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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i am doing great, see

    [...]

    >diet locked in perfectly, feeling good after deficit
    >had no issues upping GH another 2iu
    >long weekend to spend with waifu
    >just closed on property to build our dream home
    >nearing a deal on selling business
    how are you holding up, anon?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >how are you holding up, anon?
      Doing just fine fren.

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Today I cried over being ugly for the first time in my life.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      A few days ago I cried over having a small penis

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      https://i.imgur.com/65nPS2O.jpg

      A few days ago I cried over having a small penis

      let it all out anons, I do it around once a year when I'm overwhelmed by the futility of it all

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      https://i.imgur.com/65nPS2O.jpg

      A few days ago I cried over having a small penis

      Last night I cried actual tears too bros. It's okay.

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >lose weight
    >achieve typical dyel body
    >actually reach out to people
    >get invited often
    >had someone ask for my phone number
    >still feel empty
    why? I always feel like im being left out everytime im around my friends. Im quiet and boring, and most of my friends dont even seem interested in a conversation with me.
    I want to be happy for once

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      People want you around so they appear like they have a large group of friends which helps them make more friends or get women.

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You can't lift away a broken heart.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      The only person who can mend a broken heart is the one who broke it in the first place.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        lol ok

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I'm not Mexican, sorry.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Nobody's perfect.

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >parents just moved from my hometown to my current town
    >helped them move their stuff
    >they kept telling me how difficult it was for them physically and mentally
    >it's clear both of them are declining from a health standpoint
    >parents are usually pretty easygoing but they seemed completely exhausted and worn out

    It's sad seeing them get old, the next decade or two is going to be rough and I'm not looking forward to it. Has anyone experienced their folks aging and how did you cope with it?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I have experienced it anon. It is tough to see. In my experience, I see them a couple of times per year, and each time they seem older because my mental image of them is frozen at about 15 years ago. Just be happy you have a good relationship with them and enjoy your time with them

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Saw this guy two days ago. He told me to sit next to him on the bus. I wanted to lay my head on his shoulder, but I'm not a creep so I didn't.
    There's something nice about this indifferent affection. I don't care what he thinks of me, because he doesn't. But it's fun to imagine tenderness.
    Going to spend new year's eve at home, of course. At least managed to do 8 pull ups easily today.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >I wanted to lay my head on his shoulder, but I'm not a creep so I didn't.
      when i still attended university and had to go from countryside to the city by bus there were times when girls sat next to me and fell asleep on my shoulder. maybe a bit uncomfortable because my trip took around 3h but that's the closest i'd ever been to having a physical contact with someone of the opposite sex.
      my point is it's not creepy.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >maybe a bit uncomfortable because my trip took around 3h
        You're a hero anon. That's a cute story.

        In my case, I'm not sure. We had a weird conversation. He said "let's go to the folk dance class. Now" and I was like "dancing is fun but it's all old people there, so no". So the atmosohere was a bit awkward.
        I think next time I'll just close my eyes on the bus and let god decide.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          test him - ask him why he's bossing you around and see how he reacts. don't just turn him down right away like that and you'll be fine.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Wouldn't that ruin everything? He would just say "nothing" and it would be more awkward.
            By the way, he did another thing that confused me. I asked him to sit (instead of standing, I couldn't sit but he could) and he refused so he could stand near me, I assumed out of politeness. Asked him multiple times to do it, for his own comfort, but "I can't do it now, it would be a surrender to you". I just rolled my eyes at the time. But? Maybe?
            Am I a sperg and this means something? Am I a sperg and it's just harmless flirting all guys do with all girls?

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              nta, but that guy sounds a bit retarded tbqh

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              >if I sit it’s a surrender to you and I will not be easily controlled by a woman
              Kek. If you’re a sperg you guys might be a match.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              >Wouldn't that ruin everything?
              he's clearly interested in you but like that anon said he seems a bit inexperienced.
              i know it sounds rich coming from me but from what i've researched the dynamic is supposed to work like this - as a girl you probably want to play the female gender role in the relationship and he very obviously wants to play the male gender role because i assume some of his friends told him that "he should take the lead" and he probably took that literally. the way these roles are supposed to work at least in theory is that while playing the male gender role you are to make decisions based on logic and lead the relationship but as a female you get to enjoy being emotional and it's his job to make sure you don't hurt yourself by being emotional. basically tell him that he doesn't have to tell you what to do all the time in an indirect way (people often refer to this as women speaking different language but i haven't quite figure out what that means exactly).
              >Am I a sperg and it's just harmless flirting all guys do with all girls?
              it sounds harmless enough to me. just try to 'train' him. we're hopeless after all.

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I’m a premed student in Uni with a 3.99 gpa which means, if I do well on the MCAT, I am almost 100% making it to med school. However, I have a girlfriend who I love dearly and I don’t want to have to break up with her if I go to med school out of state for 4 years, plus 3-5 years of residency after that.
    She is also pre med and there is a good chance we end up on either side of the country for medschool and residency. What happens then?

    I’m grappling with going steady with her until I have to leave, or breaking up now to avoid future heartbreak. It hurts.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >What happens then?
      if you don't cheat she will

      Mentally prepare yourself for that

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Good point. In your opinion, should I break up with her now, or later.
        She’s also my best friend and we spend all our time together. Breaking up will be very hard

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          You never know, maybe god will intervene and you'll both get into the same medical program. If you have something good going enjoy it while it lasts.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Enjoy it while it lasts. No point in throwing something like that away based on a possibility of a difficult end. Never know what the future holds.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          There's no way for the two of you to stick together? I never understood this whole
          >gotta break up because long distance
          So you're only together now because of convenience?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            its because women are physically incapable of dealing with loneliness/celibacy. they dont know how to deal with hardship and they have no reason to - why not just say yes to guys constantly asking you out? why not just accept help from all the people offering it? this is why only some men become so pathetic, while all women turn out pathetic.
            its like constantly taunting a recovered heroin addict with heroin. he's gonna take it eventually.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              They also no longer fear reprisal. The court system protects them. Make women scared again.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      gotta break up bro, you know in your heart long distance doesnt work

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I feel quite lonely. Can't seem to find someone I'm interested in who's also interested in me and its not for lack of trying. It's literally been one of my main goals for over a year now. Been on lots of dates and had some casual sex but anyone I'm actually attracted to is not attracted to me and visa versa.

    It seems the breed of women I'm looking for is near impossible to find or simply doesn't exist anymore.
    >no/few tattoos
    >not bisexual or anything other than straight
    >family oriented and kind
    >cute face and not overweight
    >no fillers and fake lip shit going on
    >but also not a complete introvert who has no life experience

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Litteraly me. I'm just gonna give you this advice. Settle for a girl who's good enough. Just make sure she's good enough and remember to live with no regrets

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >Settle for a girl who's good enough.
        NTA but this sounds right. But I'm curious, what were your experiences that led you to say this?

        https://i.imgur.com/pV3SrRt.jpg

        Come take a seat. Have a drink, on the house. How the hell are you?

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        I think a girl might like me. But I don't want to get my hopes up. I'll see her again in a couple weeks, but it feels like forever. We've been spending a lot of time together. We'd do things together a few days a week, typically. Dinner, going places and walking around, studying together, just hanging out. It was nice. But I can't help but feel that I'm doomed to be just a friend or something. I don't know if that'll turn out to be the case so I'm just gonna see what happens, I guess. I'm also trying (and failing) to not think about her too much, but it is what it is. I've never done things with a girl like this. I only liked her just as a classmate at the start and then at some point I realized I felt other things as well. We have a really good rapport together, it's like when you're with a friend and you just click with each other, except this time it's a girl and not one of my bros.

        For reference I'm 22. I know oneitis is very bad. I'm just in a state of limbo since I'm home on break from school and I cannot stop thinking about her, except when I've been busy with things. Maybe I should just make myself more busy.

        >Asked out a coworker
        Jesus dude

        Asked a very attractive coworker to hang out outside of work last week (I know, don't shit where you eat, but at this point in my life I really don't care). She agreed and we went out hiking. Seemed like she had a good time and might even be into me at least a little, I really like her but was shut down when trying to secure a 2nd date sadly. Fortunately things won't be awkward at work or anything, but still pretty disappointing. Was actually the first girl I've asked out in about a decade. Oh well, such is life. Guess I'll have more fuel for the self-hatred fire while cutting for spring/summer.

        I don't get this don't shit where you eat bullshit. First of all, it's not shitting, it's trying to make relationships with people, ffs. And where else are you going to meet people when you spend so much of your time there?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Man I'd love to meet an introvert girl with no life experience rather than some extrovert who thinks she knows everything

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Tall glass of whole milk, bartender.
    Doing great. Best I've ever been. Thanks for asking.
    Happy new year bros.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Happy New Years, anon

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    A tad demotivated
    I keep trying to get fit through the gym, but I work a physically intense job that involves a lot of running up and down stairs with heavy products

    It's not enough weight to get much gains, but it exhausts me to the point I can't practically go gym whilst not being shattered the next working day

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      cardiomaxx since you have this high intensity/steady state cardio type job.
      Put your mass building goals away for a few years, until you move jobs.
      For now make all the heart and lung gains you can, trust me having that type of fitness up your sleeve will just better your life overall so much in the future.
      Pick up a cardio type sport, you can even do some light strength oriented stuff like boxing, muay thai etc.
      Anyways you gotta adapt your goals and expectations to the situation so you can optimize what you get out of it.

      Then when you switch jobs, you might be able to go into physique/bodybuilding. But with the base of some hard cardio done prior, you will have such an easier job building/cutting in an optimal way, it's not even funny. You will smash the ''leaning out'' aspect of it, as well as the endurance needed from a cardio-vascular level to lift.
      Trust me anon just adapt for the situation.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        How often do you need to be doing cardio to improve on it?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          there's a variety of different types of cardio. Look into your choices and assess which one is most optimal for your gains. The frequency and intensity as well as volume of cardio you do (see for example difference between HIIT and LISS) will only depend on your goals.
          Do you want to ''go the distance'' as in build endurance, then LISS is more appropriate. Or are you looking for more effort-intensive, explosive short-term surges of cardio strength, for your heart to be able to handle high stress in short bouts like in ''push comes to shove'' situation, then you need to do more HIIT like sprints. Depends what your improvement area is. Generally it's better to even out imbalance first, say you are better at taking it easy, going steady pace a while, but you gas out if you need to put in a high but short lived effort at max intensity. You even the high intensity cardio then next it's up to you which you want to focus on. Think about what you want to do with it, or what seems to be to you most useful, depending on what your circumstance is.
          Then considering sports...pick your medium well. Do you want to run, to swim, to bike? All three of those? There are also strenght based cardio like rowing machine. Do you want to be able to hike uphill for long? Pick stairmaster. Do you want to be able to get out of dodge fast? Sprint HIIT on bike/treadmill. I hope you get the gist. Good luck anon.

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    just got home on vacation from uni and i feel extremely depressed and demotivated
    at uni i would stick to a routine with studying and doing gym which would exhaust me mentally to the point of going insane
    now, back home i have lots of time but just feel bored with the gym since depression hit extremely
    now i'm trying to gather motivation by listening to Erika played on an accordion
    also back home feels very empty, it just hits me that i really am a lone wolf in this world and i've been getting dreams of having a gf that would take care of me and vice versa
    but i'll get through this phase as always stronger than before
    wgmi bros

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      here's Erika played on an accordion
      may this song be in your hearts bros at all times, we all have our erika waiting for us
      https://yewtu.be/watch?v=EfrCnLl_nck

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    how do I cope with spending new years alone (again)

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Go to the gym

      Bulk is going well. Don't know what to do with my life and feel paralyzed otherwise.

      Same

      https://i.imgur.com/CmgFnKi.jpg

      >I wanted to lay my head on his shoulder, but I'm not a creep so I didn't.
      when i still attended university and had to go from countryside to the city by bus there were times when girls sat next to me and fell asleep on my shoulder. maybe a bit uncomfortable because my trip took around 3h but that's the closest i'd ever been to having a physical contact with someone of the opposite sex.
      my point is it's not creepy.

      You’re gonna make it dude

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Whisky helps, put some kino on and have a scotch

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Bulk is going well. Don't know what to do with my life and feel paralyzed otherwise.

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Asked a very attractive coworker to hang out outside of work last week (I know, don't shit where you eat, but at this point in my life I really don't care). She agreed and we went out hiking. Seemed like she had a good time and might even be into me at least a little, I really like her but was shut down when trying to secure a 2nd date sadly. Fortunately things won't be awkward at work or anything, but still pretty disappointing. Was actually the first girl I've asked out in about a decade. Oh well, such is life. Guess I'll have more fuel for the self-hatred fire while cutting for spring/summer.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Asked out a coworker
      Jesus dude

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Progress. Simple as.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      you did good, experience is always a great thing

  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >How the hell are you?
    Preparing to go whoring in Thailand

  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    my ex bpd gf called me today for 8th day in the row since she came back in my town for holidays. Today she told me that i should be ashamed and that i the most disgraceful person she ever met in her life. im haunted

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      what did you do bröther

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        She wanted to invite a lanklet from her uni at her house because she had gathering with her other friends and she asked me if he can come. I got mad and called her off but when her friends came and I called her she was rushing to close the phone so I suspect the other guy went there.

        In other occasions she talked to her friends and wanted to go to parties and shit and she was telling me that I want to change her and lock her in the house. If that was the case why does she want me back now?

        and what was your reply? just mention her deprecatiating looks and her age lol

        I told her to shut the fuck before I fuck her up.

        >opening the message in the first place
        >not leaving her on read
        >not replying with "k"
        NGMI

        She called me retard. She told me she has some stuff here in my house and she wanted to come get them. I told her to fuck off. Then she told me that she just wanted to see me. should I let her come here? Do I continue being strict? I will block her maybe

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >She called me retard.
          And you're obligated to answer, retard? She's BPD, how many BPD stories do you need to read on here before you understand that you gotta cut them out completely. You're still on Mr. Bones' Wild BPD Ride as long as you entertain her.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >And you're obligated to answer, retard?
            yes she is patrolling around the neighborhood because she lives like 1 min distance with a car from my house and if i don't answer there is a big danger she will knock my doors. yesterday she came with the excuse to leave me some clothes i had at her house. She let them at the door because i told her to fuck off. I almost fighted with a guy she was talking to before me because he was staring at me and he even confronted me.

            >bpd
            Look im not a shrink so i can't diagnose her but she gives be bpd vibes. Anyway i don't wanna say more cause she is lurking IST everyday since we broke up

            Verification not required.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          replace dont chase.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          You sound unhinged, tb.h

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            elaborate

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      and what was your reply? just mention her deprecatiating looks and her age lol

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >opening the message in the first place
      >not leaving her on read
      >not replying with "k"
      NGMI

  17. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Gonna start drinking here in two hours or so. I'm doing alright, been making great gains lately. Been running just as frequently as I've been lifting, and the reduction in BF is noticeable. Running around 25-30 mi/week, on top of lifting everyday. Going to make a big salad w/chopped chicken breast, along w/broccoli. Also, going to get DRUNK on some seltzers tonight. I'm hanging in there

  18. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Gained 10kgs. Closing in on 100kgs
    Got approached and later on rejected by girls throughout the year, further depression ensued
    Dead end job that pays subhumanly prevents me from finishing uni properly; but jobs are scarce and I need to pay the bills and help my parents
    Almost 4 years in, I'm still haunted by the ghost of my ex. How she dumped me, everything she told me and every bad thing that happens in my life immediately makes me thing of it
    Yesterday I was THIS close of telling my parents than the reason I don't kill myself is because of them. I didn't do it because I know I'll ruin their new year's eve and possibly their existence too, but this is how I really feel
    Everywhere I look I see people having incredible things happen to them and seeing it sinks me deeper and deeper

  19. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It's over.

  20. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i just got a paramedic license and am now terrified every day that I go in that im gonna fuck up now that im in charge. So many people keep telling me how good im gonna be and how proud they are but i feel like im just gonna end up disappointing them.

    Also i gained like 15 lbs over the course of medic school and have 0 motivation or desire to get back in the gym. I feel like the only thing i wanna do when i get home is get high and play vidya so I dont have to think about it.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      this is what everyone goes through, youre not special

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        He didn't say he was special you dumb underage gay. Lrn2read

  21. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Yesterday was my birthday. Spent it alone. Realized I made the right decision to leave my ex and to cut shitty friends off.
    None of these people knew my birthday.
    The last time I saw my friend he threw a pissy fit because I refused to celebrate his birthday two nights in a row, knowing damn well he didn’t even know mine. I went out clubbing and drinking till 5am for his birthday. These people know I don’t do that shit and hate it and just find it uncomfortable. I sat in clubs with my head down looking uncomfortable the whole time. I did a ton of club shit at 21-22 and never liked it. His argument was “you’re the only one who can go out again everyone else works.” I had an interview, but fuck me right? Half the others are managers and can call out/do whenever they want. 60% of this circle didn’t even show up for his birthday at all. But he threw a literal child like tempter tantrum at me with tears and anger telling me to fuck off because I didn’t want to spend a second night doing shit I hate. He keeps texting me as if it never happened claiming to be checking in on me but I know it’s bullshit for two reasons. I owe his girlfriend $100, and he’s a covetous garden gnome. And he made such a huge deal about birthdays but doesn’t even know when mine is. There’s way more about why this dudes a piece of shit, like being a generic insecure manlet who belittles everyone and acts like everyone’s trying to fuck his obese girlfriend all the time, but this birthday temper tantrum was just too much for me to overlook. All I saw was pure selfishness. Almost 30 years old I can’t be hanging with grown ass adults who have little meltdowns over getting their way on shit

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Friends knowing your birthday is not a make or break thing.
      My brother does shit like this then does the pity parade game when no one does anything.
      The reality is you are not special and need to set people up to treat you well, de them up for success with you.
      Tell them your B-Day is coming up, tell them things you want, etc.

      There’s no shame in spending a b day alone, but don’t push people away because they’re not making you feel special

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Also fuck your “friend” the dude sound likes a fag lord.
        That said, being a spoil sport no fun in public is cancer. You can’t be doing that shit

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Please don’t misunderstand me, I was just highlighting that it was definitely the right decision. It’s not about the birthday, it’s the principal. This guy was a massive scumfag. Not only do I not want to hang with someone who throws a tantrum, but if he is gonna do that over his own birthday, I would expect to hear happy birthday on my own at a minimum. It’s just the principle of feeling so entitled to 2 separate days of celebrating your birth(day) and acting like I’m a shitty friend for only celebrating it on one day but not even knowing mine.

        Other scummy things:
        Randomly demands people (self included) owe him $10 for a reason he made up, if you stand your ground he gets all pissy and tries to talk over/cold shoulder you
        Invites people to hang out to smoke weed, insistently tries to get people to smoke weed with him, then demands anyone who smoked owes him $5, only AFTER smoking.

        For a while in D&D there were two incels, a guy&his gf, me, and him. The two incels were making deep fakes of the one friends Gf who is also a member of the circle. He’s known this guy&gf since highschool. The incels were new comers to this group. He told me about the fakes but wanted to hide it from that friend&gf so his D&D campaign could continue. That’s scum.
        >pity party
        Not my intent. There’s no one to push away anyways. I enjoyed being able to stay in by myself and just do my own thing for the day. It’s not that I was lonely, it’s just the realization of wow these people are shit. The ex texted me merry Christmas days after breaking up, if she knew my birthday I know she’s have texted on it too. BDP narcissist type girl.
        >go out and be boring
        It’s not so much that as it is alcohol makes me sleepy and does nothing for the social anxiety. I went and did it anyways and sucked it up for the night and did my best to appear happy but I know it’s obvious if I’m uncomfortable. These people just didn’t care. It’s not my cup of tea.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          That guy sounds like a complete gay and you're right for not wanting to be around him. You shouldn't tolerate behavior like that at 20 much less 30

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          kek that deepfake shit
          how do you people even hang out with trash like that in the first place

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Where the fuck do people find "friends" like this lmao

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Man, that sucks.
      I gifted my, at the time, best friend a very sick lighter for his birthday and he didn't even bother writing me "happy birthday" on mine even though it was 3 days later.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >buy first Gf expensive yoga pants and clothes for her birthday, then for Christmas
        >get nothing for Christmas, for my birthday she picked up a $1 flashlight from her CVS job last minute
        T-thanks babe I look forward to the next time power goes out…

        Same as my OP it’s just the principle.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >gifted a >special date by my partner christmas 2021
          >still have not happened

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I'm sorry but you sound like a pure asshole
      I would go to the depths of hell (a club) for my friends
      anyways you are a scammy garden gnome yourself you owe a woman money LOL a woman!!!
      How on Earth are you thinking you are the saint in this interaction? I hope your friend drops you and moves on, 100 dollars well spent to rid himself of your greedy whiny baby nature.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        did you miss the part where his friend is also a whiny baby but cant remember birthdays (so a worse whiny baby) or that anon DID go to the club, just didnt want to go twice in a row?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Don’t pay the money back until it’s convenient for you. There’s nothing these people can do about it. $100 is hardly worth the effort it would take to get through court or brute force. I was in a similar situation once and I regret paying them back early on. Maybe you pay them back in a few months, maybe in a couple years. Shit people belong in the past, you are your only true priority right now and people who were holding you back don’t deserve any of your time money or energy

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I'd give my friend $100 no qs asked, not lone
      these aren't friends

  22. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I told some dude a week ago to update us on his story but I don't even remember what happened lol

  23. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Recently started a new job and there's this boomer coworker who just really makes me sad. He is somehow the most empty normie I have ever witnessed.
    >50ish years old
    >married some ugly fat hag in his late 30s
    >no kids
    >drives a prius
    >not a shred of muscle in sight
    >balding with beer gut
    >not obese but overweight enough for it to be noticeable
    >same job for 25 years
    >never improved on anything
    >shares the most tame, boring, ancient, unfunny 2011 memes about the most mainstream shit imagineable in our team slack
    >not even ironic boomer humor like "i hate my wife" or something but literally just star wars memes from 2011
    >talks about nothing but mainstream news topics like putin bad, vaccines good, got my 4th booster today, etc.
    >dresses like a retarded CS college freshman with "witty" black t shirts like "127.0.0.1 is my home xD", which are also 2 sizes too small so you can see even more of his gut

    it just makes me sad honestly. I shouldn't be so obsessed by him and he obviously doesn't even objectively have a super bad life, but he just seems like the shell of a man. Like he didn't have an original thought in his life. I feel like God is giving me a warning sign of what I could become if I don't get my shit together.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I’ve been faced with the same thing in the past
      But looking back, I always think fondly of these people after the dust has settled while the try hard types always leave a bad after taste.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This is why I left my old job, one of the more seasoned guys was congratulating me on a promotion and he took me aside and told me to look around and notice how 99% of the other people in the office were basically what you were describing. He basically warned me not to get too comfortable and not to stop challenging myself, or I would wake up one day and that would be me
      That was like 4 years ago and I still think about it all the time, those people are probably all still there

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >not even ironic boomer humor like "i hate my wife"
      men back then had 40% more testosterone so its not ironic at all. more testosterone, less female rights. HUURAH

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >putin bad, vaccines good, got my 4th booster today, etc.
      Unironically all true

  24. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I am struggling with coming to terms that I am both autistic and (maybe) asexual (or simply no sex drive for the folks who don’t believe in that). I find women attractive, but I don’t desire sex and a relationship sounds like hell. I want to have a girlfriend and be normal, but I am not. Not low t or porn addicted either. When a girl shows interest I keep it going until we have kissed and after that I have to cut it off. Maybe it’s temporary.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      do you fap?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Barely, maybe once a week, but I struggle to maintain an erection. Used to be addicted when i was younger.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I have that but not asexuality, but rather, what I feel like is sexuality completely warped by fetishes and porn. I might as well be homosexual I think. Vanilla sex and women's regular sexual body parts (boobs, ass, pussy) don't do literally anything for me. It's over.

      The worst thing is, I WANT to want it. I wanna be healthy, but it's too late.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        you sound like a closeted homosexual

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      same

  25. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Christmas was hard. My brother only stayed for christmas eve and left the next day. My mum is so stressed out she barely talked to me. My dad didn't even call or take my calls. Grandma has full blown dementia and didn't recognize me anymore.
    The girl who i thought was my friend and who i wanted to spent nye with has ghosted me while the girl who i still have feelings for is spending the weekend with some dude in another city.
    It all hurts and i feel myself shutting down internally to stop it.

  26. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Pretty sure a friend of mine is going to kill himself in the near future.
    I tried to help him for months or even years. Talking with him about his shit. Giving him advice. Trying to get him to do things, start hobbies etc. At this point I don't know what else can be done.
    Every time I see him he is just more depressed and whines about some random bullshit. Everyone and everything is always against him. Every little mishap, often caused by himself, is a major crisis and reason to sulk for days on end. Every week it's the same.
    6 months ago his way too good for him gf finally broke up with him. He spend this entire time talking shit about her, blaming her for everything while simultaneously thinking they will get back together. She now told him it's over for good and doesn't want to see him anymore and he just went off the deep end. Fucked up on drugs every time I see him, talking about how everything is bad and never getting better.
    And the thing is at this point I think I don't really care anymore. Every time I see him. No matter what context or what situation. Every second thing he says revolves around how he is doing so bad and how shitty things are for him. You can't have a normal conversation with him without him relating everything that's said to him and his problems. It's annoying when we're alone and it's straight up pathetic when we're in big groups. He has a good family who supports him, friends, a job, education, is healthy. Nobody can do more for him. I honestly had enough of his shit. I think he needs to either fucking do it and off himself or get over it.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Cut the dead weight.

  27. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >do jack off during the week despite having my exams on tuesday
    >refuse any New Year's eve party proposition because I had already something close to my home
    >didn't warn the friend who organize the party that I will come anyway, I now realize I have too much work to go out partying
    Honestly not well. I kinda hate myself cause now I will spend the New Year's eve alone, studying. Entirely due to my own laziness. How do I cope with it ? How do I suck it up and give this situation a good spin for the new year ?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Studying is always worth it.

  28. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >no plans for new year's
    >I have friends, but they're all away on vacation with their SOs or with other friends/families for new year's
    >kinda sad, but no benefit in being upset over it
    >probably gonna be in bed by 11pm anyway

  29. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    A week ago i almost got murdered by a neighbor and another man tyat beat me up, chased me with knives, took my phone and tried to run over me with their cars, the cctv i had is better than nothing but the angle, distance and 720p resolution are less than optimal by far

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Get a CC license. They’ll try again if they’re your neighbor and know where you live.

  30. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    jack and coke por favor
    going on a 35 day backpacking trip through europe soon and I have a lot of mixed feelings
    I'm incredibly excited, I've been terminally online for the better part of a decade and a half so leaving the internet behind for a bit will be nice, plus I've never even travelled out of my state so I look forward to seeing new places and meeting new people
    on the flip side, my cancer-ridden mother has just been taken off of her fourth line of treatment and her doctor wants to see her and talk about the next steps a week before I leave
    I'm 25 and I've literally never done anything exciting in my life, I can count the amount of times I went out with people after the age of 13 on one hand and since my mom got diagnosed with cancer 2 years ago my non existent social life got even worse and I'm stuck in a shitty trailer putting all my money towards because it's all we can afford so I'm kind of scared to cancel the trip
    I feel like I'll never have another opportunity like this but I'm also scared of how guilty I'll feel just leaving my mother by herself
    blogpost over

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      you should stay with your mom tbh. The trip can wait

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      you should go fuck your mom

  31. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'll take some rum, bartender.
    This year was fucking garbage.
    My father died, I cut off all of my friends due to that, spent entire summer doing nothing, spent my birthday alone, struggling at uni and I feel like I am seemingly ignored by the outside world.
    It feels like whenever I make an effort to socialize I get pushed back by others.
    I never expected a lot out of those people, but it seems like not being forgotten the following day is too much to ask for. I guess I am just written off as the weird guy.
    Been working out quite a bit, I would say I got a body that looks better than I could have ever expected myself to look.
    Anyway, feel like I am just getting closer to the end everyday, I am not sure I will be able to take this for much longer. The loneliness is absolutely destroying me. I have no one to talk to, no one to open up to, this forum is literally the only place I've spoken my mind in for like a year now.
    Will likely spend the new year alone as well, I don't think its likely now but guaranteed.

  32. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Have mercy upon me, O God, according to thy lovingkindness: according unto the multitude of thy tender mercies blot out my transgressions.
    Wash me throughly from mine iniquity, and cleanse me from my sin.
    For I acknowledge my transgressions: and my sin is ever before me.
    Against thee, thee only, have I sinned, and done this evil in thy sight: that thou mightest be justified when thou speakest, and be clear when thou judgest.
    Behold, I was shapen in iniquity; and in sin did my mother conceive me.
    Behold, thou desirest truth in the inward parts: and in the hidden part thou shalt make me to know wisdom.
    Purge me with hyssop, and I shall be clean: wash me, and I shall be whiter than snow.
    Make me to hear joy and gladness; that the bones which thou hast broken may rejoice.
    Hide thy face from my sins, and blot out all mine iniquities.
    Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me.
    Cast me not away from thy presence; and take not thy holy spirit from me.
    Restore unto me the joy of thy salvation; and uphold me with thy free spirit.
    For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the Lord, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.Then shall ye call upon me, and ye shall go and pray unto me, and I will hearken unto you.And ye shall seek me, and find me, when ye shall search for me with all your heart.
    Arise; for this matter belongeth unto thee: we also will be with thee: be of good courage, and do it.
    There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.

  33. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    So I think a girl from work called me cute, but my surname is kinda similar with the word in my language for it so I don't know if she said
    >hey cute
    or
    >hey <surname>
    I was sure she said the first thing but then I got doubts ugh why am I like this
    she's very kind to me but we never really talked so I don't know if she'd just compliment me like that

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      just ask her jokingly - can also be construed as flirting if it works out - if she prefers the nickname ''cute'' or ''your nickname'' for you. She will have to tell you and her response should let you know in some way if she views you as cute, and would call you that.

  34. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >opened IST to post my feels in this thread
    >spend 2 minutes looking for the thread
    >so retarded that I have now forgotten what I was going to post

  35. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I just spoiled some tv show i was watching because i was enjoying it and gays like me don't deserve to enjoy things.

  36. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Grandpop is dying.

    A stroke got the better of him.
    I went up to the hospital today to check in on him.
    His rugged hands that can only be shaped by a lifetime of physical work that felt like they could crush stone just a week ago have now gone limp where he lies asleep.

    I am losing both a grandfather and a man I've always aspired towards.

    How this man has toiled.
    A seafarer with uncountable adventures, yet a grounded father.
    Completely self-reliant, but never prideful.
    Hands of iron and a heart of gold.
    A life's work behind him, yet another 30 years of unfinished business ahead.
    Dying at age 90, but still dying to young.

    I'm still expecting him to just snap out of it, since he doesn't have time for death. But I recognize the way it's really going.

    Feels so fucking terrible man.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Be grateful you got to know him. I barely knew mine, and they were all gone by the time I was 18. He wouldn't want you to be sad, at that age it's better to go than cling on to life.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      For what it's worth, i'm sorry anon

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      My condolences man, stay strong

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Sorry man, I feel the same about my Great Grandfather who passed a couple years ago.

      Had prostate cancer, seemed fine for a while but rapidly deteriorated in a few months.

      Still miss the guy to death, he lived on the other side of the country so I didn't get to see him too much and wish I had.

      It sucks man, I feel for you.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Thank you for sharing those things about your grandfather anon. He seems like he was a great man that lived a good fulfilling life. It's hard to see the strong brought down so low. Wishing the best for you and your family.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      My condolences, fren! My grandma is the only family member I truly give a fuck about and she's 93 and ravaged by dementia. I feel your pain. Stay strong!

  37. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >32
    >been seeing awesome woman
    >she asks me about my friends

    …I don’t have any friends

    What do I do

    Ah fuck it it’s impossible to have a gf if you don’t have any friends is it they’ll just think you’re pathetic

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >"Don't have any because I recently moved here"
      Done

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      It's over. You might be fizeekmaxxed, careermaxxed, moneymaxxed, outfitmaxxed, hairstylemaxxed, skinmaxxed, looksmaxxed, carmaxxed, but if you're not socialmaxxed? It's over.

  38. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I want to kill myself
    I ate some chocolate taking me 600cals over
    I wanted to kill myself before that
    now I want to kill myself even more
    Everything is shit
    NGMI

  39. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >ask gf for a simple nude
    >left on seen 1 hour ago

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      lewd are better

  40. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    not too bad, could always be worse.

    resolved that this year is the one where I finally stop being a coombrain and get on with my life

  41. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    whiskey boss
    tomorrow is my 26th birthday and I don't know what I'm doing or how to feel

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I was pretty listless at 26 and had almost no marketable skills. I thought I was never going to make and now over a decade later I've carved out a decent niche for myself. Sometimes I almost pine for the days where I felt hopeless on the abyss of complete directionlessness and self reflection on how I ended up there. Maybe you will figure it out, maybe you won't. Either way it's life and while there are many obstacles that are different from others, the biggest chains are always self imposed. Good luck anon and happy birthday.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        thank you anon
        I have some skills but I became a total recluse since 2018 and thus I lost what few friends I had
        still I'm hopeful, I've always asked myself the same 3 questions
        >who am I?
        >why am I here?
        >where am I going?
        sometimes those answers weren't pretty but sometimes they had to be

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          NTA, I went from recluse to college and parties and all that shit and I still ask myself those questions. I don't know if it ever goes away. Maybe you just cope better with it as you get older.

  42. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    How do I socialize as a mid 20s male with social ineptitude in the weekends? I have some friends, but most of the time I'm on my own Friday - Sunday unless I run errands or go to the gym. The game/comic shop near is open for a couple more hours, but I don't want to walk around and just buy shit to look normal

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Find a hobby that involves socializing with others. Join a rock climbing gym or some other wholesome activity where people are expected to socialize.

  43. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Been let down for NYE again so gonna spend it alone again 3 times in a row

    Also really need to start boxing again. Christmas holidays sapped my motivation and drive

  44. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I can feel my sadness turning into resentment and I'm scared of my thoughts.
    Why shouldn't they pay for making me feel like this?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >yfw

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Unironically. How do I avoid his fate?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Listen to copious amounts of Jordan Peterson possibly

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I can feel my sadness turning into resentment and I'm scared of my thoughts.
          Why shouldn't they pay for making me feel like this?

          the only one who should pay is you for making yourself feel like this, it's all about your mind tamanegi flava

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Why shouldn't they pay for making me feel like this?
      They should anon, and it's within your power to make them.

  45. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Anons, I think it's gonna be a good year. A hard year, but a good one.
    >Revitalizing my workouts. Been totally fucking around this year in a half-assed cut where I do the bare minimum in the gym every day but still eat over maintenance. Just started saying fuck it and working out hard and eating big.
    >Been getting more and more into cooking so I will stop getting salty goyslop delivered.
    >Did my first yoga class today because I'm inflexible as fuck. Actually enjoyed it, going to be signing up for more
    >Also interested in dance classes because I'm utterly graceless. That and yoga might be good place to meet women.
    >Going to try and branch out from the social groups I've been stuck in. They're nice people but I'm holding myself back by sticking with the first thing I got comfortable with after covid.
    >Making a conscious effort to be more assertive with women, especially as it pertains to signaling my interest. A lot of girls have been into me but because of my turbo autismo, I just wait for them to hold up a sign saying "please fuck me" before making a move.
    >Also going to be going to professional networking events for my creative hobby. I'm trying to get paid for it but I've been stuck in the covid mindset of "nothing's going on," even though everything is going on again. On the bright side I've really honed my craft and I think my work is ready for the world.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Good luck anon. Hope the coming year turns out the way you want it to.

  46. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I was dumped out of my first relationship at the start of this year. It only lasted about 6 months, but I am still not over her.
    It's the first time in my life I felt loved by anyone, with my family unfortunately being rather cold, and it will take a long time until I can have this feeling again. Until I have a body I feel anyone could actually love, and a lifestyle that allows me to meet women and feel confident engaging them.

    Can't wait for this piece of shit year to be over.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      It'll be okay anon. There'll be more.

  47. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    WHY CAN'T WOMEN EVER MAKE THE FIRST MOVE!?!?!?!
    I DON'T KNOW HOW TO READ HER SIGNALS GODDAMNIT
    sigh

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      It's ok, because by the time you realize you need to make a move she's lost interest/feelings for you.

  48. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I've gotten so damn jaded at my regular gym I full on hate everyone in it now. I alternate gyms in the same gym chain but my main gym for some reason I just hate everyone in there. It's probably because it's my home gym and I go to it more often but still jeez. Like today I went and I just now keep my head down and stare out the windows cause I don't want to deal with people anymore.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      wew why do you hate them? In my gym the people are pretty cool. I don't talk with any of them except the trainers but they are chill and there is a nice etiquette, people are very respectful and clean. It's a varied crowd too.

  49. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Just moved to a new city up the road with a friend. Feels kinda nice being in a new environment but all I really want is to get a job as a pilot now that I have my license and find out where I’ll actually be settling once that happens. Everything in this life seems so meaningless, just trying to stay busy and stimulated enough as I await death or the end of the world

  50. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I fucking hate Christmas.
    I fucking hate that I have to argue with my dunning Kruger dad over the most stupid shit ever. It’s arguing with an irl shitposter

  51. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Sent a girl a shirtless pic for the first time of my life. She was mirin. Thanks IST

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous
  52. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    >this vile drivel
    thanks for winning the argument for me, retard. If there was any doubt left whatsoever as to how immature and hypocritical you are, now there's none left. Anyways pay back the money and leave them, if you have a spine and some responsibility. But let's not pretend, you are probably the type of garden gnome who will disappear like a thief in the night.

    Also it's saturday morning here, fag. I went out last night. You seem to think everyone lives in the same time zone as you? retarded. So you're the one spending your friday night here, buddy.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I’m not reading any of that. You’re wrong. You lose. Take the L like a man, or keep desperately bitching nonsense and look like more of a schizoid idc makes little difference to me.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >schizo sending literal paragraphs
        >I ain’t reading that
        Based schizo violator

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I’m not sure what he posted but you sound like a deranged lunatic. Did he state he wasn’t going to pay someone money back? It sounds like you’re over focusing on random things he mentioned just for the sake of having an argument. Because you said
      >you sound like the type of garden gnome who would disappear
      It leads me to believe he only mentioned owing someone money and now you’re drawing and jumping to conclusions. Idk, the post was deleted, but you unironically sound like every other miserable weak gay that comes in here to pick on anons who are bitching about their life. You’re even more pathetic than some anon bitching about owing someone money.
      >Saturday
      It makes little difference what day it is if you’re using any of your time to post here.

  53. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Haven't successfully had sex with wife coming up 6 months. Our son was born about 6 months ago, by emergency c-section (i assure you, it wasn't be either of our choice). GP recommended no sex for 6 weeks to recover from birth. Gave it 3 months just to be safe. We tried once but it was very painful for her even with lube.

    Since then, nothing. She says she has no inclination. Apparently breastfeeding tanks estrogen, as a result, it's not uncommon for lack of libido while breatfeeding. GP gave wife estrogen cream to try and counter this but it hasn't seemed to help.

    While she's happy to give a handy or head it feels like a consolation prize. It lacks the emotional connection. It's causing a bit of a strain on our relationships in addition to us both being tired.

    Any oldfag dad anons with some advice? I was planning to get my mum to babysit once a fortnight so we can go out for dinner and shit once NY nonsense is over.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Oh, to add to that, from my research apparently this can last up to 18 months and I will absolutely lose my shit prior to that.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Your wife is going through something difficult. Man up and support her the time she needs

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        this
        focus all your vril on getting ripped or something or working extra hours at work for the kid

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      outside of medication, the most significant change you could make would be to provide more support/care for her. when either one of you is tired/stressed by life or other circumstances, the other partner being present and caring for them is extremely important and (in cases like these) cruicial for rebuilding/maintaining emotional and sexual attraction/desire for one another. not saying you aren't already doing a lot, having a kid is a ton of work for both people, but if you can see what else you can do for her, even if its just letting her confide to you abt how she feels.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Anal.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I'm not a degenerate so that's not on the table

        this
        focus all your vril on getting ripped or something or working extra hours at work for the kid

        Can't even do that. I have an injured hand so i can't do any lifts aside from vertical push and can't go to muay thai. In addition I'm off work until late Jan.

        outside of medication, the most significant change you could make would be to provide more support/care for her. when either one of you is tired/stressed by life or other circumstances, the other partner being present and caring for them is extremely important and (in cases like these) cruicial for rebuilding/maintaining emotional and sexual attraction/desire for one another. not saying you aren't already doing a lot, having a kid is a ton of work for both people, but if you can see what else you can do for her, even if its just letting her confide to you abt how she feels.

        Your wife is going through something difficult. Man up and support her the time she needs

        I'm trying but she has trouble being open emotionally outside of post-coital.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          on the exercise side, you can take up hiking/walking, maybe even put the baby in a stroller and take him along with you. shadowboxing/practicing kicks is also still an option. you can take up reading to clear your mind, try to write in the margins of the books or keep a doc to write down your thoughts. additionally, since you're off of work see what stuff around the house you can handle with your hand/s, and try to do something nice like cook for her, get her some flowers or a nice clothing item shes been wanting, maybe watch a movie or play some games together. there's always a way brother, you'll find what you can do and you'll be awesome at it

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            also very often taking full care of the baby for some time may a day or so, build a bond with em and let your wife have some time off

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >and try to do something nice like cook for her, get her some flowers or a nice clothing item shes been wanting, maybe watch a movie or play some games
            We just went on holiday and i got her a diamond pendant. We watch animu together every evening.

            In terms of training I'm doing what i can with adjustable dumbbells and bodyweight. Unfortunately, can't take the little fella out as it's the middle of summer here and he's too young for suncream. We were talking him on daily walks before we went away while it was cooler.

            also very often taking full care of the baby for some time may a day or so, build a bond with em and let your wife have some time off

            She's still breastfeeding but doesn't have enough supply to have extra on hand for me to do that. I look after him where possible but full day can't happen.

  54. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >"I had a great time anon let's see eahcother again!"
    >"Sorry I'm so busy!"
    >"Sorry to cancel I'm not feeling good!"
    >"Sorry, I just started seeing someone!"

    Obviously weren't that busy then cunt. Why do I give these whores the benefit of the doubt. From now on the second a girl is not immediately available to me at all times she gets ditched.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Good. Only invest as much as you see returned at max.

      Not a single woman out there gives a fuck about you beyond their need to satisfy their own desires, like having a warm body beside them at night or a willing ATM. In return, you shouldn't give a single fuck about them beyond their ability as a stress-relief tool. A tool shouldn't require emotional investment beyond the bare minimum.

      Remember that even 'using' the tool generates hormones and neurotransmitters that make you feel good/happy. You can remove your feelings of loneliness without getting attached, and you can bet that they aren't attached in the slightest.

  55. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Sparkling water please.
    I have zero personality of my own and no self esteem and no idea how to build either.

  56. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Extremely depressed. The years have added up and I can't seem to escape my garbage childhood/family. I try but I just can't seem to care anymore. Too much shit.

  57. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'll have a Blackni, please.

    Just moved back to my home country after a decade abroad and the end of a 7-year-relationship. My skills don't translate well here and I'm terrified that my next job will end up becoming my career so I'm procrastinating applying for jobs and just living off savings. Health and fitness is just about the only thing going well. I have no friends here anymore, no job obviously, and no longer feel like it's home. Currently undecided between going back to school or just applying for entry-level positions and hoping I find something that doesn't make me want to blow my brains out.

  58. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I WILL go downtown tomorrow night to the little bar and clubs square and meet some qts.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      How the fuck do you get back though? Can't drive and it takes like 2.5 hours by bus for me

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Drive.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Can't drive here if you've had more than 1 drink and I have plans to be a firefighter so I can't have no DUIs on my license

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Don't drink then retard.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Drink driving is only a problem if you hit someone/thing or get caught

  59. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >girl I like bought me dinner and gave me a hug
    WAGMI bros

  60. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Also I just wanna say that no matter how shit you are or your life is, you will always be better than a BPD woman. Just laugh at all the dumb, evil shit they say

  61. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    The blackpill/lookism/incel threads are unironically bringing me down.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Whitepill: The most important thing is socialization. The main component in all couples getting together is proximity/access/repeated exposure. Studies all show that faces we see repeatedly become more attractive to us naturally.

      This is why most relationships start at work/university. Whenever you see a guy with some girl that makes you go "How did he land HER?" it's likely because they are in the same social circle/work/uni classes.

      So, this should be a whitepill to you because you can control your social life more than your face or height. The hardest fact of this is that if you're beyond uni then it's going to be much harder for you in adult life to find a partner because you're no longer constantly around attractive girls at all times you can build attraction with.

      Building attraction is the bottom line. Looksism fags only work on instant attraction which is useful to get your foot in the door or for fuck apps but not as solid as built attraction through social exposure.

  62. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm stuck in a LDR with a girl who I'm afraid to ghost cause I'm 90% sure she'd kill herself. also afraid of never finding anyone after her.

  63. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Day 3 of a cut and I’ve actually gained 1 lb. I’ve been at a 700 calorie deficit. I’ve also been sick and stuck in my room in Uni tho

  64. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    My parents overprotected me my whole life, 12-19years were the worse of my life because of that, i was a literal autist, never had real friends, now my family is broke in all ways possible and they are getting older, which is depressing as fuck, my dad in 1 year was diagnosed with 3 different illness.

    my coping mechanism is being narcissistic because i'm pretty and tall, now i have a girlfriend who tried to cheat on me with a "friend" and a garden gnome i used to work with (cuz i kind of started an affair but wasn't my fault)
    .the shit is that i dont wanna leave her right now because i dont wanna be the greatest cuck of the few people i know.

    on the other hand i dont wanna be alone right now, i feel really lonely, but also now that im wasting time with a girl i dont love or care

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      absolutely end it now, fuck are you doing with a cheater?

  65. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    man i wish i had a skeleton friend to drink with

  66. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >went to the gym 3 years ago
    >worked out constantly
    >discovered this powerlifting program
    >got burned out horribly
    >quit for a while
    >gained weight
    I should haven’t pushed myself too much back then. Maybe I would continue going to the gym now instead of doing calisthenics because I am anxious about going to the gym

  67. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I just came back from the hospital. My wife started having contractions and going into labor, but after monitoring they told us she still needs more time.
    It was nice but stressful. Gonna sleep a few hours just in case we have to go back soon.

    Hoping for the best. Good night, frens. wagmi

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Good night fren

  68. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Question frens
    Is it worth to go out to a bar tomorrow by myself for New Year’s Eve?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Yes. Go you fucker.

      >"B-but muh going alone will make me seem weird!"
      No one knows you're there alone and even if they did or find out no one cares as much as you do. Everyone is drunk and also usually on some measure of drugs and are friendly. Lot of people if you do tell them you're there solo will bring you into their group for the night.

  69. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    MY EYES ARE UNEVEN AND IT MAKES ME LOOK RETARDED AND I'M ACUTELY AWARE OF IT AGAINST MY WILL!
    EVERY PHOTO OF ME LOOKS LIKE MY HEAD IS ON A SLIGHT TILT BUT IT'S BECAUSE MY EYES ARE UNEVEN!
    TO SOME DEGREE MY WHOLE FACE AND SKULL IS LOPSIDED!
    WHAT THE FUCK CAN I EVEN DO ABOUT IT? REFORM MY EYE SOCKETS??
    AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >weak ass jaw
      >misaligned teeth
      >big honking nose
      >round cheeks
      >protruding upper jaw
      and yet people consider me to be attractive or so anon, don't castigate yourself too much over this, carry yourself with confidence and people will see it within you

  70. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    For new years I may go downtown by myself this year, just as a change of pace.
    Also I just started working out but I increased my OHP and lateral raise dumbbell weight from 15 to 20 which was really nice

  71. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >can't stand the sound of this one persons voice so I actively avoid them
    >problem is that they're always around the people I don't mind listening to
    >this person is annoying
    >I'm trying to figure out how to force them out of the group
    >doesn't know I hate him with every fiber of my being
    >he was stupid enough to tell me everything about him including his contact info
    >current circumstances have messed with my head big time
    >having trouble cooking up ways to rid this person from the group
    >two people close to me are in poor health, hence the stalled thinking
    >don't need to put up with shit munching brainlet asshole on top of that
    >mog him no problem but man this person needs to go
    I'll take a coke and hold the rum.

  72. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Water with electrolytes for me fren.

    I'm doing a lot of extended fastings. I'm tired of being muscular fat. Besides I started swimming recently and I really want to be ripped.

    But seriously, it's pretty depressing to not eat, no gf, just work, training and some VGs/IST at night.

    Well, no pain no gain I guess. No wonder most people don't achieve their dreams. They are hard as fuck to get.

  73. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Father of two babies and i want to fucking neck myself. Dont have kids.

  74. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Holy shit my ex is a bitch.
    People can do the whole never talk again thing, but I'm glad I reached out cause it made it really, really clear that choice I made in a tense moment was the right choice overall.
    Onward to 2023

  75. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    im goin to kms tomorrow

  76. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I have so much anxiety about my future financial wise. I don't know what to do. I'm good at doing shitty jobs that pay shit and that's about it. I'm about to go back to college but I'm so shit at it. It's not that I'm not smart enough for the classes I just fucking hate it so much. Why is it that I can show up five minutes early to my job and be mentally present for 10 hrs but I can't do the same for school? And in the meantime college doesn't make me any money and I don't even know if I'll like the job I'm going for.

  77. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    My over serious nature stole my youth. It's why I barely have any friends and have never had any romantic relationships despite being in my mid 20s.

    I was always to susceptible to stress and anxiety I never learned how to play. I never learned how to have fun. And that's what stings the most.

  78. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Starting this week, every time I drink something that isn't water, or have a salty snack, I have cloudy piss. It's really starting to freak me out, but I tend to act too neurotic about health stuff all of the time. It's probably some kind of temporary infection or "scheduled flushing", right? Oh well; I'll get really worried if it escalates. Maybe this will have a good outcome, because I'm completely petrified of drinking any amount of soda now.

  79. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I just blocked a friend from high school who owes me money, I just talked to him a few hours ago since I had talked to him before and I thought he could change in some ways but the guy is just as fucking depressed as me and denies make some change in his life and he only complains about it, he just tries to seek the affection of a girl from his work who has a tattooed face and has several red flags, I told him that it was not a good idea to continue after her because besides, this girl is in an open relationship but he wasn't even paying attention to me, added to this several things he did in the past accumulate, well several years of friendship went to shit and my effort to try to have a strong friendship, I'm a damn idiot

  80. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I have a voice in my head telling me to kill myself and it gets harder to argue with every day.
    In 2017 I was in an abusive relationship with a girl who had BPD and she exacerbated a preexisting drinking problem I had and I lost my friend group because of it.
    Eventually I wised up and left her, thinking "plenty of fish in the sea", and quit alcohol and reconnected with my friends.
    Few months later my friends ghosted me and I didn't figure out why until a good year later. I never formed a new friend group. I'm good at making acquaintances but I keep people at arm's length. I also never found a new girlfriend but legitimately would be okay with being forever alone if the alternative was getting back with my ex.
    At this point I have one semester left before a STEM degree but otherwise have zero accomplishments to my name. I have no close friends, no relationship prospects, no clue what to do with my life after uni, and feel like I'll end up working some shitjob until I blow my brains out at ~27. If this were four years ago I'd say "all good I have time to figure something out" but I'm just tired now and going through the motions. I need to find a real reason to get out of bed in the morning.

  81. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Bad. Going to the gym is the only enjoyable part of my life.
    It's so easy compared to everything else.

  82. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I don’t know how people make money. I just want to live in the woods.

  83. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >31 years old
    >have literally never done anything with anyone at any sort of event for a single new year's ever

  84. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I constantly get annoyed by women's voices. Not like the stuff they talk about, just the high pitch. I always thought I had misophonia because certain sounds make me angry and I get annoyed by sound really easily, but it was never this bad before. Like if a girl/women has a high pitched voice I just get so angry even being around them.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I recently became aware of vocal fry (both my own and from others) and it's driving me fucking nuts

  85. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I met a really gorgeous woman and she and I get along really well. I've known her a while and know she and I would be great together. My only issue is that I am white and she is Indian. Is 4chan right and I should suck it up and find a white woman or am I allowed to go for it?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Yea totally listen to 4chan and forgo potential happiness for some stupid ideology you may or may not believe in.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        anon, 4chan is just a bunch of third worlders coping about their shit lives ever since the flood of 2016, its not what it used to be and hasnt been right about anything in years
        make your ancestors proud and colonize her

        This is the answer I already knew and thank you for confirming it.
        To be clear, I'm not contributing to any sort of "genocide" of my own people by going for it?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          bro are you retarded

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Taking that as a "go for it", thank you anon.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      anon, 4chan is just a bunch of third worlders coping about their shit lives ever since the flood of 2016, its not what it used to be and hasnt been right about anything in years
      make your ancestors proud and colonize her

  86. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Tomorrow a guy who robbed billions, caused the worst crisis in our history and funded socialist countries around the world with taxpayer money will become the president of my country, I don't want to lose my income to inflation and taxation but I'm completely powerless to do anything.

    How to take the nopolpill, I can't do this shit no more.

  87. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm a police LT starting his shift. Couldn't sleep last night cause my war wounds were bothering me.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Hope it gets worse for you zogbot pig!

  88. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >found out my exgf has been telling people I ghosted her
    >in reality we broke up and I stopped talking to her...because we broke up
    wtf man

  89. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Year started off like shit. I was doing my bachelor's degree with two others who were clueless, so I thought I would fail my degree and be stuck where I was for the last 6 years or so.
    At the same time I was informed that I have kidney disease (IgA nephropathy) and had to put on high blood pressure medication, which resulted in me feeling dizzy and unable to perform at the gym.
    By a stroke of luck, I managed tp pull through and singlehandedly do the work that was needed for my thesis and ended up with a B for my group. I had finally done it, I had a degree and could now apply for jobs.
    And so I did. Whole summer went by, no luck at all. I even failed one really basic interview, which took a toll on my confidence.

    Fast forward to the end of October and I get yet another call. This time though I finally get a job, and I proceed to move to a new city.
    Whole new city to explore, nice colleagues and work environment, nice apartment (bit pricey though) and the side effects of the medication is slowly dimishing. Hell, I even kissed a nice girl this christmas, so I'm looking to make more moves on her and hopefully get myself a girlfriend. I'm lifting again (doing calisthenics) and even picked up cardio in the form of skipping. I feel good, and motivated for whats to come. One thing I have truly learned these past 10 years of my life, is to never give up no matter how dire it seems to be.
    Hang in there, bros. One day at a time.

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