There's this tiny redhead at my gym who actually has impressive lifts, never checks her phone, headphones on the whole time, doesn't talk to...

There's this tiny redhead at my gym who actually has impressive lifts, never checks her phone, headphones on the whole time, doesn't talk to anyone, has impeccable form. I've complimented her lifts a couple of times and she was nice, but she never says hi to me next time she sees me. Just pretends I'm not there. What do? I want her so bad bros.
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  1. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    If you actually have an opportunity like this then frick you. I would have already asked her out for dinner and never posted on IST.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      What's stopping you from asking out any woman at your gym? Why so aggressive

      Leave her alone and let her lift
      Its rare to see a woman in the gym who isn't attentionwhoring, doing some moronic meme exercise, or glued to Instagram, and then also having impressive numbers with good form.
      Its like finding a rare plant on a stroll through the woods. Let it be and allow it to prosper, dont try to pick it for your own gain

      I'm not trying to harass her or frick her then discard, I actually want to date her. I'm trying to get to know her while not being a creep.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Then slowly get to know her. Ask her for a spot sometime if it's not too awkward, use the machine next to her if it's not too awkward, slap her ass in the locker room if it's not too awkward.

        Getting the idea?

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Ah, l'amour! Your quest is admirable, anon! You must recognize that your position, my lovestruck friend. Complimenting her is not enough, words from a stranger are just that: words from a stranger. You must bridge that gap yourself, put a name to the face, introduce yourself and let her know you've seen her at the gym and are interested in getting to know her. You can ask her out for coffee if you feel brave enough, but the point is she needs to know YOU, not just your interest.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Hey, I've noticed your lifts and think your dedication is really impressive. I don't want to bother you while you're working out, you seem super focused. Mind if I get your number and we could maybe meet up outside the gym to talk?
        Something to work from.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >I'm not trying to harass her or frick her then discard, I actually want to date her. I'm trying to get to know her while not being a creep.
        LMAO You want to date a person you literally know nothing about. You're like one of those incels that get a crush on a girl and imagine entire futures together.
        Leave her be, she won't want to date a mentally deranged incel.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          >You want to date a person you literally know nothing about.
          Yeah that's what crushes are.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            Crushes are for 13 year olds. If you're a man and see a woman you find attractive, you approach her, talk to her, get her number, go on a date, and get to find out more about her to see if you're interested in her or not.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          https://i.imgur.com/LVpJmzW.png

          Anon I have the same type of woman at my gym, the reality is that she is not into you. I did the same things as you, we simply lost. But remember, we fall to learn. It's hard to lose your interest but you have to go through it.

          creep alert!

          JIDF out in force today I see, or just same gayging?

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            Nice larp manlet, a attractive girl wouldn't waste her time with some gymcel manlet who goes on a incel board online. There are 1000+ tall, attractive chads and your telling me she’ll settle for you? Some 5'6 dwarf? Kek nice larp homosexual

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              >Nice larp manlet, a attractive girl wouldn't waste her time with some gymcel manlet who goes on a incel board online. There are 1000+ tall, attractive chads and your telling me she’ll settle for you? Some 5'6 dwarf? Kek nice larp homosexual
              Larp, manlet, gymcel, incel, chads
              Go touch some grass, spend some time under the sun and assess your relationship with the world.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Kek nice larp manlet incel virgin. You’re seething on a Saturday morning. Take a walk and cool down, maybe you’ll finally kiss a girl today if you leave the house for once

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                holy moron (you) farmer

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          gym crushes are just that. it’s meant to be left then and there lol he fantasized this dream girl in his head because she’s not like other gym girls and therefore he must have her

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            What's so strange about the fact that I want a gf who's dedicated to the same hobby that I am

            https://i.imgur.com/AYA0gLs.jpg

            From the information provided, I wouldn’t say she’s interested unfortunately. It might be worth a shot but you’d have to be cautious so that you don’t have a nice day in the foot.

            It’s sucks because redheads are hot. But I saw some meme ~~*study*~~ yesterday saying they’re proven to be bawdtier than other women, which is concerning.

            >Redheads are loose
            It's just a meme. I doubt the girl who doesn't talk to anyone at the gym is a bawd. She doesn't even wear those ass crack leggings despite assmogging all the gym thots.

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              >I doubt the girl who doesn't talk to anyone at the gym is a bawd

              The quiet ones are usually even bigger bawds.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                What about the ones who are quiet to begin with and but then later on never shut the frick up

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          i find it funny that the idea of dating simply being a way to get to know someone is completely lost on zoomers

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            that same idea describes friendship bro..

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            This. Zoomers are just brain dead. Even if you know the person, it's just a social mask. The real person is different and will be different in a relationship, even if that girls is someone you know from the childhood.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          >hmm I want to ask that girl out
          >mentally deranged
          ?
          israeli or just paid to post here?

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        kek, bluepilled as frick, it's over and you have no chance

  2. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Leave her alone and let her lift
    Its rare to see a woman in the gym who isn't attentionwhoring, doing some moronic meme exercise, or glued to Instagram, and then also having impressive numbers with good form.
    Its like finding a rare plant on a stroll through the woods. Let it be and allow it to prosper, dont try to pick it for your own gain

  3. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Eye contact, smile with a slight head nod, if she smiles back you're good to go, if not just leave her be, unless you encounter her in the wild at which point you can approach her and say hey I know you from the gym

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      I can't even get eye contact normally, she just zones out between sets or looks at the ground.

      Then slowly get to know her. Ask her for a spot sometime if it's not too awkward, use the machine next to her if it's not too awkward, slap her ass in the locker room if it's not too awkward.

      Getting the idea?

      I've worked out close to her before but the problem I have is with talking to her.

      because she has no interest in you obviously, otherwise she would at least greet you if she sees you

      Normally I would agree with this but she really seems in the zone all the time, I really think she might just not notice her surroundings when she's working out. As I said, she was very nice whenever we talked and didn't seem annoyed.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >I can't even get eye contact normally, she just zones out between sets or looks at the ground.
        Ask her to watch your form to open a conversation, you'll quickly learn how interested she is by how much effort she puts into the conversation afterwards

  4. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    she don’t want you brodie. the more you try the more annoying she finds you and you’ll feel it when she changes her workout hours to avoid seeing you

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      This

      Leave her be anon.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Frick that, you don't want to die with regret in your heart, make your move OP, dont listen to these homosexuals

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      This. If she wanted you she would be friendly and more receptive and you wouldn't be posting about this on an anime shitboard. She doesn't even look at you and here you are swooning and simping. The first rule about dating as a man is to not be needy. You need to not give a frick, which you are not doing now my guy.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >I want her so bad bros
        >She never says hi to me
        >Just pretends I'm not there
        >What do?
        LMAOOOO name one person in IST history who got the girl being this desperate and needy

  5. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    because she has no interest in you obviously, otherwise she would at least greet you if she sees you

  6. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Progressive overload my guy

    Start with just smiling when you see her

    Then move on to “heys”

    Then add a “what’s up”

    When you’re ready move on to “I’m anon” and get her name

    “Hey anonette”

    High fives

    Get her insta

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      wow, so it all comes together

  7. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >have gym crush for months
    >then one workout I notice she’s SUPER close with one of the jacked dudes, probably her bf or just fricking
    It’s over

  8. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Girls are not at the gym to be talked too. Please leave her alone. If she wanted to talk to you she would have done so. Notice how she only responds to you and never initiates conversation. That means she doesn't like you romantically. If she really wanted you, or was at least interested in you. You'd already know and wouldn't need to make this thread

  9. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Shoot your shot dude never mind gays saying leave her be, if she’s not interested she will reject you and you can move on with your life
    Good luck

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      creep alert!

  10. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Anon I have the same type of woman at my gym, the reality is that she is not into you. I did the same things as you, we simply lost. But remember, we fall to learn. It's hard to lose your interest but you have to go through it.

  11. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    From the information provided, I wouldn’t say she’s interested unfortunately. It might be worth a shot but you’d have to be cautious so that you don’t have a nice day in the foot.

    It’s sucks because redheads are hot. But I saw some meme ~~*study*~~ yesterday saying they’re proven to be bawdtier than other women, which is concerning.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      To clarify, do you at least have exp with the meme gender? I’ve never asked one out, so if you’re in those shoes, I’d be hesitant to try something so bold in a setting where it’s generally dissaproved of

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah, if she liked him, she would have said hi or at least made eye contact next time. Not ignored him. Move on, OP. You tried.

  12. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    incel

  13. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >she never says hi to me next time she sees me. Just pretends I'm not there.
    It's over, go next

  14. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >incels and would-be-incels-were-the-circumstances-slightly-different arguing and calling each other incels

  15. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Since we're here, should I follow the girls from my gym who I've never spoken to on Instagram? I already stalk a lot of them.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      if you have normal IG like with actual 100s of followers/following and pics of urself yeah
      if it's stalk type IG with a couple followers and no pics of urself then no

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        My gym reposts stories of gym goers when they're tagged and I never see her. I even stalked my gym's followers and didn't find her. She might not have IG at all. I wouldn't know what to make of it if that's the case.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          Ok, and?

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            I just find it strange that someone as attractive and fit as her wouldn't try to attentionmax I suppose. It would be very easy for her to get simps.

            • 10 months ago
              Anonymous

              Maybe she's content with her life and has a boyfriend so she doesn't care for simps.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Is that really the only option? I was hoping she wasn't taken.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                How many times do we have to tell you she does not want you? If she was interested and knew you were interested in her (which you made clear to her by complimenting her), she'd already try to make it obvious by saying hi/smiling/trying to work in with you and make a small talk.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                You're such a negative nelly, that's why you don't have anything valuable in your life

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Hey, I'm not the one whining on the internet about a girl who ignores me and who I put on a pedestal without knowing anything about her.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Whining? He just wants a little encouragement, he should take his shot, if yes great, if no, he'll learn how to handle rejection and it will temper him. Also he will understand it's a numbers game.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                what if OP is just some ugly dyel manlet and you’re setting him up for failure instead of giving him a much needed reality check hmmm? leave that poor girl alone. he’s likely not the first guy at the gym to try this

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                I'm not ugly or a dyel or a manlet.
                >he’s likely not the first guy at the gym to try this
                I don't see other guys interacting with her much, although I've noticed them staring.

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                the real option is that there are tons of girls like her you'll be interested in out there

              • 10 months ago
                Anonymous

                Telling that you assume displaying your attraction and being a sexual being is a "simp"

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        welp so there goes that

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      you’ll just be one of many men who do this already, except you know their exact workout schedule and where and when to see them. go for it!

  16. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    dude just shoot your shot. its not creepy, its literally what humans are programmed to do and what youre supposed to do. just be respectful and nice about it and dont be a b***h about it if she isnt interested (which is probable, but bigger miracles have happened and luck is with the brave ones). rejection will sting, but in the end youll be proud of yourself for being courageous and going for what you want.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      *mutters under breath after being rejected* what a soulless ginger b***h..

  17. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    sounds like it's game over, mi amigo

  18. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    OP, how many girlfriends did you have in the past?

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      4 worth noting, why?

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        And yet you act like you don't know how to proceed with getting a girlfriend, curious.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          I met my previous girlfriends through mutual friends, I've never dated someone from the gym.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        How many relationships after high school?

  19. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Anon you have nothing to be ashamed of, you're a heterosexual man and the opposite of a degenerate, go ask her out and be done with it, you won't lose a limb from rejection, you'll remain the same person as you are but at least you won't be a pussy anymore. I don't follow my advice though cuz I'm an ugly lanky ottermode but you definetly should

  20. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Honestly I wouldn't do it in my gym, it's going to create a really shitty environment for you and her if you end up rejected.
    It's going to affect ur training because you will be forced to see her everyday and your mind will create grief, hate, etc...
    I still remember approaching a girl in college, got rejected and everyday I had to see her and it sucked so much, yes I shoot my shot but I probably should've catched her signals that she wasn't really into me.
    Maybe I'm wrong but hitting on girls you have to see on a daily basis fricking sucks, bros. (If you get rejected, if you score then it's a win-win).

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      I have 4 previous girlfriends under belt worth noting so I consider myself quite the professional. I just can’t seem to get her attention..

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >I just can’t seem to get her attention..
        Maybe because she's not interested in you???

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          The guy you're replying to is pretending to be OP

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            Proof?

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >I still remember approaching a girl in college, got rejected and everyday I had to see her and it sucked so much
      I always smile and almost laugh when I see a girl who rejected me, top points if they see you taking to other women and then suddenly act interested

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Maybe I'm wrong but hitting on girls you have to see on a daily basis fricking sucks, bros.
      idk i am not like that. I just take the no and move on. No hard feelings.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >idk i am not like that. I just take the no and move on. No hard feelings.
        I want to be like you anon, thats the way to go

  21. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    So let me get this straight, OP had his previous relationships set up by his friends and now he thinks that if he finds a girl attractive all he has to do is compliment her and she will magically come crawling to him?

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Not my problem

  22. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Leave her alone lmao

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      See OP, only satan himself would advise you not to take your shot

  23. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Why is there always a thick redhead at every gym I go to

  24. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    The quiet girls, or the ones that claim to have "social anxiety" etc are usually even bigger bawds than the louder outgoing girls. Shes fricked at least 20 guys or more, no doubt in mind.

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