Happened to me back in college but with the same girl on 4 separate occasions throughout the year. Every time she stared at me to get my attention i just avoided eye contact and carried on walking as if she didn’t exist even though we would’ve been 1 metre apart when walking past each other in a narrow corridor. Every time a girl has shown interest in me i just ignore them because of my anxiety and borderline autism.
Went to a costume party the other day and got spanked by a 9/10. Was not expecting it tbh, but these interactions are starting to happen more often every time I go out. So far this is the first one to go to this far tho.
That was the gimmick, a lot of people dressed up actually and I regret not doing it since it looked very fun.
It was hot as frick though, I was sweating with a short sleeve shirt, I can only imagine how the people in full costumes felt.
nah I just don’t care to read other people out in public, seems unreliable and you just see what you want to see. Women do compliment me but I just kind of ignore them
sure you can imagine whatever you want about me, that’s part of what I mean, it’s so unreliable. People can see a woman staring and will either think she’s miring or judging with no objective evidence either way
Women complimenting you doesn't mean they want to frick. They might just be trying to be nice. Women at my work compliment me all the time but its probably out of politeness and to make small talk because we're forced to work with each other.
There are three types of men: (1) men that women ignore. (2) men that women respond to if they make the first move. (3) men that have women make moves on them.
The vast majority of men are types (1) and (2). They know not the life of type (3). As a type (2), men who are type (3) but don’t act on it absolutely astound me.
taking what you can get is inherently choosy unless you just grab the first thing that comes your way and hold on with a vicelike grip. terrible idea btw
i said my my back was itchy and 2 of my female coworkers raced to scratch it for me first and i didnt even ask them to it was just a passive comment i made
ive literally never see any and when i do i get stunlocked. like it doesnt even register to think anything other than 'holy shit, that person is really good looking'
ive spend 32 years on this earth walking outside in public, at bars, clubs, cities, shopping malls and i have never ever seen this happen even once, or anything remotely close to it
sorry but not true. If you’re really attractive you will be approached by women.
I’m semi attractive so I have to make an effort. But I have this “chad” friend I hang out with. There have been instances where we’re at a bar or club and women come out of nowhere to talk to him and ask to dance. Times we were eating out and waiting in line to get food and women come over to chat him up. One time two gorgeous women came to him at once, they said they were new to the city and wanted him to show them around. They had their numbers written down for him and everything. They didn’t bat an eye at me.
Unless you’re *really* attractive you know what it is like to be attractive to women. If you’re anything less, you’re sitting in the peanut gallery.
first off, are you american? because this shit only happens in america
for some reason americans are disgustingly straight forward and extroverted towards strangers
I visited america once and random people would just start having conversations with me as if we were lifelong friends. weird af
I've only ever heard about Northern Europe being introverted, But it makes no sense to me. In America one of the nicest regions is the upper Midwest which is usually attributed to the High concentration of Scandinavian and German diaspora there, is the Introverted nature in Europe a recent phenomenon?
10 months ago
Anonymous
I dont know. Generally introversion correlates with high iq and vice versa
10 months ago
Anonymous
pretty sure thats bullshit. im introverted and a total moron
>I visited america once and random people would just start having conversations with me as if we were lifelong friends. weird af
I am not american but I don't get this tbh,
What is wrong with you mentally, to be hostile to making small talk with strangers ? Do you live in some 3rd world unsafe shithole ?
>expected to be some kind of sex god >just a guy who's trying to undo the israeli disney brainwashing
time to start more or less just molesting women in public
>Put zero effort into looks >Don't get bothered by annoying b***hes >Feel comfortable 24/7 >Play Vidya instead of looksmaxxing >Save money by avoiding expensive fashion >Shave once every few weeks >Never cut hair or style hair
Sounds relaxing and liberating 2bqh
Kek my sister is constantly on my ass for being single. I lean into it because idgaf. For example >Asks why I'm still single and nearly 40 >Ask her why she's so concerned about me not having sex >"It's not normal" >Tell her if she's so concerned she can put out >She's grossed out (I know it's a good way to get her to stop for a while) >Tell her she can get a friend to put out >She reminds me last time she tried, I pissed off her friend so badly they stopped being friends >Apparently she told my sister "why would you think I was compatible with that butthole?" >My butthole statement was, as date coming to close: >"So we fricking or nah?" >Her face was blank, she said "ew, no"
Lel. Would do again. I don't want to deal with those b***hes.
10 months ago
Anonymous
>"So we fricking or nah?"
I say a variation of this on like half of my first dates, about half of those times it works, the other half they tell me "next time"
10 months ago
Anonymous
I remember the first date I went on after my divorce, so maybe first real date in thirteen years, using the internet for the first time for anything like that >Girl arrives, fatter than pictures, totally unattractive >Decide this could be a fun learning opportunity >Asked her about her worst dates >Defended every guy she complained about and she kept blushing and getting nervous >"This guy had a hole in his shirt like he didn't even care" >Tug on my shirt and show a hole on the back and say he must have cats, I have cats too >One guy wouldn't stop talking about his sister >I wish I was that close with my family >Rinse repeat >She doesn't drink so I said I'd order one for her and drink it too >After date walk her to her car and say "so what did you think" >She goes you can't say that! >I said do you think I'm hot, do you want to keep seeing me >Nervous and blushing says of course >We make out then drive to her place where I make her watch Little Nicky because I had a craving to watch it >Leave after because I'm shit faced and bored with this game >She messages me a week later complaining that I ghosted her
Man dating was weird, I'm getting married again now but I got good because I used every date as a learning opportunity. At one point was averaging three dates a week that I spaced out in case I slept over with one
10 months ago
Anonymous
Damn you mormorns have it so good
10 months ago
Anonymous
I used to think acting like this was cool. Being a disagreeable butthole and making people pissed. Then I realised I was just an insecure prideful dickhead the whole time . It's a defense mechanism
10 months ago
Anonymous
>It's a defense mechanism
You say that like defense mechanisms are bad. Of course it's a defense mechanisms. It defends me from getting entrapped in normalcy.
10 months ago
Anonymous
i was 16 at the time btw
10 months ago
Anonymous
>>"So we fricking or nah?" >>Her face was blank, she said "ew, no"
This reads like something out of that alpha destiny pasta.
Kek, this homie out here lemonadeposting in real life.
I'm going to continue playing vidya while working out an hour every other day. It costs close to nothing to eat healthier...
There really is no reason you can't do everything you want. There are plenty of girls into video games too. My sister plays Minecraft with her boyfriend and the last girl I took on a date played some weird fortnite-like zombie game.
>female coworkers call me attractive >even some male coworkers call me attractive >ex called me attractive >girl I like treats me like a nobody >objectively hideous in pictures
I don't know who to trust anymore
Older women call me handsome and when my mom runs into an old friend at the store or to visit they tell her im handsome. However women in their 20s straight up ignore me.
>Be autistic Babyface attractive man >Normies go to bars, right? Let's try to be normal and do that, it's Friday night. >Go to bar, get groped by middle age drunk female right after walking in, get a drink >Start to get overstimulated, order food, eat at area away from main crowd. Stare into space trying to focus, probably look like a psycho >Group of girls say "he's so hot..." In my direction, making me even more nervous >Later make small talk while getting progressively more drunk. Normies seem to like me despite being awkward and uncomfortable >Eventually leave alone, go to fast food joint open late >Hot jailbait sits next to me, starts talking about what I did, wanting me to make a move >Don't ask for her number, go home knowing I could have fricked a 9/10 prime puss if I wasn't Asperger's.
Pure pain.
Unironically happens to me, the moment i open my mouth everything falls apart, that’s why i play the mysterious and quiet guy, making long pauses and practicing properly in my head what i am going to say. In reality i am stumble upon my words and mumble too much
Unironically happens to me, the moment i open my mouth everything falls apart, that’s why i play the mysterious and quiet guy, making long pauses and practicing properly in my head what i am going to say. In reality i am stumble upon my words and mumble too much
My bröthers. I can easily attract women by my mere presence and looks. But from the moment my brain come up with sentences and comebacks, to the words roll over my tongue, something horrible happens it all just come out wrong.
You want to talk pain? I hate when I express an insightful opinion and people say “shut up and dribble you jock” due to my height and athletic physique
am i ugly or good looking? i often catch women looking at me but when i turn to give them a smile they always look away. do they just notice my arms and then see my face and go 'nah'. god i would just love to frickin know where i stand
if they are looking you are winning, women just cant get caught because if they perceive a rejection its a literal existential crisis for them, remember the cultural paradigm is that any woman can have any man any time they want, so a rejection is a BIG deal to them
ok so im reading all these replies, let's say i catch a woman mirin
how the frick do i start a convo with her???
i never know what to say
"hello, may i please sit with you"
they're literally bred for mediocrity and agreeableness, and will not say no unless you're a sweaty fatass/dark-skinned and they're afraid of getting killed
Would you approach a stone cold 10/10 fox? Yeah I didn't think so. So why would a woman do the equivalent? You've clearly only met brad tier guys
it's easier in college but yes. the amount of friends in her proximity doesn't matter unless you insult the ugly ones / can't take the old "i have a boyfriend" lie gracefully
If it's just some random mire in public I'll never move on it, but if it's at a party, a date, or some other gathering and a chick says something in a flirtatious way, especially if it's concerning your body, just saying
"oh yeah, you like that?"
Will work like 90% of the time >t. chad-lite
idk that sounds weird, im never in a situation like that tho
10 months ago
Anonymous
>im black bro
wtfff did bbcposters lie to me?! how could this be happening?
10 months ago
Anonymous
theres like 0 white women where i live bro
(also i dont want them)
>it’s easier in college
Feel this. I remember in college I’d get drunk and approach basically any girl at parties/bars that so much as looked at me for a second. Now, just a year after graduating, I need to get drunk to even make eye contact with a girl, I don’t know what the frick happened. Maybe it’s because I don’t get drunk nearly as much, maybe it’s because I had a gf for the whole first year after graduating until recently so I never even thought about interacting with random girls.
This is a game-changer... I've noticed women seem to pay attention to me even when they never look at me directly. I chalked it up to being paranoid and anxious, but maybe they're literally paying attention to me without looking at me directly. Still crazy just to know that they have a wider field of vision. Man, I love women.
yes. its called a 'conversation' in english. a group of people might exchange thoughts and anecdotes for a period of time even though the number of participants doesnt increase.
walk up to her while holding eye contact and say “Hey how are you doing? I’m (name). Would you like to do some small talk?” and then talk small from there for a few minutes. Ask for her number then depart.
Alien impersonating a human detected >how about that water, fellow human? We drink it, then we expel it!
https://i.imgur.com/tDvVjzj.png
>Would you like to do some small talk?
Jesus frick dude lol
You’re supposed to do it all playful. I apologize that this does not come well over text. I’ll elucidate further: >identify eye contact >rotate head >lock eyes on her head >rotate body to her direction >stroll over at approximately 3 MPH while smiling >at two body lengths away do a slight wave >smile big and say “Hey would you like to do some small talk? You are (compliment) (mirthy laugh)” >Assess response and initiate banter >Converse for a minute or two >Ask for her number and depart
>would you like to x
hell no anon u dont wanna put the girl in the position to answer that question itll make it awkward for her
u wanna make it so she doesnt feel anxious and be approachable
like using ur surroundings commenting on it while makin some light joke or just saying something nice and friendly
she literally doesnt care about what u have to say ur job is to make her feel comfortable
This isn’t bad, what I do is approach them and say
“Sorry to bother you, I’ve only got a few minutes, but you are so gorgeous you literally stopped me in my tracks (smile, eye contact, laugh), can I get your number so I can get to know you later?”
If she says no or “I got a bf” just say “well he is a lucky guy” smile and walk away.
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You’re supposed to do it all playful. I apologize that this does not come well over text. I’ll elucidate further: >identify eye contact >rotate head >lock eyes on her head >rotate body to her direction >stroll over at approximately 3 MPH while smiling >at two body lengths away do a slight wave >smile big and say “Hey would you like to do some small talk? You are (compliment) (mirthy laugh)” >Assess response and initiate banter >Converse for a minute or two >Ask for her number and depart
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You’re supposed to do it all playful. I apologize that this does not come well over text. I’ll elucidate further: >identify eye contact >rotate head >lock eyes on her head >rotate body to her direction >stroll over at approximately 3 MPH while smiling >at two body lengths away do a slight wave >smile big and say “Hey would you like to do some small talk? You are (compliment) (mirthy laugh)” >Assess response and initiate banter >Converse for a minute or two >Ask for her number and depart
>Would you like to do some small talk? >Mirthy laugh
People call you a sperg but it's actually pretty fricking sad that people can't be upfront and honest the way autists are. It's very frustrating. I'm just trying to form a genuine connection but because I'm not wired for your stupid little normie word games I get mocked for the effort.
Manhattan is disconnected from humanity because he has the power to do and see anything, you are disconnected from humanity because you are moronic, do you see that disconnect at least?
10 months ago
Anonymous
>assumes that other anon thinks he's just like doctor plothole
that's some mighty weak theory of mind you got there anon, has your mother had you tested?
i mean, everyone is scum, which is the problem. im trying to give women the benefit of the doubt on not being moronic but, im gonna be honest, its getting harder and harder
If it's just some random mire in public I'll never move on it, but if it's at a party, a date, or some other gathering and a chick says something in a flirtatious way, especially if it's concerning your body, just saying
"oh yeah, you like that?"
Will work like 90% of the time >t. chad-lite
It depends where it happens since different settings means different conversation openers. Let’s say that you want to approach someone mireing you in a convenience store (don’t do this btw unless she clearly shows interest in you) you could probably just walk up to her and say “Hi, my name is anon” and then wait for her response. Then you have a couple of different options. For example, “weird question, but would you mind helping me shop for dinner? It feels like I eat the same things every day and my inspiration is gone” or “I couldn’t help but notice that you looked at me. Sorry, I’m bad with faces, have we met before?” This would probably put her in an awkward position though. I have a touch of autism (self diagnosed) but based on personal experience something like this would get your conversation started.
>be ugly and goofy looking >everywhere i go, someone or multiple people make fun of my appearance and laugh at me >women avoid me >things get extremely awkward around coworkers when i come around >people avoid looking at me and interacting with me at all costs >skinnyfat so people always treat me like a little b***h >cant make friends because i have the ugly guy stink that people can sense from miles away >etc
i actually hate my fricking life and i look like a goofy cartoon character. i get 0 respect despite being 6'2 and white. being ugly and goofy looking is a fricking nightmare and i have deep self hatred because of it
Every guy assumes you're going to steal their girl, you get random aggression from insecure guys, girls who are 7/10 or lower are unobtainable because you make them insecure, 8/10+ are the only women I can get, and they're becoming rarer and rarer with all these fat b***hes waddling around. It truly is suffering
>girls who are 7/10 or lower are unobtainable because you make them insecure, 8/10+ are the only women I can get
finally, someone who gets it. thought i was crazy for noticing this lol
it’s weird how to be like that. I was a virgin turned Chad body and all the women on the apps were suspicious of me. I was just trying to find love and not be a player. Then the hottest girl I match with is the one I get into my first relationship with lol
yeah, shit is fricked. suspicious indeed. i tested it on the apps too. Super liked a bunch of ~ok~ women who shared common interests and none of them swiped right even though i have plenty of more attractive matches. used my last Super like on a hot girl and she matched me back
she sees your profile sooner than likely not ever seeing it with having 9999+ likes and profiles she has to swipe through first. i don’t use it on women i actually want because of your reasons
agreed, except 7/10s and under are obtainable, just not worth it, because you'll have to constantly deal with their insecurity, insecurity coming from YOU, their partner, frick that noise
For some reason the moment I know a girl is interested in me, I start avoiding her completely, even if I was previously interested in her.
This one time in college I basically stalked some extremely pretty blonde girl who went to most of my classes on social media regularly, until suddenly one day she actually approaches me in the dining hall, sits right next to me and starts asking everything about me as if we're on a date, name hobbies being vowed by everything and giggling constantly even though I'm basically shitting bricks the entire time barely holding my spaghetti from spilling out.
After all that she gives me her snap (I don't even have snapchat) and tells me she would love to meet and talk again
From that point on I basically actively avoid her at all cost, never install snapchat or contact her and literally go the other direction the moment I see her in college, if she's in the same class I sit on the farthest chair possible.
And I reacted in a similar way whenever any girl shows interest in me. Today I'm a kissless virgin approaching my 30s. I have no idea what kind of repressed trauma made me this way, because as far as I remember I had a decent childhood/upbringing and never experienced any trauma of any kind. Oh well.
/end of blog post
I do the same. I have avoided 4 girls wich I previusly shown interest to.
I think that is a matter of pride. On one hand I have an enormous lust inside me wich makes me slobber for every girl I come across. But at the same time I have a really high self steem wich makes me enjoy knowing that certain girl is interested im me. Even bigger pleasure is to negate her that privilege and hopefully make her feel bad and hurt her
not my toilet, not my mirror. my cat shits in my bathroom sink and i dunno how to stop it beyond leaving water in it with the drain plugged. my personal toilet/mirror are clean
my entire point this whole thread. american women don't get their genitals mutilated at birth, nor are they exposed to the same relentless amount of emasculating propaganda, so they think every male is like the brit who railed the injun in that disney movie
americans cut babies dicks off after the radical israeli genital mutilation protocol called rabbinic circumcision
kinda cute no homo. let your hair down a bit more to cover your forehead and work on your skin.
thanks, forehead is high but even/intact, off the cuff pic. skin could be better but i don't care about a pimple or two, having gone thru highschool with brutal acne. it is ultimately a reflection of overall health so that means less drink
What the frick does circumcision have to do with it?
I'm starting to see why you don't get women.
10 months ago
Anonymous
haven't even tried in the last couple years tbh, but yes, i do have a 28DD ex-gf hitting me up now as we shitpost. i'm explaining why i won't spay my cat
10 months ago
Anonymous
Post gf now homosexual
10 months ago
Anonymous
28DD booba, 5'1", ca 2020
10 months ago
Anonymous
Wow, she’s a dime piece. Proved me wrong. Congrats on not being an incel, anon
10 months ago
Anonymous
she's fat now but that pic reflects my memory
10 months ago
Anonymous
>art >shandies >man haircut
ugh, those convos must have been rough.
10 months ago
Anonymous
She could lose some weight
I kid I kid, nice job on leaving her tho, she doesn't seem worth
10 months ago
Anonymous
Ugly nerdy type that lucked out on breasts
Also short hair NEVER looks better than long hair on a woman. never
but anon, i do get women. im just wondering if i should be aiming higher. most people asking probably look fine but have atrocious self confidence and social skills and are looking for more ways to bolster themselves instead of just making the obvious choice of jumping out he nest and falling flat on their face the first few times before they git gud at women.
have you ever talked to someone who wasn’t saying anything flirty but came off flirty? flirting doesn’t have to be verbal. it can be body language, mannerism, facial expression. touching, eye contact, etc.
yeah also this. I'm just kinda assuming that everyone ITT is not a complete sperglord. another good tip is to just go to bars and practice hitting on women. they unironically love it when they can give you feedback on how attractive or not you are, and you just tell them you're trying to practice flirting, and they don't feel in danger of being raper/murdered in the process (cuz you're obviously white, anon)
nah you can just hit on groups of girls at the bar or w/e. they travel in groups so you need to impress the lot. a simple "pickup line" like "may i please sit here" will suffice. you're mostly either guaranteed to get the "i have a boyfriend" line, or your target is so drunk it's actual date rape and her ugly friend is understandably concerned. just back off. women are their own worst enemy
I got this chicks info at a concert with a bad line, well I think it's good in a bad way >see a real hot chick smoking a cig outside >walk up to her and say >wanna hear a joke? >she nods >I have a no legged dog at home, every night I take him out for a drag >she laughs and I say >no seriously can I get a drag >she gives me a whole one and we talk a bit and exchange @s
Good times
all it takes m8. as long as you're not brown/threatening. just don't give off vibes of "this man ewill hut me and rape me to death if i refuse," that being a woman's primary objective, you're good. could've felt up a titty on the way home tbh
>Loose 40+lbs >Get proper clothes >proper haircut >Start working out >Significantly better looking than before.
YET ALL I GET IS MIRES FROM ugly women constantly.
Amazing, why is getting an average looking wife this hard?
because ugly women are willing to sacrifice their self-esteem a little to chase you if it means landing a stud. Hot women still want you to be a man and approach them first anon, they aren't going to openly check you out.
It's not, but you have existential crisis knowing how much pussy you lost because you thought you were the fat kid instead of the jacked sick c**t you are now.
>not attractive but can make girls laugh >have 10/10 qt in high school into me cause we sat next to each other and I entertained her >didn't even consider trying anything romantic cause I thought she was so out of my league it wouldn't have been possible >same thing happens in college except this time I was too much of a pussy to go for the kiss cause ive had 0 experience with women even though she was blatantly receptive and liked me
One of the few things keeping me going is that I know for a fact I can charm a girl since I've done it before. I just need to get the rest of my life in order i.e looksmaxx statusmaxx and wealthmaxx then I will fricking SLAY
>he hasn't seen the 10^50 posts on IST where 30 year old dudes have 10 different 18 year olds they frick on rotation
either way, what choice do I have? I'm in my early 20s and have nowhere to meet women except on dating apps, where I get 0 matches because I'm a 5/10 with shitty photos. It's either self improov for 5 years or permanent inceldom
>"I'll do it tomorrow"
I know this feel to a painful degree but I can also tell you that it's a trap. I did this and regretted it. Start from what you have now. Look around and take the opportunities you have now. You gotta start somewhere bro don't make my mistake
> Look around and take the opportunities you have now
as of now, I have none.
>not attractive but can make girls laugh >have 10/10 qt in high school into me cause we sat next to each other and I entertained her >didn't even consider trying anything romantic cause I thought she was so out of my league it wouldn't have been possible >same thing happens in college except this time I was too much of a pussy to go for the kiss cause ive had 0 experience with women even though she was blatantly receptive and liked me
One of the few things keeping me going is that I know for a fact I can charm a girl since I've done it before. I just need to get the rest of my life in order i.e looksmaxx statusmaxx and wealthmaxx then I will fricking SLAY
you don't need to be some 10/10 stud to hit on girls at bars. What you have is probably more than enough. You just have to be clean, put together, and not ugly.
If you can make them laugh and have an engaging convo, you can do it
t. just got out of college and witnessed some of my ugly ass friends end up dating models. Because they were fun.
>witnessed some of my ugly ass friends end up dating models. Because they were fun.
There's a 99% chance that in this case, "fun" means "he takes me on expensive dates" or "he gives me free coke every time we hang out". Ugly men are basically nonexistent in a beautiful woman's eyes unless they have something valuable to offer.
In the case with my friends, they were fun, hosted and organized parties, planned fun things to do on the weekends, pregames at their place, etc. No coke habit
These groups of girls get pulled into our friend group because one of their friends is dating one of our guys. Girls show out enough, you mingle and have fun with them enough, bam you have a layup of set and setting to engage a relationship
There totally are beautiful women out there who aren't as vapid or materialistic as you'd like to think. Being beautiful and being a genuine person aren't mutually exclusive. In fact, that's what most of this board likes to believe in themselves.
Most of this board has probably never attempted to be engage in IRL social activities and so has never truly had a good crew of friends. Probably never played sports, never went to prom, never joined a frat, never been invited to go boating on the weekends, go to concerts, go golfing etc. It all trickles down.
And therefore the only girls they come across are random tinder accounts and b***hes at clubs. Strikes them as a complete mystery because they've hardly ever coexisted and had organic friendships with normal women. Lmao
10 months ago
Anonymous
My problem is that I dislike most people and don't give a shit about what they have to say. And I spent most of my formative years being talked over so I avoid speaking up in a lot of situations. I find a rare friend whose company I really enjoy, then they get tired of me and I'm back lonely again.
10 months ago
Anonymous
It's normal to dislike a lot of people. I just moved and have been trying to make new friends. I'll always catch myself zoning out when people are talking to me because I think I'll never want to actually be their friend and they suck. In that way I am an butthole.
But friendships also take consistency and time to grow. I have many a friends who I originally thought were too stupid, goofy, ugly, uninspired to become full time friends with. Just gotta learn to bear that burden
10 months ago
Anonymous
it is sooo hard to tell which people are worth putting time in. its honestly harder than dating just finding platonic friends you want to spend time with
>"I'll do it tomorrow"
I know this feel to a painful degree but I can also tell you that it's a trap. I did this and regretted it. Start from what you have now. Look around and take the opportunities you have now. You gotta start somewhere bro don't make my mistake
>think I'm attractive but probably slightly above average and rapidly hitting a wall >schizo thoughts about how all the women in the gym are mixing >make eye contact with one and they immediately look away
It's not easy fellas
I like to look at myself in the mirror
I've had girls tell me that they crushed on me
I generally know when I can melt a lower tier girl by approaching her and talking to her at a bar
Why THE FRICK does it seem that the ammount of mires is negatively correlated with how pretty the girl is? It makes no fricking sense. Ugly girls have the same taste as hot ones, right?
This thread is pure cope
If you really were attractive, you would get laid, period
Women would find a way to overcome your awkwardness, and take initiative
The only thing that sucks about it is that sometimes people get the wrong idea and then they think you are interested in them just because you are talking to them or you made eye contact.
For example, tried chatting up this girl in line at an anime convention and she just spilled her spaghetti like she couldn't believe I was talking to her.
Same with dudes. Don't know if it's because I live in a coastal state or there are more bi/gay dudes out there that I just never knew about but I've lost count of the times where a normal looking dude started giving me that look just cause I made eye contact. Had a few even follow me into the mensroom lmao.
>at work >reading during lunch break >girl sits across from me, we work in the same department. >"hey" >"uhhh, hey" >put down book >small talk happens, but conversation never gets off the ground >think it would be rude to start reading again. >rest chin on hand, turn body slightly away from girl >really wanted to pick up reading where I left off. >look at the lunch room clock until my lunch break is over
I don't know why she would bother to come up to me, I wish she hadn't so that I never had to think about this interaction multiple times a month. I want to be left alone.
It can be annoying but at the same time being lean/fit and handsome gives me most of my self confidence. I feel like a Chad loser, so its nice to get stared at by a busty petite teen at work. I feel sad for guys that never get that
>be attractive >frick up >teehee he's so cute and goofy >be ugly >frick up >omg this incel is so useless, why don't he just kill himself already
Yeah, being attractive is truly exhausting.
>be attractive >never frick up >girls are immediately attracted to how good and competent you look, and constantly flocks to you >be ugly >never frick up >girls are still repelled because being ugly is a turn off no matter how competent you are, you don't look "manly" and "confident" enough
This game can be played indefinitely. And the ugly one always loses.
Being attractive gives you more lives in this situation, so to speak. Yeah, if you can charm the people around you, you can coast on that for a while. Eventually though, people are going to start getting wise to your tricks and get fed up with picking up after you.
omg truee i can relate as well (because i am attractive as you are). its like attractive women always expect something from you, some move and if you dont do it they are disappointed and get low energy
Yeah you are actually stupid. You must be like 18, maybe, have no job or prospects. If you think its a good life move to let people you know irl that you post here, you’re just stupid and thats all there is to it
no seriously, if someone finds out you post on IST, youre automatically branded a creep. just like people that watch anime (or at least used to, it seems like thats gotten around). why would you put that unnecessary hurt on yourself. have you noticed that literally no one ever mentions this place irl and yet, at the same time, theyll happily mention instagram, twitter, facebook, reddit, snapchat, w/e? its because at best if you 'are on IST' youre labeled a weirdo and at worst a right wing incel terrorist. you actually need to get some life experience if you think posting shit online cant have real consequences.
btw, you dont need to spoiler yourself Black person. we arent on reddit.
10 months ago
Anonymous
all my friends (skinny girls and some twinks) know i browse IST daily and they do call me a creep but they still love me
10 months ago
Anonymous
I tell people I browse fit only and help people with actual fitness advice and make fun of the other idiots who think they can blend in
10 months ago
Anonymous
Same but I tell people I come to fit exclusively to use the n(igger) word every post and to make race bait threads
10 months ago
Anonymous
Wow very le based anon I wish I were brave like you and very based also as well
10 months ago
Anonymous
I believe in you anon, one day you'll be as based (racist) and redpilled (conservative) as me!
10 months ago
Anonymous
look all i know is i work in hyper liberal tech and i never want to have the discussion with hr or my supervisor about how i really dont think its a big deal that people use the Black person word and how they actually make some good points about the troony conspiracy and how diversity is overrated and how slava ukraiknee is the most moronic manufactured social cause since covid or the war on drugs. not spiking my career by posting any identifying info about myself.
The flipside though is why *should* he post it? Because you asked him to?
Do you really think you're that important? You're nameless faceless text on a screen.
I've recently lost a lot of weight and started dressing better. And yeah, having women start to flirt with me is pretty jarring. And also funny, because women have terrible game. I was at a concert once and this one girl kept turning around and asking if I was blowing in her ear while smiling. I was really confused because I wasn't standing that close to her at all, but then she asked me if I wanted her number after a while. She wasn't attractive to me, so I lied that I had a gf, but it was still flattering and a big change for me.
Shamelessly reposting a story from a mire thread I posted in recently, this type of shit happens to you if you're decently attractive fairly often, I'd say I'm a 7 if I put some effort in my appearance, a 6 otherwise. >friend invites me out to a pool party >it's hot so I say yes >turns out it's this hotel pool that one of her friends is renting out for some company event >cheap drinks which is a plus >get drunk and swim >bunch of other people are showing up that I have never met, including this large gaggle of girls >only like one is actually hot >pretty sure the friend I came with said something about me to them because eventually a few start to try to interact with me >normally I love when she does this but I am just not interested, not really attracted to any of them and I'm also starting to see someone who isn't there >whatever I can still dance >one of the girls makes a few mentions of my dance moves and kinda show her how to do some of them >she buzzes around me all night tries to touch my muscles when she can, usual stuff, mainly my back though, which I found odd, they usually go for the arms >night goes on and I'm closing out my tab, same girl I was dancing with comes up next to me >she asks what I'm doing after >REALLY not interested but I try to let her down easy >"what are you implying?" I ask >she says I should go over to her place >I tell her that's probably not a good idea, I'm going through some stuff and I'm more broken than my personality shows >she literally says "you seems like a great guy, and I think I could fix you" >internally kek and the alcohol starts to shine through >reply "I think prettier girls than you have tried" >she has no idea what to say, bar tender hands me the check, I sign then find my friend >me and her leave, laugh about it on the way home >get fricked prostitute lmao
I still don't know if it was a joke or not since people would frick with me occasionally, but in my one of my high school classes a girl asked me if I wanted to go to prom with her from halfway across the class and I instantly and firmly said "No".
I'm ugly as frick and going bald. But I found an insanely insecure girl with a CRAZY ass on her. Got her pregnant twice and her breasts blew up to G size. Now I have 2 blonde hair blue eyed boys and a woman that is pure sex.
> be me > 22 male > walking through campus with headphones on > qt3.14 is on other side of path coming towards me > she looks at me, smiles > she adjusts her path to step in front of me while smiling at me > i focus on the path ahead and adjust my path to avoid hitting her > she adjusts her trajectory again > shes now right in front of me smilling and gestures for me to take off my headphones > tells me she's new to campus and is struggling to find building 32 > i give her directions > "I'm not good with directions, would you mind walking me there?" > she smiles at me again > i apologise, tell her she will have to find someone else to walk her there > put headphones back on > step around her > walk off and don't look back
About 30 minutes after this interaction I replay the situation and realise all the signals of interest were there, think about how I should have acted but everytime it happens again the spaghetti just falls out of my pockets. Interactions like this happen a couple times a week and I'm sick of it. My friends constantly say things like "I can't believe you don't have a girlfriend". People are amazed to learn I have almost no female friends. I've had strangers tell me I should consider modelling, my barber last month offered me money to come in for a photoshoot for a men's magazine which I declined. My friends jokingly call me Adonis every time I take my shirt off. I've never had a girlfriend and have no clue how to interact with women and societies expections on me to just magically be good at women just makes me hate myself because I feel like I've let everyone down. I just want to be normal so people don't hold me to such high standards. I don't think I'm that attractive and lack confidence but everyone seems to tell me otherwise. > picrel recent photo I posted on photofeeler to get anonymous rating to try and boost my confidence
Please get off this website and start building a model portfolio.
Imagine looking back on wasting the peak of your good looks by inadvertently avoiding women and posting on IST.
But why? Male modelling isn't that profitable of a career and honestly I prefer my privacy, it's not a career I want and would also force me to move out of home town. I paid good money to get a degree in civil engineering and I'm putting it to good use to help my local community.
I think modelling would help you get out of your shell. But hey honestly you seem to know what you want. I wish you the best anon cause you sound like a genuinely good guy
My last one I did of me in a tanktop kek, the more skin I show the lest smart and trustworthy I become, but my attractiveness stays the same, hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Being ugly is infinitely worse, wtf are you on? People are disgusting with your very existence and detest you as soon as you enter their vision, it’s instant and evolution.
Even if you prefer being alone like most people on this site, it’s still painful even just going outside because you’ll ruin other people’s days
Actually I take that back, OP didn’t say anything about being attractive as worse than being ugly. It makes sense that being attractive is exhausting because interacting with people is exhausting and people will inevitably interact with attractive people more
>be attractive
>women have literally stared at me as I've walked by
>have anxiety
>spill spaghetti every time
Live it's suffaring. :'(
I hope you both get raped by a pack of Black folk;)
i was raped by a white woman does that count?
i feel you i'm just too autistic all i think about is myself
i'm lucky that i'm so attractive women approach me
#
>i was raped by a white woman does that count?
details on how tf woman raped you ty
I was sexually assaulted by a Filipina. They're the blacks of Asians. Does that count?
This is actually true.
And every mistake you make becomes magnified since they pay too much attention to you.
it's other way around, if you are attractive enough, you can get away with anything
Dude on the right just needs contact lenses and a sterner expression.
Pic-related a thousand years in ms paint.
This happened to me, but it happened in front of cousins and uncles so it was even more humiliating
Happened to me back in college but with the same girl on 4 separate occasions throughout the year. Every time she stared at me to get my attention i just avoided eye contact and carried on walking as if she didn’t exist even though we would’ve been 1 metre apart when walking past each other in a narrow corridor. Every time a girl has shown interest in me i just ignore them because of my anxiety and borderline autism.
Went to a costume party the other day and got spanked by a 9/10. Was not expecting it tbh, but these interactions are starting to happen more often every time I go out. So far this is the first one to go to this far tho.
>costume party
>middle of summer
That was the gimmick, a lot of people dressed up actually and I regret not doing it since it looked very fun.
It was hot as frick though, I was sweating with a short sleeve shirt, I can only imagine how the people in full costumes felt.
no it isn’t, it literally does not matter, women are passive creatures and will ignore you if you ignore them
>women are passive creatures and will ignore you if you ignore them
You're definitely ugly or have never befriended a Chad
nah I just don’t care to read other people out in public, seems unreliable and you just see what you want to see. Women do compliment me but I just kind of ignore them
>Women do compliment me but I just kind of ignore them
You don't care to read other people IRL but you want the (you)a in an anonymous board
dating as a conventionally attractive person is actually really hard because you attract superficial people, which is why I ignore them
sure you can imagine whatever you want about me, that’s part of what I mean, it’s so unreliable. People can see a woman staring and will either think she’s miring or judging with no objective evidence either way
the only mires i accept is compliments and being approached. everything else is unreliable and delusions to feel good about yourself
Women complimenting you doesn't mean they want to frick. They might just be trying to be nice. Women at my work compliment me all the time but its probably out of politeness and to make small talk because we're forced to work with each other.
>Comparing coworkers compliments to random women in the streets
Even with that example you showed how moronic you are
There are three types of men: (1) men that women ignore. (2) men that women respond to if they make the first move. (3) men that have women make moves on them.
The vast majority of men are types (1) and (2). They know not the life of type (3). As a type (2), men who are type (3) but don’t act on it absolutely astound me.
If women are approaching you, you can be choosy. If you're 1 or 2, you have to take what you can get
taking what you can get is inherently choosy unless you just grab the first thing that comes your way and hold on with a vicelike grip. terrible idea btw
i said my my back was itchy and 2 of my female coworkers raced to scratch it for me first and i didnt even ask them to it was just a passive comment i made
type (3) is based af
I've been 2 and 3, it just depends on the caliber of the woman and the circumstances that you're both in
Like the same woman might either wait for you to make the first move or jump on your dick depending on wether you're in like and office or a club
You're either 3 or you're not, you delusional incel
Lmao keep seething bro
i am type 3
i wished they would leave me fricking alone
You cant talk to him like that, he got quads
Would you approach a stone cold 10/10 fox? Yeah I didn't think so. So why would a woman do the equivalent? You've clearly only met brad tier guys
ive literally never see any and when i do i get stunlocked. like it doesnt even register to think anything other than 'holy shit, that person is really good looking'
>Would you approach a stone cold 10/10 fox
If she was staring, yes
liquid confidence
idk about you but alcohol makes me even more socially withdrawn. i have never understood the liquid confidence meme.
>Would you approach a stone cold 10/10 fox?
Absolutely! Why woulnd't I?
>no it isn’t, it literally does not matter, women are passive creatures and will ignore you if you ignore them
you've never had studly friends. women will stop them in teh street and talk to them as long as they can and/or take a pictures with them
I have a studly friend. Women literally flock around him.
this is blatantly not true
ive spend 32 years on this earth walking outside in public, at bars, clubs, cities, shopping malls and i have never ever seen this happen even once, or anything remotely close to it
you fricking liar
sorry but not true. If you’re really attractive you will be approached by women.
I’m semi attractive so I have to make an effort. But I have this “chad” friend I hang out with. There have been instances where we’re at a bar or club and women come out of nowhere to talk to him and ask to dance. Times we were eating out and waiting in line to get food and women come over to chat him up. One time two gorgeous women came to him at once, they said they were new to the city and wanted him to show them around. They had their numbers written down for him and everything. They didn’t bat an eye at me.
Unless you’re *really* attractive you know what it is like to be attractive to women. If you’re anything less, you’re sitting in the peanut gallery.
first off, are you american? because this shit only happens in america
for some reason americans are disgustingly straight forward and extroverted towards strangers
I visited america once and random people would just start having conversations with me as if we were lifelong friends. weird af
yes. american.
other countries usually shit on americans for being too closed off to talking to strangers. Where are you from?
scandinavia, aka the most introverted and closed off group of people 🙂
>scandinavia
autism capital of the world
makes sense
frick I need to get out of north west europe
tell me about it, I'm in swamp germany
I've only ever heard about Northern Europe being introverted, But it makes no sense to me. In America one of the nicest regions is the upper Midwest which is usually attributed to the High concentration of Scandinavian and German diaspora there, is the Introverted nature in Europe a recent phenomenon?
I dont know. Generally introversion correlates with high iq and vice versa
pretty sure thats bullshit. im introverted and a total moron
>I visited america once and random people would just start having conversations with me as if we were lifelong friends. weird af
I am not american but I don't get this tbh,
What is wrong with you mentally, to be hostile to making small talk with strangers ? Do you live in some 3rd world unsafe shithole ?
small talk with strangers is objectively a waste of breath and i dont know why americans love doing it
it must be some virtue signalling thing, i know americans love that shit
>waste of breath
Yeah I'm sure you need to save yours for some real important shit you cringe Black person
look how angry you are. is this what happens when you feel obliged to be nice to every stranger you meet and ask them about their entire lifestory?
get a grip you cuck and stand up for yourself
>look how angry you are. is this what happens when you feel obliged to be nice
Hmm
>Do you live in some 3rd world unsafe shithole ?
He's probably some autistic Swede, so yes. Since they happily import the 3rd world shitholes in.
"fricking americans and their to be friendly and empathetic towards strangers, they must have low iq."
I fricking hate scandinavians bro. Always some scrawny jaded autist
yeah why is their culture just autism? even their food is fricking autistic. is it the lack of sunlight?
You’re ugly. I have women flirt with me all the time.
>expected to be some kind of sex god
>just a guy who's trying to undo the israeli disney brainwashing
time to start more or less just molesting women in public
>he thinks not being fat is exhausting now
wait till the trucks stop coming in and the fatty confederacy issues a dinner fatwa on you
Now imagine how exhausting it is to not be.
>Put zero effort into looks
>Don't get bothered by annoying b***hes
>Feel comfortable 24/7
>Play Vidya instead of looksmaxxing
>Save money by avoiding expensive fashion
>Shave once every few weeks
>Never cut hair or style hair
Sounds relaxing and liberating 2bqh
based gonna die lonely poster
you will regret it sooner or later and it will be way too late to change it
In my late 30s. Don't regret it yet. When will I regret it?
i dont know. maybe your aspergers is just that strong, good for you i guess
Kek my sister is constantly on my ass for being single. I lean into it because idgaf. For example
>Asks why I'm still single and nearly 40
>Ask her why she's so concerned about me not having sex
>"It's not normal"
>Tell her if she's so concerned she can put out
>She's grossed out (I know it's a good way to get her to stop for a while)
>Tell her she can get a friend to put out
>She reminds me last time she tried, I pissed off her friend so badly they stopped being friends
>Apparently she told my sister "why would you think I was compatible with that butthole?"
>My butthole statement was, as date coming to close:
>"So we fricking or nah?"
>Her face was blank, she said "ew, no"
Lel. Would do again. I don't want to deal with those b***hes.
>"So we fricking or nah?"
I say a variation of this on like half of my first dates, about half of those times it works, the other half they tell me "next time"
I remember the first date I went on after my divorce, so maybe first real date in thirteen years, using the internet for the first time for anything like that
>Girl arrives, fatter than pictures, totally unattractive
>Decide this could be a fun learning opportunity
>Asked her about her worst dates
>Defended every guy she complained about and she kept blushing and getting nervous
>"This guy had a hole in his shirt like he didn't even care"
>Tug on my shirt and show a hole on the back and say he must have cats, I have cats too
>One guy wouldn't stop talking about his sister
>I wish I was that close with my family
>Rinse repeat
>She doesn't drink so I said I'd order one for her and drink it too
>After date walk her to her car and say "so what did you think"
>She goes you can't say that!
>I said do you think I'm hot, do you want to keep seeing me
>Nervous and blushing says of course
>We make out then drive to her place where I make her watch Little Nicky because I had a craving to watch it
>Leave after because I'm shit faced and bored with this game
>She messages me a week later complaining that I ghosted her
Man dating was weird, I'm getting married again now but I got good because I used every date as a learning opportunity. At one point was averaging three dates a week that I spaced out in case I slept over with one
Damn you mormorns have it so good
I used to think acting like this was cool. Being a disagreeable butthole and making people pissed. Then I realised I was just an insecure prideful dickhead the whole time . It's a defense mechanism
>It's a defense mechanism
You say that like defense mechanisms are bad. Of course it's a defense mechanisms. It defends me from getting entrapped in normalcy.
i was 16 at the time btw
>>"So we fricking or nah?"
>>Her face was blank, she said "ew, no"
This reads like something out of that alpha destiny pasta.
Kek, this homie out here lemonadeposting in real life.
I'm going to continue playing vidya while working out an hour every other day. It costs close to nothing to eat healthier...
There really is no reason you can't do everything you want. There are plenty of girls into video games too. My sister plays Minecraft with her boyfriend and the last girl I took on a date played some weird fortnite-like zombie game.
>female coworkers call me attractive
>even some male coworkers call me attractive
>ex called me attractive
>girl I like treats me like a nobody
>objectively hideous in pictures
I don't know who to trust anymore
>1st dibs on all the hottest girls throughout life
>frick it up almost every single time
>not photogenic
meh
Older women call me handsome and when my mom runs into an old friend at the store or to visit they tell her im handsome. However women in their 20s straight up ignore me.
trust us, post pic
>Be autistic Babyface attractive man
>Normies go to bars, right? Let's try to be normal and do that, it's Friday night.
>Go to bar, get groped by middle age drunk female right after walking in, get a drink
>Start to get overstimulated, order food, eat at area away from main crowd. Stare into space trying to focus, probably look like a psycho
>Group of girls say "he's so hot..." In my direction, making me even more nervous
>Later make small talk while getting progressively more drunk. Normies seem to like me despite being awkward and uncomfortable
>Eventually leave alone, go to fast food joint open late
>Hot jailbait sits next to me, starts talking about what I did, wanting me to make a move
>Don't ask for her number, go home knowing I could have fricked a 9/10 prime puss if I wasn't Asperger's.
Pure pain.
if you stopped making up stories online you might have better luck irl
keeps me up at night
Unironically happens to me, the moment i open my mouth everything falls apart, that’s why i play the mysterious and quiet guy, making long pauses and practicing properly in my head what i am going to say. In reality i am stumble upon my words and mumble too much
My bröthers. I can easily attract women by my mere presence and looks. But from the moment my brain come up with sentences and comebacks, to the words roll over my tongue, something horrible happens it all just come out wrong.
haha based I had the same thing with a hot cutie pie in a college town but I wasn't that attractive (I have always had problems with my self-esteem)
stfu chadlet, you will never know the pains of being a skinnyfat balding manchild with a tiny penis. frick you homosexual.
>manchild
This supercedes everything else you've said, amigo.
You want to talk pain? I hate when I express an insightful opinion and people say “shut up and dribble you jock” due to my height and athletic physique
I just want someone who loves me for me
do you love you for you?
I do
stop that immediately
You may now kiss the bride (you).
am i ugly or good looking? i often catch women looking at me but when i turn to give them a smile they always look away. do they just notice my arms and then see my face and go 'nah'. god i would just love to frickin know where i stand
if they are looking you are winning, women just cant get caught because if they perceive a rejection its a literal existential crisis for them, remember the cultural paradigm is that any woman can have any man any time they want, so a rejection is a BIG deal to them
if you catch a woman mirin, she wanted you to catch her. women have a wider peripheral vision than men
oh, kinda like how prey animals have their eyes on the side of their head, right?
yes
"hello, may i please sit with you"
they're literally bred for mediocrity and agreeableness, and will not say no unless you're a sweaty fatass/dark-skinned and they're afraid of getting killed
it's easier in college but yes. the amount of friends in her proximity doesn't matter unless you insult the ugly ones / can't take the old "i have a boyfriend" lie gracefully
>dark-skinned
im black bro wtf
>picrel
idk that sounds weird, im never in a situation like that tho
>im black bro
wtfff did bbcposters lie to me?! how could this be happening?
theres like 0 white women where i live bro
(also i dont want them)
Good stay that way, respect gained.
>it’s easier in college
Feel this. I remember in college I’d get drunk and approach basically any girl at parties/bars that so much as looked at me for a second. Now, just a year after graduating, I need to get drunk to even make eye contact with a girl, I don’t know what the frick happened. Maybe it’s because I don’t get drunk nearly as much, maybe it’s because I had a gf for the whole first year after graduating until recently so I never even thought about interacting with random girls.
Wild. I was going to call bullshit but I fact-checked myself before I, in fact, wrecked myself
yeah there was some study done that determined women check out men more often than men check out women. they’re just more sneaky about it
>we are living with sentient security cameras
chilling
This is a game-changer... I've noticed women seem to pay attention to me even when they never look at me directly. I chalked it up to being paranoid and anxious, but maybe they're literally paying attention to me without looking at me directly. Still crazy just to know that they have a wider field of vision. Man, I love women.
Replies are going up but the number of posters is staying the same
im lurking since I relate to some anons but im also down bad
yes. its called a 'conversation' in english. a group of people might exchange thoughts and anecdotes for a period of time even though the number of participants doesnt increase.
ok so im reading all these replies, let's say i catch a woman mirin
how the frick do i start a convo with her???
i never know what to say
you give em one of these and say
>i see you mirin! get over here!
works every time. i assume
walk up to her while holding eye contact and say “Hey how are you doing? I’m (name). Would you like to do some small talk?” and then talk small from there for a few minutes. Ask for her number then depart.
>Would you like to do some small talk?
thats not gna work bro
hands that never felt the touch of a woman typed this
You’re supposed to do it all playful. I apologize that this does not come well over text. I’ll elucidate further:
>identify eye contact
>rotate head
>lock eyes on her head
>rotate body to her direction
>stroll over at approximately 3 MPH while smiling
>at two body lengths away do a slight wave
>smile big and say “Hey would you like to do some small talk? You are (compliment) (mirthy laugh)”
>Assess response and initiate banter
>Converse for a minute or two
>Ask for her number and depart
>3mph
>a brisk walk
may as well make it 4mph and just barrel through anything standing between you and the target.
autism
>would you like to x
hell no anon u dont wanna put the girl in the position to answer that question itll make it awkward for her
u wanna make it so she doesnt feel anxious and be approachable
like using ur surroundings commenting on it while makin some light joke or just saying something nice and friendly
she literally doesnt care about what u have to say ur job is to make her feel comfortable
Hmmm okay. Next time I will ask her if she’s comfortable.
stupid Black person
Why would I say that to a woman? I’m pretty sure that wouldn’t work
You'll are a funny Guy. anon.
This isn’t bad, what I do is approach them and say
“Sorry to bother you, I’ve only got a few minutes, but you are so gorgeous you literally stopped me in my tracks (smile, eye contact, laugh), can I get your number so I can get to know you later?”
If she says no or “I got a bf” just say “well he is a lucky guy” smile and walk away.
Alien impersonating a human detected
>how about that water, fellow human? We drink it, then we expel it!
>Would you like to do some small talk?
Jesus frick dude lol
>would you like to do some small talk?
"Eat the eggs" energy
Put me in the screencap
I haven’t keked this hard in a while
10/10
Why did i imagine finger guns being used after you would say your name
>Would you like to do some small talk?
>Mirthy laugh
I’m fricking crying from laughter, never change IST
>would you like some small talk?
tum sachamuch mandabuddhi ho
krpaya kabhee bhee mahilaon se sampark na karen
sir have a bad day sir
>Would you like to do some small talk?
based autist
>would you like to do some small talk?
People call you a sperg but it's actually pretty fricking sad that people can't be upfront and honest the way autists are. It's very frustrating. I'm just trying to form a genuine connection but because I'm not wired for your stupid little normie word games I get mocked for the effort.
>the moron thinks he's like a character who has god like powers
sad
>the moron doesn't get that the sperg probably identifies with the disconnect from normie humanity
sad
Manhattan is disconnected from humanity because he has the power to do and see anything, you are disconnected from humanity because you are moronic, do you see that disconnect at least?
>assumes that other anon thinks he's just like doctor plothole
that's some mighty weak theory of mind you got there anon, has your mother had you tested?
Yeah I got a 31 on the ACT
and then youre honest and theyre suspicious of your honesty. happened to me recently to a girl im fricking. her exact words: "i dont trust you".
>her exact words: "i dont trust you".
>But let's get in to bed and I'll be as vulnerable as possible with you
Women are such moronic scum
i mean, everyone is scum, which is the problem. im trying to give women the benefit of the doubt on not being moronic but, im gonna be honest, its getting harder and harder
>is ok bb i dont mind you making up your own drama as long as I get that pussy on tap
>Would you like to do some small talk?
If it's just some random mire in public I'll never move on it, but if it's at a party, a date, or some other gathering and a chick says something in a flirtatious way, especially if it's concerning your body, just saying
"oh yeah, you like that?"
Will work like 90% of the time
>t. chad-lite
“oh yeah, would you like to do some small talk?” is my go-to
It depends where it happens since different settings means different conversation openers. Let’s say that you want to approach someone mireing you in a convenience store (don’t do this btw unless she clearly shows interest in you) you could probably just walk up to her and say “Hi, my name is anon” and then wait for her response. Then you have a couple of different options. For example, “weird question, but would you mind helping me shop for dinner? It feels like I eat the same things every day and my inspiration is gone” or “I couldn’t help but notice that you looked at me. Sorry, I’m bad with faces, have we met before?” This would probably put her in an awkward position though. I have a touch of autism (self diagnosed) but based on personal experience something like this would get your conversation started.
>It feels like I eat the same things every day
Maybe don't advertise that you're autistic in your second sentence
I realized that both eating the same things and being bad with faces are autistic traits. Thanks for confirming my self diagnosis anon.
Not that you'd know.
>be ugly and goofy looking
>everywhere i go, someone or multiple people make fun of my appearance and laugh at me
>women avoid me
>things get extremely awkward around coworkers when i come around
>people avoid looking at me and interacting with me at all costs
>skinnyfat so people always treat me like a little b***h
>cant make friends because i have the ugly guy stink that people can sense from miles away
>etc
i actually hate my fricking life and i look like a goofy cartoon character. i get 0 respect despite being 6'2 and white. being ugly and goofy looking is a fricking nightmare and i have deep self hatred because of it
I have a friend in the exact same situation but he's 6'4
he has marfans and cant even jump 3 inches off the ground
if you read this
you need to
-surgery max, chin/jaw stuff
-steroid max
-beard max
you still have a chance at making a life fren, its gonna take a lot of willpower
I welcome female sexual harassment
Every guy assumes you're going to steal their girl, you get random aggression from insecure guys, girls who are 7/10 or lower are unobtainable because you make them insecure, 8/10+ are the only women I can get, and they're becoming rarer and rarer with all these fat b***hes waddling around. It truly is suffering
>girls who are 7/10 or lower are unobtainable because you make them insecure, 8/10+ are the only women I can get
finally, someone who gets it. thought i was crazy for noticing this lol
it’s weird how to be like that. I was a virgin turned Chad body and all the women on the apps were suspicious of me. I was just trying to find love and not be a player. Then the hottest girl I match with is the one I get into my first relationship with lol
yeah, shit is fricked. suspicious indeed. i tested it on the apps too. Super liked a bunch of ~ok~ women who shared common interests and none of them swiped right even though i have plenty of more attractive matches. used my last Super like on a hot girl and she matched me back
do super likes actually do anything? i always figured you look like a moron doing that.
she sees your profile sooner than likely not ever seeing it with having 9999+ likes and profiles she has to swipe through first. i don’t use it on women i actually want because of your reasons
agreed, except 7/10s and under are obtainable, just not worth it, because you'll have to constantly deal with their insecurity, insecurity coming from YOU, their partner, frick that noise
im not european, sorry. also, not posting face on IST.
For some reason the moment I know a girl is interested in me, I start avoiding her completely, even if I was previously interested in her.
This one time in college I basically stalked some extremely pretty blonde girl who went to most of my classes on social media regularly, until suddenly one day she actually approaches me in the dining hall, sits right next to me and starts asking everything about me as if we're on a date, name hobbies being vowed by everything and giggling constantly even though I'm basically shitting bricks the entire time barely holding my spaghetti from spilling out.
After all that she gives me her snap (I don't even have snapchat) and tells me she would love to meet and talk again
From that point on I basically actively avoid her at all cost, never install snapchat or contact her and literally go the other direction the moment I see her in college, if she's in the same class I sit on the farthest chair possible.
And I reacted in a similar way whenever any girl shows interest in me. Today I'm a kissless virgin approaching my 30s. I have no idea what kind of repressed trauma made me this way, because as far as I remember I had a decent childhood/upbringing and never experienced any trauma of any kind. Oh well.
/end of blog post
you have avoidant personality disorder because of your shitty parents
I do the same. I have avoided 4 girls wich I previusly shown interest to.
I think that is a matter of pride. On one hand I have an enormous lust inside me wich makes me slobber for every girl I come across. But at the same time I have a really high self steem wich makes me enjoy knowing that certain girl is interested im me. Even bigger pleasure is to negate her that privilege and hopefully make her feel bad and hurt her
okay i'll bite
this isnt you but flush your god damn toilet and clean your mirror before you take a pic in your bathroom you gremlins
not my toilet, not my mirror. my cat shits in my bathroom sink and i dunno how to stop it beyond leaving water in it with the drain plugged. my personal toilet/mirror are clean
but yes it is me in my family's bathroom, whose cleanliness is not my responsibility
you are still standing next to a bowl of your own piss. also you should get rid of the cat. theyre shitters.
not my piss
You need to workout, go dermatologist for acne and you'll be ok.
>You need to workout
yes
>go dermatologist for acne
did accutane, it's fine now
kinda cute no homo. let your hair down a bit more to cover your forehead and work on your skin.
Kek those 14 year old girl tier arms. C'mon man it's a fitness forum at least workout a few months before posting
flush your toilet, dude
I am barely human.
So you're human.
these are the people telling you how to lift LMAO
Don't flatter yourself
homie you look like the male version of my gf but with the same muscle mass
Fricking dyels
Don't listen to them, if it's yellow let it mellow
Your favorite bodybuilder is Mike mentzer right?
everybody ignores me, not just women. its like a superpower
>the hospitals, schools and libraries in question
Why you post pics from Philadelphia?
its funny how many on IST think they're attractive but still dont get women somehow
>attractive enough to get attention
>too awkward to do anything with it
my entire point this whole thread. american women don't get their genitals mutilated at birth, nor are they exposed to the same relentless amount of emasculating propaganda, so they think every male is like the brit who railed the injun in that disney movie
... What?
americans cut babies dicks off after the radical israeli genital mutilation protocol called rabbinic circumcision
thanks, forehead is high but even/intact, off the cuff pic. skin could be better but i don't care about a pimple or two, having gone thru highschool with brutal acne. it is ultimately a reflection of overall health so that means less drink
What the frick does circumcision have to do with it?
I'm starting to see why you don't get women.
haven't even tried in the last couple years tbh, but yes, i do have a 28DD ex-gf hitting me up now as we shitpost. i'm explaining why i won't spay my cat
Post gf now homosexual
28DD booba, 5'1", ca 2020
Wow, she’s a dime piece. Proved me wrong. Congrats on not being an incel, anon
she's fat now but that pic reflects my memory
>art
>shandies
>man haircut
ugh, those convos must have been rough.
She could lose some weight
I kid I kid, nice job on leaving her tho, she doesn't seem worth
Ugly nerdy type that lucked out on breasts
Also short hair NEVER looks better than long hair on a woman. never
but anon, i do get women. im just wondering if i should be aiming higher. most people asking probably look fine but have atrocious self confidence and social skills and are looking for more ways to bolster themselves instead of just making the obvious choice of jumping out he nest and falling flat on their face the first few times before they git gud at women.
Also funny how everyone here is somehow 8"+ and good looking but still an incel.
wait till you realise women don't care about looks
they are obviously delusional
Whats more annoying is every conversation you have with girls; you're expected to flirt.
have you ever talked to someone who wasn’t saying anything flirty but came off flirty? flirting doesn’t have to be verbal. it can be body language, mannerism, facial expression. touching, eye contact, etc.
Is there a bigger meme than cold approach/PUA? If youre good looking women will let you know. If they haven't...well
wiser men catch inviting signals and then approach
this is part of pua
nah it’s just part of being human
Cold approaches work if you're handsome. Every woman likes an ego boost, especially if no one's flirted with them for awhile.
yeah also this. I'm just kinda assuming that everyone ITT is not a complete sperglord. another good tip is to just go to bars and practice hitting on women. they unironically love it when they can give you feedback on how attractive or not you are, and you just tell them you're trying to practice flirting, and they don't feel in danger of being raper/murdered in the process (cuz you're obviously white, anon)
nah you can just hit on groups of girls at the bar or w/e. they travel in groups so you need to impress the lot. a simple "pickup line" like "may i please sit here" will suffice. you're mostly either guaranteed to get the "i have a boyfriend" line, or your target is so drunk it's actual date rape and her ugly friend is understandably concerned. just back off. women are their own worst enemy
I got this chicks info at a concert with a bad line, well I think it's good in a bad way
>see a real hot chick smoking a cig outside
>walk up to her and say
>wanna hear a joke?
>she nods
>I have a no legged dog at home, every night I take him out for a drag
>she laughs and I say
>no seriously can I get a drag
>she gives me a whole one and we talk a bit and exchange @s
Good times
all it takes m8. as long as you're not brown/threatening. just don't give off vibes of "this man ewill hut me and rape me to death if i refuse," that being a woman's primary objective, you're good. could've felt up a titty on the way home tbh
>he doesn't know about BBC
>TFW could have had a Hazel Moore looking chick GF but showed her too much of my autism
id do some small talk with her if you know what i mean
>Loose 40+lbs
>Get proper clothes
>proper haircut
>Start working out
>Significantly better looking than before.
YET ALL I GET IS MIRES FROM ugly women constantly.
Amazing, why is getting an average looking wife this hard?
ive been seeing a lot of mid women with studs
i feel you bro. because average took a face plant 5-8 years ago. it will happen eventually...i hope.
because ugly women are willing to sacrifice their self-esteem a little to chase you if it means landing a stud. Hot women still want you to be a man and approach them first anon, they aren't going to openly check you out.
It's really not. You're just saying that for attention on here. Being attractive isn't bad in anyway really and I know this cause I'm a handsome dude.
It's not, but you have existential crisis knowing how much pussy you lost because you thought you were the fat kid instead of the jacked sick c**t you are now.
Pics n timestamp (pecs)breasts or gtfo
>not attractive but can make girls laugh
>have 10/10 qt in high school into me cause we sat next to each other and I entertained her
>didn't even consider trying anything romantic cause I thought she was so out of my league it wouldn't have been possible
>same thing happens in college except this time I was too much of a pussy to go for the kiss cause ive had 0 experience with women even though she was blatantly receptive and liked me
One of the few things keeping me going is that I know for a fact I can charm a girl since I've done it before. I just need to get the rest of my life in order i.e looksmaxx statusmaxx and wealthmaxx then I will fricking SLAY
>I just need to get the rest of my life in order
>then I will fricking SLAY
So you'll just wait until you're 35 then? LMAO enjoy the used up hoes man
>he hasn't seen the 10^50 posts on IST where 30 year old dudes have 10 different 18 year olds they frick on rotation
either way, what choice do I have? I'm in my early 20s and have nowhere to meet women except on dating apps, where I get 0 matches because I'm a 5/10 with shitty photos. It's either self improov for 5 years or permanent inceldom
> Look around and take the opportunities you have now
as of now, I have none.
>As of now I have none
Don't be weak. Muster something up, make an opportunity
you don't need to be some 10/10 stud to hit on girls at bars. What you have is probably more than enough. You just have to be clean, put together, and not ugly.
If you can make them laugh and have an engaging convo, you can do it
t. just got out of college and witnessed some of my ugly ass friends end up dating models. Because they were fun.
fricking keke redpillers are something else
>witnessed some of my ugly ass friends end up dating models. Because they were fun.
There's a 99% chance that in this case, "fun" means "he takes me on expensive dates" or "he gives me free coke every time we hang out". Ugly men are basically nonexistent in a beautiful woman's eyes unless they have something valuable to offer.
In the case with my friends, they were fun, hosted and organized parties, planned fun things to do on the weekends, pregames at their place, etc. No coke habit
These groups of girls get pulled into our friend group because one of their friends is dating one of our guys. Girls show out enough, you mingle and have fun with them enough, bam you have a layup of set and setting to engage a relationship
There totally are beautiful women out there who aren't as vapid or materialistic as you'd like to think. Being beautiful and being a genuine person aren't mutually exclusive. In fact, that's what most of this board likes to believe in themselves.
Most of this board has probably never attempted to be engage in IRL social activities and so has never truly had a good crew of friends. Probably never played sports, never went to prom, never joined a frat, never been invited to go boating on the weekends, go to concerts, go golfing etc. It all trickles down.
And therefore the only girls they come across are random tinder accounts and b***hes at clubs. Strikes them as a complete mystery because they've hardly ever coexisted and had organic friendships with normal women. Lmao
My problem is that I dislike most people and don't give a shit about what they have to say. And I spent most of my formative years being talked over so I avoid speaking up in a lot of situations. I find a rare friend whose company I really enjoy, then they get tired of me and I'm back lonely again.
It's normal to dislike a lot of people. I just moved and have been trying to make new friends. I'll always catch myself zoning out when people are talking to me because I think I'll never want to actually be their friend and they suck. In that way I am an butthole.
But friendships also take consistency and time to grow. I have many a friends who I originally thought were too stupid, goofy, ugly, uninspired to become full time friends with. Just gotta learn to bear that burden
it is sooo hard to tell which people are worth putting time in. its honestly harder than dating just finding platonic friends you want to spend time with
>"I'll do it tomorrow"
I know this feel to a painful degree but I can also tell you that it's a trap. I did this and regretted it. Start from what you have now. Look around and take the opportunities you have now. You gotta start somewhere bro don't make my mistake
>think I'm attractive but probably slightly above average and rapidly hitting a wall
>schizo thoughts about how all the women in the gym are mixing
>make eye contact with one and they immediately look away
It's not easy fellas
I get women flirt with me some times so I guess I'm not super ugly but my autism prevents me from closing so now I just avoid women
How do you know if you're attractive?
Straight men tell you
Babies and children look at you
people in real life are nice to you, people on the internet seethe at you and call you ugly if you post your image
People will let you know, but in an indirect way. If people directly compliment you, they are probably doing it out of pity
I look into the mirror and the look of my face pleases my eyes.
Does Juan hold Juanita's hands when you walk by? Then you probably are
I like to look at myself in the mirror
I've had girls tell me that they crushed on me
I generally know when I can melt a lower tier girl by approaching her and talking to her at a bar
If you have to ask this question, you’re not attractive
I make eye contact with pretty girls in public and smile at them, if:
The smile before I do =excellent
They smile back= good
They look away = time to cut.
I'm not attractive
But I know that being a hard af mother fricker doesn't tire me at all
Get on my level, world
Why THE FRICK does it seem that the ammount of mires is negatively correlated with how pretty the girl is? It makes no fricking sense. Ugly girls have the same taste as hot ones, right?
Do women stare at ugly guys? I get a few states from girls on the gym but I'm not sure if because I'm attractive or ugly?
You and me both anon. They also usually look away when I make eye contact with them.
Typically no, unless it's to make sure they're not coming my way. Sounds rude, but I'm antisocial as frick and loathe any unexpected contact
This thread is pure cope
If you really were attractive, you would get laid, period
Women would find a way to overcome your awkwardness, and take initiative
>mfw all this larp
>she looked at me once, bro
The only thing that sucks about it is that sometimes people get the wrong idea and then they think you are interested in them just because you are talking to them or you made eye contact.
For example, tried chatting up this girl in line at an anime convention and she just spilled her spaghetti like she couldn't believe I was talking to her.
Same with dudes. Don't know if it's because I live in a coastal state or there are more bi/gay dudes out there that I just never knew about but I've lost count of the times where a normal looking dude started giving me that look just cause I made eye contact. Had a few even follow me into the mensroom lmao.
>at work
>reading during lunch break
>girl sits across from me, we work in the same department.
>"hey"
>"uhhh, hey"
>put down book
>small talk happens, but conversation never gets off the ground
>think it would be rude to start reading again.
>rest chin on hand, turn body slightly away from girl
>really wanted to pick up reading where I left off.
>look at the lunch room clock until my lunch break is over
I don't know why she would bother to come up to me, I wish she hadn't so that I never had to think about this interaction multiple times a month. I want to be left alone.
>be attractive
>women make hits at you
>have zero interest in them
>either ignore them or diss them away
>have never felt romantic love
what the frick
It can be annoying but at the same time being lean/fit and handsome gives me most of my self confidence. I feel like a Chad loser, so its nice to get stared at by a busty petite teen at work. I feel sad for guys that never get that
>be attractive
>frick up
>teehee he's so cute and goofy
>be ugly
>frick up
>omg this incel is so useless, why don't he just kill himself already
Yeah, being attractive is truly exhausting.
So maybe then if you stopped constantly fricking up, it wouldn't always come down to your looks?
>be attractive
>never frick up
>girls are immediately attracted to how good and competent you look, and constantly flocks to you
>be ugly
>never frick up
>girls are still repelled because being ugly is a turn off no matter how competent you are, you don't look "manly" and "confident" enough
This game can be played indefinitely. And the ugly one always loses.
How come there are plenty of ugly guys with women then? What makes them so amazing that you can't replicate?
i always read about these ugly guys getting fs,but irl those gfs weight 90kg+
So? Ugly guys and fat girls sounds like a looksmatch to me.
Being attractive gives you more lives in this situation, so to speak. Yeah, if you can charm the people around you, you can coast on that for a while. Eventually though, people are going to start getting wise to your tricks and get fed up with picking up after you.
You're a bit off.
When you're attractive and alone you're presumed guilty.
omg truee i can relate as well (because i am attractive as you are). its like attractive women always expect something from you, some move and if you dont do it they are disappointed and get low energy
dayum all these chads in here and not a single blurry face pic to prove any of it
I guess IST IST is where the top model agencies should be looking for talent huh
>bro just post your face on IST
i know this place is a neutered shell of what it once was but zoomers are unironically moronic
mate. everyones face is online, literally. you think posting face on IST fit is dangerous or what? whats gonna happen? nothing
this isnt the darkweb, we arent hiring hitmen and selling guns here.
this is facebook, nothing else
Yeah you are actually stupid. You must be like 18, maybe, have no job or prospects. If you think its a good life move to let people you know irl that you post here, you’re just stupid and thats all there is to it
it doesnt matter. you lack scope if you think anything that happens on this particular tiny corner of the internet matters
spoiler: it doesnt matter whatsoever
unironically go outside.
no seriously, if someone finds out you post on IST, youre automatically branded a creep. just like people that watch anime (or at least used to, it seems like thats gotten around). why would you put that unnecessary hurt on yourself. have you noticed that literally no one ever mentions this place irl and yet, at the same time, theyll happily mention instagram, twitter, facebook, reddit, snapchat, w/e? its because at best if you 'are on IST' youre labeled a weirdo and at worst a right wing incel terrorist. you actually need to get some life experience if you think posting shit online cant have real consequences.
btw, you dont need to spoiler yourself Black person. we arent on reddit.
all my friends (skinny girls and some twinks) know i browse IST daily and they do call me a creep but they still love me
I tell people I browse fit only and help people with actual fitness advice and make fun of the other idiots who think they can blend in
Same but I tell people I come to fit exclusively to use the n(igger) word every post and to make race bait threads
Wow very le based anon I wish I were brave like you and very based also as well
I believe in you anon, one day you'll be as based (racist) and redpilled (conservative) as me!
look all i know is i work in hyper liberal tech and i never want to have the discussion with hr or my supervisor about how i really dont think its a big deal that people use the Black person word and how they actually make some good points about the troony conspiracy and how diversity is overrated and how slava ukraiknee is the most moronic manufactured social cause since covid or the war on drugs. not spiking my career by posting any identifying info about myself.
The flipside though is why *should* he post it? Because you asked him to?
Do you really think you're that important? You're nameless faceless text on a screen.
Maybe you don't have to be Chad in order for women to notice you and find you attractive?
Novel thought, that one.
This but instead of attractive racist against Black folk and instead of exhausting great
I've recently lost a lot of weight and started dressing better. And yeah, having women start to flirt with me is pretty jarring. And also funny, because women have terrible game. I was at a concert once and this one girl kept turning around and asking if I was blowing in her ear while smiling. I was really confused because I wasn't standing that close to her at all, but then she asked me if I wanted her number after a while. She wasn't attractive to me, so I lied that I had a gf, but it was still flattering and a big change for me.
>Being attractive is honestly exhausting
what in the hell are you talking about?
it is not!
there is not a single aspect of being attractive that is more exhaustive than it would be if I'd not be attractive
Shamelessly reposting a story from a mire thread I posted in recently, this type of shit happens to you if you're decently attractive fairly often, I'd say I'm a 7 if I put some effort in my appearance, a 6 otherwise.
>friend invites me out to a pool party
>it's hot so I say yes
>turns out it's this hotel pool that one of her friends is renting out for some company event
>cheap drinks which is a plus
>get drunk and swim
>bunch of other people are showing up that I have never met, including this large gaggle of girls
>only like one is actually hot
>pretty sure the friend I came with said something about me to them because eventually a few start to try to interact with me
>normally I love when she does this but I am just not interested, not really attracted to any of them and I'm also starting to see someone who isn't there
>whatever I can still dance
>one of the girls makes a few mentions of my dance moves and kinda show her how to do some of them
>she buzzes around me all night tries to touch my muscles when she can, usual stuff, mainly my back though, which I found odd, they usually go for the arms
>night goes on and I'm closing out my tab, same girl I was dancing with comes up next to me
>she asks what I'm doing after
>REALLY not interested but I try to let her down easy
>"what are you implying?" I ask
>she says I should go over to her place
>I tell her that's probably not a good idea, I'm going through some stuff and I'm more broken than my personality shows
>she literally says "you seems like a great guy, and I think I could fix you"
>internally kek and the alcohol starts to shine through
>reply "I think prettier girls than you have tried"
>she has no idea what to say, bar tender hands me the check, I sign then find my friend
>me and her leave, laugh about it on the way home
>get fricked prostitute lmao
I still don't know if it was a joke or not since people would frick with me occasionally, but in my one of my high school classes a girl asked me if I wanted to go to prom with her from halfway across the class and I instantly and firmly said "No".
Must be fun
>handsome enough
>extreme and unfixable autism
help
>masc brat catboi
huh, I didn't know the gays had that combo too
im straight i love girls i love neet skinny skelly girls
I'm ugly as frick and going bald. But I found an insanely insecure girl with a CRAZY ass on her. Got her pregnant twice and her breasts blew up to G size. Now I have 2 blonde hair blue eyed boys and a woman that is pure sex.
> be me
> 22 male
> walking through campus with headphones on
> qt3.14 is on other side of path coming towards me
> she looks at me, smiles
> she adjusts her path to step in front of me while smiling at me
> i focus on the path ahead and adjust my path to avoid hitting her
> she adjusts her trajectory again
> shes now right in front of me smilling and gestures for me to take off my headphones
> tells me she's new to campus and is struggling to find building 32
> i give her directions
> "I'm not good with directions, would you mind walking me there?"
> she smiles at me again
> i apologise, tell her she will have to find someone else to walk her there
> put headphones back on
> step around her
> walk off and don't look back
About 30 minutes after this interaction I replay the situation and realise all the signals of interest were there, think about how I should have acted but everytime it happens again the spaghetti just falls out of my pockets. Interactions like this happen a couple times a week and I'm sick of it. My friends constantly say things like "I can't believe you don't have a girlfriend". People are amazed to learn I have almost no female friends. I've had strangers tell me I should consider modelling, my barber last month offered me money to come in for a photoshoot for a men's magazine which I declined. My friends jokingly call me Adonis every time I take my shirt off. I've never had a girlfriend and have no clue how to interact with women and societies expections on me to just magically be good at women just makes me hate myself because I feel like I've let everyone down. I just want to be normal so people don't hold me to such high standards. I don't think I'm that attractive and lack confidence but everyone seems to tell me otherwise.
> picrel recent photo I posted on photofeeler to get anonymous rating to try and boost my confidence
>3 notes
I only paid for 10 votes and the notes don't really offer any useful info
why would you pay for a bunch of bots? KEK
you know you can just vote on other people's pics and get votes for free right?
Please get off this website and start building a model portfolio.
Imagine looking back on wasting the peak of your good looks by inadvertently avoiding women and posting on IST.
But why? Male modelling isn't that profitable of a career and honestly I prefer my privacy, it's not a career I want and would also force me to move out of home town. I paid good money to get a degree in civil engineering and I'm putting it to good use to help my local community.
I think modelling would help you get out of your shell. But hey honestly you seem to know what you want. I wish you the best anon cause you sound like a genuinely good guy
I don't feel so good
My last one I did of me in a tanktop kek, the more skin I show the lest smart and trustworthy I become, but my attractiveness stays the same, hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
I just want to breed with a beautiful girl, is that so wrong
yes, stop shitting up the genepool with your fantasies.
Being ugly is infinitely worse, wtf are you on? People are disgusting with your very existence and detest you as soon as you enter their vision, it’s instant and evolution.
Even if you prefer being alone like most people on this site, it’s still painful even just going outside because you’ll ruin other people’s days
Actually I take that back, OP didn’t say anything about being attractive as worse than being ugly. It makes sense that being attractive is exhausting because interacting with people is exhausting and people will inevitably interact with attractive people more
I'm getting jaw surgery to become more of a chad
me too anon, starting braces in a month. feels good 🙂
bros how do I hit on women?
Make fist, turn body back, turn body forward, extend fist.