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  1. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    That's an interesting last name.
    German?

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous
    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      chris evans + max payne

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      she's israeli

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Very unlikely

  2. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    i had 3 kids and then got a vasectomy. now i'm banging girls i meet on reddit with my wife's approval. fatherhood has been good to me.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      And what your wife doesn't bang other guys?

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >And what your wife doesn't bang other guys?
        she doesn't bang other guys. she's got a lower libido than me. this will def not end badly for me.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >this will def not end badly for me
          You got snipped.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I've had a thing for one day getting the missus to do a threesome with another chick but she hates lesbians and gays lmao so that might just be a pipe dream

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Based wife keeping your homosexualry in check.

            • 2 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              She doesn't know I'm a spastic internet degenerate deep down

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >I've had a thing for one day getting the missus to do a threesome with another chick
            I've had sex with 3 other girls since my wife and i started doing this 2 years ago but I wouldn't want to do a threesome because my wife is as straight as an arrow and my dick isn't big enough to satisfy 2 women.

            • 2 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Would a threesome actually be easier than solo sex if the women involved were bi because you could take five whenever you felt like you were about to nut?

            • 2 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Your dick isn't supposed to go all the way through one and into the other woman, moron. Anyway threesomes and sex with others besides your spouse is fricking gay.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >threesomes and sex with others besides your spouse is fricking gay.
                t. zoomercel

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Degenerate moron, I'm 31. It's nothing to brag about if you don't impregnate several women and have several sons. Same net result as jerking off.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Chill Elon

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                I don't like that moron, but he won
                captcha: a israelite

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Similar situation here. Dead bedroom for years, almost broke up because no sex was driving me fricking nuts, decided to stay together because literally everything else was good (also kids) but with the understanding I can see hookers when I want.

          I'd prefer it if my wife just had a libido and could be freaky a couple of times a month, but this is OK as a compromise. The novelty of banging a different b***h every fortnight is going to be a difficult genie to put back in the bottle if the Mrs ever has second thoughts about this arrangement.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I can guess this arrangement has been the case during most of human history

            • 2 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Yeah, especially before divorce was so easy, "don't ask, don't tell" must have been the norm

          • 2 weeks ago
            BecomeTomboy

            I can guess this arrangement has been the case during most of human history

            You don't need to, just cheat.

            Yeah, especially before divorce was so easy, "don't ask, don't tell" must have been the norm

            absolutely cringe and coping for an unhealthy situation
            it does not actually need to be this way, and no this isn't 'normal', its common but not 'normal' or actually just how it is

            also stop being adulterers

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Reminder this is the poster that gets most upset from plapjacks.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        My wife also lost any sexual interest after having kids. It's not a meme. We talked about it before giving birth. She assured me it's all housewives tales. Now sex is non existent and I have to deal with kids all day.

        • 2 weeks ago
          BecomeTomboy

          How old is the oldest, how young is the youngest? How is her sleep? Still breastfeeding or recently weaned? Chronic stress?

          My libido nearly disappeared as well but is making a ferocious come back. More sleep + return to more baseline hormonal profile is what has done it for me. If you want your wife to have a libido there is probably something environmental that could be altered to improve the % chance her body can figure it out, or ease chronic stress if its mental

          Also you say >kids like they're not your own children

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          stress is the biggest libido killer in the world.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        https://i.imgur.com/YEYB072.gif

        >And what your wife doesn't bang other guys?
        she doesn't bang other guys. she's got a lower libido than me. this will def not end badly for me.

        My wife also lost any sexual interest after having kids. It's not a meme. We talked about it before giving birth. She assured me it's all housewives tales. Now sex is non existent and I have to deal with kids all day.

        My 5 first years with the kids where fricking hell with no sleeping and stress all the fricking time to the point I fully believe it had had permanent consecuences in my physical and mental health.
        That said I love the little critters and the good moments are my reason to live.

        On the other hand having a family forces you to think your meals better, be more disciplined and forces a lot on activity on you, so i can see why fathers live longer.

        [...]
        [...]

        The lack of sex drive is fricking real, especially when they approach their 40s. I more or less solved it by explaining her that even though she doesnt feel like it I fricking very much do, and that for men in an important part of the bonding process. It is not as genuine like when you are in your 20s and without kids, but working on it helps a lot

        No kids here but otherwise same experience. Hit early 30s, libido vanished. I'm 40 and it's never been higher so I just get hookups now and then. Relationship is otherwise great, affectionate, emotionally attached and connected, love spending time together, just no interest in sex, and tbh, she doesn't make me want it either. She wfh, never leaves the house so she pretty much takes 0 care of herself so I'm not physically attracted to her either anymore.
        It's a bit like sharing a house with a sister. We cuddle, confide in each other but zero sexual energy.
        She jokes that she doesn't expect me to be an incel which in womanese is "get sex elsewhere, just be discreet."

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Even if I could do that I dont think I'd have the energy to look for hookups

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          It’s a near guarantee that if your wife caught you “cheating” (it’s not cheating since she opted out of the game) she would have a melt down and want a divorce.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Sounds right. There's a gray area where they can be ok with the probability of it but the reality is too much. We all have to ignore reality just to get by.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >I'm 40 and it's never been higher so I just get hookups now and then.
          While you're on IST humblebragging about the 2 hookups with fat sows from reddit you've had in the last 10 years, your wife has had dozens (or more) lovers and hundreds of orbiters giving her sexual attention in that period. An open relationship isn't the 'win' you think it is as a man. I'd spell it out for you, but you've already lost. Get STD tests regularly, and I hope to God you have a prenup. Its only a matter of time when she finds some loser dude who makes her feel more "alive" than you, more than in just a strictly physical way, and they both suddenly want you out of *her* house, *her* car, *her* pet dog/cat/turtle, and *her* retirement accounts.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Can you spam your cuckold fetish somewhere else?
            >hurr durr, if she's not fricking you, she's fricking everyone else
            Female asexuality is a real thing, you know. Stress, kids, antidepressants, birth control, menopause, can all kill desire.

            • 2 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >Female asexuality is a real thing, you know
              Simp husbands really believe this. I'm sure she was more than happy to frick you when the relationship was new and exciting. Wonder what changed?

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >Wonder what changed?
                She got what she wanted (kids, security, freedom, money, status).

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                You forgot "good dick." She's getting that outside of the house for now, until she can get you out of the picture.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                irlfriends" is a convenient way for her to not feel guilty about it, and giver her some time with other guys. You're unbelievably naive, I'd feel bad for you but you're definitely old enough to know better.

                There's really no point talking to you, you're either massively projecting based on your own limited experiences or posting with your dick in your hand as you attempt to disseminate your cuck fetish.

                I know my wife well enough to know that I have a much higher libido than her. If for some reason she wanted to frick guys on the side, she would tell me - we've had blunter conversations.

                You think you know my situation better than I do? That's cute.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                You only came here to post your story looking for validation and high-fives. There's no reason for you to look for validation from strangers unless you have some insecurity about it, or you're leaving out key details.
                You haven't received the validation you're looking for, so you're lashing out and projecting by calling others cuckholds. Its obvious that you're insecure that you might be the cuckhold, which is why that's been your go-to insult. You have zero self-awareness, seek therapy for your issues. Also consider marriage counseling, your marriage is most likely not as healthy as you're leading us to believe in your posts.
                Normal people don't brag and seek validation on IST about how great their dead-bedroom marriage is. Normal people (ie. your wife) aren't just "ok" with their spouse getting sex on the side, unless they're also getting sex on the side.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                not that anon but your hypothetical scenario make one huge assumption
                >husband: my first choice is to have monogamous sex with my wife, but she doesn't want sex so will seek it outside the marriage as my second option, with her knowledge and permission. this is not cheating.
                >wife: my first choice is to have sex outside of my marriage because sex with my husband is not satisfying. i will permit him to sleep with other women but also i will sleep with other men without his knowledge or permission. this is cheating.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                I'm here to kill time and shoot the shit. My situation isn't one I'm entirely happy with, much less want to brag about. But, there were at least 2-3 other dudes in a similar situation and I think that's interesting.

                Meanwhile you're seething and calling everyone with different lived experiences to you liars, coping or cucks. Why do you care so much?

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >Meanwhile you're seething and calling everyone with different lived experiences to you liars, coping or cucks. Why do you care so much?
                Your minor successes threaten the enormous amount of cope they're created to protect their egos. If you succeed then their failures are their own fault and not because a cabal of alien-like women are out to get them. The irony is that finding sex is not that hard once you start being open to finding and accepting it. All the hand wringing from some of the posters here is exposing them.

            • 2 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >Stress
              Sex is stress relief. If she's "too stressed" to have sex with you, it must not be good enough to relieve her stress.
              >Kids
              If she doesn't make an effort to work out the logistics of having sex with you when there's kids in the picture, she's not very interested in having sex with you anyway.
              >Antidepressents
              lol, lmao. She's depressed because she doesn't have a real man around the house.
              >birth control
              lol
              >menopause
              You trying to bang 65 year old women? If no, this is irrelevant.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                It's funny you think that women could possibly be as coom-brained as you.

              • 2 weeks ago
                BecomeTomboy

                There is a certain level of stress that kills libido and this effects men as well.
                It is both parents jobs to work out the logistics of the kids, the more kids present the more impossible it is for just one parent to manage it all
                Meds will definitely mess with libido as well and if theres a way to quit them thatd be best

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >She jokes that she doesn't expect me to be an incel which in womanese is "get sex elsewhere, just be discreet."
          Mine probably hinted at similar things with "idk if someone were cheating on me I'd just want them to not tell me" or vice versa

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      how do you bang girls on reddit

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >i'm banging girls on reddit

      is that meant to impress us ?

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >girls
      >on reddit
      so obese 40 year old men in wigs

      • 2 weeks ago
        BecomeTomboy

        are you 14 years old? women use the internet, reddit is filled with women

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >reddit user
      >degenerate lifestyle
      checks out

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      gaming, modelling gundams and warhammer 40k

      [...]
      [...]
      [...]
      No kids here but otherwise same experience. Hit early 30s, libido vanished. I'm 40 and it's never been higher so I just get hookups now and then. Relationship is otherwise great, affectionate, emotionally attached and connected, love spending time together, just no interest in sex, and tbh, she doesn't make me want it either. She wfh, never leaves the house so she pretty much takes 0 care of herself so I'm not physically attracted to her either anymore.
      It's a bit like sharing a house with a sister. We cuddle, confide in each other but zero sexual energy.
      She jokes that she doesn't expect me to be an incel which in womanese is "get sex elsewhere, just be discreet."

      how did you get them to agree to this? my wife also lost her libido around age 30. she feels really bad about it because she knows mine is still very high. but at the same time, me suggesting having my own FWBs would probably be a nonstarter. so currently i'm stuck in a holding pattern jerking off to AI-generated anime girls.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >how did you get them to agree to this?
        In a moment of frustration I blurted out "Maybe I should get a girlfriend then!" and she replied "Yeah, you should!". And then we looked at each other and realized maybe we could talk it through and make it work. This might sound insane to her but maybe you could jokingly ask her how she'd feel about you getting you dick sucked by a girl before the two of you watch Netflix or something.

        I don't know about your situation but my wife and I both love each other dearly and she knows that I'm not gonna leave her. In her mind, me slipping away to meet a regular girlfriend is a weight off her mind since now she can read her book in peace while I burn off some sexual and romantic energy.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >thinks his wife is just sitting at home reading a book while he's out fricking a fat redditor woman.
          kek, whatever helps you sleep at night

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            why go to this level of cope to ego protect? is it really easier than looking in the mirror? gotta be porn brainrot for you to keep imagining cucking. there's a better way out there waiting for you to find it, anon.

            • 2 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Either your wife is a fat whale with no self-esteem, has her own cuckhold fetish (unlikely for a woman), or she's fricking other dudes as well, many more than you feel the need to brag about on IST. Not a good look on you, get some self-awareness.
              >t. I've been "the side guy" for many married women in situations just like yours. The husband was always an oblivious idiot of course lmao.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                The absolute larp. Go back to your goon cave, pajeet.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          ironically this is how i imagine the conversation playing out in my head when i think about it. if she shuts it down i can just play it off as "i was just feeling frustrated" but if she bites she bites.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            yup

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Silence mutilated genitals troony.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Just wait till she brings up the uno reverse card and claims she will now start to frick other dudes, after all you've been smashing reddit girls

  3. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >fatherhood might be bad for heart
    >despite the fact that married men with children live longer than non married men

    : /
    Jews

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      i think part of that is the wife pushes the man to go to the doctor when he usually wouldn't

      https://i.imgur.com/QXFERvb.jpeg

      What are some hobbies you do to decompress that are not lifting/running?

      having a family makes people happy, especially if it's a good family

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >having a family makes people happy
        Not it doesn't. Just ask your parents.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >A good wife will drag her husband to the doctor if he's even got a cough.
          Generally women will make fun of you if you show any kind of weakness (Man flu etc.), so I think that scenario is kinda unrealistic.

          What really happens: The constant nagging and stress take their toll.

          >e she knows she's letting you down and feels guilty about it
          lol incel, lrn2women. She has what she wants, so giving anything back doesn't even enter her mind, the thought would be absolutely bizarre to her.

          >I'm 40 and it's never been higher so I just get hookups now and then.
          While you're on IST humblebragging about the 2 hookups with fat sows from reddit you've had in the last 10 years, your wife has had dozens (or more) lovers and hundreds of orbiters giving her sexual attention in that period. An open relationship isn't the 'win' you think it is as a man. I'd spell it out for you, but you've already lost. Get STD tests regularly, and I hope to God you have a prenup. Its only a matter of time when she finds some loser dude who makes her feel more "alive" than you, more than in just a strictly physical way, and they both suddenly want you out of *her* house, *her* car, *her* pet dog/cat/turtle, and *her* retirement accounts.

          can this poster leave already? why are you such a doomer bro?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I'm not a doomer though. Women are subhumans but the system obviously works or we wouldn't be the dominant species in the known universe. Just cool it with the feminism and romance shit, bro.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Not samegay.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >i think part of that is the wife pushes the man to go to the doctor when he usually wouldn't
        This. A good wife will drag her husband to the doctor if he's even got a cough.
        A man will usually not go to the doctor by his own volition unless he thinks there's a high probability he could die. Even then, he'll be very reluctant to go.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >A good wife will drag her husband to the doctor if he's even got a cough.
          Generally women will make fun of you if you show any kind of weakness (Man flu etc.), so I think that scenario is kinda unrealistic.

          What really happens: The constant nagging and stress take their toll.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            That's why I said "good wife" and not just "wife." I've seen and experienced both types of women.

            • 2 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              There are no good wives.

              > I've seen and experienced both types of women.
              Nah you didn't. You're a kid Black person, you're not even 30. You don't know shit.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                I'm 34, moron. You're probably 22 and never even felt a tiddy.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                I'm older than you and fricked so often that I stopped countin. Sorry, but I'm right and you're wrong, and in 10 years, you will agree with me, 100%.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Nah, I doubt I'm gonna be some loser in his 40's who's only fricked a handful of bawds while his dogshit "normal" wife is snapchatting nudes to every guy in a 50 mile radius.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                No one thinks that. It is more likely you will never have a wife and be sucking dicks by then

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                I'd bet money that I had more ass by the time I could legally buy beer than you have in your old age, and I wasn't even a player. You're a middle aged man bragging about having sex on fricking IST. Its self-evident.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                No you stupid inbred mutt, I am not the guy you were flirt arguing with. You're just a moronic homosexual trying to blow himself on IST like a loser and shitting up the thread.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >incoherent rambling in a normal IST thread
                frick off newbie

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                this lmao. there are a couple guys who are absolutely ASSBLASTED that a handful of dads on IST have girlfriends on the side and are either morally offended can't help but think about their hotwife fetish like this dork

                >I'm 40 and it's never been higher so I just get hookups now and then.
                While you're on IST humblebragging about the 2 hookups with fat sows from reddit you've had in the last 10 years, your wife has had dozens (or more) lovers and hundreds of orbiters giving her sexual attention in that period. An open relationship isn't the 'win' you think it is as a man. I'd spell it out for you, but you've already lost. Get STD tests regularly, and I hope to God you have a prenup. Its only a matter of time when she finds some loser dude who makes her feel more "alive" than you, more than in just a strictly physical way, and they both suddenly want you out of *her* house, *her* car, *her* pet dog/cat/turtle, and *her* retirement accounts.

                truth is sex isn't hard to come by unless you are completely hopeless so both the bragging about having sex and the complaining about not having sex are equally silly.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                If you're wife is "ok" with you fricking other women, its because she's fricking other men. Are you too moronic to understand that and its implications?

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                It's time to leave the cuck fetish behind, anon.

                Please post a thread on IST when your wife leaves you for a better option in your "open marriage", takes all your shit, and makes you pay child support out the ass. I like a good laugh.

                >Please post a thread on IST when your wife leaves you for a better option in your "open marriage", takes all your shit, and makes you pay child support out the ass.
                I certainly will. Catch me in the /fit feels/ thread if that happens.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                You really don't get it, do you, you fricking moron.

                Here, try an analogy. Say you love golf. For years you've been dragging your bored, disinterested wife to play golf. One day you decide to make things simpler and you agree that you're going to go play golf with someone else. THAT DOESNT MEAN SHES PLAYING GOLF BEHIND YOUR BACK. IT MEANS SHE DOESNT LIKE GOLF.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Asexuality isn't real, moron. She's only "asexual" with you because she doesn't want to frick you anymore, and letting you have your "g

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                irlfriends" is a convenient way for her to not feel guilty about it, and giver her some time with other guys. You're unbelievably naive, I'd feel bad for you but you're definitely old enough to know better.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >really believes his wife doesn't like sex
                >really believes she's just at home alone "reading" a book while he's out with his "girlfriends", aka fat prostitutes from reddit by his own admission.
                Can't make this shit up. Must be nice to confidently live in a delusion.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                And now you're confusing me for the other anon.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                you're replying to the mentally unstable.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Please post a thread on IST when your wife leaves you for a better option in your "open marriage", takes all your shit, and makes you pay child support out the ass. I like a good laugh.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Delusional moron

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                All that text to say "muh genetics, just give up bro" kek what a gayet.
                >if I can't have a virgin titcow tradmaxxed redpilled friendless blonde 9/10 and be a billionaire its pointless, muh genetics.
                Bro, being a man is knowing that having enough to eat, enough money to enjoy a couple of creative hobbies and a 5/10 slampig on the side to bang now and then is enough to be happy.
                >not hungry
                >intellectually stimulated
                >pussy is pussy, it's all pink on the inside.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >In his 40's
                >Bragging on IST that he's "fricked so often I stopped countin"

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >There are no good wives.
                Stooooop this is getting embarrassing now dude.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        That’s a bullshit excuse. Men aren’t living longer because they are being harassed by women to take care of themselves.

        The reason is simple: only a portion of men get married and have kids. These are men that are better than other men on average in terms of health, wealth, career success (related to competency and social prowess).

        Women like to pretend that the same men that uplift their lives are somehow stupid and need to be managed.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >i think part of that is the wife pushes the man to go to the doctor when he usually wouldn't
        big this, and there's someone always with the man who actually cares for him and notices symptoms, errs on the side of worrying and getting things checked, and so on. Caring female relatives and the wife are the support system of a man.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Both statements can still be true.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Making the entire article an irrelevant mess by a dumb c**t trying to be subversive. Yeah, Alexandra Klausner's "off" face and that she is in NY is just as good a confirmed yiddish early life check so the article can be discarded as nonsense.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        No they can't, number one cause of death for men is heart failure.
        So if having a woman and children makes you live longer. Having a wife and children increases heart heath.

        i think part of that is the wife pushes the man to go to the doctor when he usually wouldn't
        [...]
        having a family makes people happy, especially if it's a good family

        Possible, but also having children keeps you active into mid age as does having grandchildren.
        Wanting to stay healthy to care for your family could be a real reason.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I almost took the bait but then I realized you were trying to be funny.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Test + lack of sleep isn't helping your heart at all, even if all cause mortality goes down

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      My 5 first years with the kids where fricking hell with no sleeping and stress all the fricking time to the point I fully believe it had had permanent consecuences in my physical and mental health.
      That said I love the little critters and the good moments are my reason to live.

      On the other hand having a family forces you to think your meals better, be more disciplined and forces a lot on activity on you, so i can see why fathers live longer.

      https://i.imgur.com/YEYB072.gif

      >And what your wife doesn't bang other guys?
      she doesn't bang other guys. she's got a lower libido than me. this will def not end badly for me.

      My wife also lost any sexual interest after having kids. It's not a meme. We talked about it before giving birth. She assured me it's all housewives tales. Now sex is non existent and I have to deal with kids all day.

      The lack of sex drive is fricking real, especially when they approach their 40s. I more or less solved it by explaining her that even though she doesnt feel like it I fricking very much do, and that for men in an important part of the bonding process. It is not as genuine like when you are in your 20s and without kids, but working on it helps a lot

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        None of those anons but if I was married I think I'd feel awful if I had to resort to rhetoric and metaphorical begging to frick my wife. Doesn't it feel awkward? "Baby, I know you're not feeling it, but c'mon, let me hit it just once, I really need it".

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          It is not confortable to speak about it. It is not that I had to beg, but I'd always initiate and of those times half of it she would say no because too tired etc (which is true). The talk was more about how I'd like her to me more proactive and think of how I may feel. Even asking her something as silly as what she considered and normal frecuency in a healthy sexual life and then saying what I believe myself.
          As I say, is more about stablishing a common ground rather than begging, but I admit it is frustrating at times

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Different anon. I can relate. There's nothing fun or sexy about negotiating sex, but the alternative is to a) be needy and begging, b) be pushy or c) get increasingly blueballed and resentful as you wait for your wife to initiate for fricking once.

            It's a difference in perception. My wife's position was that we had a "normal amount" of sex, but I was unreasonably sexual and constantly "pressured her" by asking for sex "every day". I pointed out that even if I asked for sex almost every day, we were actually only having sex about twice a month (I ended up recoring it in a diary as evidence), and ALWAYS with me initiating. I also mentioned I didn't appreciate being cast as a sex pest for wanting to have sex with my wife. It didn't increase the sex but laying it out like that was an eye opener for her.

            • 2 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >but the alternative is to a) be needy and begging, b) be pushy or c) get increasingly blueballed and resentful as you wait for your wife to initiate for fricking once.
              Just cheat you moron wtf.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                I do. I'm the anon that sees hookers on the side. Extra work and money, but it does the job

            • 2 weeks ago
              BecomeTomboy

              Did you try waiting for her to initiate? Did you guys discuss possible causes for her low libido or just take it as 'normal'? Doesnt it seem absolutely tragic to you that your wife has lost her libido and probably most of the enjoyment of sex, doesnt this seem like a problem that deserves some attempt at directly tackling?

              Its a major issue with her specifically, and what you guys have is a bandaid solution for the symptom that effects you

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          You don't need to, just cheat.

        • 2 weeks ago
          BecomeTomboy

          If youre gonna live with someone for decades and enmesh nearly every important aspect of life with them, frankness with each other is actually very important

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        [...]
        [...]
        [...]
        No kids here but otherwise same experience. Hit early 30s, libido vanished. I'm 40 and it's never been higher so I just get hookups now and then. Relationship is otherwise great, affectionate, emotionally attached and connected, love spending time together, just no interest in sex, and tbh, she doesn't make me want it either. She wfh, never leaves the house so she pretty much takes 0 care of herself so I'm not physically attracted to her either anymore.
        It's a bit like sharing a house with a sister. We cuddle, confide in each other but zero sexual energy.
        She jokes that she doesn't expect me to be an incel which in womanese is "get sex elsewhere, just be discreet."

        Similar situation here. Dead bedroom for years, almost broke up because no sex was driving me fricking nuts, decided to stay together because literally everything else was good (also kids) but with the understanding I can see hookers when I want.

        I'd prefer it if my wife just had a libido and could be freaky a couple of times a month, but this is OK as a compromise. The novelty of banging a different b***h every fortnight is going to be a difficult genie to put back in the bottle if the Mrs ever has second thoughts about this arrangement.

        This is why it's been good for both of us for me to find a secondary "other woman" that I regularly see. Now my wife and I can watch a movie together without her wondering "is he trying to frick me?" and me wondering if this is gonna be the night I get some. She's glad we can have intimacy minus the guilt and apprehension.

        None of those anons but if I was married I think I'd feel awful if I had to resort to rhetoric and metaphorical begging to frick my wife. Doesn't it feel awkward? "Baby, I know you're not feeling it, but c'mon, let me hit it just once, I really need it".

        >I think I'd feel awful if I had to resort to rhetoric and metaphorical begging to frick my wife. Doesn't it feel awkward? "Baby, I know you're not feeling it, but c'mon, let me hit it just once, I really need it".
        No doubt. It's not ideal for either of you because she knows she's letting you down and feels guilty about it and you feel guilty for trying to, well, guilt her into having sex with you.

        how do you bang girls on reddit

        >i'm banging girls on reddit

        is that meant to impress us ?

        >how do you bang girls on reddit
        Use the many "R4R" (redditor 4 redditor) boards. Like the main /r/r4r board and then the /r/[my city name]r4r or something similar. Take a look at the posts the guys make and make a post better than theirs. The bar is so low and 80% of the guys posting are halfwits so you'll have no problem blowing them out of the water. Big time bonus points if you include a picture or two of yourself because most guys do not.

        Or if you're not comfortable posting your can reply to girls posts. It's easiest doing searches instead of endlessly trolling your local boards because half of it is pure hookups with BBWs and girls that wanna film for their OF. Try typing in this to search all boards
        F4M title:("[city name]" OR "[state name]" OR "[state acronym]")
        Also do the same search but replace title with "selftext" because some ppl only put their location in the body of their post.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >e she knows she's letting you down and feels guilty about it
          lol incel, lrn2women. She has what she wants, so giving anything back doesn't even enter her mind, the thought would be absolutely bizarre to her.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >the thought would be absolutely bizarre to her.
            anon, the idea that women are empathy devoid aliens is just incel cope. don't overthink things. women only appear to lack empathy for you once they come to despise you. perhaps that's been your experience?

            • 2 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Incel cope is claiming men and women are basically the same. Ask any Chad. Women ARE empathy devoid aliens, that's why they were oppressed for millennia: Your two options are 1. women's rights or 2. survival. Now choose.

            • 2 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >women only appear to lack empathy for you once they come to despise you. perhaps that's been your experience
              nta but it is mine, and I understand why she does

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >girls that wanna film for their OF
          What man would want to be recorded on a hookup by a b***h he doesn't even know? You're basically asking to be extorted. And from the woman's perspective too, wouldn't she want a guy who looks good on camera, has staying power, and lays pipe well enough to make the sex look good, rather than a random guy?

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >the good moments are my reason to live.
        This sounds so depressing, lol.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Nah, that's like 80% of the time with them

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            And how much of your time do you spend with them? 20%?

        • 2 weeks ago
          BecomeTomboy

          No, its more like you just kinda lived before and it was alright, but then you found a real reason for it all and it becomes significantly more important and better

      • 2 weeks ago
        BecomeTomboy

        Womens sex drive definitely doesnt -have- to take a nose dive in their 40s. Is sex with you something to look forward to or mostly about you?

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        My wife also lost any sexual interest after having kids. It's not a meme. We talked about it before giving birth. She assured me it's all housewives tales. Now sex is non existent and I have to deal with kids all day.

        Bull shit. She lost sexual interest in you.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Married men live longer but want to die, unmarried men want to live forever but die early.

      Marriage lowers test, doesn't surprise me it's bad for your heart.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >don't have kids goy.
      >immigration is good goy.
      Oy vey!

  4. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Reading, gaming, and martial arts.

  5. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I build model trains. Yes its an autism thing

  6. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I enjoy horticulture and just gardening in general
    Yes I'm a man

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Nice. I want to get into it but the soil on my property is garbage. Too sandy, nothing takes. Thinking about making some boxes.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Yes, you could start some raised beds. They're fairly simple to get going, especially if you're fit it's easy to fill them.
        If you like it you can look into improving the type of soil you have but that's specific to it and a bigger job.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Reading and vidya.

        >Too sandy, nothing takes.
        Same. But I’ve got some potted stuff and every spring and fall I go to my grandma’s and do plantings for her.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Based and checked

      Nice. I want to get into it but the soil on my property is garbage. Too sandy, nothing takes. Thinking about making some boxes.

      Same here. I just dug out along my back fence, two gardens for raised beds, and brought in 8 yards of garden mix. All I have is clay/gravel fill in my yard, and I wasn't getting the yields I wanted in pots.

      https://i.imgur.com/QXFERvb.jpeg

      What are some hobbies you do to decompress that are not lifting/running?

      I like going to my local gun club. I work shift and have week days off a lot of the time. Its usually empty, and I can just shoot in peace for a few hours. Depending on the season I also like to go out hunting birds/rabbits or fishing with my dog. It's nice to get out and be alone, my dog gets to do his job, and I get to come home and feed my family top quality meat at the end of the day. Everyone wins.

  7. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    learning/playing instruments, reading, gardening, growing japanese maples

  8. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Boxing
    Bjj
    Learning how to decensor JAV with AI and video editing to further improve output

  9. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I have a 9 month old son, so he's basically my hobby right now - to be clear, he is very often not exactly a source of relaxation, but he's now old enough to crawl around and try crawling up on shit, the joy on his face when I suplex him on to my bed and start wrestling with him is beyond any vidya / tv / other time waster

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Gets better when they get older too. Making a cave/slide out of the sofa is my son's favourite evening activity.
      t. He's nearly 2

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        how? it sounds boring as shit
        whenever i have contact with kids or small children im just bored
        is it just magically different because it's your own or do you have to be the type to enjoy time with kids?

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          It being your kid is definately a big factor. I think the aversion to kids also reduces as you get older.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I didn’t dislike babies but I didn’t know how to hold them.
          Now that my son is 4 months I’m more confident in handling infants, it became easier to talk and play with them. Interacting and taking care of him throughout the day is completely different than playing with someone else’s baby.

        • 2 weeks ago
          BecomeTomboy

          it is different

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Enjoy it. The wrestling gets a little dangerous after about age 2. Right now he probably tenses up like a little football when he gets suplexed which is good. When they hit around 2 they get all floppy and it's easy to fold over a shoulder or neck by accident.

  10. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Gradually I began to hate alexandra klausner

  11. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    antinatalists run the world
    Instead of making life easier to have children, it’s intentionally made the opposite just so the corporation can monetize every single aspect of human life

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >antinatalists run the world
      Thats a misrepresentation of things
      Money is just more important than your well being
      They want more kids to feed to the system, they just don't want to have to change anything

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >They want more kids to feed to the system
        The thing is importing brown kids is cheaper. So why make like better for the locals. They're expensive.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Exactly! Infinite growth is possible, numbers go up, the shareholders are pleased, the CEO gets their kick

  12. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    We should be able to spank women

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I spank my wife regularly. Sounds like a skill issue

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        *It should be legal to spank women
        Congratulations on your bravery. I will spank many women one day.

  13. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Carpentry, drawing and gardening. I also want to try making my own custom made gym equipment out of bronze but I'm 21 right now so getting the tools, materials and space for it is out of question...

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >gym equipment out of bronze

      Fricking rad, how are you planning to make it? How is the price of bronce

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Got no idea since I never worked with metal before I simply had this image of bronze plates with random depictions of people like the ancient Greek pots and thought "imma do that"

  14. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I collect, build and paint model figures (romans, frostgrave dudes etc) and sometimes play onepagerules AOF skirmish collect mtg cards and sometimes play, play guitar, read sword & sorcery novels (conan etc) play retro vidya, hike a lot, and I have 2 cats.

  15. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >at least 3 years of dogshit sleep and upwards of 18 years of worry and patience take a toll on you
    No shit

  16. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Yes goy dont have white children, look at these studies proving it may be bad for your heart
    Theyre not even hiding it anymore

  17. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Beeing a father is the purpose of your life.
    It’s the greatest joy and pride you will have.
    Become a father.

  18. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    No refunds study suggests

  19. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Does anyone here like astronomy, meteorology or archery? I’m also trying to get into glassblowing but that shit is expensive

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Not me anon I enjoy designing neoclassical buildings every now and then but I'm too much of a gorilla to get into something like meteorology

  20. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    EVERY THREAD ON THIS PIECE OF SHIT BOARD TURNS INTO WHINING, CRYING, RANTING AND RAGING ABOUT WOMEN. This topic was about hobbies that you do and 90% of the posts are AGAIN talking about women and relationship bullshit, why, because the original image talks about fatherhood or something?

    What the fricking hell is wrong with this place? Don’t you morons ever get tired of this shit?

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      it's OP's fault for posting that pic. same with coomerbait pics. if you don't want your thread derailed, then don't post bait pics with your text

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I didnt even read the OP, lmao.
      Learn to post before whinning like a woman

  21. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >~~*Klausner*~~

  22. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    They will blame the increase of heart attacks on everything except the vaccine.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      just two more weeks

  23. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If you see these types of articles as reflective of the life the "establishment" wants you to live it is actually fricking horrifying.
    Mass media is without a doubt deeply in bed with the establishment, so it's not hard to fathom

  24. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >modern fatherhood
    >bad for your heart
    Yeah, it really is
    t. divorced

  25. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    During winter I play games and work on projects I find interesting. During summer I just frick hot girls all summer long.

    Fricking hot girls also includes: travel, picnics, hiking, sports like bowling and golf, taking them to the cinema etc.. like people do during the dating phase.

    I run 4-5 girls at any given time

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      post your last 2 girls

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        no point, everyone will shout larper etc... anyways

        but they are all 9s and 10s a few 8s every now and then, sadly usually a foot taller than me :((

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          saying you frick 10s and then not posting any of them when asked actually makes you a much bigger larper

  26. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Another well-timed propaganda piece. Go make children.

  27. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    These studies are like 99% correlation.

    >lower socioeconomic people have more kids
    >they also tend to drink more/do stupid unhealthy shit
    >"according to statistics having kids is bad for you!!!"

  28. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's probably a legit study but it's not showing the whole picture.

    I guarantee you that the reason fatherhood gives you heart issues is because most fathers let themselves go and become really fat. Getting fat fricks up your heart.

  29. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Fatherhood might be bad for your heart
    If that were the case then why do Black folk have the most heart problems?

  30. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Seems some salty 'woman' entered the thread 10 post ago.

    Yeah, many women lose their libido after kids and growing up. It is well documented in science and even classical literature
    >no the problem is yours men
    Some marrid anons are talking about how this very well documented fact put stress in their relationship and how to cope with it. We dont need a fricking gynoid to come and start blaming every man that is their fault, like apparently everything else whenever a woman is involved. So give insighfull advice while recognizing the problem exist or get the frick out you fricking useless c**t

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Maybe Im the salty woman youre referring to, but I described that I also lost my libido but that IT SHOULD COME BACK. Temporary lows, especially with babies hanging off the chest, are definitely normal and to be expected. Libido permanently turning off forever after kids or hitting 30 or whatever...there is something wrong that is probably fixable. Why wouldnt anons want this to be a fixable problem?

      When youre married, your problems are each others problems. It is definitely a mans issue if his wife has 0 libido - note Im not saying fault. When it comes to fixing the problem, 'fault' really doesnt matter, the goal isnt figure out who is to blame, the goal is fix the sex life between husband and wife. Marital problems usually take effort from both people in the marriage

  31. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Fishing. If I don’t give a shit about catching anything I’ll use bait and go sit in a clearing between some trees at a lake. If I’m trying to actively target certain species or beat PRs and I wanna be active I’ll use lures and move often.

    Seriously bros tell me fishing isn’t based. You get out in sun and nature, unwind empty your head and relax, do some semi primal activity of fighting a creature out of its element and into yours, maybe you catch food depending on the species and water source. You get an opportunity to subtly flex and show off gains if you take a pic with your fish. Pretty frickin based

  32. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous
  33. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Guns and vidya. Try to read but been kinda lazy with it. Just my daily bible lately

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