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How do I deal with constant rejection? First this girl ghosted me for a week and I really regret it but I double texted her and she responded with this. It's pretty painful to get ghosted and then rejected as well. I'm certain her "not looking for a relationship" is just bullshit I'm just not worth it. The thing is normally I'd say who cares It's just one girl there's plenty of others but this has happened to me so many times now.
Delt Flyes, Arnold Press, Lat Raises, Upright Row
Show the rest of the conversations. I'm a woman and I will tell you what you're doing wrong and how to fix it. If I can't figure it out, I'll post it in my discord group with dozens of women and we will figure it out for you.
>I'm a woman
You say this like a woman has anything valuable to tell a man about getting women.
>A woman can't tell you what is going on in the mind of a woman.
Actual morons among us.
They literally can't. Women don't know anything but what men tell them.
Ah, you're an actual moron. Carry on, then.
>muh fish is gonna teach me how to fish
Stupid b***h, you don't even have a pole.
women are barely sentient bags of meat and they don't even know what they want
women = garbage advice
Women don't have self awareness simp
sus
This is the convo immediately before I asked if we're still on for tomorrow
how/where'd you meet her?
We worked together for like 2 months then she got a new job. She was significantly nicer to me compared to anyone else and she would go out of her way to talk to me as well. Seemed like she was interested in me but I guess she is just nice.
>I guess she is just nice.
No, she liked you, but your personality is too submissive. You're obviously physically attractive, which is great for piquing interest, but if they look deeper and find timidity, they're just going to move on. Women like MEN. Be more manly. Self-assured. You may have to prove yourself to yourself before you can act appropriately towards women, but it's necessary.
You realize it's too late now though, right? It's called the friend zone, she literally said it to him straight.
>You realize it's too late now though, right?
Obviously. I'm just giving advice for the future.
OP here, I know it's late and this thread Is almost dead and not many of u will read this but she just sent me this and it turns out this roastie here was right, she was into me originally until she got to know me more. This is what I get for being myself and a nice guy. How do I become the kind of butthole girls like
See, to me this is how women live in a different world. She thought you were dating material until she found out you were the only one "who would actually have a conversation". Men, on the other hand, would do well to ask out every chick they are attracted to. They need to get dates first, then worry about whether the compatibility is there or you enjoy spending time together.
That's exactly what I'm thinking. Like how the frick does it make sense that she lost interest In me as a partner when she finds out she liked talking to me the most. Does she want bf she doesn't like talking to?
it means you were a pussy. The girl knew you liked her from the start and you took too long.
Stop thinking about bf/gf it comes across as desperate and attachment focused. Girls do not even think about relationships until after 6-8 weeks of casual dating.
I've had a few girlfriends and what i noticed is that the less you ask a woman, the more they wanna tell you.
For example I've dated girls for months and I didn't even know their full names and barely remembered anything about their lives like where and what they studied, who her friends are...
You just need to shut up and let them talk then ask a few follow up questions.
You can get into their pants without even knowing the name of their cats
Tell her you don't want to be picked by her if she doesn't date the guys she enjoys conversing with.
>She thought you were dating material until she found out you were the only one "who would actually have a conversation"
It's just her way of letting him down easy by making him feel he was "too good". That's because she can't really let him know that his desperation killed it for her without hurting his feelings.
What this anon said
She doesn’t want to feel bad by making you cry, so she’s lying to protect your feelings to protect hers
That's low self-esteem incel talk. Stop getting all bitter and mad because a girl didn't want to frick you
>That's low self-esteem incel talk. Stop getting all bitter and mad because a girl didn't want to frick you
The thought wasn't bitter in my head, it was just the truth. In no way would the girl I imagine ending up with use this criteria as an exclusion and I'm completely okay with knowing she isn't the person I'm looking for. There's some fuzzy boundaries here where what she gave as an explanation maybe wasn't literal or maybe wasn't meant so assuredly, but she could reply and clarify if that was the case.
Roastie pussy whipped beta
She's literally telling you, you autistic moron.
Other guys keep it short and sweet, they don't have long texting conversations with her or talk on the phone for hours like they're a gay friend or something.
Frick I hate you autistic c**ts. Dumbest people on the planet.
its over, just reply with k and behave like you will never frick her
>out of the other guys
shes basically saying she would frick everyone except for you OP, kek
You don't need to be an butthole.
Just tease and banter with her like you would with a close friend. You're way too serious and unexciting.
I believe this is called "negging" in PUA lingo, except most autists following them are too moronic to interpret it anything other than "insult her", call a girl a fat hog and are surprised she doesn't talk to them anymore.
>Just tease and banter with her like you would with a close friend
This. That's what everybody wants out of everyone else. Fun, carefree, honest self expression.
I'm not a roastie.
>This is what I get for being myself
Being a desperate pussy pleaser is not "yourself". You're just coming from a poverty mindset and it's causing you to act like you NEED her when the reality is that you don't. She is one of MANY women you could have. That's what you need to recognize.
She was into you before you showed your desperation, and if she is then so are LOTS other women, which means your desperation is based on a false premise: that you don't have access to a lot of women. You in fact have an abundance of women waiting for you, but you need to start behaving like it.
Pua incel mentality
Women really are moronic.
This is why I can't respect them on a intellectual level.
I'm no expert but I think you should have asked her out for a date after she switched jobs. Or after you invited her somewhere once. I wouldn't flirt with a girl like that unless I've already asked her out. Flirting in person is a bit different, but once you flirt with a girl the next time you invite her somewhere you have to be asking her for a date.
That's not how you go about it, if you're attracted to her don't pussyfoot around, make your intentions clear right off the bat.
You're better off just forgetting about this one though, you sullied the water too much.
you're most likely too passive and you blew your chance by not raping her in the office basement
When women go out of their way to talk you that isn't being nice. They're interested.
When a girl keeps responding because you keep talking to her, that's what's being nice means. The girl in the chat does seem nice. So maybe she was interested at work but something changed.
dear god
Like watching a train wreck in slow motion
ouch
yeah op this b***h is moronic and i dont think u missed out on much
you kinda moronic too though
Yeah I agree, it just hurts when this has happened so many times in my life already. Why am I moronic though?
Don't go meta with flirting. Never articulate that you are flirting, especially when there's a silence and you're trying to bridge a gap due to anxiety, it comes off as desperate.
To be fair to you though that shit was over the minute she said "wdym attract"
I do this with my gf but we’re psychotic
Just to be clear, she 100% expects you to pay for her portion of the check.
okay this is fricking horrible, clearly you don't know how to talk to women
that "i guess that was a pretty bad attempt" message was absolutely horrid, and even worse so as you bothered to go out of your way to second-text her to send that.
Yeah I know, I shouldn't have double texted her. But I'm a loser I guess. How do I stop being like this.
>How do I stop being like this.
Have interests that you know well, skills that you perform to a high level, and be unashamed and full of passion when you talk about them to others. You need to be able to just be yourself with people, otherwise they're going to see the stifled, timid you that you hate.
Key to this is valuing yourself more than others.
That's all true and great advice, however it does hurt like frick that none of that applies to women, only men. Only men have to actively excel or struggle just to pass the baseline for human respect, for women it's just don't be fat, and if you can't even manage that you can just have a decent personality to compensate.
But whatever, nothing to gain by being bitter about reality
>wanting it to be easy
Lol
Yeah, the truth is that men and women are so different that there's no such thing as a double standard between them.
Life is a video game. Women are npcs. You lucked out by being born a main character, stop botching. Women dont have independent thought. You sound super fricking naive and blue pulled.
yeah. but would you consider your life worth living if all you did was getting fat and watching netflix/tiktok?
>wah I have to pass baseline
be glad homosexual that you get to do interesting stuff to grow as a person. womazoids on the other hand will always be incompetent children
>how do I stop
literally just stop fricking caring. that's it. your texting reeks of desperation but hey most guys were there at one point. hell, I'd bet most guys still are. stop giving up your attention so easily. make her work a little. this girl is not special, she's not "the one", none of them are. there's literally nothing different about her.
adopt the tuxedo mindset. let go of her. let go of all of them.
there's literally no greater pussy repellent than desperation
How about not going out of your way to text that?
That's rough, easy to fix on the bright side. Stop being desperate
She wasn't interested in you romantically, yet. If you had left out any mention of attraction and kept meeting up as a barely interested friend, you would have had a better chance for it to lead to a relationship. As it is, she sniffed out the desperation to be with her and it scared her off, as women only really want men that other women want or that have better options and know it. I'm
btw, and just as a word of advice, act uninterested romantically or just friendly until she's literally rubbing herself up against you and professing her love, otherwise she'll just ditch.
>as women only really want men that other women want or that have better options and know it. I'm
Show the rest of the conversations. I'm a woman and I will tell you what you're doing wrong and how to fix it. If I can't figure it out, I'll post it in my discord group with dozens of women and we will figure it out for you. btw, and just as a word of advice, act uninterested romantically or just friendly until she's literally rubbing herself up against you and professing her love, otherwise she'll just ditch.
Not him, but let me get this straight. You're saying what I should do is:
1) pursue all my social activities with the idea of gathering a platonic gang of friends and acquaintances (which sounds good to me, not gonna lie) and never pursue the women in said circle.
2) Then, in a separate silo-ed version of my free time, I pursue women outside said friend circle. Bars, malls, book stores, online dating, whatever.
3) Then once I can get some dates and maybe relationships, I find a way to show her off to my circle of friends
4) If I do this enough times and still end up single, then women in my social circle might "rub herself against me" ?
Honestly, yeah that would probably work as long as there's single females in the group and not just the girlfriends of your male friends. It's more likely one of the 'bait' girls you bring over, who sees you have a lot of female friends, will make a move before the friend does. This will make all the female friends think they missed their chance, even though they hadn't really even considered you that much, and causing them all to get jealous over some sort of 'ownership' over you. (Because they came first, so how dare she) You now have a harem and it's not like in the anime. They'll all get b***hy towards you, cutting you off and being dramatic, talking shit about you and spreading rumors. They will need constant attention. If you leave the other woman too soon, they will consider you desperate for their love and they will be disgusted, so make sure the girls you bring are girls you would actually date long term. The longer term, the more they'll be obsessed with you, as another woman has deemed you good enough for life. Eventually their cattiness will diminish and they may even try to become 'friends' with the girl, but just know they will probably try to sabotage the relationship, still.
The problem I have with all this talk is that it's depressing for me to think about whether any step of this plan is actually possible by itself.
While your advice was interesting I think I have to ask out women I know anyway, and trust that we are both emotionally comfortable with rejection.
JFC w*men need to be put on a leash and done with
The frick are you talking about you neurotic c**t what the actual frick
bro shut the frick up you're a fricking virgin
>As it is, she sniffed out the desperation to be with her and it scared her off, as women only really want men that other women want or that have better options and know it.
Pretty solid insight. I've heard this said many times by men, but not from a woman. It's too dishonest for me, but I know a guy who would lie about all the options he has lined up with other women and it works. Women see he's high value and get drawn in.
Women will lie about it to men but it's pretty well known in female communities. We just don't like giving that power to men.
I know it
Letting women has their rights was big mistake
Frick peeminists
yeah, that's how I got my current GF. wasn't interested at all. treated her like I treat my male buddies. never gave a frick. left without telling bye, etc.
she was all over me
Brutal. What's a man to do if he's a hopeless romantic who idealises a fairytale romance? Can't even be passionate in self expression without worrying about tripping the proverbial tripwire and blowing her off.
not suave
S.m.h., this cruel b***h made you explain a pretty obvious attempt at flirting to humiliate you. Women are BRUTAL.
>That double text
OP you need to stop putting them on pedestal
Should've just replied with something funny "uhh..mmm...haha"
😉
Jfc
>Lol well opposites attract 😉
>I guess that was a pretty bad attempt at flirting
'em
I don't flirt or ask out via text
I flirt, and banter irl. Set up a date. And only text to confirm our plans.
You're words come off better irl.
Thanks for making me realize that I am not the most autistic person on the planet. That title belongs to you now
Honestly all you guys are wrong. I'm completely unhinged, neurotic and unfiltered with women. I have literally sent 10 messages in a row sometimes. It doesn't matter. I've still ended up having sex etc. Stop caring. You can be desperate and cringe as long as you're not pathetic. You can tell women that you wouldn't date them if they've had sex with a Black person. STOP CARING. le double text. le don't be pathetic. STFU.
You right but that's less fun then doomposting and high school rulebook posting
duh you fricked hoes
Jesus christ....
>incels actually say shit like this and then start hating women when they don't respond
The absolute fricking state of this board
to be honest her initial question was a complete humiliation of the guy
God i hate women so much. Like walking a fricking minefield with a blindfold
LMAO bro i laughed so hard at this i'm pretty sure i woke my neighbors
> wdym by attract
"That's a real question?"
don't just take that shit for an answer
>I guess that was a pretty bad attempt at flirting
100% guaranteed that her pussy shriveled up and every bit of moisture disappeared for an entire day after she read that
She's just not that into you bro
>mean BMI preferred by Men and Women the same
yeah im calling bullshit, looks like a very low sample size of men and women
>most common bmi preffered is 15
>literal clinically underweight
>source: your ass
>wdym attract
She was either playing with you or is a complete idiot. Dodged a bullet right there. But next time don't say moronic shit like "I guess it was a pretty bad attempt" for the love of Christ
>;)
it is 2022 my brother. this girl most likely has an iPhone and uses their emoji's. also just never use the winky face ever man it will never ever go well
I'm DYEL by IST standards and my lifting advice is probably mediocre, but I get laid.
Stop putting girls on pedestals like the other anon said. When talking to a girl, you should be trying to have fun with the conversation. Why do you want a gf? Do you want a gf just to say that you have a gf, or do you want a gf because you believe there's a girl out there you can enjoy your time with? Remember this question when you start to feel self-conscious and suspect that you might be about to send cringe. If you answer "because there's a girl out there who will make me happy," then you should talk to a girl in a way that is conducive to a fun and interesting conversation, like the ones you'll be having when you're officially dating.
Also another small thing, restaurant dates are no good for the first date. Not only does it send the "this guy is trying too hard" vibe, but if you're not used to going out with girls you WILL flounder and wish you were dead from the sheer awkwardness. Restaurants are romantic and for the established, first dates should be fun learning experiences that establish if you two actually like being around each other.
>do you want a gf because you believe there's a girl out there you can enjoy your time with?
I've dated many girls and have gotten to know them on a deeper level and atleast in modern society, women are just plain uninteresting and boring. Their hobbies/interests usually involve tik tok/social media, Netflix, and make up. At this point all I can hope for in a girlfriend is a girl who provides me regular pussy and is not completely insufferable to be around.
where do you live by chance? I've had much better luck with finding girls who actually have personalities and interesting hobbies.
California
Makes sense for the inner city areas. You gotta find one of those midwest borderline emo girls for the best experience
>midwest
No thanks I'm never going back there again.
> DUDE i just LOVE the hustle and bustle of the big city, it’s so DYNAMIC and makes me feel like i’m in one of my favourite TV SHOWS. you should totally come on down to my studio apartment, it’s got EXPOSED RED BRICK walls and everything, we can crack open a nice hoppy ipa or three and get crazy watching some cartoons on adult swim! and dude, dude, DUDE, we have GOTTA go down to the barcade- listen here, right, it’s a BAR where us ADULTS who do ADULTING can go DRINK. BUT!!!! it’s also an ARCADE like when we were kids, so we can play awesome VIDEO GAMES, without dumb kids bothering us. speaking of which megan and i have finally decided to tie the knot- literally -we’re both getting snipped tomorrow at the hospital, that way we can save money to spent more on ourselves and our FURBABIES. i’m frickin JACKED man, i’m gonna SLAM this craft beer and pop open another one!!!
seethe cope dilate
This is the kind of zoomer inept morons that gets handed over dates and multiple chances and still manage to frick it up meanwhile we real suffering and striving ready Anons don't get shit... This world is a sick joke.
Lmfao, I guarantee you'd frick it up too
>I guess that was a pretty bad attempt at flirting
Here's the real shit - she must be pretty low IQ in the literal sense of the word anon, I mean who the frick doesn't know the meaning of "opposites attract" - wtf? That's a basic expression that people start hearing in elementary school
Second you kinda made it worse with your last message, ngl. So maybe she felt stupid in the beginning and kinda lost interest the further you went on.
Some or most girls literally really just want to get dicked sometimes man. Don't overthink this shit. Just look for another one and try again.
Lol.
“Do you like eating food?”
>I'm a woman and I will tell you what you're doing wrong and how to fix it.
Zoomies here me once and here me good. Do not ever, EVER take dating advice from a woman. Find a man who gets a lot of women and ask him for advice. Ask the fisherman, not the fish.
I agree with this.
Unironically women give advice with what sounds nice to THEM in their head but when delivered by a male it can sound weak/etc.
This isn't some kind of redpill alpha male bullshit, either. This is legitimately what I have experienced, girls can be too nice to pull a girl
Patrice came back to life
>Find a man who gets a lot of women and ask him for advice
chances are he's just really attractive and that's it. you should ask normies or incels not chads and women
>Ask incels how to get advice on getting women
when a man is frustrated by failure and dedicates his time he can do great things. incels have researched dating/lookism stuff and formalized it. you have no excuse to ignore the wisdom they have. you're a clown if you doubt your fellow men not me. you're legit a moron if you can't comprehend that lookism/blackpill stuff is less valuable than the advice of a chad slayer
>wisdom
Stop listening to other creepy dudes who are also not getting any action, because they too are listening to OTHER creepy dudes.
Grow the hell up. Omfg you either grow out of this mindset or die alone, but you make the choice to stick with a mindset NO WOMEN is going to be ok with, you deserve exactly what you get.
>not getting any action, because they too are listening to OTHER creepy dudes
you're very naive. don't underestimate men. frustrated men build and topple empires
ye ive been thinking this too. i saw a book on socializing written by THE GEEKIEST NERD with SHITTIEST SHIT EATING GRIN.
i just know what this fricker has to say is 100% legit. the same goes for ugly fricks. if they have sex they have better game than chads and know what they're doing
You sir, are a fricking idiot moron. None of that shit works at all. Sure, the way you put it makes it sound slightly plausible but in the real world it's a bunch of deranged nonsense written by teens.
Chad advice is invaluable because they get with women all the time, they know all the ins and outs - so to speak. They get to understand women much better. If you can't understand why living and being with someone doesn't help you understand them more and people like them I don't know know what to tell you other than laugh in your face.
It is true though that normies who date a lot of girls and best of all people who are ugly that get a lot of girls would be even better teachers than chad. That's just trivial and obvious.
I'm going to take a moment again to laugh at how stupid you are with your shitty "formalized" incel theories on women. The PUA guys also "formalized" a lot of stuff and how did that turn out for them - oh that's right you weren't even around during their heyday because you're a zoomer who knows nothing about women or anything.
Big mad
>Chad advice is invaluable because they get with women all the time
stopped reading, you're actually sub 80iq. you have no excuse to be this stupid. here a funny video semi relevant:
>Incels
>Wisdom
Kek
t. roastie
>here
>talk dirty to me
>nooooo I'm oppressed!
Daily reminder that you want to ask both, just not the same questions.
Pic related.
This looks like a pretty good take to me.
Any post hoc rationalisation that comes from these answers is useful in as far as it's entertaining and not a bit more.
It's a shit take. Women make up stories based on how they feel. Asking them questions without already knowing how women work and being to decipher their bullshit will yield nothing useful. And if you already understand them then there's no need to go to them for answers.
Problem is I'm a moron and good with women so my advice when people ask is I just talk to them
arnold press is fricking shit do shoulder press
you will never be a woman
post breasts with timestamp NOW
Just don’t respond
This tbh
Or do the based thing and say you're fine with that and make her pay for her part of the meal
THIS is the only way to 'win,' when you get rejected. If you respond even with a
>ok
she will immediately see you as a b***h because you responded. If you get angry she'll see you as a b***h because you got emotional. If you leave her on read or better yet just look at the msg through your control panel or whatever so the msg doesn't say 'read,' and just delete it would be better. To her if you never read it and just stop messaging will frick with her more than it'll frick with you. She'll begin to wonder why you didn't come begging for her, then in some only women's way twist it to HER not being worth a reply back to which she gets freaked out.
and then if she reaches out again what? if you cave in she'll lose atraction again... it's so dumb how you're analyzing this
>she reaches out again after ghosting you and or rejecting you softly
Lol of course she'll lose attraction again she already rejected you jackass. She is just making sure you still want her for her ego boost. How many times in your own experience have you heard
>oh man she rejected me when I asked her out but like 2 weeks later of no reply from her out of the blue she messaged me and we started dating!
Nope. This ain't it chief.
That makes you seem like a bitter loser too.
I was faced with this situation a few times and what unironically works best is saying
>Nah that sounds like shit I'm not interested
Think about it, you literally reject her offer for friendship, so now you either make it or break it instead of
>Muh im not gonna reply to you and that may hurt you.txt
Generate that chad energy, go all in anon
Based.
similar shit here anon, I can't figure it out. Just keep trying I guess - hopefully find one that is compatible? Never give up. Never surrender.
These are basically the correct answers. You're probably way too desperate and trying to force something with someone there's no chemistry with. If you work on improving yourself then eventually you'll find the right girl for you.
quit being so desperate lol. you sound like it, and women and sniff this from a fricking mile away.
How?
How... What? You can barely speak English you expect to understand women AND get laid.
The "rent free" meme actually helped me. One day when I was feeling down about getting rejected so much, something in my mind said "If women don't want me, why am I letting them live in my head rent free?"
I understand what you're feeling, we've all been there, wanting something/someone badly, but it's just the wrong way to feel. You can't get women by wanting one really badly. You have to not care if you get them. Interactions have to be for your own amusement, not for hope of a future prize.
You need to start enjoying human interaction for it's own sake, and then people will enjoy you and want to be around you.
not..bad
you deal with rejection by letting it happen. What would be the point of pursuing romance with a girl who isn't interested in you? You either lower your standards or you improve yourself by making better use of your time
I've done all the self improvement shit already, I'm fit, have a good job, well groomed, have hobbies, well read etc. Shit doesn't help when ur ugly.
Post body
probably work on social skills since its literally the only thing that actually matters u fricking moron
Youre only partially correct. Yes you deal with it by accepting it, but in your version of events you project the problems onto the women. Zero sense of self-improvement.
Please, do yourself a favor and stop chasing women altogether, it's a fricking meme and no well-rounded man ever does that, only desperate incels and losers. Mind your own fricking business, try to achieve your goals, be social, have fun, and you'll get pussy. Oh, and leave this fricking site before it's too late.
lol married anon gtfo
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>Seemed like she was interested in me but I guess she is just nice.
#
>This is the convo immediately before I asked if we're still on for tomorrow...blah blah blah
I'm going to make this very simple for you:
Do you think the guys this twat's fricking right now care about any of this bullshit?
No.
Then why do you?
Either the pussyhole's available or it's not. Move on to another.
based.
you give off beta-energy, and like the others mentioned, women smell weakness, desperation, etc.
here's what you gotta do
1) chase multiple women at the same time. that way failing with one wont hurt so bad and you'll also come off as less desperate
2) imagine picrel when you talk to women. im serious. not even meming.
Seen this so many time's I'm gonna try it
Harnessing our mimetic nature
literally read this thread and talked to girls i know. it works. thx BRO. i literally imagine picrel when doing anything
Be a real man and Bill Cosby her.
You an unknown lame gen 2 Alph Ruins
>How do I deal with constant rejection?
Ignore it
When girls message you something like this you should always just respond politely and briefly saying you aren’t interested, no sob story, nothing making you seem sad or desperate, and you shouldn’t be rude. Something like “Hey, sorry I’m not interested in being just friends, so I agree it’s best if we cancel our plans, best of luck to you.” This will rip these type of girls egos apart, because she does want to continue hanging out but as you being her beta orbiter.
This is true. It's politely telling her that her pussy is the only thing valuable about her.
Talk to women while out drinking, put your hand on her hip just above her arse. If she’s receptive get stuck in. If she’s not about it move on.
The best response to messages like the picture is "lmao, i'm not into you like that don't worry"
The outcome of this is that she will suddenly be the one on the backfoot. She assumed you were into her, turns out you don't want her. Why? This will annoy her, she thought she was above you. She is now annoyed, and thinking about you. Why does a pleb like you not want her? Maybe she misjudged your social status? She assumed you were desperate for her attention. Wait a week or so and she has convinced herself she wants to be with you because you are unattainable. Continue reluctance, then you 'give her a chance'.
Women are moronic and hate each other. This is why you get loads of attention when you have a gf already, because you become unattainable and apparently prefer someone else to them.
>"lmao, i'm not into you like that don't worry"
In the context of OP's conversation literally no one would believe that shit.
Terrible advice, comes across as very defensive
Just start raping.
You know?
Cause chicks really dig rap artists.
good morning sir
You should deal with it by introspection. Learn about yourself and you will find the right woman.
I've said it before but it is fricking pathetic and sad how many losers there are on this board. Genuinely surprising how sad so many ISTizens are. One of my friends is 285lbs at 5'7 with literal learning disabilities and schizophrenia and even he has gotten laid... Multiple times.
>You should deal with it by introspection. Learn about yourself and you will find the right woman.
Chill out, he's genuinely trying to learn how to deal with it.
>One of my friends is 285lbs at 5'7 with literal learning disabilities and schizophrenia and even he has gotten laid... Multiple times.
Is your point that there can be no exceptions, and anyone much better off than this friend will find it easier than this friend? If there was some guy who was much better off than your friend, but who was still suffering from a long period of being single, you don't see why they would feel down and spend a lot of their attention trying to figure out their problems?
>I've said it before but it is fricking pathetic and sad how many losers there are on this board. Genuinely surprising how sad so many ISTizens are.
Being a loser sucks and you feel pathetic for it. You have trouble accepting that it isn't that easy for every single guy here to become a winner. What would make reality more bearable for you -- a trophy for having a better life?
Nice larp ugly manlet
Just stop wasting your time replying to her you doofus, she wants you to be her «friend» and carry her handbag, don’t be a sim ffs
I am in the same boat but read it everytime you dont feel like going to the gym
Just tell her what you want?
"I want to have sex with you, if that's not okay with you then we better stop texting, Im not interested in being just friends."
Just keep moving. Why brake and slow down to be hung up on some ghosting thot when you can move forward towards good times.
>Been ghosted
>Been fricking multiple girls
>Had multiple girlfriends
Don't blame yourself, even if everything's fine women start shit for no reason.
Move on, try again, or give up. Those are your only options. Logic isn’t always a part of relationships, but moving on is statistically your best bet. If you remain at least cordially friends with this girl you can see her post wall in 10 years and be grateful you went with option 1. Pursuit is for prizes worth obtaining and you wouldn’t be asking for advice if she was worthy of pursuit.
Text her that something came up and that you are going out with a friend.
Tell her that you'll get back to her and tell her all about it.
Women can't stand being second place or rejected.
>How do I deal with constant rejection?
don't take it personally and stop viewing them as an equal. your personhood is worth more. modern dating isn't dating or courting of the past ~1000s of years where if you get rejected 5 times in your tribe of 150 people, your lineage 100% dies out. we have a global culture now, but our brain still lives in past ages. rejection = pain because your ancient brain isn't aware of your new conditions. women have very little if any agency or frontal lobe activity and we (mistakenly) granted them rights to decide who reproduces. we live in a horrific era of a war against nature, order, and logic. that doesn't end well. however, don't let that get to you. roll with it and find a way to make it work. after all, our modern conditions are most painful for women, not us.
>women have very little if any agency
>our modern conditions are most painful for women
Contradictory statements. The first one is true. The second one is demonstrably false, just look at who commits more suicide.
I hate women
Shoulder press, the ole reliable
free hand stand pushups
Front cable raises with a lat bar
Thos is the secret exercise the israelites don't want you to know about
I'm very not Chad, at all, almost an incel, but I toss it up to never trying... definitely. Incel jaw but 6'1. I got this message before. She texted we can only be friends after the first date, which involved making out, said that we can hang out as friends.
I said 'we'll see about that'. And she texted 'haha' and I rolled my eyes.
Next time I saw her we fricked. And that was how I lost my virginity.
Women respect men who take what they want. Just don't do this shit with a feminist c**t. My b***h hates Black folk too so I fell in love.
>My b***h hates Black folk too so I fell in love.
kek
>we'll see about that
Based. Good job, anon. That's the right attitude.
the virgin women respecterer vs. the Chad rapist
Post successful combos. Every time someone posts is nothing but failures and that brings the collective mood down.
The correct response is no response
I wish I could see that whole thread.
>being this new
Type the @ then the word archive into google
>the @
The wat?
moron Black person zoomer FRICK YOU
thats wat
I've been on this website since 2005, homosexual. Fortunately it's a smaller part of my life than it is yours, double Black person.
>been here since 2005
>STILL cant into archive links
that makes you even more moronic than previously assumed
Well, I did it anyway.
https://desuarchive.org/LULZ/thread/10044579/
What do I win?
I knew you could do it
I'm so proud of you
You are a genius white millennialChad after all. Your compensation is one (1) roastie
>that fingernail
Thanks, buddy
Why are shoes under the bed instead of being next to the entrance of the house?
>Why are shoes under the bed instead of being next to the entrance of the house?
I wondered the same thing, they look so dirty too, and she's pussy touching that carpet she walks with those dirt ass shoes on... Frick am i an autist like you losers?
Where I live we leave our shoes in shoe rack by the entrance.
It's because she's Am*rican
She lives with her parents and they probably have a dog
she suffers from thottism
Look at those saggy breasts
Reminder this b***h posts on IST (pic related is her reddit own reddit post) and shills her OF here constantly. Wouldn't be surprised if this is literally her posting.
Don't care simp, now frick off
Monkey rows and delt flyes. That's it.
Everyone on this thread is 100% wrong but me.
>Monkey rows and delt flyes. That's it.
Based
>Everyone on this thread is 100% wrong but me.
Holy Based.
>333 kek trips
OP BTFO along with every homosexual that posted before him.
White guys be like why "do white girls go for BBC thugs? must be israelites." after typing out and sending the cringiest beta moron goober bullshit imaginable
I would immediatly switch to only bathe the kids and put the toilet seat down while researching how to best get rid of her.
I would crumple the list up, shove it in her mouth like a ballgag, then frick her in the ass while slamming the toilet seat down on the back of her head
I don't know about him but I don't care what the reward is I'm not putting the fricking toilet seat down
lat raises, leaning lat raises, face pulls, and rear delt flyes
rear delts are important for big shoulders too
Big delts come from genetics.
Or steroids.
Have you ever tried being confident?
"I don't care if you're looking for a relationship or not. I wanna *insert activity* and I'd enjoy your company. Don't overthink it. *insert place and date*"
If she comes she comes if she doesn't she doesn't who gives a shit.
I had a epiphany moment when I fell for a girl and thought just being upfront about her being in my life was the smart idea, it didn't work. After I meditated on why it didn't work and with Gods wisdom understood what I did wrong. Now I do what this guy said, I don't care if they say no and hide my emotions if they say yes. I've gotten to the point I have a script I say the moment we get in front of the girls house and the 4 girls I've said this too up to now ALL of them had me in their room either that night or at least in 2 weeks of hanging out.
>get to her place/parents house
>walk her to door
>flat out say 'hey look, i think you're real cute with an amazing body. If I'm being honest I really want to see your room.'
Most of the time they'll either go full on playful mode or completely shocked. If they are playful I know I am in and don't answer any of her questions and just physically escalate right there. If they are shocked I hold out my hand and invite them physically towards me, either they grab my hand and I know I'm in or they don't and I smile, say goodnight, walk to my car while flipping out my phone and act like i'm texting. When she sees me texting every damn time I get an immediate text of
>sorry I just got nervous
>you still nervous? I am still close enough to turn around
It worked. Just keep escalating till they say no.
>If she comes she comes if she doesn't she doesn't who gives a shit.
Yeah, it's not like forging friends and relationships is the stuff that is going to actually matter on your deathbed.
>he talks to a girl to BECOME a friend
what the frick that's so weird to me. When I talk to a girl it's because I wanna frick her, why would I wanna be friends with a rando I know nothing about?
reread the quoted post
>"I don't care if you're looking for a relationship or not. I wanna *insert activity* and I'd enjoy your company. Don't overthink it. *insert place and date*"
Of course, if you don't actually care about hanging out with her platonically (perhaps because she is a stranger) then that's fine too. But then you wouldn't be asking her to come anyway.
As a dude and this is just in my opinion let's be honest if we're talking to a girl the only reason we STARTED talking to her was because we wanted to feel what her insides feel like. Women are the ones that start talking to people to become friends. What you think you're saying something different to her by saying
>hey wanna go get ice cream (lol)
Nah man come on. All she is hearing is
>hey I wanna be alone with you because I want to get into your bedroom and frick the shit out of you
Only women feign ignorance. Only after sex is when a guy can become friends with her or not. Be honest if you're hanging out with her just trying to frick her...are you really her 'friend?'
touch grass
>Only after sex is when a guy can become friends with her or not. Be honest if you're hanging out with her just trying to frick her...are you really her 'friend?'
What? Are you like 19? Or maybe you just don't have the same social needs like I do. As you get older you start to value the potential for connection with every new person you meet.
No, the only thing that will matter on my death bed is my lifetime net worth
You shoudl defenitely not back down now. Just tell her that you're ok with being friends and go to the meeting. It's still better to go out with somebody and enjoy the day rather than canceling your plans and staying at home. But be sure to not pay for her.
>Be me
>Download tinder
>Put shirtless pic from when i looked better
>Swipe on everything
>Match with fatty because tren
>Literally just surprised i matched and immediately schedules one night stand
Its literally this easy bros. All you have to do is be decently attractive, not care about women and use them as frick holes.
congrats on the big haul kek
You aint lived till you start catching the big ones lads
Literally crushed spirits who will let you do anything just to feel alivr again and dont even care that you dont stick around
Lmfao you're so right but I always regret it afterwards
Bruv she looks like Stuart Little
Come off it
Make sure to wear spurs in your shoes to mount that hog anon
>Make sure to wear spurs
kek
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAA
Brother, the people complaining aren't complaining over not being able to frick some disgusting hog, the complaints are not being able to find a good gal to settle down and marry.
based. I would do this if I was single. every goddamn night if I could
Lol no one gives a shit about getting to frick a fat chick. It's the same reason why fit chicks don't want to frick a fat dude. Too easy and absolutely disgusting.
this is why I will never inject tren
I want to frick healthy women
Snort it you fricking pussy
Don't you have any dignity? She's a landwhale
Anon, he's going there to murder her.
Then frick her
Id rather frick my hand than a fat woman
How much tren do I need to inject to score a whale like this?
pity you...
hope you get better mr whale hunter
The next line better be
>no promises b***h!
Don’t do it anon, fat girls are addicting. Next thing you know you’re up at 3am sexting a 300lb land whale in hopes of harpooning her oversized cheeks.
with fatty because tren
>doubletexting
I love coming to this board, there's so many bonafide autists lmfao
pic makes me want to play bt3
shit thread btw
another day on IST I guess
I accidentally double texted too one time and the she ghosted me for 4 months and then replied out of the blue and then I blocked her
Fricking ESL
Tbh you should be thankful that she was upfront about something like this, instead of you finding out after you’ve spent a whole bunch of time and money on her.
Despite what IST will tell you, having a platonic relationship with a woman doesn’t make you a cuck or a loser or whatever as long as things are equal between the two of you. Just don’t be a weirdo that stays in touch with her because he thinks he can change her mind, you’re way better off just moving on if that’s your goal.
The best dating advice I've ever seen on this board was simply, "Don't flirt like a white guy. If you're a white guy, don't do things you'd think are a good idea, pretend you're someone else and stop doubling down on the girl as if she were already the one."
>pretend to be married man who just wants to get home to his sick child
>"why isn't this working?"
By any chance, can you phrase this "be someone else" advice in a way that is actually helpful?
young women dont know the difference between confidence, competance and macho, butthole very well. hew basically saying you should act like a shitskin
best and safest rear delt exercise without access to the facepull machine (smith?) machine
Girls I used to date is ignoring me should I ghost her or confront her?
You can't ghost someone that's ignoring you.
someone make a "chad double texter" vs "virgin desperate lamer" meme
Handstand pushups and heavy presses. If you expect big delts after doing meme exercises with pussy weights, you are in a for a surprise
>Gf of 4 years blocked me on all platforms after we fell out of love
>Been with 2 girls since but felt nothing for them and still have dreams about my ex regularly 9 months later
What lifts do I do to escape these feels
Relationship or mental health thread.
high rep lat raises to failure
Push Press, Lateral raises and Handstands.
how the frick can a grown man drop the frickin spagetti this hard
truly beyond me
Read book called: Models: Attract Women Through honesty by Mark Manson
You can pirate it
You can attract women by looking really good. Anything else is bullshit. The only "redpill" is that there are niches looks wise that may appeal to some women and thus some dudes can frick besides not bring really handsome.
Whatever you gotta tell yourself, loser.
Look man, you can improve your attractiveness to women by a few things in life:
Your Grooming.
Your Fashion.
Your Bank.
Your "Prestige" or Fame as its called.
Your "Accomplishments" in life that they happen to follow.
Your muscles or athletic performance.
Your ability to provide or cook a meal.
That's all folks.
I didn't kiss this girl on the first date, second date she sucked my dick.
Same. No kiss first date, 2nd date she gave me a rimjob
same. no kiss first day, 2nd date she gave me a son
I act the most autistic as I can. It works to start chats.. from that I improvise starting very funny than show a very mature side
Works.
Bio translation from portuguese:
>i have been diagnosed with a terminal illness called blablablabla syndrome, the circulation to my ear system is stopping and my ears are going to fall out. The only treatment known to medicine is to warm the ears between the thighs of a beautiful woman. I created this profile on tinder for medical reasons.
Baseado. The only time i got laid was because i acted like that.
>I act the most autistic as I can
This but actually it has worked for me
Hue, vou copiar.
Update: changed the bio to this one a few hours ago and got 12 likes already LMFAO
Checked and keked.
Fellow Tuga and the few people I use my autism and IST level of humor find me lovable and funny.
Too bad I'm a immense introvert and can't get pussy even if they rub it against my nose.
>I EAT PUSSY!!! PLEASE HAVE SEX WITH ME!!! I AM SUCH A GENTLEMAN, M’LADIES!!!
kys beta
Black person wtf?
I unironically respect she said something instead of leading him on or making him unsure.
If more woman just straight up told men when they had no interest in them, even if incels seethe at the thought, dating would be so much better
Lu raises
Should I text my coworker (female) that I feel guilty she may have got Covid because of me?
No that's low beta energy
I'm 32 and never even kissed a girl. Lost weight and started lifting 5 years ago but feel like I just missed the boat. No woman in her right mind is OK with a 30+ yo with no relationship experience. My mom became very ill a few years ago as well, so we moved her in with me so I don't even have a place to bring a girl if I picked on up. I reckon when she goes I can just end it without feeling bad for hurting anyone.
just lie and make shit up. (most) women are moronic and absolutely love liars, psychopaths, drug dealers, mass murderers, and the like.
you can get away with a simple sweet lie or half-truth about some kissy wissy's and your pp getting wet.
>woman in her right mind
I have good news anon!
Women are just as autistic
This girl sent me ~300 messages like this without me responding
bruh, impregnate her
... if you are White, that is..
Yeah I saw you posting those messages already. Try not being an ass and blurring out her name. It's really not appropriate to post private messages in public. It's kind of a woman thing to do really "tee hee, look at this creepy guy trying to message me but I'm too good for him".
>Colleen
Well frick, that narrows it down. I'm surprised she hasn't been doxed yet
>she's self aware
it's at least worth considering knocking her up
a self aware BASKET CASE
Thanks to feminism, women are finally happy now!
I've had chicks pull the "hang out just as friends" bs before and still ended up balls deep 30 minutes later
Depending on what led up to this conversation, I would immediately turn it back around on her in order to crush her ego.
Something like this:
"wow okay. I only ever just thought of you as a friend. But for whatever reason you felt the need to drop this weird insecure bs on me. What exactly was the goal of this? You know what, forget it. I don't this drama. I'm out. See ya."
Then just ignore her and enjoy watching her descend into madness.
Pretty good actually.
Do girls ever match and message you guys on bumble and then never answer after? Pretty fricking annoying
When a girl is attracted to you, you can get away with saying basically anything. If she isn't then there's nothing you can say that would change that. Never adjust what you say to get someone to like you. Just say whatever the frick you want so that the rare person that actually is attracted to you happens to be attracted to someone who says the dumb shit you're going to slip up and say the rest of your life anyway. Ironically, you'll also end up with more people being interested because people respond better to a confident autist than a fumbling one.
At least you got a girl to be straight up with you. I just get ghosted when they want to be "just friends."
I fricking hate playing this dumb game. I’m just trying to pass the time waiting for someone of value to come along and these gutter tier abominations act all aloof and shit. I’m not much better since I’m desperately trying to get with them though. Enjoy some recent tinder cringe from yours truly
It's because you've no game whatsoever, my brother in Christ.
You're the problem, not she.
No charizma, no masculinity, plain and boring, no nothing.
>can tell all that from 8 words
Wow bro you’re like a psychic or something. But for real the problem is that I don’t care enough to really try. Though if I really tried then you’d be telling me that it’s cringe and I need to chill out and try less hard
The lack of words is what told it all.
Better to try and fail than not to try at all, didn't /fit teach you that?
Worst case, you fail and learn, or keep on blasting to porn while thinking about her or whoever else it is you'd think.
I've been there, I'm speaking from personal experience, so don't think I am insulting you, for I've had and still have hints of severe masturbation addiction, in the matter of fact the time I've lost my virginity, I couldn't bust then but busted 100 nuts thinking about that afterwards.
Once you'll get more comfortable, you won't overextend with your work. Be flirty, funny, interesting, don't be too clingy and etc., it will come naturally.
You're young, if not by age, by spirituality, so do not worry. It will come.
Manifest what you want, but manifestation comes through effort and work.
> Be flirty, funny, interesting, don't be too clingy and etc., it will come naturally
Alright I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt that you’re being sincere. So I can do this fine when talking and have been told I’m charming in person, I’ve had multiple gfs one of which lasted almost 4 years.
But for the life of me I can’t replicate it over text. I am too autistic or moronic to understand how a normal person texts, whereas in person conversation does flow very naturally for me. For sure my greatest dating flaw is getting past the texting to the irl talking
Work will pull you through it, nothing to worry about, my brother in Christ.
Especially if you posses those qualities, once you'll be able to replicate/show them through text, you're set.
Of course we should not forget the fact that whoever she may be, or whoever you plan to talk with, may be not worth the effort, but that's something you'll find out by time, and if it does happen to be the case, do not be afraid to let it go.
Hope it shall work out for you, my brother in Christ.
By definition, by default, Overhead Presses.
No if's, and's or but's.
Best shoulder exercise for health? Face pulls.
For aesthetics? Side laterals and ir's variations.
For size and strenght? Overhead presses.