>Get fricked in the ass >Get shit on his dick >Don't care
I'm not the one with the poopywiener, that's his problem not mine, I'm not gonna deal with it. It really is that simple
The problems of life aren't all problems. It's people defining moments that are part of and make life life, as problems.
Best example is my autist moron friend. Everyday is a problem for him. Cooking, showering, living. Literally every little moment of life that should and need to be accepted as part of life is defined as a problems and "ruins" his day and time. So he ends up doing nothing at all instead and smokes himself high. GG no re
>dude who preached self determination >stoicism >homosexuals on fit equate this with not giving a frick
Weak homosexuals from weak homosexuals off weak homosexuals
This is why everything is ruined by plebs
If the only thing you've got going in your life is weight lifting you need to be competing. Otherwise you're just a NEET loser, same as the rest, yeah.
reminds me of my parents >parents make trust for each kid, enough so they don't have to worry about money >actually don't worry about money >mfw parents throw a tantrum for years
i genuinely don't understand them
well they've given up anyway, now they ask for grandchildren every time I see them
always something that makes them angry and unhappy, I suspect they don't actually want to be happy
the point is, I am happy
there are not many things I'd want to change in my life
but my parents have a very different... perspective
my dad got more quiet recently though
since he started using my home gym (we live 5 min by foot from each other)
maybe they stop complaining in a few years, who knows
To be fair if he has a trust he has money and it's already taxed and paid into the system do he isn't s burden on society or anyone unless he becomes an active criminal
Hating on a dude who lucked out into a wealthy family with parents that set him up isn't making your life any better the point is that he isn't causing sny harm by living his life that way
my point was that parents usually collect those trust funds to help the child start his own independent life, not to purely squander it with nothing in return
imagine if we all did that >collect money for the child >the child just rides on that money, no effort to contribute to society whatsoever >next generation after the child: ???
what do you think happens to our society then?
I know it's cool to be a gym neet here but be for real rn
10 months ago
Anonymous
>contribute to society
go frick yourself
10 months ago
Anonymous
my bad top G
you should drop out of society because israelites or something and because you've never felt the touch of a woman
10 months ago
Anonymous
the holocaust never happened but I wish it happened 3 times in a row
10 months ago
Anonymous
>you are either a doormat wagecuck or a chud loser
lmao, peak cognitive dissonance. Do it for yourself and the ones you love, how about that, not because of some rich c**t or because you are a 90iq paper chaser.
10 months ago
Anonymous
you can be a non-doormat wagecuck and still contribute to society
10 months ago
Anonymous
Why would I want to contribute to society, if people try to shit on me actively?
10 months ago
Anonymous
can't really shitpost all day on IST when there's no one to fix the roads, transport your food, keep the water flowing and electricity running can you?
10 months ago
Anonymous
You already pay for those, you stupid c**t, as if paying more will make it better, plus you can live without electricity or running water, but the shitty government made it illegal in some places to collect rain water and purify it.
10 months ago
Anonymous
I don't pay for it my mom does
I'm a neet who only goes to the gym because it's so based
frick israelites and women
10 months ago
Anonymous
>Implying that the few people that elect to drop out of society are enough to cause massive infrastructure damage from not paying taxes
You are fricking moronic, “contributing” to society is a spook. The world won’t collapse on itself from a handful of NEETs
10 months ago
Anonymous
Not him but apparently its a big issue
They're running out of truckers and sewer cleaners and stuff because men are just dropping out, and it's not even just the autists anymore.
10 months ago
Anonymous
Black person the point of a trust is to retain control of your money. If the parents gave a frick they could have conditioned distribution of trust assets on any number of things. Clearly the priority was to ensure that anon was taken care of financially. Who fricking cares anyway, the money is earned and now anon is spending it. Good for him.
10 months ago
Anonymous
You have the mentality of a woman anon
10 months ago
Anonymous
You are a child who doesn't know anything about financial instruments.
10 months ago
Anonymous
So a hard working person?
10 months ago
Anonymous
This is the mentality of my Great Grandpa who stole my Grandmothers inheritance and rented a massive mansion with it and blew it all before he died, driving the family into poverty with him. This mentality is the most boomerish thing imaginable. At least make enough to grow the wealth, which is simple once you have enough to live off of. Otherwise you’re just leeching off your inheritance and stealing from your descendants. Inherited wealth isn’t your beer and coke fund, it’s a responsibility handed down that isn’t for you, it is for your children. Families continue this chain of inheritance living easy fulfilling lives allowed to do whatever career they want until one homosexual loser comes along and blows it all because he felt like “enjoying the money that was already earned” and I’m supposed to just feel good for him? When enough families embrace this moronic self-centered greedy mindset on a large scale, the elites of society become degenerate and the society drifts slowly towards collapse, see the boomers for an example of what happens when these types of attitudes are taught to people given money.
Exactly. Its my life goal to set my kid up so he never has to work. I've already wasted my life working. No reason he should too. It will be one thing I did good.
how am I a burden on society??
i don't get any social security or anything, I live in my own house, pay taxes etc.
and I'm not a NEET
they are angry because I studied for over 8years because I had fun and did a second degree
they are angry because now I have a permanent part time job as researcher in a University
the are angry because I'm content with my life and don't want much more
I have 4 older siblings and they all have impressive careers - so I get compared and the only thing I have the others don't is a PhD (beside from more free time)
i use the money to do what I like most in life: research (in my field), body building and gardening
very important details arose here
your original post painted an entirely different image of you
so taking this into account what I wrote earlier indeed does not apply
theoretical computer science
mostly formal languages a bit Compiler construction for the practical part
studied comp sci and philosophy
but I haven't published much yet (besides for my PhD)
I only work 25h/week and give 2 lectures, so I need a bit longer
I'm currently at GT for my masters in CS, and want to get my PhD at some point to teach part time and hopefully fill the rest of my time doing other stuff I like. Do you teach on campus? What's the best way to get from where I am to teaching (outside of pursuing my PhD of course)?
You went from seeming like a 20s something stoner trust fund baby to simply being the academic one of the wealthy family. Based. You’re doing what I would do if I could live off of a trust. Instead it’s law for me.
They spent their life bouncing from issue to issue, and seeing someone who still has their youth not fall for the same traps they did enrages them. Tell them if they wanted you to be balding at 30 and grinding for shit pay they should've taken more holidays and not paid into a trust for you.
My mom died, my dad lives by himself, I have 3 sisters in their 30s who never had a boyfriend and will likely never have kids, I'm the only one who's even had a relationship, and he still doesn't give a frick about having grandchildren. I literally try to use it against him, like "be nice to me or you won't get grandchildren", and he doesn't care at all. And he's the biggest most pathetic fricking narcissist on the planet, and still doesn't give a frick about his bloodline. All he cares about is money. My family is completely moronic.
I can't imagine my mom ever saying those things to me. I can't imagine how parents could actually hate their own children like that. Feels bad for anon
there is a significant group of parents who hate their children, they only had kids due to peer pressure and fear of loneliness. i wouldn't say it's the majority but it's a lot
you do if its a hard truth they need to hear.
You do if youre calling them a loser so they stop being one. I'd rather be called a loser everyday by family if I am one than my family pulling me down at any of my successes and gently telling me that im fine the way I am while im miserable.
>I knew a woman who pressured her 12 year old son to smoke meth with her so he'd stop playing sports and being successful.
Did you at least tell the police or kill her?
He died at 20 by crashing a stolen car into a tree. Before she gave him meth he was 12, 6'1 180lbs of lean muscle and was often mistaken for a 19-20 year old. Excelled at any sport he played.
The mother has done time for drugs over and over again. She took 0 responsibility for his decline and death. She just got out and had a train run on her at a motel for weeks. God will take care of her when she dies.
She was impregnated by her dad's meth dealer at 13.
10 months ago
Anonymous
Frick bro nothing makes me more sad than kids with crazy athletic/academic potential who blow it to drugs. Maybe because I never had that potential and I spent the first 20 years of my life coping with getting mogged in every sport I played
10 months ago
Anonymous
I was decently close with him and was watching his sport potential go through the roof.
His mom got out of prison so he moved back in with her after living with great grandma.
One night he came to me (he was already smoking cigarettes and weed) and said "man meth is awesome, you can smoke weed all night and never get tirer" and I flipped out. He was a mama's boy so nothing I said mattered compared to her. Sad to watch. Cried when I heard he died despite not talking to him in years.
My dad sperged out, banged his head on the door and suicide-baited me one day I was late to school (by twenty fricking minutes, oh no how terrible).
To this day I regret not rushing him and beating the shit out of him for it. He apologised a year later (only at my prompting) and he clearly meant it, but no fricking way am I ever gonna forgive him for it. I'm never forgetting it. Never.
For some reason boomer parents really hate their kids. I think its because their GI generation parents forced them to get married and have kids, so they just married someone they didn't love and had children that they didn't love.
>children
Hes 30 and still living at home if that was my kid Id have thrown his ass out at 25. At some point you need to be responsible for your own life, shit I'd even help with some bills while he gets situated but you cant live at mommy and daddy's house forever. Its pathetic
How have we come to the conclusion that you need to frick off out of your parents place right when you're 18? OP's pic is definitely a different case, but you can still contribute to the family and society living at home until 30. It isn't the past anymore, you may not be able to land a good and stable job that will buy you an own place right away. Living at parents place really doesn't have to mean that you're an unforgivable NEET with no future prospects, I went back to my parents place at 30 for a few months because I moved back to my home town and needed time to get a new place.
>at 18
I agree that boomer mindset is moronic. I said at 25, and thats only if he has no job and no ambition. If youre working and able to save more money (and contribute a little bit to expenses as well) then thats OK. My cousin for example worked as an accountant while living at home and moved out around 30 and was able to buy a house outright with all the money he had saved up. I want to set them up for the best financial future. But if they are a fricking NEET at 25 they gotta go. I cant condone that lifestyle
parents can easily hate their children, but it doesnt mean that they also don't love them as well. Recipe is pretty simple actually to hate your kids >kid does something annoying >you dont do anything about it because youre tired/lazy or you love the kid >kid grows up to be scumbag if his friends never punish him for being a dickhead
But what OPs picture shows isnt hate but frustration. OP is a NEET, his mom doesnt want him to be a NEET but is too much of a pussy to give him a dilemma to either get a job or get kicked out of the house.
Yeah but what if I'm happy with not many experiences? I just want to come home, rip on some Black folk and sleep. I'm glad you had a good time but I had a good boring time.
Funny post, makes me think of an anti weed commercial called pete's couch. No one ever got hurt on pete's couch, they just got stoned and stayed safe. Worst anti weed commercial idea ever.
Hey you do you I wouldn't be happy living that way but some people are I understand my lifestyle isn't for everyone but a lot of people resign themselves to a boring life just because they don't realize there are achievable alternatives
If that's actually the only thing you are doing with 30, yes, that's bad. If you were at least gambling your money on the stock market besides lifting, you could say you are doing something.
props to the mom for being proud of breeding 3 homies unto the world, b***h got my southern blood flowing, hot damn i wanna breed some b***h but i wish she loved me for how i look not who i am because i am a piece of shit on the inside ngl
>i am better than you because i worked in disgusting shit peddling petty crimes
you homies are worse than onlyfans prostitutes, i mean i've peddled some illegal shit myself but i am not exactly proud of it nor do i consider it anything other than youthful moronation
Literally 2 to typos in that post "me>my" and "I I>I" stay mad grammarhomosexual
my point was that parents usually collect those trust funds to help the child start his own independent life, not to purely squander it with nothing in return
imagine if we all did that >collect money for the child >the child just rides on that money, no effort to contribute to society whatsoever >next generation after the child: ???
what do you think happens to our society then?
I know it's cool to be a gym neet here but be for real rn
If we're talking about for real then you have to acknowledge that less than 1% of households are even capable of setting up a child with a trust so your societal collapse theory is negated by the inherent necessities for the situation to occur
Most IST users are capable of producing readable posts.
The post anon was complaining about is the sort of moronic rambling I'd expect from a Black person.
>went into desert 3rd world shithole >sold drugs in large american city >enlisted in army >went in Europe twice >moved to Poland of all places
So basically you spent 99% of your life in shitty places and your experience amounts to "I've done a lot of unpleasant things". Is this supposed to be something anyone should be envious of? Lmao at least brag ot something worthwhile
Naming problems, not solutions. What do you op to say? >Okay mommy I'll go out and buy a team of 20 lawyers >You're right 30 years old is the perfect time to start selling drugs.
Op is happy with his life even if he is adrift. Being bitter, calling him a child because
hes not working a soulless low wage entry level worthless job (which is likely his options) just for the sake of it is about the same level of copium as when single mothers won't call men a real man for not looking after their kid. If he doesn't want to contribute to society its his business. His family's comfortable and will leave him some money and can currently support him. When they can't then it's his problem, it's currently not a problem so why do you or those boomer homosexuals give a frick? If you dont like the options he's chosen in life shut the frick up, it's none of your concern
Firstly low level entry jobs are only his options bc he hasn't done anything in 30 yrs of living secondly if he was happy with his choices when wouldn't have made this thread to discuss whether or not people are losers. If his family was comfortable with him they wouldn't be harassing him to stop being a loser
If he was living in his own house doing frickall, it’d be okay - but he’s bleeding his family dry doing frickall and asking his mom for money when it’s time to pay for the gym while pushing 30.
You have to stand on your ten toes at some point.
OP isn’t a man. If you live with mommy at any age you aren’t a man.
If the simple fact that you shouldn’t be fricking thirty and still at home rustles you then you need to get off the internet and surround yourself with people who aren’t absolute losers of society
>insurance salesman giving life advice
man I could make a long list of things I'd rather end up doing than selling insurances and fricking killing myself would be at the top.
I mean, please, hide your shame. This is the internet. You don't have to admit to this disaster of a job. You could claim you're a crack prostitute or anything with an inkling of self respect.
Weird how none of the anons itt judging harshly have given a shred info about their own situations what do you do for a living? Does it let you travel the world as much as you want? Do you answer to no one but yourself? It's not glamorous but it's far better than most jobs and earns me well above average income. Please tell me about your life and job certainly you do something worthy of our respect
I’m a software developer, it’s not glamorous but I get to WFH. You are a scammer that steals money from Boomers with your life insurance bs. I will never respect you for picking a career like that.
If you think life insurance is a scam you don't understand what it is at all aside from living benefits like income Incase of disability, ability to borrow from your accumulated value rather than taking a loan with interest, and being able to reduce debt and protect a mortgage the death benefits ensure a person's family has a way of living when the breadwinner passes on there's nothing scammy about life insurance
>over 30 >no gf or social life >No education >Neet most of my adult age >Currently living abroad working a back breaking seasonal job otherwise would still be living at home >Barely 10k saved
Yep I think I qualify.
I'm 28.
I've lead thru hikes around the west coast for 5 years. I was an art teacher for 3. I spent 3 years making sculptures and have my work in Zuckercucks office, Microsoft HQ, a few airports, embassies, etc.
I used the money I made to buy a 30 acre farm. Moved my mom and grandma onto the property to take care of them as they age. My mom always dreamed of having a farm, so I got it for her.
Built myself a small home on the other side of the property to have privacy still.
Debt free with 6 figures in my savings. Get along with my family.
Now I just work an easy mode part time wagie job. I raise animals and grow my own food. Have a shooting range on my property.
Job gives me some forced socialization which is healthy for a natural loner like myself.
Can't find a woman to marry and have a family with, so I guess in that regard I am a loser, but in most other aspects I am happy and in a much better spot than most I know.
Nah, its just abstract forms with painted patterns taken/inspired by ancient cultures textiles.
Here is an example of a smaller wall hanger piece that I would sell to private collectors. $50 of materials max, sold this one for $6,500.
The ones in major buildings are just much much larger versions
Oh yeah, no the high art world is mostly garbage. Im not even that into it tbh, but my family is full of artists so it was just something to get into that I had connections in.
I got in, made a bag, got out.
Now I chill on my farm. I mostly do woodwork now, as the most artistic thing I do currently. Just building simple desks and shelves and stuff to sell to rich yuppies in the surrounding college towns.
I was always of the mindset that the easiest path to wealth is just to spam any connections you have, and I always did well in art class in school, doodled a lot.
If I didn't have the familial connections though, I never would have gotten into it. Also that world is full of insufferable lefty gays.
>I will never understand this type of art
The issue a lot of people have is they don't understand art like this is not supposed to be something people gather around and discuss the meaning of, it's something that goes it the background. Like, you could have an empty white wall, or you could have something that acts as a stand-in for foliage for that space. If you think about it our ancestors would be walking around in forests and walking by bright flowers and shit that stand out a little bit but seemingly match the environment and aren't overtly noteworthy. They typically wouldn't stop have a a discussion about how artistically valuable a flower is in this context. If you then change the environment from a forest to an airport... That type of art that anon posted is the "flower" that you walk by. It matches the artificial white walled environment better than an actual flower. Without it the environment looks incomplete, unhealthy, and abnormal.
It can’t at least look like an adult made it? And took some effort?
10 months ago
Anonymous
Well look, if your kid can make things like that, I'm sorry their abilities will go unused.
By the way, what would your ideal be for an airport's decor? Just walls and walls of oil portrait paintings? Maybe just lots of factory printed wallpaper? Photographs of cats?
10 months ago
Anonymous
Cat photos would be pretty cool or orangutans
10 months ago
Anonymous
You're going to make airports into fricking Mandrill Maze.
10 months ago
Anonymous
As they should be.
10 months ago
Anonymous
>something a moronic schizoid made in art therapy >the Mona Lisa
I didn’t realise there were only two options for decor. I want things that fit the local culture and the building that don’t look like horseshit which you admit a lot of this stuff is.
10 months ago
Anonymous
>anon gives 3 very different alternatives to the modern sculpture >you reply with some fanfic where he suggested there was only two options and that modern decor design was made by some guy in a padded cell >you never even explain what you want
And who is the schizophrenic here? I'm just asking you to act like a genuine human being here.
10 months ago
Anonymous
Modern shit is fine as long as it fits the surroundings idk sorry I opened my big mouth.
You're not meant to understand. It's a status symbol thing. A $6,000 wall art sculpture represents the fact that you have $6,000 to spend on wall art.
the point is, I am happy
there are not many things I'd want to change in my life
but my parents have a very different... perspective
my dad got more quiet recently though
since he started using my home gym (we live 5 min by foot from each other)
maybe they stop complaining in a few years, who knows
They've given up on you. You're their failure child.
Based. How did you actually make it as an artist? Every successful artist I know had major connections and I'm pretty sure their shit only sold for absurd amounts for money laundering. But it seems you did it legitly, wild
Nah, I said it my other posts. I have major connections in the high art world. Both my grandparents were famous artists in NYC, my great grandmother was one of the founding members of the abstract movement.
When my grandma and grandpa died, the works they had in their studios were appraised at a collective total of $150 million. All of which went into a fund they set up to provide scholarships and fund residencies for artisticly inclined people. Some also went into my town. They bought the local museum and have it funded forever basically. They also bought the shitty drug infested apartment blocks on the bad side of town and turned them into studios for people to practice and teach arts.
They were nepotistic in providing me connections, but they always were dead set on never giving their wealth to anyone in the family when they passed.
Of course, the things we did inherit are wealth as well, they had a couple homes which my parents got. They gave one nice house to their long time assistants, who were a couple and just had a baby.
No money directly given though.
Damn, my mom said the same thing.
Dont worry mom, let me look my best so I can charm HR ladies and land any job I could want with my meme github repo and "engineering" degree, in two weeks
i nearly had a stroke the other day when my father was hurt and confused at the suggestion he wasn't a perfect parent.
like, literally that level of criticism. not perfect.
he was demanding to know what he did that wasn't great.
he was and continues to be an awful, abusive man and i didn't realize he had that level of narcissistic delusion up.
with his history of mental illness i would have thought he'd at least get as far as >yeah i could have been a better dad if not for all the alcoholism, wife-beating, child-beating, suicide attempts etc.
i consider myself a loser even though im in a much better place than most people in terms of upbringing, education, and work. i just prefer being alone so i never had many friends and dont really care about forming friendships, especially as ive gotten older. its strange. i turn 30 in a few months yet i still feel like a teenager. ive moved around a bit so none of my friends are where i am now. the social bonds are probably most important and i dont have those, havent been in a relationship since college, so all the work really seems for naught. if by 40 im still not in a relationship or unmarried, im going to drop-out and move to new hampshire or vermont to ski during the winters and drink and tan and kayak and hike during the summers.
Thanks anon it's been a wild ride as a teen i didn't know what I wanted out of life I just knew I didn't want to end up in a soulless office job so I took risks not all smart one but it worked out
>34 years old, balding, 30 pounds overweight >29 year gf whose life is a mess >$140k net worth ($60k liquid) >STILL saving for a house >go outside like 2 days a week
it could be much worse, i suppose. at least i didn't develop a drug addiction or fall into low income wageslavery like many of my peers.
>life is a mess
Lol, are you carrying her? Sorry man, but the way you present this it sounds as if she would leave you, the moment she'd get it sorted out. I hope it's not like that. Or I even hope more that you are not being taken advantage of.
she has a co-dependent relationship with her financially irresponsible, low income, psychologically abusive mom. i've pushed her to break ties and let her mother run her life into the ground. a fun story -- her mom has been without electricity for the past few weeks after the utility company shut off her service. the unpaid bill is something like $5k. i have no idea how it's physically possible to run up an unpaid bill that high.
my gf has until december 2024 to catch up with my low standards or she's gone.
If you are living at home in your late 20s and especially 30s then yea you’re a loser and your mom is trying to light a fire under your ass. It isn’t about the lifting, it’s about you being frankly a pathetic man child
If this was a conversation when your mom came to your place to visit then who cares she doesn’t get a vote on how you live your life
Yes and I wouldn't want it any other way (unless of course being rich as frick, that would be dope) >be 30 >wizard >wfh >lifting in home gym >living with parents and dog >only interests are vidya and books >be happy
Simple as. I have transcended the need for societal judgement and encouragement.
Honestly, maybe she should have raised one kid instead of a team of lawyers. Fricking idiot women. She evidently wasn't there for her kid if he ended up living in at 30.
people had less and worse parents and still were able to not be losers. the person in OPs pic was given everything in life and became too comfortable and therefore uncomfortable at being challenged or failing, so he doesnt try because he doesnt want to experience failure.
maybe in the beginning, but at some point a person needs to be aware of whats wrong and fix it. he never did. he is objectively at fault too. he is more at fault, however, because its his life and he has opted to be a biological and evolutionary failure by giving up.
I don't disagree that this guy's a failure and that he need to take control of his life, but this boomer mentality where parents aren't responsible for their children needs to fricking die. It's total cope by bad parents. He'd have to learn to be useless over the course of his entire childhood which indicates total failure on the parent's side of things.
throughout history there have always been bad and neglectful parents. its nothing new. but instead of the children learning uselessness, they tried to find a use. why has that changed now?
10 months ago
Anonymous
I think you’re underestimating how many people have been “losers” since the dawn of humanity I’d estimate about 86%
10 months ago
Anonymous
i know. serfs, peasants, slaves. they still exist today but there is more mobility now such that in a few generations their descendants dont necessarily have to be.
i dont know what the future holds but having more money never hurts.
A lot of you morons are just bitter and cynical because you’ve been alone for so long that you think it’s normal and the right way to live life.
If you’re over 25 with no career, no significant savings, no friends, no relationships, and no type of drive or motivation except for the gym and posting on here then you should really consider killing yourself. The burden you’ll take away from whatever family still cares about you will be worth it.
>The burden you’ll take away from whatever family still cares about you will be worth it.'
That might be true for whites. Not for others, they actually love their children despite their faults and inadequacies, so killing yourself will not be better for them.
I live at home at 26 but I also make ~120 a year with no debt. I am a loser socially though no friends or gf. I wear clothes with holes in em etc I just don’t really care
I don't know >23 > now unemployed, but will soon find a job > good relationship with parents and older siblings. > I have managed to pass as an eccentric introvert and my whole family accepts me, even though everyone is more on the extrovert side >main interests are working out, vidya, books, movies >not a neet parasite because I share taxes with my parents and buy myself food, help around the house, cook, clean, etc.
I don't need much. Only thing I want in the future is having my own home
Objectively no but the feel is hard to escape. I have a wife and get the second 3/4 of the time usually me turning it down to sleep. I’ve two kids with another on the way. My mother lives with me and I take care of her. There is a gym in my garage that I pieced together and I love the thing after a year and a half hit 1/2/3/4 (bench was the half).
Used to be on neetbux living off of my mom til I was 28 then shit just changed
Before that I was on the neetbux
Objectively no but the feel is hard to escape. I have a wife and get the second 3/4 of the time usually me turning it down to sleep. I’ve two kids with another on the way. My mother lives with me and I take care of her. There is a gym in my garage that I pieced together and I love the thing after a year and a half hit 1/2/3/4 (bench was the half).
Used to be on neetbux living off of my mom til I was 28 then shit just changed
Before that I was on the neetbux
Do that with your wife more
Do it for all the dead-ends here
I'm 26 and I spend all the time I can at work because its the only thing giving meaning to my life. No friends, no gf, distant family. In a sense work is a blessing and a curse. It keeps me going but it prevents me from making friends or finding a girl.
I guess yeah, I feel like one.
I managed to move to a new country, and am working in an industry I love, but due to being a sperg and the slight language gap (I speak my host country's language, but can't read it and miss a lot of words) has stopped me from being able to make friends and relationships that matter.
Sorry IST, I don't know what it is, but I think I'm going to kill myself in the coming months, haven't tried to yet, but I feel like if I don't catch my break soon its only a matter of time.
are there any local groups from your home country in your host country that you can join? it would be a good way to get to know people and to be more social. also keep learning the language. things may be grim but you are a pioneer who took a risk unlike all the people you left behind in your home country who were content to be exactly what their parents were.
I mean, I live at home with my folks but I'm also married and have the top floor to ourselves. Feels...ok. Maybe not ideal but at least I can be there for my family and they can help with the kids when we have them.
I'm 28 and a kissless virgin. I'm planning on fricking a prostitute this weekend, but i know exactly it won't count and it won't change anything anyways.
yes
i had one chance at life and was born a poorgay autist with a single mother and white in a black county to boot. so maybe it's cope but i don't blame myself. i see far too much dysfunction in society to feel bad for not playing the game. i am not gonna drown in stress and kill myself for the sake of a dirty Black person world.
more than you could imagine >cant finish dissertation because of oneitis >house am living in (grandpa's) either needs buying (~10 yrs wage) or my own complete remodeling (same amount) >can only think of training (stretching, running, basic rehabilitation, aikido, swordfighting, shooting), rehabilitation/training theory and methodology, muscle biology, economics and finance, building my own barony, how great Life would be with Oneitis
it's called having a purpose to help your community, or contribute to something bigger than yourself. lifting is the ultimate dead end masturbation activity. who said anything about waging?
by your own definition ANYTHING can be a 'dead end masturbation activity.' What's 'having a purpose,' at this point?
I work a public service law job. There's a hell of a difference between meaningful work and raising a family vs. being a kidult and running an ironman, or aiming to lean out. That's just embarrassing at that point
it's fricking childish. who gives a frick about how much weight you can pick up? the only people proud of fitness shit are people who have nothing else going for them. It's like a child being proud of how far they can hit a ball in little league. People cling to masturbatory "accomplishments" in order to tell themselves they're not pissing away their life and potential. Lifting weights isn't a personality and running a fast mile like an animal isn't a hobby.
I'm not even talking about a wagie job. I'm talking about doing something meaningful with your life besides caring about how fast you can run in a circle or push some lbs up and down. Nobody gives a frick that you can pick weight up and down - raise a family. contribute to your community. volunteer, spemd time count meaningful work. When I see a 30 year old child focusing on "macros" - you might as well be playing with Legos. You're pissing away your life and time, but you can't even tell because of your masturbatory deadend copes for lack of doing something worth a shit. It's honestly gross and anyone worth their salt knows to stay away from a person like that
I am a loser but my family is a mess and my brother caused so much trouble in the past that i just have to not do crack and, by comparison, i'll be considered ok and be left alone.
>Everyone that doesn’t agree with me is the same poster
I know you might be a bit confused because this is an anonymous website, but it’s okay anon, it happens
were my colleagues or subordinates to browse this board (trust me they are autistic enough to do so) my comfy career (which is the only thing I have going for me) woudl be over.
posting your face on the internet is a big no-no. Never do that, kid.
10 months ago
Anonymous
Can u post ur discord
10 months ago
Anonymous
i don't have discord. I only have Linkedin, but again, that would be equivalent to doxxing myself.
Just look for white male structured finance managers in supermajor oil companies in northen europe and you might find me.
10 months ago
Anonymous
Rip.
🙁
Oh well. Have you considered joining a group or sport with women and men OR getting tinder or something? I know married couples who met off that
10 months ago
Anonymous
i don’t really have time to date.
10 months ago
Anonymous
Bro, that looked like a woman from the typing style and emoticon usage, and you just turned her down
It's OVER
>t. college student who dreams about being those things
your fantasy is pretty pathetic tbh lad, at least go to law school and become a chad lawyer or something
How?
start meeting more people outside of work to develop your social skills, talk to girls playfully and teasingly (AKA flirting) but start with normie teasing before showing your full autism.
If shit gets desperate set up dates on dating apps.
I went from trying hard in my early 20s to an alcoholic fat loser who gave up in his late 20s. I turn 30 soon.
It's insane how much genetics determine your success. I legit studied 8 hours a day 6 days a week and failed uni and now I just rot and wait to die.
my mom runs a bakery business and eternally seethes at me. being fit is one thing but if you get fit and get into competitive eating youve just destroyed every fatty in existence
What's the point? Years if struggling to "achieve" very little "success". I'm a 30 year old virgin who lives alone. I make ok money I am above average physically if only because america is disgustingly fat. Not good enough and I have no reason to believe a new "hobby" or a six pack would change things. Am I incorrect?
I got here too late and the thread is already dead. But yes I am a loser, I'm probably the biggest loser on this entire board at 31 years old. There is literally not a single aspect of my life that I take pride in. I am completely humiliated and utterly ashamed of every single part of my life and what I've done to it. Every day I pray for the courage to commit suicide or get stage 4 pancreatic cancer.
By most metrics i'm doing very well. But nobody likes me more than a friendly acquaintance.
Nobody really likes mr boring and stable but nobody really dislikes him either. It's like living a life where the payoff is a bunch of consolation prizes and you're meant to act like you're fortunate and should be grateful for sharing the same result as the people who put in the bare minimum. I'm basically just going to reach FIRE soon so I can opt out of this shit.
I don't feel like a loser but I feel like others have designated that as my status and i don't really have any social alternative to go to in order to actually not give a frick.
Yes
checked and it really is that easy. People try to make so many things in this world my problem that are not and will never be my problem.
Just be delusional bro
Nmp
>get fricked in the ass
>don't care
>getting fricked in the ass is not a problem!
You are a literal gay
>first thing anon's mind jumps to is getting fricked in the ass
>anon calls others homosexual
curious.
thats hardly the best example given that an individuals perception of being fricked in the ass is entirely based on their estimate of the act.
Still not my problem
>Get fricked in the ass
>Get shit on his dick
>Don't care
I'm not the one with the poopywiener, that's his problem not mine, I'm not gonna deal with it. It really is that simple
>You are a literal gay
Why should I care?
homosexual
Stoics(ones that never read anything) absolutely destroyed by this one homosexual
He said external problems. Getting fricked in the ass definitely seems internal.
>external
Stoic queers BTFO!
The problems of life aren't all problems. It's people defining moments that are part of and make life life, as problems.
Best example is my autist moron friend. Everyday is a problem for him. Cooking, showering, living. Literally every little moment of life that should and need to be accepted as part of life is defined as a problems and "ruins" his day and time. So he ends up doing nothing at all instead and smokes himself high. GG no re
>just be a cuck bro
- Marcus Aurelius
>90% of quotes are fake
- Albert Einstein
>Make everything my wife's problem
That's how I roll
That's just diet nihilism.
Stoicism is a moronic and half baked version of Buddhism.
Just skip the copes and go straight to philosophical pessimism.
>Putting 'nominee' on the cover
Yep, see ya later.
youre gonna make anon rope
>dude who preached self determination
>stoicism
>homosexuals on fit equate this with not giving a frick
Weak homosexuals from weak homosexuals off weak homosexuals
This is why everything is ruined by plebs
Yes I am but at least I don't live with my mum
If the only thing you've got going in your life is weight lifting you need to be competing. Otherwise you're just a NEET loser, same as the rest, yeah.
based
wtf is that real???
I prefer the term "Temporarily embarrassed trillionaire"
reminds me of my parents
>parents make trust for each kid, enough so they don't have to worry about money
>actually don't worry about money
>mfw parents throw a tantrum for years
i genuinely don't understand them
well they've given up anyway, now they ask for grandchildren every time I see them
always something that makes them angry and unhappy, I suspect they don't actually want to be happy
Do you want to be happy?
the point is, I am happy
there are not many things I'd want to change in my life
but my parents have a very different... perspective
my dad got more quiet recently though
since he started using my home gym (we live 5 min by foot from each other)
maybe they stop complaining in a few years, who knows
So your dad gets out of the house away from his wife on a regular basis and has become more calm recently?
>hmmmmm
that money is for you to help kickstart your own career and family
not being a neet and a burden on society
but you do you I guess
To be fair if he has a trust he has money and it's already taxed and paid into the system do he isn't s burden on society or anyone unless he becomes an active criminal
alright so let's all become trust fund neets
our ''money in the system'' does everything for us!
Hating on a dude who lucked out into a wealthy family with parents that set him up isn't making your life any better the point is that he isn't causing sny harm by living his life that way
my point was that parents usually collect those trust funds to help the child start his own independent life, not to purely squander it with nothing in return
imagine if we all did that
>collect money for the child
>the child just rides on that money, no effort to contribute to society whatsoever
>next generation after the child: ???
what do you think happens to our society then?
I know it's cool to be a gym neet here but be for real rn
>contribute to society
go frick yourself
my bad top G
you should drop out of society because israelites or something and because you've never felt the touch of a woman
the holocaust never happened but I wish it happened 3 times in a row
>you are either a doormat wagecuck or a chud loser
lmao, peak cognitive dissonance. Do it for yourself and the ones you love, how about that, not because of some rich c**t or because you are a 90iq paper chaser.
you can be a non-doormat wagecuck and still contribute to society
Why would I want to contribute to society, if people try to shit on me actively?
can't really shitpost all day on IST when there's no one to fix the roads, transport your food, keep the water flowing and electricity running can you?
You already pay for those, you stupid c**t, as if paying more will make it better, plus you can live without electricity or running water, but the shitty government made it illegal in some places to collect rain water and purify it.
I don't pay for it my mom does
I'm a neet who only goes to the gym because it's so based
frick israelites and women
>Implying that the few people that elect to drop out of society are enough to cause massive infrastructure damage from not paying taxes
You are fricking moronic, “contributing” to society is a spook. The world won’t collapse on itself from a handful of NEETs
Not him but apparently its a big issue
They're running out of truckers and sewer cleaners and stuff because men are just dropping out, and it's not even just the autists anymore.
Black person the point of a trust is to retain control of your money. If the parents gave a frick they could have conditioned distribution of trust assets on any number of things. Clearly the priority was to ensure that anon was taken care of financially. Who fricking cares anyway, the money is earned and now anon is spending it. Good for him.
You have the mentality of a woman anon
You are a child who doesn't know anything about financial instruments.
So a hard working person?
This is the mentality of my Great Grandpa who stole my Grandmothers inheritance and rented a massive mansion with it and blew it all before he died, driving the family into poverty with him. This mentality is the most boomerish thing imaginable. At least make enough to grow the wealth, which is simple once you have enough to live off of. Otherwise you’re just leeching off your inheritance and stealing from your descendants. Inherited wealth isn’t your beer and coke fund, it’s a responsibility handed down that isn’t for you, it is for your children. Families continue this chain of inheritance living easy fulfilling lives allowed to do whatever career they want until one homosexual loser comes along and blows it all because he felt like “enjoying the money that was already earned” and I’m supposed to just feel good for him? When enough families embrace this moronic self-centered greedy mindset on a large scale, the elites of society become degenerate and the society drifts slowly towards collapse, see the boomers for an example of what happens when these types of attitudes are taught to people given money.
Exactly. Its my life goal to set my kid up so he never has to work. I've already wasted my life working. No reason he should too. It will be one thing I did good.
how am I a burden on society??
i don't get any social security or anything, I live in my own house, pay taxes etc.
and I'm not a NEET
they are angry because I studied for over 8years because I had fun and did a second degree
they are angry because now I have a permanent part time job as researcher in a University
the are angry because I'm content with my life and don't want much more
I have 4 older siblings and they all have impressive careers - so I get compared and the only thing I have the others don't is a PhD (beside from more free time)
i use the money to do what I like most in life: research (in my field), body building and gardening
very important details arose here
your original post painted an entirely different image of you
so taking this into account what I wrote earlier indeed does not apply
Interesting, what is your field of study?
theoretical computer science
mostly formal languages a bit Compiler construction for the practical part
studied comp sci and philosophy
but I haven't published much yet (besides for my PhD)
I only work 25h/week and give 2 lectures, so I need a bit longer
I'm currently at GT for my masters in CS, and want to get my PhD at some point to teach part time and hopefully fill the rest of my time doing other stuff I like. Do you teach on campus? What's the best way to get from where I am to teaching (outside of pursuing my PhD of course)?
As the other anon pointed out, this paints a very different picture and makes you look extremely based
You went from seeming like a 20s something stoner trust fund baby to simply being the academic one of the wealthy family. Based. You’re doing what I would do if I could live off of a trust. Instead it’s law for me.
They spent their life bouncing from issue to issue, and seeing someone who still has their youth not fall for the same traps they did enrages them. Tell them if they wanted you to be balding at 30 and grinding for shit pay they should've taken more holidays and not paid into a trust for you.
My mom died, my dad lives by himself, I have 3 sisters in their 30s who never had a boyfriend and will likely never have kids, I'm the only one who's even had a relationship, and he still doesn't give a frick about having grandchildren. I literally try to use it against him, like "be nice to me or you won't get grandchildren", and he doesn't care at all. And he's the biggest most pathetic fricking narcissist on the planet, and still doesn't give a frick about his bloodline. All he cares about is money. My family is completely moronic.
If you have kids they will inherit the entire family fortune, so do it.
I can't imagine my mom ever saying those things to me. I can't imagine how parents could actually hate their own children like that. Feels bad for anon
there is a significant group of parents who hate their children, they only had kids due to peer pressure and fear of loneliness. i wouldn't say it's the majority but it's a lot
That’s not hate, that’s tough love. She just wants anon to be successful instead of a neet
You dont call your family a fricking loser. Nothing helpful or loving about that.
you do if its a hard truth they need to hear.
You do if youre calling them a loser so they stop being one. I'd rather be called a loser everyday by family if I am one than my family pulling me down at any of my successes and gently telling me that im fine the way I am while im miserable.
nah that's a toxic outburst shaming his son for existing and being a different person born into a completely different time than herself
a little late for that at 30, don't cha think?
Most parents shouldn't have the right to be one
Thats not hate, its one line that is missing a ton of context while still supplying enough that it could've been a bad day at work.
I've seen hate and disregard. I've seen parents wanting their kids to fail so they feel superior or in control.
I knew a woman who pressured her 12 year old son to smoke meth with her so he'd stop playing sports and being successful.
>I knew a woman who pressured her 12 year old son to smoke meth with her so he'd stop playing sports and being successful.
Did you at least tell the police or kill her?
He died at 20 by crashing a stolen car into a tree. Before she gave him meth he was 12, 6'1 180lbs of lean muscle and was often mistaken for a 19-20 year old. Excelled at any sport he played.
The mother has done time for drugs over and over again. She took 0 responsibility for his decline and death. She just got out and had a train run on her at a motel for weeks. God will take care of her when she dies.
>high T gigachad rawdogs a meth prostitute and dips
Many such cases
She was impregnated by her dad's meth dealer at 13.
Frick bro nothing makes me more sad than kids with crazy athletic/academic potential who blow it to drugs. Maybe because I never had that potential and I spent the first 20 years of my life coping with getting mogged in every sport I played
I was decently close with him and was watching his sport potential go through the roof.
His mom got out of prison so he moved back in with her after living with great grandma.
One night he came to me (he was already smoking cigarettes and weed) and said "man meth is awesome, you can smoke weed all night and never get tirer" and I flipped out. He was a mama's boy so nothing I said mattered compared to her. Sad to watch. Cried when I heard he died despite not talking to him in years.
how do you know of her wtf, is she ur mom
>I knew a woman who pressured her 12 year old son to smoke meth with her so he'd stop playing sports and being successful.
Jesus fricking Christ.
My dad sperged out, banged his head on the door and suicide-baited me one day I was late to school (by twenty fricking minutes, oh no how terrible).
To this day I regret not rushing him and beating the shit out of him for it. He apologised a year later (only at my prompting) and he clearly meant it, but no fricking way am I ever gonna forgive him for it. I'm never forgetting it. Never.
lol ya seethe? couldn't even handle a bit of banter
It was hardly banter
More like incoherent screaming at me while I was brushing my teeth
forgive (living with grudges stresses you) but never forget (so things don't repeat)
For some reason boomer parents really hate their kids. I think its because their GI generation parents forced them to get married and have kids, so they just married someone they didn't love and had children that they didn't love.
he's fricking 30 man he's not a baby
>children
Hes 30 and still living at home if that was my kid Id have thrown his ass out at 25. At some point you need to be responsible for your own life, shit I'd even help with some bills while he gets situated but you cant live at mommy and daddy's house forever. Its pathetic
How have we come to the conclusion that you need to frick off out of your parents place right when you're 18? OP's pic is definitely a different case, but you can still contribute to the family and society living at home until 30. It isn't the past anymore, you may not be able to land a good and stable job that will buy you an own place right away. Living at parents place really doesn't have to mean that you're an unforgivable NEET with no future prospects, I went back to my parents place at 30 for a few months because I moved back to my home town and needed time to get a new place.
>at 18
I agree that boomer mindset is moronic. I said at 25, and thats only if he has no job and no ambition. If youre working and able to save more money (and contribute a little bit to expenses as well) then thats OK. My cousin for example worked as an accountant while living at home and moved out around 30 and was able to buy a house outright with all the money he had saved up. I want to set them up for the best financial future. But if they are a fricking NEET at 25 they gotta go. I cant condone that lifestyle
well it's not your life so who the frick cares what you say at that point?
Its not my life but its my house and my frickin money. Im not gonna support a manchild
Do you really think you can just exist for free?
the move out at 18 thing was a thing from the post ww2 economic boom and large banks pressurizing people to buy houses, thats it
You gotta remember that while anon is indeed a loser so is his mom.
>working till 8pm
>successful
Lmao
lazy people, including children, do not deserve respect anon
Had my mom say straight to my face that money mattered more than I did, that was the last time I ever spoke with her.
parents can easily hate their children, but it doesnt mean that they also don't love them as well. Recipe is pretty simple actually to hate your kids
>kid does something annoying
>you dont do anything about it because youre tired/lazy or you love the kid
>kid grows up to be scumbag if his friends never punish him for being a dickhead
But what OPs picture shows isnt hate but frustration. OP is a NEET, his mom doesnt want him to be a NEET but is too much of a pussy to give him a dilemma to either get a job or get kicked out of the house.
The only thing worse than boomers are boomer sympathizers. Luckily both groups will eat shit.
Yeah but what if I'm happy with not many experiences? I just want to come home, rip on some Black folk and sleep. I'm glad you had a good time but I had a good boring time.
Funny post, makes me think of an anti weed commercial called pete's couch. No one ever got hurt on pete's couch, they just got stoned and stayed safe. Worst anti weed commercial idea ever.
Hey you do you I wouldn't be happy living that way but some people are I understand my lifestyle isn't for everyone but a lot of people resign themselves to a boring life just because they don't realize there are achievable alternatives
If that's actually the only thing you are doing with 30, yes, that's bad. If you were at least gambling your money on the stock market besides lifting, you could say you are doing something.
props to the mom for being proud of breeding 3 homies unto the world, b***h got my southern blood flowing, hot damn i wanna breed some b***h but i wish she loved me for how i look not who i am because i am a piece of shit on the inside ngl
I dropped out of the 2nd year of med school to play WoW and post images of kpop girls all day on IST.
Embrace what you enjoy doing.
zased
you're really failing that second part because i rarely see kpop girls here
You blind then bro
I agree with him. Maybe those girls just don't stand out. Like, if you see them you forget it soon after.
I'll try to do better. Sorry anon.
based fellow yellow fever enthusiast
post more kpop bawds
>i am better than you because i worked in disgusting shit peddling petty crimes
you homies are worse than onlyfans prostitutes, i mean i've peddled some illegal shit myself but i am not exactly proud of it nor do i consider it anything other than youthful moronation
Frickin learn how to type, unreadable bullshit.
Literally 2 to typos in that post "me>my" and "I I>I" stay mad grammarhomosexual
If we're talking about for real then you have to acknowledge that less than 1% of households are even capable of setting up a child with a trust so your societal collapse theory is negated by the inherent necessities for the situation to occur
It's about the fullstops and commas, you idiot.
Welcome to IST newfren
Nothing to do with that. Most people, either type short sentences or type correctly. Your text was simply trash.
Most IST users are capable of producing readable posts.
The post anon was complaining about is the sort of moronic rambling I'd expect from a Black person.
>went into desert 3rd world shithole
>sold drugs in large american city
>enlisted in army
>went in Europe twice
>moved to Poland of all places
So basically you spent 99% of your life in shitty places and your experience amounts to "I've done a lot of unpleasant things". Is this supposed to be something anyone should be envious of? Lmao at least brag ot something worthwhile
I would not have considered any of those things unpleasant I actually enjoyed the vast majority of it please tell us how your life is going
im not used to blogging nor my ego is that big
So you've done nothing and live in your parents house got it
Yeah basically that
Why is capy so cute bros?
Capy is best animal. GF says I havb capy problem ye more like lack of capy problem
Capybaras are truly one of the coolest animals
>GF says I havb capy problem ye more like lack of capy problem
I could literally have every capybara in the world, from the first until the end of time, and I would still have a lack of capybara problem.
Ok but is your mom shredded? Hot? One of those IG fitness milfs?
If not she should sue less people and lift more befote she ends up on /fph/.
You advice is applicable to an 18 year old kid, not a fellow 30 year old MAN.
The only piece of advice in that post is not live on his mom's couch relaxing every day while doing nothing but going to the gym OP is a 30 yr old kid
Naming problems, not solutions. What do you op to say?
>Okay mommy I'll go out and buy a team of 20 lawyers
>You're right 30 years old is the perfect time to start selling drugs.
Op is happy with his life even if he is adrift. Being bitter, calling him a child because
hes not working a soulless low wage entry level worthless job (which is likely his options) just for the sake of it is about the same level of copium as when single mothers won't call men a real man for not looking after their kid. If he doesn't want to contribute to society its his business. His family's comfortable and will leave him some money and can currently support him. When they can't then it's his problem, it's currently not a problem so why do you or those boomer homosexuals give a frick? If you dont like the options he's chosen in life shut the frick up, it's none of your concern
Also make it a large next time, b***h
Firstly low level entry jobs are only his options bc he hasn't done anything in 30 yrs of living secondly if he was happy with his choices when wouldn't have made this thread to discuss whether or not people are losers. If his family was comfortable with him they wouldn't be harassing him to stop being a loser
If he was living in his own house doing frickall, it’d be okay - but he’s bleeding his family dry doing frickall and asking his mom for money when it’s time to pay for the gym while pushing 30.
You have to stand on your ten toes at some point.
OP isn’t a man. If you live with mommy at any age you aren’t a man.
If the simple fact that you shouldn’t be fricking thirty and still at home rustles you then you need to get off the internet and surround yourself with people who aren’t absolute losers of society
>working mom
>raises a loser son
What else is new
>insurance salesman giving life advice
man I could make a long list of things I'd rather end up doing than selling insurances and fricking killing myself would be at the top.
I mean, please, hide your shame. This is the internet. You don't have to admit to this disaster of a job. You could claim you're a crack prostitute or anything with an inkling of self respect.
Weird how none of the anons itt judging harshly have given a shred info about their own situations what do you do for a living? Does it let you travel the world as much as you want? Do you answer to no one but yourself? It's not glamorous but it's far better than most jobs and earns me well above average income. Please tell me about your life and job certainly you do something worthy of our respect
It's allows them to shitpost all day.
I live in a dumpster in nyc and jerk off in public
Should see it, I shoot ropes all over high powered female attornies all the time.
Maybe one of em is OP's mom, watch out
I’m a software developer, it’s not glamorous but I get to WFH. You are a scammer that steals money from Boomers with your life insurance bs. I will never respect you for picking a career like that.
If you think life insurance is a scam you don't understand what it is at all aside from living benefits like income Incase of disability, ability to borrow from your accumulated value rather than taking a loan with interest, and being able to reduce debt and protect a mortgage the death benefits ensure a person's family has a way of living when the breadwinner passes on there's nothing scammy about life insurance
you are brainwashed and a bootlicker, as well
Triggered libshit mad af
>running
Cardio isn't impressive
I bet you can’t even run a half marathon, powershitting weeb
>Are you a loser
>over 30
>no gf or social life
>No education
>Neet most of my adult age
>Currently living abroad working a back breaking seasonal job otherwise would still be living at home
>Barely 10k saved
Yep I think I qualify.
>female
>lawyer
>team of 20 by 30
he should ask his mum how many wrinkled old senior partner ball sacks slapped against her for that gig.
I'm 28.
I've lead thru hikes around the west coast for 5 years. I was an art teacher for 3. I spent 3 years making sculptures and have my work in Zuckercucks office, Microsoft HQ, a few airports, embassies, etc.
I used the money I made to buy a 30 acre farm. Moved my mom and grandma onto the property to take care of them as they age. My mom always dreamed of having a farm, so I got it for her.
Built myself a small home on the other side of the property to have privacy still.
Debt free with 6 figures in my savings. Get along with my family.
Now I just work an easy mode part time wagie job. I raise animals and grow my own food. Have a shooting range on my property.
Job gives me some forced socialization which is healthy for a natural loner like myself.
Can't find a woman to marry and have a family with, so I guess in that regard I am a loser, but in most other aspects I am happy and in a much better spot than most I know.
i'd say you're a bro but to have your sculptures in those places they're probably meant to symbolize raping and eating babies.
Nah, its just abstract forms with painted patterns taken/inspired by ancient cultures textiles.
Here is an example of a smaller wall hanger piece that I would sell to private collectors. $50 of materials max, sold this one for $6,500.
The ones in major buildings are just much much larger versions
I will never understand this type of art but I'm happy you're making s living doing something you love too many angry losers itt
Oh yeah, no the high art world is mostly garbage. Im not even that into it tbh, but my family is full of artists so it was just something to get into that I had connections in.
I got in, made a bag, got out.
Now I chill on my farm. I mostly do woodwork now, as the most artistic thing I do currently. Just building simple desks and shelves and stuff to sell to rich yuppies in the surrounding college towns.
I was always of the mindset that the easiest path to wealth is just to spam any connections you have, and I always did well in art class in school, doodled a lot.
If I didn't have the familial connections though, I never would have gotten into it. Also that world is full of insufferable lefty gays.
Well I'm glad it worked out for you
>that world is full of insufferable lefty gays.
This is pretty much what I assumed the art community to be like
>Also that world is full of insufferable lefty gays.
can you elaborate
>I will never understand this type of art
The issue a lot of people have is they don't understand art like this is not supposed to be something people gather around and discuss the meaning of, it's something that goes it the background. Like, you could have an empty white wall, or you could have something that acts as a stand-in for foliage for that space. If you think about it our ancestors would be walking around in forests and walking by bright flowers and shit that stand out a little bit but seemingly match the environment and aren't overtly noteworthy. They typically wouldn't stop have a a discussion about how artistically valuable a flower is in this context. If you then change the environment from a forest to an airport... That type of art that anon posted is the "flower" that you walk by. It matches the artificial white walled environment better than an actual flower. Without it the environment looks incomplete, unhealthy, and abnormal.
It can’t at least look like an adult made it? And took some effort?
Well look, if your kid can make things like that, I'm sorry their abilities will go unused.
By the way, what would your ideal be for an airport's decor? Just walls and walls of oil portrait paintings? Maybe just lots of factory printed wallpaper? Photographs of cats?
Cat photos would be pretty cool or orangutans
You're going to make airports into fricking Mandrill Maze.
As they should be.
>something a moronic schizoid made in art therapy
>the Mona Lisa
I didn’t realise there were only two options for decor. I want things that fit the local culture and the building that don’t look like horseshit which you admit a lot of this stuff is.
>anon gives 3 very different alternatives to the modern sculpture
>you reply with some fanfic where he suggested there was only two options and that modern decor design was made by some guy in a padded cell
>you never even explain what you want
And who is the schizophrenic here? I'm just asking you to act like a genuine human being here.
Modern shit is fine as long as it fits the surroundings idk sorry I opened my big mouth.
You're not meant to understand. It's a status symbol thing. A $6,000 wall art sculpture represents the fact that you have $6,000 to spend on wall art.
They've given up on you. You're their failure child.
Based. How did you actually make it as an artist? Every successful artist I know had major connections and I'm pretty sure their shit only sold for absurd amounts for money laundering. But it seems you did it legitly, wild
Nah, I said it my other posts. I have major connections in the high art world. Both my grandparents were famous artists in NYC, my great grandmother was one of the founding members of the abstract movement.
When my grandma and grandpa died, the works they had in their studios were appraised at a collective total of $150 million. All of which went into a fund they set up to provide scholarships and fund residencies for artisticly inclined people. Some also went into my town. They bought the local museum and have it funded forever basically. They also bought the shitty drug infested apartment blocks on the bad side of town and turned them into studios for people to practice and teach arts.
They were nepotistic in providing me connections, but they always were dead set on never giving their wealth to anyone in the family when they passed.
Of course, the things we did inherit are wealth as well, they had a couple homes which my parents got. They gave one nice house to their long time assistants, who were a couple and just had a baby.
No money directly given though.
That sounds great man, good for you. I hope you find a nice broad to marry but if not, it's okay. All the best.
>rich
>successful
>loser
frick off, normie
congrats on figuring out how to game the system.
I'll be your wife.
You sound based as shit.
>helps actually take care of mom and grandma
>divorces and takes farm
kek
women really do froth at the mouth at any chance to jump ship into a successful man's life huh
case in point
and
"Women"
Damn, my mom said the same thing.
Dont worry mom, let me look my best so I can charm HR ladies and land any job I could want with my meme github repo and "engineering" degree, in two weeks
here is an incentive to get out of your parents' house:
you can finally tell them what a devastatingly bad job they did and how it is directly linked to your largest failings.
this
my mom keeps asking me when gf and grandkids and whatever
like homie you raised me without a father figure what do you expect?
i nearly had a stroke the other day when my father was hurt and confused at the suggestion he wasn't a perfect parent.
like, literally that level of criticism. not perfect.
he was demanding to know what he did that wasn't great.
he was and continues to be an awful, abusive man and i didn't realize he had that level of narcissistic delusion up.
with his history of mental illness i would have thought he'd at least get as far as
>yeah i could have been a better dad if not for all the alcoholism, wife-beating, child-beating, suicide attempts etc.
i consider myself a loser even though im in a much better place than most people in terms of upbringing, education, and work. i just prefer being alone so i never had many friends and dont really care about forming friendships, especially as ive gotten older. its strange. i turn 30 in a few months yet i still feel like a teenager. ive moved around a bit so none of my friends are where i am now. the social bonds are probably most important and i dont have those, havent been in a relationship since college, so all the work really seems for naught. if by 40 im still not in a relationship or unmarried, im going to drop-out and move to new hampshire or vermont to ski during the winters and drink and tan and kayak and hike during the summers.
Sounds like a decent life so far anon. Glad you having fun. You scattered the crabs with this one so good job
Thanks anon it's been a wild ride as a teen i didn't know what I wanted out of life I just knew I didn't want to end up in a soulless office job so I took risks not all smart one but it worked out
>34 years old, balding, 30 pounds overweight
>29 year gf whose life is a mess
>$140k net worth ($60k liquid)
>STILL saving for a house
>go outside like 2 days a week
it could be much worse, i suppose. at least i didn't develop a drug addiction or fall into low income wageslavery like many of my peers.
>life is a mess
Lol, are you carrying her? Sorry man, but the way you present this it sounds as if she would leave you, the moment she'd get it sorted out. I hope it's not like that. Or I even hope more that you are not being taken advantage of.
she has a co-dependent relationship with her financially irresponsible, low income, psychologically abusive mom. i've pushed her to break ties and let her mother run her life into the ground. a fun story -- her mom has been without electricity for the past few weeks after the utility company shut off her service. the unpaid bill is something like $5k. i have no idea how it's physically possible to run up an unpaid bill that high.
my gf has until december 2024 to catch up with my low standards or she's gone.
>5k
Wat
Ok, I understand.
At least you have a gf
Men have literally died and killed strangers en masse because they couldn't get one.
well I was but I have an interview today so =/
i'm here, aren't i?
>Loser
I prefer to think of it as negative winning
If you are living at home in your late 20s and especially 30s then yea you’re a loser and your mom is trying to light a fire under your ass. It isn’t about the lifting, it’s about you being frankly a pathetic man child
If this was a conversation when your mom came to your place to visit then who cares she doesn’t get a vote on how you live your life
>in Poland
>job selling life life insurance and annuities
Imagine being this man and bragging. Someone tell me this is bait.
"and look at how your kids turned out due to the neglect you put them through with your girl boss shit, used up prostitute"
Yes and I wouldn't want it any other way (unless of course being rich as frick, that would be dope)
>be 30
>wizard
>wfh
>lifting in home gym
>living with parents and dog
>only interests are vidya and books
>be happy
Simple as. I have transcended the need for societal judgement and encouragement.
Honestly, maybe she should have raised one kid instead of a team of lawyers. Fricking idiot women. She evidently wasn't there for her kid if he ended up living in at 30.
people had less and worse parents and still were able to not be losers. the person in OPs pic was given everything in life and became too comfortable and therefore uncomfortable at being challenged or failing, so he doesnt try because he doesnt want to experience failure.
Objectively speaking, his mother let it happen.
maybe in the beginning, but at some point a person needs to be aware of whats wrong and fix it. he never did. he is objectively at fault too. he is more at fault, however, because its his life and he has opted to be a biological and evolutionary failure by giving up.
I don't disagree that this guy's a failure and that he need to take control of his life, but this boomer mentality where parents aren't responsible for their children needs to fricking die. It's total cope by bad parents. He'd have to learn to be useless over the course of his entire childhood which indicates total failure on the parent's side of things.
throughout history there have always been bad and neglectful parents. its nothing new. but instead of the children learning uselessness, they tried to find a use. why has that changed now?
I think you’re underestimating how many people have been “losers” since the dawn of humanity I’d estimate about 86%
i know. serfs, peasants, slaves. they still exist today but there is more mobility now such that in a few generations their descendants dont necessarily have to be.
i dont know what the future holds but having more money never hurts.
A lot of you morons are just bitter and cynical because you’ve been alone for so long that you think it’s normal and the right way to live life.
If you’re over 25 with no career, no significant savings, no friends, no relationships, and no type of drive or motivation except for the gym and posting on here then you should really consider killing yourself. The burden you’ll take away from whatever family still cares about you will be worth it.
wagecuck cope
I’m gay btw not sure if it matters
>The burden you’ll take away from whatever family still cares about you will be worth it.'
That might be true for whites. Not for others, they actually love their children despite their faults and inadequacies, so killing yourself will not be better for them.
>That might be true for whites.
false
t. white
Well, then you are lucky.
>white
That burden for your family shit has Asia written all over it.
Well, I thought mentioning bugs wasn't necessary.
crab in the bucket NGMI
I live at home at 26 but I also make ~120 a year with no debt. I am a loser socially though no friends or gf. I wear clothes with holes in em etc I just don’t really care
I don't know
>23
> now unemployed, but will soon find a job
> good relationship with parents and older siblings.
> I have managed to pass as an eccentric introvert and my whole family accepts me, even though everyone is more on the extrovert side
>main interests are working out, vidya, books, movies
>not a neet parasite because I share taxes with my parents and buy myself food, help around the house, cook, clean, etc.
I don't need much. Only thing I want in the future is having my own home
Sounds like you have a good attitude and your family appreciates that hope you get what you're looking for
especially if you're just out of college, I wouldn't call you a loser by any means
not having a job at 23 for a while is ok
Yeah, you got a problem with that?
>Are you a loser?
b***h I might be
Objectively no but the feel is hard to escape. I have a wife and get the second 3/4 of the time usually me turning it down to sleep. I’ve two kids with another on the way. My mother lives with me and I take care of her. There is a gym in my garage that I pieced together and I love the thing after a year and a half hit 1/2/3/4 (bench was the half).
Used to be on neetbux living off of my mom til I was 28 then shit just changed
Before that I was on the neetbux
Get the sexo
This
Do that with your wife more
Do it for all the dead-ends here
Maybe she should have raised him and not a business.
>30
>Divorced
>Go to work, go home
>Never go out
>Have no friends
>Recently hit 285 bench PR
Can't have it all
Nice bench
I'm sure you could make friends at a gym with that kind of capability
My gym is in my basement, man. The only people who I talk to about lifting are on here.
>mummy mad she wasted her life at a lawfirm instead of raising her kids
I'm 26 and I spend all the time I can at work because its the only thing giving meaning to my life. No friends, no gf, distant family. In a sense work is a blessing and a curse. It keeps me going but it prevents me from making friends or finding a girl.
I guess yeah, I feel like one.
I managed to move to a new country, and am working in an industry I love, but due to being a sperg and the slight language gap (I speak my host country's language, but can't read it and miss a lot of words) has stopped me from being able to make friends and relationships that matter.
Sorry IST, I don't know what it is, but I think I'm going to kill myself in the coming months, haven't tried to yet, but I feel like if I don't catch my break soon its only a matter of time.
>Sorry IST, I don't know what it is, but I think I'm going to kill myself in the coming months
At least take a politician with you
are there any local groups from your home country in your host country that you can join? it would be a good way to get to know people and to be more social. also keep learning the language. things may be grim but you are a pioneer who took a risk unlike all the people you left behind in your home country who were content to be exactly what their parents were.
NO.
I WILL ALWAYS STRIVE TOWARDS BEING AS INDEPENDENT AS POSSIBLE, EVEN IF I KNOW THAT NO ONE CAN LIVE LIFE ALONE. BUT I MUST TRY.
I mean, I live at home with my folks but I'm also married and have the top floor to ourselves. Feels...ok. Maybe not ideal but at least I can be there for my family and they can help with the kids when we have them.
I'm 23 and feels like that's about to be me no matter what I can't seem to get a job. I have a degree too
I'm 28 and a kissless virgin. I'm planning on fricking a prostitute this weekend, but i know exactly it won't count and it won't change anything anyways.
yes
i had one chance at life and was born a poorgay autist with a single mother and white in a black county to boot. so maybe it's cope but i don't blame myself. i see far too much dysfunction in society to feel bad for not playing the game. i am not gonna drown in stress and kill myself for the sake of a dirty Black person world.
yeah, probably, but my parents are losers, too. it kinda runs in the family. at least i'm not fat.
jannies nuked other offtopic threads but left this one up
interesting
more than you could imagine
>cant finish dissertation because of oneitis
>house am living in (grandpa's) either needs buying (~10 yrs wage) or my own complete remodeling (same amount)
>can only think of training (stretching, running, basic rehabilitation, aikido, swordfighting, shooting), rehabilitation/training theory and methodology, muscle biology, economics and finance, building my own barony, how great Life would be with Oneitis
there comes a point when a man still primarily worried about lifting and "fitness" is a very bad thing.
>NOOOOOOOOO YOU HAVE TO BE WORRIED ABOUT MAKING MORE SHEKELS TO MR. SHEKELBERG
cope wagie
it's called having a purpose to help your community, or contribute to something bigger than yourself. lifting is the ultimate dead end masturbation activity. who said anything about waging?
okay what is your contribution then?
I work a public service law job. There's a hell of a difference between meaningful work and raising a family vs. being a kidult and running an ironman, or aiming to lean out. That's just embarrassing at that point
HAHAHAHA
okay wagie
I understand you're not satisfied with your life but please keep your coping away from my board
by your own definition ANYTHING can be a 'dead end masturbation activity.' What's 'having a purpose,' at this point?
No there doesn't.
it's fricking childish. who gives a frick about how much weight you can pick up? the only people proud of fitness shit are people who have nothing else going for them. It's like a child being proud of how far they can hit a ball in little league. People cling to masturbatory "accomplishments" in order to tell themselves they're not pissing away their life and potential. Lifting weights isn't a personality and running a fast mile like an animal isn't a hobby.
You are not your job, corporate drone. Go exercise and find some hobbies.
I'm not even talking about a wagie job. I'm talking about doing something meaningful with your life besides caring about how fast you can run in a circle or push some lbs up and down. Nobody gives a frick that you can pick weight up and down - raise a family. contribute to your community. volunteer, spemd time count meaningful work. When I see a 30 year old child focusing on "macros" - you might as well be playing with Legos. You're pissing away your life and time, but you can't even tell because of your masturbatory deadend copes for lack of doing something worth a shit. It's honestly gross and anyone worth their salt knows to stay away from a person like that
I'm a loser at least I have my own room now
I want a job and to isolate myself the rest of my free time
fricking tired of people
My mom is a judge.
She's going to give me my degree when I graduate law school and then swear me in to the bar.
i don't think i'm a loser. opinions of other people do not matter.
>managing 20 lawyers at near 30
That's bs, or the mom just inherited daddy's role
I feel like a loser, but I amIST and have great grades in medschool. I am a lonely social autist tho.
I am a loser but my family is a mess and my brother caused so much trouble in the past that i just have to not do crack and, by comparison, i'll be considered ok and be left alone.
>33 year old high school dropout
>Never held a job
>Been claiming disability since 2009
>tried going back to school at 21, lasted three weeks
I'm a gigantic manchild and feel pretty comfy just keeping myself occupied with unimportant nonsense.
Typical anime fan
>33yo
>lives with disability shit
>obssessed with anime "girls"
yeah you are a pathetic loser, but at least you can admit it
Anime website
no, 33yo loser.
>Everyone that doesn’t agree with me is the same poster
I know you might be a bit confused because this is an anonymous website, but it’s okay anon, it happens
Damn dude.
Men are useless Black folk these days.
Not all, but they don't spend hours on IST or twitter complaining.
The male Black folk are useless though.
said IST dweller
how much do you get for disability? Want to see if my brother high on the autism spectrum is getting what he should
>MSc finance
>CFA
>Big Oil employee of the year
>six digit bonus
I'm doing alright for myself
>no gf
I want to kill myself
How old are you? You got discord?
27 and no.
why? u want questions?
Are you cute?
beauty is in the eye of the beholder
let me see
were my colleagues or subordinates to browse this board (trust me they are autistic enough to do so) my comfy career (which is the only thing I have going for me) woudl be over.
posting your face on the internet is a big no-no. Never do that, kid.
Can u post ur discord
i don't have discord. I only have Linkedin, but again, that would be equivalent to doxxing myself.
Just look for white male structured finance managers in supermajor oil companies in northen europe and you might find me.
Rip.
🙁
Oh well. Have you considered joining a group or sport with women and men OR getting tinder or something? I know married couples who met off that
i don’t really have time to date.
Bro, that looked like a woman from the typing style and emoticon usage, and you just turned her down
It's OVER
>upset he has no gf
>doesn't attempt to date
if only this outcome could've been foreseen!
Holy shit. Gold diggers on IST. Never thought I'd see the day.
>t. college student who dreams about being those things
your fantasy is pretty pathetic tbh lad, at least go to law school and become a chad lawyer or something
How?
start meeting more people outside of work to develop your social skills, talk to girls playfully and teasingly (AKA flirting) but start with normie teasing before showing your full autism.
If shit gets desperate set up dates on dating apps.
Most men these days are losers who leech off a woman's back.
Yes.
I went from trying hard in my early 20s to an alcoholic fat loser who gave up in his late 20s. I turn 30 soon.
It's insane how much genetics determine your success. I legit studied 8 hours a day 6 days a week and failed uni and now I just rot and wait to die.
Why do you care what anyone thinks? Is this the world I live in? Has the demographic shifted?
my mom runs a bakery business and eternally seethes at me. being fit is one thing but if you get fit and get into competitive eating youve just destroyed every fatty in existence
yes for now
What's the point? Years if struggling to "achieve" very little "success". I'm a 30 year old virgin who lives alone. I make ok money I am above average physically if only because america is disgustingly fat. Not good enough and I have no reason to believe a new "hobby" or a six pack would change things. Am I incorrect?
better to be a loser with than a loser without
You can't be a loser if you are happy with your life. Most of you aren't though.
Ps neither am I
I think routine is good but I do like to spin it up once in a while, it good for ya, keeps you on your toes.
I got here too late and the thread is already dead. But yes I am a loser, I'm probably the biggest loser on this entire board at 31 years old. There is literally not a single aspect of my life that I take pride in. I am completely humiliated and utterly ashamed of every single part of my life and what I've done to it. Every day I pray for the courage to commit suicide or get stage 4 pancreatic cancer.
turned 26 last month and ive been a neet for like 3 years now, i cant get the motivation to work again
I am a completely pathetic loser, but at the same time I feel like my parents are losers (outside of financially) so they deserve it
same bro, both my parents make like a buck over minimum wage
By most metrics i'm doing very well. But nobody likes me more than a friendly acquaintance.
Nobody really likes mr boring and stable but nobody really dislikes him either. It's like living a life where the payoff is a bunch of consolation prizes and you're meant to act like you're fortunate and should be grateful for sharing the same result as the people who put in the bare minimum. I'm basically just going to reach FIRE soon so I can opt out of this shit.
I don't feel like a loser but I feel like others have designated that as my status and i don't really have any social alternative to go to in order to actually not give a frick.