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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    vacation over tomorrow. I already know that my colleagues did NOTHING in that time and I will end up picking up their slag. it always feels like I get punished for taking a vacation. 1st world problem I understand but still...

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I’ll take a whiskey double shot please and thank you.
    My grandma is wanting to set me up with her nurse since it’s been years since my last gf, but I’m quite happy being single. Lifts are going well though, coworker saw me the other day without a sweater on and said I was looking good

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Nurses are notorious prostitutes anon. Even if this one isn’t all her coworkers ARE and actively encourage it.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Absolutely they are. Even if I wanted to get into the dating scene again, I wouldn’t touch nurses with a 10ft pole

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >been doing great at my weight loss
    >becoming more socially competent/confident
    >girl at work has recently started seeking me out just to shoot the shit/flashes me a big smile whenever she sees me
    >today I'm completely fricked mentally for no reason at all. Was feeling great when I went to bed
    >shift goes fine but I'm in a foul mood
    >she flashes me that goddamn smile
    >can't help but smile and feel a little better
    >later on see her again but by now I'm ready to just run out into traffic
    >"oh hey anon are you just finishing?"
    >"nah finished a little while ago, judt having a mental breakdown right now haha"
    >"oh....that's not good hehe catch you later"

    Why am I like this, pretty sure she's vaguely interested in me and she's definitely my type. She didn't seem to freaked out so maybe she thought I was joking but I 100% felt like I was having some sort of breakdown/episode. My buddy who I met up with about 10 mins later commented that I looked like I didn't know whether I was coming or going.

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Slipping back into benzo addiction and been sniffing some heroin to go along with it.
    My life is going better than it's ever been, why do I do this to myself?

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Jesus bros…
    Just got done hanging with my mom my sister and her fiancé
    >sister pulled her usual bullshit
    You bros who said you understood why I didn’t wanna go were right. I heard her whisper loudly to my mom 10 feet away from me that she wants to ask me about my job situation. She may as well have fricking asked. This proves she understands exactly I feel so depressed and anxious and don’t spend time with them often… I feel shorty enough not having I job I don’t need the people who I feel I’m letting down to put it out there and make me feel worse.
    >sister acting like a complete goofball with fiancé
    It makes me happy, they’re in love. But I also feel disgust I’ve never seen her act that way. Just all flirty semi loose and they were play fighting and she would jump in his arms sit in his lap and all that.
    It was gross but also I think more of what I feel is hollowness. It ultimately reminds me I’m alone and may never meet someone like that. To make matters worse I’m the last one with my last name. This surname would die with me. And that crushes me. It makes me feel like I’m under an immense amount of guilt and pressure. It feels like I’m getting stabbed from multiple points. It reminds me of the crippling loneliness, it makes me feel like a failure and guilty for my father and every man in my family with this last name.
    >ex from like a month ago’s birthday is today
    Anons in the last thread set me right. I need to let go. I need to stop worrying whether she’s okay. It’s no longer my responsibility. She had way too many chances and she blew it. It’s not fair that I should also still worry about her well-being like I do, I’m sure she found a new guy or 10 by now and she hasn’t even thought of me the same way once… seeing my sister & her fiancé act how they did didn’t help.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I just idk bros. I feel bad. I feel really shitty and down, and almost hopeless. Im not even sure what I want. Is it love? Is it companionship? Do I just want to build a respectable life for myself and be a hermit? Idk… I’m gonna join the navy sometime early next year. My future brother in law was a nuke in navy, he’s given me some advice and he seems to have all I want. He’s engaged, has a close group of buddies, has his own place, etc. If giving up 5 years of my life enables me to get even half way closer to that than I am now then it’s worth it to me. Because right now I’m fricking miserable…
      I’m down 15lbs. 65lbs to go to qualify… I can at least feel better having that job and my only priorities needing to be to keep my head down and work hard until I’m out. Maybe then I’m my mid 30s I’ll be in a better position to meet someone of my own… better mentally and better financially… physically too… ah frick I just feel like utter shit. I’m glad me going made my mom happy though…

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >trips
        I guess I need to accept the shit feels for what they are and bust my ass and follow through on this. I’m sure at 34/35 I can meet a 20 something girl who’s worth my while, if that turns out to be what I want.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I went to Navy boot camp with a guy who lost 90 lbs to qualify. He was living in a hostile environment (step-dad was a dick, the mom was mostly absent) and he had no hopes for a career in any business in his podunk town. Now he's out after five years and runs his own assisted living facility in CA with his wife. He's put back on some of the weight but he's happy and successful. You can do it, Anon

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Thank you for sharing that, it’s the type of thing I needed to hear. I don’t necessarily want to be in the military, but this plan gives me a glimmer of hope and some much needed drive and motivation to get back on the horse I fell off of years ago. It could quite literally change my life for the better. Even if I don’t meet a woman, I think it’s far better to be in a position where I have work available and can have my own place and actually have some semblance of a life instead how I am now.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Things may look awful now, trust me, they will get better. I hit rock bottom and had to join the Army to pick up the pieces of my life, so I completely understand what you're dealing with. I'm still in, and I don't really have any intention of leaving because I'm on the old retirement system. It sucks sometimes, but I wouldn't trade my experiences and my friends for the world. If I'm being completely honest, as much as I hate being in sometimes, all the experiences I've had as a result has made me a better man, and I feel as though I can hold my head up with some sort of pride. If you do end up joining, please choose an MOS that you can actually use when you get out. Most of the people that I knew who got out, leveraged the skills they learned to get a new job or start a new business. You'll make it man, don't let the buttholes win.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Honestly I believe this is the way and may do it myself, just graduated and don't have a clear direction. If I am unable to get museum job, I will likely try and commission for whichever branch will take me. Forces you into a close group of others, gives training, and future training, plus other benefits.

        someone else idle-living?
        I am becoming more and more detached with my own life.
        I find myself many times doing stuff like I was watching a video. I am the one doing stuff, but I'm not there. this began to happen on training too

        Yessir I call it passively living though haha. Basically just kind of living without making conscious decisions almost.

        https://i.imgur.com/tFFQAfT.jpeg

        1. My biggest art gains came from the ONE year I was a NEET.
        I'll forever miss that time. Genuinely the best year of my life.

        2. I'm really overworked, and there's a lot more solid white hairs in my beard.
        It was just a few at first, but I see more every month...

        3. I genuinely want to kill myself these days. The only reason I haven't is because I want to draw more...
        But the more overworked I am, and the less I draw, the more I wonder why I'm still here...

        About to be me for a couple months but I would def try and make a sustainable income from it. I believe in you anon. Comissions n shit once you get a following can net a decent amount of money.

        Pacifico, please.

        >re-joined Hinge the other day after a couple years away from dating
        >received a few matches so far, all three are attractive and successful, college graduates who work in STEM
        >conversations are relatively dry, a general lack of reciprocation in convos (I'm avoiding yes or no questions, I'm not a complete autist)
        >even though these matches will go nowhere, can't help but feel that there is hope for me
        >remaining optimistic
        >if these women were attracted to me enough to engage in conversation, I must be underrating my appearance/personality
        >understand that it is just a numbers game
        >have confidence that someday I will get a beautiful, caring gf

        A weight has been lifted off of my shoulders, anons. Maybe we're all gonna make it. Getting back in the gym, focusing on improving my mental and physical health, building self-confidence over the past few years is beginning to produce dividends. It may take months for me to make a solid connection, but I'm certain it will happen eventually. I am back on the right track with life. Cheers

        Do you think going away from it actual helped? I cope by saying I will but end up still using the apps expecting shit to change, but it never does.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >pros of military
          I feel like there’s more than that although those are great. Forces you to get your shit in order if it’s not, and by that I mean discipline. I always heard how certain jobs prefer to hire military guys because they’re rushed to just getting hair done right away and doing at right the first time to avoid frick ups. All these pros like training and lifelong buddies and “personal growth” etc, you really can’t beat getting paid to gain them (not to mention work experience and skills). That shit isn’t so easily obtainable for most people otherwise from what I’ve gathered either, not all of it. I think it’s the right choice for me. It should unfrick my life. Who knows maybe if I decide I want a wife I’d even meet one while in. Wish I did this straight out of highschool when I was 170lbs and could run 5 miles a day and never seem to get sore or be tired

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >To make matters worse I’m the last one with my last name. This surname would die with me. And that crushes me. It makes me feel like I’m under an immense amount of guilt and pressure. It feels like I’m getting stabbed from multiple points. It reminds me of the crippling loneliness, it makes me feel like a failure and guilty for my father and every man in my family with this last name.
      Jesus Christ anon, I didn't want this feel. I have a fraternal twin brother, but he moves around a ton working in sales and hasn't managed to find a gf despite being 6 ft, lean, charismatic, and able to strike up a rousing convo with a fencepost. And then I'm a borderline alcoholic who works two part time jobs and can't afford to move out of our dad's place. Of course, I'm basically living up to my family name by following in my grandfather's footsteps, but he at least had a wife and kid to walk out on before descending into the depths of alcoholism.

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    bad/mixed
    Work sucks just pretty much got lied to, but now I have to stay 1-2 years so it's not a crazy job hop I was supposed to learn more and do more complex work. but its the most basic shit a trained monkey could do. It's also outside the field of specialization I wanted to focus on. Got fricked over pretty good though team culture and pay is pretty good and the work is not soul crushing and quite relaxed. sucks but its ok while I do certs and look for a new pasture.

    good news:
    the mystery mass I had removed is despite its size and fast growth unlikely to be and aggressive cancer.

    Sports is back on the menu and I feel a lot better after the operation. meal prepp is going well and should improve my health in the next month

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Prayers for your health and recovery anon

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      was it just a lipmoa?

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Hair thinning
    >Natty Gains slowing down
    >Might not get my contract renewed because the natural gas market is going to fluctuate very soon
    >Still a Virgin at 25 going on 26
    >Still Living with my Parents
    >No real friends outside my work
    >Dating Prospects are zero

    Should I just accept my life is a waste, I was a national scholarship winner and had a first class degree in engineering before COVID. I sacrificed my social life and peak lifting years for academics. I’m burnt out and will probably die alone at this rate working in an average job.

    How do I make it better?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >goes into fossil fuels industry
      >cries he might lose his job
      >b-but /misc/ told me climate change isn't real and Q would take over!

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Not really by choice. As an engineer it’s the only industry where I make actual money where I come from

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Unlucky. But with your skillset I doubt it would be a problem to find a job if you are open to moving somewhere else

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >peak lifting years
      >25

      Are you some sort of moron?
      I got into the best shape of my life at 31, natty too

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I was an athlete (even tried out for a national team at one point) in my late teens. Lumbar fracture at 19. Became the skinniest twink-mode weedhead 'til I was 26. Dropped out of college 3-4 times during those years. Returned to school at 27, now close to attaining an engineering degree. Became semi-fluent in a second language in my mid-20s.

      Returned to lifting/rooning/extreme sports at 27. I'm now in the best shape of my life, career prospects are looking up for the first time ever.

      It's never too late anon. I thought my life was over and done with when I was your age. In my experience, you can always turn life around, to a certain degree. Don't get baited by demoralizers. Don't buy into negative self talk. Mindset is the key. Keep pushing anon.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Nta but I’m late 20s trying to turn it around again after falling off my horse, I was doing great 18-22.
        Do you have advice for focus? I mean that in the literal sense of sitting down and grinding away at a task and also in general like not giving into temptation staying consistent keeping the goal in mind and being disciplined.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Time for a working holiday in Asia anon. You're skilled so have fun. Work a bar and chat up drunk girls.

      My ex and I broke up a few weeks ago, we were talking everyday and we saw each other a few times, she said before that she didn't want anything with me because she knew that if we were in a relationship everything would go to shit very quickly and she's probably right, she said to me a few days ago that she will not talk to me for a week and blocked me from everywhere, I went to her house and told one of my friends to contact her because she had a lot of my shirts that she took with her a while ago, she agreed to come out of her house, her mom was at the entrance, she was weirdly nice, she unblocked me before that and I told her that I needed to talk some stuff with her, she immediatly asked me what it was, then she asked her mom to go away and told me she didn't feel anything for me, I told her that it was ok and that I loved her and she started crying, we talked for a few days and then she blocked me again and said that she didn't want anything with me anymore, kinda hurts

      Took me over a year of being a prostitute to forget my ex anon. Hopefully you didn't invest much in her.

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Going to need something strong barkeep.
    Death in the family, Its just now starting to hit me, multiple hours after I heard about it. I know everyone has their time and everything but its still a punch in the gut.

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Visiting my second grandfather basically on his death bed and both times both grandfathers have told me to find a girl and get married.

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    someone else idle-living?
    I am becoming more and more detached with my own life.
    I find myself many times doing stuff like I was watching a video. I am the one doing stuff, but I'm not there. this began to happen on training too

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I’m finally feeling lonely and craving love at 31. Oh wel

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      My diet is actually good, seeing progress with my lift, my weight is stable.

      kek just lost my gf before i turned 30. i crave it too. What's your life situation and fitness like?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Strong but look like shit after losing a bunch of weight and a KHV

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Damn, keep going man. What about dating options where you live? Do you socialize ?

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    1. My biggest art gains came from the ONE year I was a NEET.
    I'll forever miss that time. Genuinely the best year of my life.

    2. I'm really overworked, and there's a lot more solid white hairs in my beard.
    It was just a few at first, but I see more every month...

    3. I genuinely want to kill myself these days. The only reason I haven't is because I want to draw more...
    But the more overworked I am, and the less I draw, the more I wonder why I'm still here...

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You learned to draw? Now learn to 3D model in Blender based on your drawings, its simple, just start with simple shit.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I did 3D modeling and sculpting for a bit, was alright at it but my true heart lies in drawing and manga stuff

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Draw furry porn and do commissions. Even if your art is shit tier you'll still make a pretty penny off of furries

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Muslim family, but not muslim myself
    >ofc they don't know that I don't want to be executed
    >Parents want to marry me off already
    >I dodge every attempt by messing up the interview
    >I don't want a wife or family. It's a big responsibility and I'm not a Muslim so it's not fair on her
    >But, apparently there's this girl that REALLY likes me. Like, she's been super forward and insistent with her family about me.
    >She's fricking adorable too
    I can't believe "cute girl that likes me" is all it takes to make me reconsider this desert cult...

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Mary her then elope to a euro country and convert to Christianity, simple as.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Too many arabs that would consider honor killing apostates in Europe anon.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Eastern Europe is a thing and they don't have arabs there.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous
            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              It makes me feel better to know it sucks over there too, but I also hope we can eliminate the obvious pest problem soon.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              yeah, not our fricking problem, last time we tried getting rid of them we got bombed and they got a new country.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              TND can’t come soon enough. The audacity of these subhumans.

    • 1 month ago
      Scooby

      what is it with muslims getting so defensive about people not being muslim. christians of course can be extreme about it too but less so. are they insecure or just brainwashed?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Because you can't get people to willingly convert to islam. They either have to be forced to or born into it and kept by sheer peer pressure, that's how it works.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Islam has a specific name ane ruling about people who join but then want to leave. It's not about what they want to do, it's simply the law.
        Maybe this doesn't make sense to Christians who seem more "flexible" and choosy on what rules they want to follow, but Muslims are obligated to follow the whole book (or, at the very least, display to their peers that they do even if they're sinners in their private life)

        Because you can't get people to willingly convert to islam. They either have to be forced to or born into it and kept by sheer peer pressure, that's how it works.

        Converts tend to be the most feverently religious, actually. A lot.of muslims go through their religious phase as kids but grow out of it quickly.

        Mary her then elope to a euro country and convert to Christianity, simple as.

        One desert religion or another. Not my thing, man.
        Also, if she doesn't convert we'll be forced to divorce in a Euro country. Muslim countries are WAY more lenient to the man in divorce rulings.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      https://i.imgur.com/KtBJJNm.jpeg

      Islam has a specific name ane ruling about people who join but then want to leave. It's not about what they want to do, it's simply the law.
      Maybe this doesn't make sense to Christians who seem more "flexible" and choosy on what rules they want to follow, but Muslims are obligated to follow the whole book (or, at the very least, display to their peers that they do even if they're sinners in their private life)
      [...]
      Converts tend to be the most feverently religious, actually. A lot.of muslims go through their religious phase as kids but grow out of it quickly.
      [...]
      One desert religion or another. Not my thing, man.
      Also, if she doesn't convert we'll be forced to divorce in a Euro country. Muslim countries are WAY more lenient to the man in divorce rulings.

      Water. I was gonna complain here but I read this guys posts and laughed and forgot all about it. I’m so glad I’m not brown.

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    She’s pretty cute. I’d say a solid 6-7/10 and believe she’s religious which I’d like, but just like being single.
    It did feel good. Said don’t get too big or I’d need to get bigger sweaters

  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Whole bottle of absinth please.

    I don't think I've ever been happy in my entire life. I wish I jad the guts to kill myself.

  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Starting a new job in 2 weeks, I can't wait. I've been doing my current job for more or less 4 years now and I was losing my mind over how boring it was getting. Just need to get me a b***h to spend the summer with and I'll be gucci

  17. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    As a 27 year old man how weird is it to go to a bar alone. My plan is to go there and tell 40 year old milfs they look 25 until I go home with one.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I don't think it's weird. I go to bars alone quite often and I've met a lot of people my around my age (close to 30ish) who do the same. One of my friend also managed to exactly what you're talking about in your post. So go for it

  18. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Genuinely how do you meet women? I'm running myself ragged spending every free moment of mine in clubs (as in hobbies and shit, not bars), making all sorts of friends who could theoretically introduce me to their friends, and yet haven't had any luck with human women.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      It sounds like you already know how to meet women but youre expecting them to throw themselves at you

      You gotta make the move, women cant handle rejection so they never make the first move.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >women cant handle rejection so they never make the first move.
        Disagree. Women "make the first move" all the time.
        It's just that in their mind, "smiling at a guy from across the room while he isn't looking" counts as asking him out, then when he doesn't pick up on that they put him in the "well I didn't want to eat those grapes anyway" pile.

  19. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Had a rock climbing date with a an older black woman who I swear to God looks late 20s-early 30s. She wasn't good climbing but she was incredibly chill. Offering to make me food already, very open and honest communicating, an insurance agent making good money, and absolutely /misc/-tier schizo theories. Change a few words and she pretty much would be into Hyperborea (hates left-wing politics). She smelt like coco butter and while I didn't have sex, we did make out and I learned black women are very good kissers, nice skin to touch, and very sensitive to touch of any kind.

    We have a date planned for the zoo Saturday. It's a white boy summer, IST.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You found a unicorn black woman lol, the mass majority of them are stupid and chronically miserable
      Godspeed to you

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Black girls who date white guys are a lot different, black dating culture is way different and black women who date other races are trying to escape that

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          They can still have a lot of the same issues though. I think that’s why he said unicorn. What most would call “BPD” is just normal for most black women for example.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >What most would call “BPD” is just normal for most black women for example.
            Grim... curiously I have never talked to a black person in my life

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Nah. BPDemons are nothing like queens. I can break up with a black girl not worrying if she'll kill herself. A black girl doesn't have cut wounds. A black girl won't frick all your friends, try to get you fired, and then play innocent. Black women are difficult to do any type of degeneracy (like eating ass); BPDemons would clean your ass after you took a mudslide shit on the toilet.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              Forgot:
              Black girls will make you a man (why so many black men look elsewhere). A BPDemon will swallow your soul and make you never trust a (wo)man for 5 years and put voices in your head

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              >no cut wounds
              >first black Gf
              Forearm full of scars
              >won’t worry about them offing themself
              >3rd Gf threatened to off herself so many times and I’m such elaborate ways I and several friends believed it

              >try to get you fired
              >2nd gf. Would start fights the night before an interview and do anything she could to keep me from sleeping and mess with my head so I’d do poorly

              >play innocent
              I’m not convinced you’ve interacted with any actual black women lmao

              >eating ass
              Lol again, I seriously don’t think you’ve been close or even interacted with them. Totally opposite experience on everything you said.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Sounds like you got a BPDemon. That or you need to get out of the hood, poorgay. If you're about to tell me you were doing hard drugs then lmao@urlyfe

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                >randomly ends it about drugs
                What
                >BPD demon
                What are the odds I met multiple in a row? And no not in the hood.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              Forgot:
              Black girls will make you a man (why so many black men look elsewhere). A BPDemon will swallow your soul and make you never trust a (wo)man for 5 years and put voices in your head

              Big dog you just described BPD women in general of all races. They all act like that.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      How old is she?

      You found a unicorn black woman lol, the mass majority of them are stupid and chronically miserable
      Godspeed to you

      I’ve pretty much only dated black girls and I noticed the only ones with any sense are the ones born no later than the 80s. I broke up with one a month ago, thought she was the one. I really hope I can find one who’s worthwhile and is in her 20s. Kind of torn though I want my kids to look like me and also I’m pretty racist. The racism wouldn’t be a problem if I found one worth while though who could acknowledge the bad shit in black communities and how pathetic it is…

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        47. Yes, I did take the Hagpill.

  20. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Did frick all that I meant to do this weekend. Feel shit about myself. Should I go easy on myself and just start positively tomorrow?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      As long as your more productive than not overall I wouldn't beat yourself up over taking a weekend break.

  21. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >beautiful Sunday
    >Mother’s Day
    >in a house with both my parents
    >tell my mother happy Mother’s Day then spend literally the entire day doing nothing, sitting in my room, sitting on the Internet
    >tomorrow I get to start the week again at a job that also makes me want to kill myself but my self esteem is so nonexistent that I don’t even try anything ever in my life
    Every single passing day I am closer to finally getting the courage to end my life.

  22. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    How the frick do I drain this pimple / massively clogged pore? It’s between my shoulder blades in that spot of my upper back I can’t reach. I’ve managed to get some of the puss out but not much. The whole thing is like half the size of a golf ball and it fricking hurts I can’t even lay on my back and it causes me to haunch over while standing. From what I can tell it has “veins” of puss around it sort of like there’s one main pimple and then there’s a few others that are deeper but connected if that makes sense.

    It fricking hurts. Hot compress didn’t work, it’s just growing each day. Would an urgent care take care of it for me? It’s like one of those freak mode pimples off Dr pimple popper it’s huge.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Take a hammer and tape a nail to the head. Bam. Problem solved

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Bro I’ve considered it. I legit had the thought at one point to sharpen the cat claw side of a hammer and try to stab it or attempt to poke it with something. It hurts so bad.

        My ex and I broke up a few weeks ago, we were talking everyday and we saw each other a few times, she said before that she didn't want anything with me because she knew that if we were in a relationship everything would go to shit very quickly and she's probably right, she said to me a few days ago that she will not talk to me for a week and blocked me from everywhere, I went to her house and told one of my friends to contact her because she had a lot of my shirts that she took with her a while ago, she agreed to come out of her house, her mom was at the entrance, she was weirdly nice, she unblocked me before that and I told her that I needed to talk some stuff with her, she immediatly asked me what it was, then she asked her mom to go away and told me she didn't feel anything for me, I told her that it was ok and that I loved her and she started crying, we talked for a few days and then she blocked me again and said that she didn't want anything with me anymore, kinda hurts

        Man women are just dumb I only have your post a brief scan but that’s it. They’re just dumb and a waste of time. The way you feel for this one you’ll feel for the next 5. You’ll always be capable of loving as deeply and caring about new ones as much as any of them. Find one who acts right who doesn’t have you confused and feeling shitty wondering where you stand one who you don’t even have to question wants you and effortlessly makes you feel valued and respected. One who there’s no question in your mind is the right choice who pushes you to be a better man who has an openness in her willingness to communicate and consider alternative perspectives and outlooks. That one who benefits your life the best is the one who you should feel these ways for. All others don’t give a frick about you and are out for themself and are just a waste of time and in the way of you finding that worthwhile woman.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Not that anon but I needed to hear this, won't be texting her again. Gonna stay focused on myself, thanks.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            No problem.

            T. Same shit as you both broke up recently. Need to stay focused. Need to fix this massive zit on my back….

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I treated her like shit while she treated me with love for months, I verbally abused her, destroyed her self worth, forced her to stay with me just to argue, controlling her in everything, giving her no choice in general, and the list goes on, I really love her and I mistreated her because I was mad

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      That sounds like a cyst. Try to get over to an urgent care to get them to drain it. Don't delay, they can get infected, and it growing isn't a good sign at all.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Anon no s pimply is never ever that big, that is either a cyst or an abscess. Go to the urgent care before it gets into your bloodstream

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        It’s right over my backbone, so I should probably go and have it popped before it paralyzes me if it can go into the blood stream. But yeah I know it’s not a pimple. It’s a clogged pore I think, or abscess or whatever you wanna call it. It fricking hurts. I managed to squeeze more puss out last night before bed and it did slightly go down in size since sleeping after that, but I still can’t lay on back it’s still painful still swollen

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Definitely a cyst, get an MD to clean it out and patch it up.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            https://i.imgur.com/HLaM3Jh.jpeg

            I had something similar a while ago. Ended up using pic related with electrical tape wrapped around the jaws for padding. Was able to get a good grip on the skin around the abcess by reaching over my shoulder and looking back around myself through 2 mirrors. Squeezed it until it exploded with juice all over the mirror. I think there were some nerves in it cause I nearly passed out from the pain when it exploded, but it seems to have done the job since it healed over and hasn't come back since.

            >I think there were some nerves in it cause I nearly passed out from the pain when it exploded
            kek nobody tells you that it will hurt so much, I definitely wasn't expecting that level of pain when my tailbone cyst popped, almost screamed like a b***h

            Yeah, what causes that? I'd say I'm pretty pain resistant, I've fricked myself up pretty badly before and can generally walk off some major injuries. But god damn, when that thing burst I had to hold myself up on the sink to keep from sinking to my knees, it fricking HURT. Do abcesses grow additional nerve receptors or something?

            Frick I got it. Instant relief. It’s flat now. Only some blood and clear liquid coming out. The second one off to the side that’s deeper is still there. No pain btw

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              Hell yeah anon, very nice. Not much you can do about the deep ones. How'd you reach it?

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                I could just barely get my middle finger tip over it and it went past it as far as I could with that finger pushed down as hard as I could in that shitty awkward ROM and dragged my finger down, felt like something poked out (the dry but at the bottom that was plugging it up) did it again with my full strength and that came out.
                It does hurt slightly less however it’s already hurting again and has filled back up, probably with blood and whatever the clear liquid was.
                I’ll see how it’s doing by tomorrow and decide whether I’ll go into a doctor. I can lay down again. Hurts a little but now the pain from laying on my back goes away and is only from initially laying.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              Did you get the inner lining? It’s a membrane that lines the inside, if you do t get that it WILL grow back

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Frick. Idk. Wdym “get” like break it or I have to get it out? Frick I’ll probably be going to a clinic anyways for the other one. This shit sucks idk how this even happens.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Think of it like a balloon, you emptied it but the "balloon" remains inside you ie. you actually need surgery to completely remove it.
                t. had to have surgery to remove a cyst

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Not sure how it happens either, but I’ve been able to just squeeze it out before

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I had something similar a while ago. Ended up using pic related with electrical tape wrapped around the jaws for padding. Was able to get a good grip on the skin around the abcess by reaching over my shoulder and looking back around myself through 2 mirrors. Squeezed it until it exploded with juice all over the mirror. I think there were some nerves in it cause I nearly passed out from the pain when it exploded, but it seems to have done the job since it healed over and hasn't come back since.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >I think there were some nerves in it cause I nearly passed out from the pain when it exploded
            kek nobody tells you that it will hurt so much, I definitely wasn't expecting that level of pain when my tailbone cyst popped, almost screamed like a b***h

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              Yeah, what causes that? I'd say I'm pretty pain resistant, I've fricked myself up pretty badly before and can generally walk off some major injuries. But god damn, when that thing burst I had to hold myself up on the sink to keep from sinking to my knees, it fricking HURT. Do abcesses grow additional nerve receptors or something?

  23. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    My ex and I broke up a few weeks ago, we were talking everyday and we saw each other a few times, she said before that she didn't want anything with me because she knew that if we were in a relationship everything would go to shit very quickly and she's probably right, she said to me a few days ago that she will not talk to me for a week and blocked me from everywhere, I went to her house and told one of my friends to contact her because she had a lot of my shirts that she took with her a while ago, she agreed to come out of her house, her mom was at the entrance, she was weirdly nice, she unblocked me before that and I told her that I needed to talk some stuff with her, she immediatly asked me what it was, then she asked her mom to go away and told me she didn't feel anything for me, I told her that it was ok and that I loved her and she started crying, we talked for a few days and then she blocked me again and said that she didn't want anything with me anymore, kinda hurts

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You will have my time

      Damn, son. You had an opportunity to reset. I had those and missed them while being clueless

      >told me she didn't feel anything for me
      Yet she gives you her time. She still respects you. Its just you are not acting like a seductive man of a prize. There is no chase, no polarity, no attraction. You are like a boring roommate. And you keep chasing her out of your life like a woman:

      >that I loved her and she started crying
      Yeah, because you are guilt tripping her, putting pressure on her and make her feel bad. Women hate that, they run away from that. Thats like dating another woman for them

      You shouldve just numb your emotional attachment, stop chasing, stop pressuring her and pretend in your mind you that you are getting her on a third date. You already know her, but things are still playful, fun, easy, you are chill, you are the seductive man

      I dont love you, sorry! - Well, how about we come to my place right now? I got good white wine in the fridge. We will pretend to be old people on vacation in Caribbean stuck at home during the storm. Then maaaaybe I will let you kiss me like you dont love me, but no promises

      Women are mirrors that reflect your behaviour and they are fun addicts

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >opportunity to reset
        Frick. Nta but frick this was eye opening. Sometimes you post and I think you’re trying way too hard and full of shit, larping even, then there’s posts like this where you’re super eye opening and it just makes sense.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Because whatever I post took me years of reflection and studying, to process and accept. It goes against everything that you know on a newbie level (showering women with gifts, giving certainty, talking problems out, convincing women to change their minds rationally etc etc) and on average level (closure, no contact, attachment styles, family therapy etc etc). Movies, songs, your parents, your friends, women themselves - all of it is a source of delusion forcing you to act in the most wrong way possible

          Honestly, I make these posts as a practice on what would I do in these situations, to keep my worldview clean. For me to stick with the truth. Even when I know all of this, still my male brain occasionally reverts to the pink glassed unicorn ideas like 'How can she be like this, doesnt she see her own cruelty and hypocrisy?' when I know for sure thats an instinct and she cant help it

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I’d say I’m somewhere slightly above a newbie level. I hate the wording because of what it’s become in the last 5-10 years, but “redpilled” if you will. I’m at least aware that the “Disney dream” is bullshit and my happiness needs to come first. Patrice O’Neal has also been a huge help if you’re familiar with him, if not you would enjoy his content there’s hundreds of hours of him from before he passed away.
            >showering women with gifts, giving certainty,
            I do none of that and learned it wasn’t the way at 18 when I first started trying to get laid and I didn’t get very far. Had to unlearn single mothers conditioning. But once I dropped that crap I got pussy like a month later.
            >talking problems out, convincing women to change their minds rationally etc
            I do however try this and I hope you can elaborate on it. Because I’ve learned you can’t change their mind rationally but idk how to do it otherwise. I’m also unsure what you mean by taking problems out
            >average level closure no contact attachment styles
            What is wrong with any of this? I can understand closure being useless but I don’t see why no contact is an issue unless I’ve been lead to misunderstand what no contact is actually for? Does it not mean you no longer want that person in your life so you guys don’t speak anymore?
            I do think attachment styles are legit, different upbringings will cause people to behave differently in their various relationships whether it’s friend family coworker or dating.

            I’m posting this reply to understand deeper btw I’m not attempting to argue or refute anything.
            >How can she be like this, doesnt she see her own cruelty and hypocrisy?' when I know for sure thats an instinct and she cant help it
            This is grim but I understand what you mean. But I guess keeping that in mind, that they just act off instinct, kind of dehumanizes them & lets me think about it more logically. Not feel like a sad homosexual. Not take them as seriously.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              >Patrice O’Neal
              Thanks, will check out

              >you can’t change their mind rationally but idk how to do it otherwise
              Advanced level -
              When you use logic and rationality on women to solve problems, you will always lose. Superiors dont try to use words to convince inferiors. She is looking up to you. So you dont talk it out. You listen to her very carefully, you open her up untill she is spent, then you think and notify her how things are. And you do it with as minimum words as possible. Now she cant lawyer her way out of it, cant pretend to misunderstand it or whatever. If she asks why, tell her because it is so. You are the leader, you heard her fully and you made a decision that is best for both of you, it doesnt require an explanation, its unfathomable

              Super advanced level on talking things out

              You talk things out when there is a problem. You ask what should you do. She tells. You change your actions. Meaning, in her mind, you are pleasing. Instead, you must stop being self absorbed normie and start reading people. She is a little upset, you dont mention it. You let her talk and you very subtly find out that she misses her dead cat. You forget it for a week, then surprise her with a sudden visit to cats cafe. She didnt ask for it. You read her mind. You are irreplaceable, how did you know

              In both cases you are unexplainable, ultimate, larger than life. Theres much more to it, but you get the general idea

              >don’t see why no contact is an issue
              Its a harmful concept to have in your head. Either you need it to heal, which means you got emotionally attached too much, so you are clueless. Or you need it to get her back, so you are clueless to women being done with you when attraction goes below 5 and to the fact that you never ever ever must attraction go below 7. Same with attachment styles, space, rebounds whatever. They are useless concepts to shift blame and or give false hope. Thats how most people use no contact at least

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                This is schizo babbling. Women aren't that complicated. Make it known you won't tolerate moronic behavior day 1 and you don't play a game of Narc Chess. Also, Patrice was a fat Black person who was with a single mom who was a goofy b***h.

                homosexual.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                >Women aren't that complicated. Make it known you won't tolerate moronic behavior day 1 and you don't play a game of Narc Chess

                Wish it was like this. Yet majority of relationships will fail, of those most will be ended by women. If those few will turn into marriage, majority will fail, most of it will be ended by women. Jeff Bezos got divorce raped, Will Smith got cucked, Schwarzenegger got divorced, Tiger Woods got divorced, tell me women are not complicated

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                They aren't complicated, just irrational.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                >When you use logic and rationality on women to solve problems, you will always lose
                Literally my entire experience with that. In short, the convo boils down to
                >me stating reality
                >nuh uh
                Lol. Understood though

                >stop pleasing/talking out
                This also makes sense.
                >no contact to heal
                Yeah I’d say that’s probably correct for me. Get too attached. Idk what other move there is though when her as you say attraction level has dropped too low and I’m emotionally attached and it’s clear the relationship needs to end for my own good and happiness (arguably hers too). Maybe that’s a quitters mindset and you think I should I forcibly detach while staying involved and let things go back. I can initially for a while catch myself catching feels and check myself and do that, but each time it’s worse and harder to notice until I don’t notice and hit the point of no return
                >Patrice
                Biggest takeaway from all his advice for me: My happiness is paramount. Essentially, if the man isn’t happy it’s gonna be very hard for the woman to feel good and satisfied, when we’re happy they are too even with the BS that they bring. He explains it better than that.
                Also on jealousy and fearing losing a woman: how would you feel if you lost your favorite pen? He dumbs it all down but it connects.
                Basically he’s a fat black guy ugly as hell and because of that had to learn how to get girls on extra hard mode. People like bill burr talk about how his “game” was off the charts to the extent he could walk into a bar snap at a random woman for being too loud and 20 minutes later her and her friends would be all over him somehow.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              >This is grim but I understand what you mean. But I guess keeping that in mind, that they just act off instinct, kind of dehumanizes them & lets me think about it more logically. Not feel like a sad homosexual. Not take them as seriously.

              I like you. I passed this stage of thoughts last year. Now I am past it to the idea of:

              I dont care about anything below attraction level of 8, shit tests, disrespect, pull backs, mindgames, cheating etc are instinctual and not personal. Previous guy got it, I got it, next guy will get it. I care about 9 and 10, the love. When I have it I taste it like the rarest wine, however long that lasts. Their femininity, shyness, playfulness, submissiveness and all of it are personal and genuine because I got them there and not many men will get her to 10 and keep her there for months or years. I make them super humane for some time, then the party is over and ots some other lucky woman turn next

              I wonder which next step of this will be

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >I dont love you, sorry! [...]
        I get that you're telling him to be playful but never write a paragraph like that again. The rest of your post is ok, but a bit PUAish.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          You are missing the context

          1) Women are super sensitive to your emotions, mood, confidence, its not a skill for them but a natural ability, they cant turn it off

          2) Women expect you to cry, to use high pitched voice, to beg, to plead, to shake, to bargain, to chase. Or they expect you to be angry, to argue, to shout, to get physical, to say hurtful things. Thats why her mother, another woman, was present. Women had countless experiences like this in their lives. And they talk about it with gfs all the time, so she has way way more relationship experience than you do. At best she expects you to be cold and disappointed

          These two points combined, when you act over the top playful (and it is sincere, it is real) it breaks their minds. Who is this guy? All along I thought I figured him out and disqualified him, and not only he doesnt care, he is having fun with it. Why isnt he heartbroken? Why isnt he mad? Why is he so outrageously cheesy all of a sudden? I want to find out!

          Obviously I wouldnt say that just on a real third date

  24. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i just ate an entire deep dish pizzeria uno frozen pizza, 1600 calories. i was so fricking hungry. i ate a cream cheese bagel for breakfest, that's probably 400 calories and i had a 600 calorie mini pizza for lunch so thats 2600 calories in one day, but according to my apple watch i walked 10 miles and burned 900 calories making my total daily burn 2800 so i am actually net negative on calories, wow far out, i am sooo stuffed rn, about to watch a movie and go to bed

  25. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm babysitting my sis's dogs are they are so fat. Absurdly fat. I wish I can take them from my sis and fix them but I can't take care of 3 dogs

  26. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I feel pretty good most of that time. But there's always that self hate that bubbles to the surface on account of being a 28 year old friendless virgin. I mean there's got to be something horribly wrong with me. Most people just fall into relationship after relationship

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I'd be your friend, you seem sane enough. Life isn't fair, there's probably nothing wrong with you, just shitty circumstances.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      you just have schizoid personality disorder.

  27. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    My dog died last week after getting hit by a car while my fiancee was walking him. He was my IST buddy, we took him on hikes, I walked him 15+ miles a week no matter what, and he liked to hang out and nap in the home gym when I was exercising.
    RIP

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      F

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      are you sure? did your fiancee truly like him? highly sus

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        My fiancee chose him as a pup and babied the dog as a child until the day he died, and was inconsolable for days after the accident
        So yeah I'm very sure she liked the dog

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      F

  28. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Pacifico, please.

    >re-joined Hinge the other day after a couple years away from dating
    >received a few matches so far, all three are attractive and successful, college graduates who work in STEM
    >conversations are relatively dry, a general lack of reciprocation in convos (I'm avoiding yes or no questions, I'm not a complete autist)
    >even though these matches will go nowhere, can't help but feel that there is hope for me
    >remaining optimistic
    >if these women were attracted to me enough to engage in conversation, I must be underrating my appearance/personality
    >understand that it is just a numbers game
    >have confidence that someday I will get a beautiful, caring gf

    A weight has been lifted off of my shoulders, anons. Maybe we're all gonna make it. Getting back in the gym, focusing on improving my mental and physical health, building self-confidence over the past few years is beginning to produce dividends. It may take months for me to make a solid connection, but I'm certain it will happen eventually. I am back on the right track with life. Cheers

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      to piggy back off my previous comment, do any of you know how to avoid the feeling of anxiety when talking to cute women? As an ex-NEET, hat shit continues to frick me up. I might have to run out to grab a beer.

  29. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Life is nearly in a great place but I'm still frickin POOR

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I feel that, anon. I'm also impoverished. It's nice to be in a better mental state, good physical shape, but frick, I wanna get to a place where I'm not cringing at the price of produce. I just wanna buy whatever goddamn fruit I feel like buying.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Yea same anon, I'm getting married in September and still scraping buy with money with the prices of shit isn't feeling good
        I wanna provide for my woman 🙁

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Real shit. Prices just keep going up, it's wild. You'd think it'd plateau eventually, but there's no sign of stopping.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        https://i.imgur.com/rViJXbh.jpeg

        Life is nearly in a great place but I'm still frickin POOR

        I make stupid amounts of money and it won't bring you
        j/k, it's fricking awesome.

  30. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    gout is a piece of shit and today is the most annoying day I could have had a flare! Several planned things ruined because my ass can randomly barely walk because my joint thinks it's funny to just start growing spikes inside it

  31. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >decide to go swimming on Saturday
    >have this pseudo hidden swimming hole that has an entrance ladder and everything, but it's just so far out of the way that people don't come
    >pull up, notice a lifted truck in the parking area
    >cool, I'll have someone to talk to
    >get to swim hole and see a girl in there
    >legit 10/10
    >say hi
    >she responds while clearly very nervous
    >jump into water, it's a cold spring and the best way to get in is all at once
    >hang out by the ladder and strike up a conversation, maybe it'll loosen her nerves
    >she is spooked out of her mind
    >realize that I'm blocking the only way out, the swimming hole is surrounded by steep sand that isn't exactly easy to climb out of
    >do an awkward swim/walk around the outside of the hole in the opposite direction of her
    >try to tell her I don't intend to do anything to her and I just want to enjoy a soak in peace, she very clearly is having none of it
    >circles around the hole along with me, making sure she is as far away from me as possible
    >as soon as she gets to the ladder she climbs it, slips, and busts her shin pretty bad on one of the steps that are out of the water
    >dropping blood into the water and everything
    >move toward her slowly and ask if she's okay, I have a first aid kit in my trunk, etc.
    >she moves like she's in a slasher, screaming and crawling away on the dock until she reaches the stairs where she stands up and sprints to her truck
    >hear it rip down the path away towards civilization
    Cont.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      frick

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        https://i.imgur.com/Fx4dqSm.png

        >sigh and dig her out one last time
        >she very slightly cracks her window, clings to her knife even harder and says "you can take all my money, just please don't touch me"
        >basically sobbing at this point
        >feel a very deep pain that I've never felt before in my life
        >why must God torture me so?
        >tell her I won't ask for any payment and I was just joking, please calm down and I'll have her out in a jiffy
        >in literally 10 feet the sand becomes solid enough that it is figuratively impossible to get stuck
        >start getting her unstuck again, getting really tired of her bullshit
        >she doesn't even let me get the wood under her tires, she just slams on the gas with my head almost under there
        >this ends poorly of course, she just made the rut 2 feet longer
        >get mad and yell at her
        >she points the knife at me through her window
        >realize I can't get anywhere by getting angry
        >apologize for losing my temper, firmly remind her to follow my directions and nothing else
        >she nods very fast and pulls out her phone
        >eventually get her onto the road, I just stop to take a breather and try to regain the calmness I had before all of this
        >the effort is in vain, a friend I promised to meet up with calls me and asks why I'm late
        >regale him with my tale of rejection
        >he just laughs at my misfortune and makes fun of me for being a "shitty fricking rapist"
        >reschedule with buddy and head home
        I've been waiting for the police to come arrest me for attempted rape or sexual assault or something to be honest, I wouldn't put it past her

        >hang out in the water for about an hour
        the little fishies eat dead skin off of me, the bigger ones try to eat my toes, life is good
        >get out and dry off in the sun
        >hop into my truck and start driving home
        >the path to the swimming hole is a one car wide path with some parts that you will get stuck in the sand if you don't know what you're doing
        >about a mile down the path I see that same girl pushing her truck with the rear tires sunk all the way down to the axle because she basically dug herself in
        >lean out of the window and ask if she will accept my help, I can't get home if she doesn't after all
        >she nods slowly
        >tell her to hop into her cab, roll down the window, and follow my instructions
        >I keep a shovel and 2 pieces of wood in my bed for occasions like this
        >get her out of the rut
        >immediately drives off without so much as a thank you
        >while I'm filling her rut back in so I don't get stuck, hear her revving the frick out of her engine
        >she got stuck again
        >she did basically everything wrong, tires turned all the way to the left, slamming on the gas, digging herself in, etc.
        >while I'm helping her again I say "is this truck actually yours?"
        >"It's my boyfriend's and he's 6 foot 6 and he weighs 250 pounds and he does ufc and he beats up guys who touch me and for fun"
        >the truck has a fluffy steering wheel cover
        >get her unstuck again
        >say "I'll have to start charging you if you get stuck again"
        >rinse and repeat, this time with her red lining her engine away from me, flinging sand and shit into my eyes
        >she gets stuck yet again
        >wonder how she made it out there to begin with, she's getting stuck in a lifted truck on a path that I've taken in a corolla
        >walk up to her window and ask her if she wants me to give her advice on how to drive
        >her window is rolled all the way up, she's white as a sheet, and she's clinging to a knife like she's trying to choke it
        Cont once more

        https://i.imgur.com/MhmtKHc.jpeg

        >decide to go swimming on Saturday
        >have this pseudo hidden swimming hole that has an entrance ladder and everything, but it's just so far out of the way that people don't come
        >pull up, notice a lifted truck in the parking area
        >cool, I'll have someone to talk to
        >get to swim hole and see a girl in there
        >legit 10/10
        >say hi
        >she responds while clearly very nervous
        >jump into water, it's a cold spring and the best way to get in is all at once
        >hang out by the ladder and strike up a conversation, maybe it'll loosen her nerves
        >she is spooked out of her mind
        >realize that I'm blocking the only way out, the swimming hole is surrounded by steep sand that isn't exactly easy to climb out of
        >do an awkward swim/walk around the outside of the hole in the opposite direction of her
        >try to tell her I don't intend to do anything to her and I just want to enjoy a soak in peace, she very clearly is having none of it
        >circles around the hole along with me, making sure she is as far away from me as possible
        >as soon as she gets to the ladder she climbs it, slips, and busts her shin pretty bad on one of the steps that are out of the water
        >dropping blood into the water and everything
        >move toward her slowly and ask if she's okay, I have a first aid kit in my trunk, etc.
        >she moves like she's in a slasher, screaming and crawling away on the dock until she reaches the stairs where she stands up and sprints to her truck
        >hear it rip down the path away towards civilization
        Cont.

        Dude if this isnt a LARP youre a complete moron. Like I'm sorry every single fricking interaction she had with you indicated she was terrified of you and would rather have been left alone. Yeah you didnt do anything to be treated like that sure but some women are just like that, I dont know why youd go out of your way to white knight a girl who clearly wanted nothing more than for you to stay far away from her.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Like I said, the path was only one car wide. I couldn't drive around her since we were surrounded by trees, so the only option was to help her if I wanted to get out of there

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Eh, dont let it get you down too bad anon. You did a good thing and your intentions were pure. I know it wasn't an option for you but I would have cursed her the frick out and left after that second time.

            Pulling a knife on someone who has clearly tried to help you multiple times, b***h is moronic.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            No point in worrying about next time, chances are she will never return to the area. But, I second the other guy I would’ve just been swearing at her saying the only one car can get down the road at a time and she’s affectively made sure neither of you can get away now. If she’s so afraid of men then maybe she shouldn’t leave the house by herself. I don’t really think this was your fault, anyone was sense would immediately recognize that if you’re intent was to harm her, you absolutely would’ve by that point. If your intent was to Rob/rape her, why wouldn’t you have done that the first time that she got stuck? She probably told all her friends how she nearly escaped a human trafficker due to sheer luck alone. She’ll probably tell her friends that they should carry knives too, because she’s pretty sure that’s what deterred her attacker. Most women either have absolutely no sense of danger whatsoever, or assume that literally every man is some variety of thief, rapist, human trafficker, or just beats women for fun. My own sisters, accuse men of being sex traffickers just because he went through the drive-through twice in a week. Or because a man-made flirtatious advances towards them.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >hang out in the water for about an hour
      the little fishies eat dead skin off of me, the bigger ones try to eat my toes, life is good
      >get out and dry off in the sun
      >hop into my truck and start driving home
      >the path to the swimming hole is a one car wide path with some parts that you will get stuck in the sand if you don't know what you're doing
      >about a mile down the path I see that same girl pushing her truck with the rear tires sunk all the way down to the axle because she basically dug herself in
      >lean out of the window and ask if she will accept my help, I can't get home if she doesn't after all
      >she nods slowly
      >tell her to hop into her cab, roll down the window, and follow my instructions
      >I keep a shovel and 2 pieces of wood in my bed for occasions like this
      >get her out of the rut
      >immediately drives off without so much as a thank you
      >while I'm filling her rut back in so I don't get stuck, hear her revving the frick out of her engine
      >she got stuck again
      >she did basically everything wrong, tires turned all the way to the left, slamming on the gas, digging herself in, etc.
      >while I'm helping her again I say "is this truck actually yours?"
      >"It's my boyfriend's and he's 6 foot 6 and he weighs 250 pounds and he does ufc and he beats up guys who touch me and for fun"
      >the truck has a fluffy steering wheel cover
      >get her unstuck again
      >say "I'll have to start charging you if you get stuck again"
      >rinse and repeat, this time with her red lining her engine away from me, flinging sand and shit into my eyes
      >she gets stuck yet again
      >wonder how she made it out there to begin with, she's getting stuck in a lifted truck on a path that I've taken in a corolla
      >walk up to her window and ask her if she wants me to give her advice on how to drive
      >her window is rolled all the way up, she's white as a sheet, and she's clinging to a knife like she's trying to choke it
      Cont once more

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Love from Kazakhstan

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >sigh and dig her out one last time
        >she very slightly cracks her window, clings to her knife even harder and says "you can take all my money, just please don't touch me"
        >basically sobbing at this point
        >feel a very deep pain that I've never felt before in my life
        >why must God torture me so?
        >tell her I won't ask for any payment and I was just joking, please calm down and I'll have her out in a jiffy
        >in literally 10 feet the sand becomes solid enough that it is figuratively impossible to get stuck
        >start getting her unstuck again, getting really tired of her bullshit
        >she doesn't even let me get the wood under her tires, she just slams on the gas with my head almost under there
        >this ends poorly of course, she just made the rut 2 feet longer
        >get mad and yell at her
        >she points the knife at me through her window
        >realize I can't get anywhere by getting angry
        >apologize for losing my temper, firmly remind her to follow my directions and nothing else
        >she nods very fast and pulls out her phone
        >eventually get her onto the road, I just stop to take a breather and try to regain the calmness I had before all of this
        >the effort is in vain, a friend I promised to meet up with calls me and asks why I'm late
        >regale him with my tale of rejection
        >he just laughs at my misfortune and makes fun of me for being a "shitty fricking rapist"
        >reschedule with buddy and head home
        I've been waiting for the police to come arrest me for attempted rape or sexual assault or something to be honest, I wouldn't put it past her

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Seriously, and I’m being 100%, post what you look like. Height and weight at least. Why in Gods name was she SO scared of you? I’ve never even heard of a woman so terrified of a man without him making blatant threats or brandishing weapons

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I'm 6ft, 180 pounds though a fair amount of it is fat. I look like your average manual laborer, mainly because I am

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              Good gravy. You dont sound scary, and you sound very white by your typing, that you can swim at all, and that you know that spot. Maybe she’s just a legitimate rape/kidnapping survivor idk but you did nothing wrong

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Absolutely brutal. I truly believe you had no winning move, she was statistically right to be nervous as soon as you showed up and was going to confirmation bias her way into a panic attack no matter what you did from there. Great story.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >help her again
          >YOU CAN HAVE MY MONEY DONT TOUCH ME
          At this point I would have robbed her and if caught said “she literally said I could have it after I helped her I assumed it was payment”. Not even joking the ways she’s acted are fricking absurd and you didn’t do shit wrong anon. In fact you did more than most would have continuing to help this ungrateful b***h. You probably ironically enough saved her from getting raped while she was stuck out in no where.
          >tried to run you over, gets more stuck
          This is the point where if I hadn’t already I’d have just left. She could have killed you if I’m understanding how you described, even if you meant behind the back tire still fricked up could have blinded you.

          I’m sorry bro. I’ve had similar things happen. I’d not get it. Usually nothing like this occurs. Here’s my story
          >at sisters friends Halloween party
          >having fun, it’s all adults I’m the youngest there at 22
          >random group of 16-18 year old loose cat girls no one knows show up to crash party
          >everyone stops and stares and silence is broken by a random “what the frick?”
          >they stare at us awkwardly, leave after 10 minutes
          >40 minutes later step outside for breather
          >all 15 or so are still there just standing out front
          >stare because “what the frick”
          >one turns back
          >shudders and gasps and huddles close with her friends
          >one of the friends looks at me glaringly and says
          >it’s okay I’ll protect you I won’t let him get you
          >high and drunk can’t contain my composure, lean in and start cackling like a maniac because it’s funny, turn back and go inside still laughing to myself
          Some b***hes are delusional some have been raped in the past, I think many get this way (paranoid) while high.
          This is no reflection of you bro you did everything right.

          [...]
          [...]
          [...]
          Dude if this isnt a LARP youre a complete moron. Like I'm sorry every single fricking interaction she had with you indicated she was terrified of you and would rather have been left alone. Yeah you didnt do anything to be treated like that sure but some women are just like that, I dont know why youd go out of your way to white knight a girl who clearly wanted nothing more than for you to stay far away from her.

          Eh, dont let it get you down too bad anon. You did a good thing and your intentions were pure. I know it wasn't an option for you but I would have cursed her the frick out and left after that second time.

          Pulling a knife on someone who has clearly tried to help you multiple times, b***h is moronic.

          No point in worrying about next time, chances are she will never return to the area. But, I second the other guy I would’ve just been swearing at her saying the only one car can get down the road at a time and she’s affectively made sure neither of you can get away now. If she’s so afraid of men then maybe she shouldn’t leave the house by herself. I don’t really think this was your fault, anyone was sense would immediately recognize that if you’re intent was to harm her, you absolutely would’ve by that point. If your intent was to Rob/rape her, why wouldn’t you have done that the first time that she got stuck? She probably told all her friends how she nearly escaped a human trafficker due to sheer luck alone. She’ll probably tell her friends that they should carry knives too, because she’s pretty sure that’s what deterred her attacker. Most women either have absolutely no sense of danger whatsoever, or assume that literally every man is some variety of thief, rapist, human trafficker, or just beats women for fun. My own sisters, accuse men of being sex traffickers just because he went through the drive-through twice in a week. Or because a man-made flirtatious advances towards them.

          Seriously, and I’m being 100%, post what you look like. Height and weight at least. Why in Gods name was she SO scared of you? I’ve never even heard of a woman so terrified of a man without him making blatant threats or brandishing weapons

          You guys just know she’s telling people right now how this creep tried to rape her
          >he kept getting my truck unstuck like a rapist!

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          For the future, if you’re ever in a situation that is outright difficult with a woman, or may escalate to difficulty, record her. If that were me and the whole situation went down at the dock and I saw her truck stranded in the middle of the road, and I knew I had to get her out or I wouldn’t be able to escape either, I would be recording the entire time so that she couldn’t possibly say I raped her. Not to scare you at all, but right now it’s pretty much going to be your word against hers if she, for whatever reason seeks to do something about this. It will be an incredibly attractive woman saying that you raped and beat her, and she will have an injury. she will have damage to her truck and be able say that you threw logs in the road so she couldn’t get away.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >hang out in the water for about an hour
      the little fishies eat dead skin off of me, the bigger ones try to eat my toes, life is good
      >get out and dry off in the sun
      >hop into my truck and start driving home
      >the path to the swimming hole is a one car wide path with some parts that you will get stuck in the sand if you don't know what you're doing
      >about a mile down the path I see that same girl pushing her truck with the rear tires sunk all the way down to the axle because she basically dug herself in
      >lean out of the window and ask if she will accept my help, I can't get home if she doesn't after all
      >she nods slowly
      >tell her to hop into her cab, roll down the window, and follow my instructions
      >I keep a shovel and 2 pieces of wood in my bed for occasions like this
      >get her out of the rut
      >immediately drives off without so much as a thank you
      >while I'm filling her rut back in so I don't get stuck, hear her revving the frick out of her engine
      >she got stuck again
      >she did basically everything wrong, tires turned all the way to the left, slamming on the gas, digging herself in, etc.
      >while I'm helping her again I say "is this truck actually yours?"
      >"It's my boyfriend's and he's 6 foot 6 and he weighs 250 pounds and he does ufc and he beats up guys who touch me and for fun"
      >the truck has a fluffy steering wheel cover
      >get her unstuck again
      >say "I'll have to start charging you if you get stuck again"
      >rinse and repeat, this time with her red lining her engine away from me, flinging sand and shit into my eyes
      >she gets stuck yet again
      >wonder how she made it out there to begin with, she's getting stuck in a lifted truck on a path that I've taken in a corolla
      >walk up to her window and ask her if she wants me to give her advice on how to drive
      >her window is rolled all the way up, she's white as a sheet, and she's clinging to a knife like she's trying to choke it
      Cont once more

      https://i.imgur.com/Fx4dqSm.png

      >sigh and dig her out one last time
      >she very slightly cracks her window, clings to her knife even harder and says "you can take all my money, just please don't touch me"
      >basically sobbing at this point
      >feel a very deep pain that I've never felt before in my life
      >why must God torture me so?
      >tell her I won't ask for any payment and I was just joking, please calm down and I'll have her out in a jiffy
      >in literally 10 feet the sand becomes solid enough that it is figuratively impossible to get stuck
      >start getting her unstuck again, getting really tired of her bullshit
      >she doesn't even let me get the wood under her tires, she just slams on the gas with my head almost under there
      >this ends poorly of course, she just made the rut 2 feet longer
      >get mad and yell at her
      >she points the knife at me through her window
      >realize I can't get anywhere by getting angry
      >apologize for losing my temper, firmly remind her to follow my directions and nothing else
      >she nods very fast and pulls out her phone
      >eventually get her onto the road, I just stop to take a breather and try to regain the calmness I had before all of this
      >the effort is in vain, a friend I promised to meet up with calls me and asks why I'm late
      >regale him with my tale of rejection
      >he just laughs at my misfortune and makes fun of me for being a "shitty fricking rapist"
      >reschedule with buddy and head home
      I've been waiting for the police to come arrest me for attempted rape or sexual assault or something to be honest, I wouldn't put it past her

      >wearing my punisher tshirt, cargo shorts and snapback
      >chewing tobacco as always
      >"well little missus, if this happens again I might just have to ask for some.... *spits large glob of chew* payment"

      On a serious note
      >try to tell her I don't intend to do anything to her and I just want to enjoy a soak in peace, she very clearly is having none of it
      This is what you did wrong, and acting all nervous in general. From her perspective, seeing her swimming all alone the first thing you think about is "doing something to her". The best thing you can do in such situations is pretend this isn't awkard, she isn't afraid and just passively give her the opportunity to flee. Maybe mention you usually come here with your girlfriend or something. What she did is insane and insulting, but you have to remember she is completely at the mercy of what you want to do to her. I can kinda understand why someone would freak out in a situation like that, especially as a woman who constantly gets harassed by men anyway

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Whar
        >go swimming in an extremely isolated area alone
        >a man appears and is very casual
        >he senses I’m uncomfortable and creates space
        >he calmly says he meant no harm
        >I scramble away so hard I moderately injure myself
        >he is slow as if working with a hurt animal and offers me first aid
        >I crawl and eventually run away screaming as if he just threatened rape and brandished a weapon
        >he doesn’t pursue at all and goes about his business
        >get the truck stuck trying to escape this clearly deranged serial torturer
        >get stuck
        >he kindly offers help and explains he can’t leave if I’m blocking the path
        >MyGodThisWasHisPlanAllAlong.jpg
        >he doesn’t harm me and helps me escape, I again full throttle away
        >truck is stuck
        >he’s clearly using advanced psychological warfare, he offers to help me escape again and jokes about it
        >I fling sand in his eyes on my next grand escape and mention a clearly fictitious boyfriend
        >truck stuck again
        >he offers to help again, clearly very intent on slowly torturing me to death over a course of weeks
        >I brandish a knife
        >im sobbing crying
        >I tell him he can have my money I just don’t want him to hurt me
        >he acts confused like he doesn’t know what he’s doing and says he was joking earlier
        >he goes to get the truck unstuck
        >I try to kill him by flooring the gas with his head next to the tire
        >HE DODGES
        >AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA.gif
        >he yells at me I made the truck worse, oh my god this is it
        >he says to only follow his instructions, oh my god this must be a pro woman torturer I’m certain
        >try to call for help
        >NO SIGNAL?!?!
        >he lets me escape
        >I’ve been locked in my closet for 3 days since waiting for him to bust the door down and start breaking my fingers and toes

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >far out away from anyone, just you two
      Understandable for a woman to be sketched by most men in this setting
      >blocking exit
      First bad move, doesn’t seem intentional obviously but she doesn’t know that. Could have gone either way at this point
      >haha I’m not gonna… RAPE you or nothin’ hahahaha I’m not gonna hold you down and buttfrick you on the bank hahaha
      Dude. Why would you say this? At this point you are a creep and guilty in her eyes. I know you meant well and I’ve had my fair share of autistic flops like this so I get it, that was your own nerves. But that was probably the worst thing you could have said other than maybe “ITS TIME” while charging at her.
      >stays far away and opposite from you as you move until she’s at ladder
      >so nervous she slips and hurts herself
      >starts running and screaming as you offer help
      Okay this b***h was 100% high, she had most likely taken an edible or smoked weed before you got there.

      >hang out in the water for about an hour
      the little fishies eat dead skin off of me, the bigger ones try to eat my toes, life is good
      >get out and dry off in the sun
      >hop into my truck and start driving home
      >the path to the swimming hole is a one car wide path with some parts that you will get stuck in the sand if you don't know what you're doing
      >about a mile down the path I see that same girl pushing her truck with the rear tires sunk all the way down to the axle because she basically dug herself in
      >lean out of the window and ask if she will accept my help, I can't get home if she doesn't after all
      >she nods slowly
      >tell her to hop into her cab, roll down the window, and follow my instructions
      >I keep a shovel and 2 pieces of wood in my bed for occasions like this
      >get her out of the rut
      >immediately drives off without so much as a thank you
      >while I'm filling her rut back in so I don't get stuck, hear her revving the frick out of her engine
      >she got stuck again
      >she did basically everything wrong, tires turned all the way to the left, slamming on the gas, digging herself in, etc.
      >while I'm helping her again I say "is this truck actually yours?"
      >"It's my boyfriend's and he's 6 foot 6 and he weighs 250 pounds and he does ufc and he beats up guys who touch me and for fun"
      >the truck has a fluffy steering wheel cover
      >get her unstuck again
      >say "I'll have to start charging you if you get stuck again"
      >rinse and repeat, this time with her red lining her engine away from me, flinging sand and shit into my eyes
      >she gets stuck yet again
      >wonder how she made it out there to begin with, she's getting stuck in a lifted truck on a path that I've taken in a corolla
      >walk up to her window and ask her if she wants me to give her advice on how to drive
      >her window is rolled all the way up, she's white as a sheet, and she's clinging to a knife like she's trying to choke it
      Cont once more

      >accepts help speeds off
      >so scared when she got stuck she floored it and trapped herself worse
      Lol what a dumb b***h. Common sense would tell most that when you said “get in your car and put the window down to follow my instructions” that you were genuinely trying to help. Common sense also says now that she’s out she’s in no danger and can speed off if you tried shit last second while she was in her truck. 100% high and dumb b***h.
      >it’s my boyfriends and he’s a jojo character
      Yeah lol high b***h and like

      Good gravy. You dont sound scary, and you sound very white by your typing, that you can swim at all, and that you know that spot. Maybe she’s just a legitimate rape/kidnapping survivor idk but you did nothing wrong

      said she could also be a rape survivor. I still think she was high too. But if she’s hot like you say she’s probably at minimum used to guys following her around (it’s common for hot girls you’d be surprised) and shit like that if not also raped.
      >speeds off again no thanks
      You’d think after helping her again she’d realize “oh he isn’t trying to rape me he’s helped me twice now” what a dumb b***h
      >want me to teach you how to drive too
      My fricking sides

      https://i.imgur.com/Fx4dqSm.png

      >sigh and dig her out one last time
      >she very slightly cracks her window, clings to her knife even harder and says "you can take all my money, just please don't touch me"
      >basically sobbing at this point
      >feel a very deep pain that I've never felt before in my life
      >why must God torture me so?
      >tell her I won't ask for any payment and I was just joking, please calm down and I'll have her out in a jiffy
      >in literally 10 feet the sand becomes solid enough that it is figuratively impossible to get stuck
      >start getting her unstuck again, getting really tired of her bullshit
      >she doesn't even let me get the wood under her tires, she just slams on the gas with my head almost under there
      >this ends poorly of course, she just made the rut 2 feet longer
      >get mad and yell at her
      >she points the knife at me through her window
      >realize I can't get anywhere by getting angry
      >apologize for losing my temper, firmly remind her to follow my directions and nothing else
      >she nods very fast and pulls out her phone
      >eventually get her onto the road, I just stop to take a breather and try to regain the calmness I had before all of this
      >the effort is in vain, a friend I promised to meet up with calls me and asks why I'm late
      >regale him with my tale of rejection
      >he just laughs at my misfortune and makes fun of me for being a "shitty fricking rapist"
      >reschedule with buddy and head home
      I've been waiting for the police to come arrest me for attempted rape or sexual assault or something to be honest, I wouldn't put it past her

      Cont

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        https://i.imgur.com/MhmtKHc.jpeg

        >decide to go swimming on Saturday
        >have this pseudo hidden swimming hole that has an entrance ladder and everything, but it's just so far out of the way that people don't come
        >pull up, notice a lifted truck in the parking area
        >cool, I'll have someone to talk to
        >get to swim hole and see a girl in there
        >legit 10/10
        >say hi
        >she responds while clearly very nervous
        >jump into water, it's a cold spring and the best way to get in is all at once
        >hang out by the ladder and strike up a conversation, maybe it'll loosen her nerves
        >she is spooked out of her mind
        >realize that I'm blocking the only way out, the swimming hole is surrounded by steep sand that isn't exactly easy to climb out of
        >do an awkward swim/walk around the outside of the hole in the opposite direction of her
        >try to tell her I don't intend to do anything to her and I just want to enjoy a soak in peace, she very clearly is having none of it
        >circles around the hole along with me, making sure she is as far away from me as possible
        >as soon as she gets to the ladder she climbs it, slips, and busts her shin pretty bad on one of the steps that are out of the water
        >dropping blood into the water and everything
        >move toward her slowly and ask if she's okay, I have a first aid kit in my trunk, etc.
        >she moves like she's in a slasher, screaming and crawling away on the dock until she reaches the stairs where she stands up and sprints to her truck
        >hear it rip down the path away towards civilization
        Cont.

        >hang out in the water for about an hour
        the little fishies eat dead skin off of me, the bigger ones try to eat my toes, life is good
        >get out and dry off in the sun
        >hop into my truck and start driving home
        >the path to the swimming hole is a one car wide path with some parts that you will get stuck in the sand if you don't know what you're doing
        >about a mile down the path I see that same girl pushing her truck with the rear tires sunk all the way down to the axle because she basically dug herself in
        >lean out of the window and ask if she will accept my help, I can't get home if she doesn't after all
        >she nods slowly
        >tell her to hop into her cab, roll down the window, and follow my instructions
        >I keep a shovel and 2 pieces of wood in my bed for occasions like this
        >get her out of the rut
        >immediately drives off without so much as a thank you
        >while I'm filling her rut back in so I don't get stuck, hear her revving the frick out of her engine
        >she got stuck again
        >she did basically everything wrong, tires turned all the way to the left, slamming on the gas, digging herself in, etc.
        >while I'm helping her again I say "is this truck actually yours?"
        >"It's my boyfriend's and he's 6 foot 6 and he weighs 250 pounds and he does ufc and he beats up guys who touch me and for fun"
        >the truck has a fluffy steering wheel cover
        >get her unstuck again
        >say "I'll have to start charging you if you get stuck again"
        >rinse and repeat, this time with her red lining her engine away from me, flinging sand and shit into my eyes
        >she gets stuck yet again
        >wonder how she made it out there to begin with, she's getting stuck in a lifted truck on a path that I've taken in a corolla
        >walk up to her window and ask her if she wants me to give her advice on how to drive
        >her window is rolled all the way up, she's white as a sheet, and she's clinging to a knife like she's trying to choke it
        Cont once more

        https://i.imgur.com/Fx4dqSm.png

        >sigh and dig her out one last time
        >she very slightly cracks her window, clings to her knife even harder and says "you can take all my money, just please don't touch me"
        >basically sobbing at this point
        >feel a very deep pain that I've never felt before in my life
        >why must God torture me so?
        >tell her I won't ask for any payment and I was just joking, please calm down and I'll have her out in a jiffy
        >in literally 10 feet the sand becomes solid enough that it is figuratively impossible to get stuck
        >start getting her unstuck again, getting really tired of her bullshit
        >she doesn't even let me get the wood under her tires, she just slams on the gas with my head almost under there
        >this ends poorly of course, she just made the rut 2 feet longer
        >get mad and yell at her
        >she points the knife at me through her window
        >realize I can't get anywhere by getting angry
        >apologize for losing my temper, firmly remind her to follow my directions and nothing else
        >she nods very fast and pulls out her phone
        >eventually get her onto the road, I just stop to take a breather and try to regain the calmness I had before all of this
        >the effort is in vain, a friend I promised to meet up with calls me and asks why I'm late
        >regale him with my tale of rejection
        >he just laughs at my misfortune and makes fun of me for being a "shitty fricking rapist"
        >reschedule with buddy and head home
        I've been waiting for the police to come arrest me for attempted rape or sexual assault or something to be honest, I wouldn't put it past her

        >help her again
        >YOU CAN HAVE MY MONEY DONT TOUCH ME
        At this point I would have robbed her and if caught said “she literally said I could have it after I helped her I assumed it was payment”. Not even joking the ways she’s acted are fricking absurd and you didn’t do shit wrong anon. In fact you did more than most would have continuing to help this ungrateful b***h. You probably ironically enough saved her from getting raped while she was stuck out in no where.
        >tried to run you over, gets more stuck
        This is the point where if I hadn’t already I’d have just left. She could have killed you if I’m understanding how you described, even if you meant behind the back tire still fricked up could have blinded you.

        I’m sorry bro. I’ve had similar things happen. I’d not get it. Usually nothing like this occurs. Here’s my story
        >at sisters friends Halloween party
        >having fun, it’s all adults I’m the youngest there at 22
        >random group of 16-18 year old loose cat girls no one knows show up to crash party
        >everyone stops and stares and silence is broken by a random “what the frick?”
        >they stare at us awkwardly, leave after 10 minutes
        >40 minutes later step outside for breather
        >all 15 or so are still there just standing out front
        >stare because “what the frick”
        >one turns back
        >shudders and gasps and huddles close with her friends
        >one of the friends looks at me glaringly and says
        >it’s okay I’ll protect you I won’t let him get you
        >high and drunk can’t contain my composure, lean in and start cackling like a maniac because it’s funny, turn back and go inside still laughing to myself
        Some b***hes are delusional some have been raped in the past, I think many get this way (paranoid) while high.
        This is no reflection of you bro you did everything right.
        [...]
        [...]
        [...]
        [...]
        You guys just know she’s telling people right now how this creep tried to rape her
        >he kept getting my truck unstuck like a rapist!

        Oh and anon, check the Nextdoor app, and the other neighborhood apps. It’s possible she or a friend of hers or a family member would have posted something if she went home and tried to contact the police. Search up anything related. The area, the lake, your truck style, “creep” etc.

        I doubt she took it that far and simmered her ass down once home and she realized she was actually the weirdo in that, but if not you may be able to see and take action to avoid trouble sooner. I highly doubt that would happen. But it’s possible, her grabbing her phone makes me think she may have filmed you though

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >help her again
        >YOU CAN HAVE MY MONEY DONT TOUCH ME
        At this point I would have robbed her and if caught said “she literally said I could have it after I helped her I assumed it was payment”. Not even joking the ways she’s acted are fricking absurd and you didn’t do shit wrong anon. In fact you did more than most would have continuing to help this ungrateful b***h. You probably ironically enough saved her from getting raped while she was stuck out in no where.
        >tried to run you over, gets more stuck
        This is the point where if I hadn’t already I’d have just left. She could have killed you if I’m understanding how you described, even if you meant behind the back tire still fricked up could have blinded you.

        I’m sorry bro. I’ve had similar things happen. I’d not get it. Usually nothing like this occurs. Here’s my story
        >at sisters friends Halloween party
        >having fun, it’s all adults I’m the youngest there at 22
        >random group of 16-18 year old loose cat girls no one knows show up to crash party
        >everyone stops and stares and silence is broken by a random “what the frick?”
        >they stare at us awkwardly, leave after 10 minutes
        >40 minutes later step outside for breather
        >all 15 or so are still there just standing out front
        >stare because “what the frick”
        >one turns back
        >shudders and gasps and huddles close with her friends
        >one of the friends looks at me glaringly and says
        >it’s okay I’ll protect you I won’t let him get you
        >high and drunk can’t contain my composure, lean in and start cackling like a maniac because it’s funny, turn back and go inside still laughing to myself
        Some b***hes are delusional some have been raped in the past, I think many get this way (paranoid) while high.
        This is no reflection of you bro you did everything right.
        [...]
        [...]
        [...]
        [...]
        You guys just know she’s telling people right now how this creep tried to rape her
        >he kept getting my truck unstuck like a rapist!

        Thank you for the outrageous laughter. I didn’t consider the fact that she could be high, but that fully explains the severe paranoia. Women are strange creature. Like I said, a lot of women have either zero concept of danger and frequently put themselves in its way, or they assume a Man who stops to tie his shoe near them is definitely scoping them out for a kidnapping, in fact, he’s probably planning on raping them for a few days in a basement somewhere before he sells them in a big empty warehouse just like on their murder mystery documentaries. One of my sisters recently acquired a stalker, because she’s about 19 and still extremely wide-eyed about everything and looks like she still 16. The guy is a drifter, known to the authorities for drifting in and out of states, sexually harassing/assaulting, women, and then fleeing. my mom keeps insisting somehow that this is a human trafficker who intends to sell her to the highest bidder. She still walks to work, and my mother told her to stop carrying a knife because it’ll get her raped harder? She genuinely thinks that you should only carry a weapon if you’re extremely proficient with it, because otherwise the man will think it’s a complete bluff, he’ll see you shaky (adrenaline who?) And just grab the knife from you and brutalize you harder than he would’ve if you hadn’t fought back.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          In general one of the most deciding factors for stranger on stranger crime of any kind is looking like an easy victim. Kinda like a barking dog as a home defense. Most dogs are not gonna rip a burglars throat out, but just having a loud annoying obstacle to deal with will deter someone. Similarly if you look like you will put up any kind of struggle most criminals will not target you.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            It definitely also helps to be armed. I’m not a rapist I swear, but if I was I’d be more pissed off by a dumbass alarm keychain flashing a weak strobe light at me.

  32. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    My brothers remember so long as we draw breath we have the opportunity to make the world better for ourselves and those we love.

  33. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    There was a girl at the gym I contemplated cold approaching and asking out today. She had a nice body and cute face with glasses, I liked it. However, I ultimately didn’t partly because she was with a friend and working out with her, but mainly because I’m still not happy with my physique yet and didn’t want to get rejected and feel like shit. I’m about 30lbs from my goal weight but it’s getting really hard being alone for so long. I’m a mega khhcv and I just want to hug a girl that isn’t relate to me.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >khhcv
      caressless?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Kissless, hugless, Hand-holdless, crushless? Virgin?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >khhcv
          caressless?

          I'm thinking cuddle-less which is both tragic and funny

  34. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Grab me a pilsner, barkeep.
    Feeling the blues, bros.
    I've completed my goals I set out for myself, but lost everything in the process and am rebuilding my personal life now.
    I'm alone and isolated because I chose to focus on my career, and while I'm flourishing, the isolation is crushing me.
    Worst part is it's all my fault. I chose to live in a country and pursue a career my fiance disagreed with, and lost her because of it. At the time I was fine with it, because it was up to me and allowed me my freedom, but now that I'm free, I'm a prisoner of my own autism. Never dated a girl other than her, and don't know how to connect with people since I spent the past six years with only her in my life.
    Doesn't help I live in an alien culture and despite speaking the language I don't really understand their social nuances.
    Anyway hit 300 for 1 on bench, so that's got me feeling puffed up.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Nice 300 anon

  35. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >feeling good
    >getting IST
    >been out enough to have new pictures of me
    >redownload tinder and pay for a week
    >3 likes over 3 days

    back to the gym for me

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >match with qt on bumble
      >actually interesting and normal profile
      >immediately messages me and asks a question to start the conversation
      >probably the first time in all of online dating I was genuinely interested in someone
      >never responds to my answer

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I feel that one bro.
        >today
        >match with a qt on hinge
        >conversation flows seamlessly, great rapport
        >she realizes I live in NA, only 45 mins away from her Canadian city
        >"sorry anon, I didn't realize you lived in an entirely different country"
        >she unmatches
        pain.

        10 mins later...
        >somewhat qt chinese animation/graphic design autist responds in broken english
        >she writes a paragraph about relating to animation, how it saved her during hard times, helped her process emotions
        >I notice the notification 30 mins late, respond in an understanding manner
        >Ask about her favorite animated series/movies
        >No response. It's midnight, she's probably going to bed or some shit

        Idk. I only seem to connect with fellow autists. No matter how physically fit I get, I can't outlift my autistic tendencies. I've slowly realized that I'll probably never be happy dating some beautiful normie. Shy, artsy, dating to marry type women are my weakness. God, I hope she doesn't turn me down for being an Americuck.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          iktf
          Problem is if you lift too much the autistic women will be not attracted or intimidated. You can get stuck in some weird hell where you are too chad for the qt autists and too autistic for the stacies

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            yep, no doubt. I've run into that issue, even before I got into lifting. I don't really look like an autist. Proper skincare, decent haircut, good hygiene, competed in a couple extreme sports when I was younger so I've always been somewhat athletic.
            Way too many situations where a stacy was into me, I'd hear about it through the grapevine, then 5 minutes into a conversation they'd notice that my personality/mannerisms don't match my appearance.
            It's truly a curse.
            Thankfully on dating apps I can display my eccentric hobbies in one way or another, to weed out the people looking for complete normies. Subtle references to internet culture, a hint of weeb shit, autist gaming preferences, personal projects, that sort of thing.
            That said, it's still an uphill battle. The cross we must bear.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              >Way too many situations where a stacy was into me, I'd hear about it through the grapevine, then 5 minutes into a conversation they'd notice that my personality/mannerisms don't match my appearance.
              Lmao, yeah I've experienced that as well

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              Yup, I got really lucky when I found my autist wife. she actually did a lot more vetting of me than I did of her because she wanted to be sure that I wasn’t just lying about my interests and hobbies, and that I was exactly who she thought I was. She had experienced similar situations when Chad found her attractive, but he would either ghost once she made her niche hobbies and interests clear and her behavior patterns became more obvious to them, or they would feign interest in her interests and hobbies in a way that she found offensive. She described it as feeling like a novelty, some non-autist men found her very interesting because she reminded them of their moron friend, or their moron brother, but this was also obvious in how they treated her, and she hated that more. Can’t say I ever had that treatment, They would just realize I was a sperg and lose interest.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          problem here ain't you but the woman. Thing is that with women you can have a conversation with you have to maintain it when it's hot. if you stop answering you will not be in her perspective because she got like 4-7 more guys talking to her.

          she not giving you that time is because she gave that time to someone else.

          shit like that happens. no worry, there is more women out there and this is the problem with online dating in general. People start off to become cold.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            yeah, I've run into that on a few occasions over the years. In this case, she replied at 1am or some shit, and we chatted a bit longer.

            Chatted a bit more today. If the vibe seems right, I'll consider asking her out tomorrow if we chat again. I'd rather wait to secure a date, as I can only make it to her area over the weekend. Work and grad school has my schedule maxed out 'til Saturday. Convo isn't anywhere close to becoming dry, thankfully. Been paragraphs back and forth. Interest seems to be mirrored.

            I've been talking to some other matches in the meantime, to keep options open, and keeping expectations low as always.

  36. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    My friends are fake fricks I hate them

  37. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Doing another attempt at staying sober, going pretty well honestly.

    Any other anons have quit recently or passed another milestone?
    Have you replaced alcohol with something else or just rawdog life now?
    Maybe you still drink but it's now rare (1-2 times a month) and manageable?

    Curious.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I recently outright traded booze for shrooms, and I'm having an easier time weaning off the shrooms than the booze. After drinking every night for the last 3 years, I'll be 3 months (alcohol) sober next week.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I'm sober since jan 9th and feel great. Still get cravings imagining how good beer would taste but it's easy to resist. I used to slurp lots of non alcoholic beers but not so much anymore.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        2 years sober here. I feel like everyone who says they feel great must not have been the same type of alcoholic as me. I fell into it in order to overcome social anxiety and loved how I felt like it gave me "power". Power to meet people, get girls, do things I would otherwise have been too uncomfortable with, etc. Since stopping I have predictably become a reclusive, miserable frick. Really thinking I should just go back to being a drunk at least then I lived life. If there is a non-addictive drug that gives alcohol like affects, I sure havent found it.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          > If there is a non-addictive drug that gives alcohol like affects
          confidence build through effort and success

  38. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Does any nerd here know how to trace a VOIP? I got a text last night at 10:50 from an unknown number in Indiana (I don’t live anywhere near there). I looked it up and found out it’s a VOIP from Bandwith dot com. I found a page with the LRM, rate center, it says it’s a “CLEC” (clec LLC) but that’s as far as I got and idk what any of that is.

    I believe it to be one of my exes stalking me but I do not know. They could have sent a 3rd party on this mission. I’m not gonna reply it to. It said
    >happy Mother’s Day. Do you remember me?
    I’d like to find out who it is if at all possible

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Just engage with them for shits and giggles. What's the worst they can do, threaten to harm you?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      No idea, but yeah I’d play along.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      No idea, but yeah I’d play along.

      I already deleted that shit but if they text again I’ll consider. Just texting shoukdnt be enough for them to hack anything if that’s what it is right?
      I did find out the LRN & the LATA code was based in Chicago. Idk if that means anything but if it points to the sender being chicago based I think I can assume it’s some nig trying to phish and scam.

      Anyone who needs to contact me has my number and I have theirs.

  39. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Whisky, neat.

    Each day goes by where I don't know if I can keep together with my girlfriend. We've been together 4 years but every month shit just gets more and more difficult. Petty fights over simple shit, sex is lacking, she's gaining weight, struggling in school, doesn't keep up after herself at home, and can't handle making or maintaining friendships so she's just entirely clingy upon me.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Each day goes by where I don't know if I can keep together with my girlfriend. We've been together 4 years but every month shit just gets more and more difficult. Petty fights over simple shit, sex is lacking, she's gaining weight, struggling in school, doesn't keep up after herself at home, and can't handle making or maintaining friendships so she's just entirely clingy upon me.
      Frick, that's rough. Been there. Never wanna be in that position again. I feel for you anon. Maybe set a date in your head... if shit is still going downhill by X date, break things off. Easier said than done of course.

      Sounds like you've invested a lot of time and effort into this relationship, just be wary of the sunk-cost fallacy. It applies to relationships as well.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah sad thing is, she is pretty much slipping into a NEET and we're about to renew a lease together so I am concerned of having nothing if I leave.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          ahhh damn bro. It can get so complicated when housing is involved. Best of luck with the decision, whichever direction you decide to go. Supporting a NEET financially and emotionally can take quite a toll. I hope she turns things around, for both your future and her's.

  40. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    My girl doesn't reply with "nooo you don't need that you're already good looking" when i tell her about the weight loss progression I'm making which makes me think she always thought I was fat lol

  41. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I have a doctor appointment on Wednesday. I think I have GERD and need help. At 10pm last night, my abdomen felt like it was on fire. I never experienced this before, and I'm fricking scared.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Do you eat late? Like 8 pm onwards?
      What about salty and oily foods?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Sometimes, yeah. But I felt awful all day today, so all I had to eat was a bowl of soup and some crackers at like 5pm

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Relax and manage the pain until the appointment tells you what it really is. Take antacids if you have any and sleep with your head/upper body elevated. GERD isn’t fun but isn’t lethal unless you don’t get it treated. Your mindset is one of the strongest determinants for how effective your treatment and recovery for any illness will be.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >Your mindset is one of the strongest determinants for how effective your treatment and recovery for any illness will be.
        Well then, I'm fricked.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          You will be if you keep thinking like that. Actually, you probably won’t be, you’ll probably be fine and forget it ever happened. But while optimism never guarantees results, it does improve the chances. So why wouldn’t you choose to be optimistic? Because it IS a choice.

  42. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    why did no one ever tell me you need to be a big guy to attract women and that girls hate skinny smol guys
    cucked at school for years not knowing
    why do i train for years but failed to build serious muscle
    why am i a hardgainer i eat nonstop and dont gain weight
    fuuuuck
    anyways
    years have passed but now i try again in serious mode
    actually eating huge amounts
    actually training hard
    actually going for girls

  43. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Completely and utterly constipated and it's making me miserable. I feel like I'm constantly on the verge of needing to take a fat shit but when I go and sit on the toilet nothing comes. What the frick do I do? I gave up coffee and cigs and now I CANNOT SHIT.

  44. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm regularly dreaming about relationship things
    I want a gf so bad bros

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Same. I never really used to care, was way too busy with work and other stuff. Lately though, I haven't been able to stop thinking about relationship shit and it's fricking killing me. I hung out with some old friends recently and all of them seem to be in happy, loving relationships. I'm legitimately happy for them, but the entire time, I felt like a bitter lonely frickup myself. Frick this bullshit man.

  45. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Coffee for me barkeep
    >Have shit experiences with professional employment
    >Take the meme entrepreneur/freelance pill
    >Spend 3 years trying to make freelancing work but it never kicks off
    >Almost in late-late 20s with shitty low paying professional dayjob and only a few freelance projects
    >Dayjob also never gave me a promotion or title change due to israelite autist bosses, though I was made an unofficial supervisor before they fired my team
    >Want to study up and get certs and go to a different area into my field
    >Constantly reminded that any new job will be just as shit if not worse with a longer commute if not a need to relocate
    >Don't want to go back into student debt to finish a bachelor's
    Lads I don't want to be a stale, mediocre dumbass but putting more into the workforce makes me want to vomit. I could quit the jobs and put more time into freelancing and going to industry events to prospect. By all rights, the other freelancers I've talked to said that's what they did, even at an older age, and it was the best thing that ever happened to them, but not sure of what will happen in the future with economy/ai.
    Going to keep throwing my resume at postings at the very least and just hope simple change is what I need.

    Oh,
    at the very least I'm staying thin this year and can see my abs, it's about the little victories.

  46. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >over at my wife's parents for mothers day
    >go swimming in pool
    >5'10 180lb fatass. Lifted in high school for 3 years. 2 months into new lifting journey
    >decide the best way in to the pool is just to use the diving board.
    >mother in law is a boomer who loves filming with I-phone
    >dive into pool while being filmed
    >watch video later
    >see my spare tire jiggling on camera as I bounce on the board.
    >feels bad
    >aesthetic-wise didn't realize I was THAT thick looking. Mirrors are deceiving.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Been there. It’s just more motivation to lose the fat.

  47. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Went back to the apps after six months. Was the same shitshow as ever. I was just thinking it was a waste of time and suddenly I matched with some blonde qt. She's smart and we had a ton of things in common. Funny too, which is rare in a woman. Was also very affectionate, although that made me cautious since I've experience with bpd women and lovebombing. Anyway, we spent hours chatting and setting up a date. The she said she had to go away for a moment and never came back. That was yesterday night. I'll message her tonight if she doesn't reply to my texts by then. If she doesn't answer after that the message is clear. Getting ghosted out of the blue by someone you got along with is rough. God knows how many months it'll take me to meet an interesting woman again.
    Ij other news, my pc parts will hopefully arrive this week and I'll finally be able to start making some money.
    I hope you guys are doing alright.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I'll never understand this, had the same thing happen to me recently. Matched with a super interesting qt on Bumble that started out asking me about some of the weird hobbies I had on my profile. She was engaged and we had great conversations for like 3 days. Good morning and good night messages, the whole nine yards. First time I've ever had something like that in my life and it was the most incredible feeling. When I finally asked if she wanted to go get a coffee or something, she unmatched me. Man, that one got to me.

      I just don't understand how anyone could sink so much time and energy into a conversation that went really well, seemingly show genuine interest, then just rudely dissappear out of the blue. Like frick, I'd rather have a message that says "no, I don't want to go out, frick you" than just getting ghosted. Dating in current year is the fricking worst thing ever.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Few reasons
        Other option she was more interested in gave her chance
        She was never serious and was using you to pass time
        Both of those, or
        She got scared and nervous

        Can be any one or any combo of those. Not really worth the wonder or negative feels imho. If she doesn’t choose you and can’t commit to one option at a time (I’m not playing against anyone if I have to compete I don’t want it), and grow the frick up then she’s not worth your time

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        A couple months ago I started joking with a friend that women operate on a vibes based behavior. Meaning that they'll do things out of the blue just because they feel like it. Yeah, dating nowadays is shit, especially if you have even a single romantic bone in your body. Dunno how many hot women I lost back when I was too respectful to go "girl you want some frick" and start saying sexual shit and objectifying them. Anyway, I'm still running on copium that the blonde qt will message me. Frick, I feel anxious. This sucks.
        By the way, I'm not one for puashit but you seem to be a lot like me and this link some IST anon gave me once helped me put some things into perspective: https://www.woujo.com/blog/2018/4/26/how-to-hold-frame

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Frick, she texted me right after I hit reply. Pray for me anons.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            God has a plan for you anon. We shall see if that is part of it

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              Well, I appreciate the reply. And whatever happens, good luck mate.

              Wish you luck, btw I just got ghosted by someone I went on 2 dates with, hugged and held hands for hours. My advice? Try not to get attached too quickly, just enjoy the date if it happens.
              Also food for thought, if she's making you feel a roller-coaster of emotions and anxiety before even dating her, what do you think will happen during the relationship?

              Amazing. We started talking and after some time she told me she tricks. Then she went back and said it was a joke. Then told me she's a prostitute again. Then told me it's a joke again and changed subjects. I am God's silliest clown.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                my goodness just drop her it's not worth it. youre gonna get double AIDS.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                I feel like I'm going insane. This can't be real. Is this what existence feels like? At least she's a high class prostitute. I suppose that's something. God dammit. Don't worry, I'm not planning on fricking a literal prostitute.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                I think I might actually have a psychotic break if I tried to use dating apps in 2024.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Believe it or not, there are some men in this very thread that would probably call you a b***h for not wanting to get a freebie from a good looking hooker. Good on you for having self-respect though

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Good on you anon. Unfortunate that she is what she is, but someday God will put the right woman for you in your path. Just know that you will still have to grasp for her as she won’t land in your lap

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Well, I appreciate the reply. And whatever happens, good luck mate.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Wish you luck, btw I just got ghosted by someone I went on 2 dates with, hugged and held hands for hours. My advice? Try not to get attached too quickly, just enjoy the date if it happens.
            Also food for thought, if she's making you feel a roller-coaster of emotions and anxiety before even dating her, what do you think will happen during the relationship?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I'll never understand this, had the same thing happen to me recently. Matched with a super interesting qt on Bumble that started out asking me about some of the weird hobbies I had on my profile. She was engaged and we had great conversations for like 3 days. Good morning and good night messages, the whole nine yards. First time I've ever had something like that in my life and it was the most incredible feeling. When I finally asked if she wanted to go get a coffee or something, she unmatched me. Man, that one got to me.

      I just don't understand how anyone could sink so much time and energy into a conversation that went really well, seemingly show genuine interest, then just rudely dissappear out of the blue. Like frick, I'd rather have a message that says "no, I don't want to go out, frick you" than just getting ghosted. Dating in current year is the fricking worst thing ever.

      I second

      Few reasons
      Other option she was more interested in gave her chance
      She was never serious and was using you to pass time
      Both of those, or
      She got scared and nervous

      Can be any one or any combo of those. Not really worth the wonder or negative feels imho. If she doesn’t choose you and can’t commit to one option at a time (I’m not playing against anyone if I have to compete I don’t want it), and grow the frick up then she’s not worth your time

      she probably found someone more interesting/more attractive to her taste.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I'll never understand this, had the same thing happen to me recently. Matched with a super interesting qt on Bumble that started out asking me about some of the weird hobbies I had on my profile. She was engaged and we had great conversations for like 3 days. Good morning and good night messages, the whole nine yards. First time I've ever had something like that in my life and it was the most incredible feeling. When I finally asked if she wanted to go get a coffee or something, she unmatched me. Man, that one got to me.

      I just don't understand how anyone could sink so much time and energy into a conversation that went really well, seemingly show genuine interest, then just rudely dissappear out of the blue. Like frick, I'd rather have a message that says "no, I don't want to go out, frick you" than just getting ghosted. Dating in current year is the fricking worst thing ever.

      They don't want to date, these girls just want attention and validation and there's always some desperate dude on dating apps who's dying to give it to them. Stop giving them the free attention and validation that they crave. Stop wasting your time on these apps and giving these companies who are actively working to milk every cent they can out of you.

  48. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Crisis over, wife is not having an ectopic miscarriage or pregnancy. Doc thinks it’s just a ruptured cyst or a hormonal shift, no cause for him concern. This has made us start thinking a lot more about more babies though, she wants to be at a body fat of 18% first and be in the best condition she can for the best recovery. I want to get our finances rock solid which includes deciding on a place to settle for the next few years at least. I hate a lot of aspects of my job, like it requiring my to work near major cities, but I like the actual work, so it is what it is.

  49. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >What's bothering you?
    Still haven't managed to get a girlfriend or at least a friend with benefits...
    Anons, what are your honest opinions/thoughts of serenading random pretty girls with a guitar on campus and at parks?
    I'm legit fricking tired of being single and online dating hasn't been working for me.
    These are the only recordings I have on my current phone: : https://vocaroo.com/1aBYNJpI1WMr, https://vocaroo.com/14Yndhd0oFQJ
    Serenading random pretty women at the places I mentioned: good or bad idea?
    >How was your week?
    It was okay, just went to the gym again and spent some time with family.

  50. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >be me
    >get one of those fancy VR headset things recently
    >go to play VR chat
    >some guy (probably a fat sweaty nerd) in a curvy woman avatar with skimpy clothes gets all up close to me
    >raging boner + heart rate goes up
    I need to touch a woman in real life so fricking badly bros, goddammit.

  51. 1 month ago
    Cecil "CHAD BALDWIN" Drake

    Working out in my docs, yay or nay?

  52. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It's been over a year and I'm still too much of a pussy to even talk to my gym crush. Not a single word was uttered between us. Maybe it's not meant to be.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Get it over as soon as possible, you're only torturing yourself by delaying it. I had a gym crush, felt we had chemistry, asked her out and she gave me her insta.
      Then she rejected me in a very honest and respectful manner which was kinda nice, complimented my smile and we each went our own ways while remaining acquaintances. Afterwards I realized I didn't even like her, I was just horny.
      The lesson? Follow through, don't be a coward.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I'm trying to for mostly this reason. I don't see myself being in a relationship with anyone at this point, but I'm crushing hard. She's cute. Any tips on approaching her?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          step 1- stop crushing on spandexed gym thots

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I mean she rejected me afterwards, but if you're talking about how to ask her out what happened was:

          Since she's very attractive she had a lot of "orbiters" ie. guys hanging around her, some of them talk to her or say hi or goodbye when they leave, what I did was wait till those gays left.
          Did my workout near her and she asked me to spot her front squat (lol).
          After her set I literally just said if she wanted to go grab coffee or something and she physically gave me her phone so I could add myself on her insta.

          I think I had a real shot but she had second thoughts afterwards because she was probably fricking the gym coach. It wasn't a cold approach, we went to the same boxing class so we had already built rapport and joked a bit.

          basically:
          >build rapport, if she's receptive and laughs and shit proceed to step 2 if not bail before you get banned from the gym
          >literally just ask her out, don't ask for her number (if she says yes she'll give you her number herself to set up the date)

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            a quick tip, if you need courage just do it after a hard set while you're still in that delirious oxygen deprived state, you literally won't have energy to give it a second thought, just do it like a 1-rep max

  53. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >supposed to go to Shanghai with work buddy
    >hybrid 4days work 10 days vacation
    >download china tinder
    >100+ matches in a few days
    >wechat IDs chatting setting up dates
    >broke collarbone just the day before flight
    Now i am in the hospital waiting for surgery. Recovery time 4-6 weeks no gym. Can not reschedule for Shanghai. Calling off all the cuties hurts more than the physical pain.

    I really needed that vacation cause i am depressed as frick and that was literally the only thing keeping me going the past 4 month.

  54. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Shitting and pooping as I type this
    I am audibly grunting with pain because I ate spicy food last night. My ass is on fire. I hate spicy food. Thanks for reading my blog.

  55. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Spending big tonight, break out the Bowmore 25.

    My girlfriend and I are currently stuck at the libido mismatch impasse and I don't know how to handle it. Breaking up isn't an option to me but being rejected constantly feels so fricking bad and I'm so attracted to her that if I'm trying not to think about sex it feels like I can't even look at her. Trying to figure out if jerking off twice a day to keep my sex drive artificially low is an option but I really hate the thought of that. The conversation about this issue online is unbelievably depressing, too, it makes it seem like the options are break up or just be miserable forever and slowly grow to hate her. She has migraines all the time, which I am very understanding of. I have been incredibly patient and tried very hard not to make her feel guilty about that because obviously it's not her fault at all, but now it seems like this is going to be an issue even if her migraines get better and I don't know how I'm going to cope with that. Selfishly, I feel like I've done everything right, I've been the perfect partner, she should just do this for me, but that's not productive or fair. If she could flip a switch and want more sex I know she would.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Trying to figure out if jerking off twice a day to keep my sex drive artificially low is an option but I really hate the thought of that.
      get used to it or look for someone on the side. harsh truth, the longer you are together the worse it gets. love my wife but hate her for that reason. she is fine with me fricking around but that makes it even worse.
      idk, change partner every 5years is probably the best solution

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >the longer you are together the worse it gets
        This is what really worries me, but I absolutely cannot accept finding someone else as a solution. She is my world. We've been friends so long and every other aspect of our relationship is exactly what I want, so she is really the one non-negotiable thing I'm trying to work around.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          have fun being miserable for the next 5 years till you explode. Ever day a little bit of the relationship will fade, you will notice things you tolerated before that are going to annoy you, then it seems better cause she can get her sit together for a week straight and then it slowly starts over again Then you think maybe that will help, or this will make it better but it wont. she will get even more defensive.
          better end it now on rather good terms than starting to hate her

          >tfw not sure if talking about my relationship or not

          dont get married, makes it even worse

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Remember this, she will break up with you sooner or later, she will make up some reason to justify it in her mind. Cut your losses.

            Doomer replies not welcome. I understand the possible outcomes and am determined to avoid them. I will restructure other parts of my life to make this relationship work if I need to because it is simply the most important thing to me.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              Godspeed, you have been warned.

              i genuinely hope it will work out for you

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                I was not trying to be malicious, it was merely a warning. I do hope it works for you, it didn't for me. Good luck.

                Alright, then I'm sorry for being hostile. Thank you for the warnings and the good wishes. I'm going to do the best I can.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              I was not trying to be malicious, it was merely a warning. I do hope it works for you, it didn't for me. Good luck.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >libido mismatch
      It's awful, isn't it? Mine is only down for it at the end and at the beginning of her cycle. Average: once a month. She said she acknowledge there's not enough sex between us but won't initiate, ever. I have to read her mind and not miss any clue if I want a poor short frick because I don't frick often enough to last longer. Which is none of her concern because I stay hard post nut. Meanwhile she's done for the month after that. If I jerk off after being rejected it puts me in a bad mood which is often the root of fights. I'm fed up with the situation to the point I'm considering getting overtly flirty with attractive members of the opposite sex in her presence, just to remind her I have options.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        It really is terrible, and frankly you have it worse than I do so I feel like I can't even complain but my self-esteem is destroyed. I feel so repulsive while ironically, I am by far the most attractive to women I have ever been. If I just wanted sex I could have as much as I want or find another partner very easily (especially where I live now) but I don't want anyone else. It's not like it doesn't wear on her, too. She hates rejecting me and feels like she's ruining our relationship by being selfish, and the fact that I'm such a catch on paper is making her very insecure. Being "enough" for me has always been a concern for her and I hate that. The problem is just that I can't get "enough" OF her.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Remember this, she will break up with you sooner or later, she will make up some reason to justify it in her mind. Cut your losses.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >I'm such a catch on paper is making her very insecure. Being "enough" for me has always been a concern for her
          This woman logic will never make sense to me especially when you actively want her

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        It really is terrible, and frankly you have it worse than I do so I feel like I can't even complain but my self-esteem is destroyed. I feel so repulsive while ironically, I am by far the most attractive to women I have ever been. If I just wanted sex I could have as much as I want or find another partner very easily (especially where I live now) but I don't want anyone else. It's not like it doesn't wear on her, too. She hates rejecting me and feels like she's ruining our relationship by being selfish, and the fact that I'm such a catch on paper is making her very insecure. Being "enough" for me has always been a concern for her and I hate that. The problem is just that I can't get "enough" OF her.

        >Now don’t get me wrong, I know that you CARE about me, but you just seem to see me as a friend. I’m always trying to have sex with you because I’m genuinely attracted to you, and I love you. You seem to love me like your kid brother. I’m not interested in that. I want a wife.
        It may also still benefit you to ask what it is that she wants, if this is just because you don’t go on enough dates, because you don’t show her enough attention, because you don’t help enough with chores or some nonsense like that. If it is hormonal, then just leave. You’ll only get children out of her if you’re very lucky, but there’s no fixing it. Birth control will only make it worse, and she’s probably not interested in fixing it or she would’ve tried by now.
        There was a point in time where my wife and I were at odds sexually, and I could not for the life of me understand why. Eventually, I had enough and just confronted her like this, which obviously got an emotional response from her and she said that she just felt insecure, She felt as if she wasn’t performing good enough for me and she was insecure because of it, that she wasn’t physically attractive enough for me because I didn’t touch her all over during sex or foreplay. Solution came pretty simple, I just make sure to touch every possible bit of skin that I can during foreplay sex, I’m much more physically affectionate throughout the day (hugs, more kissing, longer kissing, grabbing her hips when I walk by), I give direct encouragement and direction during sex and try to be engaging with her.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I'm going to try to figure out what she wants. Part of the problem is that she was very inexperienced when we started dating and doesn't know her own sexuality very well because she mostly just follows my lead.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Even having had somewhat loose GFs, sex initiation is still rare after the first year or two together. Its pretty much inevitable that its going to fall on you. The real problem is if she makes a habit out of spurning your advances. In that case I recommend withdrawing attention from her. In general, men want sex and women want attention. If a man gets sex without giving attention he is winning and the girl is a hoe. If a girl gets attention without giving sex then she is winning and the guy is a chump. You need to insist on some semblance of equivalent exchange. Do not do this explicitly and inform her about it though, women can't handle logic and shit.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Then you might have a very similar problem: she’s not sure what to do, she’s not sure if she’s doing what you want her to do, she’s not sure if she’s actually good enough for you. Just try giving as much praise and positive attention surrounding sex as you possibly can. This may be enough. I’ll agree with

            Even having had somewhat loose GFs, sex initiation is still rare after the first year or two together. Its pretty much inevitable that its going to fall on you. The real problem is if she makes a habit out of spurning your advances. In that case I recommend withdrawing attention from her. In general, men want sex and women want attention. If a man gets sex without giving attention he is winning and the girl is a hoe. If a girl gets attention without giving sex then she is winning and the guy is a chump. You need to insist on some semblance of equivalent exchange. Do not do this explicitly and inform her about it though, women can't handle logic and shit.

            that women absolutely love attention and validation, but its not a good idea to fully withdraw this unless You try your best to have your direct “what do you want from me” heart to heart and she just tries crying and manipulating you saying that if you really love her than sex wouldn’t matter. A big problem when it comes to lack of sex can be a chicken and egg cycle. She says that she doesn’t want to have sex with you because you aren’t romantic, you aren’t doing chores for her or taking her out on dates, and you say you don’t want to do romantic things or take her out on dates or do chores because she isn’t even having sex with you or paying any attention at all. She screams right back at you that she would do those things, if you stepped up first. Sometimes, women will say this is the problem just because they want to milk everything they can out of him. That said, if she seems to just be extremely insecure when it comes to sex, the last thing you should do is cut off all attention. She will immediately assume that she has been right this whole time, and that she is not sexually satisfying you, that she is not good enough for you, and that you’re already checking out so she had better get with the program and find someone new quickly.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              This makes sense to me. I'll have a real talk with her and maybe try to be more romantic and pay more attention to her overall. I know it's not about anything silly like chores, and whenever this comes up she gets sad and starts talking about how I deserve better so whatever I'm not doing, she clearly doesn't even know she wants it. If I withheld attention she would blame herself for that, too. Appreciate all the replies, it helps a lot to talk it out a bit with other guys.

  56. 1 month ago
    Cecil "CHAD BALDWIN" Drake

    I can't believe I've got the scrot rot again. Gyms are disgusting places.

  57. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Oldgay returning to IST again. I was a gymcel back in college and posted here daily. I have since gotten out of shape, and I need to get back into it. I feel like I am developing sleep apnea and just having a lot of problems getting a restful nights sleep. I plan to lose 40 pounds and get back to my fighting weight. I really can't be bothered to get back to lifiting but I'm scared of how much I will look like shit once I have lost the weight if I don't also lift. Always been naturally on the muscular side so I might be alright.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Welcome back bro

  58. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Probably too late for this but I'll still ask - how does one meet new, high-quality people? Either for befriending or dating, I don't care that much.
    The guys at work are nice but not exactly my cup of tea, I don't go to a gym (working out outside) and don't have any hobby. Developing one just to meet people sounds cringe, but maybe if it's cool might try.
    Soon I might have some free time on the weekend and I don't want to be this sad person staying at home every Friday. Plus, I do miss nice convos and intellectual stimulation

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Soon I might have some free time on the weekend and I don't want to be this sad person staying at home every Friday.
      whats wrong with that?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >whats wrong with that?
        unironically this. I used to be the kind of high-functioning autist that would have massive FOMO literally every day. until I went out of my way to meet people, go out and do "fun activities" that the normies were constantly talking about. turns out I legitimately don't have anything in common with most people and 95% of what "normies" (at least college aged) find fun involves getting shitfaced or getting high, both things that I don't enjoy. I did the social grind for almost 6 months before I was completely devoid of any FOMO and now I can stay home, study and play vidya in peace and occasionally go to a legit restaurant with my 2-3 real friends instead of going to nightclubs that reek of piss and vomit every weekend drinking myself into a coma and grinding on bawds

        "going out" or "being social" just isn't for everyone and that's completely ok

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Same shit. I spent ages 19-26 doing that stuff. Never really enjoyed it. Made some memories, had some occasional fun. But normally I hated it and it drained my energy. I prefer to be alone tbqh. If I meet buddies who are into the same shit as me I may occasionally wanna do that stuff with them, but I’d still prefer to hang out alone. Since I stopped doing that crap my depression and anxiety has dropped way down and I’ve started to become much more productive and happier again.

          Only thing is pussy is way easier to get when you’re socializing and hanging with friends often.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Not very much, I can handle it with grace, but will still feel like missing out.
        Problem is I'm only half schizoid. I don't enjoy most people's company that much, nor small talk or empty convos about tv shows and such. But arguments with people that can really answer are fun, and so is being in a comfy group. I just wish I'd be able to click with more people, or more easily.

        I think you are on the right track, developing a hobby just to make friends is cringe and gay. I think you should ditch some of your notions about what a "high quality" person is. Society is not really that good at sorting people by intelligence and you can absolutely find someone who is a joy to have conversations with who works at mcdonalds or whatever.

        I recommend just going to a bar. Sit down and drink until talking to people doesn't seem like a weird thing to do. Becoming a regular at a bar will instantly confer pseudo-friendship with the staff there. I once moved to a city and was able to get a social circle going through this method. Became friends with a bar tender who then introduced me to other people, so on and so fourth. If you can't make friends with people at a bar where everyone is friendly and socially lubricated then perhaps you have an underlying autism issue which will necessitate more drastic measures.

        Maybe you're right, am too condescending. It's not about the social status, most people are just a bore.
        >which will necessitate more drastic measures
        Such as?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I think you are on the right track, developing a hobby just to make friends is cringe and gay. I think you should ditch some of your notions about what a "high quality" person is. Society is not really that good at sorting people by intelligence and you can absolutely find someone who is a joy to have conversations with who works at mcdonalds or whatever.

      I recommend just going to a bar. Sit down and drink until talking to people doesn't seem like a weird thing to do. Becoming a regular at a bar will instantly confer pseudo-friendship with the staff there. I once moved to a city and was able to get a social circle going through this method. Became friends with a bar tender who then introduced me to other people, so on and so fourth. If you can't make friends with people at a bar where everyone is friendly and socially lubricated then perhaps you have an underlying autism issue which will necessitate more drastic measures.

  59. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    working out, gooning and just chilling are the only things that I still find enjoyable... the sad part is I am 37.

  60. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    realized that my horniness might have ruined my relationship. gf more or less pressured me into a threesome when we were visiting her best friend a few months ago. I realized the implications and initially denied it, but after a few days of no sex (small apartment and no private time) and being around two hotties all day my hormones were going crazy and I gave in. turns out threesomes are NOT AT ALL what they're cracked up to be, it was super awkward because we weren't "in tune" with each other, the friend wasn't nearly as hot naked as I imagined her dressed and post-nut regret set in instantly.

    plus, realized over the past few days that since then we've been fighting over miniscule shit almost every day (literally never fought before) and she doesn't really kiss me anymore at all (even though we still have sex very frequently). asked her about it yesterday and she explained that whenever she kisses me now she has this mental image of me making out with her friend whereas before she always got taken back to our first kiss. said she deeply regrets doing it and that she should've listened to me instead of pressuring me.

    I don't think she'll break up with me or cheat on me as our relationship is still objectively "ok", but it just doesn't feel the same. the unreal bond I had with her / "the spark" is gone. she was the first girl I could stand being around without getting annoyed by their weird antics constantly.

    shit sucks. tl;dr don't be a degenerate if you have a relationship that's worth anything to you.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You have a 20% survival chance big dog. She quite literally told you to your face that she feels cheated on, and every time she sees you all she sees is you kissing and having sex with another woman, she feels cucked. You literally cucked her. She can probably never be friends with that woman again, because she’s always going to think about how she stole you. I wouldn’t say it’s your fault, it’s her fault. serious is red flags if your woman wants to have sex outside of the relationship anyway.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah I was just going to say that, if she is cool with gambling with the relationship like that then nothing of value was lost, shit was never going to last anyway. At least he got a novel experience out of it.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah I was just going to say that, if she is cool with gambling with the relationship like that then nothing of value was lost, shit was never going to last anyway. At least he got a novel experience out of it.

        Doesn't make a difference to the situation at hand, but on a bigger scale, I think a lot of otherwise normal healthy women are so bombarded by constant hypersexuality and polyamory stuff that they start to believe they want it then find out the hard way that they don't. I genuinely feel bad for them.

  61. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >lean, 4 -6 pack, bicep veins, broad shoulders
    >32
    >girls 30+ don't put much emphasis on my body
    >18-24 year old love lean dilf body
    this sucks, older girls are much more meaningful but they don't hype me up nearly as much as the younger ones.

  62. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I wish I could stop caring about what people think of me. It has gotten better with age and I know rationally is doesn't fricking matter, but I still subconsciously obsess over it.

    On a related note, I often find myself not doing things simply because I feel like I shouldn't. Not for any good reasons, just because it is not how I previously did things or not how other people do it or whatever made up bullshit I come with. It's like I'm stuck dancing to some imaginary script for my life.
    Like last friday when I heard the northern lights were visible it was 12pm and I was about to go to sleep. I was sad I wasn't able to see them and suddenly realized there is no fricking reason for me not to jump into my car and drive out to a field right now. It's a minor thing, but it's bizarre how my immediate reaction to situations is not doing what I want, but trying to stick to "the plan". I feel like this might be the case for a lot of people here.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Did you end up seeing the northern lights?

  63. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I can't get a girl out of my head and it's really not healthy. She's only really started talking to me recently even though I've been working this job for like 9 months now. Don't know why she started talking to me all of a sudden but I find myself being a little less uptight or autistic around her compared to other attractive women I work with. I could be having the shittiest day possible and she gives me a big smile and suddenly I'm fine.

    My autistic ass can't tell if this new found attention is just being friendly or something more. I should get "if you want to ask me out for coffee or something just say so because I'm a dumb son of b***h".

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You have a crush. Ask her out. Worst case scenario she's not interested and you can forget about it.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Haha yeah ask her out, good one anon. Got a better chance of being hit by a car than that ever happening.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          The latest advice online is "do it scared." Doesn't matter how it feels, pilot your body like a mech and make your mouth form the words while you freak out internally.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Nah I think I'll just leave her alone and hope she goes back to ignoring my ass instead of coming over to chat and sneaking up on me to try and offer me mints or talking about my goddamn hair. I'm a walking cringe machine so I'd probably find some way to botch even asking her anything.

            On the plus side I must be making some look gains because I got caught red handed checking out a chick's ass the other day and she just smiled at me instead of looking mortified.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              If you don't do things that scare you you'll be the same forever.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Yes but I'm safe, I can't get hurt any worse and my life will have one less embarrassing moment in it.

                Why'd she have to start talking to me out of the blue? I'd been there 8 months and hadn't thought anything of her besides "wow she's cute" and "that is a really nice ass".

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                >Yes but I'm safe
                That isn't better. Believe me now or believe me later.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Alright but I'm going to let it simmer for a little while, just to see if I actually pick up on any of the supposed "signals" women like to use.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Women's interest is very fickle, strike while the iron is hot.
                Here's my advice, when she comes talk to her try to make her laugh, if she's attracted to you she'll laugh at almost anything (just don't be moronic and do something like memorize a joke, try to be witty).
                After she laughs literally say "Wanna get coffee sometime?". That's 4 words, don't ask for her number or anything like that, just say those 4 words. Thank me later.

  64. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I've lost most of the weight I've gained since January. This started around the end of march, because i stopped meal prepping since i got too used to my mom cooking (she eventually stopped). This made it so the consistent 800-1100 calories i got from dinner, aren't there anymore. So on most days after that, i must've gone to bed with only around 2000cal (I need 2700 to gain 0,5kg per week). But i wanted to get my shit together again (not just in my diet and gym, but also taking college and work more seriously). Today, I didn't go to college because I felt like i was gonna fail my small weekpy exam anyway since I didn't study, but I did buy rice and meat yesterday, ajd put the meat in water this morning. This forced me to cook today, sicne otherwise it'd just be a waste. Now, I finally have consistent dinner for the rest of the week. My dinner + my afternoon proteinshake = already about 1900-2000 calories, so just having breakfast in addition (~500), will put my nearly at my target. I felt good about finally cooking again. I'm gonna start from the beginning again, and see if I can still reach 70kg by December (right now I'm 54,5kg, i was 57 at my max)

  65. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I try to bond with my coworkers, people outside of work, etc. but struggle to form friendships. I am afraid to ask any women out. Its like I'm missing key social skills. No one at work goes out of their way to really socialize with me either, I know I'm kinda boring and we have some divergent interests but its like I'm shadow banned irl. Maybe I have autism, maybe I'm just moronic, but why can't I make close friends? I don't even know what the process is like. I know its not my hygiene, and I know its not because I'm a negative or mean person when I'm usually very nice/kind I just struggle. Anyone else go through this and/or have any advice. I am 26 btw, work full time make good money but just rotate between work, home, and the gym.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      it's schizoid personality disorder. i used to think i had autism but i noticed people with autism have shitty taste and also sometimes end up relationships with other people with shitty taste and bad social skills. then i read about schizoid personality disorder and i was like now THAT'S what i have! this autistic chick at my work announced she's marrying some chick and i was like what a fricking NORMIE gtf out of here with that shit, getting married, frick off.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I figure I have it but I hate to throw the word around on here as everyone uses it. I want to change though, I've been alone and been content alone and now I don't want to be alone

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >its like I'm shadow banned irl
      dude that's a great way to describe it, I'm feeling exactly the same way. unironically though, it's quite likely that it's not (entirely) your fault because society is just fricked now.
      >be me, at some work "party"
      >"party" meaning it's a bunch of people awkwardly standing around in a parking lot for an hour with a trashy boom box and some donuts
      >realize I don't really know anybody there despite working at the company for almost 2 years
      >decide to be social
      >see coworker wearing an eccentric dress shirt
      >walk over to him and say "yo, cool shirt bro"
      >he just stares at me for 3 seconds and then walks away
      >turn around to see other people giving me the blank fluoride stare

      people have become utter fricking zombies over the pandemic. the social media / TV brainrot was worse enough before but going into social isolation for 2 years has completely destroyed whatever social spark was left.

      don't sweat it. autists like you and me were the only ones who weren't affected by the isolation. the tables have turned and now we are unironically the extroverts.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I know society is doing really rough right now socially but there's still people out there. Sure not as many, and many that are struggle as well, but its no reason not to try. Want to get out there before the impending collapse as the writings on the wall. By collapse I'm referring to the economy and the breakdown of society's morals, connections, and identity.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I’m a NEET but that’s partly why. I’ve had that shit happen and I never understood why. I still don’t. I figure it’s something wrong with me though

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You work full time and make good money so your life is fine.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Everything's not fine which is why I posted here

        >essay after essay after essay whining about women
        HOLY SHIT SHUT THE FRICK UP

        I'm not whining about women I'm whining about everything

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      It’s not entirely your fault. Society “progressed” so fricking much even just in the last 10 years that anything our parents or grandparents taught us about socializing is nearly useless. Everyone spends their time online now or hanging out with people they already know, unwilling to meet new people

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        i wouldn't say useless, but rather that not enough people help in raising young men to reach their potential.

        we have seen a total splintering of the social fabric of the extended family in Anglo-Saxon countries, and now every other culture is going the same route

  66. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    should i order an oxford or a regular shirt? they cost the same at bonobos but idk which one is better

  67. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Few months away from being healthy BMI for the first time since I was a kid
    >Crippling loneliness that’s driving me insane, just want a girl to call my own
    >Don't like the way I look yet and refuse to approach women until my gut is gone
    I’m going insane, bros. I’m so lonely it’s killing me.

  68. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    a hot, unstable girl with some trust issues etc wants to lock me up and marry me
    i dont like her THAT MUCH but shes very submissive and really likes me

    how to approach?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Do not approach.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        why?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      can you afford two houses so after she takes your first one in the divorce you can get back on your feet? if so go for it

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        she asked if we would do prenup literally 10 days into the flirting lol and I said idk, she said yes
        shes super rich I think and might just follow me around to a reasonably comfortable life if I ask her to

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Wait, so this woman has known you for a few weeks, and she wants to get married? In a few weeks, you can already see severe mental illness, and she’s asking you to marry her, and you are genuinely considering it?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Do it because the greentext when she divorces rapes you will be funny.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >"Brooo, like, should I totally marry this mentally unstable girl and stick my dick in crazy?"
      Go for it, anon. Let Darwinism take its course.

  69. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >essay after essay after essay whining about women
    HOLY SHIT SHUT THE FRICK UP

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Come into thread for ISTizens having feels
      >Vast majority of young men put a premium on relationships
      >"WHY ARE THEY TALKING ABOUT WOMEN"
      How about you stop being such a stupid curdle-brained Black person

  70. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I just want to lift heavy but my connective tissue or whatever this gay shit is called sucks too much. I want to pick up heavy things and put them down so I can forget that my body is falling apart and every day is pain. I regret not lifting as a teen. I regret not climbing mountains. I regret not running like my life depended on it.

  71. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >coming to terms with the fact that she will never message me first

  72. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I shouldn’t drink, I’m sober now for 43 days.
    I just feel weird tonight. Long day of trying hard to be “ok” and get hard shit done, and I just feel strange now. I don’t feel like crying yet some part of me inside aches and I’m not sure why. Like I’m in a hole, I’ve been hanging on the edge today but now I’m free falling in it. I went to a meeting tonight and it just made me feel strange to have the least sobriety surrounded by 3,5,10,16 years. I had 105 days then I relapsed. It was a hard day at work. I’d really like a drink.

  73. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    What the frick is wrong with me? If I’m dating a girl and I don’t see any red flags and I begin to let my guard down and actually trust her, some shit occurs that breaks that trust. If I really like her and it’s not like cheating, I’ll give another chance. But if it happens again I lose my shit. It can just be repeatedly crossing a boundary like not being disrespectful to me or not ghosting me knowing I’ll wonder what she’s doing or worry if she’s alive. Then if it ends after that and despite my best efforts to keep it calm she just slaps me in the face verbally I lose it.
    To clarify I’m asking what’s wrong with me on me losing my shit. I’ll then go and act like a literal crazy person. I’ll do shit like somehow find her families info, I’ll find her friends who she cut off and I never met social media.

    I contacted my exes friend who she cut off and blocked everywhere after the break up and forgot about it and that girl just replied to my DM. I fricked up. That friend was a psycho from what I was told hyper obsessed with her lesbian chick despite being best friends for decades. That’s not appropriate. Why can’t I just suck it up? Why am I so prone to in my anger doing stupid shit I’ll regret? Idk what my plan even was in contacting that girl it’s been a few months. It’s like I hit a breaking point and all progress I’ve made to control myself to not be as angry is undone and I do stupid shit that’s over the line. Tbf with myself that ex really did push me at the end, but that’s a b***h tier cop out it’s still my fault for how I responded to her actions and disrespect.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This book helped me, look into it

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Thank you dude. I’ll get it. I’ve done so much work just consciously forcing myself to calm down, journaling, practicing introspection, catching myself in the act of getting pissed off and then forcing myself to take a cold shower and meditate or walk or lift or all. I feel like I’ve gotten fat as hell with letting small things roll off my back like water, but frick man this undid all my progress for more info

        This shit is also creepy of me my ex doesn’t have any social media so it’s fricking weird I was able to find this friend who’s name I didn’t even know.

        I’m more so concerned with the anger. The anger and not being able to control myself when pissed off enough is the issue. Nothings over the line when I’m that mad.
        This was because she would ignore me for days a time after 2 years together and then when she responded it was
        >what? What do you want from me? Why are you bothering me?
        As if we weren’t even dating. That went on for a few weeks until I accepted that was her way of dumping me. I felt fine then stewed and got more and more pissed as the week went on.

        I’m glad the friend didn’t reply until now whatever I was gonna do wasn’t good, was fricked up. Probably given the friend all her new contact info and address or some shit.

        on what happened exactly. It’s bullshit. People are shitty sometimes that’s life. I shouldn’t feel so out of control about the one thing in my control. I can’t control how people treat me but I should damn well have control over how I respond to it

        I’ll order the book tonight thank you. I’m desperate to fix this

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Something in it that helped me was putting up sticky notes around my home to remind me what I need to do.
          Relax
          Evaluate
          Set an intention
          Act on it

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This shit is also creepy of me my ex doesn’t have any social media so it’s fricking weird I was able to find this friend who’s name I didn’t even know.

      I’m more so concerned with the anger. The anger and not being able to control myself when pissed off enough is the issue. Nothings over the line when I’m that mad.
      This was because she would ignore me for days a time after 2 years together and then when she responded it was
      >what? What do you want from me? Why are you bothering me?
      As if we weren’t even dating. That went on for a few weeks until I accepted that was her way of dumping me. I felt fine then stewed and got more and more pissed as the week went on.

      I’m glad the friend didn’t reply until now whatever I was gonna do wasn’t good, was fricked up. Probably given the friend all her new contact info and address or some shit.

  74. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >get hit with "im not ready for a relationship" text out of nowhere
    >offer to give her some space and talk in person about things
    >she agrees
    >reach out after a few days see how she is
    >doesn't want to meet up
    there is no fricking point talking to women when this happens every single time as soon as things start going well

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      it feels literally worse than getting hit in the gut or chin
      t. boxer

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      If it happens often, maybe it's the side effect of something else you like in them? I had this female friend who complained all her bfs were buttholes and to me she just liked buttholes (confident, ambitious, assertive, rich) until they were mean to her. I mean, who would consider a relationship with a guy who took the side of the father when he left the mother for a young cutie?

  75. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I had a gay dream last night and it threw off my whole day

    Why can't I ever have regular sex dreams like I'd actually like to have, it's always some weird shit that makes me uncomfortable

  76. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Milk on ice for me, please.

    I feel like shaving my head, nabbing some brass knuckles, and battering every minority I see.

  77. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I've not had a decent relationship with a single woman, from one night stands to women I've dated. The best one by far is my second crazy bpd ex, even tho she was unhinged, emotionally manipulative and treated me like shit multiple times. That's how low the bar is. I dunno why people associate dislking women with incelism. I liked them just fine when I was a virgin autismo. I only started disliking them after constantly interacting with women, both in a friendly capacity and as romantic/sexual partners.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      The real issue is just thinking it's a woman thing. If you had dated guys instead you'd have just as many stories of moronic, emotionally stunted guys treating you like an object or never communicating a single feeling.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        The problem with that is most women are unable to be honest with themselves and are delusional. Just as a super common example of what I mean
        >woman treats dude like shit because of some no logic justifications in her head
        >dude then gets pissed maybe yells
        >he was abusive to me 🙁
        Or
        >woman dresses like bawd to go out to club with people the BF doesn’t know
        >hey just to lyk I don’t want you going out to clubs but I understand you have friends, do you mind dressing more appropriately for someone who’s been in a multi year relationship?
        >omg he was controlling
        You’re lack of awareness less me to believe you are either delusional or a woman (so both) or you haven’t interacted with/been close to very many women. I’m banking on it being you’re a Femcel just because you don’t seem to realize how disproportionate shitty women exist to shitty men. And also you mentioning communicating feelings was a dead give away

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >treating you like an object
          Women like being objectified, just not on every occasion. I couldn't get laid to save my life before I started objectifying them. What they dislike is realizing that the guy they slept with on the first date was - surprise, surprise - only using them as a sex toy.
          >never communicating a single feeling.
          Communicating feelings to women is one of the worst things you can do. They'll lose respect for you and play with whatever vulnerabilities you've show them henever they get mad at you, just like they do to eachother.

          All I'm saying is that being a shitty partner is not a gendered phenomenon. Most people are shitty partners and building a strong relationship is hard. Thinking you're infallible and your relationships have failed purely because your partners all just happened to be bad is a good way to set yourself up for failure if you manage to find a good one.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          If complaining about men not talking about their feelings is so common as to have become a cliche, do you honestly think there's no truth to it?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Do you know what you get when you make a man listen to women's complaints and act the way they want him to? You get a nice guy male feminist, a.k.a. the world's most powerful pussy repellent.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              There is a lot of room between the extremes.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            You missed my point entirely and further proved my suspicions. You not denying it also proved it.
            Post breasts stop yapping

            There is a lot of room between the extremes.

            Bet there’s a lot of room between those breasts you should post em

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              I wonder why you have recurring relationship problems

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Are you the goofy b***h who was whining about having that beta cuck living in her house rent free the other day?

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Nta but the IPs are the same if you’re referring to that femanon who posted her breasts

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                KEK yeah I thought so pretty sure that’s the last person who should be trying to speak on relationship issues can’t even get a guy to frick her properly

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                KEK yeah I thought so pretty sure that’s the last person who should be trying to speak on relationship issues can’t even get a guy to frick her properly

                Not sure what that guy is on about but I'm a white man in my 20s

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Nta but the IPs are the same if you’re referring to that femanon who posted her breasts

                KEK yeah I thought so pretty sure that’s the last person who should be trying to speak on relationship issues can’t even get a guy to frick her properly

                Bananas, where’s my popcorn

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >treating you like an object
        Women like being objectified, just not on every occasion. I couldn't get laid to save my life before I started objectifying them. What they dislike is realizing that the guy they slept with on the first date was - surprise, surprise - only using them as a sex toy.
        >never communicating a single feeling.
        Communicating feelings to women is one of the worst things you can do. They'll lose respect for you and play with whatever vulnerabilities you've show them henever they get mad at you, just like they do to eachother.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Basically the same experience 2nd ex being the best and all despite being crappy too. If I count the one chick who sucked my dick that one time, that was the best there was. We’ve remained loose friends, barely talk (once every other year). The hang out was perfect. The head was phenomenal. She pulled my dick out of her throat to make me cum on her face and breasts and then kept sucking the last 5 ropes out (nofap + holy grail stack). It was great. We went on our own ways after.
      Every other woman, there’s been some bullshit involved and it’s been a headache or they treated me very poorly.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      The real issue is just thinking it's a woman thing. If you had dated guys instead you'd have just as many stories of moronic, emotionally stunted guys treating you like an object or never communicating a single feeling.

      Basically the same experience 2nd ex being the best and all despite being crappy too. If I count the one chick who sucked my dick that one time, that was the best there was. We’ve remained loose friends, barely talk (once every other year). The hang out was perfect. The head was phenomenal. She pulled my dick out of her throat to make me cum on her face and breasts and then kept sucking the last 5 ropes out (nofap + holy grail stack). It was great. We went on our own ways after.
      Every other woman, there’s been some bullshit involved and it’s been a headache or they treated me very poorly.

      haha. yeah dude. literally every woman you ever meet is always the problem, there's not a least common denominator (you) being the consistent thing between all of them. its always everyone else's fault. totally bro.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Don't reply to me like that I wasn't saying anything bad about women.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Ignore the troony dude why would you waste time replying to a not even actual person? I’m the guy who related to you and I’ve known plenty of women who were great people. That troony is gonna read this and think “that’s just like me I’m a good one” lol. I get what you mean man. Unless you’re lying, and you are acting like a homosexual in your relationships, and you know whether you are, then nah you’re not the LCD. The simple fact is most people under 40 have no morals and are selfish and entitled when it comes to love.

          And btw just wanted to throw it out there if it wasn’t obvious, the anon you replied to for personally offended by your post despite not saying anything bad about women. That should tell you all you need to know

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >every relationship ever gets in with women, all the women are always terrible
            >it's literally not even a consideration, a possible thought, that the person who is in every one of these relationships could possibly even remotely be the reason these relationships arent good
            >no one under 40 has morals or is selfish with love, but not the under 40 anon posting

            its called being relastic you fricking moron. why dont you say maybe the anon should just reflect a bit on himself and see if its possible AT ALL that he could need to change ANYTHING about himself and to not blame everyone else. or just go ahead and say "lol troony!!!!!"

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              >seething
              Triggered troony: 0
              Anon: 1

  78. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Had a job interview today. I think it went really well. I like my current job but people willing to give you money are hard to come by so I gotta take it if I get it. However all this self improvement pisses me off even more when I still get humiliated by women. I don't deserve it.

  79. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i cant think of a single thing to do right now. i live in a stupid fricking old people community in florida, there is nothing to do here, no one to hang out with, nothing to do, the entire county shuts down at 10 pm. i poured myself an unusual drink because i am feeling incredibly trapped in a stupid shithole and it will be 4 hours until i can go to bed. literally scrolling up and down repeatedly for an hour now on the same page, i cannot think of a single game to play or website to visist that will distract me from this frustration of living with my mentally ill moron family. yes i am doijng everything i need to in order to hopefully gtfo. old people are easily the number one more justifiable group who deserve to be shit on, completely moronic people who have no concept of the world the currently live in, completely warped, selfish c**ts, just sit there regurgitating whatever filth is on the 'news'. honestly, i want to leave this country. i hate all these stupid fricking maericana suburban wastelands, just strip malls and moronic drivers who honk at you and never allow you into their lane.

    im more certain every day that not just this community i live in, but the whole of the us is just shit. i will do whatever i can to go traveling as soon as i get some money. god damn it all. there isnt a single person i know who understands how to have a good time

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      The Villages?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        lol, not quite. just another new florida gentrified gated community. what a gay place. its no wonder i fap for 6 hours straight some nights, i have literally nothing else to do

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Have you considered leaving? There are other places in the sunshine state

  80. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I've been making friends by being true to myself, being honest, kind, direct, non-judgemental and optimistically naive at times.
    It takes courage to put yourself out there and be vulnerable, rather do that and be rejected and get hurt than live like a coward wondering "what if".

  81. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I am never masterbating again.

  82. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    What the frick is going on with all these doomer/misc/ posts lately on IST? I don't mean in this thread specifically, but I'm seeing them all over the place.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      It's a psyop unironically.

  83. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >be me, white man, 39
    >thailand
    >ostensibly an expatriate professional
    >actually a full time sex fiend
    >fricked about 100 women in the last two years
    >daily rotation of 21-28 year old girls
    >barebacked a 21 year old last night
    >skipped the office this morning because a 22 year old coked out girl called me for a pickup at 9am
    >never going to financially recover from this
    >will never be satisfied with a normal girl
    >will probably get some incurable disease
    >haven’t done a proper workout in weeks

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      frick I miss using dating apps overseas. It was almost too fricking easy. When I got back to the US after 6 months, I had some kind of reverse culture shock. Went from chatting with women to meeting up with them within 24 hours, picking them up on some shite motorbike to grab dinner or whatever, to engaging in dead-end dry convos with boring women in the US. That overseas experience ruined me for a bit. Live it up for those of us stuck in this hellhole.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I don’t think I can ever go back.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Bangkok?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Yup

  84. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Dear God this thread is so bluepilled it hurts to read. Great men before you have done the work, the field reports and figured out women, relationships, etc. The Red Pill.

    im sure you know it but boys please for the love of God download the sidebar material and read the whole fricking thing ASAP, and believe it is THE TRUTH. So many blue pilled fantasies in here, that's gonna end up fricking you guys over if you don't take the Ontological Shock now.

    please trust me on this, I'm an Oldgay OG red pill contributor And I CARE about you guys no homo.

    https://archive.org/details/the-red-pill-sidebar

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