Been there, done that.
At first I hated her more than I hated anybody in the world.
By the end I loved her, because she became a pure being.
After that I had to spend a few more years taking care of an old dog.
If you don't learn your lessons, something similar will appear in you future, over and over again, until you learn it.
>If you don't learn your lessons, something similar will appear in you future, over and over again, until you learn it.
can you elaborate on what you meant by this. I can grasp the concept but I want to read your thoughts.
Earlier today I had this thought about how I admire children for their purity. They are free of social convention and when dealing with them they are easily impressionable and so you have to watch yourself more than usual. Purity is to be protected and its somewhat rare.
I took care of my dad for about a month before he died. When I look back at it I hate myself for it cause sometimes I was just fed up with it. He refused to go to the hospital or get medical help, until the end, and at the time I didn't know why. He was so weak, could barely talk, was always in pain and could barely eat. He loved it when it was time to eat cause I would sit with him while he watched TV and eat. I regret how annoyed I was with this at most times and wish I could go back and be more greatful knowing it was my final moments with him. Don't waste these precious moments anon, you'll regret it one day if you do.
When I thought about my grandma dying I started crying 🙁
Feels so unreal to think about such otherwordly things. That something like that might happen. I planned once to become a scientist and try end aging before my grandma would get old enough but now that Im getting older I dont know.
Aren't almost all robots in their 20s and 30s? What kind of shit genetics do you guys have to be taking care of "aging parents" already? My mom's parents didn't begin requiring care until she was 56. My dad's mom died when he was 65 and his father when he was 70 and they took care of themselves until having sudden deaths.
I'm 27. My mom is 49. She has diabetes, onset dementia, myocarditis, arthritis, and really bad lower back pain. Shit genetics, probably. Me and my sibling are diagnosed with mental disorders and unmedicated, I had asthma as a kid but grew out of it. However my mom got three vaccines and rapidly aged, all her hair is grey and she has craters in her face. she can barely walk up or down the stairs, no one else is around to support her so I go to work, do the chores and pay the bills till the vaxx claims her. I never took one and I'm fine, I warned her plenty of times but she didn't listen.
>that litany of health issues both present and hereditary >mother on the verge of death while less than twice your age
bro forget the vax you've got way bigger things to worry about lmao
I'm not actively suicidal if that's what you're getting at, I just don't care. not in an emo way it just doesn't cross my mind. reading it, sounds like self-deprecation but text on a screen isn't very good for conveying emotions lmao.
I'm 27
My parents had me late-ish and are almost 70 now (67 & 66)
They're both in good health and show no signs of needing my help for the foreseeable future but anything could happen
I feel like they could very easily be relying on me at their age if they took worse care of themselves
I took care of my dad for about a month before he died. When I look back at it I hate myself for it cause sometimes I was just fed up with it. He refused to go to the hospital or get medical help, until the end, and at the time I didn't know why. He was so weak, could barely talk, was always in pain and could barely eat. He loved it when it was time to eat cause I would sit with him while he watched TV and eat. I regret how annoyed I was with this at most times and wish I could go back and be more greatful knowing it was my final moments with him. Don't waste these precious moments anon, you'll regret it one day if you do.
I love you dad.
here
My dad died last year, so I was only 32. My dad had COPD, asthma, emphysema and a slew of other lung related issues from a life time of smoking and working shit jobs. Turns out all that turned into cancer just littering his lungs and that was why he died. He knew about it and never told me, I didn't find out about the cancer in his lungs until he went to the hospital and I had to rush down to the ICU to see him.
I'm 27. My mom is 49. She has diabetes, onset dementia, myocarditis, arthritis, and really bad lower back pain. Shit genetics, probably. Me and my sibling are diagnosed with mental disorders and unmedicated, I had asthma as a kid but grew out of it. However my mom got three vaccines and rapidly aged, all her hair is grey and she has craters in her face. she can barely walk up or down the stairs, no one else is around to support her so I go to work, do the chores and pay the bills till the vaxx claims her. I never took one and I'm fine, I warned her plenty of times but she didn't listen.
sounds like he probably isn't that close to his mom, but you sound like you might be affected more.
God. I'm sorry. I mean it in the best way possible when I say that suicide is always an option. Losing my parents would be so painful that I'd kill myself.
I'd be lying if I said I don't think about it at times. But I can't do that to my mother, little sister and nephews. I love them to much to hurt them like that.
you're right I don't really love her that much. I see taking care of her as a familial duty.
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sorry anon. sounds like he was a G
>sounds like he was a G
He was the greatest man I ever knew.
Okay? And? You do realize that most people don't require caregiving until somewhere in their 80s, right? Your dad isn't that old and your mom sure as hell isn't.
my mom and dad left my life when i was like 8 years old. my mom left to be a poorgay in USA instead of doing her job and raising her kid. we already had a pension so there was literally no reason for her to do that. now she has the audacity to not only pretend to be my mom but also insist that i dont shove her in a retirement home. i have no idea how one person can be so moronic. frick caring for parents im fricking off as soon as I find the opportunity to be independent in this shitty economy
no, my mother is aging well cause she is very healthy as frick and i will always love her, as a matter of fact, she takes better care of me than i take care of her
i been left for death by society, and i have absolutely nobody but my mother
so yeah, just as much she take good care of me, i will forever take good care of her
and frick every anon who doesn't respect this
Been there, done that.
At first I hated her more than I hated anybody in the world.
By the end I loved her, because she became a pure being.
After that I had to spend a few more years taking care of an old dog.
If you don't learn your lessons, something similar will appear in you future, over and over again, until you learn it.
>If you don't learn your lessons, something similar will appear in you future, over and over again, until you learn it.
can you elaborate on what you meant by this. I can grasp the concept but I want to read your thoughts.
he probably meant his dog bro
looking at the purity comment I have no idea what the frick he's talking about I glossed that one over.
anon what the hell
Earlier today I had this thought about how I admire children for their purity. They are free of social convention and when dealing with them they are easily impressionable and so you have to watch yourself more than usual. Purity is to be protected and its somewhat rare.
>she became a pure being.
What in the frick does this mean.?
>By the end I loved her, because she became a pure being.
sounds like something a serial killer would say.
I took care of my dad for about a month before he died. When I look back at it I hate myself for it cause sometimes I was just fed up with it. He refused to go to the hospital or get medical help, until the end, and at the time I didn't know why. He was so weak, could barely talk, was always in pain and could barely eat. He loved it when it was time to eat cause I would sit with him while he watched TV and eat. I regret how annoyed I was with this at most times and wish I could go back and be more greatful knowing it was my final moments with him. Don't waste these precious moments anon, you'll regret it one day if you do.
I love you dad.
When I thought about my grandma dying I started crying 🙁
Feels so unreal to think about such otherwordly things. That something like that might happen. I planned once to become a scientist and try end aging before my grandma would get old enough but now that Im getting older I dont know.
i haven't but i wouldn't be really bothered by it, they are both great parents so i would feel happy to help them in some way
Aren't almost all robots in their 20s and 30s? What kind of shit genetics do you guys have to be taking care of "aging parents" already? My mom's parents didn't begin requiring care until she was 56. My dad's mom died when he was 65 and his father when he was 70 and they took care of themselves until having sudden deaths.
I'm 27. My mom is 49. She has diabetes, onset dementia, myocarditis, arthritis, and really bad lower back pain. Shit genetics, probably. Me and my sibling are diagnosed with mental disorders and unmedicated, I had asthma as a kid but grew out of it. However my mom got three vaccines and rapidly aged, all her hair is grey and she has craters in her face. she can barely walk up or down the stairs, no one else is around to support her so I go to work, do the chores and pay the bills till the vaxx claims her. I never took one and I'm fine, I warned her plenty of times but she didn't listen.
>that litany of health issues both present and hereditary
>mother on the verge of death while less than twice your age
bro forget the vax you've got way bigger things to worry about lmao
>bro forget the vax you've got way bigger things to worry about lmao
what's up. I don't really care if I die if that's what you're getting at.
also dad died from cancer when I was 17. but he dipped, smoked hookah and I don't.
Have more self respect, ffs
I'm not actively suicidal if that's what you're getting at, I just don't care. not in an emo way it just doesn't cross my mind. reading it, sounds like self-deprecation but text on a screen isn't very good for conveying emotions lmao.
I'm 27
My parents had me late-ish and are almost 70 now (67 & 66)
They're both in good health and show no signs of needing my help for the foreseeable future but anything could happen
I feel like they could very easily be relying on me at their age if they took worse care of themselves
here
My dad died last year, so I was only 32. My dad had COPD, asthma, emphysema and a slew of other lung related issues from a life time of smoking and working shit jobs. Turns out all that turned into cancer just littering his lungs and that was why he died. He knew about it and never told me, I didn't find out about the cancer in his lungs until he went to the hospital and I had to rush down to the ICU to see him.
I'm sorry. How are you feeling now?
sounds like he probably isn't that close to his mom, but you sound like you might be affected more.
Honestly? I'm a mess, mentally and emotionally. I miss that man more than I can say. He was my best friend, I lived with him all my life.
God. I'm sorry. I mean it in the best way possible when I say that suicide is always an option. Losing my parents would be so painful that I'd kill myself.
I'd be lying if I said I don't think about it at times. But I can't do that to my mother, little sister and nephews. I love them to much to hurt them like that.
>sounds like he was a G
He was the greatest man I ever knew.
you're right I don't really love her that much. I see taking care of her as a familial duty.
sorry anon. sounds like he was a G
uuhh, bro, I am 30 and my mom is 64 and my father is 72
Okay? And? You do realize that most people don't require caregiving until somewhere in their 80s, right? Your dad isn't that old and your mom sure as hell isn't.
my mom and dad left my life when i was like 8 years old. my mom left to be a poorgay in USA instead of doing her job and raising her kid. we already had a pension so there was literally no reason for her to do that. now she has the audacity to not only pretend to be my mom but also insist that i dont shove her in a retirement home. i have no idea how one person can be so moronic. frick caring for parents im fricking off as soon as I find the opportunity to be independent in this shitty economy
no, my mother is aging well cause she is very healthy as frick and i will always love her, as a matter of fact, she takes better care of me than i take care of her
i been left for death by society, and i have absolutely nobody but my mother
so yeah, just as much she take good care of me, i will forever take good care of her
and frick every anon who doesn't respect this