbled into this thing since I dont know what I want or how I feel and I'm just going with it. I do like her but I don't feel how I think I should feel
yooo i think i was the record holder with 12 years among non virgins but i bend the knee
What would even be in it?
Nobody on this board knows how to get laid, or we wouldn't be here
>What would even be in it?
Sex tourism and hooker guides.
Standard PUA stuff
Lookism, grooming, socialmaxxing, cold approaching, cheeky lines, etc
I havent had sex, kiss or cuddle in 28 years and counting
You're basically a modern saint. Nice work
Same. Used to be a undateable lardass.
Fixed my crippling depression, fucking finally lost the weight and got somewhat in shape (dyel though).
There's definitely progress ever since: Went on dates, made out with women at bars, but it's remains a struggle to actually get laid.
At times I get mad that I'm still a virgin, but then I put things in perspective: I was a depressed fatass for 27+ years that played Vidya all day long. Dating wasn't even on my mind.
Anyway, gonna continue the IST grind. At this point I'm rather a gymcel than an incel.
You are gonna make it
look up pua escalation, kino, leading etc that might be the things holding you back from closing
No that would be gay and stupid
>”how to have sex” sticky
>only one sentence in it
>”talk to women”
Fucking chicks kills your gains. Get friendzoned for maximum T-levels
Presenting the official IST guide to getting laid:
Step 1: download grinder
Step 2: profile: “looking for a IST gym partner, we’ll become aesthetic mf’s together”
Step 3: squats onto your partners dick, superset with hip thrusts into your partners asshole
being an incel = anger = cortisol spikes = no gains
so yes, it should be essential part of a fitness guidebook
There is no guide to getting laid.
Either you are neurotypical and you don't need to think about socializing, or you can brute force your social disabilities by naturally being very handsome and tall, or by being rich. Otherwise, it's a crapshoot with the odds heavily stacked against you.
the sticky hasn’t been updated in nearly a decade. this board is a husk.
Yes. I am already fit and lean. I have a good job and I'm charismatic. I'm at least average looking. I see lots of guys with worse 'stats' than me in loving relationships getting married and having kids. I don't know where to go from here. All the good women I know are married. It's very rare for me to meet new people or do social things other that for work. I just want to lift, run, work, read, and play video games. I have no interest in developing hobbies to meet single women. A lot of those guys I mentioned before don't have hobbies either, they just were smart enough or lucky enough to settle down early.
>A lot of those guys I mentioned before don't have hobbies either, they just were smart enough or lucky enough
Reality is that they mog you in some way. It can be looks, charisma, or height.
Not really. The sticky wouldn't be too helpful unless anons are hidden chads.
Just get an AI gf you fucking retards.