I am 30 and graduated from college a year ago. I have no friends, never had a girlfriend. What sport is good to meet people? Was thinking about tennis or judo because they look fun but idk. I am lonely.
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The frick were you doing in university till 29?
Had depression and some chronic health issues that had been resolved at 26. After that I finally became a normal human being and got my shit together. Some people are cursed with terrible genetics from the start.
>Had depression and some chronic health issues that had been resolved at 26
oh so you're a genetic dead-end
sorry but there's no cure for that...
You can't demoralize me, I will never give up trying until I am dead.
Some sad feels and IBS was enough to demoralize you from studying for 26 years tho?
>American reading comprehension
>Some people are cursed with terrible genetics from the start.
So in other words you wasted your life on anime and imageboards.
Swim meets, local open calisthenic grounds, table tennis, robot competitions.
Depends on what you do for a living and whether you want to friend up or friend down.
I am an electrical engineer. Don't know what friend up or down means?
Mountain biking.
No idea why.
But you can meet people and it's still enjoyable alone.
It's like dating up or dating down. Are you trying to aim for a higher class of people, a lower class or the kind of people you're currently suited to.
My friends are runners and they have a lot of other runner friends with whom they began to spend a lot of non-training time - movies, travels, board games etc. I see it is very strong community. They moved to live in another country couple years ago and got new runner friends almost immediately.
I gues rock climbers are also friendly, because in local rock climbing gym there is lot of non climbing events for climbers - they watch movies, celebrate holiday etc
Do some redditor sport like pickleball or something. Don't join adult rec leagues. It's full of people that have been playing the sport their whole lives and take the game way too serious. They are not gonna have patience with you and you're gonna feel more isolated
>What sport is good to meet people?
Stop dealing with your problems indirectly.
How is meeting people if you are socially isolated an indirect method?
>How is meeting people if you are socially isolated an indirect method?
Nice work, you found the direct method. You don't need sports or excuses to talk to people.
>just approach strangers in the street and start talking to them bro
You’re an actual moron have a nice day
Rock climbing as long as you don't live in a shithole large city where the clientele is 100% onions. Rural rock climbing gyms and outdoor crags are full of based people. And since you need someone to belay you everyone is really invested into getting to know more people
Archery, I've never met an archer who isn't autistic.
>was thinking tennis
This is tennis girl poster again.
Where do you live? If you’re near a major city look into sports leagues like zog or Volo. They have games like volleyball, flag football, soccer, kickball, etc. you can join solo and they’ll place you on a team. After the games, there’s a designated bar where you get drink deals. I’ve made some great friends doing this. I also never played sports in school, but being in the league motivated me to get in shape and I’ve won a few championships.
If you don’t live near a major city checkout meetup and see if there’s any social sports gatherings. Anyway good luck man, meeting friends in your 30s is tough but you’ll make it!
BJJ
>What sport is good to meet people?
Take dancing classes you stupid frick
If you think you are going to look like a weirdo just say something like "My Cousin's wedding is coming up and I don't want to look like a clown"
If you go for contact sports/martial arts you'll meet average Joes with no time for you at best and unhinged psychopaths at worst
it's gay, overhyped, and the people are annoying, but BJJ.
It's not as competitive and cut throat as striking combat sports and the people aren't as toxic as they seem from the outside.
If you leave school without friends/gf or ever dating and an incel, it’s over. No woman will want to be with a 30 year old incel, you will never be able to have a relationship whether it be platonic or romantic, you’re literally decades behind everyone else and it’s for a reason. have a nice day
I am age 21, 5’6, 5/10 face, never dated or had sex, friends all abandoned me for being an incel, if I was 6ft I would be happy and well adjusted, I would have friends and dating experience and I wouldn’t be an outcast freak. I have no hobbies, no interests, no goals, no motivation to even lose weight because in the end of the day even when I was in better shape nothing changed. I haven’t bothered going to the gym in like 3 months and literally nothing is different, everything bad in my life ties back to me being 5’6. I’m supposed to kill myself because I’m short, society has completely rejected me for being short and it will only get worse. It’s over, expect more mass shootings and suicides