I wish nogf was the worst of my problems.
I fell too deep into the self improoover memes, and just feel apathetic and hollow. I feel stuck in the solace of "literally me" media shit now, and I know it's only making things worse.
I have no drive to continue on with my job and that which used to bring me good feelings are either bad for me (the junk food I would binge on) or are just par for the course (lifting and reading).
Yup. I feel this. 1 years ago I lost 140lbs and got down to 200. I've been lifting and trying to get bigger but I feel like everyone has abandoned me. I got to the finish line (of losing weight) and no one was there. I feel selfish, empty and lonely. I was unironically happier at 340lbs playing video games all day.
I feel like I have been completely rejected by society. No amount of self improving will help me because of this hole I have inside. I've missed out on so many experiences that my age group has gone through. I'll always be an outsider. Every social interaction is like trying to swim upstream. Maybe one day it'll be my turn.
The only way I'm getting a gf is if I switch my brain off and don't think about it too much but I don't really want to do that but I also would like intimacy
I hear voices anon. That's what it is. I can't go more than a week without these fucking cocksucking voices acting up and telling me "WE CONTROL YOU NOW YOU"RE GOING TO have a nice day" bullshit like that
I AM FINALLY BACK IN THE GYM AFTER BEING SICK FOR A WEEK FUCK YEAAAAAH
I LOVE LIFE
I LOVE MY SPASTIC GF
I LOVE HARDSHIPS AND STRUGGLE
LIFE IS GOOD
WAGMI >THE MAN YOU ARE TOMORROW MUST BRUTALLY MOG THE MAN YOU ARE TODAY
>catch a slight cold >take 1 day off lifting to recover, then continue as usual >seem to be getting better >fuck it, decide to go to some rave out of curiosity >get very sick 2 days later, fever, coughing, shivering >that was Monday, I am still sick and won't be able to go to the gym for at least 1 more week
reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee why was I so retarded
I’m in a telegram with a pedophile that impregnated a 15 year old child and talks to kids on discord daily, im currently in the process of buying body armor and more bullets. After I’m done purchasing everything I will drive out to his location and kill him in Minecraft since the police or the glowies I contacted don’t want to do anything about it
How do you plan to get away with this? I mean, you already tried to sic the police on him, and if they're going to investigate his homicide, you must ensure that you're beyond reproach if you don't want to go to prison for murder.
Probably go to South America or something right after I do it (I have some contacts there), im low key hoping glowies contact me directly for posting some shit like this online and I can send them all the vile shit he’s done directly
15 year old is not a child. I can't believe when society tells you that 15 years old is a child, you believe them. Have you ever met a 15 year old woman? they are desperate for cock. Not kidding btw.
>be me work at family biz >family biz is fairly successful and affluent by middle America's standards. Not "my kids are going to Yale" well off, but comfortable upper middle class well off. >on good terms with this Boomer who comes in on the regular. >knows I'm single from chit chat. >showed me pics of his granddaughter and wants to introduce us >she wasn't ugly, but I wasn't knocked off my feet either >agree to meet anyway because I was always kind of a sperg and thought it be a nice opportunity for social gains, and who knows if I keep an open mind I may like her. >walking in to meet granddaughter with Boomer. He's conversating and ask how much money I have. >I say "not much actually" which wasn't a lie. Despite coming from a family with plenty of economic security I was never given that much because my father was a typical Regan "pull yourself up by your bootstraps" conservative, so I was made to work from an early age. >he then proceeds to laugh it off and say "I'm just trying to help my granddaughter out haha", "Just busting your balls anon" >even though, still puts a really sour taste in my mouth
Am I just being fucking austic by kind of taking offence to that? On one hand I understand the practicality of choosing a partner, I wouldn't want someone from a deadbeat family either given the choice. But on the other hand, the romantic side of me wants to say fuck you dude. You really invited me to meet your granddaughter simply because you thought I came from a family with money? Met a girl that is friends with another girl (let's call her anonette) that used to have a crush on me back in highschool. And she said that anonette said reminiscently "yeah if I ended up with anon I would have been set for life since his family owns X business". Are all women just natural gold diggers? Can't I just find someone who likes me for me? Is actual romance truly possible, or am I just being to sappy?
like I said, I met him through work. He knows I'm not a deadbeat without a job that spends all his time smoking pot and playing vidya. I guess it's possible I misunderstood him. But I doubt it.
there's nothing worse than a rich fag with a chip on his shoulder. Imagine the chip on your shoulder being having money....wow
really can't think of any other problem to have, huh?
There is a non-trivial, non-zero chance that I will get laid within the next week. Lend me your power IST! I need to not fuck things up AND I need factors beyond my control to be in my favor
its my birthday tomorrow, well, in 3 hours! I'm turning 28!
I'm alone again as I've been in a different country working for some time, but I'm used to it, and my parents are gonna send me 1500 USD to invest and buy myself something nice! which is kino, of course, as I like money and investing.
I hope I can find better friends, a girl, or courage to go back to my hometown before I'm 29! If anyone also has upcoming birthdays, happy birthday anons!
There is a non-trivial, non-zero chance that I will get laid within the next week. Lend me your power IST! I need to not fuck things up AND I need factors beyond my control to be in my favor
My gf got pozzed by TikTok and turned into a bitter feminist. Every opinion she used to have she's thrown out and replaced with whatever some angry cunt said on social media.w8yp8s
I've got an ex wife is a bitch. Too bad for her she keeps losing in family court because shes made herself look like the tyrannical bitch she is involving our kids, so I at least have that going for me.
Honestly yes. After she had the kids (we had twin boys) she was not the same person anymore. I expected it to some extent, but nothing close to what it became. I felt completely alienated in my own home for the better part of a year, sidelined when it came to decisions about OUR kids as if my opinion or thoughts meant nothing. To top it off, she finally tried to take the kids out of our house and only allow me to see them on weekends. I finally lost it and told her to get out, but the kids were staying here. She called the police and got an EPO because she "felt threatened" because I raised my voice at her. I immediately got it dismissed 3 days later, but at a steep lawyer cost, and took her to court for custody, which again incurred a some more cash. It's been a mess, but now we are at 50/50, although shes still trying to take them from me, for whatever controlling, insane reasons she has. She won't get it though, as she's pretty much out of cash for her lawyer.
Women are fucking terrible, and I don't advise having anything more with them then just fun. They will try their best to ruin you and take your kids from you given the chance.
Beware.
Good luck my friend. I know your pain. It is never an easy situation. I'm living it right there with you. I can tell you that in my case, it never did get better, and it only got worse with time.
The biggest victims are my kids in all of this, and I hate that cunt more everyday for doing this to them. I can take it, but they are blameless victims of her bullshit, and it isn't right.
Same. Having kids completely changed her. I get it, its not easy but jfc. We’re still together but who knows how much longer?
Christ. Sorry to hear anons. I honestly really want kids, but I see stories like this online and in my own life amongst peers and it just seems like trying to start a traditional family is one of the biggest risks a regular guy can take these days. I dont want to say it doesn't seem worth it, but fuck man it looks like it's really close to crossing that threshold.
>sick for a few days >progressively getting worse, but nothing dire, just fever, sore throat, cough, shits >lose taste and smell today
Fucking covid again? That's like the fifth time I got it. Fuck's sake.
so I failed with this young qt I really like. she has bf but still I guess she doesn't care anymore because I was too needy (I just said that I like her)
since she didn't gave two fucks I contacted this other qt after a couple of months. long story short we ended fucking on 14th feb. it was nice but I don't wanna fuck it up again
My life is over. I’m easily the most pathetic thing on this planet now, lesser than subhuman. I’m obese, I’m short, I have no chin and 3 chins simultaneously, my dick was only 3” at the absolute hardest before I lost my ability to get hard, now with all my fat it’s just a soft little acorn like just the glands and I have to push my fat down to pee. I’m a complete virgin and the most I’ve gotten is a kiss from a trans woman who I suspect was just a dude in a dress. I’m black. My mother and sister married white men who laugh at me. A white guy at the gym years ago humiliated me, I stole his pate and he took it back from me mid rep and barely been acknowledged my existence so I stopped lifting. I literally don’t even lift now not that I have a choice I’m so weak I would have to start with rolls of toilet paper as weights. I’m literally addicted to drinking soi drinks. I have not seen the outside in 3 years. I’m broke. I have no real work experience or even any real life experience.
I am a IST janny.
I have legit trust issues. I can't trust anyone, let alone a girl. I suppose it comes from a sheltered childhood, and narcissistic emotional abuse from my helicopter mother, and alcoholic father. They also went through a nasty divorce, and my father literally drank himself to death afterwards. Plus the bullying from school. I've also been fat for most of my life, and was used to either be ''the funny fat guy'' or be ignored or treated with scorn by women. Lose the weight, get a decent physique, and suddenly people are more open to me, actually listen to what I say or pretend to, and girls smile at me more. I'm so socially retarded that at this point I hate most people and see them as two faced snakes. If a girl came to me right now and said she wants to hang out, my immediate thought would be that she's either lying or trying to hurt me in a way. Thanks for reading my blog.
Hit a low point last night. Been having no luck with women recently and I ended up thinking with my dick not my head and took some munter back home. Undressed her and she had the worst body I've literally ever seen. She wanked me off and I kicked her out right after. I didn't lift for a decade and looks max to lower myself to such things, fuck.
Think I just need to forget about women for a while
You're the reason why every mid and uggo are an entitled cunts nowadays. Because they constantly get undeserved attention from guys out of their league who are horny and only thinking with their dick. Because they never have their egos grounded by getting rejected by guys. I ghosted two bitches within the past day because after they sent my their pics and they were fat whales. I understand the urge because I get desperately horny too but I've never been down so bad I resorted to fucking a fat bitch. I'd rather just jerk off to 2D. If guys had more standards, and were unapologetic snobs and elites then pussy inflation wouldn't be through the roof.
There’s always been “incels” but the image that pops into our head these days with that word did not exist previously. I’ll tie this back to your post bare with me.
We think of some ugly zero effort gay who’s bitter and thinks he’s deserving of pussy and basically the school shooter trope/archetype. That didn’t always exist. Sure there were geeks/dorks, but here’s the thing. In the 60s, 70s, 80s, 90s etc those dudes could still get laid via a fat girl. We can set the argument of lowering your standards as a man aside, but for those types of losers a fat chick with a cute face is in their league. But that that this isn’t an option for the most part, you get affectionless geeks turning mean and bitter and being equally cancerous as fat bitches.
Fat ugly women have been poisoned. They get a 6/10 or higher man, even the occasional 7-9/10 man and they believe they are a giga Stacy. It’s the whole body positivity movement being hijacked by obese women like Lizzo, the fact tinder exists. Etc. >tinder
Most dudes just swipe yes on all. Fat bitches don’t understand this and believe hundreds of dudes swiped because they found her hott. >social media
Same shit, fat bitch has hot friends, she posts on Instagram and gets hundreds of likes. Goes to her head. >gets dicked by good looking man
It’s a common occurrence what that guy did, a for lack of better word chad goes through a dry spell and just fucks a fatty. Now she believes she’s what men want and her standards are completely illogical.
Women are already retarded at baseline, shit like this all makes them worse. And in consequence there’s the current incel archetype walking around. Obviously no one in their right mind would want a fat bitch or an ugly bitch (their only purpose is to be pretty, you can’t be fat as a woman), but getting sucked off by a fat bitch is better than fucking your hand and then crying yourself to sleep.
couldn't have said it better myself. I just don't think women were wired to receive the constant attention and validation that's begotten by technology and social media. It goes straight to their heads. It overflows their dopamine pathway. They start thinking they're a 'bad bitch'. Pre-internet the attention a female could receive was relegated to their small town or village. Now they can upload a pic of themselves online and get 100s of guys in their DMs wanting sex.
>Most dudes just swipe yes on all. Fat bitches don’t understand this and believe hundreds of dudes swiped because they found her hott
yeah here's a funny story. I was on tinder a while ago and swiping through it when I came across this one girl. She wasn't an unattractive girl, but she wasn't a head turner either. Literally 5/10 max, if I passed her on the street I wouldn't have even noticed her t b h. And the sole sentence she had in her bio was "I'm picky". That's it. And I thought to myself this little arrogant shit, where does she get off thinking she has a right to this entitlement? But see that's the thing, she probably had literally hundreds of likes and dudes in her DMs sniffing at her ass - that's where her ego came from.
And this is what women don't understand about the dynamics male sexuality. It's a numbers game. We're not the 'choosy' sex by and large although there is variation from guy to guy. The analogy I always use is stray dogs rummaging through a dumpster in a street alley for table scraps. No one in their right mind would say "look at all those dogs gleefully feasting on those scraps! Therefore it's a 5 star meal!" Well no, they're stray dogs and desperate for food that's what they do. Women are the food, men are the dogs. Just because you, a woman (the food), has a bunch of desperately hungry 'dogs'(men) trying to get a piece of you doesn't mean you're a 5 star meal. But women receive this attention from non-choosy men and think they're inherently valuable.
>But women receive this attention from non-choosy men and think they're inherently valuable
just to continue, like no, you're just a stupid woman who doesn't know they evolutionary drives behind male reproductive strategies. Men don't bequeath value to a woman by attention, like a woman does to a man. Men bequeath value to a woman by their willingness to commit. There's a reason why in certain PUA communities the saying "women are the gate keepers of sex, and the men are the gatekeepers of marriage" is touted around so much. Once you have a bunch of men trying to marry you and not treat like a cum sock for the night, then you can act like an arrogant Stacy. But until then fuck off. Okay that's the end of my rant.
>It’s a common occurrence what that guy did, a for lack of better word chad goes through a dry spell and just fucks a fatty. Now she believes she’s what men want and her standards are completely illogical.
so true.
>Obviously no one in their right mind would want a fat bitch or an ugly bitch (their only purpose is to be pretty, you can’t be fat as a woman), but getting sucked off by a fat bitch is better than fucking your hand and then crying yourself to sleep.
I dunno man closest I ever came was getting a lap dance by some fat bitch (not obese fat, but plump) at a strip club. I just felt dirty after it. Couldn't imagine fucking one. Like I said I think I'd rather just jerk off.
I want to return to a simpler life. I can't cope with all the problems in the modern world. There has to be something more than just wake up, drive to work, work, drive back to home, eat, sleep and repeat. Is this really our purpose in life?
>valentines day >son comes home from school and asks me to buy him a guitar >why? >I want to impress miss peterson! >oh >son is in 6th grade >started lifting in January because he has a crush on his home room teacher >his home room teacher is in her mid 20s >on valentines day he gave her chocolate, a card, and asked her to be his valentine >he wasn't even discreet about it >mfw he told me he walked up to her after she took morning attendance and confessed in front of the whole class >she turned him down but accepted the chocolate and said he was "sweet" >he considered this a major victory and has decided to shoot for the stars >he added 5 lbs plates to the bar he uses for his workouts >started eating sunny side up eggs to get extra protein despite hating eggs >bought him an acoustic guitar >has spent most of his free time the last week watching JustinGuitar videos on YouTube and practicing >woke up to piss this morning at 6 AM and heard him practicing in the basement >alright, so when are you going to even get a chance to play guitar for her? >at the 6th grade talent show of course! >son's elementary school has a tradition where the graduating 6th graders put on a talent show or do a lip sync performance >mfw the entire school, all of the staff, and the family of most 6th graders will be in attendance >mfw my son says he wants to sing too and recently started recording his singing with my old snowball mic so he could review his vocals
My son is either a turbo autist or based beyond my comprehension.
Should I stop him? He's not shy about it at all at the moment at least. Even when his friends tease him for having a crush on his teacher he's upbeat.
Based beyond belief. If he fucks up, it sounds like he'll just take it in stride and learn from it on his own. Once he's past this goofy 12 year old stuff, he's gonna be chad incarnate. You've done good with him imo.
Don't stop him. That's absolutely sick. Unless it's weird and I know you know the line. Your son will probably being playing in bands in a few years. Foster that drive do not stifle it.
>33 years old >10k in debt >4k in cash >no job >can't hold down job
quit 50-60k/year jobs after a couple months...done this ~10x already in the past 7 years >I'm also 5 classes away from finishing my undergrad in comp sci
The hard classes like calculus series is finished with an avg of 3.7 >That means another 2 years of full time school and about 30k in tuition to finish off a comp sci degree. >living basically off parents but contribute somewhat >hollow inside...I don't enjoy anything anymore not even cooming. >tried sobriety, nothing changes besides the money number. >maybe it's trauma maybe it's some mental illness but maybe that's just an excuse. I tried many routes tbh.
I have many issues that led me here but that's TMI. Psychologists, Religion, Jesus, drugs, nothing helps. I want to kill myself. But I won't because I'm going to die anyways.
I think I'm just going to get fit. I'm fat right now. I used to be pretty dang athletic in my late teens to early 20s. And ultimately, my life just got worse the fatter I became...That's kind of a weird epiphany to have at this very moment as I'm typing this.
Am I autistic? >baby died (7 months) >wife upset and sad >wife upset at me for not being sad
I don't think it's that big of a deal since we can just make another and it's not like infants are even people yet
1) sorry for your loss
2) I dont want to sound like a fag but its the only choice of word I have, I think your feelings are valid and I think her feelings are valid too, maybe you are bottling stuff up, maybe dont, but these are delicate subjects and I hope you can work it out without creating lasting damage on yourselves and on your relationship
Last sunday I was bored and downloaded a dating app. First girl I match with is amazing. We are a lot alike, have similar tastes, the same strange sense of humor and she even outautisms me. We talk about everything for like six hours straight: she asks me about my dreams and even gets very excited with one of them, asks to see some of my writing and feels moved by it, gives me a ton of compliments - from superficial ones about my appearance to thoughtful ones about who I am - and talks about things we should do on dates, even gets nervous about the prospect of introducing me to her family and I have remind her we haven’t even gone out yet. We send voice messages, pictures, reply to each others texts as soon as they appear and all in all she gives me that rare feeling of when you meet someone and immediately get along great, like you’ve know each other for years.
Then, I leave my cellphone asides for fifteen minutes and when I come back she’s gone. Just gone. Deleted the app while I was busy. I spent the entire week sad, although I’m fine today. Maybe it’s stupid of me to get so invested, but she was so interesting and I exposed so much of myself to her. Showing your soul to someone and having them like what they see and even encourage you to show more just for them to split hurts. Feels like they rejected you at a deeper level. I know it’s more about her and her personal issues than me - she was shy, had never dated someone before and appeared to have low self-esteem - but having someone tell you you’re a wonderful person and be so positively surprised by who you are that she indirectly asks you if she’s really your type like three different times and even jokingly says “Are you real? I can’t believe someone like you would be in a place like this” just to disappear latter hurts so much.
Women are shitty enough bro, and it's harder to find a worse playground for that stuff than on dating apps. I'd honestly just stay away from them, most chicks worth their weight aren't going to be using those seriously.
You’re not wrong, but I really don’t know where I could meet weird and smart women since this kind of people are usually huge introverts. I’ve date normie women in the past and it gets boring fast.
my life has spiraled down into a fucking nightmare during the entire year of 2022 and now I've climbed back up mentally and started dating again only for it to end in another shit heap situation and now I'm sure I got a target on my back. If I die now I don't care anymore I'm already in hell
Water please. I might try talking to a girl this week, maybe I'll even ask her out. Call me a retard, but I think ashwagandha actually works for anxiety. I started taking this stuff a week ago and I didn't even realize it was supposed to have a calming effect until I realized my heart wasn't racing all the time. If this is placebo (although I don't see how it could be if I didn't intend for it to have this effect) then I may as well strike while the iron is hot.
Be careful with ash my bro! Cycle that shit, could possibly cause PSSD just like if you were to take SSRIs since it fucks with your serotonin receptors and shit. Also watch out for anhedonia, which might sound good if youre an anxious self conscious moron like myself, but trust me, its not worth it. Literally everything that you once enjoyed or looked forward to will just not be the same.
Your pic makes me think of me with my ex’s fat ass. Breaking up was the right choice but damn I miss that ass. Wish she was cool with just having casual sex from time to time.
Yes. We were together for several years and when we broke up, I realized that I really did lose my closest friend. We've been broken up since November and I have to go back and get my stuff this week and our emails (not texts, EMAILS) to each other to coordinate this have been formal and businesslike like we're colleagues. It's fucking heartbreaking.
Something similar happened to me. Girlfriend at 19 was my best friend, but we split up. Talked off and on for years, but about ten years later we really reconnected and started a relationship again. Went through the exact same steps as before, when we broke up the second time I went no contact. Fucking sucks for a while, but now I'm married and happy. It gets better
Happened to me too. Took a couple years before I stopped thinking about her everyday. Just takes time
Yes. We were together for several years and when we broke up, I realized that I really did lose my closest friend. We've been broken up since November and I have to go back and get my stuff this week and our emails (not texts, EMAILS) to each other to coordinate this have been formal and businesslike like we're colleagues. It's fucking heartbreaking.
This makes me glad I'm a khhv, I'm sure I'd never recover from something like that
Do I only feel this anxiety due to lack of other options in my dating life? >meet hot girl >eventually date >realize I don’t like her, hate talking to her >just bitches at me about her life problems, never what’s to hear shit I have to say, complains, never says anything interesting, nothing in common etc >tons of red flags too but don’t care because planned to get better gf and just enjoy sex with hot bitch in mean time >start catching feelings anyways >have huge fight that never gets resolved over shit she said that a woman should never say to the man she’s dating >classic narcissist shit where she plays victim and says I’m the bad guy for feeling how I feel after she said what she said >break up
Want her back, wish it worked out now, start to forget her and then she starts adding me on social media and then un adding me all day long. Added her back one of the times before she un added me and she still un added me anyways. Idk why she’s doing this. Im convinced she’s just playing games with me.
I keep alternating between wishing it worked and then remembering the problems and remembering I didn’t really like her anyways.
I’ve never had this, where I actually have a woman and just don’t like her. Which isn’t to even mention an actually hot one. It feels so weird. Maybe I’m starved for affection and female attention. Idk. It feels like a 70:30 of I didn’t like her+all the issues : wishing it worked out and that the issues didn’t happen
>just bitches at me about her life problems, never what’s to hear shit I have to say
This hits way too close to a grill I'm currently chasing but I'm still trying because at least she's talking to me
Yeah I would just run honestly. I think it’s normal for a girl to bitch about things but when that’s all she talks about? Like why put up with it. For pussy? Lol. I think that if you wouldn’t put up with something or wanna deal with something from a friend or co worker that it should be no different than romantic interests.
The schizo part of my brain thinks it’s the same girl as if this isn’t a fairly common thing
How did you find out? Did you ask her out and she rejected you, or did you guys actually date and you realized form how she spoke and acted with you she wasn’t really into you?
She was giving mixed signals the entire time I talk to her. I initially asked her out, she said yes but there was "a change of plan". She turned me down ever since.
Yeah I realized with my recent ex, if you ask her out and it’s a flake/ghost, flat out rejection without any attempt to reschedule, she isn’t into you.
I asked mine out 3x and it was a flake, then rejection, then she laughed at me. Then I forgot about her and moved on and she kept trying o HMU and I would ignore her. Because of that she ended up asking me out, and I told her no. Because of that this woman hmu for years and we eventually dated. But I realized pretty early on she wasn’t into me. It was my rejection that made her lust for me.
You’ll know if a girl is into you.
couldn't have said it better myself. I just don't think women were wired to receive the constant attention and validation that's begotten by technology and social media. It goes straight to their heads. It overflows their dopamine pathway. They start thinking they're a 'bad bitch'. Pre-internet the attention a female could receive was relegated to their small town or village. Now they can upload a pic of themselves online and get 100s of guys in their DMs wanting sex.
>Most dudes just swipe yes on all. Fat bitches don’t understand this and believe hundreds of dudes swiped because they found her hott
yeah here's a funny story. I was on tinder a while ago and swiping through it when I came across this one girl. She wasn't an unattractive girl, but she wasn't a head turner either. Literally 5/10 max, if I passed her on the street I wouldn't have even noticed her t b h. And the sole sentence she had in her bio was "I'm picky". That's it. And I thought to myself this little arrogant shit, where does she get off thinking she has a right to this entitlement? But see that's the thing, she probably had literally hundreds of likes and dudes in her DMs sniffing at her ass - that's where her ego came from.
And this is what women don't understand about the dynamics male sexuality. It's a numbers game. We're not the 'choosy' sex by and large although there is variation from guy to guy. The analogy I always use is stray dogs rummaging through a dumpster in a street alley for table scraps. No one in their right mind would say "look at all those dogs gleefully feasting on those scraps! Therefore it's a 5 star meal!" Well no, they're stray dogs and desperate for food that's what they do. Women are the food, men are the dogs. Just because you, a woman (the food), has a bunch of desperately hungry 'dogs'(men) trying to get a piece of you doesn't mean you're a 5 star meal. But women receive this attention from non-choosy men and think they're inherently valuable.
See above, I think it’s relevant. They can’t handle rejection these days. May as well leverage that in our favor. I’m probably the only man who’s ever rejected that girl
>They can’t handle rejection these days. May as well leverage that in our favor. I’m probably the only man who’s ever rejected that girl
yeah brah no kidding, reminds me of the webm, I'm sure you've seen it, that's floated around on the boards some, of a guy at a club going in to kiss some girls then he pulls his head away last second to fake them out, and most of them literally get physical and try to hit him or push him away.
Women just fucking short circuit when they're rejected, because it so rarely happens to them.
Wow, does she actually just like me for me? I’m fat, I lost my gains from when I met her, I’m broke and jobless and depressed. But she doesn’t seem to care about that!
Or I wonder, is she only into me because I rejected her back then? I mean she told me she liked me too and only flaked and rejected me first because of her strict parents but that could easily be a lie.
Did I find true love or is she just like every other woman?
Then the NPD bullshit started coming out and I eventually realized what was going on. A simple “no I’m good” and you’d think this bitch thought I was prime Brad Pitt.
>severely depressed and miserable because of no social skills >yesterday actually was out with people all day >can actually at least talk to people somewhat but still feel like mostly an outsider with other people with not much to contribute to conversations >come home alone again and miserable >beautiful sunday and dont leave house
>can ride my bike for 50km even though I can feel my body collapsing, lungs struggling to breath, legs full of lactic acid >can bench (nearly) 315lbs, literally hundreds of pounds over my chest/neck >can design multi million dollar machines for work for customers including Toyota, Honda, Ford
>Friend is kind of a goofy person >Makes bad career choices >Doesn't want to get a job >Wants to go to some middle east country and teach English for a Christian missions organization >But has to fundraise money herself >Asking me for monthly donations >The whole thing feels not intelligent >Both this sketchy organization and the location >Seems like some pie in the sky white woman saves the world thing >Don't really want to give money but she gets shitty on anyone who doesn't go along with her > Claims it's gods plan when she does literally anything >Know if I don't give money a lot of my family and friends are going to give me shit because I have more money than alot of them
tell her you will actually support her financially once she is there doing it, that you will send her some money to sustain herself on site.
That way you don't seem like an asshole but you make your money count if you're gonna shell out, and it makes you look like someone sensible who cares, but not willing to invest in a losing pony.
Then just send her a few hundred bucks if she does go, which will go a long way. That way you save money too.
>start working mandatory overtime tomorrow
Going to keep sticking to my 9s and if absolutely necessary, 10s. But if those fucking cock suckers think my ass is coming in on a Saturday they can get fucked and my ass will officially be looking for a new job ASAP. OUTSIDE of construction. If you've browsed the construction thread int he catalog right now, take heed of what is being said by those telling you to stay away. This shit fucking sucks ass, man.
My left shoulder hurts so much that I can barely workout.
I'm afraid that I might have to stop and treat this, losing so much progress..
If I avoid pushing myself it almost returns to normal, just to for the pain to comeback stronger than ever after I try working out as always do.
>hate my factory job (long hours, shitty people, unfulfilling work) >autism makes me afraid I’ll make a fool of myself at a new place, and the people at my current job don’t really give a shit that I don’t talk a lot or interact all that much >current job pays the best out of available jobs in my area >no degree or anything
What’s /fit’s advice? I like the physical aspect of this job but I can’t deal with the usual construction banter, maybe it’d be good for me but idk I just can’t connect with a lot of people
how to get over somebody playing you
i wasn't even interested in this girl
she kept chasing and chasing for months
I basically gave her a chance after a while
became more sympathetic of her, even started liking her as a person
then the second I basically let her in,
she flaked on me and disappeared.
Like wtf kind of prank is this?
who gets off on pulling that shit on people?
anyways no cap I'm bitter about it
my instincts were right but I let my guard down
so how do I take this shit in stride
bc no cap I'm lowkey looking for ways to hurt this bitch back now
I wish I had an answer as far as why someone would do this or even enjoy it but I don’t. All I know it’s it’s VERY common in women.
An anon here explained to me a while ago that women are essentially sociopaths who from a young age learned to bully other girls and they did it so much that they no longer feel guilt when hurting someone.
It makes no sense how this could be fun to somebody. I imagine doing something that makes me feel good and powerful and I think of things like increasing my money, better my physique, breaking fitness records. Things that wouldn’t directly bring harm to anyone else and at most would crush other men and make them want to work harder anyways to not be bested by me.
I don’t think of things like “I know, this guy is into me and has no idea I’m a fucking nut job. I’m going to play into that, make him develop legitimate feelings for me, enjoy him treating me right, and then turn the tables on him and ghost when he feels safe and comfortable with me! Hahaha that would be so epic! I’m such an epic badass Queen, crushing innocent men! That’ll show the one guy from 7th grade who didn’t like me back! Haha!”
They’re stupid. Every experience I have with women I’m further into believing love isn’t real and that they’re literally just holes who don’t matter as people.
yeah there's something definitely wrong with this behavior. The worst part is usually I'm willing to consider someone new, even just like get to know them if they show some interest in me at first, but this time I was in a relationship so I kept my distance but I was respectful and everything. I treated her nicely, let her down easy.
I guess she didn't get the message, kept coming at me, showing interest etc. This whole thing spanned over the course of months. So after like 6-7 months of this, I sort of got to know her and in a way what I felt was like guilt or like sympathy for her bc she was still pursuing.
Anyways, after a change in my situation, I sort of opened up the door for her, you know, gave her the signals, even told her in some way ''yeah okay i think i'm ready now, im willing to give it a chance'' and then she just disappeared, legit dropped off the face of the earth.
So strange. I guess she just wanted the validation or something. she was like obsessed in a pathological way, it wasn't me she liked, it was the idea of getting it, then withdrawing.
I mean I don't lead people on. I was taken at the time. It's not like she spent 6 months in the doldrums bc I wanted her to. Like wtf I understand getting someone who leads you on back, but not me. I was just playing a fair game. Not gonna cheat while in a relationship .
There's this girl I know from my high school days that I recently got in contact with again and now she's living absolutely rent free in my head. I managed to ask her out last week and she turned me down but in a really nice way, so now I'm thinking she's just playing hard to get but I still have my doubts. I just wish things could work out this time, I don't want to be alone anymore
This past week or so I’ve felt… off. Sort of like depression. Just constant vibe of negativity, things getting to me etc. I’m not really sure where it’s came from.
literally me but I'm coming to terms with the fact that I've entered boomerhood (30) and I'm basically running on fumes, very little gas left in the tank. I could go for miles before but right now it seems like the ''off days'' are getting plentier and it's no fault of mine for trying to swim against the current. I double up my efforts (not in a retarded way), and reap half of the benefits. Oh well, I guess it's time for me to look into retirement villages.
Im back on this board. After a little over a year of decadence, bad habits, and unhealthy lifestyle choices slowly creeping back into my life, it all came to a head. Gonna grind my way into a better state. Here goes.
How do I stop being a virgin/loser? I’m 20, women aren’t interested in me and I don’t know why. I don’t think I’m ugly probably 5/10 face but I’m 5’7. I can be socially awkward sometimes but I’m trying to be more outgoing lately. What do I do to get better?
I keep getting ghosted by women on dating apps. I think I've tried everything and now it's settled on that "don't be a clown and text her, get the number, set up a date" and it's like everytime I'm let down. Granted, I won't talk to short women or fat women which probably cuts out like 90% of the market but it really gives me doubt sometimes.
Spent the weekend looking at a bicycle to buy, working on my business and watching squidbillies instead. Not giving up though but damn.
Double rum and coke please
I made it and I’m currently casually
dating 3 different women, all fit with a good face and I’m just fucking exhausted. I literally made an excuse a couple days ago to one of them why I couldn’t go back to her place after we had dinner, in reality I went home to drink alone and play video games. Something is fucking wrong here lads, I have so much in common with one of them (South Korean princess that looks good without makeup) but I literally feel nothing for any of them. I think ignoring women entirely for a good 5 years has fucked up my capacity to form an intimate relationship emotionally and I think my profession has further warped my mind to the point I just don’t have much in common with regular people anymore. And in case you incels are wondering get on bumble to find girls who aren’t slag, at least that’s what I’ve found in my area.
today I came home from cardio and just felt so emotional like a bitch for the rest of the day and binged on a ton of goyslop. must have been some kind of emotional release
i'm starting uni in around 6 months from now, in the meanwhile i got a job that requires me only a dozen hours a week so i'm thinking about learning some skill or maybe taking up a course. any suggestion anons?
Yeah man, we broke up about 6 months ago
At this point, she must have been with a lot of guys, having fun and forgetting that I exist, while I'm here eating egg, chicken and potato everyday, scrolling through IST and having flashbacks about our time together.
I have tried to meet other girls, but i got rejected by all, so I stopped
I live in Brazil, we are currently in Carnaval, but I don't have friends to go out, I'm all alone in my house because I have to work while everybody is partying, even my family
However, I'm used to this lifestyle, I've lived like this for almost 30 years
Everyone's here partying all week for carnaval
Broke up with gf, no friends
Sitting here finishing a report for work
I broke up with her for a reason, and she wouldn't have wanted to go out anyways, but at least >I stayed in with the gf
Would feel better than >I spent the biggest party of the year alone, working and watching youtube
I'll have a better gf and friends next year though
Oh fuck, olá irmão
Keep trying, there's girls worth going out and getting drenched in the rain in stupid costumes waiting for us
Everyone's here partying all week for carnaval
Broke up with gf, no friends
Sitting here finishing a report for work
I broke up with her for a reason, and she wouldn't have wanted to go out anyways, but at least >I stayed in with the gf
Would feel better than >I spent the biggest party of the year alone, working and watching youtube
I'll have a better gf and friends next year though
>feel like i have really great chemistry with this girl i work with >have great conversations with her and always manage to make her laugh hard as fuck with my jokes >she's always putting her hands on me (touching my shoulder, touching my neck, playfully punching me) >she's the one who asked for my number and is always the one to text first, but she never replies to my replies, even when I'm asking questions and trying to keep the conversation going >never wants to spend time alone together even to just grab lunch
it seems like she's just using me for attention and i fucking hate it
She is using you Anon, don't fall into the trap. She wants you to give her constant attention to make herself feel worth. If you really want her you can just ignore her, she would feel distressed by this and try to be more active with you.
>Spend most of my college years thinking I was weird and ugly >Looking back at old photos of myself today >I was kinda hot
My sense of style was shit, but that could have been fixed. I'm only 25 and I feel like I wasted my youth.
Its never too late Anon
https://i.imgur.com/WS3KWVU.jpg
Thawing out the ice between me and my “one”… I made her this card… work is going pretty damn well. Im 4 months into an entirely new industry working for a multimillion dollar company and im already catching the attention of the C-suite executives for all the right reasons; boss pulled me aside and told me he’s going to start grooming me to replace him one day down the road… been working on a project with my father the last few weeks getting to make up for lost time, just got to see my mother’s side of family for the first time in 4 years… life is looking good as I gear up to get released back into society after so many moons away.
To any anon out there struggling to keep going, or lacking the motivation to get started — faith and hard work will always create the circumstances necessary to become “lucky” in life.
Good work Anon, any advice on how to get ahead in work life? I am in a similar position myself.
What the other person said, ignore her and she'll immediately start chasing you. If she doesn't chase you then you also have your answer in that she doesn't give a shit about you at all that you aren't talking to her anymore.
I dealt with a situation just like this. Brother anon, you are dealing with an attention whore. Her goal is to keep you wrapped around her finger for free validation, usually because these types of women are insanely insecure. She has no plans of dating you... Right now. That can change.
My advice? Keep her in your phone, don't sperg out. When she hits you up, and she will, reply only to what she asks. DO NOT put any effort at all into keeping the convo going. If she asks how your day is going, literally just reply >good
or whatever. DO NOT ask her a thing or show any interest. You're basically communicating you're wise to her game and are not playing it, but you're still open to her if she stops. I won't lie, most of the time these types of women don't see you as a date once they get up to this BS. But there's always a chance. Whatever you do, don't allow her to wrap you around her finger. I'm speaking from experience.
I dealt with a situation just like this. Brother anon, you are dealing with an attention whore. Her goal is to keep you wrapped around her finger for free validation, usually because these types of women are insanely insecure. She has no plans of dating you... Right now. That can change.
My advice? Keep her in your phone, don't sperg out. When she hits you up, and she will, reply only to what she asks. DO NOT put any effort at all into keeping the convo going. If she asks how your day is going, literally just reply >good
or whatever. DO NOT ask her a thing or show any interest. You're basically communicating you're wise to her game and are not playing it, but you're still open to her if she stops. I won't lie, most of the time these types of women don't see you as a date once they get up to this BS. But there's always a chance. Whatever you do, don't allow her to wrap you around her finger. I'm speaking from experience.
hm, i do the same thing the girl does, and girls always reply. i think as a man, when this happens to you, just show interest, its fine. when i text girls outta nowhere after a long time, they are always happy, and i like that. if the girl does this to you, just be normal, answer her and ask her back what she asked u, and ask her to chill. who cares? u shud be talking to 2-3 girls a day and asking for their numbers anyways. eventually, u will have more girls than u can handle.
>feel like i have really great chemistry with this girl i work with >have great conversations with her and always manage to make her laugh hard as fuck with my jokes >she's always putting her hands on me (touching my shoulder, touching my neck, playfully punching me) >she's the one who asked for my number and is always the one to text first, but she never replies to my replies, even when I'm asking questions and trying to keep the conversation going >never wants to spend time alone together even to just grab lunch
it seems like she's just using me for attention and i fucking hate it
I dealt with a situation just like this. Brother anon, you are dealing with an attention whore. Her goal is to keep you wrapped around her finger for free validation, usually because these types of women are insanely insecure. She has no plans of dating you... Right now. That can change.
My advice? Keep her in your phone, don't sperg out. When she hits you up, and she will, reply only to what she asks. DO NOT put any effort at all into keeping the convo going. If she asks how your day is going, literally just reply >good
or whatever. DO NOT ask her a thing or show any interest. You're basically communicating you're wise to her game and are not playing it, but you're still open to her if she stops. I won't lie, most of the time these types of women don't see you as a date once they get up to this BS. But there's always a chance. Whatever you do, don't allow her to wrap you around her finger. I'm speaking from experience.
its only an issue cause you dont have a rotation. but either way, u need to screen her, like what do YOU want from her? gf? sex? dinner? coffee?
Thawing out the ice between me and my “one”… I made her this card… work is going pretty damn well. Im 4 months into an entirely new industry working for a multimillion dollar company and im already catching the attention of the C-suite executives for all the right reasons; boss pulled me aside and told me he’s going to start grooming me to replace him one day down the road… been working on a project with my father the last few weeks getting to make up for lost time, just got to see my mother’s side of family for the first time in 4 years… life is looking good as I gear up to get released back into society after so many moons away.
To any anon out there struggling to keep going, or lacking the motivation to get started — faith and hard work will always create the circumstances necessary to become “lucky” in life.
>Spend most of my college years thinking I was weird and ugly >Looking back at old photos of myself today >I was kinda hot
My sense of style was shit, but that could have been fixed. I'm only 25 and I feel like I wasted my youth.
The relationship failed, but Im 27 and was dating a 21 year old for a bit. I know a guy who was 32 and dating a hot 19 year old. You're the only person who decides if you can or cant.
>be me >born in a 3rd world shithole country with materialistic whores, average 2 digit IQ people and exorbitant taxes fucking everything >being extremely social awkward, feeling lonely and hopeless, only finding a distraction in lifting, vidya and books >miles away from my family, weekends resumes in eating shit, porn and crying on my bed
when will these feelings of emptiness and constant pain will be gone ? i don't want to kill myself, mom and dad doesn't deserve to suffer.
the only way to make it into the third world without money or status is to become a local folk hero
there's a few ways you can go about
either you join a criminal organisation which is morally grey like helps the people from time to time, creates more local ''black'' economy than the government kek, or you kill some high political figure that everyone hates and then everybody will be like ''legend!'' and you will become a folk hero by virtue of what you did for the community of ridding it of some corrupt rich fag or something.
Anyways if I really lived in the slums I would 100% dark hero maxx and start looking for a heroic goal regardless of criminal doings or no. Breh you're already bottom of the barrel, why are you still following laws kek...Just become a fucking mafioso or something lel you got nothing to lose
or I forgot to mention, you can join the army but if you do you need to get into officer school and from the get go you need to really start sucking dick upstairs and taking out your peers, like damaging their reputation, baiting them into traps etc...
You need to go full machiavellian dictator in the making if you want to make it to top of the crop 3rd world war general who may or may not try and overthrow the government towards end of career.
So that's another option but this one is more than a long con and you really gotta suck miles of figurative cock to get to the top and it's high risk because they will take you out if you don't have the right friends.
Those of you that have been in long term relationships before, how many dates did you go on before becoming official? I’m pretty autistic about relationships but I’ve been on 5 dates with this girl I’m seeing now. Idk how you go from dating to being bf/gf. Do I ask her at some point or do you just date until it’s sort of implied? I’ve never been in this position before as an adult but I feel like 5 dates is enough that one of us would’ve broken it off/ghosted by now if they weren’t feeling it. But idk. Please advise.
smoking weed, jerking off, porn, gambling, eating junk food, sleeping less than 8 hours, feeling reptilian emotionless, no real friends, no social interaction, no gf obviously, no productive hobbies other than lifting, abusive childhood, inheritance, 6 feet tall, six pack, white, above average face/jaw/eyes, diffuse balding (fuck), no direction in life, will end up doing something really stupid due to severe boredom and zero life experience
Water, please.
My bf has a job lined up after his last semester at a dam (he's a mech. E). I still have about 1.5 years left. I want to stay together with him, but I've heard LDR don't really work, and I'm not sure what to do.
>since New Years lost 25 pounds >Last Sunday binged for super bowl >on Monday had this friend hangout >Valentine’s Day my miserable ass ate fast food >Friday, Saturday, and just now ate fast food
I’ve been doing great. I don’t know what it is where I neither feel like working out (I still have everyday), nor do I feel like dieting. I’m still a good 40 pounds from my goal weight, I was super close to a clean 30 pounds lost. It’s almost like I’ve gotten a sense of “meh, close enough, I’m done”. Like this week I’ll wake up with “damn ok let’s get back on the horse”. And nope, here I am finishing off my Taco Bell combo dinner.
youre rationalizing your poor diet habits
all of those events dont require you to eat anything
im that guy that doesnt even eat cake at a birthday party
feels like I'm living in some prison hell, nothing feels right, like the wrong timeline, this place these people, this vibe, this lifestyle it's all not the vibe.
can't get out, can't break free, don't know what to do.
not living, not thriving, not having fun, just surviving, nothing really to work towards, spend alot of time just laying down because nothing sounds fun.
I'll take a glass of the whiskey+vodka mix. Got a question for the lads here. How can I meet new women if I work remotely? I'm 22, already have a career and spend 99% of my time inside working as a codemonkey. Whenever I get the chance, I actually try to go to social events, but it's extremely rare, and even more infrequent for me to meet a woman I'm interested in, through those events. Last time this happened was like a month ago, I reconnected with a chick there but eventually the whole thing slowly died down. In the rare occasion I go outside and find someone attractive, I actually try to approach them. How do you WFH lada meet more women? Does it all boil down to using dating apps? I'll go meditate for a while and sleep, hopefully I'll be able to lucid dream today and think about this issue.
I got back from lvlup expo. Didn't cosplay but I got some autographs from, and a big tittied model wanted to post with me because of my shirt. Things are looking up
First day at the gym yesterday. Very apparent that my dominant arm (left) is a bit weaker than my right because I had trouble keeping them together during the first reps but other than that, I think it went pretty well.
>went on coffee date with cute chick from hinge yesterday >i thought the date went pretty well >she completely ghosts me after
i'm not new to dating and i've been on the apps for quite a while now, but this is the first time i've been outright ghosted after a first date in a while. kinda sucks tbh.
oh well, on to the next one, got another date lined up on wednesday lol
The date probably did go well, that doesn't save you from being ghosted. Shit, dude get ghosted by their wives/mother of their kids. There is no amount of connection you can have with a woman that she can't instantly mentally break off from you, ditched you, and not look back.
This isn't a defect btw, it's a biological feature. Women don't grow as attached to men because historically their men would get slaughtered then they'd have to give up their pussy to the new men and better not still be pining over the old ones or try to save the old ones or die themselves. Only the genes of women open to having sex with the new men and forget about the old got passed on, largely. Meanwhile, you're programmed to protect and attach to your women because you need to protect them to pass on your own genes.
In July, God used my friend to bring a woman into my life. Despite being a walking red flag, she loved me, and was very cute. After several months of continuously saying I don't think I can be her boyfriend, she now has fallen in love with my friend, the one who introduced us.
I know she is crazy, manipulative, selfish, etc., and I know I saved myself a bad relationship. I know I can find a better woman.
I'm using this situation as fuel to transform myself into a better person, learning my lessons, and trusting God's plan (which involves not fucking crazy muslims)
I told myself I have forgiven my friend, but It takes considerable effort to not hate him.
As for chasing women? Chase your wife not bitches. Lonely? Love yourself and enjoy your solitude, with a girlfriend, its gone.
wtf is your problem bro? Why do you think you are entitled to ''forgive'' your friend? wtf did he do, he introduced you to someone, you didn't want the goods?
Jesus what an ungrateful little righteous prick. You reek of being a judgmental little goody too shoes and honestly I pity your friend. God knows what that girl really is like.
Keep trusting God's plan, hopefully he sends some heavy judgment your way and big karma when you realize nobody was ever good enough in your eyes, you little narcissist.
>I told myself I have forgiven my friend, but it takes considerable effort not to hate him.
LMAO the gall, the audacity even of this prick
>wtf is your problem bro?
A lot of things bro. Depression first of all. >Why do you think you are entitled to ''forgive'' your friend?
The fuck are you talking about. I talked to him about me and her dating and he said it would be a bad idea. I thought he had no interest in her, and then suddenly he does. I feel betrayed, but I know I set this situation up, so I don't have any real justification for being upset. I can't blame him for falling for the same girl as me, but I think its a horrible idea.
I don't know what your problem is or what you mean by "entitled to ''forgive" my friend. Me choosing to forgive him is something I do for myself and for him, entitlement has nothing to do with it. >ungrateful little righteous prick
Ungrateful? Ya, I can get nihilistic and depressed and do stupid self-destructive things. Righteous? Maybe, I think righteousness is the best way to live. >Judgemental? I make a concerted effort not to be. >hopefully he sends some heavy judgment your way and big karma when you realize nobody was ever good enough in your eyes, you little narcissist
I know I have karma and judgement to live out, that's why I'm trying to become a better person. Narcissist? No, thats what she is. >I hope you lose him.
I don't care.
Idk whats going on in your life, but you are extremely negative and hostile. I hope you can improve your attitude to better the lives of yourself, and the people around you.
okay then you used the word introduced her wrong, in this context it means that he set you up with her, hence why i assumed that it was shitty of you to be angry. But regardless he was her friend/orbiter friend, if anyone has a right to be angry, it's him when he has been chasing her and suddenly the moment he introduces you, you're on her too...
so basically you just mean she was his friend and some day you all hung out and you decided to pursue her? Whilst he had been on her since prior?
Bro how are you the one angry again? You might need to take a step back and look at this a bit more objectively than you think.
Sorry, I skipped out the deets
He (C) randomly asked me if I wanted to go downtown to meet a girl and her friend. She is an international student in the country for 1 year, and she knew ANOTHER mutual friend (N) of ours. N wasn't able to make it to meet her so C asks me.
C had a girlfriend at the time, in july. I hadn't been close friends with a woman in a few years. She said im her bestfriend, so I called her bluff, we started talking every day and fucking a few weeks after that, and continued as this in-between status for 3-4 months.
During this time, I would see her myself, or sometimes C would come along. There was another girl in our friend group at the time who liked C, and everyone thought they would get together.
C knew my feelings were complex, I really enjoyed this girl a lot, she's loving and sweet, but BPD (including threatening SH + has scars). Everything I read online says just run away.
It comes to a head when he and her see each other without me all night and day, try to say they're just friends, try to say im being obsessed and possessive for caring, and then revealing they developed feelings for each other "after talking".
>Bro how are you the one angry again?
I was angry at the situation for a few hours and then I've just moved forward. We don't hang together, but to think of him getting all of her love inspires jealousy which I know is weak.
I told my friend dating her is a bad idea, but if they can make each other happy, good, I will make myself happy.
Even if it was fake, and even if I'd flirted/fucked around with girls before, I don't think I've experienced love like this. And know my friend is peeling it away from me to try for himself. Its foul and painful, but I set this situation up, I deserve it, and its just.
okay then tell the whole story otherwise I'll just assume y'all are teenagers who are gossiping drama about nothing. I thought first of all that you and the girl were just talking. big fucking difference. second i didnt know the guy was in a relationship and that you are technically still seeing her whilst she and him run off...See you need to be descriptive because at first read I just thought you led her on for a little bit whilst having doubts then she changed her mind and got with your friend without anything ever happening...
Anyways yeah I get feeling sour about the betrayal but honestly this whole friend group sounds really high hypergamy sex orgy vibes and I can see why you'd want to steer away from these degenerates who cock-hop.
good luck on your journey but for the love of god, tell the whole story first next time.
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Sorry for mistelling the story. I should have simplified with my friend and my ex-lover. >second i didnt know the guy was in a relationship and that you are technically still seeing her whilst she and him run off
We weren't really. She had said she hates me and blocked me like 7 times at this point. >this whole friend group sounds really high hypergamy sex orgy vibes
My friend works with and is friends with lots of women. When we met C, his gf was angry at him the entire night for being out with other girls.
At this years NY party I didn't attend, ppl were saying how he was obnoxiously hitting on girls. When we'd drink, the girl who liked him would have her legs on C and they were very comfortable together, of course I didn't assume he'd also be interested in this other crazy chick.
SHE is very touchy and affectionate. At one party, there was like 6 of us, 4 guys 2 girls on her bed chilling at once.
This shit is fun but degenerate. Call me a narcissist, but I know im built for better things than being an alcoholic loser clown chasing crazy college girls
I've had a lot of strange dreams the last couple weeks. I think I should get rid of a lot of possessions that I'm attached to in an unhealthy way.
The first dream >be me in bed >wake up >immediately reach and grab iphone from beside my bed >look up porn on safari and start beating off >wake up for real >confused as fuck
The second dream >I'm in bed, my consciousness is drifting >It's obvious I'm dying, my family has come and they're squeezed into my shitty basement apartment, their heads scraping the ceiling, their shoulders pressed against one another. >My brother leans over me as I dictate how my meager possessions will be dealt with... "and the password for my bank account is.... ... transfer everything to yourself and close it" >"And one last thing" >My family is somewhat surprised since they thought I had divided everything >"If you open my minecraft server you'll find a chest in the jungle biome with several stacks of iron... I want you to have it" >My brother's face becomes red and angry, frustrated. My family becomes concerned. Their inquiring voices drown me as I slip back out and wake up
I'm going to get rid of my gaming headphones at least. I used to take so much joy in small things I'd notice, now Im so busy listening to cumtown reruns that I don't notice anything
Trying to eat healthy, hit the gym, bulk up, tan, operate a household, work, study and have a social life is fucking killing me bros. I feel like any free time I get, is me slacking off from what I'm supposed to be doing, or I'm sleeping. Like bruh how to become a beast when my whole life is a constant struggle for balance?
So this chick im dating is not the most consistent with texts and it irritates me. I have however concluded that she's just a naturally skittish and all over the place type of person. I took her virginity and i was her first date if that matters.
Should I withdraw attention or just bring this up calmly??
If you took her virginity and think she's showing signs of skittishness there's probably a FUCKTON of benign neuroticism (eg. anxiety) she's keeping hidden from you that results in her missing/not replying to texts. I wouldn't think worse of her until she demonstrates bad intent... remember that women don't know what they do to men.
Well, what's the actual issue? Is she not replying to your texts fast enough? If that's all you're worried about, you can just ask her if she doesn't check her phone much. I guarantee you'll get an answer that either confirms that she doesn't, or some stumbling story about how she's nervous and doesn't know how to reply.
I'm cautioning you against jumping to feeling disrespected because again, she'll have no idea she's doing that to you.
I just want her to be more consistent. One time she didn't reply until the next morning updating me on where she's been. I just feel irritated by it and as such have already started talking to other women. She mostly likely isn't aware (she's inexperienced and younger than me significantly). So do I bring it up? Because bringing it up and doing mature things isn't the sexiest to a woman
If you're irritated by it to the point you're talking to other people, bring it up with her. Can't really get worse. You need to think about what not bringing it up with her looks like. If you're just going to be quietly annoyed at her forever until you drop her out of the blue, what's the point?
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Alright make a good point. Do i also mention im talking to other chicks?
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she should naturally know that. no girl is looking at me thinking i aint playing her.
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How do I make her know then when we've been implicitly exclusive? Do i just say >your inconsistent communication is irritating and honestly makes me think why i shoulf i be only talking to you
Se ainda tiver algum brasileiro aqui eu estou disposto a encontrar vocês durante o carnaval. Não ter ninguém pra sair é uma bosta e as poucas pessoas que eu conheci irl que frequentavam esse buraco eram legais. Sou de sp btw.
Posted this in the thread last week but here it is >Just turned 25 >Contract welder >Saved up decent amount of money the last few years ($40K, no debt) >Planning on moving once my current gig expires, which will be in April >Planning on moving to a whole new area, not sure where yet but have a couple ideas >Going to block everyone I know, including family
And just going to restart anew. I hope it all works out. I'm about 80% decided on doing this, there is still that little part of my brain that is telling me not to. But I think its for the best.
We're not all going to make it, but I'm trying my best to.
From experience I can say it might take a decade to happen, but you'll eventually come to regret cutting absolutely everyone off unless they're all horrible people. That said, time away from them and time to reflect could be helpful.
I don't consider them "horrible". Most of them, anyway. My dad was pretty bad, I think me, my brother, and my older sister are proof enough of that. I am the only "normal-ish" one. My sister turned into a huge thot, and I am pretty sure she is a drug addict. My brother is a flaming homosexual and he also cross-dresses. I'm just a quiet gym dude, don't really have any vices or oddities beyond being pretty far-right politically (hence why I am so ashamed of this situation). Deep down part of my conscience seems to know you're right. But there is still pretty much every other fiber of my being pulling me away telling me to abandon everything and truly chisel a new life from bare stone.
i want a bf who likes cats and isn't a coomer. i'll make you dinner every night and hold you when you feel sad. all you have to do is genuinely love me back
I want friends so badly and I think its starting to drive me insane. >Personally a little bit odd (hence being here) >Have gf who also has her quirks and we get along very well >Ez job, lotsa savings, etc >ALWAYS wish I had a group of lads to go out and do anything with
I'm fresh out of uni and I've almost nothing to show for it. My job is a means to an end and my coworkers are typical normies + older than me by a bit. I'm grateful for all that I have but I genuinely don't know how to make male friends. I've got some bad experiences with female friends so I really just want bros at this point. I swear everyone in my city has joined some stupid rock climbing club just to socialize but I don't care for rock climbing. I'm highly tempted to get back into MTG but I also heard there is a ton of SJW garbage now.
Except for those made in highschool/uni/gym, where did you meet your bros?
Yeah man. Just go bob your head with some of the lads who are checking out ladies and start talking to them. They'll be receptive. Nothing horny men looking for tail want more than to talk to some guy.
idk how to deal with heartbreak, I'm 28, fucking too old but I feel deep. Honestly no clue if this was God's plan, but I am praying for the Lord to help me and I'm struggling to see how this was good in any way or how it will be. I make idols out of relationships, but this one seemed to be different
Don't worry bro, all your suffering is totally just character development orchestrated for you by God. He totally has something good coming for you and cares about you.
Not gonna lie bros, the pain of having no GF is starting to get intense. I didn't care for a pretty good amount of time because my kratom addiction caused my balls to shrink but now it's starting to get to me. Until recently I couldn't drive because of a DUI but that's finally ending at least. I also am racist
Yeah I’m fucked either way. But it’s better to die alone than torture myself with people who are either disgusted by me or pity me. On the bright side without distractions I can prioritize lifts.
I'm trying to get with the girl in the friend group who's known as "the one that doesn't text anyone back" and I'm already getting worn out. I got my false hopes up when she responded within 3 hours only to not respond for the rest of the day. I'm not even at the asking her out step yet, but she wants to do a group activity with just me and another couple so I'd call that a step in the right direction. I'm not sure if I should say something light like "she lives!" or something harsher next time she responds to me because I'm not actually sure if anyone's said anything to her about her texting habits.
>I might try calling over text
for fucking what you autist? If she doesn't want to text what makes you think she'll want to talk on the phone? Why don't you just hang out with her in real life? There is no umbilical cord binding yall, you don't have to be constantly connected 24/7. Just ask her to hang out if you want to spend time with her.
>for fucking what you autist?
for making plans to do stuff or meet up/hang out >If she doesn't want to text what makes you think she'll want to talk on the phone?
Well given she's called me in the past why not >Why don't you just hang out with her in real life?
That's what I'm trying to do
Bros, there are these 2 girls that want to do a threesome with me, well 1 girl wants to do it more than the other or at least she is more vocal about it. How the fuck do i do that ? I never even brought a condom in my life, im a virgin. I don`t know what to do with 1 , let alone 2. Im a bit older and i guess they think i know a thing or 2. But i feel like it would be stupid of me to not try at least.
are these girls in the room with us right now, anon?
no, but i was in their room Saturday
sex is natural, just go with the flow and put up an act
true, but like i said, i think they expect a performance from me, I dont even know what to do to make a girl cum, what do i do if i bust too soon. At least there are 2 so they'll help each other. One think i know is that i should do no fap(scared i have the deathgrip syndrome), i have this week or 2 until we meet again. Should i jerk off the day before ?
oh sorry, i thought i said that for some reason its blocked for me
If you’re not used to the feeling of a bagina you better jack off and shower before meeting them. Last thing you want is to American Pie yourself in front of TWO girls.
I’d never rent a woman but if you’re this worried you might as well try it. Ar the very least a prozzy can help you realize what parts of sec you like the most.
good advice
Everyone’s first time is gonna suck. You could just do it, be subpar and disappointed, but you did it. Even if it sucks you still have bragging rights. As long as your dick isn’t tiny and you look half decent without a shirt you won’t embarrass yourself, women always talk shit about sexual experiences anyway at least you have an excuse. Just pretend to be gigachad the entire time and maybe have some drinks if that helps.
Hey, the only ones that could be disappointed are them. Like you said, bragging right, did a 3some and no longer a virgin. My dick is average and i have a good body but im pretty hairy. oh yes definitely a bottle or 2 of wine. Hope i will be fake gigachadding good enough, they have this 50 shades of gray strong make type of fetish
Don’t even think about their enjoyment. As long as you just take it for what it is and you’re sandwiched between to naked women afterwards you’ll be hit with ecstasy, you’ll be untouchable and your lifts will skyrocket which lets be honest, is the only thing that matters in comparison.
If you’re not used to the feeling of a bagina you better jack off and shower before meeting them. Last thing you want is to American Pie yourself in front of TWO girls.
I’d never rent a woman but if you’re this worried you might as well try it. Ar the very least a prozzy can help you realize what parts of sec you like the most.
Everyone’s first time is gonna suck. You could just do it, be subpar and disappointed, but you did it. Even if it sucks you still have bragging rights. As long as your dick isn’t tiny and you look half decent without a shirt you won’t embarrass yourself, women always talk shit about sexual experiences anyway at least you have an excuse. Just pretend to be gigachad the entire time and maybe have some drinks if that helps.
Feeling grateful to be alive. Life has become so clear and hopeful, fulfilling one goal after another. Never have we been given such a perfect historical window to crush the government. It motivates and impassions me each day, like a bright spark of hope that drives me to push on towards another day.
Like an animal that dreams of one day breaking its cage and roaming free, like an artist that dreams of their career making performance, I dream of a revolution and the collective overthrow of the state.
I replaced drinking with drugs, then slipped back into drink, now I'm coming to terms about being a straight addict. I'm also getting complimented on weight loss despite not earning it.
Just bought a vape and cannabis products after quitting for 2 months because I'm bored and none of the motivation I thought would come back as a result of quitting did.
I have to be up early for a new job in a few hours. Been stressing all day, barely left the house and all I can think about is how I'll end up being the office autist again.
I hate this shit, because at the end of the day, nobody cares, but then why even try getting to talk to people?
Is staying up listening to metal a bad idea? Won't be able to sleep anyway
been in that position myself anon. My advice would be to focus on learning the job, if your co-workers see that you’re trying your best and no one can really dislike you. Be kind but don’t seem desperate/flatter people. But i’m a fellow autist so idk if this is the best advice
As for myself, not fitness related but my mental health is in the shitter. Was abused growing up and all my efforts at fixing the resultant anxiety have been mildly effective at best. Have moments of improvement before feeling in despair again. i’m a medfag and its hard to act normal on placement when i’m not doing well on the inside. not sure what to do, dont want to accept that i’ll be like this forever but i'm losing hope
>focus on learning the job
I did that for jobs in the past, but people are always trying to get you to talk about yourself, or you'll see coworkers chatting all casual while I'm stressing over spreadsheets. At the end of the day, if you can't communicate, it stunts your career a lot. >Was abused growing up and all my efforts at fixing the resultant anxiety have been mildly effective at best.
What specific changes worked for you? I'm sorry to hear about your abuse, have you been able to speak to someone about it? As for mental health, success isn't a straight line, don't be out down by occasional low periods.
i see, eventually i found people accepted me but im not sure if thats what normally happens. Also having things to look forward to outside of work might relieve some of the stress. Wishing you all the best for tomorrow, no matter what happens it'll pass and you'll have overcome a fear >What changes worked for you?
Moving away from home and having good people around me made a big difference. Outside of that having a good sleep schedule, exposure therapy, gym, clean diet, supplements (magnesium, zinc, vit d/k), and nofap even though its a meme have been helpful. The desire to live a better life gives me the motivation to keep going, I haven't tried therapy yet but I probably should. >success isn't a straight line, don't be out down by occasional low periods.
wise words, thanks anon
I quit alcohol for good now
No wonder I stayed away from that garbage for most of my life
This year I will atone for past mistakes
I burned my past completely and threw away everything I didn’t need anymore >quit my low paying wage cuck job >sold my motorcycle got rid of all my gear >signed up for trade school
I threw it all away to start fresh this time
I walked away from it all to start a new and better life
So far the best decision I made
>chick I have absolutely no intention of dating or fucking asked me out >was so surprised (only happened once before) that I said yes, going to grab a coffee with her >thinking if I should at least give her a chance, but I just don't find her attractive at all, so I would be lying to both of us
tf do I do now? should I just go along with the date and make it clear that I just want to be friends?
I'm not going to ghost her as much as I'd like to do it, that's just shitty and I respect that she had enough courage to ask me out
I wish nogf was the worst of my problems.
I fell too deep into the self improoover memes, and just feel apathetic and hollow. I feel stuck in the solace of "literally me" media shit now, and I know it's only making things worse.
I have no drive to continue on with my job and that which used to bring me good feelings are either bad for me (the junk food I would binge on) or are just par for the course (lifting and reading).
Yup. I feel this. 1 years ago I lost 140lbs and got down to 200. I've been lifting and trying to get bigger but I feel like everyone has abandoned me. I got to the finish line (of losing weight) and no one was there. I feel selfish, empty and lonely. I was unironically happier at 340lbs playing video games all day.
I feel like I have been completely rejected by society. No amount of self improving will help me because of this hole I have inside. I've missed out on so many experiences that my age group has gone through. I'll always be an outsider. Every social interaction is like trying to swim upstream. Maybe one day it'll be my turn.
Only had to work on my thesis this year and I didn't do jack shit
I want to die
what's stopping you then?
What stops you from roundhouse kicking a morongay?
I'm a fraud of the highest order and can't produce anything
The only way I'm getting a gf is if I switch my brain off and don't think about it too much but I don't really want to do that but I also would like intimacy
I want to roundhouse kick a moron
I would do anything to pass this fucking condition of mine onto someone that fucking deserves the horror and pain of it
Did you just get diagnosed recently or is it something you've been struggling with for awhile?
I hear voices anon. That's what it is. I can't go more than a week without these fucking cocksucking voices acting up and telling me "WE CONTROL YOU NOW YOU"RE GOING TO have a nice day" bullshit like that
just share what it is, fag
depression
Shut up gay. It ain't no pussy shit like MUH DEPRESSION
I AM FINALLY BACK IN THE GYM AFTER BEING SICK FOR A WEEK FUCK YEAAAAAH
I LOVE LIFE
I LOVE MY SPASTIC GF
I LOVE HARDSHIPS AND STRUGGLE
LIFE IS GOOD
WAGMI
>THE MAN YOU ARE TOMORROW MUST BRUTALLY MOG THE MAN YOU ARE TODAY
I'll have some choccy milk, thanks.
>catch a slight cold
>take 1 day off lifting to recover, then continue as usual
>seem to be getting better
>fuck it, decide to go to some rave out of curiosity
>get very sick 2 days later, fever, coughing, shivering
>that was Monday, I am still sick and won't be able to go to the gym for at least 1 more week
reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee why was I so retarded
Should've gotten the vaccine, fag.
I did...
Should've gotten double boosted and worn a mask, fag.
Did get double boosted, did not wear a mask. Who the fuck wears a mask at a rave? I had to show off my beautiful face.
I’m in a telegram with a pedophile that impregnated a 15 year old child and talks to kids on discord daily, im currently in the process of buying body armor and more bullets. After I’m done purchasing everything I will drive out to his location and kill him in Minecraft since the police or the glowies I contacted don’t want to do anything about it
Only do it if you know for near certain you can get away with it. Otherwise GL and incredibly based
How do you plan to get away with this? I mean, you already tried to sic the police on him, and if they're going to investigate his homicide, you must ensure that you're beyond reproach if you don't want to go to prison for murder.
Probably go to South America or something right after I do it (I have some contacts there), im low key hoping glowies contact me directly for posting some shit like this online and I can send them all the vile shit he’s done directly
>15yo
Whatever insecurities you have that are driving you to this level myopic kneejerking won't be solved by violence.
15 year old is not a child. I can't believe when society tells you that 15 years old is a child, you believe them. Have you ever met a 15 year old woman? they are desperate for cock. Not kidding btw.
This I unironically true. The 15 year old women AND guys in my sophomore year of high school were all desperate for sex.
Actually fucking end yourself
>be me work at family biz
>family biz is fairly successful and affluent by middle America's standards. Not "my kids are going to Yale" well off, but comfortable upper middle class well off.
>on good terms with this Boomer who comes in on the regular.
>knows I'm single from chit chat.
>showed me pics of his granddaughter and wants to introduce us
>she wasn't ugly, but I wasn't knocked off my feet either
>agree to meet anyway because I was always kind of a sperg and thought it be a nice opportunity for social gains, and who knows if I keep an open mind I may like her.
>walking in to meet granddaughter with Boomer. He's conversating and ask how much money I have.
>I say "not much actually" which wasn't a lie. Despite coming from a family with plenty of economic security I was never given that much because my father was a typical Regan "pull yourself up by your bootstraps" conservative, so I was made to work from an early age.
>he then proceeds to laugh it off and say "I'm just trying to help my granddaughter out haha", "Just busting your balls anon"
>even though, still puts a really sour taste in my mouth
Am I just being fucking austic by kind of taking offence to that? On one hand I understand the practicality of choosing a partner, I wouldn't want someone from a deadbeat family either given the choice. But on the other hand, the romantic side of me wants to say fuck you dude. You really invited me to meet your granddaughter simply because you thought I came from a family with money? Met a girl that is friends with another girl (let's call her anonette) that used to have a crush on me back in highschool. And she said that anonette said reminiscently "yeah if I ended up with anon I would have been set for life since his family owns X business". Are all women just natural gold diggers? Can't I just find someone who likes me for me? Is actual romance truly possible, or am I just being to sappy?
Thanks for reading my blog to those who bothered.
Maybe you misunderstood the guy ? He might be just checking that you can “carry yourself” you know ? But you took it as an insult.
like I said, I met him through work. He knows I'm not a deadbeat without a job that spends all his time smoking pot and playing vidya. I guess it's possible I misunderstood him. But I doubt it.
there's nothing worse than a rich fag with a chip on his shoulder. Imagine the chip on your shoulder being having money....wow
really can't think of any other problem to have, huh?
Nah , after reading again his post he can’t love other for they are and expect them to love for what he is , lmao.
you sound like a fucking retard.
There is a non-trivial, non-zero chance that I will get laid within the next week. Lend me your power IST! I need to not fuck things up AND I need factors beyond my control to be in my favor
hope you have better luck than I've been having recently brah lol. I'll send you the energy from my squat PR today your way.
Thank you friend. This dry spell is killing me. Nice work on the PR btw. What'd you get?
thanks brah tree fiddy.
Sending you my energy AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
You sperg out infront of her and you'll go home alone, digits confirm
its my birthday tomorrow, well, in 3 hours! I'm turning 28!
I'm alone again as I've been in a different country working for some time, but I'm used to it, and my parents are gonna send me 1500 USD to invest and buy myself something nice! which is kino, of course, as I like money and investing.
I hope I can find better friends, a girl, or courage to go back to my hometown before I'm 29! If anyone also has upcoming birthdays, happy birthday anons!
Happy (early) birthday anon!
Happy early birthday!
Got my blessing.
My gf got pozzed by TikTok and turned into a bitter feminist. Every opinion she used to have she's thrown out and replaced with whatever some angry cunt said on social media.w8yp8s
be a man and mold her opinions yourself. that's what I'd do if I wasn't a cuck
I've got an ex wife is a bitch. Too bad for her she keeps losing in family court because shes made herself look like the tyrannical bitch she is involving our kids, so I at least have that going for me.
What happened anon? In retrospect, was this result something you should have seen coming?
Honestly yes. After she had the kids (we had twin boys) she was not the same person anymore. I expected it to some extent, but nothing close to what it became. I felt completely alienated in my own home for the better part of a year, sidelined when it came to decisions about OUR kids as if my opinion or thoughts meant nothing. To top it off, she finally tried to take the kids out of our house and only allow me to see them on weekends. I finally lost it and told her to get out, but the kids were staying here. She called the police and got an EPO because she "felt threatened" because I raised my voice at her. I immediately got it dismissed 3 days later, but at a steep lawyer cost, and took her to court for custody, which again incurred a some more cash. It's been a mess, but now we are at 50/50, although shes still trying to take them from me, for whatever controlling, insane reasons she has. She won't get it though, as she's pretty much out of cash for her lawyer.
Women are fucking terrible, and I don't advise having anything more with them then just fun. They will try their best to ruin you and take your kids from you given the chance.
Beware.
Same. Having kids completely changed her. I get it, its not easy but jfc. We’re still together but who knows how much longer?
Good luck my friend. I know your pain. It is never an easy situation. I'm living it right there with you. I can tell you that in my case, it never did get better, and it only got worse with time.
The biggest victims are my kids in all of this, and I hate that cunt more everyday for doing this to them. I can take it, but they are blameless victims of her bullshit, and it isn't right.
Christ. Sorry to hear anons. I honestly really want kids, but I see stories like this online and in my own life amongst peers and it just seems like trying to start a traditional family is one of the biggest risks a regular guy can take these days. I dont want to say it doesn't seem worth it, but fuck man it looks like it's really close to crossing that threshold.
>sick for a few days
>progressively getting worse, but nothing dire, just fever, sore throat, cough, shits
>lose taste and smell today
Fucking covid again? That's like the fifth time I got it. Fuck's sake.
>jannie temp banned me for making one of these
at least put some effort into it barkeep shake my head
THREAD THEME: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VorlCEm6cgc
>meditated last night
>went to bed calm
>woke up furious
what the FUCK is going on
anyone else ever feel this?
so I failed with this young qt I really like. she has bf but still I guess she doesn't care anymore because I was too needy (I just said that I like her)
since she didn't gave two fucks I contacted this other qt after a couple of months. long story short we ended fucking on 14th feb. it was nice but I don't wanna fuck it up again
i hate being needy
My life is over. I’m easily the most pathetic thing on this planet now, lesser than subhuman. I’m obese, I’m short, I have no chin and 3 chins simultaneously, my dick was only 3” at the absolute hardest before I lost my ability to get hard, now with all my fat it’s just a soft little acorn like just the glands and I have to push my fat down to pee. I’m a complete virgin and the most I’ve gotten is a kiss from a trans woman who I suspect was just a dude in a dress. I’m black. My mother and sister married white men who laugh at me. A white guy at the gym years ago humiliated me, I stole his pate and he took it back from me mid rep and barely been acknowledged my existence so I stopped lifting. I literally don’t even lift now not that I have a choice I’m so weak I would have to start with rolls of toilet paper as weights. I’m literally addicted to drinking soi drinks. I have not seen the outside in 3 years. I’m broke. I have no real work experience or even any real life experience.
I am a IST janny.
Your family sounds shit. Disregard them, go to a gym with free classes and you’ll make friends.
Get fit, aquire wealth.
I have legit trust issues. I can't trust anyone, let alone a girl. I suppose it comes from a sheltered childhood, and narcissistic emotional abuse from my helicopter mother, and alcoholic father. They also went through a nasty divorce, and my father literally drank himself to death afterwards. Plus the bullying from school. I've also been fat for most of my life, and was used to either be ''the funny fat guy'' or be ignored or treated with scorn by women. Lose the weight, get a decent physique, and suddenly people are more open to me, actually listen to what I say or pretend to, and girls smile at me more. I'm so socially retarded that at this point I hate most people and see them as two faced snakes. If a girl came to me right now and said she wants to hang out, my immediate thought would be that she's either lying or trying to hurt me in a way. Thanks for reading my blog.
me too. i can't let anybody anywhere close to me, can't be vulnerable and open to people about me, nobody really knows me, nobody ever will
what about your siblings?
my brothers are the only people in the world that i can be my real crazy self around
Hit a low point last night. Been having no luck with women recently and I ended up thinking with my dick not my head and took some munter back home. Undressed her and she had the worst body I've literally ever seen. She wanked me off and I kicked her out right after. I didn't lift for a decade and looks max to lower myself to such things, fuck.
Think I just need to forget about women for a while
You're the reason why every mid and uggo are an entitled cunts nowadays. Because they constantly get undeserved attention from guys out of their league who are horny and only thinking with their dick. Because they never have their egos grounded by getting rejected by guys. I ghosted two bitches within the past day because after they sent my their pics and they were fat whales. I understand the urge because I get desperately horny too but I've never been down so bad I resorted to fucking a fat bitch. I'd rather just jerk off to 2D. If guys had more standards, and were unapologetic snobs and elites then pussy inflation wouldn't be through the roof.
Be better brah. You deserve better.
I know man you're right, never done it before and never will do it again. Fuck these hoes.
There’s always been “incels” but the image that pops into our head these days with that word did not exist previously. I’ll tie this back to your post bare with me.
We think of some ugly zero effort gay who’s bitter and thinks he’s deserving of pussy and basically the school shooter trope/archetype. That didn’t always exist. Sure there were geeks/dorks, but here’s the thing. In the 60s, 70s, 80s, 90s etc those dudes could still get laid via a fat girl. We can set the argument of lowering your standards as a man aside, but for those types of losers a fat chick with a cute face is in their league. But that that this isn’t an option for the most part, you get affectionless geeks turning mean and bitter and being equally cancerous as fat bitches.
Fat ugly women have been poisoned. They get a 6/10 or higher man, even the occasional 7-9/10 man and they believe they are a giga Stacy. It’s the whole body positivity movement being hijacked by obese women like Lizzo, the fact tinder exists. Etc.
>tinder
Most dudes just swipe yes on all. Fat bitches don’t understand this and believe hundreds of dudes swiped because they found her hott.
>social media
Same shit, fat bitch has hot friends, she posts on Instagram and gets hundreds of likes. Goes to her head.
>gets dicked by good looking man
It’s a common occurrence what that guy did, a for lack of better word chad goes through a dry spell and just fucks a fatty. Now she believes she’s what men want and her standards are completely illogical.
Women are already retarded at baseline, shit like this all makes them worse. And in consequence there’s the current incel archetype walking around. Obviously no one in their right mind would want a fat bitch or an ugly bitch (their only purpose is to be pretty, you can’t be fat as a woman), but getting sucked off by a fat bitch is better than fucking your hand and then crying yourself to sleep.
couldn't have said it better myself. I just don't think women were wired to receive the constant attention and validation that's begotten by technology and social media. It goes straight to their heads. It overflows their dopamine pathway. They start thinking they're a 'bad bitch'. Pre-internet the attention a female could receive was relegated to their small town or village. Now they can upload a pic of themselves online and get 100s of guys in their DMs wanting sex.
>Most dudes just swipe yes on all. Fat bitches don’t understand this and believe hundreds of dudes swiped because they found her hott
yeah here's a funny story. I was on tinder a while ago and swiping through it when I came across this one girl. She wasn't an unattractive girl, but she wasn't a head turner either. Literally 5/10 max, if I passed her on the street I wouldn't have even noticed her t b h. And the sole sentence she had in her bio was "I'm picky". That's it. And I thought to myself this little arrogant shit, where does she get off thinking she has a right to this entitlement? But see that's the thing, she probably had literally hundreds of likes and dudes in her DMs sniffing at her ass - that's where her ego came from.
And this is what women don't understand about the dynamics male sexuality. It's a numbers game. We're not the 'choosy' sex by and large although there is variation from guy to guy. The analogy I always use is stray dogs rummaging through a dumpster in a street alley for table scraps. No one in their right mind would say "look at all those dogs gleefully feasting on those scraps! Therefore it's a 5 star meal!" Well no, they're stray dogs and desperate for food that's what they do. Women are the food, men are the dogs. Just because you, a woman (the food), has a bunch of desperately hungry 'dogs'(men) trying to get a piece of you doesn't mean you're a 5 star meal. But women receive this attention from non-choosy men and think they're inherently valuable.
>But women receive this attention from non-choosy men and think they're inherently valuable
just to continue, like no, you're just a stupid woman who doesn't know they evolutionary drives behind male reproductive strategies. Men don't bequeath value to a woman by attention, like a woman does to a man. Men bequeath value to a woman by their willingness to commit. There's a reason why in certain PUA communities the saying "women are the gate keepers of sex, and the men are the gatekeepers of marriage" is touted around so much. Once you have a bunch of men trying to marry you and not treat like a cum sock for the night, then you can act like an arrogant Stacy. But until then fuck off. Okay that's the end of my rant.
>It’s a common occurrence what that guy did, a for lack of better word chad goes through a dry spell and just fucks a fatty. Now she believes she’s what men want and her standards are completely illogical.
so true.
>Obviously no one in their right mind would want a fat bitch or an ugly bitch (their only purpose is to be pretty, you can’t be fat as a woman), but getting sucked off by a fat bitch is better than fucking your hand and then crying yourself to sleep.
I dunno man closest I ever came was getting a lap dance by some fat bitch (not obese fat, but plump) at a strip club. I just felt dirty after it. Couldn't imagine fucking one. Like I said I think I'd rather just jerk off.
Based
Glad to see another no fatties chad on here for once
Hoeflation is the greatest fight of our lives
I want to return to a simpler life. I can't cope with all the problems in the modern world. There has to be something more than just wake up, drive to work, work, drive back to home, eat, sleep and repeat. Is this really our purpose in life?
>valentines day
>son comes home from school and asks me to buy him a guitar
>why?
>I want to impress miss peterson!
>oh
>son is in 6th grade
>started lifting in January because he has a crush on his home room teacher
>his home room teacher is in her mid 20s
>on valentines day he gave her chocolate, a card, and asked her to be his valentine
>he wasn't even discreet about it
>mfw he told me he walked up to her after she took morning attendance and confessed in front of the whole class
>she turned him down but accepted the chocolate and said he was "sweet"
>he considered this a major victory and has decided to shoot for the stars
>he added 5 lbs plates to the bar he uses for his workouts
>started eating sunny side up eggs to get extra protein despite hating eggs
>bought him an acoustic guitar
>has spent most of his free time the last week watching JustinGuitar videos on YouTube and practicing
>woke up to piss this morning at 6 AM and heard him practicing in the basement
>alright, so when are you going to even get a chance to play guitar for her?
>at the 6th grade talent show of course!
>son's elementary school has a tradition where the graduating 6th graders put on a talent show or do a lip sync performance
>mfw the entire school, all of the staff, and the family of most 6th graders will be in attendance
>mfw my son says he wants to sing too and recently started recording his singing with my old snowball mic so he could review his vocals
My son is either a turbo autist or based beyond my comprehension.
Should I stop him? He's not shy about it at all at the moment at least. Even when his friends tease him for having a crush on his teacher he's upbeat.
hes literally based personified
do as he says, anon
Based beyond belief. If he fucks up, it sounds like he'll just take it in stride and learn from it on his own. Once he's past this goofy 12 year old stuff, he's gonna be chad incarnate. You've done good with him imo.
Holy based. That kid will end up waking you up at midnight when hes 17 bringing girls home. I want the confidence your kid has.
i wish i had son like yours breh
He will lose his virginity before 14 100%
Don't stop him. That's absolutely sick. Unless it's weird and I know you know the line. Your son will probably being playing in bands in a few years. Foster that drive do not stifle it.
>33 years old
>10k in debt
>4k in cash
>no job
>can't hold down job
quit 50-60k/year jobs after a couple months...done this ~10x already in the past 7 years
>I'm also 5 classes away from finishing my undergrad in comp sci
The hard classes like calculus series is finished with an avg of 3.7
>That means another 2 years of full time school and about 30k in tuition to finish off a comp sci degree.
>living basically off parents but contribute somewhat
>hollow inside...I don't enjoy anything anymore not even cooming.
>tried sobriety, nothing changes besides the money number.
>maybe it's trauma maybe it's some mental illness but maybe that's just an excuse. I tried many routes tbh.
I have many issues that led me here but that's TMI. Psychologists, Religion, Jesus, drugs, nothing helps. I want to kill myself. But I won't because I'm going to die anyways.
I think I'm just going to get fit. I'm fat right now. I used to be pretty dang athletic in my late teens to early 20s. And ultimately, my life just got worse the fatter I became...That's kind of a weird epiphany to have at this very moment as I'm typing this.
Travel.
Gonna keep bulking and then start cutting in March. Feelin good bros
Same plan bro. I hate bulking so much.
WGMI together fren.
Am I autistic?
>baby died (7 months)
>wife upset and sad
>wife upset at me for not being sad
I don't think it's that big of a deal since we can just make another and it's not like infants are even people yet
1) sorry for your loss
2) I dont want to sound like a fag but its the only choice of word I have, I think your feelings are valid and I think her feelings are valid too, maybe you are bottling stuff up, maybe dont, but these are delicate subjects and I hope you can work it out without creating lasting damage on yourselves and on your relationship
Might be leaning more towards sociopathy than tism brah
I kind of get it. I was barely attached to my son until he was like 1 and a half. Now he’s more important to me than any other relationship in my life
So I could kill you if I don’t consider you human and it wouldn’t be a big deal
Last sunday I was bored and downloaded a dating app. First girl I match with is amazing. We are a lot alike, have similar tastes, the same strange sense of humor and she even outautisms me. We talk about everything for like six hours straight: she asks me about my dreams and even gets very excited with one of them, asks to see some of my writing and feels moved by it, gives me a ton of compliments - from superficial ones about my appearance to thoughtful ones about who I am - and talks about things we should do on dates, even gets nervous about the prospect of introducing me to her family and I have remind her we haven’t even gone out yet. We send voice messages, pictures, reply to each others texts as soon as they appear and all in all she gives me that rare feeling of when you meet someone and immediately get along great, like you’ve know each other for years.
Then, I leave my cellphone asides for fifteen minutes and when I come back she’s gone. Just gone. Deleted the app while I was busy. I spent the entire week sad, although I’m fine today. Maybe it’s stupid of me to get so invested, but she was so interesting and I exposed so much of myself to her. Showing your soul to someone and having them like what they see and even encourage you to show more just for them to split hurts. Feels like they rejected you at a deeper level. I know it’s more about her and her personal issues than me - she was shy, had never dated someone before and appeared to have low self-esteem - but having someone tell you you’re a wonderful person and be so positively surprised by who you are that she indirectly asks you if she’s really your type like three different times and even jokingly says “Are you real? I can’t believe someone like you would be in a place like this” just to disappear latter hurts so much.
Women are shitty enough bro, and it's harder to find a worse playground for that stuff than on dating apps. I'd honestly just stay away from them, most chicks worth their weight aren't going to be using those seriously.
You’re not wrong, but I really don’t know where I could meet weird and smart women since this kind of people are usually huge introverts. I’ve date normie women in the past and it gets boring fast.
my life has spiraled down into a fucking nightmare during the entire year of 2022 and now I've climbed back up mentally and started dating again only for it to end in another shit heap situation and now I'm sure I got a target on my back. If I die now I don't care anymore I'm already in hell
Water please. I might try talking to a girl this week, maybe I'll even ask her out. Call me a retard, but I think ashwagandha actually works for anxiety. I started taking this stuff a week ago and I didn't even realize it was supposed to have a calming effect until I realized my heart wasn't racing all the time. If this is placebo (although I don't see how it could be if I didn't intend for it to have this effect) then I may as well strike while the iron is hot.
Be careful with ash my bro! Cycle that shit, could possibly cause PSSD just like if you were to take SSRIs since it fucks with your serotonin receptors and shit. Also watch out for anhedonia, which might sound good if youre an anxious self conscious moron like myself, but trust me, its not worth it. Literally everything that you once enjoyed or looked forward to will just not be the same.
>when she was not only your gf but your closest friend for years before that and now you are just strangers
Anybody else know this feel? I don't think I'll be alright for a while.
Happened to me too. Took a couple years before I stopped thinking about her everyday. Just takes time
Your pic makes me think of me with my ex’s fat ass. Breaking up was the right choice but damn I miss that ass. Wish she was cool with just having casual sex from time to time.
Yes and I missed my cats and her father for years kek
Yes. We were together for several years and when we broke up, I realized that I really did lose my closest friend. We've been broken up since November and I have to go back and get my stuff this week and our emails (not texts, EMAILS) to each other to coordinate this have been formal and businesslike like we're colleagues. It's fucking heartbreaking.
Something similar happened to me. Girlfriend at 19 was my best friend, but we split up. Talked off and on for years, but about ten years later we really reconnected and started a relationship again. Went through the exact same steps as before, when we broke up the second time I went no contact. Fucking sucks for a while, but now I'm married and happy. It gets better
This makes me glad I'm a khhv, I'm sure I'd never recover from something like that
I need to find real friends, honestly I don't care about having a gf, I just want a close circle of homies to do shit with on the weekends
join an amateur sports team or hobby group my man
I have, I can't really consider any of them my friends. Partialy because of me and partialy because of them
Do I only feel this anxiety due to lack of other options in my dating life?
>meet hot girl
>eventually date
>realize I don’t like her, hate talking to her
>just bitches at me about her life problems, never what’s to hear shit I have to say, complains, never says anything interesting, nothing in common etc
>tons of red flags too but don’t care because planned to get better gf and just enjoy sex with hot bitch in mean time
>start catching feelings anyways
>have huge fight that never gets resolved over shit she said that a woman should never say to the man she’s dating
>classic narcissist shit where she plays victim and says I’m the bad guy for feeling how I feel after she said what she said
>break up
Want her back, wish it worked out now, start to forget her and then she starts adding me on social media and then un adding me all day long. Added her back one of the times before she un added me and she still un added me anyways. Idk why she’s doing this. Im convinced she’s just playing games with me.
I keep alternating between wishing it worked and then remembering the problems and remembering I didn’t really like her anyways.
I’ve never had this, where I actually have a woman and just don’t like her. Which isn’t to even mention an actually hot one. It feels so weird. Maybe I’m starved for affection and female attention. Idk. It feels like a 70:30 of I didn’t like her+all the issues : wishing it worked out and that the issues didn’t happen
>just bitches at me about her life problems, never what’s to hear shit I have to say
This hits way too close to a grill I'm currently chasing but I'm still trying because at least she's talking to me
Yeah I would just run honestly. I think it’s normal for a girl to bitch about things but when that’s all she talks about? Like why put up with it. For pussy? Lol. I think that if you wouldn’t put up with something or wanna deal with something from a friend or co worker that it should be no different than romantic interests.
The schizo part of my brain thinks it’s the same girl as if this isn’t a fairly common thing
>why put up with it. For pussy?
Honestly just for the company of having someone to talk to. Haven't even made any moves to getting in her pants yet
It turns out she's not really interested in me. It was just all in my head. I'm such an idiot. I wasted my time for this.
How did you find out? Did you ask her out and she rejected you, or did you guys actually date and you realized form how she spoke and acted with you she wasn’t really into you?
She was giving mixed signals the entire time I talk to her. I initially asked her out, she said yes but there was "a change of plan". She turned me down ever since.
Yeah I realized with my recent ex, if you ask her out and it’s a flake/ghost, flat out rejection without any attempt to reschedule, she isn’t into you.
I asked mine out 3x and it was a flake, then rejection, then she laughed at me. Then I forgot about her and moved on and she kept trying o HMU and I would ignore her. Because of that she ended up asking me out, and I told her no. Because of that this woman hmu for years and we eventually dated. But I realized pretty early on she wasn’t into me. It was my rejection that made her lust for me.
You’ll know if a girl is into you.
See above, I think it’s relevant. They can’t handle rejection these days. May as well leverage that in our favor. I’m probably the only man who’s ever rejected that girl
>They can’t handle rejection these days. May as well leverage that in our favor. I’m probably the only man who’s ever rejected that girl
yeah brah no kidding, reminds me of the webm, I'm sure you've seen it, that's floated around on the boards some, of a guy at a club going in to kiss some girls then he pulls his head away last second to fake them out, and most of them literally get physical and try to hit him or push him away.
Women just fucking short circuit when they're rejected, because it so rarely happens to them.
Essentially this is what I was faced with:
Wow, does she actually just like me for me? I’m fat, I lost my gains from when I met her, I’m broke and jobless and depressed. But she doesn’t seem to care about that!
Or I wonder, is she only into me because I rejected her back then? I mean she told me she liked me too and only flaked and rejected me first because of her strict parents but that could easily be a lie.
Did I find true love or is she just like every other woman?
Then the NPD bullshit started coming out and I eventually realized what was going on. A simple “no I’m good” and you’d think this bitch thought I was prime Brad Pitt.
>severely depressed and miserable because of no social skills
>yesterday actually was out with people all day
>can actually at least talk to people somewhat but still feel like mostly an outsider with other people with not much to contribute to conversations
>come home alone again and miserable
>beautiful sunday and dont leave house
>can ride my bike for 50km even though I can feel my body collapsing, lungs struggling to breath, legs full of lactic acid
>can bench (nearly) 315lbs, literally hundreds of pounds over my chest/neck
>can design multi million dollar machines for work for customers including Toyota, Honda, Ford
>yet I can't talk to girls
Tinder is so fucking shit
>Friend is kind of a goofy person
>Makes bad career choices
>Doesn't want to get a job
>Wants to go to some middle east country and teach English for a Christian missions organization
>But has to fundraise money herself
>Asking me for monthly donations
>The whole thing feels not intelligent
>Both this sketchy organization and the location
>Seems like some pie in the sky white woman saves the world thing
>Don't really want to give money but she gets shitty on anyone who doesn't go along with her
> Claims it's gods plan when she does literally anything
>Know if I don't give money a lot of my family and friends are going to give me shit because I have more money than alot of them
If someone gives you shit, tell em to fuck off. It's not your responsibility to fund some idiotic idea she came up with.
tell her you will actually support her financially once she is there doing it, that you will send her some money to sustain herself on site.
That way you don't seem like an asshole but you make your money count if you're gonna shell out, and it makes you look like someone sensible who cares, but not willing to invest in a losing pony.
Then just send her a few hundred bucks if she does go, which will go a long way. That way you save money too.
Why the fuck would you give some twat that's about to be beheaded anything?
No one is entitled to your money
>start working mandatory overtime tomorrow
Going to keep sticking to my 9s and if absolutely necessary, 10s. But if those fucking cock suckers think my ass is coming in on a Saturday they can get fucked and my ass will officially be looking for a new job ASAP. OUTSIDE of construction. If you've browsed the construction thread int he catalog right now, take heed of what is being said by those telling you to stay away. This shit fucking sucks ass, man.
My left shoulder hurts so much that I can barely workout.
I'm afraid that I might have to stop and treat this, losing so much progress..
If I avoid pushing myself it almost returns to normal, just to for the pain to comeback stronger than ever after I try working out as always do.
>hate my factory job (long hours, shitty people, unfulfilling work)
>autism makes me afraid I’ll make a fool of myself at a new place, and the people at my current job don’t really give a shit that I don’t talk a lot or interact all that much
>current job pays the best out of available jobs in my area
>no degree or anything
What’s /fit’s advice? I like the physical aspect of this job but I can’t deal with the usual construction banter, maybe it’d be good for me but idk I just can’t connect with a lot of people
I was stressed out this weekend and relapsed again...
It's ok, it happens. Just make sure to dial back in and get ready to dominate this week.
how to get over somebody playing you
i wasn't even interested in this girl
she kept chasing and chasing for months
I basically gave her a chance after a while
became more sympathetic of her, even started liking her as a person
then the second I basically let her in,
she flaked on me and disappeared.
Like wtf kind of prank is this?
who gets off on pulling that shit on people?
anyways no cap I'm bitter about it
my instincts were right but I let my guard down
so how do I take this shit in stride
bc no cap I'm lowkey looking for ways to hurt this bitch back now
You type like a fag.
shut the fuck up boomer
I wish I had an answer as far as why someone would do this or even enjoy it but I don’t. All I know it’s it’s VERY common in women.
An anon here explained to me a while ago that women are essentially sociopaths who from a young age learned to bully other girls and they did it so much that they no longer feel guilt when hurting someone.
It makes no sense how this could be fun to somebody. I imagine doing something that makes me feel good and powerful and I think of things like increasing my money, better my physique, breaking fitness records. Things that wouldn’t directly bring harm to anyone else and at most would crush other men and make them want to work harder anyways to not be bested by me.
I don’t think of things like “I know, this guy is into me and has no idea I’m a fucking nut job. I’m going to play into that, make him develop legitimate feelings for me, enjoy him treating me right, and then turn the tables on him and ghost when he feels safe and comfortable with me! Hahaha that would be so epic! I’m such an epic badass Queen, crushing innocent men! That’ll show the one guy from 7th grade who didn’t like me back! Haha!”
They’re stupid. Every experience I have with women I’m further into believing love isn’t real and that they’re literally just holes who don’t matter as people.
yeah there's something definitely wrong with this behavior. The worst part is usually I'm willing to consider someone new, even just like get to know them if they show some interest in me at first, but this time I was in a relationship so I kept my distance but I was respectful and everything. I treated her nicely, let her down easy.
I guess she didn't get the message, kept coming at me, showing interest etc. This whole thing spanned over the course of months. So after like 6-7 months of this, I sort of got to know her and in a way what I felt was like guilt or like sympathy for her bc she was still pursuing.
Anyways, after a change in my situation, I sort of opened up the door for her, you know, gave her the signals, even told her in some way ''yeah okay i think i'm ready now, im willing to give it a chance'' and then she just disappeared, legit dropped off the face of the earth.
So strange. I guess she just wanted the validation or something. she was like obsessed in a pathological way, it wasn't me she liked, it was the idea of getting it, then withdrawing.
I mean I don't lead people on. I was taken at the time. It's not like she spent 6 months in the doldrums bc I wanted her to. Like wtf I understand getting someone who leads you on back, but not me. I was just playing a fair game. Not gonna cheat while in a relationship .
man, I wish I had a brother or a sister, it seems really nice to have someone
There's this girl I know from my high school days that I recently got in contact with again and now she's living absolutely rent free in my head. I managed to ask her out last week and she turned me down but in a really nice way, so now I'm thinking she's just playing hard to get but I still have my doubts. I just wish things could work out this time, I don't want to be alone anymore
This past week or so I’ve felt… off. Sort of like depression. Just constant vibe of negativity, things getting to me etc. I’m not really sure where it’s came from.
Anyway, make mine a Jack and Coke please.
literally me but I'm coming to terms with the fact that I've entered boomerhood (30) and I'm basically running on fumes, very little gas left in the tank. I could go for miles before but right now it seems like the ''off days'' are getting plentier and it's no fault of mine for trying to swim against the current. I double up my efforts (not in a retarded way), and reap half of the benefits. Oh well, I guess it's time for me to look into retirement villages.
Im back on this board. After a little over a year of decadence, bad habits, and unhealthy lifestyle choices slowly creeping back into my life, it all came to a head. Gonna grind my way into a better state. Here goes.
How do I stop being a virgin/loser? I’m 20, women aren’t interested in me and I don’t know why. I don’t think I’m ugly probably 5/10 face but I’m 5’7. I can be socially awkward sometimes but I’m trying to be more outgoing lately. What do I do to get better?
>How do I stop being a virgin/loser?
develop an honest skill that will put food on the table.
how badly do you want to lose your virginity?
guarantee you if you're 4/10 or better, you can hook up with SOME hambeast easily on Tinder
ive pushed my anxiety as hard as i can but i am physiologically gated at this point
even when i force myself to try to have sex with a woman im too nervous to get it up and i bust instantly
its over
Need a coors over here hoss
I keep getting ghosted by women on dating apps. I think I've tried everything and now it's settled on that "don't be a clown and text her, get the number, set up a date" and it's like everytime I'm let down. Granted, I won't talk to short women or fat women which probably cuts out like 90% of the market but it really gives me doubt sometimes.
Spent the weekend looking at a bicycle to buy, working on my business and watching squidbillies instead. Not giving up though but damn.
Double rum and coke please
I made it and I’m currently casually
dating 3 different women, all fit with a good face and I’m just fucking exhausted. I literally made an excuse a couple days ago to one of them why I couldn’t go back to her place after we had dinner, in reality I went home to drink alone and play video games. Something is fucking wrong here lads, I have so much in common with one of them (South Korean princess that looks good without makeup) but I literally feel nothing for any of them. I think ignoring women entirely for a good 5 years has fucked up my capacity to form an intimate relationship emotionally and I think my profession has further warped my mind to the point I just don’t have much in common with regular people anymore. And in case you incels are wondering get on bumble to find girls who aren’t slag, at least that’s what I’ve found in my area.
today I came home from cardio and just felt so emotional like a bitch for the rest of the day and binged on a ton of goyslop. must have been some kind of emotional release
I don't want to kill myself I just want to curl up into a ball and die.
discord
.gg/
chasergen
there are so many cute trans girls here
i'm starting uni in around 6 months from now, in the meanwhile i got a job that requires me only a dozen hours a week so i'm thinking about learning some skill or maybe taking up a course. any suggestion anons?
Yeah man, we broke up about 6 months ago
At this point, she must have been with a lot of guys, having fun and forgetting that I exist, while I'm here eating egg, chicken and potato everyday, scrolling through IST and having flashbacks about our time together.
I have tried to meet other girls, but i got rejected by all, so I stopped
I live in Brazil, we are currently in Carnaval, but I don't have friends to go out, I'm all alone in my house because I have to work while everybody is partying, even my family
However, I'm used to this lifestyle, I've lived like this for almost 30 years
>I'm here eating egg, chicken and potato everyday, scrolling through IST
Life doesn't get any better.
Oh fuck, olá irmão
Keep trying, there's girls worth going out and getting drenched in the rain in stupid costumes waiting for us
Literalmente eu.
>girl likes me
>i don't like her back
why do i feel so cruel
Everyone's here partying all week for carnaval
Broke up with gf, no friends
Sitting here finishing a report for work
I broke up with her for a reason, and she wouldn't have wanted to go out anyways, but at least
>I stayed in with the gf
Would feel better than
>I spent the biggest party of the year alone, working and watching youtube
I'll have a better gf and friends next year though
>feel like i have really great chemistry with this girl i work with
>have great conversations with her and always manage to make her laugh hard as fuck with my jokes
>she's always putting her hands on me (touching my shoulder, touching my neck, playfully punching me)
>she's the one who asked for my number and is always the one to text first, but she never replies to my replies, even when I'm asking questions and trying to keep the conversation going
>never wants to spend time alone together even to just grab lunch
it seems like she's just using me for attention and i fucking hate it
She is using you Anon, don't fall into the trap. She wants you to give her constant attention to make herself feel worth. If you really want her you can just ignore her, she would feel distressed by this and try to be more active with you.
Its never too late Anon
Good work Anon, any advice on how to get ahead in work life? I am in a similar position myself.
what makes it even worse is that i have to see her almost every day. why do women do this?
its the cleanest best pleasure
What the other person said, ignore her and she'll immediately start chasing you. If she doesn't chase you then you also have your answer in that she doesn't give a shit about you at all that you aren't talking to her anymore.
definitely using you
I dealt with a situation just like this. Brother anon, you are dealing with an attention whore. Her goal is to keep you wrapped around her finger for free validation, usually because these types of women are insanely insecure. She has no plans of dating you... Right now. That can change.
My advice? Keep her in your phone, don't sperg out. When she hits you up, and she will, reply only to what she asks. DO NOT put any effort at all into keeping the convo going. If she asks how your day is going, literally just reply
>good
or whatever. DO NOT ask her a thing or show any interest. You're basically communicating you're wise to her game and are not playing it, but you're still open to her if she stops. I won't lie, most of the time these types of women don't see you as a date once they get up to this BS. But there's always a chance. Whatever you do, don't allow her to wrap you around her finger. I'm speaking from experience.
hm, i do the same thing the girl does, and girls always reply. i think as a man, when this happens to you, just show interest, its fine. when i text girls outta nowhere after a long time, they are always happy, and i like that. if the girl does this to you, just be normal, answer her and ask her back what she asked u, and ask her to chill. who cares? u shud be talking to 2-3 girls a day and asking for their numbers anyways. eventually, u will have more girls than u can handle.
its only an issue cause you dont have a rotation. but either way, u need to screen her, like what do YOU want from her? gf? sex? dinner? coffee?
ideally, gf. we share a lot of similar interests and have a similar sense of humor. plus she's not very attractive
Thawing out the ice between me and my “one”… I made her this card… work is going pretty damn well. Im 4 months into an entirely new industry working for a multimillion dollar company and im already catching the attention of the C-suite executives for all the right reasons; boss pulled me aside and told me he’s going to start grooming me to replace him one day down the road… been working on a project with my father the last few weeks getting to make up for lost time, just got to see my mother’s side of family for the first time in 4 years… life is looking good as I gear up to get released back into society after so many moons away.
To any anon out there struggling to keep going, or lacking the motivation to get started — faith and hard work will always create the circumstances necessary to become “lucky” in life.
>Spend most of my college years thinking I was weird and ugly
>Looking back at old photos of myself today
>I was kinda hot
My sense of style was shit, but that could have been fixed. I'm only 25 and I feel like I wasted my youth.
Most men peak in their 30's, relax bro enjoy being young and don't fuck things up for your future.
But women peak earlier, if I peak years from now I still probably won't be dating hot college chicks.
The relationship failed, but Im 27 and was dating a 21 year old for a bit. I know a guy who was 32 and dating a hot 19 year old. You're the only person who decides if you can or cant.
>be me
>born in a 3rd world shithole country with materialistic whores, average 2 digit IQ people and exorbitant taxes fucking everything
>being extremely social awkward, feeling lonely and hopeless, only finding a distraction in lifting, vidya and books
>miles away from my family, weekends resumes in eating shit, porn and crying on my bed
when will these feelings of emptiness and constant pain will be gone ? i don't want to kill myself, mom and dad doesn't deserve to suffer.
the only way to make it into the third world without money or status is to become a local folk hero
there's a few ways you can go about
either you join a criminal organisation which is morally grey like helps the people from time to time, creates more local ''black'' economy than the government kek, or you kill some high political figure that everyone hates and then everybody will be like ''legend!'' and you will become a folk hero by virtue of what you did for the community of ridding it of some corrupt rich fag or something.
Anyways if I really lived in the slums I would 100% dark hero maxx and start looking for a heroic goal regardless of criminal doings or no. Breh you're already bottom of the barrel, why are you still following laws kek...Just become a fucking mafioso or something lel you got nothing to lose
or I forgot to mention, you can join the army but if you do you need to get into officer school and from the get go you need to really start sucking dick upstairs and taking out your peers, like damaging their reputation, baiting them into traps etc...
You need to go full machiavellian dictator in the making if you want to make it to top of the crop 3rd world war general who may or may not try and overthrow the government towards end of career.
So that's another option but this one is more than a long con and you really gotta suck miles of figurative cock to get to the top and it's high risk because they will take you out if you don't have the right friends.
Those of you that have been in long term relationships before, how many dates did you go on before becoming official? I’m pretty autistic about relationships but I’ve been on 5 dates with this girl I’m seeing now. Idk how you go from dating to being bf/gf. Do I ask her at some point or do you just date until it’s sort of implied? I’ve never been in this position before as an adult but I feel like 5 dates is enough that one of us would’ve broken it off/ghosted by now if they weren’t feeling it. But idk. Please advise.
smoking weed, jerking off, porn, gambling, eating junk food, sleeping less than 8 hours, feeling reptilian emotionless, no real friends, no social interaction, no gf obviously, no productive hobbies other than lifting, abusive childhood, inheritance, 6 feet tall, six pack, white, above average face/jaw/eyes, diffuse balding (fuck), no direction in life, will end up doing something really stupid due to severe boredom and zero life experience
Water, please.
My bf has a job lined up after his last semester at a dam (he's a mech. E). I still have about 1.5 years left. I want to stay together with him, but I've heard LDR don't really work, and I'm not sure what to do.
How do I feel the need to keep losing weight?
>since New Years lost 25 pounds
>Last Sunday binged for super bowl
>on Monday had this friend hangout
>Valentine’s Day my miserable ass ate fast food
>Friday, Saturday, and just now ate fast food
I’ve been doing great. I don’t know what it is where I neither feel like working out (I still have everyday), nor do I feel like dieting. I’m still a good 40 pounds from my goal weight, I was super close to a clean 30 pounds lost. It’s almost like I’ve gotten a sense of “meh, close enough, I’m done”. Like this week I’ll wake up with “damn ok let’s get back on the horse”. And nope, here I am finishing off my Taco Bell combo dinner.
youre rationalizing your poor diet habits
all of those events dont require you to eat anything
im that guy that doesnt even eat cake at a birthday party
treat every day the same
anyone else do random calisthenics at 2am with cute camgirls in nightgowns playing in the background?
No but I do them at noon with vtubers in the background.
feels like I'm living in some prison hell, nothing feels right, like the wrong timeline, this place these people, this vibe, this lifestyle it's all not the vibe.
can't get out, can't break free, don't know what to do.
not living, not thriving, not having fun, just surviving, nothing really to work towards, spend alot of time just laying down because nothing sounds fun.
I'll take a glass of the whiskey+vodka mix. Got a question for the lads here. How can I meet new women if I work remotely? I'm 22, already have a career and spend 99% of my time inside working as a codemonkey. Whenever I get the chance, I actually try to go to social events, but it's extremely rare, and even more infrequent for me to meet a woman I'm interested in, through those events. Last time this happened was like a month ago, I reconnected with a chick there but eventually the whole thing slowly died down. In the rare occasion I go outside and find someone attractive, I actually try to approach them. How do you WFH lada meet more women? Does it all boil down to using dating apps? I'll go meditate for a while and sleep, hopefully I'll be able to lucid dream today and think about this issue.
I got back from lvlup expo. Didn't cosplay but I got some autographs from, and a big tittied model wanted to post with me because of my shirt. Things are looking up
First day at the gym yesterday. Very apparent that my dominant arm (left) is a bit weaker than my right because I had trouble keeping them together during the first reps but other than that, I think it went pretty well.
>went on coffee date with cute chick from hinge yesterday
>i thought the date went pretty well
>she completely ghosts me after
i'm not new to dating and i've been on the apps for quite a while now, but this is the first time i've been outright ghosted after a first date in a while. kinda sucks tbh.
oh well, on to the next one, got another date lined up on wednesday lol
The date probably did go well, that doesn't save you from being ghosted. Shit, dude get ghosted by their wives/mother of their kids. There is no amount of connection you can have with a woman that she can't instantly mentally break off from you, ditched you, and not look back.
This isn't a defect btw, it's a biological feature. Women don't grow as attached to men because historically their men would get slaughtered then they'd have to give up their pussy to the new men and better not still be pining over the old ones or try to save the old ones or die themselves. Only the genes of women open to having sex with the new men and forget about the old got passed on, largely. Meanwhile, you're programmed to protect and attach to your women because you need to protect them to pass on your own genes.
can a specific behavior that requires forethought actually be encoded into DNA? i dont believe it.
Uh yeah anon, it can, like your drive to fuck and procreate.
In July, God used my friend to bring a woman into my life. Despite being a walking red flag, she loved me, and was very cute. After several months of continuously saying I don't think I can be her boyfriend, she now has fallen in love with my friend, the one who introduced us.
I know she is crazy, manipulative, selfish, etc., and I know I saved myself a bad relationship. I know I can find a better woman.
I'm using this situation as fuel to transform myself into a better person, learning my lessons, and trusting God's plan (which involves not fucking crazy muslims)
I told myself I have forgiven my friend, but It takes considerable effort to not hate him.
As for chasing women? Chase your wife not bitches. Lonely? Love yourself and enjoy your solitude, with a girlfriend, its gone.
wtf is your problem bro? Why do you think you are entitled to ''forgive'' your friend? wtf did he do, he introduced you to someone, you didn't want the goods?
Jesus what an ungrateful little righteous prick. You reek of being a judgmental little goody too shoes and honestly I pity your friend. God knows what that girl really is like.
Keep trusting God's plan, hopefully he sends some heavy judgment your way and big karma when you realize nobody was ever good enough in your eyes, you little narcissist.
>I told myself I have forgiven my friend, but it takes considerable effort not to hate him.
LMAO the gall, the audacity even of this prick
I hope you lose him.
>wtf is your problem bro?
A lot of things bro. Depression first of all.
>Why do you think you are entitled to ''forgive'' your friend?
The fuck are you talking about. I talked to him about me and her dating and he said it would be a bad idea. I thought he had no interest in her, and then suddenly he does. I feel betrayed, but I know I set this situation up, so I don't have any real justification for being upset. I can't blame him for falling for the same girl as me, but I think its a horrible idea.
I don't know what your problem is or what you mean by "entitled to ''forgive" my friend. Me choosing to forgive him is something I do for myself and for him, entitlement has nothing to do with it.
>ungrateful little righteous prick
Ungrateful? Ya, I can get nihilistic and depressed and do stupid self-destructive things. Righteous? Maybe, I think righteousness is the best way to live.
>Judgemental? I make a concerted effort not to be.
>hopefully he sends some heavy judgment your way and big karma when you realize nobody was ever good enough in your eyes, you little narcissist
I know I have karma and judgement to live out, that's why I'm trying to become a better person. Narcissist? No, thats what she is.
>I hope you lose him.
I don't care.
Idk whats going on in your life, but you are extremely negative and hostile. I hope you can improve your attitude to better the lives of yourself, and the people around you.
okay then you used the word introduced her wrong, in this context it means that he set you up with her, hence why i assumed that it was shitty of you to be angry. But regardless he was her friend/orbiter friend, if anyone has a right to be angry, it's him when he has been chasing her and suddenly the moment he introduces you, you're on her too...
so basically you just mean she was his friend and some day you all hung out and you decided to pursue her? Whilst he had been on her since prior?
Bro how are you the one angry again? You might need to take a step back and look at this a bit more objectively than you think.
Sorry, I skipped out the deets
He (C) randomly asked me if I wanted to go downtown to meet a girl and her friend. She is an international student in the country for 1 year, and she knew ANOTHER mutual friend (N) of ours. N wasn't able to make it to meet her so C asks me.
C had a girlfriend at the time, in july. I hadn't been close friends with a woman in a few years. She said im her bestfriend, so I called her bluff, we started talking every day and fucking a few weeks after that, and continued as this in-between status for 3-4 months.
During this time, I would see her myself, or sometimes C would come along. There was another girl in our friend group at the time who liked C, and everyone thought they would get together.
C knew my feelings were complex, I really enjoyed this girl a lot, she's loving and sweet, but BPD (including threatening SH + has scars). Everything I read online says just run away.
It comes to a head when he and her see each other without me all night and day, try to say they're just friends, try to say im being obsessed and possessive for caring, and then revealing they developed feelings for each other "after talking".
>Bro how are you the one angry again?
I was angry at the situation for a few hours and then I've just moved forward. We don't hang together, but to think of him getting all of her love inspires jealousy which I know is weak.
I told my friend dating her is a bad idea, but if they can make each other happy, good, I will make myself happy.
Even if it was fake, and even if I'd flirted/fucked around with girls before, I don't think I've experienced love like this. And know my friend is peeling it away from me to try for himself. Its foul and painful, but I set this situation up, I deserve it, and its just.
okay then tell the whole story otherwise I'll just assume y'all are teenagers who are gossiping drama about nothing. I thought first of all that you and the girl were just talking. big fucking difference. second i didnt know the guy was in a relationship and that you are technically still seeing her whilst she and him run off...See you need to be descriptive because at first read I just thought you led her on for a little bit whilst having doubts then she changed her mind and got with your friend without anything ever happening...
Anyways yeah I get feeling sour about the betrayal but honestly this whole friend group sounds really high hypergamy sex orgy vibes and I can see why you'd want to steer away from these degenerates who cock-hop.
good luck on your journey but for the love of god, tell the whole story first next time.
Sorry for mistelling the story. I should have simplified with my friend and my ex-lover.
>second i didnt know the guy was in a relationship and that you are technically still seeing her whilst she and him run off
We weren't really. She had said she hates me and blocked me like 7 times at this point.
>this whole friend group sounds really high hypergamy sex orgy vibes
My friend works with and is friends with lots of women. When we met C, his gf was angry at him the entire night for being out with other girls.
At this years NY party I didn't attend, ppl were saying how he was obnoxiously hitting on girls. When we'd drink, the girl who liked him would have her legs on C and they were very comfortable together, of course I didn't assume he'd also be interested in this other crazy chick.
SHE is very touchy and affectionate. At one party, there was like 6 of us, 4 guys 2 girls on her bed chilling at once.
This shit is fun but degenerate. Call me a narcissist, but I know im built for better things than being an alcoholic loser clown chasing crazy college girls
I've had a lot of strange dreams the last couple weeks. I think I should get rid of a lot of possessions that I'm attached to in an unhealthy way.
The first dream
>be me in bed
>wake up
>immediately reach and grab iphone from beside my bed
>look up porn on safari and start beating off
>wake up for real
>confused as fuck
The second dream
>I'm in bed, my consciousness is drifting
>It's obvious I'm dying, my family has come and they're squeezed into my shitty basement apartment, their heads scraping the ceiling, their shoulders pressed against one another.
>My brother leans over me as I dictate how my meager possessions will be dealt with... "and the password for my bank account is.... ... transfer everything to yourself and close it"
>"And one last thing"
>My family is somewhat surprised since they thought I had divided everything
>"If you open my minecraft server you'll find a chest in the jungle biome with several stacks of iron... I want you to have it"
>My brother's face becomes red and angry, frustrated. My family becomes concerned. Their inquiring voices drown me as I slip back out and wake up
I'm going to get rid of my gaming headphones at least. I used to take so much joy in small things I'd notice, now Im so busy listening to cumtown reruns that I don't notice anything
Trying to eat healthy, hit the gym, bulk up, tan, operate a household, work, study and have a social life is fucking killing me bros. I feel like any free time I get, is me slacking off from what I'm supposed to be doing, or I'm sleeping. Like bruh how to become a beast when my whole life is a constant struggle for balance?
I miss my ex even though she treated me like trash.
So this chick im dating is not the most consistent with texts and it irritates me. I have however concluded that she's just a naturally skittish and all over the place type of person. I took her virginity and i was her first date if that matters.
Should I withdraw attention or just bring this up calmly??
If you took her virginity and think she's showing signs of skittishness there's probably a FUCKTON of benign neuroticism (eg. anxiety) she's keeping hidden from you that results in her missing/not replying to texts. I wouldn't think worse of her until she demonstrates bad intent... remember that women don't know what they do to men.
Interesting. Can you elaborate further anon? So what should I do?
deeznutz!
Well, what's the actual issue? Is she not replying to your texts fast enough? If that's all you're worried about, you can just ask her if she doesn't check her phone much. I guarantee you'll get an answer that either confirms that she doesn't, or some stumbling story about how she's nervous and doesn't know how to reply.
I'm cautioning you against jumping to feeling disrespected because again, she'll have no idea she's doing that to you.
I just want her to be more consistent. One time she didn't reply until the next morning updating me on where she's been. I just feel irritated by it and as such have already started talking to other women. She mostly likely isn't aware (she's inexperienced and younger than me significantly). So do I bring it up? Because bringing it up and doing mature things isn't the sexiest to a woman
If you're irritated by it to the point you're talking to other people, bring it up with her. Can't really get worse. You need to think about what not bringing it up with her looks like. If you're just going to be quietly annoyed at her forever until you drop her out of the blue, what's the point?
Alright make a good point. Do i also mention im talking to other chicks?
she should naturally know that. no girl is looking at me thinking i aint playing her.
How do I make her know then when we've been implicitly exclusive? Do i just say
>your inconsistent communication is irritating and honestly makes me think why i shoulf i be only talking to you
Se ainda tiver algum brasileiro aqui eu estou disposto a encontrar vocês durante o carnaval. Não ter ninguém pra sair é uma bosta e as poucas pessoas que eu conheci irl que frequentavam esse buraco eram legais. Sou de sp btw.
If women didn't use men for validation or play with their feelings then there'd be 75% less misogyny in the world
Posted this in the thread last week but here it is
>Just turned 25
>Contract welder
>Saved up decent amount of money the last few years ($40K, no debt)
>Planning on moving once my current gig expires, which will be in April
>Planning on moving to a whole new area, not sure where yet but have a couple ideas
>Going to block everyone I know, including family
And just going to restart anew. I hope it all works out. I'm about 80% decided on doing this, there is still that little part of my brain that is telling me not to. But I think its for the best.
We're not all going to make it, but I'm trying my best to.
From experience I can say it might take a decade to happen, but you'll eventually come to regret cutting absolutely everyone off unless they're all horrible people. That said, time away from them and time to reflect could be helpful.
I don't consider them "horrible". Most of them, anyway. My dad was pretty bad, I think me, my brother, and my older sister are proof enough of that. I am the only "normal-ish" one. My sister turned into a huge thot, and I am pretty sure she is a drug addict. My brother is a flaming homosexual and he also cross-dresses. I'm just a quiet gym dude, don't really have any vices or oddities beyond being pretty far-right politically (hence why I am so ashamed of this situation). Deep down part of my conscience seems to know you're right. But there is still pretty much every other fiber of my being pulling me away telling me to abandon everything and truly chisel a new life from bare stone.
i want a bf who likes cats and isn't a coomer. i'll make you dinner every night and hold you when you feel sad. all you have to do is genuinely love me back
right, but what do u offer him as he ages like a fine wine while u age like milk?
I want friends so badly and I think its starting to drive me insane.
>Personally a little bit odd (hence being here)
>Have gf who also has her quirks and we get along very well
>Ez job, lotsa savings, etc
>ALWAYS wish I had a group of lads to go out and do anything with
I'm fresh out of uni and I've almost nothing to show for it. My job is a means to an end and my coworkers are typical normies + older than me by a bit. I'm grateful for all that I have but I genuinely don't know how to make male friends. I've got some bad experiences with female friends so I really just want bros at this point. I swear everyone in my city has joined some stupid rock climbing club just to socialize but I don't care for rock climbing. I'm highly tempted to get back into MTG but I also heard there is a ton of SJW garbage now.
Except for those made in highschool/uni/gym, where did you meet your bros?
You could try go clubbing. I've made some friends in town.
>trips
Going to a nightclub, alone? to make friends?
I guess I could look into a rave or something if the music is good.
Yeah man. Just go bob your head with some of the lads who are checking out ladies and start talking to them. They'll be receptive. Nothing horny men looking for tail want more than to talk to some guy.
idk how to deal with heartbreak, I'm 28, fucking too old but I feel deep. Honestly no clue if this was God's plan, but I am praying for the Lord to help me and I'm struggling to see how this was good in any way or how it will be. I make idols out of relationships, but this one seemed to be different
Don't worry bro, all your suffering is totally just character development orchestrated for you by God. He totally has something good coming for you and cares about you.
🙁
This but unironically. He's gonna fucking make it.
There is no god to save you
Only rely on yourself
Not gonna lie bros, the pain of having no GF is starting to get intense. I didn't care for a pretty good amount of time because my kratom addiction caused my balls to shrink but now it's starting to get to me. Until recently I couldn't drive because of a DUI but that's finally ending at least. I also am racist
lmao this post is funny
>dude who overshares speedrun
>tfw 30 and no gf
>dating pool now mostly consists of single mothers
It's over, brother
date younger women bro. I have a coworker who's 39 (i think) and has a hot as hell 6'3 gf who's 27 and childless. It's possible man, don't give up.
>its possibly a man
I'm attracted to her so there's no chance that it's a man. Even if it was I'm straight so if I'm attracted that makes her female
>being this prepared to being called a homosexual
thats a yikes from me
like I just explained I'm straight. I like pussy and tits and tummys
just broke nofap but it's lent soon so i will pull through for jesus
I’ve decided to go full doomerism. I have no chance at a happy life. I’m just gonna lift, work and vidya till I die.
its not sustainable unless you fully commit
there has to be zero part of you that wants that other life
otherwise the cognitive dissonance will kill you
Yeah I’m fucked either way. But it’s better to die alone than torture myself with people who are either disgusted by me or pity me. On the bright side without distractions I can prioritize lifts.
youre going to make it bro
…thank you anon
I'm trying to get with the girl in the friend group who's known as "the one that doesn't text anyone back" and I'm already getting worn out. I got my false hopes up when she responded within 3 hours only to not respond for the rest of the day. I'm not even at the asking her out step yet, but she wants to do a group activity with just me and another couple so I'd call that a step in the right direction. I'm not sure if I should say something light like "she lives!" or something harsher next time she responds to me because I'm not actually sure if anyone's said anything to her about her texting habits.
go fuck a prostitute and forget about wasting your time and energy chasing a whore. that time spent can be used doing seomthing productive
are you actually under aged because I can't imagine anyone being this much of an idiot as an adult.
I would commit murder to have a girl that hates texting as much as I do. YOu better not fuck this up dude.
She’s not interested
Well the thing is she's the one who initiated and started asking to do stuff and is why I'm trying in the first place
I might try calling over text with her and if that doesn't work I'm throwing in the towel.
>I might try calling over text
for fucking what you autist? If she doesn't want to text what makes you think she'll want to talk on the phone? Why don't you just hang out with her in real life? There is no umbilical cord binding yall, you don't have to be constantly connected 24/7. Just ask her to hang out if you want to spend time with her.
>for fucking what you autist?
for making plans to do stuff or meet up/hang out
>If she doesn't want to text what makes you think she'll want to talk on the phone?
Well given she's called me in the past why not
>Why don't you just hang out with her in real life?
That's what I'm trying to do
>sick again
>4th time this winter
what the hell
Did you take the vax?
To me it’s my third time. I’m tired of this shit. If only my boss didn’t force me to go to the office when that increases the risk for infection.
Bros, there are these 2 girls that want to do a threesome with me, well 1 girl wants to do it more than the other or at least she is more vocal about it. How the fuck do i do that ? I never even brought a condom in my life, im a virgin. I don`t know what to do with 1 , let alone 2. Im a bit older and i guess they think i know a thing or 2. But i feel like it would be stupid of me to not try at least.
go to skipthegames and fuck a prostitute first. just my opinion
i dont know any prostitutes
no, but i was in their room Saturday
true, but like i said, i think they expect a performance from me, I dont even know what to do to make a girl cum, what do i do if i bust too soon. At least there are 2 so they'll help each other. One think i know is that i should do no fap(scared i have the deathgrip syndrome), i have this week or 2 until we meet again. Should i jerk off the day before ?
so go to the site you fucking mong
oh sorry, i thought i said that for some reason its blocked for me
good advice
Hey, the only ones that could be disappointed are them. Like you said, bragging right, did a 3some and no longer a virgin. My dick is average and i have a good body but im pretty hairy. oh yes definitely a bottle or 2 of wine. Hope i will be fake gigachadding good enough, they have this 50 shades of gray strong make type of fetish
Don’t even think about their enjoyment. As long as you just take it for what it is and you’re sandwiched between to naked women afterwards you’ll be hit with ecstasy, you’ll be untouchable and your lifts will skyrocket which lets be honest, is the only thing that matters in comparison.
Thank you anon
are these girls in the room with us right now, anon?
sex is natural, just go with the flow and put up an act
If you’re not used to the feeling of a bagina you better jack off and shower before meeting them. Last thing you want is to American Pie yourself in front of TWO girls.
I’d never rent a woman but if you’re this worried you might as well try it. Ar the very least a prozzy can help you realize what parts of sec you like the most.
Everyone’s first time is gonna suck. You could just do it, be subpar and disappointed, but you did it. Even if it sucks you still have bragging rights. As long as your dick isn’t tiny and you look half decent without a shirt you won’t embarrass yourself, women always talk shit about sexual experiences anyway at least you have an excuse. Just pretend to be gigachad the entire time and maybe have some drinks if that helps.
Feeling grateful to be alive. Life has become so clear and hopeful, fulfilling one goal after another. Never have we been given such a perfect historical window to crush the government. It motivates and impassions me each day, like a bright spark of hope that drives me to push on towards another day.
Like an animal that dreams of one day breaking its cage and roaming free, like an artist that dreams of their career making performance, I dream of a revolution and the collective overthrow of the state.
Cocaine.
I replaced drinking with drugs, then slipped back into drink, now I'm coming to terms about being a straight addict. I'm also getting complimented on weight loss despite not earning it.
Just bought a vape and cannabis products after quitting for 2 months because I'm bored and none of the motivation I thought would come back as a result of quitting did.
You need to detox much longer than that, depending on how long you were smoking
I have to be up early for a new job in a few hours. Been stressing all day, barely left the house and all I can think about is how I'll end up being the office autist again.
I hate this shit, because at the end of the day, nobody cares, but then why even try getting to talk to people?
Is staying up listening to metal a bad idea? Won't be able to sleep anyway
been in that position myself anon. My advice would be to focus on learning the job, if your co-workers see that you’re trying your best and no one can really dislike you. Be kind but don’t seem desperate/flatter people. But i’m a fellow autist so idk if this is the best advice
As for myself, not fitness related but my mental health is in the shitter. Was abused growing up and all my efforts at fixing the resultant anxiety have been mildly effective at best. Have moments of improvement before feeling in despair again. i’m a medfag and its hard to act normal on placement when i’m not doing well on the inside. not sure what to do, dont want to accept that i’ll be like this forever but i'm losing hope
>focus on learning the job
I did that for jobs in the past, but people are always trying to get you to talk about yourself, or you'll see coworkers chatting all casual while I'm stressing over spreadsheets. At the end of the day, if you can't communicate, it stunts your career a lot.
>Was abused growing up and all my efforts at fixing the resultant anxiety have been mildly effective at best.
What specific changes worked for you? I'm sorry to hear about your abuse, have you been able to speak to someone about it? As for mental health, success isn't a straight line, don't be out down by occasional low periods.
i see, eventually i found people accepted me but im not sure if thats what normally happens. Also having things to look forward to outside of work might relieve some of the stress. Wishing you all the best for tomorrow, no matter what happens it'll pass and you'll have overcome a fear
>What changes worked for you?
Moving away from home and having good people around me made a big difference. Outside of that having a good sleep schedule, exposure therapy, gym, clean diet, supplements (magnesium, zinc, vit d/k), and nofap even though its a meme have been helpful. The desire to live a better life gives me the motivation to keep going, I haven't tried therapy yet but I probably should.
>success isn't a straight line, don't be out down by occasional low periods.
wise words, thanks anon
Do pushups work chest?
I quit alcohol for good now
No wonder I stayed away from that garbage for most of my life
This year I will atone for past mistakes
I burned my past completely and threw away everything I didn’t need anymore
>quit my low paying wage cuck job
>sold my motorcycle got rid of all my gear
>signed up for trade school
I threw it all away to start fresh this time
I walked away from it all to start a new and better life
So far the best decision I made
>chick I have absolutely no intention of dating or fucking asked me out
>was so surprised (only happened once before) that I said yes, going to grab a coffee with her
>thinking if I should at least give her a chance, but I just don't find her attractive at all, so I would be lying to both of us
tf do I do now? should I just go along with the date and make it clear that I just want to be friends?
I'm not going to ghost her as much as I'd like to do it, that's just shitty and I respect that she had enough courage to ask me out