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How do you keep your body dysmorphia at bay IST?
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I'm not a cryptotroony so I have no body dysmorphia
is it really body dysmorphia or are you just kinda fat tho
The whole "oh no my [insert body part] isn't [insert good quality]" feeling fades away once you're older than like 22.
It really doesn't if you're permanently online and refuse to Touch Grass®
False.
skill issue
Yeah sure.
Not if you're a woman
Wrong so wrong. Everything is looks
you will never be able to outlift your hairline
Mine started when I was 24
Mine are less intense but more specific
Or you never had that feeling if your not an empty moronic lioniser cum addict
Nah. You've just given up and become a skinnyfat slob.
Nope. I am still insecure about my height to this day and I'm 26
True for me.
it went away for me when I got a real job.
I hate that her plastic surgery actually looks really good. 99% of the time women blatantly make themselves look worse, so it's super awkward having to concede that it genuinely boosted her from looking normal to looking like a gigastacy.
This was her between the two images in the OP
what an insane build
also aren’t her pictures copyrighted or some shit?
Only her onlyfans stuff
imagine if she was white.
Imagine if you were white.
>copyrighted
suck a wiener white knight
that's photoshopped to hell and back. hard to find a pixel that wasn't warped in some way.
Shoulder to hip ratio, head size, and ribcage length give em up everytime.
Sucks that she looks like a cute handball player at my gym and there's no fricking way I'm ever gonna get near her or date her.
Speak for yourself. I hate that hideous Disney princess nose so many women are getting these days. It's like the white woman equivalent of when Asian girls have eyelid surgery to look more "European". It looks unnatural and creepy. And I know it's not plastic surgery, but
>those lips
>good
Honestly this
In the right before surgery you a high t man sees her and probably don't even notice her,invisible, while looking at left post surgery stacy mode all I could think by looking at her face is her giving me a blowjob
israelite moment
Looks like the average ig prostitute, with that look the only vibe you can get from here is "prostitute"
nah you’re tripping. the lip fillers look terrible. she looks plastic. modern day bimbo. there’s only a specific kind of man who likes this eastern estrogen ig prostitute look
I fricked a girl with some slight lip fillers, her bjs were pretty nice cause of them ngl, but she didn't have the real puffy ones I see every now and then, those look like the girl got stung by a bee or something kek
I used to frick a chick who would SUCC like a fricking vacuum cleaner, that's proper technique according to muh dik. Lip fillers are pointless compared to that. It felt like she was going to suck my friggin soul out.
por que no los dos?
lip fillers done right always gives them a nice pouty look that I find hot, sue me
Seems like 90% of the time lip fillers are absolutely BOGGED. Yeah it might feel nice on your ding dong, but looking at that is not nice.
It was cooming on a whole nother level. Unfortunately she got into meth and I had to kick her to the curb, but there's definitely something to be said for sticking your dick in crazy.
>t. Someone who has had like 3 sexual partners and thinks he's an expert
Closer to 30, actually. Probably would have been better if I married my high school gf and had a family though.
nta but checked and same, I still miss her to this day
We fell for the "just find yourself by dicking down a bunch of random prostitutes" meme. Feelsbadman.
It's true. My high school gf is certainly the best woman I ever formed a relationship with and I would have been a better man to start a family with her.
Mine wasn't high school but my first serious relationship out of college, but I'm older than most on this board
Miss you Mags :/
I've never had a long term gf
My relationships last a few months
ooooff I'm with y'all there anons. Same here, we were each other's firsts and she really loved me. Didn't understand what I had at the time so I ditched her and fricked around till now. Don't necessarily regret it because I didn't know what I was doing... but if I could go back with what I know now I'd wife that
If you're reading, 'Becca, I'll move back and marry you. You won't regret it.
Bros i need your advice. I've been with my gf since high school, we're both our first everything, she is pretty enough but also she most likely has bipolar or some shit, would make my life a living hell out of jealousy so I kind of isolated myself from all of my friends because it was just not worth the drama and also not worth leaving her over it anyway, and she's much better at talking than me so that didn't go anywhere as well. I kind of hate her pretty often, when she is herself and everything is good, I feel like there's nothing more adorable in this world, but that never lasts more than a day or two and then she becomes insufferable. I don't know what to do, it has gotten to the point where I'm kind of running out of time and I have to either marry or ditch her and honestly idk what to do. I have only a couple years of my 20s and I feel like I only have a couple of years to be able to get with 18-21 year olds (it would be a downgrade otherwise), I feel like time is running out and I don't want to be the old guy at the club and I don't want to regret leaving my gf. I feel like it would be a waste to not have her bear my child after investing everything into her and the relationship
Either try to work it out with your gf, or dump her, I'm in my mid 30s and party just fine, the choice is yours anon
Do you know the whatever podcast? Open up the most recent one on youtube, or the current one that is live rn and look for a pale, aristocratic looking brunette girl. Do you really think that you would be able to get a girl like her and that the fact that you are over 30 wouldn't be an instant disqualfier?
I'm not looking up your zoomer cultural propaganda, but I have snagged young good looking girls, only for a bit, but that's because I'm honest up front with what I am and what I want from them, as I've said in this thread, I missed my chance at the one, now I'll just see what life throws me until I die alone, or until one decides to stick around, not holding my breath though.
Some women like that specifically go for guys like me, you'd know that if you hadn't already found the love of your life dumbass
Arn't the hangovers awful? I stopped partying in my late 20s.
They're worse, but I wouldn't say they're unbearable, I guess I'm just used to it, good ole Irish liver keeps me ticking
Alright take care bud
You're mostly right. Given you've had a long-term relationship that's lasted into your 20s, you've basically garnered most all the experience you'll get from dating and what it would be like without a family.
When I say you're mostly right, I mean
>You have found your wife
>ALL women will act bi-polar, but you'll calm her down considerably when she has your child
>You can make friends elsewhere, but you can't make wives
I say go for her, bro. Start your career, impregnate her PRONTO and while life is NOT going to get "easier," your later life with DEFINITELY be easier. CONSIDERABLY. The actual term for the fear you're having is more centered around jealousy, but I'll tell you that the regret you feel for NOT taking marriage is going to hurt more than that fearful envy.
And, again, the whole "meme" about girls becoming calmer when they get their kid? It's not a joke.
And, finally, look around you at women in their 30s (note: NOT on the internet or television or movies or whatever). Think they're hot? No, you won't. Your gf is going to lose her beauty, too, but you are saving BOTH OF YOU by marrying her and impregnating her NOW.
I really appreciate your post. When would you say I would be justified in leaving her and trying to find a better wife? What would need to happen (along with some obvious things like cheating) for you to advise me to let the bird in my hand fly and try for the bush?
The short answer is your answer to the question, "how rich are you?"
If you are, RIGHT NOW, a wealthy man, then sure; you can dump her and look for a better matching wife. Why? Because, if you're rich, women are likely HURLING themselves at you and your "search" would probably be very easy and rewarding.
If you aren't a wealthy man, there's a strong chance you never will be, and current social standard have women believing you're not worth her time. Your availability is meaningless; its your status that means something.
As a note to also consider, you can divorce your wife. As much as she will become an "ex-wife," you NEVER have an "ex-child." It's a very good idea to impregnate a woman that loves you (unless she's literally insane).
I'm broke as frick but I'm good looking and tall and getting into a high paying career.
Thank you, I will meditate on what you said
How did you meet her?
I went out and joined a small aviation club to try getting my glider and other licenses. She was in the club as well and we got along really well.
Go out and do things you enjoy doing and you'll meet a lot of new people. Some of those people will let you touch their boobs.
You can have children without getting married, no fault divorce ruined marriage and alimony too depending on your country. No marriage until marriage reform, simple as. I support the concept of marriage btw, it's the best for civilization and the children, but we live in an individual atomized culture and marriage is a massive risk for men because of that. Women have all the power in marriage.
Just get a prenup homie and don't marry a hoe
Preups get tossed out in court all the time.
You never know if she's a hoe, girls are sneaky now some know hoes are not wanted and can hide their hoe phase.
Nah. She'll respond far more positively to a "marriage agreement" than she will a legal "pre-nuptial agreement." As high as divorce rates may be in the modern day, a good women will still recognize that a husband who can give her children while feeding that family and also not beating her is INSANELY lucky. She'll likely love you more for marrying her than not.
Finding a good and grateful woman today is very rare. I'm just asking people to be aware of the risks and not live in la la dream land, divorce is a huge factor when it comes to male suicide.
honestly i was going to tell you to dump her because she's obviously crazy, but when i reached the end of your post i realized you're just the same.
Why did you come to that conclusion? Honestly curious
>I only have a couple of years to be able to get with 18-21 year olds (it would be a downgrade otherwise),
>I feel like it would be a waste to not have her bear my child after investing everything into her and the relationship
you do not have a healthy outlook on relationships or women bro. what kind of relationship can you expect to get? if you decide to do better then yeah, you'll get better, but right now you're standing in place and festering.
I know that what I said might sound cynical and that's not really my perspective but I'm just trying to process everything rationally and express my dilemma. As for my outlook, I'm hung up on "purity", I really wouldn't want a girl that I would date with (if I were to leave my gf) to have experience and a bodycount higher than could be counted on one hand, and if I didn't feel that by leaving my gf I'll lose something irreplaceable, I would have left her long ago but for me it was always a damned if I do, damned if I don't type of situation
your entire thinking is bungled. almost everyones thinking on relationships is bungled, but you asked me directly so i'll tell you. real, happy, healthy relationships are almost nonexistent. you'll find them tucked in tiny villages and distant houses far from any road and town; people who understand that everyones a bit backwards and crazy and they distances themselves. i can't show it to you because it's something you have to see yourself. you're not thinking rationally and the dilemma is an illusion, you are layers within layers of illusions, living in an alternate reality separate from the real world. like everyone.
do you seek a clear and honest path? happiness, wisdom, and peace? then dump all these silly thoughts in your mind and follow the direction of your soul. whatever you want to do, that is what you'll do and it will be the best you can do and lead to the highest outcome.
that's my advice. go take a hike in the woods.
Anon I'm 34 and my current gf turns 20 next month. It's only ever over if you let yourself believe it is.
how did that feel good? seems like it would be too intense and uncomfortable
a chad?
Correct. Looks way better.
>How do you keep your body dysmorphia at bay IST?
By having sex with small blonde girls that call me fit
>small
That is why you fail
If this piggy called me fit instead of a small girl i would literally not feel even the slightest better
frick off dyel fatty fetishisy nobody fricking cares
Where do I find small blonde girls that call me fit?
good plastic surgery. she doesn't have body dysmorphia because her self-image appears accurate
my shoulder is deformed. my jaw is deformed. my toes are deformed. don't care about it. still go heavy in the gym.
Whenever I feel insecure about my body I just start a guns vs martial arts debate and it goes away
I do this with keto threads and I post as moxyte and ketoschizo from different IPs
Martial arts if they're within grabbing distance, guns if they're farther than that.
If they're far away I shoot them with the gun, if they're close by I hit them with the gun.
>bayonets don't exist
>Martial arts if they're within grabbing distance
There's a reason the military teaches soldiers to only fight hand-to-hand until they can draw their pistol. It's because fighting hand-to-hand is stupid when you have a gun.
>gun gets knocked out of hand
ummmm now what?
>picks it up
>fires 5 shots of .45 ACP in less than a second
What now?
New York Reload
>New York Reload
Learned something new, thanks bud
t. ESL
I just go outside and look at mexians
the actual problem with that amount of plastic surgery is a lot of women don't stop once they're at a perfect level like that. they'll just keep seeing things they want to fix and then overdo it
too true
Is that Aletta? jfc
>still would tho
Yeah it's her, she looked plastic as frick but still great until 2014-ish
She's an outlier, most women I know who got plastic surgery did it for a specific reason and never did any more work, chicks with a monetary incentive to get more bimbofied will in every case, pornstars, OF prostitutes, insta thots, certain celebs etc
What was the golden age of bimbofication? The new plastic bee sting lips trend is horrifying.
bimbo back in the 90s just meant skinny, in-shape, with big fake breasts, a bimbo now looks like a plastic frick doll, them being uncanny is almost the point now days
They really are getting into uncanny valley territory.
There are still stuck skinny bimbos with just huge breasts and small asses look up Nicolette shea and Katy ann
Recently read a bit by Katherine Dee that pointed out that a lot of bimboism is really a reflection of the drag aesthetic. I notice it all the time, now. Women in drag, f2f transsexuals.
It sounds like you're speaking that you don't know about Anna Nicole Smith. The DEFINING bimbo of the 80s and 90s.
she was so attractive it's unreal
>Makes 29 million dollars
Yeah. Yeah, I would, too.
People lambast women for marrying into wealth, but as an older guy who's lived life long enough to gain some wisdom...
...I would marry a millionaire in a HEARTBEAT. No joke.
god i love bimbos
Right looks better
no, left should've gained weight
Yup.
Yes, slippery slope. Social media amd editing also makes it much worse, creating a false reality to compare to and a global sexual market which makes the competition much bigger than before.
Most people here don't actually have body dysmorphia. They think they're fat because they actually are fat. That's not body dysmorphia.
what do you do if you genuinely do have dysmorphia of the face?
I'm convinced "body dysmorphia" was a term coined by ugly, fat and otherwise repugnant people to describe anyone who's actually motivated enough to improve themselves and would obviously be unhappy with who they were before.
You're not supposed to be content with your body. There is always something you can be doing to improve it. It's a lifelong journey.
Two things can be true at the same time:
1) You look like shit and can/should improve
2) You accept and 'love' yourself the way you are at any given time
im so sick of these Hollywood noses on women. i want a woman with a fricking huge shnoze
For me, it never goes away.
And im worried that no matter how hard or how much I lift, I will never get to have the beautiful body that I dream of
I simply just lift the dysmorphia away.
I don’t
validation from my girlfriend
reframing and challenging thoughts
practicing gratitude
continuing to lift and challenge myself physically even if that doesn't include weightlifting
I legitimately have a recessed chin and want to do something about it.
Pic related is actually exactly what I look like from the side. Even though I have the Brad Pitt fight club body.
just own it, I have one as well, but I only hear people say it's a problem online, women only care if you look good from the front, just be fit and lean
mine makes my teeth stick out in a way that i think is cute
Look into mewing. You need to work out your jaw and face muscles if you want an aesthetic face, just like the rest of your body.
If I get braces to fix my small overbite will my jaw move forward?
I had braces and headgear, but you can achieve something similar through exercises, mewing specifically. I still had a weak jaw after my braces came off, but exercise is what fixed it. The reason people have weak jaws now is because they don't chew like cavemen used to imo.
oh I chew
That's good, now you should work on maintaining good jaw and tongue posture.
depends what your teeth are like, I recently finished mine and my bite massively improved but I still fraud by resting it in the most advantageous place
I fixed my mouthbreathing years ago and it has gradually improved my jaw.
I also started chewing gum because my friend who is 55 and homeless has the perfect jaw and she chews gum all the time, and I suspect I'm continuing to make improvements.
Maybe in a few more years my receded jaw will be gone.
Work your neck, it goes away.
unironically my facial structure except my cheeck bones arent as developed so he looks better
Literally all she needed to do was move her bottom jaw 1/2 cm forward but instead she permanently bogged herself. Women.
All botox does is artificially alter the tension of certain muscles. You can train yourself to adjust it naturally but it takes discipline and consistency.
>I hated being israeli
that's so fricking antisemitic I can't even
>How do you keep your body dysmorphia at bay IST?
By not caring about your physical appearance so much
I don't, I embrace it to drive me to new gains.
Frankly I obsess over my shitty hairline and my two front teeth are longer then the others that makes them look buck toothy. I'll probably get both fixed up.
>How do you keep your body dysmorphia at bay IST?
Never develop it.
I separate ideas of how I can improve from feelings if inadequacy.
i simply choose not be dysphoric
that nose is comical
I don't and it's killing me. Everything about me is above average and supposedly I'm ok looking but in my mind I look like one of those ugly bastards from hentai except it's real and everyone hates me. I also imagine that I smell like rotten meat and that bugs are crawling out of my skin and everyone can see them so I'm a monster.
A lot of women have a degradation fetish. Just imagine the next girl that talks to you for what seems like no reason wants to be dominated in bed by picrel.
It'd be fine if it wasn't for the rotten meat and bugs coming out of my skin thing. Like just look at your arm and imagine dozens of maggots popping out and writing around before falling off, I see that and know it's not real but can't turn it off.
Embrace the blessing of Father Nurgle and you'll find a girl to embrace you. Chin up, champ.
Thanks bro I just need to find a woman as crazy and dumb as I am it seems.
I literally refuse to look at my body in any capacity besides quick glances close up at my face to put ointment on pimples and quick glances at at my hair after combing it. I'm 295lbs @6'1 and use to be nearly 490lbs a year ago. That monster is still there in the mirror (yes I know I'm still morbidly obese, just much less so), no matter how much I lose or how well my body composition changes. A bad look at my reflection can send me spiraling, even a fricking quick glance at my shadow at the wrong angle I still see the 500lb monster. I won't be satisfied until I'm sub 15% bodyfat, even then I'll still have to avoid mirrors + shadows. I'm also a 29 year old kissless hugless handholdless dateless virgin who refused sex a couple times because I'm so self conscious about my body and hate it.
It's over.
I don't mean a dick, buy why don't you just eat less and stuff your guts with shitloads of fiber-filled foods with low calories? I'm pretty much a DYEL who has trouble downing enough calories so this is just baffling to me.
I have no issues whatsoever losing weight. I lose 10-12 lbs a week, have been since several months.
Keep it up man. One thing I've heard is if you lose too much weight too quickly, it'll cause you to have excess skin hanging off of you but I have no personal experience in this kind of thing.
Thanks, anon. Yeah - I'm aware of this issue hence I'm doing everything I can to preserve my lean mass through intense progressive strength training + not insane amount of cardio + eating 1g/lb of bodyweight for protein + went from 20-25lbs a month loss to 10-12lbs on purpose to let skin retract. I do have loose skin in my inner thigh area and my upper arms underneath, but honestly it could be worse. I'll probably have more as I get through the 200s.
Sounds like you're over half way to being in decent shape then, congrats man.
Frick yeah, anon. I wish other people who are super giga fat realized the importance of progressive overload strength training with a moderate calorie deficit + adequate protein over just doing excessive cardio + starving them becoming a fricking saggy weak flesh golem after the weight loss.
as a former fatty who feels like he's constantly hungry to lose 1 lb a week, i can weigh in. if i eat tons of high fiber, low calorie foods, that promotes satiation but not satiety. my body isn't fooled. i'll get hungrier later. it's like saying "why don't you drink a ton of water?" well because i don't get any energy from water, it's not as if i can fool my body into thinking it's not in a deficit.
I mean these little "tips" are somewhat helpful, but anyone I've ever met who thinks you can just eat vegetables and not be ravenously hungry later has never been fat
By lifting hard.
>real life is basically all my bimbofication fantasies come true
I love being alive at this particular point in history
should I go for a light plastic surgery
Only if you‘re a woman and only if by light you mean bigger breasts
Nose looks okay in either picture.
But her lips... her lips went from good looking and normal to weird.
Woman on the right I would marry, woman on the left I would tell her to frick off.
this fish lips trends gotta stop, its ruined so many pretty girls faces, such a shame
Shit taste
i just suffer through it
>friends and coworkers say i'm ripped
>have been described as beefy
>look ottermode
>still feel small
>see myself in Walmart security cam
>"wtf my arms look HUGE"
>look in mirror at home
>look small
before lifting I thought dysmorphia was a meme...
I'm actually ottermode (6'1" 185cm 15%BF) and I remember seeing myself in a funny mirror that stretched horizontally and I was standing at just the right spot and saw it and thought "God I wish I looked like that". That was probably the only time I ever felt "dysmorphia" but it was good workout fuel to actually see what I wanted to be.
65kg frick
>BMI 19
You're a twink
You don't even know what that means
>lower BMI than the average 5'6 woman
Yeah twinkle star, I know you're twinkish
I'm male and my BMI is 16.5 lol. cardiobunny though
Post twink boi pucci
I'm ugly ;__; but my chest is skelly
I remind myself that calling it body dysmorphia is cope, and that I actually am fat, and actually do need to lose weight.
the boys at the gun store once told me i was a real lanklet 10 years ago but i look healthy these days
i keep memories like that forever