>30 years old
>virgin
>still live at home in mothers garage
>low IQ
>small penis
>make $25k working the night shift
>$20k in credit card debt
>crippling porn addiction jack off so often it’s been years since I had a normal pearly white thick load it’s mostly clear
Is it over for me? Can I make it? Should I hop on test?
you forgot
>dyel
>fat
>disgustingly hairy
>virgin
You can top me
>4th time in less than a week
You clearly don’t know how to bait, here’s your only (you) find other photos and stop spamming every day, even pear knew how to bait bettwr
Or kys idc
Just install grindr?
Nice sweater you have there.
That debt is the only bad thing you listed really. You should've prostitutemaxxed with those 20k. You could've had hundreds of prostitutes in SEA for 20k. Live like a king for years. This is the most disappointing thing the others are irrelevant , if you were raised with androcentric social circle you'd never reach this depressed state, your community failed you. Perhaps if you can acquire a visa and relocate to a different country you can clear your debt and creditmaxx even more
is this the loser general?
>28 year old virgin
>9k credit card debt
>400k student loan debt
>zero friends or relationships
>have posted on IST ~8 hours a day for 10 years
I would hang myself if I were you. This must be bait, otherwise I don't know why you would keep living
money isn't everything :^)
homie you don't even have friends or a woman. Probably don't even have a job either. You just convert food into shit. Go outside
>Probably don't even have a job either
i'm a doctor haha. why do people hate losers so much? you seem enraged, but i'm not sure why
this made me fricking kek out loud at work, just didn't expect the first reponse to be so blunt. damn
How did you rack up 400k in student debt?
Med school
>LITERALLY a doctor
>im such a loser haha
career and money are meaningless. i would much rather be a poor sheep farmer or something if i had a loving family to come home to each night
Those b***hes are ugly
Those "women" are beautiful and deserve love.
Damn bro, just quit med school and go be a rice farmer. Misery loves company eh?
it was just an example. i would still be alone. i think my chances of finding someone are better as a doctor in modern society
get a pet doomer.
this isnt even living, why subject yourself to this misery?
>29
>NEET
>still live at home
>never had a job
>but 6'3 and handsome so I have women
you win some you lose some. but I need to get my shit together pronto
>28
>10k credit card debt
>no certs or degrees no real skills
>no meaningful experience for resume, 50% retail and then random jobs that don’t relate to each other or anything else at fricking all
>unemployed
>fat
>addicted to caffeine, nicotine, porn
>just broke up with GF because she didn’t respect me or value me (why would she considering the above)
>but am 6’2” and when I’m lean I look like the typical Mediterranean male model literally just have women chase me and put in the word to date but only when lean
I feel like I’m wasted potential. Shitty circumstances in life I suppose, not that anyone but myself is responsible for these things. Can’t seem to get a job.
Realistically if I went on two walks a day, kept diet in order, and landed any job I could be lean in a year and ready to move out. I could literally be 29/30 have a new and better GF and probably even have my own place.
So just go work a shit job(you can get a McDonald's tier job) for 6 months and then start an apprenticeship like eveyoryone else in your situation did. Its's Not rocket science folks
Would love to have you on my podcast.
>fast food
I would shit on someone saying what I’m about to say but even fast food won’t hire me dude. My life is just wake up applications frick off for a bit more applications on repeat all day. Idk what’s going on. Resume is fine.
>apprenticeship
How does McDonald’s turn into an apprenticeship? I’d like to be a sparky but they won’t hire me either. For any role. Helper, apprentice etc.
Look up pre-apprenticeship programs. We have them all over my state. They'll help you gain the skills to get a job. Another option is talking to staffing agencies. They'll look for options for you.
Gain the skills to get into an apprenticeship*
Skill issue. Have had similar circumstances except 6'3 and WASPy. You need to uncover what your actual talent(s) are and develop right now. Stfu about women for a while and attack it, you're never going to find one worth keeping around without some sense of drive (for me it's defeating ZOG ultimately).
Your talents are the only somewhat effortless ways to generate income, find your potential and not suffer in stupidity. I thought about becoming a mercenary unironically or going into acting until I found my talent. No casting couch for me. Don't be afraid of debt for now just make it count. 10k is fricking nothing, money isn't even a real thing anymore lmao
That’s the problem dude I don’t feel like I have anything. Even my only hobby I’m horrible at. When I was on top of things it took everything I had on me just to attain basic things (be healthy, never had a great physique, have a part time job while in classes get mostly good grades, social life) and it burnt me out.
I'm too protestant to fully understand such struggles. But maybe give meditation a shot, leisure of any sort seems to charge me. Hunting, going to the range, rowing or hiking for a while, stuff like that. If it feels like a chore like school and work it's zapping you at least a little.
Getting lean again may be the key for you anon.
What I meant to write, attaining those bare minimum things most naturally have happen took everything out of me. And that was at an age when not much was even expected of me. I go for jobs and I frick up IF I even get an interview. I seem to have lost competency, which could be anxiety clouding my ability to of us normally I suppose, but even in a basic retail job I frick up and have to ask the same questions over and over again.
Idk what the deal is but I don’t seem to have my real skills. I wish I did.
And btw back then when I achieved all that, the driving force was to have the social fulfillment I missed out on in highschool. I got it and then that was it.
I’ll look but I don’t think that exists in my area. It’s either have 5 years of experience for a position meant to be for someone with no experience or know someone OR join the union and get super lucky to get in.
I could possibly go to trade school and if I find the right one it may even set me up with work. But considering what I’ve written in these posts I don’t think it will work out. I genuinely do not believe I can take much more failure man. I fear I will reach a point that I end my life soon if things don’t work out and I’m terrified to continue trying based on how my experience has been with trying. Seriously I don’t see the point. I’m on course to be homeless if I can’t get it together.
No need to be homeless, if worst comes to worst just;
Army
Navy
Air Force
Marines
National guard
Coast guard
Etc. no need to worry about anxiety or any of that shit anymore.
Dude. I’ve considered and contemplated military many times. I don’t think I’m being clear. I don’t even think I could do that. I had a fricking panic attack just watching a boot camp video and that was just navy. Right now I’m so out of shape I wouldn’t even qualify. But I genuinely don’t think I could do well there.
Like seriously, let’s pretend I could go through boot camp and go to A school. I would fail my classes.
I’m a grown man who goes into fight or flight mode out of nowhere, terrified of women despite having been laid a handful of times and had two relationships, so anxious I can’t do basic competencies. How would I join the military? I genuinely feel like my life is a sick joke. Born to struggle without even being able to get to a point that true struggle begins. Born to suffer. I sound like such a b***h right now
You have a diseased, overactive amygdala and the hypothalamus. Try to unfrick it bro. Life like that isn't very good.
Fk I'm similar. Was like this my whole life, made me self-destructive. I stopped, but I'm purposeless rn. How the fk does one get out of this state? Focusing with the prefrontal cortex?
Care to explain how to fix this?
What I would recommend could cause psychosis. You need to be doing something about this though. Have you tried therapy and shit like that?
Neve mind. I'm not going to recommend anything to either of you. You both watch porn and that's your problem. It's why your brain is fricked up, the frontal lobes aren't working like that of an adult male so everything in you is confused and scared. That's what's going on. Unfrick it yourselves by simply avoiding porn.
Think of Sisyphus, pushing the bolder up the hill except written on yours is "I won't touch my dick, I won't look at trannies this time I swear". That's you irl kek
But I've had multiple 2-3 week streaks by now. If you had asked me 2 days ago, I would tell you I had a 3 week abstinence period with no fantasizing, wet dreams, porn or softcore imagery. I assure you I do this a lot. I'm also hornier than usual due to 250mg test a week.
I really don't think it's because of porn, at least, not in my case as my usage is not excessive.
Anxiety damages prefrontal cortex, damaged prefrontal cortex causes anxiety. Stress damages prefrontal cortex. Social anxiety damages prefrontal cortex. Trauma and stress (had plenty when I was younger, and still do now cuz future looks bleak) also are bad for the prefrontal cortex.
Just come out with the psychosis stuff. Do you think OP cares 1 bit as he is already contemplating suicide. Same here.
>Think of Sisyphus, pushing the bolder up the hill except written on yours is "I won't touch my dick, I won't look at trannies this time I swear". That's you irl kek
I hope your not insecure yourself man.
Have you tried psychedelics, as far as like a regular self-help or therapy type of context?
No, I never did. Honestly I wasn't planning on either, but might keep it as plan B or C. Your amygdala stuff makes sense though, I'll go with that first, fix the fight-or-flight issues.
Microdosing may help if nothing else, you really need to dedicate yourself to getting out of this situation though. Also there are clinics and online options for ketamine therapy if you want to do it legal and pay out the ASS.
>you really need to dedicate yourself to getting out of this situation
100%
Were you also in a similar position before? How was the experience for you, and how long did recovery take?
I'm planning on doing some CO2 breathwork, mindfulness, mind-body work and just basic stuff like exercise and diet. Most of my attention will go to the mind-body stuff. If you have any tips besides the ones you gave I'd appreciate it.
>Were you also in a similar position before? How was the experience for you, and how long did recovery take
Yeah, it took nearly two years to get the hang of it. Microdosing helped me but holy frick 2-3 big trips and there was no going back for me to being as pathetic as I was. I understood in those.moments Koryos, Samurai and all such groups and their disgust for weakness in mankind. I think that's why psychedelics help so many, you see how pathetic and gay fear is. Ancient Greeks, Romans, Vikings all did stuff like this with psychedelics.
You've basically got to accept that death is 100% inevitable (helps me deal with anxiety at least). With that you can teach yourself how to relax and find calm. Chances are your sleep is pretty shit if you're that anxious. Sleep is like your one place to heal yourself at all and leave most struggle behind for a time. You will only get physically better with good sleep.
No one is going to make space or give you time to rest, no ome gives a frick now that you're older. The more successful and attractive you are in life, the more people want a piece of you. You've 100% got to conquer a space and make time, say no to others or just your own self-sabotage and insecurity.
If you don't make rules for yourself, someone else will. There are no exceptions to this. That's why being a wagecuck makes people feel miserable, no agency. Sometimes you have to work for someone else to get by or get a foot in the door to a better life. But this shouldn't be the end goal.
Listen to your body. Make time and ditch every single distraction like the AIDS it is anon. When you start to feel more rested, use your mind's eye, train it like a muscle. The rest should follow. I didn't need any one else's programs or mindfulness once I "got" it. I think you certainly can do it without drugs, psychedelics just for me helped open the door.
Capped.
>32
>kissless virgin with no friends
>don't even own or able to drive a car (got license 6 years ago and haven't driven since)
>still pay rent to live with mommy and daddy in extremely high cost of living area and im too autistic to leave
>have a pathetic worthless job that makes me want to commit suicide when i contemplate how ive wasted my life here
>have nonexistent self confidence and im terrified of social situations which includes even thinking about friends, dating, or job interviews
>have some money but it doesnt matter one bit because theres literally nothing i want from life except getting the courage to end my life before my parents die so they can live some years without my pathetic existence burdening them
im literally the biggest fricking loser here
>have a pathetic worthless job that makes me want to commit suicide when i contemplate how ive wasted my life here
What's the job?
a useless do-nothing office type job. i commute in, dont do jack shit all day, bored out of my skull, dont make much money. i am ashamed and humiliated being here but the thought of doing a job interview and revealing my lack of skills terrifies me
zero interest whatsoever in traveling anywhere. if i traveled somewhere i would likely just sit in my room all day.
go to thailand bro
Wow that's really horrible tbh
i know its horrible, its horrendous, its pathetic. should be every reason to want to crawl out of rock bottom and fix my life. instead all i think about all day every day is what a loser i am, how ive wasted my life how i have no memories, no purpose, and have no motivation to do anything.
Why do you think that is? Similar situation. If after all these years you didn't come up with a solution it might truly be over for us. I won't give up as I'm 22, but the mindset of self-pity into motivation would be a cure? Or maybe a side-effect of the cure? Something has to be wrong about us, but what? Learned helplessness?
Americans can get working holiday visas to like NZ or singapore bro. Once you're outside of America and forced to grow up outside of the roost you'll change.
Youre only khv because you live with your parents. Think about the burden you are anon, they haven't been able to bang frequently in years.
I'm about to let myself become this hairy. I have straight, but thick hair, even when I shave with only a razor, sometimes it still gets stuck, creating those pimples, and it grows so fast anyways is a pain to keep it up.
>26
>klinefelters / xxy mosaic
>color blind
>make 29k a year in aus
>skinny with wide hips and fat ass
>breedable phenotype
>6'1 not even that tall for a kliny
>gyno
>drive a 95 accord
>bullied at 27 years old
bye
>26
>bullied at 27 years old
Wut? Lay off the tinnies mate
Also you sound a lot like me
>6foot
>wide hips
>fat goes to arse and thighs
>colourblind
Just focus on upper body lifts more. Try to grow lats and shoulders to help offset the wide hips.
That's what I did and now my back is my most complemented area and I dont look as bottom heavy now
go trans/sissy I'd literally bend you over rn
> turned 29 on Wednesday
> 5'4, 150lbs
> was bullied for most of my life
> make 50,000 cuckbucks per year
> don't have a car
> no friends anymore. Most have moved on ahead in life. Talk occasionally on Faceboomer
> live in parents downstairs apartment for 700 per month.
> father and mother stopped asking me about girlfriends after age 22
> not really any redeeming qualities. Not good looking, not a particularly good physique, average sized dick. Best thing I could think of would be I'm good at saving money and investing
> never had gf
> asked out one girl in high school and was rejected and viewed as a creep by all the girls since then
> not a single girl I've ever been interested in my entire life has reciprocated interest. The handful of times I've gotten to know them and asked them out, immediately a look of pity and sadness comes over their face as if they're looking at a sad kitten or puppy
> only time I've had sex is when I paid for it from hookers. Don't even get to really enjoy their sexy model-tier bodies because of my lack of experience.
>spent 4000 on hookers from age 24 to 26. My body count is 7
> living space consists of fridge, futon bed, power rack with weight set, TV with GameCube, computer, and one coffee table
> don't look forward to anything anymore.
> if my parents weren't around, I'm pretty sure I'd just kms
When you're 14, 15, and 16, it never really occurs to you that life can just turn out like this. Some people by default get into a positive feedback loop leading to confidence and success. Others get into a negative feedback loop by default. I'm one of those people. It's just the way it is.
this is literally me except i'm 5'8 , same weight etc, you never grow up thinking you'll be the loser of your own story.. brutal
whens the next full moon werewolf bro?
KEK op btfo
I wish living with your parents wasn't so shameful in burgerland. I don't have any connections because I feel like a social pariah living at home at 25.
i can barely even function as a person despite being in my early 30s. i look back on my life with nothing but shame, regret, and abject humiliation. i know no one. i do nothing of any value or purpose. im incapable of providing value in any aspect of life to anyone. i have no goals, no aspirations, or motivation. i cant focus on a single task. im a complete basket case, and if god existed, he would kill me in my sleep like ive prayed for every night for the past decade.
I don't believe these are real people. Has to be some kind of discord raid
It motivates me. Not because I don't want to end up like them, but it makes me feel like less of a loner and more like someone that got fricked by life circumstances. Can you make it while having a bad hand? Yes. But why normalize it? Why do the card-dealers never get punished? Why does nobody show understanding?
These are very real societal problems. It simply shouldn't be this hard to exist, and our issues are mainly psychological as well. Food is not scarce in any first world country. But if the future looks bright to you... I just hope Russia or China starts fricking with the west all-out so that it can all go down.
>32
>Bald
>single
>friends all married with kids
>cant hang out with them much now
>still live at home with patents
>5 inch dick
>mental illness
>social anxiety
But you have to take the bad with the good fellas. Always look at the positives in your life
>2 cars
>500k in savings
>electrical engineering degree
>140k job
>not a virgin
>6 foot
>fit (by normie standard)
Keep working on yourselves boys. Each small step in a positive direction is a an achievement
all your salary, savings and cars will not make you happy,
Likewise trying to demoralise me and belittle my achievements will not make you happy
Barely scrapped through uni while overcoming drug addiction and lucked out in my last job while struggling with suicidal thoughts
We all have our demons. Gotta focus on the positives, eat well, excercise and have goals. GL
>muh "social anxiety" and "mental illness"
sure you do anon. i guess that mental illness really fricked up your brain, or wait you still were very smart, got a hard degree, a great job, and rich. yeah, so mentally ill.
>23
>virgin
>170k / year
>6'
Is it over for me bros?
With all that money you can just join clubs and make friends. Also travel. Also hookers. Your life is easy mode, far from over
>clubs
That's a good call, I don't go outside other than the gym and I hate bars
>hookers
Not yet, I thought about it but I want "real" sex first
Shave you fricking Black person.
Also how are you only earning $25k on night shifts? Are you only doing PT or something? Night shifts get paid more than the day equivalent, are you literally doing nothing?
Night shifts are great because you can easily do other things since you rarely get direct supervision. Learn to do a side hustle/etc. You are literally just gay.
Might as well post stats if everyone else is.
>23
>5'7 manlet
>Not bald
>Not a virgin
>Single
>Living in own flat in city
>5 fig crypto portfolio (looking up bros), about 10k in savings
>Meme job (pays shit, but work is comfy)
>230 bench, bit fat after 4 months no IST, but getting back there. Literally did 5 hours of cardio yesterday (3 hours dancing then 2 hours cycling)
Recently got looking to get back into dating again. You know what bros? Seeing /loser/ general threads like this make me feel a little bit better, but I still miss her. I checked, and she hasn't blocked me still. I can't stop thinking about her even after almost a year. What do I do?
>Also mfw when I met a male version of her yesterday. Should I just top him?
Could be worse. I drive a ford Shelby and I'm still a virgin
>33yo virgin
>5'10"
>chronic hemiparesis, problems with knee and spine on right side of body
>Live in my bedroom in my parents house
>$60k in student debt
>$80k a year job as a bottom rung codemonkey
>$27 in bank account
>$140k of crypto (wtf am I doing)
What am I supposed to be doing. I really don't get it, I'm sort of trying to do things that other people do but nothing is clicking.
Where are you making 80k and how qualified did you have to be?
Stay in India bro.
>make $25k working the night shift
isnt this like middle class in usa?
>only 180cm as a Kliny
>97IQ brainlet. Not dumb enough to apply for disability but filtered hard by easy tasks
>severe gyno
>hips wider than a Texan pawg
>awful posture
>autistic & double digit IQ but not severe enough to get neetbux
>no degree, or diploma
>never been to a formal event in my life aside from funerals
>only one not to get invited to 10 year HS reunion. Even the “reformed” pedo and felon got one kek
>mum stopped asking about my goals at 23. That was years ago
>never had more than 3k in my bank account ever
>socially maladjusted bc of said handicaps
>25 yo
>Lost job at pandemic
>Rent a small apartment
>Landlord is an homossexual
>Landlord is 52 or 53, can't remember now
>Told him I was in financial problems when money was about to ran out and I would soon be unable to pay rent
>Did it, he told me he could hold for one more month
>Same day, at night he WhatsApp me and tell me we can arrange something, explicit tells me if I frick him like a woman I would not need to pay rent
> Don't respond him that night
> Desperation kicks in
> Answer him I like woman and I appreciate the one more month he gave me
> He sends me a pic of him dressed as a woman with a shaved butthole
> Said Frick it, pop tadalafil I had in hand
> Never had an stronger organs fricking that ass
> Don't pay rent anymore
> He gives me a monthly amount of money
> Have sex almost every night
what i need is someone to hold my hand through everything. i know how pathetic it is, but given that ive reached my 30s with nothing to show for my life and basically living like a neet outside of my terrible job, its completely obvious that im incapable of doing anything in my life on my own. im basically like a mentally disabled person.
The problem is that at your age if you don't have looks nobody is going to even approach you man. Maybe it's time to humble yourself to God?
It's over for you then. Society is not at a point yet where there are programs that can resocialize an autist from 0. Sorry bud
>no social experiences in childhood
>no social experiences in college
>no social experiences in my 20s
>no social expereinces so far a few years into my 30s
>look back and basically don't even remember anything about my life, everything is just a blur
>no accomplishments or milestones to look back on
>lie awake at night pondering how i wasted my entire life, regularly cry, yell out, slam my head against the pillow in despair
>there's nothing i want to achieve like a family, home, top career, retirement, traveling, nothing, theres nothing i want to do and nothing i want from life
The problem is not that you didn't socialize, the problem is why you didn't do that. If it doesn't come naturally, why force it? Have fake ass convo's with fake ass people just to fit in. Did you ever see normie groups and normie trends? Socialize within hobbies, much healthier. Martial arts, regular club, gym etc. More purposeful, not as empty. Then host a couple events, a bbq or going together on a trip idk. If you can 2 people with you then you've got a social group.
PS: I'm a shutin myself.