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Come take a seat. Have a drink, on the house. Another week down and another Friday appears, How the hell have you been?

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I remember the stupid things, the mood rings, the bracelets and the beads
    Nickels and dimes, yours and mine, did you cash in on your dreams?
    You don't dream for me, no
    You don't dream for me, no

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      My 3 year ended in March, still think about her and the dog -- miss that cute pup. Hurts.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Been there. They tend to rebound quick, guys not so much. Keep working on yourself, anon, you'll come out better.

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    a double shot of whey good sir

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    2 year relationship ended last month. Been focusing on my business, diet, lifts and general self-improoovment. Not drinking, not doing drugs. Still think of her every now and then, especially before bed. Haven’t gone out yet but I am social and don’t have issues with that. Gonna give myself some time before I jump back into dating. Wondering how long these feels will take

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      my 4 year relationship ended in January and I still have thoughts about my ex. It'll take time, just keep working hard, you'll manage.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        same bro. I have thought about her every day, i don't even think I miss her I mean i do but it's not that. I think it's that she abandoned me so easily and I took an L, my ego can't take it

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Got left on delivered on tinder again and went schizo mode

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You're acting like you don't care but you actually do lmao

      do you guys help your friends when they are in trouble? my bro got his bitch pregnant, he was on no fap for a lot of time and he slipped out of horniness and now he is depressed and anxious as fuck and he told me he needed my help and we went for an hour walk and i watned to leave so he doens't passes me his depression, he helped through tough times when i broke up but i can't be carb in a bucket mentality, what do i do? do i think about the situation with negativity? are you always there for your best bros when you are down?

      >he helped through tough times when i broke up
      There's your answer right there, return the favor.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      That’s kinda’ sexy. A/s/l?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I went to the local gym for the first time and met some college bros that helped me with my first lifts, I only ever did cardio on my bike before so it was really fun

      fucking based

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Man I had to delete dating apps. I got a long term relationship out of one a decade ago, I try them again and they all just shill their insta and either don't reply or one word reply. What tf happened?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Marketplace is incredibly crowded. COVID was the last straw because it forced every single person online. I had a dating app profile before COVID and did fine. I rebooted it a year into COVID, exact same profile/pictures/messages, and crickets. My girl friends tell me they get so many messages constantly that it’s almost valueless.

        On top of that, a lot of women are more addicted to the thrill of many options, many attractive guys all vying for their attention. To “settle” for just one dude would ruin the fantasy. The valuable thing IS the endless free attention from guys, not the prospect of ending up with just one.

        Overall the sexual marketplace is, in my opinion, pretty fucked for a lot of guys. I’m not a doomer or blackpiller or anything, but I’m also not blind. Dating in 2022 is painful. What’s worse is that the more “high value” you get (as a man), the LESS interested you are in dating, because it’s a waste of your increasingly valuable and limited time.

        I mean, I have a mortgage, I run a business, I have tons of hobbies and social obligations, started serving on the board of a nonprofit etc. Why would I spend my time pursuing women who are very likely to be bipolar, cynical, misanthropic, go on political rants, etc. etc.?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Kek anon, you are top tier fishing bottom feeder girls, get expensive hobbies that instantly filter poor and low quality girls. You some a few tiers above dating apps if the last part is true

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          this, been friends with this girl for 3 years, constantly had options, multiple dates a week, showed me messages about all the guys interested in her. she never got a boyfriend out of it yet though -- maybe a combination of wanting too much and not being stable herself

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Dunno what all this "based" shit is. Sperging at rejection is a cardinal sin.

      I do alright with chicks and you are the guy they specifically tell me they are avoiding. Body face dick income doesn't matter, you're a shit person and they dont want to know you.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      why are you lying like that anon, no chapter of hxh has been released yet,and it's been more that 3 years, i don't care if togashi is on twitter now, it's still on hiatusXhiatus, do you like hurting people like that?

      also, Gon is top, obviously

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      that's the thing. when thots don't reply, they think they are better than you as in, your 'level' doesn't match.
      but the thing is, the dating market is fucked up now thanks to social media. below average girls can get 'hot guys' and the nice looking ones are looking to date guys with boats (not even cars, boats).
      sperging like that is dangerous because she will screenshot it and show other girls, ruining potential fucks chances (if you live in a small city). believe these girls have the means to communicate with each other

      tl;dr: the market is fucked, don't lose your time with these apps because they are useless.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        what the fuck is that

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          ignore the try-hard blackpiller

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      lmfaooo

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >there are "men" who unironically use fucking emojis over text

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Had family over, skipped two workouts and ate junk. Now I feel soft as fuck. Realistically it wont set me back so much but still feels crap.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Don’t be too hard on yourself , anon. Enjoy family and life, but hop back on the wagon asap

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Thanks brah, gonna try to get something done later tonight.

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    do you guys help your friends when they are in trouble? my bro got his bitch pregnant, he was on no fap for a lot of time and he slipped out of horniness and now he is depressed and anxious as fuck and he told me he needed my help and we went for an hour walk and i watned to leave so he doens't passes me his depression, he helped through tough times when i broke up but i can't be carb in a bucket mentality, what do i do? do i think about the situation with negativity? are you always there for your best bros when you are down?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      fucking nofappers, continuing even when you have a gf, what the fuck is wrong with that lot

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This

      You're acting like you don't care but you actually do lmao

      [...]
      >he helped through tough times when i broke up
      There's your answer right there, return the favor.

      Only a gay wouldnt support a friend who supported them.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Go down the misery hole with him for one night (a weekend at most). Let him get as dark as he wants to get. You'll probably want to drink. Then you're done being a miserable fuck and have to plan. Make decisions and plan your next steps. If he's indecisive, then he needs to reflect on what he ultimately wants.

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I ride a bike to with because I'm a poor gay. My wife stays home and looks after the kid. Today was quite hot so I rode home with no shirt. Some zoomers jeered at me while passing in their Acura. Not sure what they said but I felt bad. I just keep telling myself that my wife is fit and hot and I'm going to make passionate love to her tonight (all true). I still kinda feel like a loser. I'm. 25.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Biking keeps your heart healthy, using the commute to get some cardio done frees up extra time to spend with your family or some other hobby. People instead drive to work, complain about getting fat, then do indoor cycling like retards and keep driving to work.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Do you shower when your arrive to work? I can't imagine starting my shift at work with swamp ass sweaty underwear from a summer bike ride

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    A double Jameson for me. It's been a long week.
    Met a girl last week, it was one of those bullshit ones where she starts telling you everything you need to hear, you want to hear, "soulmates" type of shit.
    I was away for work so couldn't see her.
    She pulls an all nighter with friends, out drinking
    find out she was sitting on some dudes lap
    "no room in the car"
    I delete her info, ghost her.
    Still reaching out, what did I do? I don't bother replying.
    Had an absolutely horrible hookup last night.
    Wanted to clear my head a bit.
    I didn't.
    The sex wasn't that great, but it was a really weird vibe.
    Place was hot and the bitch had a shower curtain on the bed to fuck on
    Shit was just covered in lube and fluids, big dildo all about
    The room was so fucking unbearable hot
    Blew my load and bounced
    Bitch ghosted me lol

    i've had six new fucks in the past two weekends
    i'm just feeling down and having a hard time shaking this one

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    caught a cold and I've been useless all week. I tried lifting but I couldn't even get through my pull warm up. I need this shit gone, leave for grad school on Monday and they won't let me near the campus if I show up sick.

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I have random fits of anger and hate which I've learned to meticulously hide. All the frustration of past years numbed me inside, even though I have nothing to complain in my life, at least right now.

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >be Aussie
    >wake up 0630am
    >check IST
    >minimal coom bait
    >relevant thread topics
    >tfw the board is 100x better when Aussies havnt posted in 8 hours
    It looks like its the Aus fags responsible for the vast majority of the low quality threads

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      and it will continue this way until jannies stop nuking /afg/

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I’ve been cutting down from around 200 Lbs. For weeks I was consistently losing 1 pound a week, counting all my calories, getting my protein in, and getting even stronger in the gym. And then BOOM; my family’s lease doesn’t get renewed for our apartment and we end up homeless. We’re living in a hotel rn and I’m eating straight up garbage. Now I’m 187 Lbs when I should be 191.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Why the fuck did 18k people like that? What the fuck does it even mean?
      Obviously only squirter women and/or perverts would like it, but why in the name of god would someone like this interaction of a company with this topic?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        It’s radioshack. They have nothing to lose.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Don’t worry about it bro. Focus on getting a house and then you can get back on track

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    LIT with a splash of sweetened lime my good sir

    >be young and fat
    >experience that life
    >Be lonely, be bitter
    >get older, get fit
    >For the most part. physical features mean nothing to me. Big tits, small tits, big ass small ass, I like it all.
    >Just don't be fat
    >More concerned with what kind of person women are on the inside
    >Vast majority of them don't meet low standards. Zero drive. Little if any emotional intelligence or depth
    >Surrounded by bros that are just fine eye fucking every girl in sight
    >Meanwhile it's all just white noise to me until they prove otherwise, and society does not push them rise above such a station
    >Find a few girls through my wanderings that are worth it. For one reason or another it never works out, but I don't regret ever meeting them
    >Now 33
    >Don't hate women, just find them to be disappointing as a whole.
    >Still lonely

    Don't let your children grow up fat lads, it really has a way of twisting you up like wire that can never quite become straightened again.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >>More concerned with what kind of person women are on the inside
      I made the same mistake too friend, it was a hard pill to swallow but most women just lead purely reactionary lives it seems. Most likely due to the fact that they've been given basically everything they could ever ask for from a young age.

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    The guy that played the bartender died today. RIP.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      F

  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Forced to take .7g of shrooms to be able to leave my house today without an anxiety attack so I could go lift.

    Had a dream I was Hitler last night and was riding around my town executing political enemies in the forms of my neighbours and people I am acquainted with. Listening to some Orthodox Russian choir music and just took my 44mg of Zinc for the night. Comfy schizo dreams are one of the few happinesses I have right now.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous
  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Got rejected by a blind girl, starting to think it’s my personality

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      maybe she felt your stomach from where she was standing

  17. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Does therapy help? Is a psychologist or a psychiatrist better?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      a psychiatrist will just put you on meds most of the time
      a psychologist will be what is described in picrel

  18. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    due to reasons of an autistic nature I created and deleted a tinder account to many times ( i just wanted to get a feel for who was around in my area before i submitted to the shame of advertising my body) and now I'm banned.. so what, thats it for me now is it? i'm deemed an undesirable and exiled from the dating pool. its cold out here lads

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      tinder is trash anyways my dude, be glad you don't have to think about it. either try bumble or actually meet woman irl

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Hinge is also a decent option to try. I hate how fractured the dating pool is.

        connected with an old middle school friend and went to pool hall, was a good feel knowing i'm not alone. i'm finding peace in life bros.

        doubleshot of bombay sapphire please.

        Goodjob anon. I have run out of friends currently so I need to do better.

        just water please.

        Feeling a little depressed lately because several of my co workers recently got engaged/having babies and I'm still a khv. I really want to ask a girl i used to work with out but i havnt talked to her in 5 years so its wierd if i just start messaging her again...

        It doesnt change your life.

  19. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I’m so tired of being so sensitive and paranoid. I literally can’t stop catastrocizing everything. Social life is pretty dead because Im afraid of getting hurt again, even though I’m a large man who takes martial arts.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Stop running away like Idiot Shinji

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I try. It’s hard not having common interests with people even though I have hobbies and interests. I hate seeing the moment that people realize they don’t want to be around me.

  20. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I went from obese to IST, got a good job in finance and can now put on a mask to pretend to be an extroverted personality. I've tried everything I thought could fix me, but none of its made me whole. I still can't really relate to people or enjoy life. I have no idea what can finally make me feel content and alive, and I'm starting to wonder if nothing ever will.

  21. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I squatted 3pl8s for 5x5 today. Feels good.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      been there its a great feeling for sure, keep it uo anon.

  22. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    https://deadline.com/2022/07/joe-turkel-dead-the-shining-bladerunner-actor-was-94-1235055460/
    CURSED THREAD

  23. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >18% bf
    >Train 3x a week for a year
    >Still on 1pl8
    Wtf bros…

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Programming and bf need to change. I think you already knew this though

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah…Should I continue bulking?

  24. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Working, gym and going on walks with my bros. That's the entirety of my life rn. I'm a uni student and I broke up with my gf at the start of Summer and life has been unbelievably boring compared to how it's been the last couple of years. Not bad, not good, just really boring. Breaking up with gf was more than justified, I was being completely retarded being with her in the first place.

    Making good gainz tho.

  25. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Need some help with this one bros
    >chick that works under me and my project
    >nerdy, sheltered, conservative type, but extremely hot and cute (late bloomer)
    >claims to be aromantic, but has only dated nerdy guys, so i see this as an opportunity
    >says shes in a sexless convenient relationship
    >I dont care and call her out on her weird bs
    >ask her out
    >says im cool but doesn't want to entertain two guys at the same time
    >says why am i giving such mixed signals
    I still talk to and tease her a lot regardless. Latest example:
    >Me: ill see what i can do about your romance problem
    >her: i have a bigger problem i need help with
    >Me: ?
    >her: deez nuts
    Shes a tough nut to crack fellas. The team will head out for dinner in the coming weeks (formed and met the team online) so how do i break this bitch bros?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      shit it cut off:
      >her:deez nuts
      >me: your reactions are so cute, dont think youre off the hook yet
      And we just continue talking about stuff normally

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I don't understand the problem?

      >says shes in a sexless convenient relationship

      She's already told you she's available, already flirty, ignore her bullshit, socially built "identity", hang out, have drinks at team dinner, fuck.

      Why are you bothering with "ask her out"?, she's clearly as inept as you, chat, drink, fuck.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Should i stop with my flirting/teasing and just wait for the meet?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This will be fun until she wants to get a promotion and brings up your position over her as you trying to rape her
      >Maybe I'll get a book offer too

  26. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Are we supposed to be talking about how much we suck at dating in here? A guy told me how much he loves cats, so I sent him Kitty History and never heard from him again. It’s not like I went full garden gnomeS DID 911 on him or anything.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Ewww gay

  27. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I’m a phd student and I already made it in the past as a college athlete.
    The problem is, young kids think I’m mogging them at the campus gym and teenage girls want my attention (which I’m not interested). And older guys in academia think I’m just a muscle brain even I have a Nature paper.
    I hate unwanted attention and false stereotypes on ISTlit men

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Post physique. I bet you look like shit and think you're the man now just because the bullying stopped after highschool

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I don’t get it. I was never bullied since I was a polite and nice kid who outsmarted others and also played sports

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I don’t get it. I was never bullied since I was a polite and nice kid who outsmarted others and also played sports

      >tfw you will never be one of the ripped ultra athletic social god geniuses like what makes up 90% of fit

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I'm autistic as shit and the muscle brain stereotype is a blessing in disguise for me because now people just think I'm into sports rather than being an actual retard.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      iktf
      I lift a lot, play sports and also go drinking/partying regularly. I'm a pretty big aspie otherwise, but I guess that just comes off as stoic or standoffish to people who don't know me. I study comp sci and everybody treats me like a fucking retard. Until it's time for exams and I wipe the floor with them. Just finished my bachelors and got into a super exclusive ML master program. Hope it will be better there because people know what kind of grades and other shit I had to put up to get accepted, but somehow I doubt it.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >teenage girls want my attention (which I’m not interested)
      Are you gay?

  28. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >29 yo khv
    >go from 400lbs to 220lbs lifting and doing cardio
    >still look fat as shit and hate myself
    >friends say I look good, trying to hook me up with a nice girl
    >have to decline, can’t imagine ever having someone see me with a shirt off and deathly scared of intimacy because of loose skin

    Guess this is it, it won’t get better this life time and I’m done for

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      keep going bro, think about all the progress you have already made.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I am. Still doesn’t help with the fact that I look disgusting with a shirt off though. I’d like love at one point but I think it’s off the table

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Go mongering and pick up streetwalkers, anon. They won’t judge you for the loose skin, as long as you have money to pay.

  29. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >super anxious kid growing up
    >got really bad around 23 years old
    >had to work my way from the absolute ground up to get to semi functioning
    >I’m talking from panic attacks if I leave home to working and going to school
    >recently realized I still get just as anxious I just can hide it better
    What do

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      It can get better anon, you just need to work on yourself.
      I used to be as bad as you. Had horrible anxiety even just going to the grocery store. Dropped out of university because I could not attend classes. That was 4 years ago.
      2 weeks ago I held the final presentation of my thesis in front of 20 professors/research assistants and completed my degree. Even the thought of that would've made me nearly pass out back than. I was still nervous (everyone is) but I knew I could do this and get a near perfect grade.
      In the end it all comes down to exposure therapy, but there are some tips I can give you.

      1.
      Your anxiety is a survival mechanism that overrides any rational thinking. When you are in a situation that gives you anxiety, try to distance yourself from the fear. Observe your thought patterns without getting lost in them. Ask yourself what specifically you are afraid of. Writing this down afterwards helps. Putting your fear into specific words is a good way to get a grip on your anxiety.

      2.
      Every time you avoid an anxiety inducing situation you teach your lizard brain it was good to flee, because you are alive after all. Your current anxiety is the result of a pattern of giving into it. You need to reverse this and start telling your anxiety to fuck off and teaching your subconscious you there is nothing to be afraid off.

      3.
      One of your problems is likely that you are afraid of your anxiety yourself. You aren't afraid of a specific situation, but you know you will get anxiety and no longer function because of that. This ties in to the point before. You need to learn that you CAN function even with anxiety.

      The most liberating feeling in my life was the realization that my anxiety was a fucking joke. That I am bigger than it. All of these walls that I build around me, of things I told myself I cannot do, just crumbled down. If I can do it, so can you.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        not the person you’re replying to, but thanks for this. i’ve dropped out two years in a row now on day 1 due to panic attacks and fumbled the bag with girls because i always cancel a date/hang out due to anxiety. stomach cramps, turning red and panic attacks. i had to read this, it’s more useful then all the therapy i’ve been to.

        i’m trying college again this year and am determined to make it work this time, i’ve saved your post and am going to go out of my comfort zone this summer. congratulations on your degree anon, you’re gonna make it

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Dude I’ve worked on this for years now. I went from daily panic attacks just sitting in my home to working in Covid 7 days a week in the hood getting threatened to get shot/having guns pulled or patients trying to fight (over shit like them not having an ID), to being in paramedic courses doing ride alongs and clinicals and shit. Idk when it gets better. I’ve become desensitized sure but the same level of anxiety is still there. It wasn’t always this bad. I can remember times I felt fully confident and calm as default. I was recently diagnosed with low test so I’m hoping TRT fixes this

  30. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Got into a drunken fight with my gf 4 weeks ago. I spent the weekend in jail, got a cool ankle monitor, and the state put a no contact order in place. She moved in with my Highschool buddy and his wife whom she gets along with really well, instead of her parents 10 minutes from them (we’re all ~25). My high school buddy won’t fucking tell me anything about what she’s saying, ”not my place to talk about it”. I understand he’s trying to stay neutral but fuck him.
    I’ve quit drinking, started going to AA, started going to gym, and got a physical job. I’m down 10 lbs in 4 weeks to 175ish (5’8”) Only thing keeping me going are the guys I drive to evening AA, getting fit, and getting my shit together so we can move on better than before, or I can just fuck some other bitches.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Idiot. Let this be rock bottom. Good luck and make something good come from this shitshow.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        That’s the plan. Family and friends expected me to spiral. I’ve been pulling it together as well as I’m capable, and plan on keeping it up.
        Amazing amount of support from AA.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah that relationship is over dude

  31. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I feel like my gf and I are on the verge of breaking up. We've only been together a year now. I remember in the beginning we were so passionately in love. I use to think it would never end and we would be together forever. I use to be so confused at how people who've been together for so long can split up. Now I see it. It's not that the feelings just faded. It's a slow accumulation of small infractions that hurt you and slowly drive a wedge between you. Those selfish moments that make you question each others love, those moments of envy of what others have, those moments of ego when you think you deserve better, and those moments of distance when you feel like there's an ocean between you even though you're sitting next to each other. I think we're nearing the point of no return. I'm afraid but with each passing day I'm more certain it's going to happen. I don't know if I'll have any motivation to find someone else and start all over again. It's all just so exhausting.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Well said, hopefully there's still time to mend these issues. Best of luck.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Can you give examples of what is causing this wedge

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        We used to work together and there were some people there I absolutely hated. When we left she gave them all hugs and presents and acted like they were her best friends. One of them texted her the other day and asked for a favor and she did it immediately. It feels like she gave zero fucks about my feelings and just did what ever was best for reputation with those people. There were people there she didn't like either and I stood by her. If she didn't like someone it just felt like a natural reaction for me to not like them either, even if they didn't have a problem with me. When she moved back in with her family it took a good 3 months for her to introduce me to them. She kept making excuses about needing time to adjust. Even after introducing me it took another 3 months for her to tell them we were a couple. During that whole time we only saw each other for 1 week when I went to visit her. She was more concerned about telling her family than seeing me. I basically sent her a breakup text before she finally gave in. She told me at another point her family told her she could do much better. She keeps gaining weight every time I see her, even though when she was with her ex she was a size zero the whole time. She once got a facebook message from a guy she knew in college. She quickly told me she never did anything with him. Then said he was too short for her (5'8"). Then said he was my height. Then said "back then" she wouldn't have been interested in a guy like me. She's been away on a family vacation for a month and I've only gotten two texts from her total. The first one was after two weeks. I responded immediately and then asked when she's going to be back. She just left me on read. Then texted me two weeks later saying she'll be back soon. Overall I just don't feel like she even cares about me. She use to tell me how much she loved me all the time but that's pretty much gone now too. I'm sure she has complaints about me too I guess. Maybe it's time.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Oh yeah it’s time anon just let go of her

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Anon these aren’t small things tbh. A couple of these are giant red flags in fact.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Its hard when you're in the moment anon, but if what you described is true then you are better off without her. It's hard to be the one who leaves as you will always second guess your self, but if you leave and go no contact and work on your self she will chase you. But hopefully you realise you are better off without her by then, i've done so much with my life in the last 4 months since I left my ex but I still miss her but I also know im better off without her.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          the first 18 months of a relationship is just the honeymoon phase. You need more than just attraction to sustain a relationship long term, such as core examples and shared interests. Slowly get to know everything there is to know about the person, (past relationships, fwb's, family, interests, political views, religious views, starting a family etc). Their history will be your future, unless they are working on themselves like

          yeah, this happens. if you both have a ton of tools (NVC, spiritual practices, support groups, emotional maturity, communication work, etc) then it's preventable if you really, really work it, but if you're posting this you don't and are FAR better off accepting than fighting. Just enjoy the end, and know it's better to jump the gun than to circle the drain.

          Always observe behaviors and watch if words match the actions. Call them out on their shit. Easier said than done thats why relationship are complicated and hard. Find a woman that makes it as easy as possible

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      yeah, this happens. if you both have a ton of tools (NVC, spiritual practices, support groups, emotional maturity, communication work, etc) then it's preventable if you really, really work it, but if you're posting this you don't and are FAR better off accepting than fighting. Just enjoy the end, and know it's better to jump the gun than to circle the drain.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >NVC
        whats that

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      What you first experienced wasn’t love just infatuation. love comes after you experience the wedges and still think your partner is worth putting up with

  32. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I have a bmi of 39, the fattest of fat fucks. Junk food diet is the main issue, got a gym membership and am going twice a day building up strength back in my decaying muscles also got some appetite suppressants to build new habits with- gone from 4000ish calories of junk food a day to 1500 of protein and vegetables. This is it if i dont change now I never will, been a week and getting rapid results next step is getting a gf even though ive been n incel for 4 years lmao thanks for coming to my ted talk

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >he thinks getting fit will get him a gf
      how do we tell him

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        ahhhh fuck fuck fuck, the truth is anons getting fit Will not help you if cant do this one simple thing, TALK TO WOMEN, I know it sounds crazy but its true

  33. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    OK I'm getting tired of this body dysmoprhia shit. In the gym I feel fat as fuck or look wide as fuck and it fucks with my head. I try to push through it and stay in a alpha framing, but when I get home afterwards and take my shirt off I actually like the progress I've made and it looks good.

    I just can't get out of my head that I need my perfect body before feeling comfortable enough to talk to girls or feeling actually confident.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      That's good anon, let it fuel your drive. Don't end up like the fat fucks who think being disgusting is satisfactory, always push to improve yourself.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >be skeleton
      >acquire newbie gains
      >easily talk to girls I would have avoided eye contact with a few months ago
      >all they want to talk about is consoom product, tv shows, and neo spiritual bullshit

  34. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >be me, 30s dude
    >meet cute 30-something doctor
    >she just got out of long relationship, really quirky and smart and funny, we “click”
    >go on a few dates
    >I notice she NEVER offers to pay, ever
    >back at my place
    >I go down on her, she cums
    >start having sex
    >I tell her to get on top
    >she audibly sighs
    >”that’s a lot of work”
    >keep having sex missionary
    >she cums again
    >her: ”hey can you cum in the next five minutes, I’m getting tired”
    >I just feel totally deflated at this point
    >pull out
    >suggest cooming in her mouth
    >”ugh, absolutely not!! I’d vomit”
    >end up just walking her out of the house
    I’m not even mad bros, it just makes me incredibly sad and not excited to keep engaging with women.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I swear doctors are like this. Holier than thou god complexes. Honestly I’m considering adding it to the red flag profession list along with flight attendants, chefs, etc.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Flight attendants are good for a nice lay now and then and if you’ve got enough money they’ll give up their career to become a trad wife.

        T. All my high school acquaintances who became flight attendants are now stay at home moms

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >another fit tory where the guy says how many times he makes the woman cum
      uh huh

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      30 year old women are bored of sex. Why aren't you banging college girls?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Oh Anon, how new to the ways of the world you are. Of course banging 20somethings is lovely, but mid 30s and even 40yo women have been the most fulfilling and mind blowing sex I’ve ever had. They know exactly what they want but they also enjoy spoiling you. You have no idea what a freak some repressed corporate lawyer can be in bed.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Nah, the best sex I've had has been with 18 year old nypmhos who already knew how to throat and bounce their asses on dick and wanted me to fuck them in bondage, choke them to near unconsciousness, and call me daddy while I used their fresh bods. Tinder has only made it easier to find these girls too. Hey though maybe you are right since I've only ever fucked girls 18-21 but there's really not much a human female can do for me that I haven't gotten out of them consistently unless I guess you want to get pegged or something.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          You’re coping

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      God damn my ex was a doc, same shit. She wanted to just cum ASAP and be done with it.

  35. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Saranac 4059' Porter please, I have taken a sabbatical from cooming AND social media ( this notwithstanding) and i realize how much pointless BS i put myself through.

    Being "bored" properly and taking all the stupid time wasting apps makes the phone seem like such a burden to own. Was more attentive. Cleaned up my desk at work.

    Learning to forgive oneself ( another story altogether) is a verb more than anything.

  36. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'll take a shot of Jack. Gym progress has been going good and work has been keeping me busy. Still dealing with my ex ending our relationship. I get bouts of just pure hate and anger when I think about how she lied. I wish I would've seen it coming but I didn't. It blindsided me, now I'm left alone and hurt. Trying to keep it under wraps so no one notices but man, it's getting tougher and tougher. You're a good dude for lending me your ear, I'm sure you have other patrons to take care of.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      What did she lie about?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        The entire relationship. She would always say how much she cared about me and how great I made her feel. All that stereotypical lovey dovey crap. Her actions even backed up everything that was being said. Then she ghosted me when I called her out on some double standards. It wasn't even that big of a deal, but apparently it was to her. I wanted to give her another chance, but she's blocked me on everything so I've got my answer.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I think it's time to part ways Anon, red flags abound. I had a bunch of red flags from my most recent ex, but ignored them because I thought it would get better and I didn't want to lose her. Now, I made plenty of mistakes in my relationship with her, I'm no saint and my depression can be difficult to deal with, but with that being said, my ex had a routine of lying too. And it wasn't until the end of our relationship did I see how bad her lying(she thought it was real) was. Looking at he mom and her relationship with her parents, I'm not surprised, her past is a complete mess. 4-months post relationship, I'm still heartbroken, but not as bad as I was the 1st 2-months. The way she treated me during and after the relationship I would deem as cruel, sprinkled with some flakes of love and happiness. I remember about a year ago I was fasting and we got into an arguement about some BS, she decided to call me anorexic for not eating as much food. This coming from a girl who used to be anorexic and cut herself... why would a person who's supposed to love me, treat me with such disregard and disdain? Try to be healthier, get bullied -- god damnit, if you knew her mom, you'd know where my ex gf got it from -- so oblivious to it though, sad. That's just one example of her being a bully, but I put up with it beacuse I was a pussy and was scared if I made her upset or angry she'd leave me. And the silent treatments, so many times of ignoring me because she didn't get her way. That shit hurt so much, it killed me every time she gave me the cold shoulder for some petty infraction. That's my blog, I wish you the best of luck Anon, you deserve better, be strong and keep moving forward.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            You're gonna make it.

  37. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    just water please.

    Feeling a little depressed lately because several of my co workers recently got engaged/having babies and I'm still a khv. I really want to ask a girl i used to work with out but i havnt talked to her in 5 years so its wierd if i just start messaging her again...

  38. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    God damn dudes, I came across this omega-qt athletic soccer player girl on Tinder. Normally I just use Tinder to find girls social media and snaps and hit them up there or even meet in person if I can get enough info, but this girl has completely defeated me. Despite having lots of info on her, I still could not fucking find her.

    >has pics in soccer uniform, but looked through every soccer league in PEI and couldn't find matching uniforms to that one's crest and logo
    >can see a soccer field name in the background of the pic but it's ungoogleable
    >searched the soccer league databases of the local uni and provincial leagues and didn't find her by her name
    >lists her city but searching her name and locale or associated info gets nothing on FB
    >found a girl in a photo with her and searched all her socials but her IG is private, if I can get accepted to follow her will check her follows and followers, this may be my only shot
    >found the team that girl played on before uni and searched all the girls on it and she doesn't seem to be any of them

    Honestly the e-investigation feels like a vidya puzzle you have to solve by exploring avenues and options but I've never had so much disposable info lead to such a dead end. The hunt itself is really the reward here because even if I find her I'm just going to wind up unread in Requests, that's not even what it's about. Sometimes it does lead to dead ends and I never find the girl, but somehow even with all the soccer info I wasn't even able to find the team, or at least any images to verify it. I'm starting to suspect that the girl I did find in the picture who shares a name with the girl I'm searching for might actually be the girl with the account, using this other girl's pics, but she's pretty hot herself so don't know why she would.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Whats the soccer field name if you dont mind sharing?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I do, I do mind you asking, but it seems to be "Scott Jones Field".

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Seems like there are plenty named that.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Only two I could find are in Georgia and NJ. The field was only a way to try to track location anyway though an I got past that.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Idiot, never spend that much time on w*men

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      holy mother of schizophrenia

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        That's not schizo is some kind of OCD autism where the unresolved issue/complication can't be let go of and frustrates the autist in the back of their head. It's like someone who needs to circle a building three times before entering having to only circle two times. Or maybe like a song stuck in your head you can't resolve. I have a similar thing but with driving where if I have to take a different route than planned it sends me into autist mode.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          mate you are literally mentally ill borderline psycho

  39. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Hotelfag here
    morons buy so much junk food it's unreal, at all hours of the night

  40. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Here my cat say something nice will tell him all comments thanks

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Nice pussy

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      cute cat kisse kisse

  41. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    connected with an old middle school friend and went to pool hall, was a good feel knowing i'm not alone. i'm finding peace in life bros.

    doubleshot of bombay sapphire please.

  42. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I wish I had a way to calm my brain down
    90% of my problems are because I manufacture a crisis when there's literally no danger and I'm not even running out of time.
    Normal people are okay with not understanding things because they don't have their dad looming over them in their subconscious ready to slap the shit out of them
    I'm not normal, I was trained to be extremely afraid of problems I couldn't solve immediately and I would rather drop classes than just do the work. But sitting down for four hours and muscling through difficult or boring subject matter seems impossible, I couldn't even manage ten minutes without wanting to flip everything over and drop out.

    I can see why people enjoy education. They enjoy putting the pieces together over time because they've always done that according to their own curiosity and their parents never admonished them for the direction they chose to take. But I can't enjoy it. It stresses me out to no end. Even if I tell myself over and over that it's not a big deal and I'm doing this for me, I stress out even more.
    I'm not autistic, I'm not unintelligent, I don't have ADHD. I don't even have depression. I was tested for those things and I don't have any of them. But the fact remains that I'm woefully inefficient and it mounds and mounds and causes me issues. It's such a massive fucking hassle.
    I'm not even overachieving either, it should be basic fucking math and humanities but it's all the same, I can't even bring myself to pick up a pencil sometimes.

  43. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >can't break 90 on squat
    >"oh bro your hip flexors are shit, try stretching"
    >have been doing toddler squats while grabbing onto my bed for a week now once daily for 5 minutes
    >still can't break 90 on squat and I've skipped leg day like 3 times because of the hip pain afterwards
    >still can't break 90 on squat after a week of this
    I'm at my wits end
    Why did I go and lose my ability to squat down, what the fuck is wrong with me

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      What are your proportions like? If you've got really long femurs you might need a wider stance, could also try a couple of plates under your heels (although it's worth trying to work away from this).

      My hip flexors are tight as shit, but mainly with external rotation. I can do the main hip flexor stretches pretty well, but still get restricted (and get pain and tightness) from that, so have to do different stretches to help. Maybe try loads of different movements and see what is tight and cone to with stretches to help. You can try cow legs and frog pose stretches from yoga, also glute stretches, as it's all connected

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      yeah something’s wrong, try yoga or muay thai, from experience they help with this kind of shit

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Hip flexor is serious shit, it's why I stopped fighting semipro. Used to be able to backspin kick over my head as fast as a jab, suddenly hip flexor injury and a year later I cant kick as high as my own hips no joke. It's a long road back, something about the tendon area tension that makes stretching after injury a long hard pain in the ass

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Thanks for the motivation.
        today I discovered I can squat lower than before, with hip pain of course
        WAGMI

  44. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Had my first kiss with a girl today, bros. I'm 27. It's been a good year, I'm really turning shti around.

  45. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Finished my first ever cut of 50 kgs and I stopped weighing myself for a week and I shot up 7kgs ready to kill myself

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Fucking fatties holy shit how much do you eat you fat piece of shit

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >have to weigh everything to make sure I get enough calories to gain weight
      >any day that I don't autistically do it I either only hit maintain cals or more likely lower
      >fatsos can literally just shovel food into they're mouths and gain without even blinking
      >mfw I have no face
      Feeling hungry is so much better than feeling full. I eat to my limit and I just get drowzy, mentally too. What the fuck do fatties experience when they do it? Euphoria?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I’m the same way. It sucks. I find myself ruining my sleep cycle just so I can try and eat more before I go to bed.

        Recently I realized i wasn’t considering the fact that I burn calories when I work out which makes things even more difficult.

        Every calorie calculator tells me my maintenance is something else. I’m 5’8” 135lbs (was 125 a month ago when i first started lifting). I eat 3k Calories a day to be safe. I think I gained mostly water weight but i got a lot of strength gains. Still low bf% and sixpack.

        Got my thyroid checked and it’s within the normal range. Eating just sucks ass. Everyone says “bro be glad you have that problem, fatties would love to have an excuse to eat”

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >Eating just sucks ass. Everyone says “bro be glad you have that problem, fatties would love to have an excuse to eat”
          In a way I guess they're right. Being a stick is better, healther too, than obese. Still fucking sucks though. Always gotta think about when my next meal has to be, to space them out over the day, and what to eat.

          Not eating just feels so good bros...

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            > In a way I guess they're right. Being a stick is better, healther too, than obese. Still fucking sucks though

            true, guess i shouldn’t have bitched about it, i wouldn’t want to trade places with them

  46. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >There's a girl at work who's just my type
    >I think she's an intern,I'm also new
    >she's simply perfect, my ideal, no tattoos or that type of trash
    >mfw we both said "hi" to each other

    inb4 "approach her anon!". Don't want to get into stuff like that at work obviously and chasing tale is a waste of time. Her simply saying "hi" while smiling felt good for some reason, even though it's a polite thing everyone does at work.

  47. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Confession:
    I lead a girl on for years and she is now my ex girlfriend. I completely broke her heart.

    I still randomly horny text her every few months and get her to agree to fuck me. But then I inevitably fap and realize what I’ve done and apologize, and tell her I need to stop doing that.

    Then she ignores me until I horny text and try to fuck her again.

    All of my previous lovers will randomly text me every few months to try and fuck too.

    Even the psychotic one that accuses me of raping her, being racist, etc.

    Most of my success with women happened when i was chronically depressed, very underweight, and had dozens of pissbottles in my room.

    Life is weird and nothing makes sense. But I feel good and working out has made my life a lot better.

  48. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Always struggled with my weight (was morbidly obese for years) and I did lost a lot a few years back by fasting like crazy during a full 6 months (eating 2 Kinder Bueno per days and drinking lots of water) but ended up getting everything back and more in less than a year.

    3 years ago I changed my mindset and believes and started to stop trying to cheat and taking the easy way ; I stopped lying, stopped alcohol, stopped drugs and a lot of bad shit.

    Recently I started lifting and exercising after not doing and loving so for 20+ years and two days ago my bodyfat% got from 'obese' to 'acceptable' without me being miserable with food or hurting my body with stupid ideas.

    Felt good and a big win over my past self and 'past demons'.

    All thanks and glory going to God for what he did and all the patience he had with me.

    Also, some special thanks to some Anons here who helped me with my questions, there was some good post that helped me tremendously.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Good job anon, I’m happy for you.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Thanks, Anon
        I wish you everything good for your own life

  49. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Part 1

    I went out to a uni party and it was mostly pretty good.

    >be me
    >decide to go the uni party
    >arrive and mostly stand around. my collegue hasn't arrived yet
    >after some time a turkish guy approached me and we chatted for a bit. was a bit awkward but it's fine. we mostly stick together for rhe remaining evening.
    >my colleague arrives and he introduces me to some of his friends.
    >i'm mostly just listening, since I don't really have much to say on their topics.
    >party gets a bit later and people are kind of going in different directions
    >some other guy approaches me, we talk for a bit and watch some other students play a game on the pavement
    >go down to karaoke where most people went currently
    >a kazakh starts talking to me, I'm assuming because of my Russia flag on my bag
    >we get talking about sports, lifting, women and just generally life
    >his friend was also here. he kinda smuggled him in since he's not even studying. he was too drunk to have a proper convesation, but it was still kind of funny.
    >was chilling for the remaining evening with the turk and the kazakh and his friend.
    >in any group i was in for that day i was "the guy that lifts" or who goes to the gym or something
    >more alcohol and karaoke ensues while i'm talking with the kazakh until the evening ends eventually

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Part 2

      I don't know, it was kind of weird. Firstly it's weird to be the fit guy. In my mind I'm still the skinny mf from high school. I still just don't feel "ready". Then again, will we ever be content with our physique?
      Secondly, I really liked the evening. It was fun and I actually expected to just sit somewhere awkwardly, read my book and eventually go home early. Being appreciated by other guys or them wanting me in their group is quite rewarding.
      Thirdly, I still feel like a ghost to women. There were a few cute women, which suprised me since it was a uni party by the computer science faculty. But I just didn't exist to them. Either that, or they had a boyfriend or something who looks kinda meh and I'm just wondering how that even works out. If they look like that and are that confident then what the fuck am I even doing. Maybe it was just the alcohol though.
      inb4 lookism incel. Chill, I'm just trying to figure social situations out.
      Maybe it's just my own thoughts which are constantly beating me down when I see women. It's just hard to change that. That's a long process. It always adds that sour taste even though the evening was great otherwise. I'm just kind of tired of it. I really want to let go of the idea of having to meet a woman or something, but I just really kind of long for that companionship. I probably romantisize it too much.

      If you read that far then thank you Anon. I hope you had at least a nice Friday evening as well.
      I just kind of ranted along.

  50. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I really need to share a shitty story about how i coomed in a girl's sneaker on a train and then tracked her down based on 2 bits of info i overheard her sharing with an old lady who was also on the train with us

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >I really need to share a shitty story about how i coomed in a girl's sneaker on a train and then tracked her down based on 2 bits of info i overheard her sharing with an old lady who was also on the train with us

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      It's one of those again lads....
      Alright no use putting it off. Post it

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        we were the only ones in the "room", she was on the top bed, i was below, noone else in the "room"
        i slipped into the bathroom taking one of her sneakers with me
        start masturbating, then get this idea to take a whiff, start sniffing the sneaker's inside, and then even licking the inside of the sneaker
        really got me going I think, so I coom quite soon and into the sneaker. wipe my dick with the inside of sneaker, return.
        some time later we're in city B, so it's time for me to leave. the girl has to switch the wagons, because our wagon will be left at city B, and she's travelling further to city C. while she's putting on her sneakers, she tries to clean it or something, I guess remove my (dried? semi-dried?) coom for quite a long time, eventually putting it on, not saying anything about it to me. we talk for a little, so I assume she didn't think I had something to do with it.
        I arrive home. I want to fuck her, enter a relationship with her, wife her etc. I remember that she was talking with an annoying old hag, and dropped some info about
        >medical uni
        >indians
        so I connect the dots with city C, and realize where she studies. I catch taxi and we drive there. I arrive there in the morning, merely minutes after the train with her does. I go to the uni, and just walk around. eventually, 30-40 minutes later, maybe an hour, I see her walking down the street. I recognize her, she recognizes me, we talk for a bit, and then we walk opposite ways. I didn't even say anything, didnt invite her anywhere, didn't get contact info, nothing. literally just learned her name and that's that. I do not plan to pursue her anymore.
        it doesn't feel like a total failure, because I tracked her down, and also of course because I coomed into her sneaker (which she was wearing by the way lol lmao). it does feel a bit like a failure because I didnt fuck her and wife her etc.

  51. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >slowly getting rid of all feelings for the oneitis
    >she hears about my trip and randomly asks if she can go with me
    >it's only because she likes traveling and considers me a friend but my retarded brain immediately gets excited for no reason
    Why do women have to be this cruel?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      > but my retarded brain immediately gets excited for no reason
      i'm the sneaker-coom guy, and i had this happen before, and it's annoying as fuck, and kinda makes me feel like a lesser being. cooming in sneaker didn't make that, i was thinking how i'll share the story on IST lmao

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >uhh i dunno i was kinda thinking of bringing this girl ive been seeing
      Then you can play it in a few different directions depending on her reaction. But dont take her (oneitis) with you unless she fucks you before the trip.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Were you with her and she broke up or did she reject you when you told her how you felt?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >implying I'd have that confidence
        I've never even asked her out because there was virtually zero indication that she's into me. I know taht sounds pathethic. She's also part of my group of friends so it would feel really fucking awkward afterwards.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I see. So she isn't actually being cruel by asking you to tag along on the trip, because she doesn't know how you feel. That's the problem with these situations, you might never shake the 'what if' feeling, even when the oneitis feels fade you'll still have that faint 'what if' somewhere in a dark corner of your mind.

          >I've never even asked her out because there was virtually zero indication that she's into me. I know taht sounds pathethic.
          It doesn't sound pathetic at all. It's a complicated situation. The only question is do your feelings hinder your friendship with her, or when it comes to other girls? That's why getting it out and getting that rejection can be good, some kind of closure. Even though it hurts. Granted, I've never managed to stay friends with a girl, whether when I was into one and she didn't feel the same or when I was the one doing the rejecting. So maybe what you're doing is for the best after all.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            It's not really cruel on her part, the only reason I said that it was is that I feel like women can very easily sense if you're attracted to them. But then again, you have to consider that I'm at least like 10 years behind on emotional and societal development compared to an average human because I had been a complete shut-in with 0 IRL friends until I was 24. Honestly I'm still proud of how much I've managed to shake all the baggage and try to live like a normal person. Even falling for a girl that feels nothing for me feels strangely good because previously I literally didn't experience any regular human relationships. Never even felt really attracted to a girl before this one.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              >I feel like women can very easily sense if you're attracted to them.
              Same, but I really haven't a clue. I just remember when I was the one being liked and I felt like with some of them it was really quite obvious, whereas others I only found out randomly. Guess it depends on your behavior towards them. Maybe women are more in tune with that shit, who knows.

              >But then again, you have to consider that I'm at least like 10 years behind on emotional and societal development compared to an average human because I had been a complete shut-in with 0 IRL friends until I was 24.
              Was kind of in a similar situation, I had friends but fell into a dark lonesome pit in my early 20s. Good on you for making it.

              >Honestly I'm still proud of how much I've managed to shake all the baggage and try to live like a normal person.
              You should be. It's fucking hard. I'm still struggling with that, the normal person feel. Still got a ways to go on my end.

              >Even falling for a girl that feels nothing for me feels strangely good because previously I literally didn't experience any regular human relationships.
              That's nice. Maybe it really was a good thing then that you kept it to yourself. I can't even let myself think of mine after getting turned down, it's too much and too recent. And even worse it made me realize that if the girls I was stand offish towards or rejected in a shit way felt even half the way I felt towards her, I was a fucking asshole.

              >Never even felt really attracted to a girl before this one.
              It's a nice feel. There'll be others. You're making it. Hope your trip goes well anon.

  52. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >go on date with girl who asked ME out
    >rejects me when i ask her on a second date
    >week later starts messaging me how im doing making jokes and stuff
    >answer blandly and let the conversation die
    >continues to send me snapchats, i never reply

    are they really that desperate for simps? make the first move on me and then do this?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Describe how and when you asked her out the second time anon. Did you kiss her on the first date?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        we did not kiss on the first date. i texted her the next day in the early afternoon saying i had a good time and wanted to hang out again. we very briefly met at college, she told a friend of mine ‘that guy friend of yours is cute’ and asked for my snapchat, we got to talking planned a date and kept talking for a few more days really hitting it off, until the date happened. i guess the idea she had of me after meeting for 10 seconds was different of the real me

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Texting the next day is a simp move unfortunately. Wait a week. You wont take my advice but I promise you its true.

  53. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >almost broke up with gf a few weeks ago
    >sex life was lacking, she's gotten fat, we have different mindsets with money, plus some other stuff
    >I've warned her several times that various things need to change, and she'll do it for like a week or act like she's going to and then not do it
    >we had a full blowout argument and I agreed to give her a chance
    >feel like I'm just waiting for her to fall off the wagon again and disappoint me
    I love her bros, but she just hasn't been meeting my needs.
    I guess if she blows it, I'll try to find one with big tits. Tired of acorns.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      kinda in the same boat just my gf might be pregnant. I’m buying a test today

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Big oof. Hoping you aren't in trouble, brother.

  54. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    finally lost my virginity now at 22 to a girl that's not that bad looking but I'm just not attracted to her idk
    She wants fwb but I don't even feel like fucking her
    don't know what to do now, guess I should practice on her at least

  55. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    My entire life feels like a burden and lifting is my only cope.

    The days I'm not at gym I feel utterly depressed and suicidal. I can't seem to connect with anyone anymore, even my friends. I'm still hung up on my ex of 4 years, 1 year after we broke up. I hate dating other girls, they all feel like NPCs and I get nothing out of casual sex.

  56. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Guy who I thought was my bro didn't invite me to his wedding, and none of my friends told me anything about it. Just learned it was two weeks ago. I thought I was pretty close to these guys but now I'm kinda doubtful. I asked for clarification to one of the guys I'm closest with but while waiting for an answer I feel kinda hurt.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Did you fuck the bride? If not, it sounds messed up that you didn't get invited. Maybe there's a rational explanation.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Bring it up clearly and maturely. Don't be a pussy and let it fester until you are overflowing with bad feelings. There is always a reason.

  57. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I finally decided on what to do as a career the other day after years of trying to decide (I’m 26, nearly 27). I decided to finished what I started at 19 and get my trade degree. I reached out to a friend that’s in the same field that’s helped me a lot throughout my severe depression; he and I were always tight and even though we hadn’t spoken since December, I wanted to give him the news. He’s the type of friend that will NEVER text you first, so I hit him up to see how he and his wife were. No response. It’s been 5 days now, still waiting. I know he has his phone because he’s the type that has it on him 24/7, except when working, but again, seeing as it’s been 5 days, that’s not valid.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >He’s the type of friend that will NEVER text you first, so I hit him up to see how he and his wife were.
      >No response.
      >It’s been 5 days now, still waiting.
      >I know he has his phone because he’s the type that has it on him 24/7, except when working, but again, seeing as it’s been 5 days, that’s not valid
      I don't get these situations either.
      >person is the type that seems to check every message notification that comes up
      >you message them at some point
      >they get back to you a day or two later, or worse just leave your dumb message on read
      >meanwhile in person everything seems fine
      What exactly did they mean by this? Fuck me. I guess they just don't care enough, right? What else could it be?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Honestly, I am this type of person, so I'll try to give some reasoning.
        I love talking to people In-person where I can read their expressions and tones while utilizing body language. I can handle calling for similar reasons, but it is second to me.

        Honestly, I am this type of person, so I'll try to give some reasoning.
        I love talking to people In-person where I can read their expressions and tones while utilizing body language. I can handle calling for similar reasons, but it is second to me.
        Last is messaging, and I wouldn't say I like it on most occasions. For one, it lacks the aforementioned skills. I enjoy using those. But more importantly, it just feels like more work and little reward with all the reading and typing. I don't get a sense of accomplishment, only boredom. What also doesn't help is how formally I like to communicate. Most people text rather lazily and can't comprehend what I write. So I have mostly given up on texting people and prefer to set meetups.
        What doesn't help is that people will give me the driest fucking responses, so I end the convo, only for them to text me again later like glue-eaters. And then they have the audacity to ask why I don't text more. Truly, this is why I can't get along with the absent-minded.
        But on to your question, if I talk to you in person, I care about you, I just can't care about texting. Of course, I'm not who you are referring to, but hopefully, I shed some light on it.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Well shit guess I'm a retard, was trying to copy and paste my correction

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >I love talking to people In-person where I can read their expressions and tones while utilizing body language
          I'm the same way. But I like texting too if the person is someone I get along with really well IRL, it's just a different language and it has its own perks and merits, ways of joking around.

          >What doesn't help is that people will give me the driest fucking responses, so I end the convo, only for them to text me again later like glue-eaters
          See, I don't feel like I give dry responses. If anything, I feel like a lot of my messages are open-ended in the sense of being able to reply in different ways. So let's say I just texted with a person over something for a good like 20 messages or something, and it was a lot of back and forward and fun. And then a couple days later I text them and I get left on read, what the fuck is that about? It feels like absolute shit.

          >But on to your question, if I talk to you in person, I care about you, I just can't care about texting. Of course, I'm not who you are referring to, but hopefully, I shed some light on it.
          I think I understand what you're getting at. It just feels so fucking hard to read. In person, it's great, feel like I could hang out with them all the time. Over text, I feel like I'm bothering them every single fucking time I message them, especially if asking to meet up and hang out. And it doesn't help when I'm the one who sends the first message the vast majority of the time. Just makes me want to give up completely on texting them. And if I don't text them, they'll basically never text me, and then we'll never get together IRL anyhow. And then it just spirals into me thinking they don't give a fuck about me, so why should I bother giving a fuck about them? Shit.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Although I said I don't like texting, I can understand your sentiments since I've been the first to text many times and been left on read before. It depends on who it is that gets my reaction. If I care enough about them, I confront them and see if there is an issue. Sometimes people may have reasons for their questionable behavior. If they genuinely do not care, I wouldn't bother with them. There are too many people in this world for me to hang around chumps. That's my take on it. At the end of the day, I wouldn't stress too much about it since you're liable to run into plenty of sensible people. I'll be honest I'm not much help on this since I can be quite unaffected by people.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              I did actually kind of confront one of them and she just said that's just how she is with texts. Didn't really buy it, but whatever. In the end, you're right. Even one of my good friends is like that, and I know he likes me, so it's easier to deal with when he does it and just move on. But when it's someone I don't feel I know all that well, that doubt starts growing and it really fucks with my head. Should probably take a more zero fucks given attitude towards it, feel pathetic continually messaging someone and not getting much in return. If they want to talk or hang out, they'll reach out, and if they don't that's fine too, is how I should be thinking.

              Thanks for trying to explain the other side of this.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                If you meet someone new, try this
                >text
                >no response
                >wait a few weeks
                >call
                >no response
                >drop them

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                >2022
                >calling
                Absolutely not.

                I think what I'll do is if I get left on read, I just won't message at all until they've messaged me back. And if it's a bit later, like a couple days, and they text something completely unrelated to what I messaged, I'll leave them on read and give them the same treatment. Stupid fucking mindgame bullshit, but whatever.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                >calling
                >Absolutely not.
                beta

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I had a similar experience with a fren that i didnt spoke for 2 yrs, and to be honest, im not surprised, as people get busy with life and shit, or just move on

  58. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Just got my test test back. wat do

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Do roids

  59. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Sitting in my bath tub, hungover and reading Thomas Pynchon. Not a bad start to the weekend.

  60. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    out with few friends
    friends gf calls me over to introduce me to a girl
    similar interests, start chatting about cars
    she hasn't got a drivers license
    why not?
    i'm 16
    ruhroh i'm 24, nope outta there but being hit on was nice
    first girl to hit on me in a couple of years

  61. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    29 yo khv, do I lose everything to a muscle mommy milf that I’d never date or wait for that first time with a girl to be special that I care about?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      please respawn bros

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        do you even like the muscle mommy or is it only that you assume she will agree to make you lose your Vcard ?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Go for it bro your idea of "first time being special" is just in your head

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Who is the muscle mommy MILF? Are you attracted to her?

  62. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Got a week to find a full-time job, but I've already been hounding after places for a month without luck, so.
    For all the help they say they need they're really not in a rush, plus it's a short workweek, what with July 4th and all.
    Guess I'm just gonna be homeless, then.
    I'm a piece of shit who's never been able to hold down steady employment anyways, so whatever suffering I get is really just comeuppance.
    Oh well.
    At least I've still got my Planet Fitness membership so I'll still have somewhere to shower and lift.

    I'll have a glass of orange juice.

  63. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I bumped my benis last night on my gf's pelvis when it accidentally popped out during doggy and now it hurts 🙁

  64. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Sweet another loser thread.
    Dance for me monkeys!

  65. 1 month ago
    Anonymous
  66. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Just water please. Guess I finally lost my virginity at 24. Long story.

    >be me, pretty autistic programmer
    >spend last few years studying CS in the university and working at this company fulltime to support myself
    >almost 0 social life
    >get fit in the last year, start getting dressed better
    >this girl joins the company last year
    >have some interactions with her
    >I feel like she likes me over the time, but I am not going to do anything at work, with my autism it wouldn't likely end well
    >ff to couple of days back
    >company event in some hotel (to do some sports and drink in the evening)
    >go mtbiking with some people
    >then run 10k with some other people
    >completely exhausted
    >start drinking with people
    >pretty much spend the entire evening talking and dancing with that girl
    >hotel roommate, who is a bro, randomly tells me if I need a free room it's not a problem
    >two other guys who randomly talked with her told me that they have no intentions
    >4AM, people start leaving
    >the girl asks if I want to take a walk outside
    >sit on a bench with a view, watch the sunrise
    >she tells me that she always liked me, if I am ok with starting something at work
    >asks if I have ever been in a serious relationship (she definitely senses the 'tism)
    >lie that I was in 3 shorter relationships in the past
    >start kissing a little later
    >go back to the hotel and her room
    >asks if I have a condom, I bring it from my room
    >start making out, can't get hard because of the exhaustion and alcohol
    >hard a little bit, put it in
    >last a minute before getting soft again
    >she says it's ok
    >we cuddle and sleep like two hours
    >try again to fuck, but still the same
    >need to leave to check out, she tells me we need to be discreet
    >exchange a few words over the day, don't do anything affectionate in front of others
    >come back to the city, say goodbye
    >won't see her again for a week, we're both out of town

    How do I proceed from here?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I hope someone with experience can chime in, but i’m rooting for you anon. You should probably text her at some point i guess? Did you enjoy her company and do you think you are compatible, or are you jumping at the opportunity because she is one who initiated it all? I had a girl relentlessly chase me and i eventually agreed to date her, but i realized i didn’t even really like her, i just had 0 experience with women and she did all the work. Also if you’re lying about past relationships remember to keep your story straight. Don’t get too invested now in case it doesn’t work out, don’t overthink and daydream constantly it will not help.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >don’t overthink and daydream constantly it will not help

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Nice job anon. The good news is that she’s obviously into you, so you can’t really fuck this up unless you do something totally weird or aggressive. If you can literally keep your autism dialed down to sub-extreme levels you will be fine.

      What you need to do now is just be friendly but cool. Start a few little conversations with her over text, nothing heavy or detailed. Like send a pic of a puppy you see on the street along with something like “i think i’m going to have to steal this dog. do you know if you go to jail for that?”. I mean LIGHT, light breezy bullshit that communicates you’re into her but not coming in with the heavy vibes yet.

      Basically when texting girls I try to do it while in the middle of doing other stuff, like I’m running around between meetings and just firing off a quick “hey” message. I never want to come across like I’m sitting there thinking about it too much. It should feel like you’re incredibly busy doing all kinds of Big Dog shit, but you found a moment to text a cute silly thing to this girl you’re into.

      Midweek, send her a text inviting her to something for the weekend. Since you’re both active, a sport thing would be best, like paddle boarding or a bike ride. Be like, “Hey, what are you up to this weekend? I have been wanting to paddle board this lake, my friend said it’s incredible. Was thinking Saturday. Are you around?”

  67. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >women are completely selfish and only do what's best for themselves
    >expect men to go out of their way and do everything for them too even if it's at their own expense and if they don't they don't "love" them
    Is there any winning? Is it possible to find a woman who will sacrifice for you like you do for her? If not how do I cope?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You really think men are any different?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Maybe not in general. I feel like I'm a self sacrificing person so I'm always just let down when other people don't do as much for me as I think I do for them. So that just builds resentment over time. But with my current gf I feel like if I always did what was best for me we wouldn't even be together right now.

  68. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Last night this fat but friendly girl invited me to go to the bar for her going away party. I said I cant and just stayed home. I was going to go on a date tonight but the girl just canceled. Fuck

  69. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I am trapped in suburban hell and no amount of lifting will stop me from wanting to take the lead pill 🙁

  70. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Some old classmate was apparently surprised I hadn't killed myself yet when he saw me working at McDonalds.
    Didn't even know anyone remembered me at all from HS...

  71. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I somehow became the teacher's pet/golden boy/christopher moltisanti at work and I don't know how to feel about this
    why do people always like me I hate myself

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      maybe people appreciate you for your work and have you idea you feel this way about yourself

  72. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Found out my fiances best friend has a crush on me, she talked about her crush and just described me, also used to walk around in her bra when in my flat
    Exact opposite of my fiance, tall, long legs, juicy ass and slightly autistic
    Its been a bit of an ego boost but I'm unsure how to approach the situation to avoid a falling out, especially when my fiance repeatedly makes me compliment her ass and legs

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >repeatedly makes me compliment her ass and legs
      >repeatedly
      Your finance makes you compliment her best friends ass and legs? That's weird
      >found out fiance's best friend has a crush on me
      Idk. sounds like you are a good dude. From the pov of the best friend, she is probably jealous of the relationship and wants the same. Take the ego boost. Unless you want to be a degenerate and try ruining 3 relationships for a chance with the best friend.
      >how to handle it
      If she didn't name its hard to say what the right move is. Bring it up with your fiance in a calm mature manner. I wouldn't but it depends on your boundaries with the 3 of you.

  73. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I honestly feel like a woman. Not in a gay chud way but in the weak whiny way. Nothing about me is masculine. I'm scared all the time. I hate hard work. I don't want to take care of others I want to be cared for. I don't know how to bust balls I just get sad when my friends make jokes about me...back when I had any.

    A man in my situation would try to work hard and change his life. What do I do? Nothing. I get weepy and eat chocolate. I hate myself and I want to die.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >I'm scared all the time. I hate hard work. I don't want to take care of others I want to be cared for. I don't know how to bust balls I just get sad when my friends make jokes about me...back when I had any
      anon, that's not being a women, that's being a whiny bitch

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        No difference

  74. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    there's this girl i was shagging summer last year. she went to spain for months for work to complement her degree or whatever. she wanted me to keep giving her attention but i just ignored
    now she's back and she keeps sending me photos or wanting to talk to me. i asked her out for a drink but she just said 'i dont drink. here's [in ireland] is too expensive'
    what did she mean by this? why she kept messaging me and sending pics of whatever she was doing? just to keep orbiting over her from the other side of the continent? if she is still a fuckable hole why she didn't go for a drink? i don't get women at all

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You can only find out by inviting her to her or you go to her and drink there. If she doesn't want that also, there probably is no chance for sex.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Ok I will try inviting her over next time we talk then. If it doesn't work I might just finish our contact altogether because it's useless as it is now. It was always only a bootycall (she called me that lol) and I don't have patience for her anymore.

  75. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i used the cable machine today. had a strap attached to it that held my foot. I then had my leg straight and pulled it behind me.

    What is this exercise called?

  76. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >feel good
    >go outside
    >see cute teen girls and couples
    >no longer feel good

  77. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >ignore the try-hard blackpiller

  78. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    My father is a fucking piece of shit that cheated on my mom with a literal whore, now my grandpa is close to dying and is leaving his house to me, I'm pretty sure the reason my father is visiting me tomorrow is to get me to give the house to him.
    I don't know how this man can be this much of a piece of shit, last time I've seen him was more than a year ago and now he suddenly wants to visit me.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Don't give it to him no matter what tricks he pulls, anon.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I fucking won't.
        This absolute shit stain tried to avoid me as much as possible even after I kept visiting him after the divorce but as soon as he married his current wife he instantly dropped me, only got to see him once every 3 months AT BEST, not once in my life has he helped me with anything and now this gay decides to show up when he learns that his own father that he no longer talks to won't give him a house he thinks is rightfully his.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Based. You're gonna make it bro.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          ygmi
          stick to your guns.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >his own father
          Ok, sorry, didn't read that.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I fucking won't.
      This absolute shit stain tried to avoid me as much as possible even after I kept visiting him after the divorce but as soon as he married his current wife he instantly dropped me, only got to see him once every 3 months AT BEST, not once in my life has he helped me with anything and now this gay decides to show up when he learns that his own father that he no longer talks to won't give him a house he thinks is rightfully his.

      post body

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        What does that have to do with anything kek.

        Based. You're gonna make it bro.

        Thanks anon, I'm absolutely livid right now.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          i'm also son of a single mother and was just wondering how you looked

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Oh I see, I'm kinda fat but currently losing a bunch of weight via /fast/ing.

            tell him to meet you at a restaurant and don't show up

            To bad he already said he'd come to my appartment.

            ygmi
            stick to your guns.

            Thanks anon, kind of thinking about being brutally honest with him about how much of a deadbeat shit he was, before I was far too lenient with him and I'm sure this retard thinks he can just coax me into giving him the fucking house.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              >before I was far too lenient with him and I'm sure this retard thinks he can just coax me into giving him the fucking house.
              it sucks losing a mom or dad whether to death or being retards.
              this is a tough spot because I have a feeling your dad is all of a sudden going to be contact and friendlier after you this meeting...all in the hopes of wearing you out to get a piece of the house. I might be over analyzing

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Yeah, I wouldn't be surprised, but at the same time he's kind of an impatient retard, I would bet my left nut after 6-12 months he just loses interest and gives up, just like he does with everything else in his life.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      tell him to meet you at a restaurant and don't show up

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Is he the son of your grandfather? Or is your mother his child? Anyways, take the house. Best asset you can have in these times.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >his own father
        Ok, sorry, didn't read that.

        He's the son of my grandfather and they haven't talked in like 6 years because my father is a piece of shit.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Ok, well then that settles it. It's a "gift" from your grandfather. He will probably disinherit you as an act of revenge, but since you said he married again, he would probably do that anyway or at least limit it to some degree, especially if he had other kids with new wife.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            He doesn't have kids with his new wife but she has kids from a previous relationship that she also abandoned when they were around 9, so at least those two pieces of shit found each other.
            Pretty sure the way it would play out if I gave him the house would be that when he dies it either implicitly goes to her or he just straight up leaves it to her and then she probably gives it to her children.
            I'm not falling for this shit, dude has been a deadbeat all my life, time to "pay up" for once.
            Funny thing is, the house he currently lives in is ALSO in my grandpas name, he's literally freeloading in the house of someone he will no longer talk to, why my grandpa hasn't kicked him out already is beyond me.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              >why my grandpa hasn't kicked him out already is beyond me
              Probably too much of a hassle, legal bullshit when your dad refuses etc.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              >Funny thing is, the house he currently lives in is ALSO in my grandpas name

              Ayy lmao, and what is your grandpa going to do? Leave that to him? Or give that also to you and you rent it to your father? hahaha

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                I don't think he has decided yet but looks like that's going to me too...

  79. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I've been dating a girl for just over a year and pretty sure I'm going to ask her to marry me. It's odd though because at the moment there's zero rush to ask or major reason TO ask anytime soon, besides the (half) joking push from friends and family. I think the only thing holding me back from doing so is that from that point on, life changes entirely. I hate the sound of "fEaR oF cOmMiTmEnT" as it always sounded like the thought of guys not wanting to only be with a single person, though now I'm seeing it as more losing the lifestyle I currently have for something that may not be better

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >just over a year
      >marriage
      Why? I don't think anyone's gonna "fear of commitment" you for not getting down on one knee after a single fucking year dude.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        No one has really which is why I don't feel any pressure, just a lot of thinking about it lately. My brother proposed UNDER a year of dating and I think my family was just used to that kind of timing

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I feel like I hear that a year and a half is the "honeymoon period", so waiting to at least pass two years before thinking about marriage sounds like a better play to me.

  80. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I missed possibly one of the greatest social events in my life today. Hard to explain why it's special. But the combination of people there, the circumstances, the point I am in my life right now.
    I'm turning a page and this would've been a great way to celebrate the end of this part of my life. I might not see many of these people many times anymore. At least not in this kind of setting. But I got fucking sick these days for the first time in years and I couldn't go. The combination of missing out and disappointing people is fucking killing me. It wasn't supposed to end like this

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      It was out of your hands. You wanted to go, but was too ill to go. It was fate. Don't beat yourself up over it.

  81. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >tfw my friends kid's bday party but too afraid to go..

    all my friends are dads FFS and im still KV

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah you think being a teenager and watching everybody hook up is tough, but the real pain is watching everyone get into serious relationships and you're still alone

  82. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    how do i cope being dicklet lads

  83. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i just heard the news. rip. fav movie, fav scene.

    rip lloyd.. you were the best of them

  84. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm thinking of checking out. I'm not good at anything and I'm getting tired of struggling. I'm just tired.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I know what it feels like. Still feel it some days. Don't give up just yet. Better days will come.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I have those thoughts more often than I'd like to admit, today it's harder for some reason. I'm tired too, everyday I'm tired of my brain telling me I'm worthless, it's exhausting. I cried today, I miss a past I want so dearly to recapture, but that fools gold, a mirage in my mind. Be strong Anon, push through the pain and build a better you.

  85. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    bros what is the optimal masturbation frequency?
    did no fap for 2 weeks then started having crazy fantasies and popping random boners at work. I did fap today and felt I was trying too hard not to cum making it not too enjoyable

  86. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I finally hit 135lbs ohp. I have no bros to share this with. Sent a video to my mom of me doing 5 reps. Held back tears at the gym. Thinking about how I fucked up my life and I’m slowly getting it back together.

    >Raised by single mom.
    >habit of never finishing things or accomplishing goals.
    >drop out of college at 21.
    >mother is devastated.
    >kept delaying going back
    >seasons change and I watch things go by.
    >become a neet for 5 years.
    >hardly ever leave my room
    >never go outside
    >watch my mother go to work day in and day out.
    >no will power
    >thinking of killing myself.
    >mom sits me down
    >tells me there was a lump, but it’s benign.
    >she hid this from me for almost 3 months because she didn’t want to add to whatever I was going through.
    >realize my mother didn’t tell me because she couldn’t depend on me.
    >she was scared for months going to the doctor alone and I wasn’t there for her
    >break down
    >realize I have to live. I have to go outside
    >don’t believe in psych meds but desperate my life is crumbling
    >admit myself to psych hospital
    >5’11 Manlet 136lbs
    >months go by
    >got a job
    >start lifting
    >skinny fat broken 27 yo at the gym
    >time passes
    >keep getting injured because of ego and pushing myself too soon.
    >29 decide to finish my degree
    >get raise, part of union, taking it day by day.
    >switch up workout program to gzcl (prior always did SL)
    >numbers blow up, no injuries, strongest I’ve ever felt.
    >hit 135 ohp for reps
    >text mom “i did it I finally did it”
    >she texts back “I’m so proud of you anon. You’ve been through so much. You’re becoming the person I always knew you could be. I love you.”
    >I made it

    I still have a ways to go, but today made know that I’m on the right path. Signing up for bjj to gain confidence and be more social. Maybe I will marry the girl who chokes me with her thighs.

    The path is long and arduous, but stay on it. We’re gonna make it bros

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I swear to god my eyes teared up just a bit reading this. God fucking speed my IST brother we're all gonna fucking make it. I love you bro

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Nice larp fag

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I don't know what to say other than well fucking done, anon, you finally made it. As someone who picked up judo a few months ago I can say to you that this shit changes lives. At the beginning it will be hard, but keep with it for 2 or 3 months and you'll understand what I'm talking about. Good luck and congratulations, anon.

  87. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    OCD+ADHD killing me recently. Always knew but didn't know the extent of all the shit I do and how it works, because I was more focused on "intrusive thoughts." Trying to get a hold of my compulsions, while maintaining health and fitness. Not easy.

  88. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'll have a water, please. I've been cutting while simultaneously trying to hit 1/2/3/4. I've hit the 1 and 3. However, my bench press is stalling at 165. I'm starting to think that I've hit my limit while eating 1500 calories daily. I have an outline of abs, so I'm probably at 18% body fat. Should I switch to maintenance or bulking?

  89. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'll take a water. Bros I'm happily married and after I get the pump in mornings, I cannot stop thinking about strange pussy. Every female I encounter, I'm like wonder what that pussy is like. It usually wears off around 3pm. It's MUCH worse on leg days when I bang out heavy squats. I guess the T is flowing through my veins, but goddamn it's too much sometimes. Just thinking about pussy!

  90. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >using gym wifi
    >get week long ban for saying moron
    >next day IST is blocked in their wifi
    lmao

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      The gym knows what I'm ?

  91. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >only vagina I've seen irl that I didn't pay for was my older sisters
    should I just end it now?

  92. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm interested in this girl in my friend circle. The thing is, she's kind of a slut, and has fucked a lot of the guys in our friend group.
    I really like her and want more than a hook-up. She has already hit on me at a party, so I think I could sleep with her, but how do I express that I want more than just sex without coming on too strongly? Any advice?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      see if she would hang out one on one. If she does and has a good time keep doing this until you feel like it's reasonable to ask her if she would like to be more exclusive.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        My fear though is that I'd take her out and slow date her and she'd just kiss me and then go get plowed by her boys every weekend, and that feels cucked.
        I'd like to say "hey, I'd like to slow date you, please stop having sex" but that's not flirty or fun at all and comes on way too strongly

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          you can't force her to be exclusive with you if she doesn't want that, she has to want to herself.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You need to snap out of this delusion immediately and not get feelings for some confirmed slut. It will unironically make you less likely to bang and you’ll probably also lose your dignity in the process.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      She’s probably just sleeping around because she hasn’t found the right guy yet.

      My advice would be to fall completely head-over-heels in love with her. She will be able to intuit the purity of your intent and it will open her heart to unforeseen new possibilities. It will save her. She will be forever loyal, she will be your lifelong partner, bear your children, keep a clean house, and have dinner waiting for you when you come home from work. Happens all the time.

  93. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    In less then 36 hours we had to put my horse and dog down. The horse was nearly 40, and the dog had a brain tumor and was 15. Not feeling to great right now.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      The fuck? Horses live that long? Fucking boomers when will they learn

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Not usually, normal is around 30-33

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Sorry brother, that sucks. I hope you can take some comfort in the fact that both animals were at the very end of their natural lifespan. I can’t relate to the horse part, but having put a few dogs down, you have to just keep reminding yourself that they lived an amazing life and that they have no concept of death. The sadness is 100% constructed by us.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      cheer up. two fewer mouths to feed AND glue in the same weekend.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Man lost a couple of best friends and you’re on here being a fucking edgy moron. Evaluate your life moron.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Imagine simping for a fake horse

  94. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I saw my sort of ex post a pic with her new bf and ruined most of my day. I was on track to be officially dating her but that was March 2020 and Covid ruined things. There were numerous red flags and it's best that i'm not with her, but it still messes with me because she was the last girl I've been with which is very irrational and annoying.

  95. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Do women just have a massive group chat or something with literally every other woman within 50 miles that they share fuck stories with? I swear they do

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      No. But female friends trade sex stories like pokémon cards.

  96. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I work in a step above retail job and realize how many women are in shitty ass relationships right now.
    Literally almost all of our female workers are in abusive relationships and put up with it because the guy occasionally gives them attention or a gift.
    Several women have restraining orders against exes and one got beat up on our security camera.

    It really skews my viewpoint as to what the ratio of healthy vs unhealthy relationships there are out there.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Chad beats the everloving dogshit out of his gee eff, IST. Why aren't you domestic abuse maxxing?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Are you really surprised though?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        It just scares me.
        Like where do I find a woman with self respect?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Don’t listen to women about this kind of shit. I dated a girl who would start hitting me n shit and block the door so I couldn’t leave the room. One time I shoved her out of the way and she collapsed her knees and fell to the ground and started crying so she could play the victim like OMG U HIT MEEEEE

      Women are crazy. People don’t usually just beat up women for no reason. It’s usually just her acting crazy as fuck and being surprised to find out the man is about 10 times stronger and not in the mood for that shit.

  97. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    I get that, I’m sorry for your loss friend. I’ll be fine in a day or so. It was just losing both so close hit like a hammer. I’m just focusing on the good memories, not the way they were these last couple of weeks

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      It's not a loss, it could have been much worse so if it was his time to go there was plenty of ways to spin it. Their suffering is over now though.

      No. But female friends trade sex stories like pokémon cards.

      I don't get why women lead with a sex story to get things started. If anyone is familiar with vidya I swear to god I relive the valerie farmer story everytime I fuck a women

      I work in a step above retail job and realize how many women are in shitty ass relationships right now.
      Literally almost all of our female workers are in abusive relationships and put up with it because the guy occasionally gives them attention or a gift.
      Several women have restraining orders against exes and one got beat up on our security camera.

      It really skews my viewpoint as to what the ratio of healthy vs unhealthy relationships there are out there.

      Women are autists who are scared of the world so they will accept someone who beats them because at least they know and can expect that.

      Chad beats the everloving dogshit out of his gee eff, IST. Why aren't you domestic abuse maxxing?

      with a black women so I can't beat her as a white man

      It just scares me.
      Like where do I find a woman with self respect?

      they're in long lasting happy relationships

  98. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I've been feeling something I've not felt in probably have a decade bros, happiness and anticipation for the future.

    Long story short, best friend unironically necked, i got super depressed, affected my studies, got very sick, got fat, got ill. Dropped out of uni multiple times. Its my 7th year in this shit town when I should have been done in 4.

    Last 3 years I did nothing with my life. Last september I said to myself enough, started big diet, got to healthy BMI(still cutting but im good now). Now 2 weeks ago I spoke to the uni and they gona give me another chance with my masters degree in September, just need to sort my student finance out which shouldn't be a problem since i have 10 documents providing I got sick.

    Gona ace is this time since I am in peak physical and mental health.
    Gona join my badminton club again since I fucking love that sport.
    Gona try to hookup with as much fresher girls as possible from both uni, club and tinder. Did it before, will do it again.
    I cannot fucking wait bros, only problem is im a pussy, too scared to get vaccinated and still scared of Covid(even tho I had it twice this year). Fuck it.

  99. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Accidentally called some woman a "crusty roastie" outloud today. I think she heard me too but I just kept walking. Should I kill myself?

  100. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I was nearly gang assaulted while refereeing a soccer match tonight and my ISTness helped me. Unfortunately thread is past bump limit so I can't share

  101. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Next week is my last week of work and then I can live my summer the way I want it with hot bitches who attend art school squirting on my Johnson.

  102. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >be me
    >have extreme anxiety for years now, haven't been able to work it's so bad
    >only feel "normal" when black out drunk
    >day consists of panicking all day with no memory of the past and no ability to think of the future, breakdown during simple convos, suffer severe insomnia, pervasive and constant feeling that something is wrong and that there's something I should be doing haunts me, not sure what exactly is wrong
    >decide enough is enough
    >have drank almost nothing in a month and a half, do therapy exercises and read all day pretty much
    >old friend invites me out tonight with some of his friends
    >usually I just drink 8+ drinks before meeting with ppl so as not to panic in front of them
    >show up dead sober tonight, feel face twitching and fight urge to instantly start binge drinking
    >chill with him and his friends, super tense and nervous, hard to see
    >hold it together and anxiety slightly subsides after a while, we get each other's socials
    >be me now
    >somewhat easy to breathe for the first time in years
    Perhaps I won't have to sepuku after all

  103. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >couple of buddies and I want to make a podcast where we just shoot the shit and have lighthearted conversations
    >first time I've actually felt excited for something in at least a couple years
    It's gonna be a blast to do the only problem is the inevitable schism that's gonna be made with a couple other friends in our group. We're not including them in setting up the show or the first episode because it's honestly hard to be completely comfortable talking with them because not only are they super sensitive they start arguments over the dumbest shit possible and take it really personally. They're also a couple too so they compound each other's annoyingness.
    But I suppose they'll just have to understand that everything isn't about them when we get to it.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You sound so boring it would be worth bashing you just to try to elicit the first nonNPC thoughts of your life

      Worthless gay

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