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  1. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    I go ducking insane and slip on my cut if I don’t have something cool to keep me busy like skateboarding or working on my hot rod. Also

  2. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm a FRICKING CARDIO GOD. YOU CANNOT STOP ME, THAT IS ALL. I EAT INTERVALS LIKE IT'S NOTHINGGGGGGGGGG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  3. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    enjoying a lil flu

  4. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Tonight my ex girlfriend told me we need to stop contact. We've been broken up for like 2 years but would still see only each other, the past year we've been on different sides of the country too. We met in the middle after a year to have sex. But she can't do it anymore. She has trauma that she needs to heal from, some of which I cause unwittingly from before our relationship was official. It was obvious this had to happen, I could feel it too, but it's so hard to let go of someone who truly loved you and someone you truly love, bros.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      i have a trauma, i need to stop sleeping with you and start sleeping with someone else... it was cool having you around after we broke up (i got the benefits of relationship while i was happy to "explore other people") but even that now bores me

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        You do realise not all women are as the american internet portray them, right? We actually broke up because of ME, cause I was the one fricked in the head thinking he can't stay caged in a relationship. She even thought we were together before I did, which is why she was fricked up. I once told her she's my main girl who I came home to everynight, and my sidepieces don't matter, and she thought I was kidding. When she realised, it broke her heart but still accepted me and we started a relationship where she taught me to love again.

        • 11 months ago
          Anonymous

          >where she taught me to love again.
          holy frick both of you are naive. are you a highschooler or working miniumum wage?

          • 11 months ago
            Anonymous

            dude shes a mentally ill white girl like every other white girl. theyre a dime a dozen

            No, but I'm guessing both of you actually are high schoolers. I was the kinda guy that fricked around 200 women without being able to feel jack shit for anyone, and then she came along. morons. And you wonder why no one loves with this kinda lack of empathy for a homie ( I'm white )

            • 11 months ago
              Anonymous

              :/

            • 11 months ago
              Anonymous

              You're embarrassing

              • 11 months ago
                Anonymous

                Being in love is embarrasing. But I'm good with that. Could've been worse, could've been a loser going on the internet and putting down the emotions of people who have been through relationships with actual feelings of love and loss. Can you imagine how embarrasing that would be? To be that kind of a failure? Can you?

              • 11 months ago
                Anonymous

                You're a narcissistic psycho that is shitting up the thread with relationship horseshit, on and on and on and on and on
                You're not interesting dude. You have a bad personality and are annoying to read. Put a trip on so I can filter you or frick off

        • 11 months ago
          Anonymous

          i thought im redpilling a beta but maybe u r holding the reigns.. dont frick with nice girls tho, there are so few left, its fricked up to mess with them

          • 11 months ago
            Anonymous

            I fricked it up eitherway. And she was the type of how an actual beautiful natural Kardashian would look like. Olive skin, amazing ass, incredibly perfect smile, the best fricking cook, loved my dog, would trip balls with me, no gag reflex, laughed at my shitty racist jokes and rants.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      dude shes a mentally ill white girl like every other white girl. theyre a dime a dozen

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      At least she told you lmao. My ex and I flew out to visit each other every few weeks then one day she just completely ghosted me and didn't respond anything.

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah, she said she didn't want to ghost me. I asked her, what's the move? Do we block each other, do we say happy birthday. We decided on just not messaging each other anymore. I appreciated that she told me. But what hurts me more is that she had this pain inside all this time and I never knew I hurt her like this.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      she found a better dick mate

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Bro just fricking let her go. Who gives a shit. Get on some online dating apps and find another.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Everything ends sometime

      Stop getting so wrapped up in it

  5. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    im the barman now

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      gf came for holidays. fricked me up. then left. frick bpd hoes. how are you guys doing?

      kek. where should i order from tho

  6. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    I am doing pretty good bros. I am down 45 lbs since last fall (November). I have been slowly and steadily losing weight. Was at 265, now at 220. I was absolutely, and still am, ashamed of myself for letting it get that bad. I am 5'7. I am going fricking hard. 5 days in the gym. Lift for an hour, run for an hour. My hardest part has been late night snacking. I would probably be down even more if I wasn't devouring a bowl of nuts or something. Either way, I've done OMAD some days, generally watching what I eat and being healthy and making long term lifestyle changes. I work hard. I have a few kids, so I have to go when they go to bed or before they get up. I also manage to do all the chores around the house. Its all about CICO and eating healthy and getting exercise. I don't have delisions I'll have a 6 pack again, but I would like to be a beefcake 200lb at 5'7. Anyway just wanted to share and encourage other anons that you can do it. Just mind over matter.

    Favorite lift is OHP
    Favorite exercise is Pull Ups
    Favorite cardio is stair master, but usually treadmill for me, since I like to watch netflix, on days I'm ready to go super hard I do the stairmaster. but I can't watch TV or browse the internet while on it.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Favorite lift is OHP
      >Favorite exercise is Pull Ups
      >Favorite cardio is stair master
      2 out of 3, we could've been good friends anon. Jokes aside, good job, keep it going. For late-night shit either go sleep or drink water so you're satiated. And what's stopping you from getting a sixpack lol.

      https://i.imgur.com/0zcGkrb.gif

      I'd like a glass of water.

      I'm in the same spot. Psychologically crippled and too meek to have any sort of identity. 22yo friendless khhv and when I started reading supreme gentleman's book to see someone in similar shoes, I was blown away by how much even he life mogs me, despite being told he's a loser lowlife.

      Increasingly, I'm coming to accept that it's too late. Why would anyone want to date or be friends with someone so mentally deficient? Even if I mog a lot of guys, they still have better social and life prospects as they succeeded in the most critical aspect of humanity. All my knowledge in my field of study is worthless, all my potential to improve in that aspect and any others is a cope because I'd trade it all for the last 5 years of my life back to live as a normie. I can't even take pride in any of the things I've accomplished because I'm so utterly mediocre in studies, athletics, and everything else I attempt. My mother said she'd clip my wings when I started being rebellious as a teenager, but she didn't need to, because the b***h had already done enough damage by then that it would never be the same.

      They even brought up the subject of virginity at the workplace and I was blackpilled at how early people lose it compared to me, rotting away in my 4 walls. People assume I get hoes bc of my looks and that I'd have a robust social life. But I'm the lowest of the low. I don't have a dominant bone in my body, even a girl that liked me told me how much it's a turn off for a guy to be passive and shy. I've been conditioned to never stand up for myself, and no matter how strong I get, I never will. I'll rot away for the next 5 years like I did for the past 5, most likely. I don't think I'll bother living to my 30s. At this point, the self improvement meme is just a routine I follow out of habit, I try on but I've given up inside my heart. Even if I succeeded, it would never undo the past.

      >They even brought up the subject of virginity at the workplace and I was blackpilled at how early people lose it compared to me, rotting away in my 4 walls.
      Brosef, I lost mine at 19 which is considered 'late'. I used to be bullied and an insecure fatty and now I'm known in both the gyms I go to as an extremely social and friendly/helpful guy. You can change, you're only 22.
      >People assume I get hoes bc of my looks and that I'd have a robust social life. But I'm the lowest of the low.
      Stop the negative self talk. Loads of people are insecure (more than you think, especially the good looking girls everyone is intimidated by) so be the one to open conversation, pass people your number and ask to hang out. Nothing's going to change if you don't actively try and get out of your self-pity comfort zone. You can do it anon, nothing to lose.

      I woke up in a panic due to my inaction with my crush, then I couldn't get back to sleep. I've seriously dug myself into a hole bros.

      When I moved to my new city I saw a girl that was 200% my type - face, body, hairstyle, everything. Didn't ask her out and still regret it ahah.

      Best shape of my life, looksmaxxed through every avenue you can imagine (fin, teeth whitening, minoxidil beard for shadow to outline jaw, 2 inch shoes for height etc etc), and I'm 27 and yet to find a girl interested in me who I'm also interested in after 2 years of searching.

      Its rough out here boys. At the least I feel great physically.

      Tomorrow I'll go out hit the bars with my guys again in the hopeless pursuit of finding someone to court

      Are WAGMI?

      >Tomorrow I'll go out hit the bars with my guys again
      Maybe a bit counterintuitive but going out with girls or even solo is a better bet to get girls than with a group of guys.

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Brosef, I lost mine at 19 which is considered 'late'.
        Still way before me at an acceptable age, not to mention you had plenty of time to adjust into normal life
        >Stop the negative self talk. Loads of people are insecure (more than you think, especially the good looking girls everyone is intimidated by) so be the one to open conversation, pass people your number and ask to hang out. Nothing's going to change if you don't actively try and get out of your self-pity comfort zone. You can do it anon, nothing to lose.
        If it was going to happen, it would have by now. I can't even imagine living a life of my own because im just a tool to the b***h that spawned me. Past a certain age, you mentally stay an outcast forever, even if I can otherwise blend in and even seem like a cool guy. Today, I will do weighted pull-ups and bench press, then go home and cope with the pitiful existence I've been handed by writing my power fantasies in a literary format. It's all determinism anyway, I never really had a choice which is comforting to me since I know now that I never could have stood up for myself in the first place really.

        I'm a background character.

        • 11 months ago
          Anonymous

          Your selfview is a self-fulfilling prophecy anon. It's never too late, but do as you wish.
          >yeah i might sound a little salty
          Don't be weak anon, every single other anon here would be pissed too. Hell, I had it happen to me with a two-faced colleague. The rule is simple: you don't get rewarded for effort? Stop putting in effort. They complain? Push their noses into the facts like you'd do to a dog peeing on the carpet.
          >See link related
          https://www.tiktok.com/@krisdrinkslemonade/video/7062142035893095727?lang=en

          • 11 months ago
            Anonymous

            >Your selfview is a self-fulfilling prophecy anon.
            No it's really not, LMAO. This type of talk sickens me. If it were true, my self image as a cool, 300 IQ Chad would be realized, but the truth is, you can't fight nature, you can't fight against gravity...

            If I were Chad, I would've been able to be brave in all the moments I was not. If I was truly as smart as I thought I was, I would've cruised by in school and already figured out a solution to my situation. But the truth is, I'm outgunned and outclassed. Just yesterday I was doing lateral raises by some teenagers who utterly life mogged me both right now, and in any scenario where we were both the same age. I almost regret even picking up the barbell however long ago because I was destined to be mediocre all along. I coped for the longest time thinking I'm secretly the best, but it's not fricking true. I don't even register on most people's scoreboard.

            >never too late
            I'd say it is. Once you pass a certain point you'll always be different. I don't even see the point in the shit I do anymore, I just do it out of habit. I'll probably go from 2pl8 to 3pl8 bench long before I ever see social success.

            And what, I'll be in my 30s trying to cope for a wasted life lived on someone else's terms? Frick that, I'd rather steal a sports car and drive it into a wall somewhere. The few seconds I'd be at 200+mph would be liberating.

          • 11 months ago
            Anonymous

            >yeah i might sound a little salty
            meant for

            its not really a management position which is what pisses me off. she gets to do negotiations with the bigger clients now. basically expanded her portfolio and i have to submit a report to her bi weekly. i guess they value her beauty, she knows how to use her looks.

            i might ask for a raise but it kinda killed my motivation at this company. yeah i might sound a little salty. i had other coworkers independently bring up that they are shocked with her getting promoted. i think for now i am going to WFH as much as i can

            https://i.imgur.com/EqO8c8O.gif

            >Your selfview is a self-fulfilling prophecy anon.
            No it's really not, LMAO. This type of talk sickens me. If it were true, my self image as a cool, 300 IQ Chad would be realized, but the truth is, you can't fight nature, you can't fight against gravity...

            If I were Chad, I would've been able to be brave in all the moments I was not. If I was truly as smart as I thought I was, I would've cruised by in school and already figured out a solution to my situation. But the truth is, I'm outgunned and outclassed. Just yesterday I was doing lateral raises by some teenagers who utterly life mogged me both right now, and in any scenario where we were both the same age. I almost regret even picking up the barbell however long ago because I was destined to be mediocre all along. I coped for the longest time thinking I'm secretly the best, but it's not fricking true. I don't even register on most people's scoreboard.

            >never too late
            I'd say it is. Once you pass a certain point you'll always be different. I don't even see the point in the shit I do anymore, I just do it out of habit. I'll probably go from 2pl8 to 3pl8 bench long before I ever see social success.

            And what, I'll be in my 30s trying to cope for a wasted life lived on someone else's terms? Frick that, I'd rather steal a sports car and drive it into a wall somewhere. The few seconds I'd be at 200+mph would be liberating.

            So what's your alternative? Keep doing the same thing and just give up?

            • 11 months ago
              Anonymous

              >So what's your alternative? Keep doing the same thing and just give up?
              Exactly. In my head and in my heart, I had to stave off the thought for the past couple years thinking "Someday your dream will come". But I realized it was never possible in the first place, so I might just cope with what I have. I'll probably make some petty effort to socialize, but it'll be the same thing as what's happened historically. I always knew I wasn't really one of them, so I'll accept that as is. I might get a better job soon and move out, but I know that I'm perpetually doomed to the same fate regardless. Even if I got a job, I'd have the miserable responsibility to attend to in order to look after myself and not starve, i wouldnt have the same youthful callowness as i did in my teens. I'd be a stemcel anyway. I'd probably gamble some money on crypto and lottery tickets like I do now in the hopes of making it big. Its all shit anyway. I'll never be able to be assertive and stand up for myself, I can never go back in time and do it again. If even fricking Elliot Rodgers mogs your life, you know you did something wrong. Those stacies in high school never liked me, they just liked my face. And why would they want me now when there's Chads who are far less socially and devopmentally stunted. I probably have the mind of a teenager given my experience, I'm not cut out for fraternizing with people my age. They all suck, its not even sour grapes, I secretly always hated them.

              And then eventually rope.

        • 11 months ago
          Anonymous

          Your life will improve when you escape the notion of using your virginity or the lack thereof as means of self worth.

          • 11 months ago
            Anonymous

            >just ignore one of the critical components that speak to success as a member of the human species bro
            But in all seriousness, I already did that before. Now at 22, after a long struggle against the blackpill, my copes are blown apart and all I'm left with is how utterly hopeless I am. I don't know if that other guy was trying to console me or do a backhanded insult with the "hurdur I lost mine at 19 bro". God, I wanted to run my car off the road on the drive home when I thought of that. I can't even speed properly, I never go more than 10 over, I'm such a coward.

            I held out hope, on every birthday, every new years that "THIS will be different, THIS will be my year" for the past 6 years, and that year never came.

            When I think of how much I've rotted, and on top of that, the thing against which I'm struggling in the first place, the world itself, I can't even stomach the thought of lifting another weight. For what is perhaps the 10000th time in a row, I'm in my room again, about to jerk off to NTR because of my fricked up femdom fetish from experiences with the "fairer" sex. I will not be going out with friends on the weekend, much less a woman. I will go to the gym after blowing my load to being emasculated, and then perhaps struggle to incline bench 5 more pounds than I did last week.

            Jesus frick, when I went to dig up Pic related, I cam across a Pic of a Hispanic who muscle mogged me despite lifting for less time. I even have a prettier face than him, but he got like 30 matches on some random dating app.

            It's pointless for me, the best I'll be getting now is a bigger paycheck over the years to help cope, until I eventually can't take it anymore. First sign of collagen loss, first sign of hair thinning, I'm leaving this shitty world without a second thought, and at great inconvenience to everyone else hopefully. In public so they're traumatized.
            >edgy kid
            I wish. Kids are edgy when they're teens. I'm mentally stunted at 22 with teen capacity. Fml.

            • 11 months ago
              Anonymous

              And NO glowies, I'm not interested in doing one of your psyops, or even thinking of hurting others, so don't even suggest it

            • 11 months ago
              Anonymous

              You’re 22 anon but you’re acting like your life is already over. Just relax, be kind to yourself and give yourself space to actually grow.

            • 11 months ago
              Anonymous

              >or do a backhanded insult with the "hurdur I lost mine at 19 bro".
              Well frick me for trying to be helpful and relatable I suppose. Like other anons say - stop being a downer, you're only 22. I know other virgins around your age and they don't mope and are fun to have around.

              Bros I need help I don’t know what to do.
              Some experts/experienced guys sight would be really helpful.
              So I have 2 girls I like and both of them like me.

              The first one I meet a few months ago and we understood each other from the get go, we really like each other etc. but it’s long distance and like a 1-2 hours travel to see each other so we can’t really manage.
              Shes works as a cashier and takes her job seriously because of past experience with relationships and family (she was always alone has trust issues and all that stuff that comes with it.)
              I really like her and have fun talking with her.

              The second one is a doctor (same age as me.) loves the gym, gave me good tips about breaks in between sets for maximal gains, has a really good fashion sense and helped me with skin care but she really wants confirmation on everything she does because of her family relationship and treats me like a child sometimes because I’m introverted.

              So what do you people say, any Tipps or so?

              Bro you have been choosing between those 2 forever, it's been like a month. Doctor won't have time for you/kids.

  7. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Scheduling a urologist appointment because of cloudy pee, retrograde ejaculation, and probably enlarged prostate. Hope I'm not infertile or cancerous.

  8. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'd like a glass of water.

    I'm in the same spot. Psychologically crippled and too meek to have any sort of identity. 22yo friendless khhv and when I started reading supreme gentleman's book to see someone in similar shoes, I was blown away by how much even he life mogs me, despite being told he's a loser lowlife.

    Increasingly, I'm coming to accept that it's too late. Why would anyone want to date or be friends with someone so mentally deficient? Even if I mog a lot of guys, they still have better social and life prospects as they succeeded in the most critical aspect of humanity. All my knowledge in my field of study is worthless, all my potential to improve in that aspect and any others is a cope because I'd trade it all for the last 5 years of my life back to live as a normie. I can't even take pride in any of the things I've accomplished because I'm so utterly mediocre in studies, athletics, and everything else I attempt. My mother said she'd clip my wings when I started being rebellious as a teenager, but she didn't need to, because the b***h had already done enough damage by then that it would never be the same.

    They even brought up the subject of virginity at the workplace and I was blackpilled at how early people lose it compared to me, rotting away in my 4 walls. People assume I get hoes bc of my looks and that I'd have a robust social life. But I'm the lowest of the low. I don't have a dominant bone in my body, even a girl that liked me told me how much it's a turn off for a guy to be passive and shy. I've been conditioned to never stand up for myself, and no matter how strong I get, I never will. I'll rot away for the next 5 years like I did for the past 5, most likely. I don't think I'll bother living to my 30s. At this point, the self improvement meme is just a routine I follow out of habit, I try on but I've given up inside my heart. Even if I succeeded, it would never undo the past.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Hey man. You sound a lot like me when I was 22. That was 10 years ago.
      You're only just starting to be an adult. And there's a lotta guys out there with the same problems as you. There's also a lotta guys dealing with intergenerational traumas from their parents, especially crazy mothers.

      You don't have to compare yourself to others - trust me, once you learn to stop doing this, you're really gonna have so much more freedom in your life, and freedom to just be yourself. At best, people will appreciate it and want to be around you, at worst people won't care. It takes time, and usually a bit of soul-searching, but I'm living testament that it can be done.

      Some of the guys on this board will disagree, but I'd say don't worry too much about being a shy or passive guy. Just be brave in the times that really matter. There are lots of girls out there who will dig you. I'm a shy and passive guy - once I started being comfortable and accepting myself, I found it was actually a lot easier to find partners who appreciated my vibe. Some girls will even love it, especially if they like to tie their partner to the bed and do freaky stuff.

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Some of the guys on this board will disagree, but I'd say don't worry too much about being a shy or passive guy. Just be brave in the times that really matter.
        But I don't want to! I always wanted to be the cool and arrogant Chad since a kid when I thought Sonic was the coolest thing alive. And I can't be brave, I've always cowered, even if I have no reason to. I can't stand up to people, I don't have it in me

        The Tao of Fully Feeling by Pete Walker helped me immensely (my dad fricked me up the same way your mom fricked you up).
        Pete Walker's parents beat the shit out of him and gaslit him for his entire childhood. The Tao of Fully Feeling outlines how he moved past the damage they did to him, outlined common traps that people recovering from childhood trauma fall into, and the danger of "bro just forgive your mom you're a grownup she can't beat you up anymore what are you even mad about".
        I read it at 24 and after about a month of following its methods I started feeling noticeably better. It will be a while before I'm truly normal but just knowing that I truly can move past my trauma and have an actionable, material plan to do so was life-changing.
        When we say WAGMI, bro, we mean W ALL GMI.

        I don't know if I can make it, or if I'll even care once I do, if at all, but I'll check out the book

        You’re 22 anon but you’re acting like your life is already over. Just relax, be kind to yourself and give yourself space to actually grow.

        Half my youth is already gone. Who knows how long the hair on my head or the collagen in my face will last. And what will be the point of living then, as a decrepit old soul with no memories of youth to keep me warm as I decay?

        My sanity has slipped more and more each year. I used to be a neurotic, but nowadays I feel nothing, my recent meltdown notwithstanding.

        I feel a little better since I just lifted, and I even went up 5 lbs on my incline bench (10 since it was with dumbbells), but the whole time I was there, I kept thinking "I've wasted my fricking life." I saw teenagers there who will no doubt lifemog me to hell and back and it made me want to drive into oncoming traffic. "I've wasted my fricking life." The little mantra I kept hearing in my head.

        I watch children's movies excessively because I don't think I've matured one bit in my whole life. I can't bring myself to give a shit about my job or school anymore, because again "I've wasted my fricking life." Who gives a shit about studying and making money when even fricking Elliot goddamn Rodger was more socially successful than I am. "I've wasted my fricking life."

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      The Tao of Fully Feeling by Pete Walker helped me immensely (my dad fricked me up the same way your mom fricked you up).
      Pete Walker's parents beat the shit out of him and gaslit him for his entire childhood. The Tao of Fully Feeling outlines how he moved past the damage they did to him, outlined common traps that people recovering from childhood trauma fall into, and the danger of "bro just forgive your mom you're a grownup she can't beat you up anymore what are you even mad about".
      I read it at 24 and after about a month of following its methods I started feeling noticeably better. It will be a while before I'm truly normal but just knowing that I truly can move past my trauma and have an actionable, material plan to do so was life-changing.
      When we say WAGMI, bro, we mean W ALL GMI.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      I'm 26 and what you will turn into. I do nothing, talk to no one and don't know anyone. I am at the point where I have practice conversations in my head if there is something I want to say to someone and then don't bother doing it in real life as I assume it is no longer needed.

      I can't really give you any advice to get back on the right track but if you do nothing it only gets worse. At least I've finally decided to roid out and roll the dice on ascending from humanity or dying from heart attack

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        That sounds horrid. I block out posts from even older guys because reading them makes my heart sink in despair. I'm thankful I at least have superficially good social skills, even if I lack the deeper understanding of it that let's humans connect.

        >or do a backhanded insult with the "hurdur I lost mine at 19 bro".
        Well frick me for trying to be helpful and relatable I suppose. Like other anons say - stop being a downer, you're only 22. I know other virgins around your age and they don't mope and are fun to have around.
        [...]
        Bro you have been choosing between those 2 forever, it's been like a month. Doctor won't have time for you/kids.

        It's not relatable if you still turned it around at an acceptable age. The whole "No wonder you're alone when you're so outwardly miserable" argument is faulty, if people were so transparent, sudden suicides or serial killers being outed wouldn't be as shocking. If people knew what went on in my head they'd all say "No way, him? He seems so normal and successful if anything, he's so handsome and smart and always laughing." I get along with everyone at work, so they'd be surprised to hear how dark and edgy I really am.

        I have every right to be down on my luck. I stayed up till 1 last night in bed because I kept hearing thoughts from the past. This 13 yo girl in middle school who was a year younger than me talking about being fingered on a date. This one fricking Black person in high school who said I'd be a virgin forever (pre glowup). The Fricker has probably been with bawdinas, chocolate skinned negresses with fat asses, and blonde Stacies too, while I've blown thousands of loads to femdom JOIs.

        Maybe I'll make it, but it's too late for me to care as much anymore. 10-15 lbs more weight added and I'll be benching the 100lb dumbbells. I can't believe that I'll likely sooner be at that level of strength than having felt a woman's lips on my own. Even when I make it, I'll be dreading the thought of losing it, and having less time to enjoy it than everyone else has. Not to mention having to work for a living as an adult.

        I'm just gonna keep doomposting till I make it to help cope.

  9. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Ex reached out to me after two months
    >How are you doing
    >Me: Good and you
    >Me too
    What the frick is wrong with women what am I meant to do with an exchange like that or answer. Fricked me up mentally again. Still, had a good sparring session today and going hiking tomorrow.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      They just want a response. It’s best not to reply because it really just serves to have you ex on your mind again making posts in feels thread. Idk exactly why they do it, but it’s in part to keep them on your mind and for the ego boost of you responding because I their head you responding means you still haven’t moved on probably haven’t met a new girl etc.

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        Youre probably right. Was thinking about telling her that I don't want her to contact me anymore unless she has serious intentions but even that is probably too much.

  10. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Thunderstorm just started
    >Wish I still had one out of two of my exes to enjoy this moment with, just watching it
    Whelp, I at least have a fun weekend planned

  11. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    I woke up in a panic due to my inaction with my crush, then I couldn't get back to sleep. I've seriously dug myself into a hole bros.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Favorite lift is OHP
      >Favorite exercise is Pull Ups
      >Favorite cardio is stair master
      2 out of 3, we could've been good friends anon. Jokes aside, good job, keep it going. For late-night shit either go sleep or drink water so you're satiated. And what's stopping you from getting a sixpack lol.
      [...]
      >They even brought up the subject of virginity at the workplace and I was blackpilled at how early people lose it compared to me, rotting away in my 4 walls.
      Brosef, I lost mine at 19 which is considered 'late'. I used to be bullied and an insecure fatty and now I'm known in both the gyms I go to as an extremely social and friendly/helpful guy. You can change, you're only 22.
      >People assume I get hoes bc of my looks and that I'd have a robust social life. But I'm the lowest of the low.
      Stop the negative self talk. Loads of people are insecure (more than you think, especially the good looking girls everyone is intimidated by) so be the one to open conversation, pass people your number and ask to hang out. Nothing's going to change if you don't actively try and get out of your self-pity comfort zone. You can do it anon, nothing to lose.
      [...]
      When I moved to my new city I saw a girl that was 200% my type - face, body, hairstyle, everything. Didn't ask her out and still regret it ahah.
      [...]
      >Tomorrow I'll go out hit the bars with my guys again
      Maybe a bit counterintuitive but going out with girls or even solo is a better bet to get girls than with a group of guys.

      I have so many regrets of not asking chicks out or at least trying to get to know them. I'm 27 now and my time is running out. Most recent frickup
      >move to new city for master degree
      >meet absolute qt at orientation
      >smiles at me a few times
      >talk to her a little but act disinterested because that's my default action for pretty chicks
      >make an ass of myself in front of her at pub crawl getting drunk with the guys when she tried to talk to me
      >later find out she is super into fitness as well, including some of my non-lifting IST hobbies
      >end up in completely distinct social groups with no chance

      I just don't know how to stop being a pussy. I don't know why this thing which is absolutely normal for even average guys is so frightening to me. I go for runs when it's raining like crazy and most people wouldn't even go outside with an umbrella. I lift until I almost pass out. I come home covered in bruises every time I go bouldering and I fricking love it. I train on the heavy bag at the gym until my entire body hurts. I can study 10 hours a day for weeks on end. Why the frick am I not able to just talk to women I like

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Rejection lasts seconds regret lasts forever

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      When I struggled socially in my younger teen years, lonliness was much more tolerable. But now that I'm older approaching my latter 20s, it hurts more. A dull sort of ache. You would think you'd get use to it with time, but it just becomes worse.

      >Favorite lift is OHP
      >Favorite exercise is Pull Ups
      >Favorite cardio is stair master
      2 out of 3, we could've been good friends anon. Jokes aside, good job, keep it going. For late-night shit either go sleep or drink water so you're satiated. And what's stopping you from getting a sixpack lol.
      [...]
      >They even brought up the subject of virginity at the workplace and I was blackpilled at how early people lose it compared to me, rotting away in my 4 walls.
      Brosef, I lost mine at 19 which is considered 'late'. I used to be bullied and an insecure fatty and now I'm known in both the gyms I go to as an extremely social and friendly/helpful guy. You can change, you're only 22.
      >People assume I get hoes bc of my looks and that I'd have a robust social life. But I'm the lowest of the low.
      Stop the negative self talk. Loads of people are insecure (more than you think, especially the good looking girls everyone is intimidated by) so be the one to open conversation, pass people your number and ask to hang out. Nothing's going to change if you don't actively try and get out of your self-pity comfort zone. You can do it anon, nothing to lose.
      [...]
      When I moved to my new city I saw a girl that was 200% my type - face, body, hairstyle, everything. Didn't ask her out and still regret it ahah.
      [...]
      >Tomorrow I'll go out hit the bars with my guys again
      Maybe a bit counterintuitive but going out with girls or even solo is a better bet to get girls than with a group of guys.

      https://i.imgur.com/yRgszYF.jpg

      [...]
      I have so many regrets of not asking chicks out or at least trying to get to know them. I'm 27 now and my time is running out. Most recent frickup
      >move to new city for master degree
      >meet absolute qt at orientation
      >smiles at me a few times
      >talk to her a little but act disinterested because that's my default action for pretty chicks
      >make an ass of myself in front of her at pub crawl getting drunk with the guys when she tried to talk to me
      >later find out she is super into fitness as well, including some of my non-lifting IST hobbies
      >end up in completely distinct social groups with no chance

      I just don't know how to stop being a pussy. I don't know why this thing which is absolutely normal for even average guys is so frightening to me. I go for runs when it's raining like crazy and most people wouldn't even go outside with an umbrella. I lift until I almost pass out. I come home covered in bruises every time I go bouldering and I fricking love it. I train on the heavy bag at the gym until my entire body hurts. I can study 10 hours a day for weeks on end. Why the frick am I not able to just talk to women I like

      https://i.imgur.com/x712N5O.jpg

      Rejection lasts seconds regret lasts forever

      What's strange about the failing to ask out your crush scenario is that at the time, when you still have the opportunity to do so, it's all completely possible to rationalize that what you're doing will end in regret. At least that was true for me. I always knew in the back of my head that I would regret not making a move, but that still wasn't able to motivate me into action. Why?

  12. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Best shape of my life, looksmaxxed through every avenue you can imagine (fin, teeth whitening, minoxidil beard for shadow to outline jaw, 2 inch shoes for height etc etc), and I'm 27 and yet to find a girl interested in me who I'm also interested in after 2 years of searching.

    Its rough out here boys. At the least I feel great physically.

    Tomorrow I'll go out hit the bars with my guys again in the hopeless pursuit of finding someone to court

    Are WAGMI?

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      WAGMI. Honestly, of youre good looking try dating apps, I found it way easier to sort through girls there. In a bar your options are very limited. And a nice texting conversation tells a lot.

      I woke up in a panic due to my inaction with my crush, then I couldn't get back to sleep. I've seriously dug myself into a hole bros.

      Dont get anxious because of a crush, all your feelings towards her are aesthetic and not grounded in reality. Ask her out, if she says yes you can allow real emotions to form, if she says no it doesnt matter

  13. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Fricking sad bros.
    After almost 2 years with the relationship with the girl I tought I would marry. She refused to leave her home town even tho after a year I was the one paying for all the expenses, and before hand knew I want going to stay.
    She didnt even tried talked it out, just drop me a aint leaving and I am so sorry bland speech and gosthed me.
    Its been 3 months since, and I am still pissed. Been exploiting Tinder with a good streak but after I spend by my own I feel just.. Frustrated and hollow

  14. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    not sure what it is all for and if it is worth it, gym is only there as a physical distraction.

  15. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    So frustrated talking with my girl, I think she owns slaves. Sometimes she'll let it slip that guys will do her favors and stuff, and since she doesn't let on any info about who they are or how they know each other (as you would for a friend) it makes me curious and I usually press her about it. Her reassurance was that these guys aren't real people somehow, I can't recall exactly. But they'll still like drive her around or do favors for her or go to eat with her. tough world out there

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Her reassurance was that these guys aren't real people somehow

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Either she is emotionally cheating on you or schizophrenic

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Bruh at the minimum she's emotionally cheating on you

      https://i.imgur.com/khBqK7G.jpg

      should i call my ex bros? our aniversary is coming up and I haven't spoken to her since breaking up.

      >should i call my ex bros? our aniversary is coming up and I haven't spoken to her since breaking up.

      Then you walk under the streetlights
      And you're too drunk to notice
      That everyone is staring at you
      You just don't care what you look like
      The world is falling 'round you
      You just have to see her
      You just have to see her
      You just have to see her
      You just have to see her
      You just have to see her
      You know that she'll break you in two

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      You need to ripe the benefits of the slaves asap or you are a kek.

  16. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    >start lifting
    >3 months into it
    >felt in love with it
    >shoulder starts hurting
    >so does elbow
    Skipped a workout today because I don't want to aggravate things but I don't know how to cope with this. I just want to lift bros...

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      train legs then

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Actually warm up before you lift heavy homosexual?

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        different anon but I am getting hip impingment that I am not sure how to best correct. Wasn't even lifting that heavy tbh. Been trying to roll it out and squat though it at a lower weight and doing pause reps.

  17. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    should i call my ex bros? our aniversary is coming up and I haven't spoken to her since breaking up.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Did you break up with her?

      >start lifting
      >3 months into it
      >felt in love with it
      >shoulder starts hurting
      >so does elbow
      Skipped a workout today because I don't want to aggravate things but I don't know how to cope with this. I just want to lift bros...

      Take a couple of days off and mobilize the joints that hurt, movement will heal them. Dont lift though

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Did you break up with her?
        Yes. It was somewhat rough too.
        >before we met she had a series of hoe jobs (waitress at fancy bars and clubs) at only 19 yo
        >cheated on the dude before me
        >unemployed when we started dating
        >told her I don't want her working in that environment because it's a shit crowd to be involved with
        >agrees w me but wants a job
        >set up interviews with retail jobs and shit like that for her
        >thinks she's above it and starts applying for fancy restaurants again
        >dump her when she gets a job at one

  18. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Why do I watery eyes and get runny nose every time I pee?

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Is your cat's litterbox in the bathroom?

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        I don't own a cat and this happens everywhere at home and in public

  19. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    My ex, who I still love madly, told me she met someone recently. Shit hits hard, I am slowly going crazy.
    On the positive side, my self anger is fueling my lifts, hit a pr today

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Tell her to stop contacting you, its the inly thing that will help. Dont get your hopes up, but rebound relationships usually dont last. Lift for yourself, not for her

      >Did you break up with her?
      Yes. It was somewhat rough too.
      >before we met she had a series of hoe jobs (waitress at fancy bars and clubs) at only 19 yo
      >cheated on the dude before me
      >unemployed when we started dating
      >told her I don't want her working in that environment because it's a shit crowd to be involved with
      >agrees w me but wants a job
      >set up interviews with retail jobs and shit like that for her
      >thinks she's above it and starts applying for fancy restaurants again
      >dump her when she gets a job at one

      Sounds like you dodged a bullet bro, but maybe she changed. Women are fricking weird, you have to compromise. If you feel like you lived her and its a relationship that can work in the long run go for it

  20. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    I go on tinder dates
    I think it's going okay
    Maybe I feel a little uneasyness on their part
    They unmatch me

    Conversations go well, but I'm starting to think I'm autistic or something in person. Seriously.

    I feel like a child in a mans body sometimes. Why is that?

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Do better in your life and bee urself

  21. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Be me
    >Switch to 531 from Stronglifts
    >Go for new AMRAP for 225
    >DYEL's start talking over at next bench about how going for PR's is a meme
    >They look dyel
    Sadge bro I'm sadge

  22. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Fireball and coke please

    They fired the new girl at my office and now it's back to being a regular sausage fest. She wasn't the best worker but she was fun to have around. Just a bad feeling to start the weekend

  23. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Got my Doctor title today
    >Just came home from celebrating with family and colleagues
    >Finally can crack open a cold one and review the last years (pic rel)
    >New bench arrives tomorrow
    >Told anyone to not call me this Weekend and leave me alone the next days

    Was waiting for this moment for a long time Bros, but it was worth it. We all gonna make it - never give up, never give in.

  24. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Highlight of my day, some gym milf walked in camel toe all out, ngl I tried hunting her down, but she got me through my session lmao

  25. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    My Friday is goddam trainwreck. Two coworkers from my job are leaving so they invited rest of us for a dinner (self-paid, of course). Since I'm autist who is trying to fit in more, and socialize with coworkers more, I accepted and went there.
    The two b***hes of course used the opportunity to vent on us how their boss is awful. The talk was like 80% slander of other people from the company. The food was good but overpriced, and the service was fricking awful.
    I've got home in the evening and had basically nothing done. I ruined my cut for this stupid dinner. I skipped my friday roooon for this stupid dinner. It's almost 10pm and I haven't showered yet.
    I hate normies so goddam much. They're so fricking boring and thoughtless. 80%-90% are actual NPC memes. Hurrr modern kids do nothing but facebook and smartphones, not let me talk about my boss for two hours! SHUT UP c**t
    I need a beer..

  26. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm having a lot of fun learning to play acoust*c guitar, fellas.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      that's great, keep it up brother.

  27. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    there’s a monthly report that goes out showing the sales employees made. i have been on top (out of 8 people) 8 times over the past 12 months. then there’s another hidden spreadsheet which tracks productivity and i am on top.

    the borderline moronic 10/10 blonde girl with terrible numbers got the promotion and i now have to report to her. i worked at this shit company for 5 years. it’s a shame because it’s comfy and 5 minutes from my home, it sucks but i should probably find a new job.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      They would lose sales if they gave their best worker a promotion to management. Ive seen it before. Also some top earners are terrible managers. I've also seen that before.
      If you truly believe you're worth more than you are getting paid. Ask for a raise. Use your spreadsheets as evidence and if they refuse put in your 2 weeks

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        its not really a management position which is what pisses me off. she gets to do negotiations with the bigger clients now. basically expanded her portfolio and i have to submit a report to her bi weekly. i guess they value her beauty, she knows how to use her looks.

        i might ask for a raise but it kinda killed my motivation at this company. yeah i might sound a little salty. i had other coworkers independently bring up that they are shocked with her getting promoted. i think for now i am going to WFH as much as i can

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Just some advice bro, your best course of action is to confront your boss. Tell him you either get a promotion or a raise or he has to start interviewing someone to take your place. And then act accordingly. If he doesn’t budge, search for a new job asap. I would just put a two week in and then ghost him for 2 days, then tell him your demands. I’ve done this and got my pay doubled in past jobs.

      I was in your exact position once too though. It was Best Buy but similar enough. My numbers were consistently in the top 5 among all departments, despite that they kept cutting my hours all the way down to 8 a week. Let me make that clear, I was working one day and selling more than the homosexuals who had full time.
      I also helped as much as I could. Someone calls out? They knew who to ask to come in and cover. Around Christmas all the warehouse workers quit, GM asks me to help so I spent 2 weeks getting up at 2am to meet a regional manager in Miami to load a truck with TVs then drive with him to Naples to deliver and install these TVs.
      When I came back, all the loss prevention people quit. They ask me to help out in LP for a couple weeks saying I’d get more hours.
      I was specifically doing sales to get better with people and I was genuinely making progress, top 5 despite only 8 hours for fricks sake. But I said yes anyways. You know what they did? Without even asking me they permanently switched my role to loss prevention. Which I’m pretty sure is illegal somehow, making someone do a job they never applied for.
      But at the same time they gave this doofus mutt, this borderlined downy, a supervisor position. They pulled him out of a non sales position to give him that role and then pampered and babied him and held his hand. Whereas me while I was in sales, I was belittled if I ever asked for some coaching or help. I know it was because the manager was a flaming homosexual and wanted to frick that mutt, more than likely did.
      These jobs dgaf about you dude.

  28. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    I have no idea how to just start. I’m a fat broke neet living at home in his late 20s. Diet and exercising okay simple enough pretty straight forward, just requires patience really. I can do that.
    But money? I feel fricked. I keep applying and applying and I do have experience but no one gets back to me. It’s been over a year now since I worked. I’m super close to faking a resume just to grab a job to use as more recent experience for the next job when they fire me.
    I want to go back to school, but i need to get whatever job first. Purely so I have some money in my pocket and also to have the habit of a schedule and routine again rather than sitting in my house all day. It’s important to me that I do that before I go back to school so I will actually do well.
    And it doesn’t help that I’m chronically anxious as a fat frick because my biggest pride and joy was my physique before I got out of shape. I feel humiliated looking this way. I’m working on it, but frick I won’t feel better until I lose like 60lbs.

    I feel really, really lost. I’m about to grab a wage cuck gig in retail but I don’t think I can handle doing the customer service shtick and interacting with that many people per day right now. Idk what other jobs that leaves me with.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Be smart and keep your head screwed on, pal

      Don't fail to set goals for yourself and surpass yourself consciously. Things aren't great but you can't get going without being a little nuts.

      Clean your fricking room. Do your frickin dishes. Cross your t's and dot your i's.

      Nobody has something within them that you are incapable of achieving

  29. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    >independence day is next week and I'm not sure about going to a party. I'll probably just make a fool out of myself.
    >doing awfully at work, some unconquerable problem nobody can help me with (frick microsoft)
    > political situation is worse than ever and I'm so tired protesting and worrying.
    > still no guy to adore (I'm not gay stop telling me that).

    At least I ran 10k today and nothing hurt 🙂
    God being alive is draining sometimes.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      >doing awfully at work, some unconquerable problem nobody can help me with (frick microsoft)

      Unironically, have you tried having a conversation about it with GPT4?

  30. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Been super tired, and my patella tear isn't healing as fast as I'd hoped. Been learning some new recipes and enjoying that instead of worrying about much else. Going to Germany in a month so been preoccupied thinking about that. Also ended up befriending this girl and she's going with me to Germany, but there's zero chance that she sees me as anything else but a friend.

  31. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm happy with my life.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Proud of you Anon

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Hell yeah brother, I'll drink to that.

      https://i.imgur.com/puaVjHi.jpg

      >Got my Doctor title today
      >Just came home from celebrating with family and colleagues
      >Finally can crack open a cold one and review the last years (pic rel)
      >New bench arrives tomorrow
      >Told anyone to not call me this Weekend and leave me alone the next days

      Was waiting for this moment for a long time Bros, but it was worth it. We all gonna make it - never give up, never give in.

      Dude! Congratulations and best in all you do!

      https://i.imgur.com/BpVNTrP.gif

      i feel strangely uplifted and positive this week. dunno what's wrong with me. i may be having a manic episode. anyway anons i salute ye with some self destructive alcoholism. looking fricking swole while i do it though baybeee!

      TWU brother

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        >TWU
        what are you sayin boy

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      frick yeah Black person!

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      I really like this image

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        Unironically that image has pushed me to squeeze out one last rep more times than I care to admit.

  32. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Gin and tonic, barkeep. And if I may, I've got a song for the jukebox that I think the whole bar is gonna love:

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      > gotta pick them up just to say hello
      > short people got nobody to love
      holy shit lmao.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Great song

  33. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm filled with rage, I hate this feeling. I HATE this chick so fricking much for making me feel like this again. I just want to reach back out and try to make things work even though I know that's stupid and my pride won't allow it. I'm talking to another chick but she's not this dumb b***h that I see everyday in the gym. I just want to fricking yell, I have all this anger in me. Why can't she just come over and start up a conversation again? I'd probably give her another shot. I need to get a hold of myself.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Tell us your history with her. What happened?

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        She came up to me and introduced herself which led to us hitting it off. We exchanged numbers and went on a couple dates, we were happy. It had only been maybe a week but she said she felt like we had known each other our whole lives and I said that was cute, but later brought it up and agreed. However, after about two more weeks she tried doing some double standard shit were she could make jokes about me and give me looks of disgust but if I called her out on it or made jokes back, it would upset her. I tried talking to her about it explaining that since she leaves in the summer, we should make the most of our time together. She felt like I was attacking her so she wanted to end things, saying we weren't compatible. I said this was just another one of her shit tests and I was done with them. Then we stopped talking for a couple days until she asked if I hated her and I said I didn't. She told me that she hated how obsessed she was with me, even going so far as to mimic my gym routine just to continue seeing me more, which kicked off round two of messing around, making each other happy, then finding something to argue about. After another argument I stopped talking to her last weekend and Monday she tried saying "hey" to me but I completely ignored her and continued talking to my friend, who was a girl. Pretty sure this bothered her and she has seen me talking to her regularly and knows she's a friend, but the original think thinks my friend has feelings for me. Now I've seen her talking to a couple of guys so the feelings I've been trying to kill, have now been given more fuel. The worst part is she has worked out next to me, posing in the mirror to entice me to talk to her as that's what we used to do with each other and she'll look around to see if I'm looking at her when she's talking to another guy. I know this sounds childish, but I haven't felt like this since 2 ex's ago, which was the 2020-2021 period. I can explain more in another comment

        • 11 months ago
          Anonymous

          What do you wish to accomplish with her?

          • 11 months ago
            Anonymous

            I want her to be with me and only me until she leaves. I want to make her happy and I want her to make me happy. I just feel like my pride won't allow me to reach out again, I blocked her after seeing her talk to another guy today. I was hoping she'd reach out but after thinking about it, why would she when I completely ignored her reaching out in person? I'm worried she'd say no, no other chick I've talked to since ending things with the original girl has made me feel the same. I'm not sure if I should just message her or wait until the next time I see her in person, which would most likely be Monday.

            • 11 months ago
              Anonymous

              Whether you or she makes contact first, you must apologize for ignoring her irl that's actual Black person behaviour, you don't treat valuable people like that. It will eat your mind, you gotta settle it bro. Wagmi good luck

              • 11 months ago
                Anonymous

                Surprised someone responded. You're right it has been eating away at me. I tried texting and calling, even leaving a voice mail, but I'm pretty sure she blocked me. I've decided to just talk to her in person and see what happens. Better to go "oh well" then "what if" and all that. Thanks for calling me out on my Black person behavior, I'd have been fricking pissed if the roles were reversed.

  34. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm drunk during the day again, gonna go to the gym for some drunk squats (again)

  35. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Hello, vodka or something
    Question from another thread:
    why do i get so fricking jealous whenever i see someone talk to her, why does it bother me so much ? Why is she so fricking special? She is already married anyway . So why does it make my blood boil when i see her flirt or joke with someone else? She is not worth it, she does not owe me anything. So why i cant get her out of my head ?
    An anon said it is dopamine imbalance
    Thank you for the answer. It does feel good when i talk to her, when i make her laugh or smile, when i see her eyes. But why her ? Why can`t i realize it`s a fruitless tree. Sometimes when i remember that , I act more carefree and less bothered, but it doesn't last long and i will feel the fire rise again. Even when i had a girlfriend i still thought about her, i even put my girlfriend as a phone wallpaper thinking about what her reaction would be. What the frick has she done to me?
    So what am i supposed to do ? I try to not jack off more than 1 a week and i feel like lifting or reading a book doesn't give me that much of a high
    Another anon said that ''i have fallen in love with idea of someone, not the person themselves'' Which is true, for some reason i choose to ignore her flaws, even though i acknowledge them
    Today i found out that i will see her less frequent, which i think it must be a good thing. But ever since she told me that i have an empty sensation inside my chest and i feel pressure on it, almost like my heart hurts.
    Im not that much of a drinker but i wish i had some right not, guess i will gave to wait till tomorrow to drown my sorrows

  36. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Gym is going under renovations so I didn't get my workout in today. Currently just doing chin/pull-ups.
    Also, before I start drinking, going to use this post to roll for pushups. Last two digits decides

  37. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Gimme 2 vodkas please
    Sister's fiance died in a car accident and it's been rough a rough. Mom and I have been trying to help out as it turns out she's also like 50k in debt and suicidal, saying we're shit people for not just letting her die as well. I'm way out of my depth on trying to help as I'm basically a recluse at this point, just go to work, gym, then home. Work has also been a bit rough with me messing a few things up, but at least we're understanding when i needed the emergency day off. Just gotta roll with the punches when the punches get harder i guess. Similar note, i still can't get over my own fear of meeting and interacting with other people as well but that's just normal at this point

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Where is your father? Do you have other family member so they can help you?

  38. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    A pint of beer and a double antique pelinkovac with some lemon juice. I've been jobless for the past month and a half. My mother, father and sister are helping me. Thank God for I have this wonderful family that loves me. And thank God once more, I got a job opportunity a couple of days ago and I am going to accept it in Monday (I am waiting for maybe more favorable opportunities, but I think nothing will come).

    However, I am in ruins mentally. Not only because I'm 29 and need an assistance (I know that it is what it is but it still hurts to ask for money when you want to have a cup of coffee in a caffe) but because I am weak-minded. I am already overweight and plus, I smoke cigarettes. Yesterday I decided to stop smoking and cut on dinners (so only breakfast and lunch). Yesterday evening all went well but today I got a strong desire to eat. I tried to drink water and some coffee, but since my brain connected coffee with cigarettes, I suddenly needed a smoke. While resisting that urge for half of hour or so, I suddenly got an immeasurable desire to eat. I succumbed and I spent my half of my money on a burger, fries and a pack of cigarettes. I need to lose weight and stop smoking, but every time I try to stop smoking, I get so fricking hungry it's abnormal. The weight is killing me physically and smoking is killing me physically AND financially.

    I feel like I am running in circles not finding the strength to break free from these 2 vices. What's your advice on this, bartender? Besides stop being fricking weak, of course.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      What's your weight

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Smoking helps loose weight. Every time you have food cravings have a cigarette instead. Cigarettes also supress appetite. Also get on modafnil. Will help you autisticly concentrate and kill your hunger.

  39. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

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  40. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

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  41. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Jesus Christ at a 28 KV I thought I had find a gracious girl into me as always reality hit hard and I'm afraid I was simply destined to be alone. This b***h threats me gently IRL, talks to me often and semms interested to see me outside of uni, in the rare times a week we se eachothers. We share similar tastes, she asked about my gym routine.
    The problem is when we chat. She takes hours to respond, and when I ask for meeting she fakes up something. Like today, after telling me yesterday that she was free tonight. My brain is melting as you can see, I'm so tired of girls threating me like shit

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      >She takes hours to respond, and when I ask for meeting she fakes up something
      have some self respect, anon
      im 25yo kv aswell but that shit is common sense, she already friendzoned you
      cut all contact immediately

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      I'm sorry you're going through this brother. I'm not sure I have any advice to help you, but I hope things get better

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        Thank you amigo

        >She takes hours to respond, and when I ask for meeting she fakes up something
        have some self respect, anon
        im 25yo kv aswell but that shit is common sense, she already friendzoned you
        cut all contact immediately

        That's right, I know. Sadly this time is hard cause i like her a lot and felt some kind of connection. I was thinking before that when I'll see her again at uni (she's in in my small uni friends group) I will hardly manage talking to her like nothing happened (is this what normal people do?)

        • 11 months ago
          Anonymous

          just give her a deadline tbh, stop messaging her because you probably look desperate (no girl likes that), if she has any interest in you she might message you again

          • 11 months ago
            Anonymous

            Thanks mate. Yeah, I wanted to do this after last weekend, but I was enchanted my her mannerisms the two times I saw at the beginning of the week. This time will be different. God I acted like a pathetic orbiter (maybe because she comes from a particular races of women with mystical powers)

  42. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Bros I need help I don’t know what to do.
    Some experts/experienced guys sight would be really helpful.
    So I have 2 girls I like and both of them like me.

    The first one I meet a few months ago and we understood each other from the get go, we really like each other etc. but it’s long distance and like a 1-2 hours travel to see each other so we can’t really manage.
    Shes works as a cashier and takes her job seriously because of past experience with relationships and family (she was always alone has trust issues and all that stuff that comes with it.)
    I really like her and have fun talking with her.

    The second one is a doctor (same age as me.) loves the gym, gave me good tips about breaks in between sets for maximal gains, has a really good fashion sense and helped me with skin care but she really wants confirmation on everything she does because of her family relationship and treats me like a child sometimes because I’m introverted.

    So what do you people say, any Tipps or so?

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      What's your own level of education? If you don't make a comparable amount to the doctor forget about her. Statistically it'd be more likely to fail than if you developed a severe gaming and pornography addiction.

      Also which has better genetics? Forget the doctor if hers are a poor pairing.

      It sounds like the cashier has better genetics and you can speak more openly and cleary with her. She might be the best bet. Make a decision soon. And politely reject/ cut off comms with whoever you don't choose. Make the decision within 2 weeks because it sounds like you've been thinking about it for awhile.

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        >What's your own level of education?
        Im a Engineer, but she went out with rich guys(and I mean fricking rich) but left them because they were to Childish and likes me because I say what I think and don’t hold back.
        >Also which has better genetics?
        From looks for me and probably IST the cashier but if you wanna go like sickness and all that stuff than the doctor because the cashier gets hurt like every other day, gets sick a lot, has a special kind of Sun sickness.
        The doc has nothing like that and I still think she looks good.

        • 11 months ago
          Anonymous

          Is the doctor a different race as you and/or does she have any other wierd bullshit going on (bad bones or joints, short). If no to all above go with her. Set a date for sometime in the next week or two, go out for dinner, get her flowers. Establish your intention for the two of you to commit to an official relationship. Women NEED it to be official. Ask what her perspective is. If it's a go, you're good. If it's a bust, explain that it will be the end of your fling.

          If you answered yes to any of the questions above, leave both of them. You do NOT want to be with the cashier if she gets sick/ injured a lot. You should probably establish the end of your fling ASAP regardless of what happens with the doctor. You can do better.

          • 11 months ago
            Anonymous

            Ok thanks Anon, I’ll give a update in the next thread next week

  43. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Red wine for me barkeep

    >Getting more matches than even and even approaching girls out IRL and getting numbers
    >All act like brats, getting ghosted a lot
    >Work being shit and dragging me down
    >Fighting for my life to keep my mindset up
    >Working to keep freelancing but the prospects I've dug up keep ghosting
    >Have some work and should be thankful but future seems uncertain
    >Seems like I have to stick with the dayjob, hit my late 20s being a wage slave
    >Stressed and keep eating shit and weight floating high
    >Lose the weight each week than have a shit few days at work and then drink and eat carbs in the most predictable pattern of self-sabotage ever that I can't seem to break out of
    >Have worked so hard over the past years to lose weight, curb the worst parts of myself and fight to get stronger, leaner, become funny and sociable
    >It all seems for not

    I know all of us are challenged and challenged most when we're just about to have breakthroughs- but I just don't know when this hell will end. I pray and I don't ask for it to get easier, only to be strong and survive and see these troubles to the end... I just don't know when the payoff will be.
    I just want to be loved and cherished again and know that all of this hard work was for something and not for nought.

    Any other bros know this feel?
    WAGMI, never forget it.
    >Verification not required

  44. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    I get that every post here is the same, sorry to all scrollers for adding to the clusterfrick.

    Severe frustration with the gf. She resorts to a lot of israeli argument tactics that make it hard to address serious problems. Maybe she desires assertiveness, and wants to test me or see if I've got any lead in my pencil. I have a real problem with how she fundamentally approaches her interactions with other men.

    The problem is that she approaches interactions with other men in an innappropriate way. Implicitely projecting some amount of availability, sexuality, caprice or impulsiveness. As a result she gets flirted with constantiy when I'm not with her.

    To address my complaints. She doesn't fundamentally change her approach but rather just spends time around guys she imagines I wouldn't be threatened by. She imagines my distress as amounting to insecurity rather than insult or suspicion? However the new guys hit on her also, just in a more lowly, sneaky, slavish way. And maybe that is easier for her to resist and hence I should trust her more, but it doesn't address the fact that her actions make me question the foundation of her commitment to our relationship.

    Whenever I try to describe this to her she becomes super emotional and begs me to stop. Either diverts the conversation to a criticism of my behavior (lack of kindness and gentleness) or else makes a sad face. Sometimes I'm weak and drop the topic. But doubt and frustration remain. I feel it corroding me. I wish I could force her to tell the truth about what she does and why she does it. I can live with her making mistakes insofar as we can rectify her approach and prevent them from happening ever again.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Been there done that. You need to force the conversation even if she tries to stop it. Kill your feelings before so they can't be used against you and prepare yourself for an unpleasant experience

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      You should legitimately dump her and never look back

  45. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    My big wiener stretches out women too much.

  46. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    i feel strangely uplifted and positive this week. dunno what's wrong with me. i may be having a manic episode. anyway anons i salute ye with some self destructive alcoholism. looking fricking swole while i do it though baybeee!

  47. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Give it to me straight bros. Will getting a dog give me more matches on Hinge? I've hit a fricking wall with dating. I'm not a chud by any means and have dated hot chicks in the past. I make $200k a year, dress well, have character, not fat, head full of hair. My biggest faults are no social media and still slightly dyel. Wtf am I supposed to do? Seriously demoralizing. I mean I'll match with chicks but usually they are +30 years old or 6s. Occassionally get a 7 but then they ghost.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      How tall are you

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        6 ft exact.

        • 11 months ago
          Anonymous

          Can you take a screenshot of the thumbnails? I'm only a little bit taller but have a shit ton of matches. Are you in a city or a small town?

          • 11 months ago
            Anonymous

            Think something like Raleigh, NC. Would rather not post photos. I have a job that would fire me if they found out I was shitposting here. kek. I'm Latino, but not brown. Do you look visibly fit with clothes on?

            • 11 months ago
              Anonymous

              >Latino
              >In NC
              Get the frick out and yes, it's ogre
              I hear colombianas will frick you for 5$ if you move their though, GL brown bro (I am also brown but greek which means I'm european and handsome)

            • 11 months ago
              Anonymous

              Feeling social but have no way to furfill that need so I am getting frustrated.

              Invest some time in social media if you got $$$ like that. Figure out one of your internests and start a social media account related to it and then subtle flex your wealth. I wanted to do that since I like doing photography and I think I have some decent photos with very basic gear while traveling but I haven't figured out how to bump my follower count fast yet.

              https://i.imgur.com/BpVNTrP.gif

              i feel strangely uplifted and positive this week. dunno what's wrong with me. i may be having a manic episode. anyway anons i salute ye with some self destructive alcoholism. looking fricking swole while i do it though baybeee!

              I was doing pretty good this week too but because of the above I am self-destructive drinking and getting more angry. I probably should have texted me brother asking him out to drink or to just come by for a drink since I am just pissed but its too late now and hes in a relationship so I don't want to intrude. If it was something more important yeah but I am used to being pissed. Being a professional malcontent is my modus apperandi.

              My big wiener stretches out women too much.

              I can't have sex with women from behind either
              gets that air tight queefing and they whine it hurts when you're pushing the cervix in

              just give her a deadline tbh, stop messaging her because you probably look desperate (no girl likes that), if she has any interest in you she might message you again

              I can't stress enough, sometimes its worth it to give a women an immediate shit test as a guy. Ain't no reason to stand around and be an orbiter. You could spend two weeks talking to a girl or you go "Oi fricker" and see how she responds. Granted my attitude is cute and fricking angry so I usually attract girls that want to be bratbroken. A little struggle with a snuggle.

              https://i.imgur.com/a4IHzPH.png

              Red wine for me barkeep

              >Getting more matches than even and even approaching girls out IRL and getting numbers
              >All act like brats, getting ghosted a lot
              >Work being shit and dragging me down
              >Fighting for my life to keep my mindset up
              >Working to keep freelancing but the prospects I've dug up keep ghosting
              >Have some work and should be thankful but future seems uncertain
              >Seems like I have to stick with the dayjob, hit my late 20s being a wage slave
              >Stressed and keep eating shit and weight floating high
              >Lose the weight each week than have a shit few days at work and then drink and eat carbs in the most predictable pattern of self-sabotage ever that I can't seem to break out of
              >Have worked so hard over the past years to lose weight, curb the worst parts of myself and fight to get stronger, leaner, become funny and sociable
              >It all seems for not

              I know all of us are challenged and challenged most when we're just about to have breakthroughs- but I just don't know when this hell will end. I pray and I don't ask for it to get easier, only to be strong and survive and see these troubles to the end... I just don't know when the payoff will be.
              I just want to be loved and cherished again and know that all of this hard work was for something and not for nought.

              Any other bros know this feel?
              WAGMI, never forget it.
              >Verification not required

              You're getting to a healthier weight and that should be reward enough anon that way you don't look like a balloon and you're facing the negative health conditions because they will catch up with you.

              • 11 months ago
                Anonymous

                sounds like you need a good weekend to yourself just doing fricking nothing my guy. stress is a killer, remember that.

              • 11 months ago
                Anonymous

                Yeah I got some rimworld I want to play but I have a bunch of social energy getting in the way of that right now. Tomorrow there is mowing the lawn and some other things that I can do that will help me out and sunday I can take some things to the city dump. It's just tonight I have energy and no way to exercise it.

              • 11 months ago
                Anonymous

                chat shit with some anons here. tomorrow is another day for all that. how is life treating you?

              • 11 months ago
                Anonymous

                Its going alright all things considered. Moved in but still finishing closing up on a mortage to buy a property that I inherited part of. Fricks going on with you?

              • 11 months ago
                Anonymous

                i dunno what's up with me honestly. been through a slump mentally for months on end now. and i do not winge about things like this usually but i was in a SLUMP. then suddenly this week i'm full of energy and feeling great.
                how's the mortage going? getting fricked by the tax man like they always do?

              • 11 months ago
                Anonymous

                >Figure out one of your internests and start a social media account related

                Unironically this is my plan as I'm a musician. Seems like the only out at this point.

              • 11 months ago
                Anonymous

                Something about following the right people, and getting follows because you follow them etc. Then once you build up a couple hundred bot followers then you're good to grow organically. There is some method to it. I was going to travel this summer and I created one for photography to prep for that but I haven't built up its follower count to appear normal yet.

                i dunno what's up with me honestly. been through a slump mentally for months on end now. and i do not winge about things like this usually but i was in a SLUMP. then suddenly this week i'm full of energy and feeling great.
                how's the mortage going? getting fricked by the tax man like they always do?

                Nah the mortgage issue is that I inherited it along with eight other people. So trying to cordinate the documents for them to sell with eight other people while also making sure the bank can clear and approve my loan. I am approved at this point finally by the bank and now they are just finishing up and preparing the documents for me to sign. But my brother still hasn't signed the sell by agreement and hes not getting the docusign to sign so the lawyer firm can't move forward with their next steps arranging the contract etc.

                You should use that energy anon for productivity. Don't be like me feeling angry because I can't seem to do anything immediately to use the energy that I have.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Don't get a dog if you're just doing it for girls. There are enough frickwits in the world who have dogs that shouldn't. The two people I know that did this treated their dogs like shit for the brief time that they had them before giving them up to a shelter.

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        I want to get a dog to train and I feel like I will really treat the dog right. Actual training it so it can be a lifelong companion. But I also want to stick my dick in string for a minimum of one month every summer. I don't currently have someone to house sit yet for me. I honestly might since I am a teacher and I have plenthy of students who would if the pay was right would come play with my dog. Would just have to hide my liqour cabinet.

        • 11 months ago
          Anonymous

          It's an awesome move if you're approaching it that way. And 100% worth it. Raising my dog changed my life in a ton of positive ways.

          If you're dog is well-trained and plays well with others you will end up talking to a ton of women. I can take my dog out on a walk near the university and I always have girls approach me and ask if they can pet her. If they're cute and start talking about their dog(s), asking for a number and setting up a playdate is an easy lay-up.

          Having a dog on your Hinge profile probably won't hurt you, but guys got the memo about having a picture with their dog on their profile years ago.

          • 11 months ago
            Anonymous

            Women can probably telepathatically feel whether an animals love for you is genuine or not. Or maybe they just enjoy it because you want to put them on a leash. Either way I still want a dog since it'd be good for me I just don't know if I want oa adopt one RIGHT THIS MOMENT since I will be traveling for a month this summer and would probably end up kenneling them which feels bad.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Think something like Raleigh, NC. Would rather not post photos. I have a job that would fire me if they found out I was shitposting here. kek. I'm Latino, but not brown. Do you look visibly fit with clothes on?

      It's probably your photos. ask a friend to help improve them
      I am 5'9, make less than half what you do but my best friend from high school does wedding photography as a side gig and set me up with pic that look good, but not obviously staged. I'm paused now but I've had weeks where every other night is a date

  48. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    >want to dominate twinks
    >small 6 incher
    god is trying to break me but im going to persevere

  49. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Bros, been dating my current gf for a year and things are fine. But just fine. I’m not particularly super engaged when we hang out. She’s very pretty, we never fight, and she’ll be going to med school. I feel like I’m complaining over spilt milk but it’s hard to feel connected and in sync. Meanwhile I have this side girl who’s really fun and our attraction is magnetic. She a little more rough around the edges and doesn’t have her shit as together. I find myself split between two girls all the time and it’s killing me. I just want to make a decision, commit, and be content.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      the side girl is only fun because of the main gf cuck

      everything is more with a cuck

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        Maybe, but what if I really do connect with this side girl better?

        Real love is not always passionate. You’re at the stage a lot of couples don’t survive. Real love is not something you feel but choose to do.

        I’ve hit this wall before where the passion cools and that’s when I end up cheating and self destructing the relationship. How do I survive this? Because it will continue to happen most likely

        • 11 months ago
          Anonymous

          Just wait it out anon. Be patient with yourself. I've been in the same position before. Feelings and passion come and go and you choose to persist. More importantly, do not convince yourself that you need to "get it out of your system" and get with this other girl.

          Do you have a shared vision of the future together with your current girlfriend? Is that something you've talked about together? Is that vision worth having more than being with this other girl? You don't sound like you're genuinely unhappy but just bored and restless, with energy you don't know what to do with.

          • 11 months ago
            Anonymous

            I’ve been bored and restless with every gf. It’s been atleast 10 years like this. The cycle goes

            >infatuation
            >6m - 1y of being content
            >start to feel restless/stale
            >frick around behind their back
            >fall in love with another girl or get caught

            I’ve been to therapists about this and they aren’t too helpful. I clearly have some lack of confidence in myself or I am just trying to fit myself in a box they doesn’t work. I hate being in this position though and feel like I’m always gonna find myself here.

            I’m such a fricking coomer, I can’t just be happy with one girl. Shiny object syndrome hardcore.

            My gf just wants to make me happy and yea we have a shared vision but I feel like she just will do whatever I want for the most part which isn’t very fulfilling. Thing is I could probably have that vision with the other girl too.

            >How do I survive this?
            By having a common project. Plenty of relationships die or become stale because it's just to people having fun and finding comfort in each other, but there's no moving forward. So you just do it for fun and emotional support and hate the other person when they're not for you or cheat on them cause it's way more fun.
            The most common couple projects are making a family and starting a business, but I suppose there's plenty of other ways. It varies.

            I see what you’re getting at. As stated above, maybe the vision is really mine and she’s content with being along for the ride but it’s not “shared”, we didn’t build it together. Idk, she’s gonna be a doctor and I know we can have a very nice life from a material pov. The other girl, I’m not sure but our connection is very magnetic feeling and I think we could build something.

            • 11 months ago
              Anonymous

              Stop being a homosexual. Either commit to your gf knowing you won’t always be infatuated or enjoy your 1 year cycles of “love”. At this point it’s clearly your fault for being a short attention span nerd. I’m not faulting you for doing your one year cycles but I am faulting you for being such a whiny b***h about it.

        • 11 months ago
          Anonymous

          >How do I survive this?
          By having a common project. Plenty of relationships die or become stale because it's just to people having fun and finding comfort in each other, but there's no moving forward. So you just do it for fun and emotional support and hate the other person when they're not for you or cheat on them cause it's way more fun.
          The most common couple projects are making a family and starting a business, but I suppose there's plenty of other ways. It varies.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Real love is not always passionate. You’re at the stage a lot of couples don’t survive. Real love is not something you feel but choose to do.

  50. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    trying really hard not to let my NW3 hairline at 22 fricking kill me, my hair is still dense where it is but I noticed a bit of thinning at the front now and people say it's still fine but the occasional crack from friends about it plus this hellsite makes me feel awful, I don't like looking at myself in the mirror at all all I see is a bald creep. did start fin but don't really want a transplant as I know that they never look as real as natural hairlines and that would lock me into being on fin for the rest of my life. thanks 4 reading my blog post <3

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Fin was the only advice I would give.
      > minoxidil
      If it works (50/50) you'll get great regrowth at the cost of destroying collagen in your face, making you look 5 years older. You're also handcuffed to minox for as long as you want to keep that hair, fin won't save it if you stop taking minox. The topical shit also makes your hair look greasy. Also cardiac sides if you're sensitive since it's literally an extremely potent vasodilator.
      I was a nonresponder to minox so it was a total waste for me.
      > microneedling
      Risk scarring. Done responsibly it apparently works and fin will keep the gains. I personally don't bother.
      > ketoconazole shampoo
      science on that is sketchy, some men swear by it. In my case it triggered a massive shed with no regrowth.

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        yeah I started, 1mg 3x/pw (which I'm praying is often enough to work), currently I have the hairline of lotr elrond but I guess if it becomes stable and thickens out a bit with the same shape I could live with it. luck of the draw isn't it some guys just get fricked over

        • 11 months ago
          Anonymous

          Learn to live with it dude it's genuinely not that big a deal. Cut the sides short and leave the top a bit longer. Let your barber style it from there.
          There's a million "style a receding hairline" videos. My advice is pick a hairstyle that embraces it, or shave it. Attempting to hide it is the worst possible move.
          Cut the sides shorter than the top and try some styles out, once you have one you are happy with, just own it. You look fine.

          • 11 months ago
            Anonymous

            oh yeah I currently just slick it back and it kind of falls into messy curtains, I don't think I could live with a full combover

          • 11 months ago
            Anonymous

            The only people who should feel worried about their hair are the ones who getting male pattern baldness and it starts as a donut at their crown and expands from there. There is nex to now cute haircut you can get that works if your baldness starts from your crown. Witht what you can do from the home your best choice would be to go bald if thats the case.

            https://i.imgur.com/pU8GfVj.jpg

            I'm so fricking tired
            Tuesday will be my first 'day off' in over a month. I've had days off of work in that time but even those have been a race against the clock to get a shitload of stuff done, I'm just not getting paid for it. This will be my first day with more than an hour of free time.
            I'm pushed to my absolute fricking limit. I basically spend 15 hours a day working my ass off, an hour cleaning up and planning the next day, then try to fit in 8 hours of sleep. I tried cutting back on sleep and supplementing with caffeine but it made me feel fricking miserable.
            I haven't watched a movie or played a videogame in probably 6 weeks. I'm surviving on a diet of whatever raw ingredients I can put together; tonight it was a pound of shrimp with some plain Greek yogurt with honey for dessert.
            I know it's worth it because I'm seeing results and my life is improving, but holy frick I'm just so tired.

            If you got a tub get a bath with some epsom salt. 20 minutes hyperthermic makes me feel much better and relaxed.

            https://i.imgur.com/OKiSpkv.gif

            >Some of the guys on this board will disagree, but I'd say don't worry too much about being a shy or passive guy. Just be brave in the times that really matter.
            But I don't want to! I always wanted to be the cool and arrogant Chad since a kid when I thought Sonic was the coolest thing alive. And I can't be brave, I've always cowered, even if I have no reason to. I can't stand up to people, I don't have it in me
            [...]
            I don't know if I can make it, or if I'll even care once I do, if at all, but I'll check out the book
            [...]
            Half my youth is already gone. Who knows how long the hair on my head or the collagen in my face will last. And what will be the point of living then, as a decrepit old soul with no memories of youth to keep me warm as I decay?

            My sanity has slipped more and more each year. I used to be a neurotic, but nowadays I feel nothing, my recent meltdown notwithstanding.

            I feel a little better since I just lifted, and I even went up 5 lbs on my incline bench (10 since it was with dumbbells), but the whole time I was there, I kept thinking "I've wasted my fricking life." I saw teenagers there who will no doubt lifemog me to hell and back and it made me want to drive into oncoming traffic. "I've wasted my fricking life." The little mantra I kept hearing in my head.

            I watch children's movies excessively because I don't think I've matured one bit in my whole life. I can't bring myself to give a shit about my job or school anymore, because again "I've wasted my fricking life." Who gives a shit about studying and making money when even fricking Elliot goddamn Rodger was more socially successful than I am. "I've wasted my fricking life."

            >Half of my youth is gone
            This predisposes yourself to a normal way of living. Reject normality and you can do all kinds of stupid shit. 30 year olds regularly pull 20 year olds and get doted on all the same. I'd say the real issue is the lack of emotional connection due to social media being toxic but if you actually meet the person things go much better.

            I'm 31 and do not have any memories of my entire life. High school, I remember nothing. College, I remember nothing. All my 20s passed and I remember nothing about them. Because every day has been the exact same thing, being alone, doing nothing of any significance, barely living any better than a NEET.

            And now I have panic attacks every single day about how worthless my life is. Distraught about how I let it get to this point. Not seeing the point in continuing with my life. You are supposed to do a ton of life development in your 20s. Socially, career, housing, relationships, financially, hobbies, exercise. I did absolutely nothing. I literally don't remember anything about my life. Every day has just been complete autopilot to get from waking up to going to sleep. There has never been any ambition for anything. Just getting through each day with no foresight to the future.

            I am pretty certain it is well and truly over for me. I don't think there is even a way to recover from this. I doubt there are any success stories from anyone about it.

            I am a teacher and I went to a former high school of mine to watch the school I teach out btfo my former high school. I had trouble remembering where the parking lot was. Shit I have a hard time remembering much of my classes outside of isolated incidents and I am 28 and I didn't smoke weed or drink heavily. That shits normal. If it didn't have a major impact on your way of being you won't remember it. I remember my senior year having a LDR with a girl who lived now in NYC and I was constant flirting with stand-in gfs in my classes and they were cool with it since it didn't mean shit since I had a gf in nyc and I was a lardass at the time.

            • 11 months ago
              Anonymous

              >This predisposes yourself to a normal way of living. Reject normality and you can do all kinds of stupid shit. 30 year olds regularly pull 20 year olds and get doted on all the same. I'd say the real issue is the lack of emotional connection due to social media being toxic but if you actually meet the person things go much better.
              I still find it hard to cope with missed experiences and what I've lost. Prospects feel grim at best.

              I'm thinking of taking bigger risks. Throwing more money into various cryptos I think might blow up in the future, and also just walking out the door and (hopefully) never coming back in a few months. I don't know if I have it in me to do that though. I've always cowered in the past, and even if I go through, who's to say it'll be worth it? I don't know if my current job is worthwhile enough to do that, and I don't want my psycho b***h mother showing up to the workplace and making a scene if I do.

              I wish I was stronger. That's part of why I love Homelander so much. He can stand up for himself, and doesn't take shit lying down, like I have, historically, at every critical moment.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      >fin
      Careful with the possible side effects, anon.

  51. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Tbh I feel like I have seen IST change into a place with more misinformation but also more of a negative attitude over the course of the past 15 years I have lurked. I would chalk it up to people being in a worse place and I think it’s a shame really. It just might be a harder world for people to live in.

    I feel great though almost turning 30 soon and I feel very healthy and life turned out better than I ever thought it would really. There’s some struggles but lifting really brings stability and happiness to my life.

  52. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Whiskey on the rocks.

    I started a tech job after a decade of chasing this dream. I hate professional programming - I shoulda kept it as a hobby or a personal thing. My boss just shits on me for not knowing things and wasting his time.

    I'm gonna stay in the industry long enough to pay off my student loans and then dip.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      what do you have planned after you frick off?

      I'm in a similar boat, but I don't really know what else I can do for work

  53. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm so fricking tired
    Tuesday will be my first 'day off' in over a month. I've had days off of work in that time but even those have been a race against the clock to get a shitload of stuff done, I'm just not getting paid for it. This will be my first day with more than an hour of free time.
    I'm pushed to my absolute fricking limit. I basically spend 15 hours a day working my ass off, an hour cleaning up and planning the next day, then try to fit in 8 hours of sleep. I tried cutting back on sleep and supplementing with caffeine but it made me feel fricking miserable.
    I haven't watched a movie or played a videogame in probably 6 weeks. I'm surviving on a diet of whatever raw ingredients I can put together; tonight it was a pound of shrimp with some plain Greek yogurt with honey for dessert.
    I know it's worth it because I'm seeing results and my life is improving, but holy frick I'm just so tired.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      you are nearly there. just go a little bit further.

  54. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm 31 and do not have any memories of my entire life. High school, I remember nothing. College, I remember nothing. All my 20s passed and I remember nothing about them. Because every day has been the exact same thing, being alone, doing nothing of any significance, barely living any better than a NEET.

    And now I have panic attacks every single day about how worthless my life is. Distraught about how I let it get to this point. Not seeing the point in continuing with my life. You are supposed to do a ton of life development in your 20s. Socially, career, housing, relationships, financially, hobbies, exercise. I did absolutely nothing. I literally don't remember anything about my life. Every day has just been complete autopilot to get from waking up to going to sleep. There has never been any ambition for anything. Just getting through each day with no foresight to the future.

    I am pretty certain it is well and truly over for me. I don't think there is even a way to recover from this. I doubt there are any success stories from anyone about it.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Who cares man, start trying new things out you still have half your life still. Or just enjoy your existence as a neet and be glad you live in this generation and can play video games instead of looking at a barn wall for 60 years. Obviously your life is not one people look up to and for good reason, but if that’s all you amount to it’s not a big deal if you enjoyed it. If you don’t enjoy it then start basic hobbies like walks in a park, some kind of excercise, and some kind of art hobby (books, museums, drawing, etc).

  55. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Lifting makes the feels go away, but I can't stay in the gym forever.

  56. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    could be worse
    therapist is hell bent on trying to convert me into a normie. she is actually convinced i am a normie and that i somehow i convinced myself that im a mentally ill incel through an extended period of isolation and neetdom but i still have all the social skills required to go out and "do things"
    lol

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Do you feel that is it easier to socialize with people when you have something in common like being at work?

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        yeah sometimes. the only "friends" i have are people i had to meet at work

        • 11 months ago
          Anonymous

          If you're any like me you probably only feel social about work goals. that you're okay to have conservsation at work when its under the norm already that you're working with them and have a shared goal.

          Things outside of that are "awkward"

          • 11 months ago
            Anonymous

            different anon but I'm exactly like that to a t. Seriously though, please tell me you have a solution for this, or at least tell me what to call it.

  57. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    i know that if i just fast for a couple of weeks my life would heavily improve..

    Why cant i do it??

  58. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    how can you love someone that didn't give a frick about you until you became something, that would tell you to frick off in the club, wouldn't match on tinder. I get it, an obese guy isn't deserving of love unless he's famous or rich, I'm nothing so I don't deserve anything, but if I did become something I would feel so bitter that they never really saw me or wanted to before.

  59. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Found out an ex that i dated for 6 years and was engaged to is married now. I havent gotten laid in a year lol

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Why subject yourself to this pain

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        Instagrams algorithm is designed to inflict

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      been there brother

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        Thanks man. Its been about 4 years but she was my big one.

  60. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    just a sparkling water, barkeep. I ran today and need to stay hydrated
    I'm starting to wonder if spending all this time here has made me more in love with the idea or pursuit of a partner than actually having one. closer than I've ever been to having a gf (had the exclusivity talk, am meeting her friends tomorrow), but now that I'm on the cusp of it, doesn't really feel substantial. I do like her. she's not extremely political- this is somewhat rare as I live in the DC area, is a light social media user, and she doesn't understand my tangents on baseball stats or the f zero series, but listens nonetheless. I have been on dozens of app dates and know when I have a dud, that hasn't happened here
    but I'm not 100% sure. I don't really have priors to go off of. the last "relationship" I had was four years ago when I was a college senior and I knew it was going to expire because it developed out of a FWB situation with someone who was graduating a year after me. my friends back home have been in committed relationships for years, I look at how integrated their girlfriends are in each of their lives and I'm not sure the woman I'm seeing right now fits to that extent...but they also say comparison is the thief of joy.

  61. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    I havent had a job in 5 years but I might start this wfh one soon. I still struggle with an hero thoughts every day

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      what jb you get after being unemployed 5 yrs

  62. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    I got a new job I’m feeling fricking great. I think my new babysitter (I’m a single dad) wants me to bang her. So thanks for all the advice guys I couldn’t have done without you and even to the demoralization gays thanks to you too

  63. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    What kind of flowers should I get for a gf I don't see enough when I take her out for her birthday? I want a small but tasteful boquet thats appropriate for the occassion, when I pick her up I'll probably just give them to her then such that she can put them inside and think of me whenever she sees them for the next little bit

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Do you love her? If so, roses are a classic choice. Yellow ones are debonair

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Get her a snall aloe vera plant to teat whether she cares enough about you to keep it alive

  64. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Rum please

    Ended toxic relationship with my ex, in spite of the issues the sex was amazing and I know I need heavy intimacy in a relationship
    Meet an incredible girl, super caring, puts real effort into progressing things
    She's super religious (I'm regular religious), and doesn't have a "hot blooded" bone in her body, also wouldn't live with a partner before marriage
    She'd be an awesome partner and mom, but I know I won't be satisfied with someone who's primary idea of being intimate is cuddling
    Ugh

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      iktf bro. give the new girl a chance, you have nothing to lose and perhaps the green flags will outweigh the lack of initial enthusiasm. literal vice versa of your ex.

  65. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Coffee, please.
    I have a crush on a girl that works in a supermarket. Been contemplating on if I should ask her out. I have almost zero experience on this, but I think I have to try anyway. Still trying to figure out how

  66. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    I was pulling for a triple and almost shit my pants. Started prairie dogging at my sticking point on the last rep and it was the scariest moment I've ever felt in public.

    Didn't touch cloth, but had to go wipe my ass afterwards.

  67. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    >hey anon you are cute
    >whats you are Instagram?
    >Mfw I gotta autistically explain why I don't like social media

    should I bite the bullet and open a account? why do normies get so upset when you don't have social media? Anyways this is the third time this happens

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      >>Mfw I gotta autistically explain why I don't like social media
      because you have no friends?

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        yeah i only consider my friends those who i see daily, like my gymbros

        you don't have to sperg out brother
        >I got rid of it because I wasted too much time on it
        >Here's my number instead:
        it's not that hard. if they like you they will text/call.

        i do that, but they get so offended. This girl told me "how tf you don't have Instagram" like she was pissed off. also for some reason normies don't seem to like whatsapp that much, idk why they prefer Instagram

        • 11 months ago
          Anonymous

          if you dont have social media because you have no social life to post about instead of some "lol i spent too long on it" lie, they will see right thru that

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      you don't have to sperg out brother
      >I got rid of it because I wasted too much time on it
      >Here's my number instead:
      it's not that hard. if they like you they will text/call.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      >>what's your insta
      >oh I don't have one
      how do you not have insta??
      >idk I'm boring
      easy
      I'm not gonna larp as if I have 600 ex girlfriends, go clubbing and make out with random girls every weekend like the guy in that one webm and am therefore an expert (unlike most of the pathetic bullshitters on here)... but women I've somehow stumbled into a conversation with tend to be most receptive to me when I flat out tell them I'm boring and not interesting. Whereas I've made an ass of myself on multiple occasions trying to give a "good" answer about why I have insta or whatever else.

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        why I *don't* have insta

  68. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm still coming to terms with my ex-GF dumping me seven months ago lads. She moved on from me to dating a nerdy twink and then not to long after she moved in with him. We've dated for a year or so and we both wanted to rent a place somewhere but I was hesitant because I have no idea what I wanna to do with my life. She was the first girl I've dated that I genuinely loved and loved her for who she was. It's so painful bros because I also work with her at my wagie job that I need. I feel like a massive cucked homosexual...

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      You aren't alone anon. Similar thing happened to me albiet I dumped her after she stopped putting in any effort then found a new guy she worships. Shit happens and sometimes it isn't meant to be.

  69. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Another night full of bitterness. I will always be a loser

    >be me
    >29 y/o / 173cm/ 165lbs/ 15% bf/ white firefighter
    >turned my life around at 22
    >became fit by normie standards, get hired in one of the biggest fire department in N/A, work full time as a police dispatcher and part time at my family's bakery
    >have a brand new house worth more than a million dollars
    >new car
    >full of hobbies like cycling, rock climbing and ice hockey
    >fully immersed in a chad environment, go out with the boys from the firehouse, become well known in the fire department

    >no women ever respects me or is even remotely interested in me
    >most of these friends are more like coworkers on good terms even though I help them out on almost anything
    >feel like I'm not respected or even acknowledged by my peers

    >big hockey tournament in a faraway city
    >go out with the boys
    >always feel like I'm latching on, never an important part of the group
    >try to be friendly and cold approach girls (even though I know it's pointless)
    >get rejected multiple times
    >get left behind by the boys, they went to the airbnb without me

    Not even an aspie. I have a fresh haircut, dress moderately well, smell good and a laid back guy

    You either are born chad or not. You can't fake it. You will never be appreciated or be an important person. I'm walking my way back to the airbnb. There's a bridge on the way. I will jump from it tonight. I can't cope with the fact I'm turning 30 and I can't socialize adequately. People are taking advantage of me and I can't change a goddamn thing. Peace out yall

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      i hope you have the courage to do it and arent just talk. i respect guys who kill themselves since im too scared to.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      i hope you have the courage to do it and arent just talk. i respect guys who kill themselves since im too scared to.

      You'll go to Hell if you have a nice day its not worth it

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Stop being a pussy. All that hard work and effort for nothing. If you need a woman start dating young twenties who are baby crazy and make some kids, your kids will love you.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      >letting nikocado avocado live longer then you
      Wtf anon

  70. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    i think my gym crush might be in high school
    she looks at me a lot
    i'm 28

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Impure thoughts are a fact of life, but dont poison your soul by impure acts.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      16 is legal in most of the world and half the zogged ameripig states lmao, what's the problem

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      why do you think shes in highschool? some women are lucky and just look pretty young

  71. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    i failed another year of grad school
    completely numb to any emotion so i dont even feel bad that it happened
    maybe something good will come out of it
    at least i have integrity and didnt get kicked out of the program for cheating like some of the other students
    also i started getting way more gains from eating pork chops daily

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      >failing american college
      aren't tests just multiple choice quiz or something

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        its dental school

  72. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    how does someone actually work on their social skills
    I've had girls me approach me but I didn't know what to do with it and fricked up

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      are you frickin stupid?
      just talk to people and eventually you will figure it out

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      You need to stop giving a shit and stop living in your head. And ultimately it's not about what you say, it's about how you say it. How you present yourself, what kind of attitude you project.
      You get to this point by practicing. Go to as much random social events as possible and just talk with people. Not only will this improve your own social skills, you'll realize that most people are bumbling morons barely able to hold a conversation, and the biggest difference between them and you is that they don't care and spill spaghetti everywhere with a smile on their face, while everybody can read on your face how uncomfortable you are to be you

  73. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm going to have to move if i ever plan on finding love

  74. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Moved to new city and good grief there are so many good looking woman here but alas.. im a jaded sperg. Not un savable but definitely damaged from a previous relationship (and self blame/pity)

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Frick pitying yourself. Cherish the previous relationship, appreciate the love you had, move on. Work on yourself. Its fine being sad, its not fine pitying yourself. Its pathetic

  75. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Just had "get me pregnant" sex for the first time. And I kinda blew it... :/
    Don't think anyone will read this, basically middle of the night maybe 5am I was half asleep and I feel my gf sleeping besides me moving and what not, breathing differently. Eventually I sit down to drink some water and I wake her up by accident, she seems a bit startled almost. After I'm done with my water she just pounced on me and starts making out super heavy. My eyes hurt if I open them at this point was maybe 5am... Things keep going... Eventually she gets on top and her pussy has never felt tighter, I literally cum instantly. The moment my dick finally got inside her I came. It was almost painful because it was really getting squeezed. She tries riding me a bit but I'm completely limp and tired. Then gives up and falls asleep on top of me with my limp shrimp dick still inside of her. Never seen her be thar crazy and into it, and I came instantly. Tragic. Now I'm in the bathroom writing this feeling pretty bad about myself. 7:30am.

    Tldr: wake up middle of the night, gf extremely horny like never before. I finish instantly the moment my dick gets inside her. Can't fall back asleep.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah dude that sounds awful, hope you are doing okay

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Also chest really sore, think I finally figured out the mind muscle for the upper pec specifically

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      she had a dream about someone else bru

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        israelite

        Just had "get me pregnant" sex for the first time. And I kinda blew it... :/
        Don't think anyone will read this, basically middle of the night maybe 5am I was half asleep and I feel my gf sleeping besides me moving and what not, breathing differently. Eventually I sit down to drink some water and I wake her up by accident, she seems a bit startled almost. After I'm done with my water she just pounced on me and starts making out super heavy. My eyes hurt if I open them at this point was maybe 5am... Things keep going... Eventually she gets on top and her pussy has never felt tighter, I literally cum instantly. The moment my dick finally got inside her I came. It was almost painful because it was really getting squeezed. She tries riding me a bit but I'm completely limp and tired. Then gives up and falls asleep on top of me with my limp shrimp dick still inside of her. Never seen her be thar crazy and into it, and I came instantly. Tragic. Now I'm in the bathroom writing this feeling pretty bad about myself. 7:30am.

        Tldr: wake up middle of the night, gf extremely horny like never before. I finish instantly the moment my dick gets inside her. Can't fall back asleep.

        While it would have been nice to have a better session it still sounds pretty sweet

  76. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    I really want to drop to bantamweight for boxing cos I'm a manlet and am a huge Naoya Inoue fan but that means losing 14kg which will be a pain and idk if I'll lose my strength in my shots cos of that...

  77. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    I know it's rough guys. Hell I bet it been feeling real heavy lately too. Yeah I'm been feeling it too, it can be so overwhelming sometimes. Hang in there. We will make it. I know we will. Stop doubting that you can change yourself. This past week has been real bad. I can feel the darkness in me steering me to my self destructive tendencies. I know the next month is gonna be difficult too.

    I come in this thread and to be completely honest. I don't see any losers here. I see potential and redemption. Hard to see it yourself when you're down bad. But it's there. The pain will pass eventually, and with work you'll achieve your goals. If you feel like you have already given up and fallen too many times. just wait a second....one more rep? Just for me? Come on you got one more in ya mate. One more rep! One more rep! You already on the bench anyways. You won't regret it just one more attempt. I know you got it in you bro reach deep inside focus and bring it out. You got this.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Thanks anon. I needed that.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      WAAGMI.

  78. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Lads i could just vent about no gf and turning 40 in 8 years
    But i just did my Legday so i'm kinda pumped

    Anyways is it normal to feel diddlies more in your lower back after youve done them?
    Leg doms kinda just come well the next day

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Been happening on my runs lately. Lower back and butt. Everything else ok.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Are you bracing your core enough? How far away from the bar are you? Pretty sure the further the bar, the more your lower back gets used, so maybe try scraping your shins with the bar.

  79. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    >social event with coworkers who are mostly younger than me
    >one just got engaged
    >everyone else talked about their fruitful experience on dating apps
    >everyone has plans for the weekend
    >everyone has something going on in their life
    mmm beers in the dark on my computer again

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Oof, I know that pain anon

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      oof, me too

  80. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    A gallon of water please.
    I’m on the verge of creating a fake resume with some close friends as references. I barely have any relevant work experience, I can’t even find any non retail job I meet the requirements of. I also simply refuse (can’t) do retail anymore, I just can’t fricking do it. Anyone done something like this, lie in your resume?
    My idea is lie, get a job, learn some skills and gain actual experience and if they figure me out and fire me then I have real experience that I can transfer to a new job.
    I also only want to take a job for 3-5 months before going back to school. Purely for the human exposure so while im in class im not all socially anxious and can actually focus on the material rather than being in my head on the verge of a panic attack worrying about the other students.

  81. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    I’m only 23, but I’m married with two kids. I tell everyone it’s great and I’m happy and I wouldn’t change anything but I went from a young 19yo dude totally independent nothing tiring me down… To being married for the rest of my life and for the foreseeable future a stay at home dad.
    My life before was pretty alright, I had my own car and apartment that I’d worked hard for, a good job I liked, money saved up. If I wanted to frick I could get a b***h for the night, if I wanted to call off work and have a day for me I could. I could go anywhere within reason, do anything within reason. Now? She makes a lot more than me so it just makes sense for me to be on the Homefront, so my every waking moment is spent taking care of an 11mo and a 2.5yo or sitting up alone late at night.
    The first kid was an Oopsie poopsie, second one she lied to me about her birth control because she wanted another baby, I did not. I married her because it was the right thing to do, I stayed because it’s the right thing to do. I do really love her, I love our kids, but sometimes I just miss my ex. I miss my old life. My wife doesn’t even frick me anymore and admitted she never really cared for sex but wanted to secure me, so she lied and couldn’t keep up with the lie.
    I don’t want to divorce because we’ve been through so much, my kids need their dad, and marriage is supposed to be forever. She’s still my best friend, but I feel like sometimes I wish I’d never left my ex. I know I shouldn't but I feel like she trapped me and that causes resentment. Where would I be now? The same position? Happy and free? Here’s the ultimate question: how do I eliminate these feelings of doubt for my family?

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      To me it sounds like you’re Stockholm syndroming yourself but I understand why. Your kids are important but your wife has done shitty things to you. I don’t think she’s your best friend. Being compassionate, I see that her bad behavior is due to some sort of deep insecurity and probably comes from childhood. You are very young so your life is not over no matter what you do. You’ll never have that true freedom again since you have kids but it doesn’t mean your life is over if you divorce. Tough situation but don’t give up on your dreams, you’ll regret it at some point when it is truly too late.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      What a fricking nightmare

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      >second one she lied to me about her birth control because she wanted another baby, I did not.
      >My wife doesn’t even frick me anymore and admitted she never really cared for sex but wanted to secure me, so she lied and couldn’t keep up with the lie.
      >She’s still my best friend
      ??
      What kind of "best friend" does this?
      You can't eliminate these feelings of doubt because you were manipulated into this situation and you're trying to gaslight yourself into loving it.
      Marriage is only supposed to be forever in Disney cartoons. In the real world it requires honesty, trust and sacrifices to work.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      I am not married and have no kids. 26, presently single by choice to focus on my Master's.
      Nobody ITT knows you or your wife except from this post. Please do not make any major life decisions based on what some buttholes on the sneed website told you.
      However I will say that a marriage NEEDS honesty and trust if it is going to last. Lying to you about birth control so you get her pregnant against your will is not a trivial lie. It sounds like your ability to trust her is justifiably compromised.
      You need to be open with her about this fact. If she's really your best friend, you can tell her when someting she did wasn't okay, and you guys can reach a new understanding that restores trust and honesty. She lapsed on her duty to be honest, the first move would be to abide by yours. You feel trapped because she admitted that she did a thing that could easily be construed as trapping. Some of your doubts are normal because you made a massive life change at such a young age, and in an overall healthy relationship, would fade with time. Some of the things you've told us are things that you and your wife need to talk about.
      I reiterate, do not make any major life choices based on what some douchebags on IST told you. But at minimum you and your wife need to have a conversation and try to reach an understanding that restores trust and honesty to the relationship.
      It is perfectly normal for couples to have to have serious conversations from time to time. If you're in this for the long haul, you need to know that you can trust your partner.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      I am not married and have no kids. 26, presently single by choice to focus on my Master's.
      Nobody ITT knows you or your wife except from this post. Please do not make any major life decisions based on what some buttholes on the sneed website told you.
      However I will say that a marriage NEEDS honesty and trust if it is going to last. Lying to you about birth control so you get her pregnant against your will is not a trivial lie. It sounds like your ability to trust her is justifiably compromised.
      You need to be open with her about this fact. If she's really your best friend, you can tell her when someting she did wasn't okay, and you guys can reach a new understanding that restores trust and honesty. She lapsed on her duty to be honest, the first move would be to abide by yours. You feel trapped because she admitted that she did a thing that could easily be construed as trapping. Some of your doubts are normal because you made a massive life change at such a young age, and in an overall healthy relationship, would fade with time. Some of the things you've told us are things that you and your wife need to talk about.
      I reiterate, do not make any major life choices based on what some douchebags on IST told you. But at minimum you and your wife need to have a conversation and try to reach an understanding that restores trust and honesty to the relationship.
      It is perfectly normal for couples to have to have serious conversations from time to time. If you're in this for the long haul, you need to know that you can trust your partner.

      Listen to this guy

  82. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    >get fricked up at home
    >so fricking lonely
    >go to nearby bar
    >talk to people all night
    >get qt bartender's snap and she comes drinking with me after her shift is over
    >get blackout drunk, remember trying to fight some dudes
    >she sent me a message, which I ignored
    I'm so fricking lonely and emotionally crippled bros

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      You gotta pace yourself dude

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        Just did it again but didn't blackout and met a nice girl who drove me to the station and gave contacts and hug, This was a nice fricking night without me fricking myself up, damn this feels good. WAGMI

  83. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    The oneitis ghosts me on whatsapp. Her profile pic is removed but she didnt block me. Wanna grill myself. Clinging on to this little hope I had left in my life is gone.
    Pls kill me.
    How do I stop these feels?

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      means she deleted your number. You can check btw - you'll need two people to create a 'broadcast group'. Broadcast a message and if you get two ticks with her chat then she hasn't deleted you else shes got 'show profile pic to my contacts only'

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        >'show profile pic to my contacts only'
        What a stupid vapid tuna reeking c**t. Good riddance get filtered fatty.

  84. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Real talk: I've been told to be cautios of chicks with tatoos but never been told why? Theres a chick I know that has the birthdate of her father. He's still alive and such. They have a normal/good relationship. What do you make out of that?

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      I think tattoo haters say it shows poor judgement to get something that will be on you permanently for the rest of your life

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        >I think tattoo haters say it shows poor judgement to get something that will be on you permanently for the rest of your life
        Does this go matter how little and small they are?
        I swear some guys already developed a science of predicting and categorizing women based on her phenotype, tats, dyed hair etc.

        What do you think of the example I provided in my previous post, birthdate of her father on her arm?
        She also used to dye her hair but no freaky colors, just blonde.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Permanents markings/bodily harm for the sake of nothing. It shows impulsiveness and a disregard for normalcy.
      >I want to permanently draw on my skin and mutilate myself with piercings
      is not a healthy brain.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      I can offer some insight, anecdotal but helpful imho.
      I’ve both dated, hooked up with, and observed friends messing with tattooed women.
      So first and foremost, if she’s covered in tattoos, like all on her arms and legs and shit, she’s a prostitute dude. She wants attention. That’s what they’re for. They want people to look and notice them. It also serves to mask their shit or lack of a personality. It’s a way for them to talk to guys while showing their body off without straight being a prostitute about it. These girls talk about tattoos like it’s a personality trait and it is not. It’s absolutely a sign of poor judgement most times, it’s also a sign of low self worth no matter what anyone says. This is not always the case, but 90% of the time it is. And these are the types who usually say “it doesn’t need meaning it just looks badass!” No it does not you look like a fricking loser who’s trying to fill a void you fatherless bawd.

      A tattoo that’s not visible or that’s small like a little wrist tattoo most people wouldn’t notice is fine. For example if she has a tattoo on her shoulder and it’s always covered, that’s for her and no one else. It holds meaning to her. Or the EKG rhythm of a deceased family member, subtle, small, thin. That’s for her.

      You can more or less tell it’s kind of obvious. Remember most women do everything they do based on what they think will get them the most attention. Flashy shitty tattoos all over their body. They’ll say it’s for them but it’s not.

      >I think tattoo haters say it shows poor judgement to get something that will be on you permanently for the rest of your life
      Does this go matter how little and small they are?
      I swear some guys already developed a science of predicting and categorizing women based on her phenotype, tats, dyed hair etc.

      What do you think of the example I provided in my previous post, birthdate of her father on her arm?
      She also used to dye her hair but no freaky colors, just blonde.

      It’s the same idea as a b***h dying her hair blue. Look man I got a tattoo on my forearm and I hate it personally. Obviously my own feelings about my own do not represent everyone, but what I said above is simply factual. It’s not self expression, it doesn’t look badass. It’s ultimately the individuals choice and it’s their body, but specifically with women it’s almost always a way to advertise that their easy to sleep with.

  85. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    what's your experience with counselling anons? what did you say to them? can you tell them that you think you're fricked in the head in some manner but don't know if it's autism, adhd or spd?

  86. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    >be me, 5'9" 170lbs, getting back into lifting after a long time fricking off
    >finishing a 10 rep set of 315lbs on deadlift
    >song kicks in around rep 6
    >absolutely blast the last 4 reps, very explosive
    >giant dude doing dips nearby pulls out his headphone
    >"you ripped those bro, that was fricking awesome!"
    >y-you too
    Felt really good. A positive word from a random gym bro can gas someone up the whole rest of their day.

  87. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    I recent turned 30 and have completely given up on life. I don’t remember a single thing from my 20s because I did nothing. The most important developmental period in your life and I have nothing to show from it. I have no goals, no aspirations, no dreams. Don’t care about relationships, career, finances, nothing.

    My “life” is literally just existing until I need to go to sleep again, and most of my coherent waking hours are spent in despondency and despair as I think about how I’ve wasted my entire life and how it’s too late to do anything to change it.

  88. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Vodka and Soda.

    My social life is a disaster. I'm in a small-uni program. The kind where everyone knows everyone or at least of everyone. I have a reputation of being a high performer, but distant. Due to the huge time sink that my degree is, I really only interact with people in the program.

    This semester I've been trying to be more social, and start hanging out with others in the program. Issue is that I didn't really party or date in high school or earlier years of uni, so there are huge gaps in my knowledge of what I should or shouldn't do. And what is and isn't normal.

    Because of this I've found myself in a pit where I'm a female "friend"'s emotional support boyfriend/boy toy, while her bf is gone. She and every fricker I know is gaslighting me to frick some psycho-prostitute, who tried to get her last bf arrested on false charges. All while having become dirt in the eyes of the chick that I was actually interested in. And then on top of all this my reputation for being put together is collapsing.

    Idk what the hell I should be doing right now. I'm 21 and a kissless virgin. Should I frick the psycho? I already know that she'll tell everyone of my lack of experience. And that's something that will just be out there all next year. This is especially annoying because I feel like this entire situation is a trap laid by the psycho and my female "friend" to humiliate the program's golden boy. Or maybe I'm just a schzo.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Your penis is saying yes but your brain is saying no, listen to your brain as you are too autistic to handle the psycho(not that being normal makes her easy to deal with) you will regret not fricking her but you will regret fricking her more almost certainly.

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        I know.

        It’s just I’m at the point where I feel like I need to make moves. I’m fit, my academics are great, my confidence and self-esteem have never been higher, but I lack experience with women.

        Getting with the psycho would be a lay up. She’s graduating in May (but will still be in the area next year), she’s burned most of her bridges socially so she doesn’t have many options, and worst case scenario I can deny any shit she talks because she’s insane.

        I feel like it would be a good, quick rep to get in. To allow me to get over anxiety of first kiss and first frick with someone who is disposable. Maybe even a short relationship, so that I have experience going into next the Fall, when I can then trade up.

        Then again she’ll probably funnel all dets back to my female “friend” and two or three of her friends who aren’t graduating. Honestly, not sure how much I care about the reputation damage.

        My concern is that if I pass up this opportunity, then the same issues of a lack of experience will exist with any chicks that I do want to get with. And if everything goes wrong and I don’t get laid and have experience having a gf before I graduate then I’m utterly fricked.

        • 11 months ago
          Anonymous

          enjoy the rape accusations frickin moron your coomer brain is going to be the end of you

  89. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    My sister had a baby with a bum who is almost 40 and that homosexual left her and now she is a single mom and my parents had to deal with the heartache and take care of my sist and in general this caused a big stress in my family.

    That homosexual had the audacity to message me on Facebook about a job that he needs advice on. What the ruck should I do? Block him? He is the father of my nephew so I will have to live with that shit for the rest of my life. Should I just answer I don’t know? I should have Beaten that moron up 2 years ago

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Write this:
      >Are you serious dude? You are really writing me after what you’ve done to my sister!
      Hope you are really fit and he knows it for the next part:
      >Listen here you little 40 mental child, you either grow the frick up and become a man once in your life and take care of your son OR I‘ll beat the shit out of you if you don’t wanna change and contact one of my family members ever again

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        My dad said to help that homosexual and don’t start a scene. I told the Manlet I don’t know about that job. I wanted to pose as a non threat so he doesn’t have anything against me in fricking messenger. Maybe I’m coping but I think that was the best play. My sister is mentally unhinged as well tbh

        • 11 months ago
          Anonymous

          > My dad said to help
          Why would your dad do that?
          It’s one thing helping people it’s another helping people who hurt your family.
          Have some fricking backbone for your family man

          • 11 months ago
            Anonymous

            You are right I fricked up. The other guy will probably think I’m a pussy now. Holy shit what’s the next play

            • 11 months ago
              Anonymous

              >what is the next play
              Nothing. What’s done is done. No reason to waste your energy on arguing with him either.

              • 11 months ago
                Anonymous

                Yeah this.[...] just forget it but if he reaches out to you again give him your opinion

                Based bros thanks

            • 11 months ago
              Anonymous

              Yeah this.

              >what is the next play
              Nothing. What’s done is done. No reason to waste your energy on arguing with him either.

              just forget it but if he reaches out to you again give him your opinion

        • 11 months ago
          Anonymous

          You are right I fricked up. The other guy will probably think I’m a pussy now. Holy shit what’s the next play

          You should either do

          >what is the next play
          Nothing. What’s done is done. No reason to waste your energy on arguing with him either.

          OR if you don’t think it will hurt message him something backhanded like “btw I love being an uncle, thank you. It’s so fulfilling raising him/her but I know that doesn’t interest you haha good luck on the job search.” That’s what I would have done. My only response to begin with would have been “why do you want my help? Are you planning to be a real father if you get this job?”
          But it’s likely bets to keep distance because he would most likely leave again if he ever came back.

          • 11 months ago
            Anonymous

            > But it’s likely bets to keep distance because he would most likely leave again if he ever came back.

            Look bro him and my sister are both mentally ill. that guy was somewhat attractive despite being a Manlet but my sister fell for him. The problem is that my sister is 34 and she is almost out of the market she lost all her smv so she is getting desperate. My parents really tryharded to make it work for them (the guy was brokie as well)

            I mog him if we ever fighted but he is a real freak I have to say. I’ll stay alert thanks, also if he texts me again I’ll just call him

  90. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Be me, 21.
    >Got cheated on and dumped like two months ago.
    >Take my closest friends out on the town last night.
    >Fortunately I decide to be sober.
    >Run into none other than the skinny little 5’7” motherfricker she left me for.
    >He walks towards me with a big fricking grin on his face.
    >Before I can take control of myself I have him in a sort of headlock and whisper into his ear the equivalent of “Greetings Eskimo Brother!”
    >Immediately release him and walk away.
    My friends told me he looked shocked. I heard from a reliable source that my ex spent the whole night drinking herself to the point of vomiting, and that her new boyfriend only showed up briefly before leaving and then begrudgingly returned to care for her in her drunken stupor, once urged to do so by her friends.
    I don’t even know how to feel about the whole thing.
    On the one hand, I enjoyed the night out more than any other I’ve had.
    On the other, I was cruel to a young man with a broken self image and a woman I once loved dearer than life itself is clearly in pain.
    I guess I’m winning the breakup, it just doesn’t feel like victory. Just feels like everyone else is losing more.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Bro take for what it is. You enjoyed a night out, you had fun. End of story.
      You also didn’t do much wrong. That little geek thought he was hot shit and was essentially trying to rub it in your face, in his head he was thinking shit along the lines of “yeah I’m a bad mfer I’m more alpha than this guy I stole his b***h I’m dominant over him” and you quickly showed him why that isn’t true. What he was doing, walking towards you with a grin, is scumbag shit. You did well. You didn’t take it too far. You could have actually hurt him but you showed mercy. You sent a message to him to stay tf away from you and he understood it fast as frick, so much that he tried to abandon his bawd gf. You quite literally are winning.
      Free of a prostitute/not wife material b***h
      Didn’t take that homosexual BS from the moron she’s using now and emasculated him
      Made the girl who betrayed you look really really bad, she had to drown herself in liquor because she realized she downgraded to a guy easily physically dominated and embarrassed who would ditch her over his own feelings at a moments notice.

      You won homie. You had fun, you out two people who tried to hurt you in their place. Move on and enjoy life bro.

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        You’re right. I was overthinking it. I’ll add that the bar I was at wasn’t the same place she was. He abandoned her before I ran into him. It’s whatever though. I enjoyed myself and showed the little rat what’s what.
        Have a wonderful saturday anon.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      > it just doesn’t feel like victory.
      It means your mentality grew up and yo don’t play children games anymore Anon.
      That’s the biggest victory there is.
      There are no winners in a break up only memories.
      She’s a child that she cheated on you instead of talking it out. You can be happy that she is gone.
      Also if you ever feel bad about that or miss her read pic related, it helped me a lot to get a good mental state after my ex cheated on me.
      In the end it worked im together with a beautiful girl who helped me better myself in multiple ways and become really happy.
      And if you do care if I won or not, my friends said yes I won, my ex got together with a guy who cheated on her several times and fricked her up mentally because of it, they also showed me messages of her asking my friends for my new number.
      So yeah thinks do work out in the end if you don’t give up after life punched you in the face.

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        Thank you anon. I’ll continue my journey. There is a beautiful and gentle young woman who wants to sleep with me soon. I might do it if she waits until my finals are over.
        As for the ex and her little chihuahua, I’m moving on. They can keep each other.

  91. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Cant believe i share this board with such whinny low test whiny c**ts. Seriously,all bar threads are same. U whine and whine about prostitutes and bawds,man up for frick sake and stop bein such sad excuse for a men.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Speak for yourself bro I'm the guy who posted the short people song.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Stfu. Every single fricking imbecile that spouts this moronic mantra like you is a lucky and/or privileged literal homosexual. Not everyone was/is fortunate enough to be sheltered from the endless misery life has to offer. Go to facebook and discuss which BBQ is the best for this summer you NPC genetic dead end.

  92. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm stupid and uncultured.
    Also a virgin.
    That's what I wanted to say.
    I lift and work and pay taxes but it's just a massive cope.
    I feel like shit.
    That's all.

  93. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Sparkling water for me barkeep.
    Dating apps are dead and most normies seem to meet on insta.
    I could barely use snap outside of sending shitposts and fish pics to buddies- should I bother to even start an insta if I just work two jobs and go hiking on the weekends or is it ogre. I know playing with fire is a solid channel for text game but starting up an insta sounds like a pain in the ass and a lot of work.

  94. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    >joined Army
    >lose a frickton of weight during basic, go from 245lbs to 202lbs
    >main motivation that got me through doing it for my waifu
    Is it wrong improving your life for something as autistic as doing it for your waifu? Any time that I felt I wanted to give up during basic, I just think about her and all of sudden I have the urge to doing the impossible.

    Is improving your life for a cartoon character a bad thing?

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      It’s ok to do good things for silly reasons.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      This

      It’s ok to do good things for silly reasons.

      making silly things and having a laugh about it with your friends is what makes worth living

  95. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Quit weed
    Cutting caffeine
    Nicotine will go after a month of noweed no caffeine
    Started cutting, hard
    Fixing sleep
    Resolving gut issues
    Rehabbing my last injury
    Planning to do cardio today
    Feel over my ex, feel over my first ex too
    Feeling more optimistic in general, like things are going to be okay.

    But I feel like shit bros. I’m poor fat frick. Gonna take a year of cutting just to not be obese and I’ll still be fat and look like shit. Oh well, did this to myself. Only I can fix it.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      For staying off smokes and fattening foods, check out "Rational Recovery" by Jack Trimpey. It's for alcoholics but it's really easy to generalize AVRT to other addictions.

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        I’ll check it out. I know that if I make conscious daily effort towards anything for 3 weeks it becomes an ingrained new way of life for me. Like if I weaponize OCD against myself and all day long tell myself
        >no frick the vaping this is the only way if you vape you’ll be miserable forever and the vape dog will bite your dick off while you’re sleeping
        Or something to that effect, around 3 weeks of that I stop thinking about it and I’m fine. This applies to everything. Weed, bad food, fapping, being consistent with lifting, etc

  96. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    I hate myself, haha.

  97. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Something really brutal happened bros.

    My ex bpd gf was here for the easter holidays for around 2 weeks. Since she was here the 2nd day she saw me she started texting me and calling me. We had a very dark past and I broke up with her in January 23.

    To keep it short she kept spamming me since Jan to early march then she stopped everything. She went ghost and I supsoected something there, it was after her birthday.

    When she was here she won and we got to meet the last 2 days. Day 1 we almost fricked but she bailed in the last min(suspicious) and the last day we had a convo in her car. I asked her if she fricked anybody and she was saying no. I really pressured her telling without me being mad (I would flip in the past) and she said she talked with a guy but they didn’t frick. Although she was persistent that nothing happened I saw some expressions in her face that she did it. It was like a mask falling off for a second then wearing it again. It was my gut. Now she is back to her phd country and before she left she messaged me that she loves me too much although I was really angry with her with all those questions and was happy to see me for an hour in all those days. She send me a pic of her view yesterday and I didn’t reply. What’s the play here bros? I’m depressed now.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      What’s the play? The play is you never fricking speak to her again. BPD b***hes will ruin your entire fricking life if you let them. Stay away. Find another woman. Go full no contact, forever.

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        She literally lives next door and she will be here for two years in the summer

        • 11 months ago
          Anonymous

          And? This woman is trouble homie. Do not allow her into your spaces.

        • 11 months ago
          Anonymous

          Different anon.
          And?
          Ignore here, he’s right BPD WILL frick you up no matter what. Anon you can’t fix her, you won’t fix her. Leave her, if she wants to talk, just go if her friends talk bad about you ignore it. BPD relationships will make you miserable maybe not now or in 6-8 months BUT IT WILL SHOW YOU AND FRICK YOU UP.
          Delete all chats you have with her, delete her number, block her on everything. And say that you can’t be in a relationship with her because your mental state is more important to you believe me I’m talking from experience.
          LEAVE HER

  98. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    I can't tell if I'm alone because there's something critically wrong with me or if I failed to socialize meaningfully while growing up. I've also stopped caring.

  99. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Glass of whiskey please. My gf and I split up about a week ago. I'm starting school in the fall. I'm nervous about whether I'll be able to achieve my dreams but I'll be damned if I don't try.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      I had this conversation with a therapist where she told me to set goals, but not live by them. Live and die by your values, and let your values deliver you to your goals. Values like honesty, work ethic, kindness, etc.

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        You're absolutely right. I think most people forget how far they can go just on values alone. Pair good values with discipline and patience and things will be well. Thanks anon. I hope you get everything you've ever wanted.

        • 11 months ago
          Anonymous

          I hope the same thing for you anon.

  100. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Met up with a girl that I like for a 4th date. It was supposed to be a coffee date but turned into us hanging out all day, walking in the park, going to antique shops, and hanging out at different bars. She still won't let me frick though, which is just too bad. I enjoy her company a lot, and I thought she liked me too. Spent most of the day grabbing her close and groping her, and she was really receptive. Idk what her deal is but I don't want to meet up again if we aren't fricking after hanging out all day. On to the next one I guess.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      From which country, maybe it’s just your women who are like that

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        No, I'm in the USA. They're pretty much all fricking if they actually like you. At least some head or something to show that she respects my needs.

        • 11 months ago
          Anonymous

          Sounds like she was raised as a women and not a bawd, if you want something long term than date her more and if you only want a quick frick then leave her

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      >She still won't let me frick though, which is just too bad.
      Sounds based and probably too good for you.

  101. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    A few months ago I decided to go out and drink less and now all my "friends" have apparently moved on and aren't interested in keeping in touch anymore. I feel better in terms of health and save a lot of money so that's nice but I don't even see some of my closer friends anymore because they are in relationships now. I have lots of acquaintance I could hit up to go out but clearly they don't care about me either, otherwise they would have contacted me. It's not like I didn't know the people I hung out with weren't close friends, we have always been just booze buddies, it just seemed like we'd been a little closer than we actually were.

  102. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Man, I got a big bag of raisins for boron content, but I hate raisins. They make me sick. As a kid my babysitter fed me nothing but raisin boxes for a snack after school and I hated her and her place. I tried having these ones with my nightly beans/milk/honey mix and couldn't finish it, made me sick. Today I tried blending them into my brotein shake but they don't blend they just turn into raisin chunks and sink to the bottom to make raisins sludge you have to drink down all at once. This was a terrible idea. I got a giant bag from BulkBarn.

    Gonna do prune juice instead for the boron.

  103. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Ever since I won my boxing match nothing competes in the emotion that I felt that night, I can see why fighter carry on past their primes cause the rush is just crazy. This was last week and nothing has ever left me as hyped as that

  104. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    An-hero bros, how do you keep going? Im losing it, every hour of my existence outside of the gym is filled with despair. I just cant find a way to be happy.
    >get hot gf
    >propose and she turns into an butthole
    >get decent paying job (300k)
    >surrounded by buttholes all day
    >get a dog to be my friend
    >dog gets killed by a shitbull while at a dog sitter
    A man cant win in this cruel world. Does it ever get better?

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      >dog gets killed by a shitbull while at a dog sitter
      what the frick how does that happen

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      >>get decent paying job (300k)
      frick off

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        nta but i make more than 300k
        youd be surprised what kind of people browse this god forsaken shithole

  105. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    Happy birthday to me...

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Happy Birthday fren

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        https://i.imgur.com/eou9X4O.jpg

        happy birthday mate, wish you good fortune for the days to come

        https://i.imgur.com/UvFM4yC.png

        Happy birthday anon another one around the sun

        Happy birthday anon!

        Thank you guys made me feel better

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      happy birthday mate, wish you good fortune for the days to come

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Happy birthday anon another one around the sun

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Happy birthday anon!

  106. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    With as little bias as possible: Do you sincerely think women have it way easier in life than men? If so why?
    I've seen guys claim it here over and over again, with out any reason?

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Yes.

      Because men make it that way for them.

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        What a stupid reasoning. Do you know what nepotism is?

        • 11 months ago
          Anonymous

          A tool men use to help each other in a world where no one cares about them. So their fathers or friends look out for them

        • 11 months ago
          Anonymous

          >What a stupid reasoning.
          Tell me why it's wrong then.

          Men literally have created a playpen safebox for women in the west to protect them from themselves and afford them absolute societal power and detachment from consequences while collectively boosting up their egos to self-destructive levels.

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Not way easier. I would say that young women have it a lot easier than young men. Nobody gives a frick about young men. However this gets evened out as time goes on. Women basically need to have kids before they're like 35 or they're fricked. Men can frick around for a lot longer and if they become wealthy the world is their b***h in a lot of ways.

      • 11 months ago
        Anonymous

        What makes you think no one cares about young men but young women?

        A tool men use to help each other in a world where no one cares about them. So their fathers or friends look out for them

        Nepotism includes women and men.

        >What a stupid reasoning.
        Tell me why it's wrong then.

        Men literally have created a playpen safebox for women in the west to protect them from themselves and afford them absolute societal power and detachment from consequences while collectively boosting up their egos to self-destructive levels.

        I dont see how thats unique to women. Its rather class and the subsequent power dependent.

        • 11 months ago
          Anonymous

          I mean, open a newspaper. Read twitter. Society demonises men and constantly portrays women as victims of our oppressive, rape culture. The white male is seen as the cause of most of societies problems in today's world. All you read about is women's problems and how hard they have it. Men are still just seen as weak for struggling, they say otherwise but in reality nobody respects a man who is unable to suck it up and get on with it. We are expected to do that by everyone and when you have real mental health issues like most of us here, you are basically treated as worthless by others. That's reality. Women are allowed to talk openly about their issues and society is sympathetic to their plight. People might say the same thing about men but the reality of how they are treated is very different in my experience.

        • 11 months ago
          Anonymous

          >I dont see how thats unique to women.
          Then you're moronic and blind? Don't know what to tell you. As a man can you make a living whoring yourself out online getting 1000's of DM requests from thirsty dudes, commit crimes and get less or no sentencing compared to men, get away with falsely accusing and abusing men and you will be seen as the victim, instantly have the protection of most men in society by default, etc?

  107. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    i stopped being nice

    nobody around me has ever been thoughtful or considerate or paid any attention to anything about me yet i have went out of my way to help others with no thank you in return

    i dropped all my 'friends' cold turkey
    no more obligations no more wasting my life energy no more fruitless interactions no more going out no more loans no more anything

    it feels freeing. i thought i would be sad even though i have a heart of gold i never had developed the capacity for real empathy due to traumatic childhood

    i know people only tolerated me for my money
    bunch of fricking bums man. shame on all of them
    end blogpost

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      Based Nightcrawler Chad, I see you and will be wary of you and show you the respect you deserve

    • 11 months ago
      Anonymous

      And how do you know the problem is not people in general but specifically the people you know, aka your social circle? Maybe it's just that specific people who are toxic.

  108. 11 months ago
    Anonymous

    A part of me wants to have intimacy with other people, wants to have relationships with other humans.
    Another part of me knows that this is impossible and that seeking this will just make me suffer a lot, i'm simply not made for this (i'm ugly and autistic).
    What the frick should I do?
    Should I keep trying and failing or should I just give up and focus on more productive aspects of my life? Does anyone has any experience going with the latter route?
    I'm so fricking lost, I appreciate all the help.

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