Being desired by women because you lift so much but someone still calls you ugly? Do you just accept you're ugly, lift more, give up?
>randomly approach woman who mires me and ask her out
>go out with girl from my gym
>she's there 10 minutes earlier, at the restaurant she pours the water in my glass caringly, I'm like "wow, im gonna marry this girl"
>3 minutes go by
>absolutely hate her personality, has guy friends, parties, drinks alcohol, materialistic and kind of a gold digger, we have almost nothing in common
>subtly tell her it won't work and cut the date short
>before this without me asking she suggests she wasn't staring at me at the gym but thought I was trying to say something to her in the background (I was actually busting my ass doing compounds so barely even looked at her)
>still text her if she wants a hookup
>she tells me I'm not her type
Wtf bros does this mean I'm ugly despite lifting?
is this what normies are really like?
I'm the opposite of a normie, don't even have any social media other than IST
>Being desired by women because you lift so much
This has never actually happened in the history of women or lifting. No one cares how much you can lift.
>Wtf bros does this mean I'm ugly despite lifting?
No, it means you're a huge autist despite lifting. I lost count how many massive red flags there were in your story and they were all from your end, not hers.
Lifting has improved my looks a lot, they don't care about how much I lift but it's even changed my back posture
>they don't care about how much I lift
Well that's not what you said before now is it?
Also note the girl never called you ugly or implied you were ugly in the story. Instead you were a judgmental autist, blew off the date early, and then doubled-down on the autism when you told her later "hurr durr we can still hook up though if you want".
The girl noped out after that, which CLEARLY can only mean you were ugly. I mean, there's no other possible conclusion to make now is there?
I just texted her we could just be casual about it. How can she expect a serious relationship when she's telling me all this stuff she told me? I genuinely thought she wanted a hookup otherwise she wouldn't have told me the stuff she did
I didn't exactly end it early but told her it's time for us to each go home. I was just tired at that point
>I genuinely thought she wanted a hookup otherwise she wouldn't have told me the stuff she did
What stuff? That she parties and drinks and has guy friends? Oh no, not that! This is what I mean when I say you're an autist. You can't expect girls to live their lives like a /sig/posting tradcel. Obviously you weren't that offended about her drinking and being friends with guys if you still decided to try and hookup afterwards.
Again, nothing here has ANYTHING to do with your looks, so why do you defualt to "hurr durr I must be ugly, even though I lift, even though lifting doesn't fix ugly even if I was"? It's all so tiresome.
hope she sees this bros. many guy friends is a massive red flag
>No one cares how much you can lift
gym girls do, in my experience
not care care, but they understand what numbers are impressive
it was a powerlifting gym though
She wouldn't have went on a date with you in the first place of she thought you were ugly. It probably just means you aren't fun. Why would she want to hookup with someone she can't have a good time with? You can't be a bore and expect hookups from hot girls based on your looks alone.
Because I didn't want a hookup from her, I wanted to take it slow and not sex her before the 5th date, maybe kiss her at first but actually be caring
And she told me she wanted a serious relationship too. I wanted to give her that. But not with the things she was telling me, about her drama with her ex boyfriends not paying attention to her, eyeing down other men at the bar and so on.
I actually thought she was serious gf material because she's never had a relationship shorter than 2 years, she doesn't post any loose photos and is just a nice person seemingly who just carries herself well. But then you get to know her and she's a little neurotic, among other things.
And I blame myself for not making it work.
>Because I didn't want a hookup from her, I wanted to take it slow and not sex her before the 5th date, maybe kiss her at first but actually be caring
lmao, it's 2023 bro
if you're not fricking on the first date you're not fricking at all
Not that anon you are talking to but my mind is apparently back in the 1950's because of all the old TV shows and movies I love and I can't get past the fact that I now live in a disposable hook up culture.
>last date I went on the girl told me that the last date she went on the guy put his finger inside her and finger banged her in the coffee shop and they had a good laugh about that.
>I smiled and said "yeah, imagine the shock of the people around you if they knew" and felt this wave of revulsion coming over me
>pretended I got called into work to fix a problem to dip
I am not meant for this world.
>cut date short
>still text if she wants to hook up
>she says no
>"wtf its because I'm ugly whats even the point of lifting anymore its so over"
moron
i think you have autism
Jeeeeeesus boys this has to be fake right? Surely nobody can be this socially moronic?
btw >shes neurotic ew not for me
>errrr guys i must be ugly why lift anymore waaaaaaaaaaaaah
Bottom line is you were rude, no fun, judgemental, clearly arrogant, neurotic yourself and didnt even give the girl a chance or actually get to know her. You think one date is enough to fully know a person? Also. she has friends and likes to go out and have fun with them? THE HORROR
She was talking about her exes for 20 minutes, I don't mind anything else, I texted her even if it didn't go so well I think she's a good person which is why I wanted to see her again, she wasn't interested that's why I suggested a casual relationship
I tried holding her hand during the date over the table, she refused. She was looking at other guys in the restaurant
>Physical contact on a first date when its going terribly and there's no connection developed between the two of you
Yikes bro.
Women talk about their exes. Its your job to make them forget about them over the course or YOUR relationship with them, if you ever get the wits about you to learn how to even develop one
holy shit imagine going on a date with an OBJECTIVELY WORTHLESS prostitute
and then... CRYING ABOUT THE prostitute NOT LIKING YOU
NO WAY
she talked about her exes in the first place, you leave. thats it. be a fricking man why let this take up your energy in your head, weirdo?
She told me she never had any food in her fridge and hated cooking, told me there was only alcohol in there always its like am I expected to cook for her? Or always spend money on eating out?
I still miss her. She seemed like a good girl. But I just felt uneasy around her. She always needed stuff to do and travelled to plaves like Vietnam, Asia almost every month.
I really wanted to israelite her. Everything was good on paper. But she also kept asking how rich my family was, how many houses we owned etc., and bragged about being wealthy herself
meh look not only does it sound wrong for you but you also blew it, forget about it and move on
Well why didn’t you go for the kiss moron, Jesus no wonder the birth rates are so low. Let me guess you sat across from her and didn’t even hug her goodbye or asked if she wanted to come over. Also you should already know that’s she’s going to be vain and self absorbed since she’s going to the gym.
I tried to kiss her but she hugged me instead giving me the cheek
I haven't been with a girl for a year now
She seemed high class and wealthy, wearing israeliteelry basically wondering what I could do for her, but then she worked at a supermarket. It's like, why didn't her wealthy parents provide for her? She's not lying though, her company does exist and she had gold rings on almost every finger
All her exes were skinny beardless rich boys and I'm a Sam Hyde looking ogre with no money, I never stood a chance even if I did like her. Even if I lifted for 1000 years
>rag about girl entire thread
>build up no emotional connection whatsoever
>I still miss her
jesus fricking christ what no pussy does to a mf
>anon is far from perfect
>holding out for perfect grille
Classic. S(he) will surely come soon!
>a bunch of woman level detail of homosexualry about a situation
anon shut the frick up quit shitting this place up with this moronic shit
>you a bawd, not dating your dumb ass. outta here, peace b***h.
>but yo still wanna frick?
Probably wait until you pump before you dump, dipshit.
is time not linear in your universe? what the frick is this moronic chronology
>rejects her then texts her if she wants to hook up
OP is not only ugly but moronic too
that line down the middle of her tummy is pure sex. Is that just genetics? I want one for my gf (she is underweight)
>Wtf bros does this mean I'm ugly despite lifting?
Maybe. But she might also be salty about how you ended the date. Women are vindictive.
dave chapelle on ugly people : https://youtu.be/w_EAbXTGWhA?t=38
Post the after pics.
Dude showing that you have a sense of humor about yourself and that you are not perfect makes you more likeable to both sexes. Only aspbergers morons think “I am perfect, how dare you point out this flaw!” It stinks of desperation and no one likes a douchebag
Anon modern women utilize something called S.I.G.N. language. Shame, insults, guilt, and the need to be right. She needs to be in the right here, so she insulted and shamed you by insinuating that she was never interested in you and that you were a creep for thinking so. When men do this we can them coping b***hes/incels. I'd advise not dating/marrying a woman who needs to be right, as you cannot take that out of her, and it will ruin your manhood and/or your relationship with her.
And to your failure in salvaging a hookup, no women would ever want to frick a man who directly implied/said he didn't think she'd be good for him long term. (At least not until she already slept with him a number of times.) If you want to tell her In a way that doesn't damage her self image, say something along the lines of I can't handle/be in/start a long term relationship due to _________.
Also don't spend more than 4% of your time on hookups, the nut is not worth not learning something new.
Oh also here's a pic elluding to the existence of a higher purpose.
>higher purpose
you mean that white girls adorable little pink pussy, right?
But I thought I was going to have a relationship with her, then hookup. She was sending me hearts and stuff being super nice over text, acting very "trad" so I thought she was gf material (which she probably is to some, but I just didnt find myself wanting her the way I used to before meeting)
Well she's had multiple 2 year relationships with guys so maybe I'm in the wrong. Whay do they have that I don't? I genuinely wanted her as a gf
>why let this take up energy
Because any girl I've been with just fricked me and left. I never had a girl pour me water, show up on time without being a total prostitute who sleeps not just with me but everyone else. But I don't know about this girls integrity either. She complained a lot about her exes not paying attention to her and said she hated videogames for that reason.
So if I was with her I'd probably never be able to touch them since she seemed so traumatized by them.
>So if I was with her I'd probably never be able to touch them since she seemed so traumatized by them.
you let her set the standard. as the man you're meant to ignore all of this shit, any woman talking about her past exes doesn't respect you from the jump OR is a stupid prostitute. So immediately worthless. Play along and frick or drop it and move on. You don't want someone who is a prostitute. She isn't good enough for you, not the other way around, start thinking like it or be doomed to being a loser for the rest of your life.
Thank you I'll try to adopt your philosophy and I've been partly thinking that way and thought so during the day but then when she was gone I started recreating her in my mind and missing her again.
Happy to motivate you bro. I've been through agony every time I broke up or got rejected like this, wanted to kill myself and never did. I'm still here despite however I am and how I feel things. That should motivate you. Lifetime of rejections, trauma and heartbreak and I'm still standing and so are you.
Mate anyone can act however they like. But she wasn't traditional was she. In order to have success with ANY woman, you must take Into consideration with how she feels. You'd also do good to read the art of war, particularly: "Let your plans be dark and impenetrable as night, and when you move, fall like a thunderbolt."
You are one dumb motherfricker, my dude
>heh, nothing personnel
God this site isn't so bad sometimes, thanks for the reminder that there are idiots like you way more autistic than myself. Real motivator bro
Don't try to be a pretty boy if you're ugly. I saw someone here call this guy good looking yesterday. He would be ugly as frick to everyone if he wasn't leaning into his edgy goth gangster style.
Rick is frickable ugly, kinda like Jeff goldblum. You just know this homie hits up a b***h telling her she can watch him suck his own dick if she sends him 15 dollars and a pack of cigs or she can suck it herself for free
all this says is you’re mistaken about women miring you in the gym lol
She was the one who asked for my phone number when I started talking to her so no I don't believe I am mistaken about that particularly.
women have extremely fragile egos and don't tolerate any form of rejection, hard or soft. If there's a guy she's attracted to, but the guy doesn't reciprocate, she copes by convincing herself that actually she never liked the guy in the first place.
>living/lifting for women
ngmi
Just remember that they're functionally moronic and ignore everything they say
>talking to people at the gym
Your first mistake. No proper qt would ever be there with prostitute attire.
you sound autistic anon
>subtly tell her it won't work and cut the date short
>still text her if she wants a hookup
>I'm like "wow, im gonna marry this girl"
You are Autist , welcome to the club.
text her if she wants a hookup
Oh my... oh my....
Cant wait to see that barbie trend explode and just laughs my ass off at all those pink wearing basic b***hes lmao not lmao smfh lmao
>trying to cut the date short instead of just saving face until it's finished.
>her trying to save her ego by telling you she wasn't staring at you unprovoked, reeking of insecurity.
>you still trying to hookup with her after YOU'RE THE ONE that cut the date short.
This entire story is cringe. Both of you are cringe.
I did save face I even walked her all the way back home but I was mostly silent, just not really fascinated by her anymore. We spent 5 hours together but if I was really into her we could have spent 7 or the whole night together.
I just couldn't see a future with her, she seemed mad nice at first but I don't think I could have been with her.