>wake up
>eat a healthy breakfast
>go to the gym
>go home, shower, do skin routine
>eat
>still 7-8 hours of the day left
Wtf am I supposed to do?
What do you do on weekends?
>wake up
>eat a healthy breakfast
>go to the gym
>go home, shower, do skin routine
>eat
>still 7-8 hours of the day left
Wtf am I supposed to do?
I lift then I obstacle course with esoteric weapon of history and then I watch gender bender anime
Work and hobbies?
We're all lonely mfs here, ay?
I use the animal shelter to improve my social skills.
Then i use those improved social skills to pick up women at live music bars/events
>pick up women at live music bars/events
Teach me your ways. I look pretty good and get mired often but my social skills just aren't that good
I'm fucking ripped and have a sexy masculine face but I was a fat teen with ADHD (still got it) and I never developed proper social skills. Help me as well brother.
>I use the animal shelter to improve my social skills.
So...am I supposed to pick up the dogs or?
you learn from the dogs because you just know.
>I use the animal shelter to improve my social skills.
dr dolittle?
He can learn how socialise with the other people working at the shelter you absolute mongoloid
Read books, or even comics maybe
Hobbies are a saving grace, and very nutritious for the soul, the joy of creating. Besides from working out, i like to write in my spare time. Its been really fun and enlightening so far.
art museum
beach
ski
hike
live music event
read book; treasure island by rls
volunteer at animal shelter
on sundays I clean my entire apartmentz all my laundry, scrub the walls with bleach, clean my car and meal prep for the week
I wish I lived near a beach, I'd hang out there all the time and tan or swim or learn to surf while staring at qts in their bikinis. Instead I live in a gay landlocked redneck state where the only fun outdoor activity is hiking but it's near freezing four months of the year.
This guy knows whats up.
Every weekend I go to a different art museum by myself. The small town I live in has more than 200 art museums to go to.
What kind of small town has over 200 art museums. I'd be surprised if London has anywhere near that many.
He was being ironic you fucking autist
Where's the irony?
Watch Serie A, shitpost.
forza juve
>wake up
>make breakfast, coffee
>go grocery shopping
>come back and make nice lunch, bake bread i made day before
>chores while listening to new music
>go for walk, photography
>maybe head into town to walk about shops, people watch, cinema
>come home, practice guitar
>watch films
>bed
Average r*ddit daily routine
Usually hang out with the boys, play some video games, do work around the house, or scroll through tiktok
you do all that, yet you have no relationship.
I work overtime every weekend while taking care of my daughter. Work from home is fucking great.
What I do is pretend to "go out", dress up nicely and leave the house and then literally just aimlessly walk around the town for about 5-6 hours and then go home pretending as if I was out there drinking//having fun or whatever with my "friends". All that just so my parents don't feel sad for me.
Also how I spent the last 6 New Years Eves straight
what if they go out and see you walking by yourself
They don't go out and I'm constantly looking who is coming my way and if I see anyone I even vaguely recognize I go to the other side of the street pretending that I didn't see them.
Even if someone who knows me notices me I'd just say I'm on my way to a friends house, people don't ask anything in detail after that especially in later hours during the weekend. Or at least that's what I tell myself
Why don't you use that time to talk to new people or do literally anything productive lmao
are you happy with this, or do you wish it were different
Happy is a strong term, but I am clearly fine with it enough to not be motivated to actively change things
I've done similar stuff before,
Like one time my parents were inviting guests over and those guests had kids who were my age so in order to avoid that shit I just told my parents I already had plans with friends and I went out that night.
all i did was park at a parking structure downtown and just walked around aimlessly.
I don't even try and people watch. Peaple watching just makes me depressed and lonelier
>Like one time my parents were inviting guests over and those guests had kids who were my age so in order to avoid that shit I just told my parents I already had plans with friends and I went out that night.
I've done this so many times, literally rotated between a dozen of my non existent imaginary friends, one time I pretend I'm going to a birthday of my friend X the other I'm going to a house party of friend Y then drinking with friend X and his group of friends etc. And every time I just walked alone through the secluded part of town for hours.
Kek I used to do this. Just move out bro. Then you can simply go to work on your days off like I do.
man i didnt even bother pretending doing social activities. i just stayed alone mostly in my room. my parents went from the "youre gonna be dating" to "are you gay" to just realizing that im not gay im just a complete and utter worthless loser who will never have friends or a girlfriend i think in my early 20s
honestly gay as hell
This is a perfect day. It basically always goes like this. I limit myself to 3 social interactions a week and if someone wants to interact with me, I show them my list and they join me for whatever. I make a list like this every morning.
Yes, I'm some form of autistic.
what a comfy looking day. cheers
>stares at the beautiful expanse of the sky while digesting his first lunch only to immediately consume a second lunch
holy based
add handwriting practice, mr. self diagnosis
>second lunch almost immediately after the first one
based and hobbitpilled, also checked
>wake up
>waste several hours by browsing IST
>workout
>IST again
>go to sleep
>wake up with raging boner
>fap
>browse IST
>fap
>browse IST
>fap
>browse IST
>fap
>browse IST
>fap
>browse IST
>fap
>browse IST
>fap
>Sleep
since I dont have a gf anymore idk anon..mostly:
>wake up
>breakfast
>repent, pray
>repent, pray
>repent, pray
>eat
>repent, pray
>gym
>shower
>repent, pray
>repent, pray
>dinner
>repent, pray
>repent, pray
>sleep
>wake up
>take a dump
>get out of bed
>post racist stuff online
>eat breakfast
>gym
>post more racist stuff online
>dinner
>shits in bed
>falls asleep at dinner table
No one else comments
its pretty normal
Work. Don't have time for anything else after Friday
Ur mom
Reading book
Learning code
Meditation
Vidya (I notice that my reflex, reaction, and my composure during intense situation improve dramatically after playing Elden Ring for a while)
Game / Read / Draw / Auto-felatio / meet frens / youtube / clean house.
>Either get a hobby or just indulge in time wasting escapisim and drugs like most normies do when they don't have work.
>just indulge in time wasting escapisim and drugs like most normies do when they don't have work.
Their goyslop hobby > our goyslop hobby
>up at 5
>cardio and lift till 6-630
>work at 8
>home at 5
>4 hours of blank time until bed at 9
what do I do? I mostly fill up that time with general errands, vidya, and reading. I don't really want to over train either. Idk, the days are too long when you have your shit together and don't have any friends
are you a NEET? go learn something.
bros I genuinely have no reason to get out of bed most days unless I have school and even then I don't want to go, I just have to go, so I go
on days when I don't have class I just lie in bed until I figure I guess I'll get up now. usually it's around noon. Maybe later. And then I roll out of bed into my chair and I just scroll IST the whole day and go to sleep
how the fuck did this happen to me, how do I get the will to live back?
At dawn, when you have trouble getting out of bed, tell yourself: “I have to go to work — as a human being. What do I have to complain of, if I’m going to do what I was born for — the things I was brought into the world to do? Or is this what I was created for? To huddle under the blankets and stay warm?” So you were born to feel “nice”? Instead of doing things and experiencing them? Don’t you see the plants, the birds, the ants and spiders and bees going about their individual tasks, putting the world in order, as best they can? And you’re not willing to do your job as a human being? Why aren’t you running to do what your nature demands?
we get it, marcus
Eh. Your philosophy is half right. Platitudes like
>Why aren’t you running to do what your nature demands?
belie human nature. And animal nature for that matter. Birds, bees, humans, and everything precisely don't have some natural drive to "work". What even is "work"? You are just positing "productivity" as this abstract thing that really exists in the world, becoming obsessed with it and twisting it into its own goal rather than a tool. This is like, if you take football/soccer as an analogy, the dribbling shenanigans become twisted into being interpreted the "core aim" of the game, rather than actually scoring goals.
In the best case comparison, your philosophy is egging someone to get up, read books, and research cancer cures, vs. lying in bed doomscrolling. But this is hardly what 99% of people would amount to in 99% of cases. They would interpret it as getting up and performing meaningless drone/bullshit work (even if not job-related, such as online presences) as "more valuable" than enjoying yourself, however form that may be. We can debate the merits of that, but not in this post. I am still going on about the overarching philosophy of your point:
If it were possible, any human/animal could be reduced to a state of the comfy-lying-in-bed-anon, it's not a rejection of their fundamental maxims (life without suffering, etc.), but rather a maximum satisfaction of these.
We both agree that the bed-doomscrolling is shit. But I just hate your reasoning for rejecting it. My argument against it would be more like "it doesn't matter what role you or the human species were 'intended/bred' for (rejecting your ideal): what matters is your current higher ideals that say not realizing your dreams/potential is a giant waste".
The difference between our views is that my version is resistant to being corrupted from normie ideas of what a "good life" is supposed to look like.
We were designed to contemplate God's creation, to cocreate life, and to make things. That is all. All other urges are our animal nature. We were not designed to work mindless jobs. That is a societal creation designed to enslave humans
I too have read meditations
Anon let me tell you something, things will and can always get worse. You think your life is bad now? Holy fuck it can get worse if you don’t get a normal degree or learn actual skills once you join the normie world.
Same settis but im a 30yo meet. It's going to get SO much worse bro.
Fight like a dog to get out of it NOW. Do anything fucking possible to avoid this shit. There's an Anthony Bourdain line, now I'm not a huge fan or anything but it stuck with me and I'll paraphrase: in me there is s fucking gay that just wants to lay in bed all day and get as close to nonexistence as possible - my life has been just a constant series of trying to outsmart and outrun this fucking gay and never let him take control. Now ol tony obviously failed and the gay got him, but at least he made something of his existence in the meantime.
That's all I got.
100% true but if you realize this why are you a neet at 30yo? There's still time to unfuck yourself, for example i heard print shops are pretty good if you've got nothing going for you. Or even work your way to middle management at a fast food joint, really the options are do whatever the fuck you can in your situation
I watch UFC every weekend, or boxing or whatever other good fights are on.
I watch Svengoolie with my bros on IST
Not being able to entertain yourself by your lonesome is a sign of poor character
cope
I’m not the one struggling to have fun in the 21st century lmao
Read a book, learn guitar, volunteer at the animal shelter, play videogames, masturbate, cook a healthy dinner, go for a walk in the forest, do yoga, meditate, find a girlfriend, bring your mom some flowers
I drink idk about you guys. Meet a lot of interesting people in shitty bars
I just go to work. Sometimes I do work, sometimes I play vidya or watch anime there. But at least it's not my room.
>wake up at 10 am
>breakfast
>gym
>study
>take drugs and do dumb shit with my friends
>fall asleep around 2 pm
>wake up at 10am
>fall asleep at 2pm
holy speedrunning jesus
2pm was a typo. I go to sleep at 2 am
Get drunk, watch TV, play video games, whatever you want.
> wake up at 12 pm or later
> spend the whole day browsing IST and other sites
> go to sleep at 3 am
living the dream
enjoy live music
https://open.spotify.com/artist/6uyCfgv8FWIc2mifriVXqw
It takes you 8 hours to eat breakfast, gym, and shower?
man ive basically done nothing on weekends since i was a kid. i remember my parents mostly dad telling me to go outside, continued thru childhood, 20s, now 30 and still barely do anything except when i can spend my day doing sports officiating. ive always been a complete loser. should have killed myself in high school
>saturday (rest day)
>wake up with kids, usually 7am
>breakfast
>grocery shopping, other purchases if applicable
>one hour of kid screen time while I cook lunch and fold/sort laundry I threw in friday
>lunch
>afternoon trip somewhere (today was fairly warm, so we went to the park)
>come back home, prepare dinner
>dinner
>bath time
>kids go to bed at 8pm
>last remaining housework
>video games
>bed some time after 11pm
Every other saturday evening I bring the kids over to my mom's or my sister's for a slumber party, on those nights I go out to meet some friends. I pick them back up in the early afternoon.
>sunday
>same morning routine
>day trip while eating out, relatives and such
>same evening routine
>go gym at 9pm, straight to bed after
Be happy that you have time to squander, anon. I love them to death, but kids steal essentially all your time, money and freedom. Just relax, sleep, call up some friends, whatever.
>weekend
>barely do anything ever except sit here on the computer or watching stupid shit
>get severely depressed about how I do nothing but waste time on the computer and tv and why can't I ever get the motivation to do anything to actually improve my horrible life
>yet I continue doing it and then realize that there's nothing I even know how to do or want to do and that even "people watching" seeing people when I'm out makes me even more depressed at how abnormal i am
>weekend
>alone
>huh i should try going outside
>go outside to do pointless aimless activity alone
>feel like shit anyway because im just doing shit to pass the time until i have to sleep again
>get depressed when i see people outside with their friends and families reminding me of how alone i am
>Pace around the house nervously
>Get yelled at by parents
>Get ghosted by girls
>Drink
>Buy stupid shit
>Gf goes to visit her ex for a week because he's visiting the country
Not doing too hot on the weekend bro
Get a IST hobby you guys. Whether it be hiking, biking, rock climbing, or something like that. You can do it for hours, meet other like-minded people, burn a shit ton of calories and then have a saturday night feast. The best spot you can be in is when your lifting/cardio supplements an activity you genuinely love to do, instead of just lifting just to lift
Came back from an opera. Did some maintenance curls and press with my dbs, drinking my milk browsing here before sleep.
Look for events on meetup.com in my area and chase skirts at them. I also go to a political meetup solely to get my autism out of my system so I can talk normally to women. Tomorrow I am going to a roller skating event.
I don't really have friends anymore but I do meet people and use them as practice and try to ask girls out. Hopefully I will find a gf soon and I won't have to put so much effort into life anymore.
Read. Meditate. Work on hobbies. Fix/add something in your house that will make your daily life better
>1:14 pm on Saturday
>have done absolutely nothing, like always
>haven't left room or gotten off computer pissing the time away
lift, run. What else am i supposed to do?
I had no idea so many of you have such a lonely existence. Doesn't the crushing feeling of isolation kinda subconsciously force you to go put yourself out there and make frens?
There's hobbies, meetups, gym, work colleagues, sport social clubs, you're bound to meet people and slowing build up relationships. This shit ain't healthy lads.
>normie take
>redd*t spacing
of course you wouldn't understand
>I had no idea so many of you have such a lonely existence. Doesn't the crushing feeling of isolation kinda subconsciously force you to go put yourself out there and make frens? There's hobbies, meetups, gym, work colleagues, sport social clubs, you're bound to meet people and slowing build up relationships. This shit ain't healthy lads.
i live a life so lonely that most people wouldnt believe it. but yeah like you said, youd think it would be a massive impetus for doing anything to change, but i dont have it, despite the fact that being this lonely has completely ruined my life. instead of having this extreme desire to do anything to get out of it, i just have an extreme fear of people. i dont want to get close to people and then have them see all the pathetic aspects of my life, but then because i have no friends/relationships to use as motivation, i cant muster the motivation to do things to improve, so its just a never ending cycle. i hide from people to prevent them seeing how pathetic i am, i lie to them, i hide all details about my life, and then wonder why i have no one and remain miserable.
Tell me about your skin care routine op
My day so far
>wake up 7 am
>coffee, shower, light breakfast
>scroll for an hour
>read for 45 minutes
>go to gym for 1.5 hours
>go grocery shopping
>eat lunch
>go to crystal shop to buy a mini statue of Zeus where he’s fuckin shredded
>go home and scroll for a few hours
>read a little more
>probably watch a movie or something
I’m lonely but I’m not good at making friends, I usually start a hobby with others then they get weirded out and I stop going. What do?
My day:
11am - wake up
Browsed around online
12pm - Read a few chapters of my book
1pm - Played with my dick but didn't let myself cum
2pm - Got up, showered, had breakfast, coffee, then immediately ate lunch
3pm - Went to the gym
4:30pm - Went to the shops
5pm - Got home, made and ate dinner
6pm - Browsed around online
9pm - Washed up
9:30pm - Went to bed, and now I'm here browsing online again
This is living.
Saturday
>Go to farmer's market
>Cook food for next week (uni student with no meal plan and filled schedule)
>Laundry
>Hygiene like shaving, exfoliating, hair/face mask, etc.
>Cleaning
>Some IST time
Sunday
>Studying with a friend at the local coffee shop, it's a nice change of pace from always being in the lab/library and we get a lot done as a result.
>Put food in tupperware
>Set out weekly outfits
>Catch up on mail/record weekly expenses
Basically all the shit I can't do during the week.
this is everyday because i dont have a job, because im fucking bum
>wake up what ever time, crippling hangover
>mutters insults to myself as i retrieve my ice pack and return to bed
>todays the day ill get sober i say as the ice softens the headache
>coffee, bagel, vitamins
>shower followed by american psycho tier skin routine
>shit post and work out
>shit post
>go shops and buy shit for lunch/dinner
>make/ eat lunch
>sleep
>shit post
>dinner
>drink till druk
>sleep
Why would you even buy a ticket to watch Sisyphus roll the boulder up the hill? You can see him from outside.
>Wake up
>Jerk off
>Eat breakfast
>Go to the gym
>Jerk off
>Shower and brush teeth
>Eat
>Read and vidya until bed time
Sex but I guess not enough to say it's the typical weekend routine.
Idk I usually try to write some code/learn new shit. If not I read, some times I'll accidentally get stuck in to the YouTube algorithm for like 15 hours watching spooky lists and true crime until my brain feels nice and rotten