I do this, but it gets a mixed reception. I get a lot of dyel lads giving me shitty looks, which okay, means I look better than they do and they hate the way that makes them feel, but I still would rather be liked.
Sometimes they seethe, other times they laugh hysterically and tell their friends to look. It's pathetic, i know, but I'm still not able to shake it off.
I try so hard to be nice to everyone and people are such dicks without even knowing me. Feels bad mang.
But what's the alternative, burqa myself? Not gonna do it. I've worked too hard to hide away just to avoid negative attention.
Wtf I love women now?!
But letting them know they got to me means they've sort of won, doesn't it?
I see people who spot me, then they go pointing or gesturing for their friends to check me out. Its not always negative, sometimes it's girls who seem into it.
But I feel like my only real option in any event is to ignore it. Am I seriously going to get up in some dyels face because he laughed near me?
There’s a dude at my gym that always wears tiny shorts and tight tiny shirts with long hair and you can just tell he’s trying way too hard to fit some kind of image he’s produced in his head. It’s not that you look better, it’s that you are very obviously insecure and you look like a homosexual
I hear this here a lot too, it sounds from the description like you're the insecure one though.
Fat guys wear clothes that are tight on them, nobody says anything. So what are you really mad at?
See this is sort of my fear. That in order to get past this, I need to become arrogant and view myself as some sort of warrior class, which sounds based as frick to larp in my head, and would likely immediately make me feel better, but I can't help but feel that this sort of attitude would wreck me long term.
I already have trouble relating to normies after all the vax bullshit.
2 years ago
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you don't need to relate to them
view yourself as a benevolent noble would among his serfs
you don't hate them, you want what's best for them - but at the same time you don't actually care about their opinions
that said the OP post reeks of a desperate need for validation
just wear well fitting clothes which suit the occasion/location - the most sexually attractive things to women, beyond looks, are social skill and behaviour, and being able to dress appropriately is an aspect of that
you can look like david gandy but if you dress like a moron and sperg out with everyone you're bottom of the barrel outside of a quick tinder hookup
I look better and am stronger than you. I just don’t feel the need to dress like a woman in the gym so everybody can see my low body fat. My lifts speak for themselves. You are literally begging for attention then getting mad when it’s not the kind of attention you want. You are a woman
There’s a dude at my gym that always wears tiny shorts and tight tiny shirts with long hair and you can just tell he’s trying way too hard to fit some kind of image he’s produced in his head. It’s not that you look better, it’s that you are very obviously insecure and you look like a homosexual
This is where I argue and say you're wrong, you tell me to post body and no matter how big I am you're going to say I look like shit.
Can we just skip it anon
The easiest ways you can improve it quickly is make eye contact, have good posture, and don't speak so fast. Other things are much more traits which you have to already have or really develop (masculine features, good body, deep voice, good social skills, learn to make jokes, learn how to be playfully physical).
>don't speak so fast
This helps so much. I used to try to rush through my sentences, now I punctuate them properly and pause when I'm switching between thoughts for example. Also, one thing that I've started doing is instead of >someone says something I didn't catch or want them to repeat >"sorry, what did you say?"
I instead do the following: >say "again?" or "say that again?" >but also give a smirk during/after. That way it is obviously not confrontational in a provocative sense but rather playful. If you don't do that, telling someone to "say that again" can seem rather harsh. Also, you can insert a "sorry" in there, e.g. "sorry.... again?", putting a pause between the two words to slow down the conversation.
Autistic? Yes. Allows you to control the pace of the conversation/seem more chilled out? Also yes. Scored a chick that way, but I then found out she was tatted so I dropped her after
Hearlet here, yes I hate not catching what someone says. Sometimes I just pretend I heard what they said, smile and nod and hope it wasn't something important.
yeah don't do that, well, not in a social setting. If you want to actually engage in a conversation, you have to know what it's about, just don't become the guy that asks "what" 3 times in a row lmao
Head up, facing forward. Good posture. Walk semi slowly. Look every girl in the eyes that you walk past. Give slight smirk as you pass them.
one of the most pathetic posts I've ever read. best way to exude sexual confidence is to be part of the biological elite and treat women like trash until you get their numbers
Public masturbation.
Based Diogenes
>Ladies, you are lookin' good tonight!
Then just walk away.
Sleazecore+Tank mode
I don't get it, these girls are making fun of him.
Sexcore. Wear tight clothing. Always tuck in your shirt
I do this, but it gets a mixed reception. I get a lot of dyel lads giving me shitty looks, which okay, means I look better than they do and they hate the way that makes them feel, but I still would rather be liked.
Sometimes they seethe, other times they laugh hysterically and tell their friends to look. It's pathetic, i know, but I'm still not able to shake it off.
I try so hard to be nice to everyone and people are such dicks without even knowing me. Feels bad mang.
But what's the alternative, burqa myself? Not gonna do it. I've worked too hard to hide away just to avoid negative attention.
Wtf I love women now?!
Confront them when they laugh at you
But letting them know they got to me means they've sort of won, doesn't it?
I see people who spot me, then they go pointing or gesturing for their friends to check me out. Its not always negative, sometimes it's girls who seem into it.
But I feel like my only real option in any event is to ignore it. Am I seriously going to get up in some dyels face because he laughed near me?
I hear this here a lot too, it sounds from the description like you're the insecure one though.
Fat guys wear clothes that are tight on them, nobody says anything. So what are you really mad at?
Warriors do not concern themselves with the opinions of peasants
See this is sort of my fear. That in order to get past this, I need to become arrogant and view myself as some sort of warrior class, which sounds based as frick to larp in my head, and would likely immediately make me feel better, but I can't help but feel that this sort of attitude would wreck me long term.
I already have trouble relating to normies after all the vax bullshit.
you don't need to relate to them
view yourself as a benevolent noble would among his serfs
you don't hate them, you want what's best for them - but at the same time you don't actually care about their opinions
that said the OP post reeks of a desperate need for validation
just wear well fitting clothes which suit the occasion/location - the most sexually attractive things to women, beyond looks, are social skill and behaviour, and being able to dress appropriately is an aspect of that
you can look like david gandy but if you dress like a moron and sperg out with everyone you're bottom of the barrel outside of a quick tinder hookup
I look better and am stronger than you. I just don’t feel the need to dress like a woman in the gym so everybody can see my low body fat. My lifts speak for themselves. You are literally begging for attention then getting mad when it’s not the kind of attention you want. You are a woman
If you weren’t insecure you wouldn’t be repeatedly posting “waaah zoomers laugh at me” on IST dude. Lmao
There’s a dude at my gym that always wears tiny shorts and tight tiny shirts with long hair and you can just tell he’s trying way too hard to fit some kind of image he’s produced in his head. It’s not that you look better, it’s that you are very obviously insecure and you look like a homosexual
You have never picked up a weight in your life.
This is where I argue and say you're wrong, you tell me to post body and no matter how big I am you're going to say I look like shit.
Can we just skip it anon
wish i knew, im a 21 year old virgin and never even had a female friend since primary school
Monkee dick eye.
God he went home and beat off so fricking hard
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chad
Based af
FRICK, MARRY, KILL, SNIFF!
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>take up lots of room
>look people in the eyes
>eat slowly at them
The easiest ways you can improve it quickly is make eye contact, have good posture, and don't speak so fast. Other things are much more traits which you have to already have or really develop (masculine features, good body, deep voice, good social skills, learn to make jokes, learn how to be playfully physical).
>don't speak so fast
This helps so much. I used to try to rush through my sentences, now I punctuate them properly and pause when I'm switching between thoughts for example. Also, one thing that I've started doing is instead of
>someone says something I didn't catch or want them to repeat
>"sorry, what did you say?"
I instead do the following:
>say "again?" or "say that again?"
>but also give a smirk during/after. That way it is obviously not confrontational in a provocative sense but rather playful. If you don't do that, telling someone to "say that again" can seem rather harsh. Also, you can insert a "sorry" in there, e.g. "sorry.... again?", putting a pause between the two words to slow down the conversation.
Autistic? Yes. Allows you to control the pace of the conversation/seem more chilled out? Also yes. Scored a chick that way, but I then found out she was tatted so I dropped her after
Hearlet here, yes I hate not catching what someone says. Sometimes I just pretend I heard what they said, smile and nod and hope it wasn't something important.
yeah don't do that, well, not in a social setting. If you want to actually engage in a conversation, you have to know what it's about, just don't become the guy that asks "what" 3 times in a row lmao
one of the most pathetic posts I've ever read. best way to exude sexual confidence is to be part of the biological elite and treat women like trash until you get their numbers
Head up, facing forward. Good posture. Walk semi slowly. Look every girl in the eyes that you walk past. Give slight smirk as you pass them.
and then look at their boobs shamelessly
Idk I've got this "I'm dead inside but I'm a good person" thing going on and chicks seem to love it.
Find the most attractive woman every time you enter a room. Punch her in the face to establish dominance and exude sexual confidence. Simple As.
Regularly have sex with an attractive girl. Does wonders for your confidence.