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  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    alcohol is worse than heroin and crack

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Thanks for posting, would like to see stats controlled for per capita usage.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous__

      I bet there's more deaths attributed to alcohol than gunshots to the head. Maybe you should quit drinking by shooting yourself in the head.

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Ethnics have ruined the board.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Albino
      Cope

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I don't even post in these threads, but I like reading them every weekend because there's a lot of self-reflection to be had by reading the woes of autists who share in my joy of fitness.
    But some fricking limp dick janny, who hasn't been on IST long enough to know that fitness and feels have always gone hand-in-hand on this board, took that away from me this weekend, so I'm doing pretty fricked up.

    Water for now, barkeep, thanks.

  4. 4 weeks ago
    GrikGod

    Got nothing going on in my life; 22 years old, gonna flunk uni, no hobbies, no friends, no gf, no job, still live with my parents because of boomer landlards, autistic and antisocial, addicted to vidya, /gif/ and hookers, spend all day in bed (only go out for the lifts)... but hey, at least the bulk is progressing at an extraordinary rate with those 3 hour 6/day gym sessions kek

    Inb4: you're a gymcel loser *wiener-sucking noises*

    • 4 weeks ago
      GrikGod

      6 days/ week*

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      post physique

      • 4 weeks ago
        GrikGod

        Don't have recent ones but picrel is from around 3 weeks ago. I'm currently working on my lats and my butt needs a bit of toning up not gonna lie.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          You need abs too, fren.

          • 4 weeks ago
            GrikGod

            That's true, but my bf percentage could be a bit lower. Don't let my ribcage fool you lol. I might also need to abuse my traps as well, my neck kinda sticks out a bit too much.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          "WHY ARE YOU HERE" MODE

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Got nothing going on in my life
      you have time anon, you're young, you can make positive changes. start small and improve on the things you hate most

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Well all of that is your own fault. Start by getting off /gif/. That place is cancer.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      yeah this was me when I was that age. most of it still applies 7 years later.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      literally me from 2022

      it doesn’t get any better after you graduate. my wasted uni years will forever haunt me

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Great, i love my wife! Sadly this is day 3 of Yakuza 8 being out and I have not managed to eek out any gamer time die to life. I'll be able to play it after I file taxes this evening though so that's pretty cool.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I'll trade you my free time and recent addiction to Facotorio for no free time and your wife.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        No Anon that's weird. Find your own wife.

        https://i.imgur.com/cMTasjg.jpg

        Don't have recent ones but picrel is from around 3 weeks ago. I'm currently working on my lats and my butt needs a bit of toning up not gonna lie.

        Looking good!

        tempted to just start smoking weed before bed and destroy my REM sleep so i can stop having nightmares about my ex girlfriend

        Have you tried therapy? Mental fitness is important too

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >find your own wife
          Where do I look? You have the wife. Tell me where to find 1?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            just b urself

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              OK but where are they at?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            use the internet dumb homie

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >internet
              >for a wife
              Are you lying? On IST? I sure hope not.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            We met in college and we were both music-cels. Playing an instrument together is nice. We haven't done a duet in a while though. In order to get dates you kind of have to commit to going outside and doing stuff. I also tend to talk to people a lot when I'm out at the grocery store or the library. People love talking about shallots and such

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >I also tend to talk to people a lot when I'm out at the grocery store or the library.
              Do you just start talking to them randomly? I've never seen anyone do that

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                NTA but I constantly make small witty comments to folk if I sense the "vibe" is right
                doesnt exceed a minute but its fun

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    tempted to just start smoking weed before bed and destroy my REM sleep so i can stop having nightmares about my ex girlfriend

  7. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I relapsed and made 2 dating profile accounts out of curiosity.

  8. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      holy fricking SHIT I LOVE LORDE OHG MY FRICKIGN GHOD WHYD YOU JUSTR EMIND ME OF HER SONGS AAAAAAAAAH

      ?si=AdY_CYaRNNrIOWFg

  9. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I got a ticket to snap city back in fricking August and my shoulder still isn't healed.

  10. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    i lost my job 2 weeks ago. i did this shit for 2 years. i was good at it. it war murderous to control this job but i managed it and made it routine. i was always told my contract will be made indefinetly after 2 years over and over again. 1 week before the end
    >LOL NO SORRY

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Frickers

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      cant you sue

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        no because the contract explicetly said end in 2 years. but they always verbally promised it will be indefinetly after. written beats verbal. i tried to trust. betrayed.

  11. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I can't wait to be mentally well enough to move out and never have to hear my dads obnoxiously loud, grating and disgusting coughs again

  12. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Move in with gf
    >Can't watch porn anymore or just play some vidya
    >Everything has to be done together
    I love her, but it's draining me

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Everything has to be done together
      you need to put your foot down and put an end to that shit. pretty soon she’s gonna be sick of it too but wont say anything and will eventually resent you for her own lack of communication

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      But let me guess, she still gets to go out with the girls? Why did you even move in with that harpy?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Huhh?? This is not healthy,you have to tell her that you need some personal space to breathe,its not ok to be all the time together.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      you fricked up Black person, it only gets worse

  13. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm SO bad at elevating things with woman holy frick
    like, if you knew me, you'd be amazed how this extremely social and charming guy could also be so shit with ladies, even though I have dozens of female friends

    its not normal

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      what are you afraid of?

      • 4 weeks ago
        Monk

        Of himself..We should all start to live before we get too old. Fear is stupid. So are regrets

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        idk
        the whole escalation stage feels awkward as frick and I dont want to be a creep as most of these "situations" happen in friend circles

        Of himself..We should all start to live before we get too old. Fear is stupid. So are regrets

        I am not afraid per se but I am not motivated enough to risk being labeled as a creep

        but the only girl I asked out for the last 3-4 months, who also kindly rejected me btw after an electric night, showed proper interest in me yesterday. so people might not care about this shit as much as I think, but meh, still, risks are more dire than the reward

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >friend circles
          either stop being a pussy or meet women with the intention of fricking them instead of befriending them

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            you are right, anon

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              and i mean that with respect, anon. even in the loose modern days of zoomers, women dont make the first move unless you’re a chad or they are total prostitutes. they’re all waiting on you to make that move. if you make moves on your female friends, you risk alienation, losing friendship, being creepy (not being a chad) etc etc, all the shit you’re afraid of, right? that’s why it’s just best to avoid it. unless of course, you know it’ll work out but it doesn’t seem like you do.
              so dont form relationships with women that arent based on fricking if you don’t want to frick them. that also unironically dries them up, they dont want friends. they have plenty of friends. they want to be fricked and they don’t want to look like prostitutes (even though they are) so you’re the one who needs to escalate.

              stop taking women serious. one says no, you move on to the next one and you dont let it bother you. once you start getting your dick wet, other women will smell the pussy on you and start making it obvious they’re waiting for you to frick them next

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                dont form relationships that arent based on fricking if you want to frick them**

                make your intentions clear from the start

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                thats why I said you'd be surprised if you knew me
                just for conversations sake I'll be blunt: I am genuinely an interesting, funny and successful-ish person and have exceptional social skills literally apart from escalating things with women. there is no way you wouldnt like me if you met me in person.

                I constantly find myself in situations where I enjoy gradual increase in attention to me only to act like a moron by the end of the night, especially if this involves something like a lounge/dance bar

                I kid you not, I didnt have sex in 2023, and if I had the ability to switch souls with a normal person for 30 minutes after the night progresses into a sweet spot, that person (in my body) would've fricked like 5-6 women at the very least

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >especially if this involves something like a lounge/dance bar
                why

  14. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Felt a pop in my back on leg press earlier today and now it hurts to move

  15. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Finally take fit advice seriously and start eating A LOT more despite being a twink my whole life. Hit a 80lb DB Bench PR today, biggest guy in the gym - 6,2 - only guy that I've seen consistently bench over 2.5 plates when I'm there was watching my lift the whole time. This guy never looks at anyone , on his phone , taking calls, etc

    I think for the first time in a long time , he's felt someone encroach upon his status.

    The battle of wills begins...

    I have a long way to go , but I've only been "bulking" for a month and even that was dirty which I'm going to switch to clean for february when I iron out the macros.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >anime pic
      >he knows I know he knows I know
      >2.5 pl8s for reps is "big"
      This reads like a manlet creating a Virgin David vs Chad Goliath. Stop being like this. Please. For your own mental health.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        what would you replace it with? I like having a competitive spin on things even if its not true.

        And I dont live in NYC or some mega athletic hub of chads , there are no real 3 platers here, anyone over 2 is already in a pretty exclusive club in these parts

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >anime pic

        homie thats historical samurai

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >historical anime

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous__

      You may be in for a let down. In three years of dialed in training you will look good, but if you're starting from twink there will always be day one fatties that outlift you. Also, it will actually take 5 years because you'll flub for the first two.

      The real prize is something else that's actually worth more. As your friends and enemies collapse into their 30s, you will keep moving yourself through the world with easy grace.

  16. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >mother keeps asking me when I’ll get a gf
    >somehow doesn’t realize I’m 5’’5” and look like a chudjak
    How do I tell her

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Tell her to get comfortable with a filipino passport princess cause you have yellow fever , should change her tune pretty quick

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      post pic of urself but with eyes blurred

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Do your father looks like the chudjak?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I'm 5'4'' and my fiancee is taller than me. She was also a virgin when we met. Wagmi brother.

  17. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Is a girl who claims to be “asexual” or demisexual but trying to “overcome” it worth pursuing? She has said shes very into me, Im the first guy she met with off tinder. So far we seem very compatible. We’ve cuddled but she wouldnt let me kiss her but we’ve only been on 2 dates.
    Shes also Christian with strict parents so Im thinking that mightve led to her aversion to sex. What do we think fit bros ?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Honestly moronic labels aside , this is a dream scenario I'd love to have - I'm not a crazy high sex person either, someone to take my time with would be amazing.

      That being said , all those fricking labels , what kinda mental illness is this - girl just say you ain't ready? Everyone's too pussy to do the psych work and call a spade a spade so they need to make up some affliction so society excuses it

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Just take it slow, if you were meant to be you'll have 80 years for sexy time, surely you can wait another few months?

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        and i mean that with respect, anon. even in the loose modern days of zoomers, women dont make the first move unless you’re a chad or they are total prostitutes. they’re all waiting on you to make that move. if you make moves on your female friends, you risk alienation, losing friendship, being creepy (not being a chad) etc etc, all the shit you’re afraid of, right? that’s why it’s just best to avoid it. unless of course, you know it’ll work out but it doesn’t seem like you do.
        so dont form relationships with women that arent based on fricking if you don’t want to frick them. that also unironically dries them up, they dont want friends. they have plenty of friends. they want to be fricked and they don’t want to look like prostitutes (even though they are) so you’re the one who needs to escalate.

        stop taking women serious. one says no, you move on to the next one and you dont let it bother you. once you start getting your dick wet, other women will smell the pussy on you and start making it obvious they’re waiting for you to frick them next

        the girl i've been talking with for the last few weeks just went quiet on me, wtf
        i hugged her when she got to class, she just ignored me and sat near a different guy
        barely interacted the rest of the day, then at the end of class i went to talk to her and she said "do you need anything", pretty meekly
        i told her hey, i've barely seen you lately. didn't get a response and a few seconds later i just felt like this was a waste of time so i left
        unironically what did she mean by this?

        >girl messages me first (her interest is obviously high)
        >we talk a lot
        >I quickly escalate (on second, or first day of texting during peak intensity), and ask her out
        >she agrees to go out, but after midterms (which is prob around 10th February)
        It's been almost three weeks since we met each other so far, her midterms end in two more weeks. We text each other still, almost daily, but not as intensely as in the beginning, just little by little
        >she hearts my messages and stuff

        Thoughts on this? Weird situation I'm in. I'm kind of scared that she will go cold on me, but she already did that once for many days, and later came back.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Are midterms that tough were you're from? I find it hard to believe she can't spend 2 hours with you and talk over a cup of coffee

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            actually it's been 2 weeks since we met looking at the calendar. The two week period of exams is about to start.
            >find it hard to believe she can't spend 2 hours with you and talk over a cup of coffee
            Me too, but she messaged me first, and keeps me hooked by quite enthusiastic in conversations (pic rel is chat gpt's opinion lol). Something's not right here. She's foreign, so maybe she's shy because of her language skills? Idk

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous
        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          next time save all that talking for the date, don’t waste your time on anyone you can’t meet up with in person within a week, and always keep your options open so it doesn’t affect you if someone goes cold

          thug it out and hope that the date sparks
          interest back and revitalizes the intensity you had

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >next time save all that talking for the date
            She told me that we should use this time to get to know each other closer.
            Also I have a friend who used to meet girls online, and text them for a month straight before going out on a date with them. He told me that these were his best dates, because he could get away with a lot more as he knew her well already.
            And is relying on lust period that smart if you are looking for a stable partner, and not a quick frick? She's an educated girl, not an Instagram bawd, this might be worth considering. Yeah I know that everyone always tells you to escalate quick, that's what I did in fact, but I'm really intrigued by this girl.

            Also I made a mistake, she only has one week of midterms. I'll ask her out again on 6th. Not long left, and we've texting at least a little bit daily since last tuesday with no off day

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Is it possible for someone who has never smoked a ciggie or drank alcohol to become addicted after having fun on them? Yes? Think of this as your girl in regards to sex.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Im the first guy she met with off tinder.
      you think shes saying the truth?

      you are also a moron for using tinder. both of u are moronic.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous__

      I've been in this position-- for me it didn't work out. My advice is to not wait if you feel you have solid alternative options, or wait for a month or two if you don't have good outside options. It's possible she's just repressed, but even so you may not be able to reach her. Look for increasing intimacy-- if its not happening or stalls at a certain point, tell her the truth, give her some time and if nothing changes, leave.

      In my case I dated a girl from grad school who never had a bf because her mother was unhappily married and convinced her men were evil. We broke up after two months because she admitted she couldn't ever see herself having sex with me. I was sad but definitely made the right choice.

  18. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Got together with a former co-worker yesterday. Hadn't seen her in like 6 months, she's gained some weight. I just realized 99% of people just let themselves go after 30. Yeah they might take a few spinning classes here and there, or go for a run every few months. But they just forget about their bodies. The bar is as low as ever, if you lift and eat right you're already in the top 1% of humanity

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      1% is a stretch, maybe top 5%

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Well, it's still ridiculously easy to be elite tier

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Turned 31 on friday. Still lifting and eating right. Physically doing really good, unfortunately my hairline has become quite shitty.

      Unfortunately, 99.9...% of quality single women are still 18-22, and I get further from that annually. If I was trying to land 30+ year old single women yeah it'd be easy to be top 1% of their prospects, but I'm still part of the thousands of men on the options list of the actual single women.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        You can easily land a 25 year old girl at your age. Shit...you can land one at 40. Yeah it's not 22 or whatever, but it's still good.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I have not in my adult life encountered a 25 year old single woman who didn't come with a vast host of personality issues that made me back out of the deal fairly early on, like usually the first date. I have to be realistic and not be chasing unicorns. A stable, smart, loving, sane woman who's capable of being in a real relationship at 25 who hasn't already been snagged up is a unicorn. If she's a great catch she's been caught by then. At best you are looking for some kinda woman who's been in a longterm relationship since highschool or something.

          My dating apps are set 18-25 for a window. Once you start getting 23+ among that pool you notice the steep gradient drop off in quality of who's single. Yes there are plenty of quality women above 22, but they're not single because if they were quality they'd already have gone with the best man who'd presented himself in their life by then.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Wise observations anon. Yes, you need to find a girl with a body count of one from a long term bf she had for a while previously if you’re looking for a girl in her early 20s. In western society nearly all virgin women older than 21 are either completely insane, ugly as shit, or have unrealistic expectations. I got lucky and recently started dating a 23yr old cute Muslim girl with only one ex boyfriend, parents that are still together, and no drama or red flags that I can find after digging around. She doesn’t even have social media since she takes her faith pretty seriously. This is after years of digging though shitty women though so I know how bad it is out there.you’ve gotta learn how to filter chicks out as quickly as possible to not waste time or money and stick to digging through the shit knowing there’s a tiny chance you’ll find a decent one. good luck anon

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Glad to hear you made it bruv, I hope to too

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >she takes her faith pretty seriously. This
              my homie muslims arent allowed to have bfs/gfs. girls like her are the bottom of the barrel.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Yes they are you stupid frick. They just don’t refer to them as gf/bf The most strict Muslims require a chaperone to be present while dating (father, brother, or uncle) and do not allow even touching to take place before marriage. I have yet to see one that is this strict as they generally only exist in the most extreme Islamic countries on earth. For the most part Muslim women tend to still date, but not engage in ANY sexual activity (even kissing in some cases) until marriage. The one I’m dating it like that.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                my homie I am muslim myself. ur not allowed to look with lust at the other gender if ur not married, let alone be alone with them. the girl ur with is only muslim in name. she probably doesnt even pray (5 times a day). shes only with u cus ur white. muslim girls are unironically colonized, theyre like pajeet women. one guy here mentoined a white muslim convert he knew. the guy was looking to get married and (low class) muslim girls threw themselves at him.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >completely ignores everything I mentioned and repeats the same shit
                She does pray 5 times a day btw. I’ve also read the entire Quran and seek to eventually convert long before I met her. If I were to nit pick every single thing no Muslim or Christian men or women would be “true believers” as I have yet to meet anyone who follows their religion even 90% of the time. I consider 80% to be pretty good, especially in comparison to western Christians who follow their faith and its rules maybe 50% at best. I choose to draw the line for fake Muslim women at dressing modestly, being feminine/submissive, not being a bawd/ having sex out of wedlock, and showing respect and devotion towards their faith. All of which this girl does. There’s always room for improvement which I support her towards.

  19. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    My crazy ass really vented all the blackpill incel shit to my own mother while drunk. Not sure if there's any going back after that conversation

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >My crazy ass really vented all the blackpill incel shit to my own mother while drunk
      LOL

  20. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Wife is pregnant and I'm getting blackpilled on modern hospital birth. Holy frick it's horrifying!!
    >for-profit hospitals
    >Force-induced early labor
    >Instant cord clamping
    >Hospital by default steals the placenta
    >Sucks out the fetal cord blood for their own use
    >Babies separated from mother
    >Insta-vaxxed
    >Circumsized without consent
    It's way worse than I thought. Any anons gone through a hospital birth?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      -vaxxed
      without consent
      These are the worst part. Surely there is a way to give birth at home and keep israeli doctors away?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Any anons gone through a hospital birth?
      pretty sure 99% of us were born in a hospital

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >tfw home birth and breastfed 🙂
        >tfw still circumsized :'(

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Congrats bro and Gob bless your wife
      I did recently. You can request delayed cord clamping (unless she has c section), you can request they throw the placenta away or return it to you (they ask you on an intake form so you have it in writing), i dont know about the fetal blood that is creepy sounding, they kept my baby with me the whole time he slept in my room, the vac stuff is by choice - they asked if i wanted it and i rejected the buttsex vax but got the vitamin k vax for my baby, they ask you in writing if you want your son to be circumsized.
      Now with the circumcision every fricking OB i had asked about it at every appointment after week 26 but it is whatever.
      It's all scarier anticipating it than going through it. things can go wrong (emergency c section) so try to stay flexible but know that there are things you can be firm on like circumcision and vaccines.
      Good luck to you both

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Also you may know about this already, but birth centers are an option. Downside is they usually arent covered by insurance. Theyre a good middle ground between birthing at home and birthing in hospital but i dont think they offer epidural of your wife is wanting that

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Letting a bunch of strangers touch and mutilate your son private parts

      Ngmi

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Don't do it, go with an alternative birth center.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Wife is pregnant
      theres 8 billion morons on this planet and its overpopulated. congrat for bringing a human into a doomed planet thats gonna kill half of all humans through extreme weather and drought

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        You have to go back

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >cant give a logical rebuttal, can only give canned response
          never reproduce, your children will be as moronic as u

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            no point in having a family when the climate change is fukcing up the earth cus we got 8 billion morons on it. adopt a kid if u want one. making a new one is only cruel for the planet and the kid

            The world isn't overpopulated. Please don't tell a person from a country with a declining birth rate to not have one child when brown third world subhumans like you pump them out non-stop

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              The people who think so negatively are messy people (prone to extreme thoughts, inability to cope with hardship) should be left alone with their pessimism. it's good they arent having kids.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >The WEF didn't hand us a morally immaculate society like they promised so I could mindlessly roll into the future like the unthinking blob of passive consumption I am. I hereby decree everyone should stop trying.

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >when brown third world subhumans like you pump them out non-stop
              this is their downfall. they are heading towards resource exhaustion. civizlized people know what moderation is. monkeys do not.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        https://i.imgur.com/uIP3rUa.png

        >cant give a logical rebuttal, can only give canned response
        never reproduce, your children will be as moronic as u

        I have a book you might like.

        https://i.imgur.com/SBnfHcV.jpg

        Just finished reading this POS and need to vent.
        Things I wish I knew about the author before reading (I went in blind based off recommendations):
        >was french
        >was a manlet king @ 5'9"
        >married a druggie prostitute because he was a white knight who wanted to save her
        >said prostitute cucked him with her doctor who was giving her the drugs
        >joined the french commie party
        >stopped reading his wiki page here
        As for the actual book:
        >it's about a ho-hum homosexual who does frick all and gets used by everyone in his life
        >his boss treats him like a slave
        >he has random homosexuals coming into his place in the middle of the night and he's just k with it
        >his gf is a dumb hoe who ditches him the second things get complicated
        >his moron friend who beat the arab girl, thus causing the arab men to attack them on the beach, thus causing the entire situation
        >homosexual main character doesn't even lie about the gun incident that it was self defense
        >court case is fricked from the start
        >sentenced to death
        >the night before he dies the chaplain comes by to offer comfort
        >this main homosexual character dawns his fedora and neckbeard and goes on a massive r/atheism REEE spree
        >"nothing matters, man. everything sucks and everyone is going to die.. i did everything right but am still going to die. there is no justice"
        >moves the chaplain to tears on how much of a bitter frick he is
        >just to solidify how much of a homosexual the main character his, he finally starts to feel thing in the end
        >what are his feelings before he is to die tomorrow?
        >that everyone is filled with as much hate for him as he is for them
        >the end
        Literally Rddit: The Book written by Rddit: The Author. Gay cringe shit. Frick everyone who said this frog was any good. Frick post-modernism and its 2smart4u femboy anal leakage it calls a """philosophy""". Why is it that anyone who ISN"T proper height has to create an entire idea-set of cope?
        >camus
        >nietzsche
        >freud
        >marx
        >sarte

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I have at two different places and it went fine, don't listen IST
      >no circumcision
      >delayed cord clamping
      > no HepB vax
      >no seperation, immediate skin to skin
      >didn't put up a fuss when we said we were leaving early.
      Alot of that stuff is the standard of care in the US now. Just tell them what you want and they do it.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      without consent
      Wtf? I was a hospital birth in America and I'm unsnipped

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      There is ZERO reason to go to a hospital.
      Women are fricking designed to squat and shit out a kid.
      What a fricking moronic idea it was to make them lay down.

  21. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    the girl i've been talking with for the last few weeks just went quiet on me, wtf
    i hugged her when she got to class, she just ignored me and sat near a different guy
    barely interacted the rest of the day, then at the end of class i went to talk to her and she said "do you need anything", pretty meekly
    i told her hey, i've barely seen you lately. didn't get a response and a few seconds later i just felt like this was a waste of time so i left
    unironically what did she mean by this?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      she got cold , wanted faster escalation and not some pen pal , it happens. Girls these days can't wait for shit all, you have to operate full speed and with intent to pursue all the way.

      It's so fricking moronic cause sometimes you just want a class companion or an acquaintance.

  22. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Teaching high school is a truly humbling experience

    For context I work at a small private school for middle and HS students with learning disabilities(add autism) They're really all over the place as to how functional they are. I have some who are basically normal teens with a few quirks and some who I don't think are going to live normal lives

    So one of my high functioning students is wondering how old I am(i'm 27)

    >I'm an adult

    No seriously are you in your 20s or 30s

    >Again adult

    wow... and you don't have a family yet 🙁

    Like Christ kid I knew you said that from a place of sympathy rather then malice but you don't gotta rub it in

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Been teaching high school too a couple years. Gonna get out. Shit's fricked.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      no point in having a family when the climate change is fukcing up the earth cus we got 8 billion morons on it. adopt a kid if u want one. making a new one is only cruel for the planet and the kid

  23. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm down 10 lbs but I feel like I look exactly the same.

  24. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I put all my school work off until the last minute again, wish me luck.

  25. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Finaly on my 22 years / 4 years into lifting /dieting im getting into something with a girl i really find beautiful.

    The day after i took her home my dad starts telling me that she does not like me and she is not for me.

    Like what the frick, first he ruins his marriage then when i find something actually good he starts trying to destroy it, then treating me like i did something wrong, getting upset over stupidities then not talking to me.
    I wish i did not depend on his monetary assistance. Frick this dude its no surprise that me and my 2 sieblings ended up with mental issues

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      probably jealous, i can't see any other reason to be mean against your own children than you doing better than he did at your age

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Maybe your Dad sees something you don't, and you should head the warning of someone who knows alot about fricking up with women.

  26. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    This might not be the right space to ask this, but is it weird if I like my fiancé a little soft? I'm not talking obese or fupa level, but just a bit of tummy is cute. I like knowing that I'm providing and taking care of her. These days all I think about is getting her pregnant, I want to see her round with bigger breasts. Is this some sort of pre-husband/father feeling?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Normal preference I guess
      t.likes chubby

  27. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Will the mods and jannies also purge this thread?

    This is one of the fewest safe place in this site were you can have a good talk with someone without being surrounded by sex freaks and morons like the ones in the nsfw boards

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      no
      afaik there was a period 12-8 months ago where it was up to jannie's discretion to either keep or delete these threads, I for example got a ban for a sunday feels bar thread, but for the last year or so they have been allowing weekend feels threads

      I presume they must have had an internal debate about it where we, feelbros, won

  28. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I wish women would drive conversations more. I'm 24 talking with foreign 19 yo, and she's making me be the only convo initiator and driver over text.
    I don't know how women can be this socially moronic, they socialize 24/7.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >I don't know how women can be this socially moronic
      she's not socially moronic
      if girls are intensely into you they will message first
      it's not worth it for them tøbe the initiator most of the time

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >”I want him to chase me!!”
        This is yet another reason why the modern dating scene is a disaster.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        She did message me first. As in she liked my profile and said hello first.
        I'm still driving convos

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Either you’re dealing with a truly feminine woman which you are clearly too damaged to handle, or she doesn’t give a shit about you

      >I don't know how women can be this socially moronic
      she's not socially moronic
      if girls are intensely into you they will message first
      it's not worth it for them tøbe the initiator most of the time

      Shit advice that only applies to masculine women

  29. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    A long island for me bar fren

    Had a really bad period when a certain someone kept appearing in my dreams. I realized I never had let go properly, as much as I kept telling myself I had. I found out the hard way that even if you think you left the feels behind, they will always catch up to you. You cannot outrun them. I thought I had a chance at one of those coveted types of love you only get one chance at in life, but the feeling wasn't reciprocated. I really, really thought it was. I was done dirty, probably unvoluntarily, but frick if it hurts. It was fine a few months afterwards, but now it all hit me at once. What's worse is that some memories keep coming out at the most inopportune moments.

    Like typing this post, on the topic of dreams, I remembered her telling me she had trouble remembering them, teaching her how to do so, her white teeth when she smiled as she recalled the first dream she remembered since she was a child. Or her wearing one of those oversized white shirts, dragging me to a public photo booth to take a photo together - thankfully we got interrupted at the last minute, I can't fricking imagine how haunting having that photo around would be. All the drinking contests we had, none ever admitting defeat to the other. All the times we confided our inecurities to the other. I really thought there was something there, but apparently it was just a mirage that left only sand under my fingernails the moment I tried to touch it. I had my fair share of breakups, frick I got out of a turbo abusive relationship in the past, this was just a rejection, it should be nothing, I thought it was nothing. Yet I was wrong.

    Happens to the best of us, I hope. Kept lifting, kept running, kept reading, and in the end I came back to myself. My dreams are unpolluted and we are back. Things have gotten better in the past, they will get better again. To all frens struggling: I wish you the best. WAGMI

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      In the same boat. Unrequited love is a real dagger in the heart, and I completely empathise with what you said. It really can feel like some unjust punishment, or unfair in that most people might not experience it, but it just happens, have to be glad in some ways that we can have those feelings to begin with, at least we aren't mindless golems who can't really grasp what love feels like.
      You'll make it through though, you're already doing well based on what you said, and I wish you the best too.

  30. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Well, I will post it again

    Yeah, I think I am in a moral dilema right now

    Context

    >close to 10 years ago
    >bad family environment
    >goes to a 4 years mixed technical-Highschool (to complete your highschool degree you need to complete the technical one and do a job intership/trainee/get a job basically
    >bad teaching generally
    >father forbidden me from getting a work
    >"if you get a job I will frick you up anon, if you want momey you ask me for it. Don't fricking disobey me"
    >fear of being expell from home and become homeless
    >my father already physically assaulted my sister in front of me when I was 14
    >year passes
    >"what the frick you mean you was obligated to get job to get a highschool degree? Its your fault, you will dropout get a degree by exam and I will sue the school"
    >mom crying hidden from my father
    >some months latter she found that a work friend is a factory owner
    >he fraud a document that register me as a local worker
    >I get my highschool degree
    >tfw I have a fraudulent HS degree

    I am currently a University student, even tho I failed a lot of classes due to my poor mental health, I have no money from my savings anymore also.

    Is it anti-ethical/wrong to keep this HS degree? I feel sick of going through all this

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Ofc its ethically okay to keep the HS degree, anyone can get a degree. Not your fault your dad is a right c**t

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I know it's hard as frick in your current state of mind but you've gotta get through your Uni, get a job, and get the frick away from your parents. Forget about the HS degree, get your college degree, and get away

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Thanks. My biggest concern is about keeping my HS degree and if I should finish uni since I failed a lot (also, due to the online classes during pandemic my education is pretty dubious).

        Would it be right to apply to jobs with those things? But also, I need them to get money and survive somehow

        I am pretty confused in my mind, sometimes I wish I had a normal life

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >My biggest concern is about keeping my HS degree
          Yes keep it. The fact you have this guilt over not rightfully earning it proves you're not a lazy Black person
          >and if I should finish uni since I failed a lot
          What do you have to do to finish? What would you do for work without the degree?
          >Would it be right to apply to jobs with those things?
          Yes, most people fresh out of school are morons who know nothing. You're clearly not a lazy Black person you're just depressed. Find a job, put effort into it, and get away from your parents.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >What do you have to do to finish? What would you do for work without the degree?
            90 credits
            Its pretty useless degree, so I was thinking about civil servant or military service.

  31. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >mental health thread
    OOOOOOH JANNY~~~~~!

    >>>/LULZ

  32. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Hey guys I hit 225 for bench at 175 lbs. Pretty happy about it

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Congrats, anon. You're GMI

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Based! You are officially a gymrat

        Now go after the 315 bench, king

        Thanks guys, we're all going to make it

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Based! You are officially a gymrat

      Now go after the 315 bench, king

  33. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I’ll have a laced milk please.
    I’m beginning to lose grasp of my relationship. We’ve been together for almost 2 years. I love her to the moon and back. She can be so sweet, I’ve stuck around through so many terrible situations. I don’t only love her when she’s happy. I never ever insult her or say anything mean about her actions. But I’m beginning to break and I don’t know how to handle this.
    There is a lot about our relationship that doesn’t work. I’m a very positive logic minded person. I try and see the good in situations and logic to solve problems. And she hates this about me. When she gets sad or depressed it’s like the world is ending. She gets mad and then get even more mad if I try and help. She says these things about me that aren’t true and insults me, and when I try and explain myself she accuses me of making it about myself. She says “this is why I don’t want to talk to you”. Okay, sometimes you just need someone to listen. So I shut my mouth and stop inputting.

    She invites me over, changes her mind, then asks me to come at 3am and when I say no she freaks out on me. I made plans with friends months ago for this specific Friday. She disappeared, went to a hotel, told me she wanted to die and wouldn’t pick up the phone if I tried calling her. I was so worried.
    My girlfriend was sexually abused at a young age and hates men. And she projects all of this baggage onto me and makes me feel worthless. And if I speak up I’m the bad guy. I know she probably needs another therapist. And I want to be here through her hard times because I love her and I know she’s suffering. But it’s literally like she’s two different people.
    What do I need to do here brothers? Is it wrong of me to leave? I want a normal happy relationship. Where we can both communicate.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      She sounds fricking crazy. But honestly, if you love her, you should stay with her, as long as she is apologetic about her behavior and shows you that she appreciated you being there for her.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Thanks bro. I’m gonna keep trying.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      She needs to get therapy or you need to leave. Push for that therapy

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      leave or therapy. but id opt for leaving. i was basically in the same boat, they don’t really ever change.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Anon she’s broken. She’s going to drag you down with her. You love isn’t enough to unfrick her, neither is therapy. Trust me bro, I dated a girl exactly the same. The insults, the overreactions, the man hating from sexual assault, the baggage, the suicidal shit, she was an alcoholic, etc etc. I trauma bonded to her despite 100 breakups and it took her bringing a guy over and fricking him in our bed while I was at work for me to finally leave. And this was after she had opened tinder 5 or 6 times because she was “bored” and wanted attention. One of my friends even found her profile, sent it to me, and she blamed him because it wasnt his business. LMAO. She abused me emotionally and physically. Pulled my hair, bit me, punched me, kicked me, scratched my face. Everything. And that was all after therapy since she trauma dumped everything she had on me within 3 months of being with her. I spent years with that psychopath because I thought it was my fault for not being the leader/man she needed. It wasn’t my fault. Looking back, im glad she cheated and Im glad it over. I loved her soooooooo fricking much I put up with every red flag you could imagine and in the end, it didn’t mean shit, because she was broken. She was broken and no amount of therapy ever changed shit for her.
      I don’t know your gf but I know women like her and I’m sure a bunch of anons here have gone through the same shit.
      I repeat, she will drag you down with her and blame you for not pulling you both back up. Leave her on your own terms.

      thanks for reading my semi blog/advice. Think about yourself for a moment man, where do you honestly see your relationship in 1 year? 5 years? You wanna spend the rest of your life on eggshells?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      i was in a relationship with a girl who was sexually abused by a family member, this was long before me and she has been to a lot of treatments and so on. You can't do much, the trauma will always be there, sometimes everything is fine and she'll do stupid stuff randomly, i miss her still. But you should get out before you get ruined like i did, i was almost out of the relationsship before it really started, and even tho i had a great time with her etc. You should end the relationship

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >She invites me over, changes her mind, then asks me to come at 3am and when I say no she freaks out on me. I made plans with friends months ago for this specific Friday. She disappeared, went to a hotel, told me she wanted to die and wouldn’t pick up the phone if I tried calling her. I was so worried.

      She doesnt really like you. She just doesnt want to be alone. You should break up with her

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Bail yesterday. Run and never look back.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Figuring out what her triggers are should help you avoid psychological potholes.
      This guy is good at classifying types of abuse, abusers, survivors, coping mechanisms, all that:
      https://m.youtube.com/@patrickteahanlicswtherapy/videos
      Try to figure out what trauma personality she's adopted (coping mechanisms that kept her safe as a kid, but drives you crazy now) and work from there.

  34. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    A fanta
    I'm going through mental health recovery and I feel like I'm on the right track. But man I feel lonely, I want to be able to social more, and as much as I'm ashamed to admit it, I really want girls as well. I finished a bunch of therapy courses and I've been making some good changes to my personal life and I'm joining a peer support group on Tuesday in order to improve my socialising skills and confidence. Wish me luck fellas.

  35. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    My gf broke up with me because I am terrible at being a boyfriend. I have no idea how to do dates and do all the normie stuff that comes with being a couple. I love her and I believe she loves me but I cant really offer her what she desires because I cant navigate social environments where its more people than just me and her. As soon as other people are around I become completely different. I think I realized that I am a massive pussy who is so afraid of being a normie that I avoided it and lost the woman I love for it

  36. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    29 khv here. I’ve always been a lanky frick (201 cm) and over the past year have been hitting the gym and finally starting to see some gains. I’ve always struggled to put on weight to the point that I’ve at times looked malnourished. I feel like I’m finally starting to get to a point where I’m not completely physically repulsive. I’m still terrified to be with a woman, sexually or otherwise however. I just feel like I’m not a very interesting person so I can’t say why they’d want a relationship with me. And in the event there’s some weirdo out there who just wants to frick a skinny ass like me I know I’d bust in like 10 seconds and embarrass myself. I don’t know what I want from you all, just needed to share somewhere, sorry for the blog

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      If you haven’t quit porn already do that. Limit yourself to jerking off once per week max and take it slow. Don’t just jackhammer your dick

  37. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >San Miguel
    Chilling right now....
    >e-girlbahia.jpg
    Lord Bless...
    >sch-lif.mp3

  38. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    earl grey martini (I've already had five today)
    parents are getting divorced so the neet life is comeing to an end

  39. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Went on a first date with a girl, was nice I liked her, get back text her i had a nice time, she says she did too, send her another message, nothing for 2 days...am i being a b***h and overreacting or did i get ghosted, we texted for a week b4 the date and really got on, i dont understand bros...

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >nothing for 2 days
      women have their phones in their hands 24/7, unless there was an emergency in her life, sry but she ghosted

      theres other fish in the sea

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        honestly i kinda knew it, i just needed to hear it...im talking to a different girl now but im just not putting in much effort because im sad over a girl i went on one fricking date with, jesus even typing it is pathetic why am i like this

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          because were dudes and and alot of us are moronic like that
          most of us dont have 50 chicks on the sideline to choose from, women do have a bunch of guys whenever and whereever they want so we have completely different mindsets

          I recently got bummed out because a girl I talked to had to go back to uni in another city lmao
          shit happens man, go do bench and treat yourself to a good dinner, maybe watch a good show and listen to some music

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        https://i.imgur.com/SEBKwyB.jpg

        Went on a first date with a girl, was nice I liked her, get back text her i had a nice time, she says she did too, send her another message, nothing for 2 days...am i being a b***h and overreacting or did i get ghosted, we texted for a week b4 the date and really got on, i dont understand bros...

        I got ghosted for a week before before she came back
        Just get busy with stuff
        If you aren't feeling like talking with other girls don't force yourself, you are supposed to have fun

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Ok frick it ill wait a bit longer, shit i feel bad bailing on this other girl now...

          Jesus the levels of autism here. Or maybe it's just the youth.

          Anyway, set a time and place for a date. Nothing too fancy. Just send her a message asking her out. If she replies, there you go. If she doesn't, you also have your answer. Make sure you can hit the gym or do other productive stuff in case the date fails. But reserve the time for it anyway.

          >Jesus the levels of autism here. Or maybe it's just the youth
          yh try both...

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Jesus the levels of autism here. Or maybe it's just the youth.

      Anyway, set a time and place for a date. Nothing too fancy. Just send her a message asking her out. If she replies, there you go. If she doesn't, you also have your answer. Make sure you can hit the gym or do other productive stuff in case the date fails. But reserve the time for it anyway.

  40. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Just finished reading this POS and need to vent.
    Things I wish I knew about the author before reading (I went in blind based off recommendations):
    >was french
    >was a manlet king @ 5'9"
    >married a druggie prostitute because he was a white knight who wanted to save her
    >said prostitute cucked him with her doctor who was giving her the drugs
    >joined the french commie party
    >stopped reading his wiki page here
    As for the actual book:
    >it's about a ho-hum homosexual who does frick all and gets used by everyone in his life
    >his boss treats him like a slave
    >he has random homosexuals coming into his place in the middle of the night and he's just k with it
    >his gf is a dumb hoe who ditches him the second things get complicated
    >his moron friend who beat the arab girl, thus causing the arab men to attack them on the beach, thus causing the entire situation
    >homosexual main character doesn't even lie about the gun incident that it was self defense
    >court case is fricked from the start
    >sentenced to death
    >the night before he dies the chaplain comes by to offer comfort
    >this main homosexual character dawns his fedora and neckbeard and goes on a massive r/atheism REEE spree
    >"nothing matters, man. everything sucks and everyone is going to die.. i did everything right but am still going to die. there is no justice"
    >moves the chaplain to tears on how much of a bitter frick he is
    >just to solidify how much of a homosexual the main character his, he finally starts to feel thing in the end
    >what are his feelings before he is to die tomorrow?
    >that everyone is filled with as much hate for him as he is for them
    >the end
    Literally Rddit: The Book written by Rddit: The Author. Gay cringe shit. Frick everyone who said this frog was any good. Frick post-modernism and its 2smart4u femboy anal leakage it calls a """philosophy""". Why is it that anyone who ISN"T proper height has to create an entire idea-set of cope?
    >camus
    >nietzsche
    >freud
    >marx
    >sarte

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >le absurd
      Camus was a grifter and a womanizer.
      >Nietzsche?
      Boy genius who is given professorship publishes his first book and then becomes mockery
      >Health degenerates
      >Keeps writing anyway
      >Philosophy inspires Nazi Germany
      What is it?????
      What's a good philosophy then?

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >goes insane and spends the rest of his life in a nuthouse
        Based Ubermensch.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      So this is what a zoomer book review looks like. The only thing missing are some eggplant and peach emojis.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      It's a shit book

  41. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    tomorrow is my first day at a job that i worked really hard to get and i don't feel anything. no excitement, no nerves, just pure apathy.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      it’ll be alright lil homie. im actually gonna be training a new guy who starts tomorrow and im gonna do my best to make him feel welcome and comfy because it’s what my coworkers did for me. just show up with a smile, even if you gotta fake it, and things will be alright

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        yeah i suppose so. thanks anon. i hope the woman training me is like you.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          what’s gonna be your job, if you don’t mind me asking? IT related? im the only IST guy who’s worked at my office for like the last 3 years

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            it's IT related yeah. it's a software role at a financial services company. I guess they generally don't attract the most active of people lol. how about you

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Im a network guy, also for a financial service company lol. Had my hopes up a bit that id be working with a IST bro.

              why do you think you arent feeling excited for landing the gig? you worked hard for it, your hard work is coming to fruition and it’s only up from here.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                hedonic treadmill and all that. I guess the chase is always better than the kill. it's my first real role since graduating, I guess I just expected more of a sense of achievement. maybe it'll change once it actually starts anyway.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                trust me bro, when that first softwaregay check is deposited into your account, the sense of accomplishment will be more concrete. also, you can use that lack of feeling achievement as a boost into learning more things, getting better at your job, and eventually moving onto a better role with better pay and more responsibility or whatever it is that will help you feel that achievement and accomplishment.

                get a good nights rest and head into work tomorrow with your head held high. you made it homie. and like i said before, the only way you have to go is up

  42. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm in love with a female singer who died 10 years before I was born at my current age. I could have saved her bros

  43. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I just turned 30 and feel like I'm having an early midlife crisis
    My life is extremely ordinary, I'm working an ordinary job and living an ordinary lifestyle (maybe only more IST than the average guy)
    Lately I've been feeling like throwing everything away and give a music career another shot
    I know it's stupid, but I'm going insane at how predictable and generic my life has become

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >early midlife crisis
      Depends how long you live. I'm probs gonna die by 60 something so my thirties is midlife for me too. Just keep yourself together, try new things, do things. The "midlife crisis man" meme is often just women screeching about men finally coming into having money and stability and time and making use of it dating younger women and doing things for themselves. Never listen to women.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      there are mexicans on the border who would love your stable life. there are sick people who would love to have your healthy body. count your blessings anon. you life is another persons paradise.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Make music as a hobby. Dedicate all your free time to it, and go wherever it takes you. Maybe you'll get a record deal or just get popular on YouTube as an indie musical artist. Eventually you might get big enough to warrant spending even more time and money on it. You'll figure it out when you get there.
      It's not a replacement for your stable life, just something to make it more interesting.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Lately I've been feeling like throwing everything away and give a music career another shot
      I never had this as a serious idea. Here's a thing from today that would have been unthinkable 10 years back when I was a pseudo-normie, though: I play in three bands and can rehearse every evening from Monday to Thursday if I want to. Two of those have weekly gigs over the year. Paid but nonprofit. My thirst of music is basically quenched and I didn't have to drop a day job for that. Spoiler: I'm a NEET and pursuing a musical career would have crushed my soul.

  44. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Cripple anon here. I posted my ills a couple years ago and some anon said it reminded them of pic related, got a hearty kek that pierced through the agony.

    Good news is I finally found a medicine that works (spent years with little benefit) and physical therapy is helping. Last year was all about recovery. Now I can walk without limping most of the time and my brainfog is lifting and I'm getting my cognitive ability back. I'm glad I didn't kill myself. Cheers!

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      https://www.quadstick.com/shop/quadstick-fps-game-controller

      usually sold out, they normally restock mondays at 12 noon EDT. don't know how crippled you are but if it's severe then you will be VERY happy with one if you have someone to help set it up

  45. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    i set up a gym date with a girl from work
    and then i googled gym date and everyone said is bad idea
    it's going to be deadlift day for me, wat do

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      That's peculiar. I'm going on second date with a girl and we're going to a climbing gym because that's her passion. Earlier this week I was daydreaming about what would happen if she shit herself there and I was there to console her.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        climbing's fun. wish it wasn't so spensive

  46. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    rum and coke thanks

    co-worker who lifts has been overseas the past few weeks finally came back yesterday, was having a good chat about how my gym progress been going and he commented he could see a difference, another co-worker overheard and and said
    >yeah anon like a week or two back you were wearing this green shirt and that's when I noticed
    I fricking *knew* I looked good in that shirt but nice to have confirmation, I'm finally starting to make it.

  47. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'll have scotch and soda. I'm feeling real shitty lately. The mods who work for free on my favorite board keep deleting all the best threads.

  48. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm so fricking bored lately. Already went to the gym, went out with friends in the morning. Now I'm at home with frick all to do, don't feel like playing or watching anything. Wtf do people do for fun? Everything is boring.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You're probably overstimulated. Stop watching or playing anything for a good week, and stay away from IST. Get yourself into a gay hobby like writing or drawing, even if just for a little bit. Focus on lifting more to pass the time if that doesn't work. Overnight you'll be right back to craving those gaymin hours

  49. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I want to ask out a girl but she's a muslim refugee from Afghanistan. Obviously some degrees of liberal because she finished uni shortly before the Taliban took over, then fled the country with her siblings. Her parents got out a little while later.

    Just not sure how much of a headache this will be when I'm a Christian.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      If you want to frick her then give it a go. If you want to marry her you will need to convert or elope with her and take her away from her only family, for a man she hardly knows.

  50. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I can't stand being 5'5"
    I go outside and am the shortest person in every setting
    I see these normies with their friends and they all tower over me and I realize I'm a defective dead end
    Worst part is If I just had a few more inches I would be normal, I'm not that ugly and I take care of myself

  51. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's gay but I'm tired of being alone

    I've been alone a lot in my life. Friends and lovers come and go and no one seems to want to be a rock. I'm so tired of pushing. I just want to be held.

  52. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I went out and played bass in my friend's country band last night. The others in that band are all tall handsome chads and I'm the 5'10" balding autismo bass player. Women look right through me like I'm not even there. I went home and fell asleep to an hour long video I found of blade runner interlinked asmr

  53. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Got Covid while on cycle, can’t workout without chest pain, been woken up multiple times. Think it’s getting better though.

    At least my physique looks good, within 3-4 months I’ll be close/at my goal.

    Will exclusively focus on personal projects for the next 3-4months and start applying to jobs and doing my school work, I’ve temporarily given up on making friends/getting a suitable gf (too mentally draining), maybe pickup a martial art after Covid or another hobby.
    Hopefully will feel better soon both mentally and physically.

  54. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Double shot of whiskey, neat.
    Going to restart my lifting routine tomorrow after fricking off for 2 weeks, with cardio and light calisthenics on off days. I'm nearly 190lbs bloated right now and want to get to 165lbs by the end of the year.
    Question, how do I relight my inner fire, my passion and purpose for life? Every day feels like a waste a time, and my hobbies don't interest anymore

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      find new hobbies. I recommend history or religion. read something. gain some skill u can use. volunteer for nonprofits. u must explore to find ur passion

  55. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >lady stops making eye contact outside of needing work assistance
    >mirror this behavior back at them
    >they get angry
    Black person what?
    Fricking explain this to me.

  56. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Feel like I'm doing not bad for first year of law school (3.8 GPA, great scholarship) but applying for summer jobs, scholarship funding renewals, and managing the regular class workload feels like it gives me zero time for the gym, my fitness has definitely suffered even if I'm keeping up with everything else. I really hope it gets better the next two years (no I'm not planning on doing law review or a shitton of extracurricular activities)

    Being on a large college campus surrounded by 18 year old girls doesn't help either - I'm 26 and even though I'm pleased with where I'm at it's still somewhat depressing to look at them all around me and think how I've never had that.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      18 year old girls are insufferable why would you want that

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        it's not that I want THEM (the personality, the drama): it's that it's unpleasant being surrounding by very attractive women when you feel stressed, because really what you end up wanting most is a "pressure release" outlet by being able to be with a very attractive woman.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      moron, you are in the best position in life. You can be banging uni girls.

  57. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Ice water, please.

    Bros, I’m not sure what I’m working for anymore. I’ve got pretty much everything that I wanted a year ago, minus the girl. Going off what the looksmaxxers on this board say, I should be knee-deep in women. I’m 6’4”, white, blonde, blue eyes, decently muscular physique (10 years swimming + little bit of weights; 12% body fat) have an apprenticeship and a decent amount of money, and my own car. I’ll even be able to buy a house outright in a few years. But I don’t know what I’m working towards anymore. I feel like I’m at an impasse, that I don’t know why I’m working 50 hours a week anymore if I don’t have anyone to share it with. I talk to women at functions, I hang out with the boys every so often, but I am losing my motivation to work.

  58. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    2 girls I’m talking to right now

    Both are Mennonite background, incredibly awkward

    One is blonde, piercing blue eyes, 5’9”, thin as a rail, likes Persona games and cosplay n sheeit, very hard to hold a conversation, 7/10

    The other is brunette, crazy smart, likes history, fashion, old books, 6/10

    What do I do here?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Monk

      Idk

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Ruin both of them with your dirty pervert penis.

  59. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I've been a NEET for 13 months and while I don't hate it, I know I'm pissing my life away. Every day I'm marching closer to the grave without accomplishing anything. However, I don't feel like there's anything left for me in the "real" world anymore. Job prospects are grim with a liberal arts degree and even if I did land something, I probably never be able to move out of my parent's house. Relationships aren't feasible while living with mom and dad (not that I had one when I was in college) and I'm arguably even more socially moronic than I was as a teenager. I have no friends and no reason to leave the house other than the occasional grocery store run. I feel like I've failed the world and the world's failed me.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You need to get any job and get use to the grind and getting out of the house. Recommend not customer-facing if possible. Try to deal with one hang-up at a time since you don't have to worry about housing for now.
      After you start getting paid, split costs with your parents so you can figure out how to set and keep a budget. Good luck out there.

  60. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Spent about two months dating the girl of my dreams
    >Work is forcing both of us to move away
    >She ended it a week ago
    >Wants to stay on good terms and keep in touch, seems to be genuine
    I'll be back in the US and free to give it another go in two years, and I know I won't ever find anybody else who makes me feel the way she does in that time, but I also know she's a beautiful amd genuinely interesting girl who can make a guy better than me fall in love with her at a glance. Feels hopeless.
    I was given the briefest glimpse at how perfect life could be, how it feels to be truly happy, and now it's gone. Grim.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Sorry dawg she's already fricked 30 other guys.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah, I know. That's why I feel like shit, anon.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Haha then have a nice day.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Haha then have a nice day.

        If it makes you feel any better she's up in heaven getting fricked by 300 different dudes daily.

        Sorry about your dead wife who doesn't love you anymore.

        good morning sir. please do the needful and play on some train tracks

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >I know I won't ever find anybody else who makes me feel the way she does in that time
      you don’t know shit. you could meet your unicorn tomorrow but that doomer ass mentality will keep you from seeing it

  61. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    all is going well, bros
    sometimes I get neurotic over money. sometimes I'm on edge, fighting with everyone. sometimes people disappoint me: I trust too much. but through trust I've met fantastic people so it's worth the disappointment

    it's good to take some time off to relax. be one afternoon, a whole day, maybe a couple. as long as you can afford it. drinking some wine, shitposting without a care, takes the edge off. while on the grind, it's easy to forget how good you're doing.

  62. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Just water.
    I miss my wife bro's. She didn't leave me, she passed away from cancer. Sometimes I'm alright, and I lift a lot to keep my mind busy. Sometimes though I come home, and it's just empty.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      If it makes you feel any better she's up in heaven getting fricked by 300 different dudes daily.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Digits and 300 demons haunted and rape your ass until.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Sorry about your dead wife who doesn't love you anymore.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Digits and Satan makes you his cum dump and God laughs in your face about it.
            >captcha: mama

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              https://i.imgur.com/EDAYzRD.jpg

              [...]
              [...]
              [...]
              good morning sir. please do the needful and play on some train tracks

              Keep posting how sad you are about dead people and women fricking other dudes on an anonymous forum dedicated to lifting.
              It will genuinely make you feel better.
              I guarantee it.
              You stupid fricking Black folk.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                calm down pajeet and have a drink

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      that fricking sucks anon. I have nothing to say to you cause when I think of something like that happening I'm at a loss of what I'd do to cope. I don't know if I'd even want to keep going, as long as we still have no children.
      but I know guys who have lost their gfs/wives and managed to bounce back, so it's not impossible. I also know men who became ghosts, a pale shadow of what they were after widowing, so there's that too. obviously it's in your best interest to know become one of them

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      im sorry bro. life is bittersweet.

  63. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    How will pushups and squats in my room do for me?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Better than nothing. Buy a pull-up bar too. Get lean and you will mog most people

  64. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    After five months of waiting for opportunity,i have job interview this week which can change my life.
    Hope it goes well hah

  65. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    About to finish my Masters Degree in a few weeks.
    I made it all the way through school, through graduate studies, without every studying for anything my entire life and procrastinating every single project and test to the very last minute. Never have I ever gotten anything done in the way you’re “supposed” to work on it by doing little bits at a time every day.
    I used to think I was lazy but I don’t believe that anymore, I just have an unusual way of motivating myself by making everything a life or death situation

  66. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    my team lost today
    on the one hand I'm so happy for them that they finally made it this far after decades
    on the other hand it hurts so much bros to lose in this manner
    am I being too greedy?

  67. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >graduated college
    >moved to a city in california for job
    >its all latinos

    never finding a gf, thinking about moving to austin or denver

  68. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    my dopamine has been related to quick releases my entire life and I've never worked past a threshold of any hobby or activity that wasn't initially easy. That's the reflection I'm having now, so my weekend is okay I guess.

    I just want to be able to have long sustained focus on something that I find halfway enjoyable. On the other hand, my life isn't so bad. Just wish I could afford a house in my market.

    Thanks for listening to my blog.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      read atomic habits. and plan your day hour by hour. I do it like this in notion every day:

      11-12: workout
      12-3: meal prep
      3-4: work on this assingment

      and so on. its a game changer as u can see ur day and prime ur mind

  69. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I can’t fricking stand that I have clairvoyance
    >be me
    >hit rock bottom
    >lost my job driver’s license and became a alcoholic after a break up
    >want to get back my ex so go on dating apps thinking
    >maybe I will score a decently frickable single mom in her late 20s early 30s
    >I pick up my phone and this monotone voice says what if you meet your dream girl and you hit it off at this low point
    >log on that day and see a profile of a literal 10/10 goth goddess.
    >made my ex look like dog shit in comparison and she was a onlyfans model making thousands a day.
    >she messaged first and my first response was taking about this obscure Italians horror film she knew everything about
    >sort of like my subconscious manifested the perfect girl into reality
    >feeling like a piece absolute dog shit I self sabotage myself
    >I have matched and messaged 8/10 hot bodied school teachers and fricking 20 something years old all the time
    >every single one felt like a downgrade compared to her
    I can’t over it till this day
    I did get back my ex when I told her about it and she got jealous calling me a liar.
    But Holyshit if I ever had motivation to never ever let myself go back to the place in it is that

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      a dumb b***h made u hit rock bottom? man u are pathetic. man the frick up loser. I mean it in a good way.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        She really didn’t if I was going to honest
        I was already in rock bottom and she just held a mirror on my face showing my own failings as a man
        >living with his mom, working minimum wage, with zero future prospects other than living in a trailer park after his mother dies

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          enter the trades. its honest and good paying.

  70. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I’ve completely wasted my time at college. I’m majoring in computer science but I hate programming and I cheat in all of my classes because I don’t care to learn or study something I don’t like. I don’t know what I’m going to do after college, but I’ve heard Comp Sci jobs are impossible to get now anyways. I was thinking about maybe being a trucker or some shit, idk.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      unironically be a trucker or enter the trades. im in cs as well and its a reckoning. though who dont enjoy it wont makeit.

  71. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I’m stuck in a limbo of just ignoring my problems trying to remain positive and getting depressed and praying for someone to shoot me.
    I’m getting older and I feel like a failure.

  72. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I have dedicated my life to Learning ways of killing people
    Was it all worth it
    Men who are involved in killing understand why we do
    It.
    Me and my cousin understand why would anyone throw away Harvard for digging trenches.
    This may sound insane why men willing chose this life
    I was trained by me who killed in their life
    Those men are closer to me than my own brothers
    Even a Nigerian scammer is closer than my brother's 2wrt8

  73. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I want to live now
    I don’t want to die anymore
    That worthy battle for me to die in happened 10 years ago
    I want to Iive
    I am sick and tired of pretending that the only reason
    I have wanted to an hero for
    The past 17 years was noting more than being to chicken shit to end it myself

  74. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Cutting last summer
    >Motivated, gym is my #1 looking-forward-to-activity every single day
    >Pumped and pushing
    >Last week of cut my strength and energy drop like a rock
    >Motivation 0
    >Start bulking
    >Expect to be stronger, more energy
    >Get lethargic instead
    >Only thing going up is bench and OHP somewhat
    Squat and deads in the shitter
    >It's been months
    ???

  75. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Guys, I submitted a screenshot for an assignment, and there was a chegg tab open. Is it over for me

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Only IST autists check for meme tabs in screenshots. You're gonna be fine

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Depends on the tech literacy of the teacher.
      If I were in your pants-- don't worry about it. If you get got, you get got. You'll figure it out, and I'm sure you can get let off with just one slip up

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      yer fuktd anon you need to change schools

  76. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I find it very difficult to meet people and make friends. All I have done for the last half-decade is wake up, go to the gym, go home, and go to sleep. I have hobbies; I enjoy studying Latin and Japanese, and reading history books and Latin and Greek Literature. I enjoy my hobbies, but I don't meet many other people who think this is interesting. This has made it difficult for me to find things in common with people. Filling the hole with the gym worked for a while, but for the last year or so the loneliness has started to come back. I am not sure what to do anymore. To compound this I recently moved to a new country where I can't speak much of the language which had made things more difficult.

  77. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Damn im starting to like gym girls again

  78. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Gf Ive been dating for almost a year’s red flags are getting brighter and brighter, we are talking about moving in but thinking on cancelling that
    >bad diet (not fat though, yet)
    >heavily addicted to sugar, eats like a child, sugar and salt on everything, on top of her family having history of diabetes
    >is able to not be fat cuz she has adhd and sometimes completely forgets to eat anything some days
    >bpd with bad spending habits (crippling student debt with no real job, spend money on crystals and other useless shit)
    Other than that she is madly in love with me. But I am feeling guilted into moving in with her but really shouldnt. Do I call her out on all this? Tell her how to eat and spend like she is a child? I feel like that would build resentment on both sides and frankly I don’t believe people can change, i am considering the obvious option, kind of miss being single and getting back on that sigma male grind, ive let her become a gains goblin for too long

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      She is not a good fit for you. Her values and personality dont fully align with yours. You can love her and get along with her butnshe will always have the issues
      >I feel like that would build resentment
      It will. Listen to your intuition anon. You know yourself you just need to listen to yourself

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I'm in a pretty similar situation all around, from red flags to shit eating habits to her offering me to move in with her.
      Except I don't feel any guilt in politely declining her offer because I used to live at another girl's place and while it wasn't a bad relationship overall, the power dynamics clearly gets skewed by the fact that it's not your place. This alone is a good enough reason for me to keep spending moronic money on my rental but be free.
      So I'd advise against this. Especially since you already have your doubts.

      Regarding
      >Do I call her out on all this?
      You absolutely should, and be bold about it. If she's into you she'll listen, but only if you're very serious and patronizing about it (mine did). Women say they hate this attitude but they secretly respect it.
      And if she's not into you you're free to be sigma again. You win in both cases.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Good thing communication is a thing. You clearly have boundaries and she's crossing them. It is your obligation to let her know but it isn't hers to change. The reverse is also true.
      However, she may choose to change, or more likely say that she will. Give it a week or two and see what happens.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I guess I'm in a similar place to

      >2 years ago
      >First non abusive relationship
      >Nobody throws things at me
      >Guess I like how she listens, and there's some playfulness, but mostly the whole no physical abuse
      >Enough to make me happy
      >Everything I've told her I wanted from a relationship or valued has trended down over the relationship
      >Mentioned in recent discussion she isn't even sure what she brings to the relationship, so I guess she noticed too
      >240lbs, no attraction left
      >Recent health issue had me at the low point in my life, lost 12lbs bedridden unable to feed myself with no help from her
      >Guilted me about not going on vacation with her and pressured me into phone sex while I was telling her I was in tons of pain
      >Immediately after I got better she broke her ankle so now I'm having to care take for her
      >Supposed to move in July

      I'm going to bring up Saturday that these problems are real relationship threats. Honestly I don't see her fixing them, but I feel like I owe her at least a chance after 2 years? Feel like shit dumping her when she can't walk

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Frick her and cum on her uncle.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Frick i think i fricked spelling?

  79. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Finally started going to a gym rather than working out at home. Getting humbled by having to virtually start over with a bar and being a very obvious noob with cables and gym etiquette, but overall feeling good about progress no longer being dependent on what I can make space for. It's an abstract kind of feel.

  80. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    My ex texted me back this morning after I ghosted her for about a year.
    I hoped she would forget about me but apparently not. What should I do bros? She is a geniune sweetheart with a heart of gold. Pretty,shy,loyal,does not smoke,drink or do drugs and a year younger than me (20). I realise that she is a dreamgirl of almost every guy but I live in an almost different reality. We are the opposites financially (one simple property of us is probably worth more than her entire families networth),politicaly (shes liberal,my family ultra conservative),religious (deism, deeply religious). Even my lifestyle is so different than almost everyone I know. I work everyday of the week at a semi high position in my fathers company slowly getting groomed to be a succesfull leader while studying engineering at university. My hobbies are racing with my car/motor,gardening,reading books and studying spiritual books. While she studies history, works at a museum and her hobbies are watching tv/movies. Is it even possible that this will work? We can talk fine about our interests and enjoy our time together. I dont know how it will be future. Am i expecting too much from her? I got the ideas of becoming better,being a leader,achieving your goals drilled into me as a kid and now im trying to reach the top,trying to make a positive change in the world so her just living normally is so bizarre to me.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You sound like a high strung gay that will realize all his accomplishes are worthless without someone to share them with, only you'll realize this when you're 40 and childless.
      A partner who genuinely cares about you is worth more than any of "your" properties (which you did not work for you silverspoon wienersucker). Oh no she likes to watch TV what will I do? Stupid yuppie frick.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I dont like love man. Its so confusing and I dont understand it all. I hate how it makes me feel and how it makes me act. Just to be clear im not trying to gain simply to have more money or shit. From my personal view someone who is wealthy,powerfull can change the world more than someone who is not. The world is in a bad shape and from the bottom of my heart I want to make a difference. Thats the reason I work so hard. There is not a single person that I know of that works as hard as me.
        To me all that shit is much easier than having a person close to me.
        >oh no she lives to watch tv
        I have friends that are pretty poor but just like me they work everyday or try to improve themselves. Its the mindset that matters. I have a couple in my street that are upper middle class but they watch tv every single day at night whenever I come back home. To me I cant relate to them even if they are financially well off.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Genuinely the most braindead, selfish, and unselfaware posts I've ever read. If this is bait, have a nice day, and if it's not, then have a nice day and livestream it so I can laugh at you when you die.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Pretty,shy,loyal,does not smoke,drink or do drugs
      >deism
      lmao if you honestly believe she hasn’t been a total prostitute for the last year

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I know her for 4 years now even in highschool shes the same

        >I work everyday of the week at a semi high position in my fathers company slowly getting groomed to be a succesfull leader while studying engineering at university
        What a convoluted way to say
        >I'm a nepotism baby

        kek dude is probably his dads coffee boy

        Yea i got the job because of my father idk what you want me to do? Dont take the job and work as a cashier? These are the cards that have been dealt to me and u want me not to make use of it and do something lower? While you say oh u got it easy, people I work say that they are impressed that im able to handle all of the work at my age. Did u not read I work every single day from morning until night 6 days a week and the one day I dont work I go to university to study.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >idk what you want me to do?
          You're still young so I'll give you a little life lesson - people aren't impressed with it, so there's 0 reason to pop it into your post. I'm referring to the whole "look at me and my big boy role!". Seems extremely tonedeaf and also makes you seem ignorant.
          >people I work say that they are impressed that im able to handle all of the work at my age
          This for example. Are you deluded? People are not going to shittalk the owner's son, or they'll get fricked. Good for you that you're doing well, but don't push irrelevant bragging where they're not needed (and looking down on people with your 'her whole worth is a nickel to me' attitude), or you'll get the responses you got.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >I work everyday of the week at a semi high position in my fathers company slowly getting groomed to be a succesfull leader while studying engineering at university
      What a convoluted way to say
      >I'm a nepotism baby

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        kek dude is probably his dads coffee boy

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >i
      It's over.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      go frick yourself, I genuinely hope you die

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Give me her number bro I'll give her what she wants

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Ill make tldr for you guys,op said:

      > Im gay

  81. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Give me a white monster can with one of those nipple bottle tops, pierced and cooled. Been feeling really horny lately and no amount of cooming or not cooming has helped. I need new exercise ideas to tire myself out enough. Problem is that all i have is a bench and a barbell with 60 kgs and the nearest gym is too far away to bother going.

  82. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >graduated high school 5 years ago
    >still fricking around doing nothing like a teenager
    >watch TV one night
    >a dude I went to school with when I was 7 is a shredded personal trainer and is on national TV for our version of American Gladiator

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      2 years ago I would have lol'd at you. Now I am 1 year away from being you
      I didn't want it to be this way ;-;

  83. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I am so lonely that I am almost messaging my ex who treated me like shit. I tried talking to other women and keeping my self esteem, but they all treat me like I don't even exist too. Being lonely is so bad...

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      how're ya going about meeting them?

  84. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Guys, I'm trying to get biceps. I've been doing ez preacher curls. Now my forearms are sore in a bad way. Outer middle part of the forearm. Dumbbells feel better but I kinda hate those curls. Any clues, any fixes?

  85. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Hit my head while druk yesterday, can't tell if the splitting headache is from that or just regular hangover, kind of worried.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      could be both for all you know. i'd get checked out if you have time

  86. 4 weeks ago
    LC

    >masturbation is harmful af
    >but too fat to date (yet)

    shit is so tiresome dudes..

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I try to hold out until the weekend, like Saturday or Sunday.
      Makes it worth the wait to me.

  87. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    What is it about me that always attracts the tsundere type of women who hate themselves for the fact that they like me? What makes women like this?

  88. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Pissed at my wife. I wish she’d walked the dog yesterday because I had to work. All she did was cook and lay around. Didn’t even clean up the dishes she dirtied. Because the dog didn’t get walked he keeps barking at me for attention, and meanwhile she’s zoned out on TikTok. Couldn’t walk the dog in the darkness after I got off work. And I had to end up cleaning the dishes because they were stinking up the kitchen and clogging up the garbage disposal. Then I get b***hed at this morning for being too noisy while I was cleaning up.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I'm not experienced in relationships, but I don't think you should take that shit

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        he shouldnt but he’s married and afraid to be alone so he’ll let the dumb c**t walk all over him

  89. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    do you have noticeably better or worse days too?
    like, I just have better days if some or all these happen before noon or so
    >getting compliments for my work
    >getting a new (paid) task from my freelance contracts
    >arranging something fun for the weekend
    >being part of conversations that involve a plan etc
    >stock market being properly up
    etc etc

    I just feel more energized if something is going on that day
    I have slight hyperactivity and ADHD
    I dont think this is a sustainable way to live

  90. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    is ex sex a bad idea

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      How good are you about stonewalling your emotions?

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        We did it once before and ended up dating pretty soon after.

  91. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >meet cute tomboy
    >we have all the same hobbies and interests
    >conversation natural light easygoing
    >lesbian
    Why does this keep happening to me? I swear god just likes to dick with me sometimes

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      > "You should try men sometime."
      > "Haha anon you're so pphbphgpghgpb bla bla bla."
      > "What I meant to say is, you should try me sometime."

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Im inclined to believe that has a roughly 0% success rate outside of filmed media

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I'm inclined to believe you will remain helpless and never, ever frick this girl.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Im not. Its already over. Ive coped seethed and accepted it already

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      There is no true lesbian,try to seduce her,seriously.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Tf are you talking about dude? Although she does have a large male dog. Maybe there is a chance after all…

  92. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Water for me.

    I'm doing okay, wish job market was better, but saw that a beautiful girl I dated but had to leave is dating a short ugly dude that looks like a thumb.
    I want to be a piece of shit and call her and tell her to smarten the frick up- I don't think it's a good idea but I don't see any other way out, if she breeds with this thumb Black person it's over for 5,000 years of genes and selective breeding, all because she has self confidence issues.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      let her make her own mistakes. you’re not her father

  93. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous__

    Today is my birthday. I'm now 27.

    I feel good physically. I look pretty good for 27. My hair is good and stable thanks to dutasteride and I've avoided becoming fat like most of my friends from home. My physique is weak but that's the price I pay for doing 10 hours of cardio per week.

    I'm less emotionally mature than I'd like to be. I still avert my eyes in public and try not to bother people. I also have depressive episodes where I don't leave my house for days at a time. I play videogames and wish I didn't.

    Socially I feel pretty good. I have a good girlfriend who I love and who treats me with great kindness and respect.

    Economically I'm in an unstable but promising position. I'm doing a health science PhD at a university that always ranks global top 3, but I haven't yet parlayed that into a good paying job. For now I'm paid about $40k after tax and I spend it like water. I'm craving more money but haven't (yet) done the scary networking that I need to get a finance or consulting job. I think this is my biggest challenge right now; I need to face my fear of rejection in order to get rich.

    I also take a lot of pills in hopes of living longer.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      > I have a good girlfriend who I love and who treats me with great kindness and respect.
      Marry her.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Happy birthday anonsan!

      About low confidence:

      > The way to develop self-confidence is to do the thing you fear and get a record of successful experiences behind you.

  94. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >talk to boss about my 90 day review
    >i'll figure it out. i have a notification setup
    >90 days have passed about a week and a half ago
    >"we'll do it monday (today)"
    >so we gonna do that review?
    >"oh well we might wanna do it tuesday or wednesday"
    >confirmed with other coworker that we will pressure him about it
    >talked to boss's boss about getting a raise
    >he seems in support of it
    >need first boss to stop dicking around and just do it already
    If I don't hear anything by Wednesday I'm forwarding both bosses an email with a date and time. I know my fricking worth. Pay me, Shekelstein. I can do this job from home in 1/3 of the time you take.

  95. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >new female coworker gets hired
    >she randomly message me after working with us for 2.5-3 months
    >very frequently messages me for the next around 6 months until they get sent to my location
    >the guy at the top of my department (from her location) stops the meeting i am in to suddenly sell me on her attractive traits, and tells me to go for it
    >dont go for it because the main office (where they are located) is 12 hours away
    >coworker continues to message me frequently until she comes back 1-1.5 months later during a week i am on vacation
    >get back from vacation
    >coworker only starts messaging me when she needs something work related from me
    >decide to leave one of her messages on read for 2 weeks to see what happens
    >coworker almost seems relieved that i finally messaged her back
    >now does this shit where she will message me enthusiastically about random shit for maybe 1-2 days straight, then will into work only messages mode for weeks
    i dont understand. did i do something wrong here? ive never been in a relationship or had female friends, so i dont know much about how to correctly interact with women beyond the surface level required for work.
    this is not the first woman to try to get friendly with me at work who i did not end up pursuing. honestly, i probably would have given the girl from the main office a chance, but she was 12+ hours away and i didnt see any signs that she was truly interested. i have no real experience with women though, so its likely i wouldnt have noticed the signs.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      i should also mention
      >working on fixing some really important shit that broke down
      >have 6 different people in my office desperately trying to get me to fix their shit asap, and more people are pouring in with unrelated issues
      >female coworker starts desperately messaging me for help while im being bombarded with shit to do after not messaging me for around 2 weeks
      >dont get back to her for at least 30 minutes
      >she ends up fricking up really bad, and very loudly asks other people who know absolutely nothing about that thing questions, which leads to her boss hearing her
      >she gets chewed out and they revoke her access to the thing she fricked up
      >next day
      >she really fricks another thing up big time
      i dont know what changed so much about her in such a short time. she went from being positive and a good worker to not being really postive and fricking stuff up a lot. i would probably offer to help her out if she didnt suddenly do a 180 after i got back from vacation that she is still maintaining

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        She definitely liked you, and you didn't move on it, which I think was ultimately the wise choice.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          im glad to hear that it was the wise choice, but it was one of those choices that was not easy to make. i could have definitely seem myself giving her a chance if she lived a lot closer, and we werent in the same department at work. it isnt easy to get this thought out of my head because her name is often on shit that gets sent to me at work to fix. its easy to stop thinking about something when you arent having to constantly see reminders of it

          [...]
          1. Don't eat where you shit
          2. You're looking into it too much. It's a job. Not friends or family.

          1. i try to follow the same rule, which is why i keep not entertaining the female coworkers who try to get friendly with me
          2. ok, noted. any tips for getting it off my mind when this person's name and/or work get sent to me somewhat often?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      i should also mention
      >working on fixing some really important shit that broke down
      >have 6 different people in my office desperately trying to get me to fix their shit asap, and more people are pouring in with unrelated issues
      >female coworker starts desperately messaging me for help while im being bombarded with shit to do after not messaging me for around 2 weeks
      >dont get back to her for at least 30 minutes
      >she ends up fricking up really bad, and very loudly asks other people who know absolutely nothing about that thing questions, which leads to her boss hearing her
      >she gets chewed out and they revoke her access to the thing she fricked up
      >next day
      >she really fricks another thing up big time
      i dont know what changed so much about her in such a short time. she went from being positive and a good worker to not being really postive and fricking stuff up a lot. i would probably offer to help her out if she didnt suddenly do a 180 after i got back from vacation that she is still maintaining

      1. Don't eat where you shit
      2. You're looking into it too much. It's a job. Not friends or family.

  96. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    something's happened, I think a lot of reddit jannies or special interest groups have been aping the janny applications.
    I made a fart joke on /k/ a couple months ago and got hit with a 3 day ban, would never happen in 2014

  97. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Used to be a very sensitive, sentimental, emotional kind of guy
    >Main goal in life is getting married, having kids, being a father figure and a husband some day
    >After surviving some extreme hardship develop a mild form of ASPD
    >Go through manipulative and destructive periods
    >I get intimately involved in people's lives just to find ways to hurt them
    >I routinely break out of it and feel guilty
    >Realize how far I've fallen from all of those things I wanted
    >I'll never be able to be close to anyone again
    >Haunted by some of the things I've said and done to people who genuinely cared about me
    I'm struggling to maintain my composure.

  98. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Preparing for job interview which is tomorrow in the mornin. We got this.

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