Why do men think I’m sexy but not women

I’ll be honest, I lift cause I want girls to like me. I’m 21 and I’ve never had a girlfriend, a kiss, or really held the attention of a girl before. I started lifting a year ago to fix this. I lost 60 lbs and I think my body is quite nice, I have nice shoulders, good arms, and a good back.

Lately I’ve been joining gay discord servers just for the attention. I’ll post a selfie there and I’ll get tons of messages, replies, and friend requests telling me how sexy I am.

When I try to talk to women though, it’s like talking to a brick wall. They have absolutely zero interest in me. I’m not interested in men more than for attention so it’s kinda frustrating.

  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    imagine her getting BLACKED

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      No. I image her sitting on my face and I’m white.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        This is the face she makes when she sees my penus wenus

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Shes got that 1000 BBC stare, if you know what I mean

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        girls like this always start taking HWD [HUGE WHITE DICK] at a young age, then they're hooked for life

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Gays fuck every other willing male, or pre pubertal boy for that matter, they have no standards. They are into banging you all night long as long as you have a cock, a set of balls and a hole

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I guess that makes sense. Looking through the selfies channel of this server, I got wayyyy more attention that any of the other dudes there. Kinda wish I was gay honestly.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Extending a nonsensical consonant instead of the vowel is a good sign that you already are.

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    because men would fuck anything that moves

    trust me i'm bisexual, I find a guy to get laid with in the next hour if I wanted to, but have to chase girls for a week before they put out

    these guys don't want to be your boyfriends / give you attention or kiss you really, they just want to fuck you and move on

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      why don"t you give up on girls if they are so bothersome to get ?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        because i like women too, I prefer them actually

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          so you do boys because they are an easy fuck and you don't mind the penis ? but boys refuses to give you intimacy ? that's quite fucked up bro

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I love penis, boys do give you intimacy when they are your boyfriends, i'm just saying that's probably not the case for op
            he probably looks like a desperate virgin and they want to deflower him

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Men have zero standards.Most of them will fuck anything.

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Your body language is probably all wrong. I get female attention purely as a result of smiling (emphasis on smiling with my eyes — started being told I have beautiful eyes) and being warm/friendly. Women are fearful/cautious of unhappy men, brooding expressions only work for the top 5% of men who are phenomenally attractive. It’s actually become somewhat of a problem because it creates friction between myself and my male co workers. They’ll introduce me to their female friends or their female friends will go out of their way to introduce themselves to me as I’m leaving the bar. A couple nights ago one even whispered “oh my god” when we were face to face talking for the first time and throughout the night she offered me drinks, offered to drive me to my place.

    Stay lifting, don’t let your failures get you down, also don’t shower women with attention because if they think they can get attention from you without having to flirt or put some effort they’ll play you or ignore you.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I’m sure it might be a body language issue. I’m literally clueless on how to interact with women. The few times I have it just feels like I’m walking on eggshells. I try to smile at people more, like it says in How To Win Friends and Influence People, which actually seems to help with making friends with guys, but I rarely meet new girls so idk if it works for me yet.

      >A couple nights ago one even whispered “oh my god” when we were face to face talking for the first time and throughout the night she offered me drinks, offered to drive me to my place.

      This is so insane to me. The idea of a girl being excited to talk to me is so foreign. I almost can’t believe it’s real and actually happens.

      because men would fuck anything that moves

      trust me i'm bisexual, I find a guy to get laid with in the next hour if I wanted to, but have to chase girls for a week before they put out

      these guys don't want to be your boyfriends / give you attention or kiss you really, they just want to fuck you and move on

      I’m not concerned with what the guy wants to do to me, I just enjoy being complimented and desired for once. It’s kinda addicting, I’ve never felt it before recently.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >How To Win Friends and Influence People
        Absolutely ignore everything in this book when it comes to dealing with women. It's a manual for simps and brown nosers, it will make you look beta as fuck to a woman.

        >I’m literally clueless on how to interact with women
        That's because you need practice. You can't learn just by reading about it. Just go and do it. Chat with fatties, start a conversation with an old lady at the super market. etc. Do this constantly. Then apply what you learned to women you like.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Win Friends and Influence People is a good book to make you likable in a workspace, especially if you’re naturally dominant to the point of being stubborn and standoffish. It depends on your work environment, but you should probably read that and utilize it everywhere EXCEPT with women.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >This is so insane to me. The idea of a girl being excited to talk to me is so foreign. I almost can’t believe it’s real and actually happens.
        Same. The idea of anyone wanting to spend time with me (as in, they would give up doing something else to meet me) seems like an unobtainable fantasy.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >This is so insane to me. The idea of a girl being excited to talk to me is so foreign. I almost can’t believe it’s real and actually happens.
        Same. The idea of anyone wanting to spend time with me (as in, they would give up doing something else to meet me) seems like an unobtainable fantasy.

        why do you think it would be so weird if a girl had an interest in you ? don"t you have a personnality, a strong body ? a nice face ? can you keep a conversation with a stranger ? or do you things that girls are like differents species that speak a foreign language and have differents culture ?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >why do you think it would be so weird if a girl had an interest in you?
          I ask myself this several days a week, because I can feel there is something wrong with me. But as to your points, no it isn't what you listed. I'm friendly, sociable, lean and in shape. Face is average. My face looks young but I'm bald and a little short. I can make good conversation with men and women anywhere from ages 18 to 80.

          Sometimes I wonder if other people can tell what's wrong with me. I don't think it rises to the level where they could articulate it though.

          I'm also in my thirties, and no one wants to spend time to meet you anymore. Hard to find new friends...and if they in their 30s too would they even be better than my longtime friends? Only time a woman was interested in male attention from me was one time from a younger girl in high school.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I think this is bait but I'll bite. I've finally gotten to the stage in life with women where if I go out on a GOOD Friday I will get pussy. I've gotten tail the last 4 or 5 months in a row. So like once a month I'll get laid before this I was normal like 2x a year max I'd get laid. (I'm 30 not 21 like OP)

      So the most important thing with women I've finally learnt is TO DO NOTHING do literally nothing. If you are with friends and they bring girls you can INTRODUCE yourself and shake hands hug whatever that way they know you aren't some weirdo. After that literally abandon them and go talk to dudes, play pool(what I usually do to network is play pool you don't even have to be good just play or play darts I'm good at that) So after you are playing darts or pool or talking about your jobs or whatever. Some girl WILL be eventually interested in you because you are an ALPHA who doesn't give a FUCK about pussy right? The guys who get nothing at bars are the ones going around buying drinks for random girls or trying to slide into conversations mostly younger guys and yes you can get tail that way but it's better to do NOTHING.

      Last weekend I took back a nice ass Latina girl. She was fit she had nice ass tattoos whatever. This bitch had a fucking MS13 gang tattoo on her neck and she was blowing me Saturday morning in the shower. I promise you OP I literally DID NOTHING and when she came up to me I kept it cool I made no advances towards her, she felt up my muscles and told me she wants to go home and fuck me all night. I'm a 5"6' 200 lb manlet btw. The weekend before her I fucked another Latina girl and a month before her I fucked a white aryan nurse. I'm certainly going to keep this winning streak running.

      Yeah these two are right here combine their advice. This is something that you realize at like age 35-40 even 40 year old men get 20 year old college girls on occasion.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      man fuck all that i get pussy thrown at me because i have sex appeal lmao!

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Works if you are not talking to the girl?
      Suposse I see a pretty girl walking by at the campus, should I smile to her or it will appear autistic?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        If you see a pretty girl just walking by on campus, you’ve really got no way to make her notice you by smiling. If you have balls of steel, you can try to approach her and start a conversation, but this requires some excellent social skills, an ice cold demeanor, being moderately physically attractive, and necessitates her being alone (nearby friends will shut you down fast). Sorry to say, but I’m guessing most people on IST are way too autistic to get a number from these methods, but I could be proven wrong.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I mean, sometimes I can get their attention by just looking at them, prolonged eye contact is an indicator of interest after all.
          But most of the time I don't smile, should I?
          That's what I was trying to ask

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >They’ll introduce me to their female friends or their female friends will go out of their way to introduce themselves to me as I’m leaving the bar.
      I could die in a gutter before anyone I know would introduce me to female friends. Of course being introduced makes you seem like a 10x better guy, but how does this advice help me? Is step one to grind for 10 years to get super helpful friends like that?

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    why don't you post body so i can tell you if you are sexy or not ?

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I think this is bait but I'll bite. I've finally gotten to the stage in life with women where if I go out on a GOOD Friday I will get pussy. I've gotten tail the last 4 or 5 months in a row. So like once a month I'll get laid before this I was normal like 2x a year max I'd get laid. (I'm 30 not 21 like OP)

    So the most important thing with women I've finally learnt is TO DO NOTHING do literally nothing. If you are with friends and they bring girls you can INTRODUCE yourself and shake hands hug whatever that way they know you aren't some weirdo. After that literally abandon them and go talk to dudes, play pool(what I usually do to network is play pool you don't even have to be good just play or play darts I'm good at that) So after you are playing darts or pool or talking about your jobs or whatever. Some girl WILL be eventually interested in you because you are an ALPHA who doesn't give a FUCK about pussy right? The guys who get nothing at bars are the ones going around buying drinks for random girls or trying to slide into conversations mostly younger guys and yes you can get tail that way but it's better to do NOTHING.

    Last weekend I took back a nice ass Latina girl. She was fit she had nice ass tattoos whatever. This bitch had a fucking MS13 gang tattoo on her neck and she was blowing me Saturday morning in the shower. I promise you OP I literally DID NOTHING and when she came up to me I kept it cool I made no advances towards her, she felt up my muscles and told me she wants to go home and fuck me all night. I'm a 5"6' 200 lb manlet btw. The weekend before her I fucked another Latina girl and a month before her I fucked a white aryan nurse. I'm certainly going to keep this winning streak running.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      This is bizarre advice but also my bread and butter for getting laid and women interacting with me. I’ve never been one to approach and initiate convo so I learned this very early on in life. Also helps to be good looking

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Ah yes, for the lonely ISTer who wants a marriageable gf. Just follow your advice on the strength of your proof: you've attracted MS13 gang tattoos for a one night stand. And the best part is that "DO NOTHING" is so easy. Maybe they are doing it already? You are almost there guys!

      Holy shit.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >marriageable gf
        You’re clearly a retarded simp. Gonna get fucked so hard in divorce court

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >I'm a 5"6' 200 lb manlet btw.

      based.
      Women approach all the time. I was at the office yesterday and the milf on the adjoining workstation was giggling and doing small talk all the time. She felt my arms 3-4 times no joke with the excuse of trying her "martial art skills" and how she could kick my ass. This woman is 40, single and trains like a madman, perky tits and bubble butt, dresses like a whore. I stood up to get coffee, I towered over her (I rarely wear boots but I was then) and told her I could snap her like a pencil.
      I tell you I heard her gasp and she circled around me all day with hard nipples.
      I love/need this job but I never struggled so bad to not rape her then and there against my desk.
      She also told me italo-germans make cute babies (she's of german descent and she knows my last name which is italian). Also told me (totally uncalled for) that she was past the age of getting pregnant but "you can always try haha"
      im gonna jerk off now

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        So… why didn’t you ask for her number?

        Also, can confirm, German dad and Italian mom, I’m sexy as fuck

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >why didn’t you ask for her number?
          let her do the work.

          >Also, can confirm, German dad and Italian mom, I’m sexy as fuck
          south tyrolese or sth?

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Lately I’ve been joining gay discord servers just for the attention.
    ...

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Honestly if OP didn’t become a gay after that, he definitely isn’t gay. Strange, though.

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    The ocean is too big

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You would love to have sex with a woman who had no social skills, but was a 10/10 and just wanted to hook up. Women do not feel the same; Physical attraction is a factor but women are looking for a provider, an accomplished man who can feed them and their possible children. You are likely not on a good career path or you have really bad social skills, career is a little less important if she’s just trying to fuck but that’s still an enormous factor towards how much she wants to fuck you.

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    because men don't know what women want

  12. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    how about you post your body so we can judge for ourselves, retard?
    for all we know you could be a deluded lardass.

  13. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Here's some hard truth friend.

    I'm 6'4, 10% bf, 200lbs, wide shoulder, strong jaw/chin, good teeth, full head of hair, strong brow bone, 7inch dick, white, I make 250k a year. I'm 33 but I look 25 still.

    IST will say larp, post body, etc. Whatever. I'm the 1% you all complain about being. Yeah I'm not moviestar good looking but I am in the top 1% of genetics and when you include income at my age I'm probably the 1% of the 1%.

    I can fuck avg girls pretty easily, 7s maybe 8s, but I don't really want to. Getting the 9s, 9.5s and god forbid 10s like Grace in OP's picture is still fucking HARD to do, even for guys like me. I can get a 9 to flirt with me, say I'm cute, have dinner but they will still not text me back for days at a time. They hit me up when it's convenient for them. These girls have so many options you wouldn't believe it. Every day they have to make a decision on which 5 guys they are going to ghost to go out with the 6th guy that has been texting them.

    These girls live on a different galaxy. The only guys who live like that are the famous ones. Probably less than 1000 guys on Earth.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Hmm… I’m guessing that pertains exclusively to hooking up with these 10’s, right? Because I’d imagine being able to pique their interest would leave her open to being charmed (psychologically manipulated) into needing your dick. You certainly have enough for a woman at a baseline, perhaps your personality is… well, some men can simply make a chick feel like she was struck by lighting because they’re so interesting to talk to. Perhaps then you can break that 9 ceiling? Good luck to you brother and congrats on having your life together so well

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        An 8 will be drooling over how fit tall and good looking you are. 9s and 10s will compliment you but you need to bring so much more to the table for them

  14. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You're lifting for the wrong reason, and will probably quit, but the simple truth is that you simply aren't attractive enough. Women don't care for 80% of men's looks whatsoever, and will only show strong interest in maybe 0.1%, the rest are the guys who just need to try a little to get laid. IF you already have a good face, are tall enough and have a good frame, you will still need an exceptional physique to be able to impress women on the sole basis of looks.

    Even then, if you have a shitty personality, you will only attract the bottom of the barrel trash.

    If you're ever attractive enough to need nothing more, you WILL know. Because when that happens, it basically flips the gender dynamic. If you're a man women are attracted to, you become a test boosted version of a woman. You have all the leverage and every woman knows it, you don't even need to try. There are very few men who are able to elicit a true "girlboner" reaction, and those are the ones that even the nicest, purest girls will look at with lust in their eyes. It'll sound like a LARP but I get unhealthy amounts of female (and also male but idc i just mog them) attention daily, especially at the gym and pool, but also when just walking downtown with my gf. And by unhealthy, I mean that I see couples fight because the bf caught his girl mirin' on a weekly basis. But I also have a hard time convincing myself that being committed is the right choice, as I hold all the power in any relationship I'm in, and power corrupts.

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