Blasting tren but my wife won't sleep with me

I feel like I'm getting closer to reaching my physical peak daily and I'm getting more attention from other women than I've ever recieved in my life but my wife has been completely disinterested in sex. How am I supposed to cope with this insatiable horniness? I'm getting close to my breaking point and I'm questioning my loyalty as well as hers.
> pic related similar excuses

  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    She is too comfortable in the relationship. She knows you won't leave her. You're not sexy, you're boring, safe and dependable.
    The solution is to instill a little Hispanice into the relationship. Flirt with other girls, if you can't get what you need from her then it's only natural that you'll start to look elsewhere.

    >t. 26 year old balding incel

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      what norwood level are we talking? I want to see if you're me

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        norwood 2

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          This is proof that the parameters of our physical appearance influence brain activity.
          >t. 26 year old balding incel that agrees 100% with your first post

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Norwood 2 technically isn't balding but a "mature" hairline. Norwood 1 is a juvenile hairline. Anything past 2 is balding.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            thanks pal I'll use this to cope

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Leave her, she doesn’t want sex with you because she’s not physically attractive. If you don’t have kids 0 reason to stay.

      Dread game cope, you can be boring but if you are physically attractive girls never want to stop having sex. She just doesn’t find him physically attractive.

      Bang other woman but keep her around. As a man, it’s easier to bang woman in a relationship, even more so if you’re married. Don’t feel guilty about it because she obviously isn’t trying to satisfy you.

      Bad advice

      Let her know that you are going to have sex, whether she's involved is up to her.

      Good advice

      >cheating
      Lmao
      Let her know you're having sex with her, whether she wants it or not

      It’s not cheating if he informs her beforehand.

      The way I see it a woman's priority (and the other way around) should be to make the man happy and satisfy his needs. Sex should never feel like a chore but even if it does, if she loves and respects you she will want to give you what you need. It's insulting and disrespectful to disregard the persons needs that you are supposedly in love with.

      This

      unironically just cheat on her and stop showing any interest at all in her. she might quickly get the message

      shes probably already cheating on you so you don't need to feel bad about it

      Cheating is for retarded betas with scarcity mindset. He can either tell her he is sleeping with other women and she has to deal with it, or he can leave.

      • 2 months ago
        Cheerbro

        I think that I follow you on instagram

        https://i.imgur.com/DBGPHqK.jpg

        I feel like I'm getting closer to reaching my physical peak daily and I'm getting more attention from other women than I've ever recieved in my life but my wife has been completely disinterested in sex. How am I supposed to cope with this insatiable horniness? I'm getting close to my breaking point and I'm questioning my loyalty as well as hers.
        > pic related similar excuses

        A man has needs, my brother. Gotta take care of yourself.

        She'd turn me down even if I did, and even if we did have sex it would be shit

        You sound like a whiny queer and I'm not surprised that your sex life is in this condition. I can sense obesity from this post as well. Fix your shit bro

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Just saying it how it is, I have no reason to pretend here. Just fucking hate my gf, I am a disturbed man and a retard gay but she is a slob and doesn't strive for anything. No cooking, no cleaning, just eat slop every single day like a pig. No swimming in the summer, no fishing in the winter. I do all the work and I mean literally all the work in our house, we haven't shared a meal in weeks because she doesn't eat most of normal food, only takeout. I clean or order her to do it like a child and even then she is so shit at it I'd rather do it myself
          >obesity
          Not really, normal weight (started exercising severely underweight), shit by IST standards but in decent shape
          t.

          She'd turn me down even if I did, and even if we did have sex it would be shit

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >she is a slob and doesn't strive for anything. No cooking, no cleaning, just eat slop every single day like a pig.
            Why did you marry her?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >You're not sexy, you're boring, safe and dependable
      Literally the single biggest thing that makes me hate women.
      Won't marry a pauper who's adventurous but won't live with a dependable guy either

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >t. 26 year old balding incel
      excellent answer. thanks, brother

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Flirting with other girls always leads to arguments even when I didn't think I was flirting. She gets jealous easily and I have to reassure her I still find her attractive. I'm not sure at this point if her jealousy / accusations against me are the result of a guilty mind from her side or just that she feels inadequate for some reason.

      Leave her, she doesn’t want sex with you because she’s not physically attractive. If you don’t have kids 0 reason to stay.

      Dread game cope, you can be boring but if you are physically attractive girls never want to stop having sex. She just doesn’t find him physically attractive.

      [...]
      Bad advice

      [...]
      Good advice

      [...]
      It’s not cheating if he informs her beforehand.

      [...]
      This

      [...]
      Cheating is for retarded betas with scarcity mindset. He can either tell her he is sleeping with other women and she has to deal with it, or he can leave.

      Why would her attractiveness have anything to do with it? Wouldn't a woman jump at the opportunity to sleep with a more attractive partner?

      You should ask her why she never wants to boink and go from there.

      Just get similar excuses to what's in > picrel no deeper reasoning tho I have tried to have that communication with her

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >I have to reassure her I still find her attractive
        No you don't

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Oops you are right I just typed it wrong, I meant to be that she doesn’t find him physically attractive.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Then just don't reassure her

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Given what we know from your three sentences, i'd say dread is probably too fast but flirting will not hurt. I found flirting or being more open with other women was one of the best things I could have done at the time.
      Practice, first. Don't flirt in front of her. Do it out and about during your day. There's a cute nursing assistant at a clinic adjacent to my office. We often walk in together in the morning. Just today I complimented her fitness level. She has lost weight recently and is looking very trim. She wasn't some ham beast but was clearly falling into flabby mommy mode. After she thanked me, I asked her when she was buying me lunch. I got a giggle and she touched my arm. We're both married and I doubt it will ever go anywhere but it's practice.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >>t. 26 year old balding incel
      Based and same. Our dispassionate vantage point makes us uniquely qualified to give relationship advice.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      This incel knows. The bell curve of relationship understanding is true.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >the bell curve of relationship understanding
        KEK
        unironically true

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >incel
      >immediately tries to ruin a relationship based on some atheist PUA shit he read
      You people really are worthless. No wonder you guys are so quick to get groomed as mass shooters by the CIA.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        At least my man is happy

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >literal mentally ill incel giving his worthless opinion on relationships and women
      cracks me up every single time. have a nice day, sperg

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        you will never be a woman

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Sorry about your wife anon. If you want to send her my way I’ll make her feel like she’s on top of the world and then ruin her life.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Fpbp, dread game works

      > t. I turn down the sex, never her

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      /thread

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      T. Listens to Patrice O'neal

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        He's not wrong.
        >women can love men
        >men need to just like women

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      based and patrice o'neal pilled

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        based

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      That is exactly why my long term relationship failed. Too safe, too predictable, too boring.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      fpbp

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      My japanese wife only wants to fuck semi regularly when we're in Japan together. I know it's to make sure I don't cheat on her with other Japanese girls. (I still do)

      We're visiting my family for a couple months in America and suddenly she gives zero pussy

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Move to Cali or Hawaii and keep her on that dread game 24/7

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Im in Cali now but it's not as easy to get with other Asian chicks here as it is in Japan where the dating pool is.. uhh.. 99% japanese. Mostly due to time constraints and job. Maybe I should bumble or something

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Bang other woman but keep her around. As a man, it’s easier to bang woman in a relationship, even more so if you’re married. Don’t feel guilty about it because she obviously isn’t trying to satisfy you.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      cheating is a lot harder than people make it out to be. dating is almost entirely done online now (be it shit like tinder, social media platforms, etc.) so it's close to impossible unless you wanna risk people you know/friends of your gf finding you trying to cheat. I've had to resort to fucking trannies on grindr because it's the only way to cheat anonymously.

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Let her know that you are going to have sex, whether she's involved is up to her.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >cheating
      Lmao
      Let her know you're having sex with her, whether she wants it or not

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >t. virgin

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        What was that post where anon raped his wife 3 times a week but he was trying to cut down

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >these are the people calling me incel

    kek

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Pretty much, MGTOW bros have mever been proven wrong. They're the only wing of the inceldom that isn't complete cringe, marriage is a joke.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I would rather stay a virgin at 25 than to live this life. Thanks for the moral boost OP.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Same here. It sound better to chase your hobbies and keep yourself in top shape instead of wasting time on some woman that you don't even love but can fuck like once a week. Normalfags are animals by all means.

        [...]
        [...]
        [...]

        >I don't rape her more than 4 times a week
        lmao always lose my shit on this one.

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    The way I see it a woman's priority (and the other way around) should be to make the man happy and satisfy his needs. Sex should never feel like a chore but even if it does, if she loves and respects you she will want to give you what you need. It's insulting and disrespectful to disregard the persons needs that you are supposedly in love with.

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    unironically just cheat on her and stop showing any interest at all in her. she might quickly get the message

    shes probably already cheating on you so you don't need to feel bad about it

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Can't believe this bitch didn't shower after going to the gym

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Kek

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      When my wife comes home from the gym I love to lick her sweaty asshole. And she loves it too.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I do the same, because I work out at night and I'm too exhausted to shower afterwards.
      Also a shower directly before going to bed is useless since you are going to wake up stinking again anyway.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >shower directly before going to bed is useless since you are going to wake up stinking again anyway.
        Maybe you're waking up stinking because you don't shower before bed and your bed is dirty as a result.
        I feel uncomfortable getting into bed without washing myself first because of that feeling that the bed will stop being clean.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Do you shit yourself at night? Why the fuck would you wake up stinking?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Sex

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    She doesn't feel gross, she is gross. She went to the gym, then she got in bed without showering. NGMI. Here's a lesson for you guys... shower at night before you put your greasy, sweaty ass in bed. Even if you like to shower in the morning, still shower before bed. It will drastically reduce acne for one. Your room won't stink for two. It is the way civilized white people act for three. Maybe most importantly, if you ever do happen to bring a girl home, your bed won't be brown and smell like a sock.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I don't even really sweat that much. I just shower once every three days.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        shower with water every day you filthy gay. you can shampoo 2 times a week if you want

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >shampoo
          NGMI

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Disgusting

        Reminder that the kama sutra says that the man who fucks must shower and groom every day

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          To be fair, I always wash myself after shitting (on the street), so my private parts are always clean.
          Other than that, there's no reason wear down my skin with constant washing.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >wear down the skin
            just drop the "products". soap for the pits, that's it. and NO HOT WATER. ever. my skin always dried out before I started obeying these two rules. if you do you can shower as often as you want or need. let's say you work out two days in a row in the summer. you NEED to shower both days, and obeying those two rules you can. it's only hot water and questionable chemicals from the hygiene scam industry that threaten your skin. water around or below room temperature won't do shit.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        You are disgusting

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Disgusting. NGMI

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        You filthy animal.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >acne
      are you a teenager?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Friend's wife has anosmia (can't smell, genetic, not COVID-acquired)
      >Asks me if she stinks every time I see her because friend insists that he likes the way she stinks
      >She fucking reeks half the time, and not in a sexy girl sweat way
      >Try to explain that she should just fucking shower in the morning, regardless of whether or not anyone tells her she stinks
      >She continues to not shower and then gets paranoid about her smell
      W*men

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      People go to sleep without showering? Wtf? Fucking subhumans.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      It's not the sweat that's gross to me, it's the fact she went to a gym when hundreds of other people use the machines and get their sweat all over them. People get fucking viruses like warts from sharing unclean machines. And she crawls her ass into his fucking bed with him without showering? Fucking vile.

      With that said, I only shower once a week, but Im a NEET who doesn't go anywhere and doesn't sweat. If I do go out to get some food I put on some deodorant and clean clothes and I smell fine.

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You should ask her why she never wants to boink and go from there.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      "We boinkin or what bitch"

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    My wife wasn’t having it last night. But instead of taking “no” for an answer I pulled off her pants and panties and started rubbing my hard cock in her pussy lips. Then I grabbed her hand and made her rub my cock on her while I grabbed her tits. Banged her side saddle until she was on the cusp, then I railed her on top in missionary until she was pulsating like a calf cramp. She said “no” and I still busted a nut in her. If you can fraud to overcome nature’s limits you can fuck your wife and overcome society’s limits.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      based

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      you will be a good friend with 'i raped my wife, again' anon, and this is a compliment

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Post it

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      This anon fucks

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous
    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      you will be a good friend with 'i raped my wife, again' anon, and this is a compliment

      Based

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      you will be a good friend with 'i raped my wife, again' anon, and this is a compliment

      [...]
      Based

      Post it

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        thanks, never saw this pasta before

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Hello based department, I'm a big fan!

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Fuck, you are in dangerous terratory buddy, i will pray for you

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Fuck, you are in dangerous terratory buddy, i will pray for you
      He's literally just having sex with his wife.

  12. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I am becoming more and more convinced that women are not actually interested in sex and/or are not actually attracted to men. So many of them seem at least bi nowadays, and/or are more interested in what a man gives her than any physically-intimate relationship.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Women are always twice as horny as you. But they’re 10 times as neurotic. Getting laid is a mostly non-verbal sales pitch. Your overcoming objections, sometimes to you, most times to themselves of them “feeling sexy” or some bull shit like that. You can’t make every sale, but trust me when I say your dick is a wet as you want it to be.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Women can be just as horny as men, if you cant inspire real sweaty animal lust in women you need to sort yourself out.
        This only really happens if theyre in the proliferative phase of their menstrual cycle though. If you know what youre looking for you can tell when a girl is about to ovulate or not

        >Women are always twice as horny as you.
        I keep seeing some people here saying this and always think this is bullshit, because in my own experience and in every single relationship I read about like OP's, it is 99% always the woman who is denying the sex.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >Women are always twice as horny as you.
          their hormone profile makes it impossible to this being true. at their highest they're 12x less horny than the average man is. at their lowest they don't know how SEX is spelled

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            [...]
            >Women are always twice as horny as you.
            I keep seeing some people here saying this and always think this is bullshit, because in my own experience and in every single relationship I read about like OP's, it is 99% always the woman who is denying the sex.

            Then why do they all have double digit bodycounts?

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Probably more about exploring sexuality and making new experiences rather than having sex at all.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              They do get horny but still this

              Probably more about exploring sexuality and making new experiences rather than having sex at all.

              It’s weird how little enjoyment they seem to get out of casual sex the majority of the time. Read stories of them hooking up with famous guys. It’s bizarre how little they seem to enjoy it

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Probably more about exploring sexuality and making new experiences rather than having sex at all.

              they mostly have sex to get attention. they give up sex to get other things in return. sex isn't the point to them.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Because you are a BETA.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Anyone who uses terms like alpha and beta is a retard

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Women can be just as horny as men, if you cant inspire real sweaty animal lust in women you need to sort yourself out.
      This only really happens if theyre in the proliferative phase of their menstrual cycle though. If you know what youre looking for you can tell when a girl is about to ovulate or not

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I think the uncomfortable truth is that what women are attracted to and what makes them horny is a lot less physical than we would like. Just the way we initiate already makes a world of a difference. Like who knows how that guy started trying to get into her pants? Maybe he straight up asked her (for permission, basically) or they were in bed and he just rubbed his boner on her ass. Setting the mood first seems to be what's getting women into it, the foreplay starts in the head.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        for me it always work when I rub my dick against my wife. she won't ever say "yes" when I ask her but borderline rape is fine with her.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          do you do this nude or more in a humping like fashion? doing "the naked man" also works with my gf sometimes

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      No, women are only interested in having sex with men who behave masculinely and dominantly, and the better looking you are, the lower the threshold you have to cross. But if she already sees you as weak and boring, even improving your appearance won’t effect her attraction for you without a corresponding change in behavior.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      women have17 times lower testosterone levels than men. of course they're not as interested in sex as men are.

  13. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    kek at all this bullshit. Imagine listening to any of these fucking losers
    >cheat on her
    >fuck other women instead
    >she's already fucking other men
    >your marriage is over
    Look man you're not fully estranged right? Have you tried just licking her pussy? Next time you're hanging out on the couch or laying in bed and you're horny like that, pull her pants down and get really into it. Lots of groans and heavy breathes, eye contact, roll her around etc all that bs. If she starts fussing or squirms around just hold her down and keep doing it until she cums, then go about whatever you were doing before like nothing happened.
    Women do asinine phycological shit with sex and relationships, don't take it too personally. Just focus on her only a couple times and see what happens, maybe it'll satisfy a desire to be 'wanted' or 'needed' or whatever brain-quirk of the month she has.
    If forcefully doing it causes a genuine freakout then I'd say you have more serious relationship issues than a lack of sex.
    So she says she wants a shower. Do you two bathe together? Take one with her and make it extra sudsy. If she's not giggling and washing you too and is instead doing dead fish pose, ^ probably more serious issues and you should look for advice elsewhere. anywhere else. Random hobo at the liquor store is a better bet than where you are right now.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      hahaha this is hilarious

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Look man you're not fully estranged right? Have you tried just licking her pussy? Next time you're hanging out on the couch or laying in bed and you're horny like that, pull her pants down and get really into it. Lots of groans and heavy breathes, eye contact, roll her around etc all that bs. If she starts fussing or squirms around just hold her down and keep doing it until she cums, then go about whatever you were doing before like nothing happened.
      DO NOT do this. ffs man. If she doesn't reciprocate, never get her off. If you do this, she'll just realize she can get sexual favors from you without doing anything in return and this will turn into the only intimate thing you do because you still crave sex but you can't have it so you'll just do that to keep yourself satiated. It's literally being thirsty and having a few drops of water just enough so you don't die until the next time.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >If she doesn't reciprocate
        well that's why I said if nothing changes.
        You can get her off once without her reciprocating, this stuff really isn't that deep anon.

        That's depressing. My gf will let me pull down her panties and fuck her while she's half asleep even if she isn't in the mood. Half the time she'll end up waking up and loving it. If she's super tired I'll just nudgefuck her softly and finish on her passed out tits. God I love her

        somno girls best girls

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Virgin 101, this is not how relationships work.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          kinda agree, this is not how healthy relationships work. It's all from experience.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >just give yourself throat cancer bro
      no thanks

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      omg. disregard everything that is masculine, start to submit to her by eating her snatch
      most women who are into masculine man dont even want their pussy licked. i never fucking do it and i receive my bj EVERY TIME before i fuck. else you can geeeeeeeeeeet out!

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        you've never made a woman orgasm

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >caring
          no wonder you are a fag dicklet

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            the absolute state of incels

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              the absolute state of small dick cucks

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                you don’t fuck, women don’t like you. if you think eating pussy is for betas you fell for some pol or R9K psyop. Absolute brainworms and you’ll never have a woman.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                cope cuck, if u had a dick u would fuck as well, instead of being pathetic cumslurper

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                you straight up do not have a good enough dick bro
                size matters

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                want to have a dick measuring contest anon?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                right
                the guy who's seething about eating pussy will now post online about how he has a 9x7 dick
                whatever man keep sucking on your knees

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Random hobo at the liquor store is a better bet than where you are right now.
      this. IST is a board of incels lifting 30 lbs trying to get laid. and it's mostly zoomer teenagers, too. so their life experience is non existent. taking those fags seriously and not just laughing at them makes you an even bigger loser than they are

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      reddit opinion

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Have you tried just licking her pussy?
      stopped reading there you whipped moron
      you go right ahead clean your hoes hole with your mouth you fucking dog

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >literally scared of pussy

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        tastes good and improves test. hope the mtf treatment is going well for you

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      The only masculine way to eat pussy is standing 69

  14. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    That's depressing. My gf will let me pull down her panties and fuck her while she's half asleep even if she isn't in the mood. Half the time she'll end up waking up and loving it. If she's super tired I'll just nudgefuck her softly and finish on her passed out tits. God I love her

  15. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    i've said this before but here:
    >1. if she's on any kind of birth control then get her to stop
    >2. if she's on any other medication look into it and see if there are alternatives (antidepressants are the easy culprits)
    >3. general health. get her to exercise. cardio at a minimum. good sleep as well
    >3a. diet. nothing specific just don't eat garbage
    >4. essential supplements i.e. anything that addresses common/potential deficiencies like zinc, magnesium, vitamin D, B vitamins
    >5. libido supplements e.g., yohimbine OR (not and) ashwagandha, maca, horny goat weed, tribulus, ginseng in that order. they all kinda work but the side effects are a bit more unpredictable with women
    >6. testosterone+estrogen vaginal creams. of course, you'll still have to get her to put it in
    >7. testosterone patches. sides for sure

    aside from all the physical stuff, regular women have a pretty okay sex drive. they just have a lot more reasons to say no (soreness, exhaustion, mood, worries about whatever) on top of whatever shitty state they've gotten their health into. also, you're literally on tren, buddy. most women won't be able to keep up anyway

  16. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    So much advice from guys who are not married. 99/100 times you will have sex maybe once a week, occasionally every two weeks. The animal lust always dies down and sex becomes more and more procedural for them. Spontaneous crazy sex where you fuck her over the kitchen table becomes a once every couple months thing.

    It doesn’t matter if you make it clear you could look elsewhere (you shouldn’t try that if you want to keep your wife) or if you try to neg her. It’s going to wind down.

    One a month? Yeah, I’d talk to my wife and tell her I cant maintain that, and we will need to figure out a way because it’s very much a need for men. Once every 10 days? Deal with it or be a bachelor, because every marriage pretty much gets there.

    Most of the posters here are probably not married, they’ve been dating for a few years and think they’re as close to married life as they need to be to understand how it works. Come back when you’ve been married 5+ years and let’s see if you’re still so confident that you’ll fuck every other day. Won’t happen.

    A loving partner, two incomes, the chance to sire children and become a patriarch for your own family, and stability. That’s what you get from marriage. You forfeit every-day animal sex that you get with FWB’s/early gfs. Is it worth it? That’s your call.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      checked.
      this is a good opinion from a more experienced man. nonetheless, we'll never stop wanting to have our cake and eat it too

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >having cake and eating it too
        stop saying this retarded saying, it makes no sense. nobody would get cake—a dessert—just to stare at it, it’s food. if you’re getting food you will obviously want to eat it, otherwise you wouldn’t have gotten it. that retarded saying is the equivalent of getting a house but still living on the streets

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          based autist

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          sir, please take up your complaints to the language department. but to appease your autism, having the cake isn't to keep it just to stare at the food. it means that you cannot enjoy the cake without consuming it, and thus, depleting it entirely. the cake that you "had" is now gone and eaten. you cannot have the cake, and, eat it. you can only eat it, and then no longer have it.
          your analogy is also invalid for that reason. a correct version would probably be: you can't get a house without paying for it. anyway this is coming from an ESL gay so i'm sorry but you are probably retarded

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          You can't sell your house and have it too.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          it's become reversed from the original over the years. It used to be:
          >you can't eat your cake and have it, too
          which makes much more sense.
          t. fellow autist

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Wow marriage is such an amazing deal for a man!

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        When you get older you’ll see the appeal.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >i'm old and have a retarded take, therefore you'll get the same retarded take when you get old
          the common denominator between you and the old version me is being old, not retarded

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            You’re a naive kid. I used to think the same way. You’ll come around on the idea of marriage when you are a little older. You can say I’m a retard for telling you that, but eventually you’ll come around.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              >saying nothing
              >le hecking vague
              nta, but you are fucking retarded

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                You’re getting needlessly aggressive. Just take it easy lad it’ll be ok. You’ll be alright.

                Don’t get yourself all worked up!

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                yeah keep coping sexless cuck, get on your knees and beg next time maybe she'll give you

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous
              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                have sex

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous
              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >this is what married cucks have to do because no sex
                it never began for you

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                so close to sacred numbers. But calm down lil dude you gotta step away. I can ruin this thread with you forever

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                yeah because you essentially an incel

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                one more personal attack and I might have to oil you up like a prize pig and slide right on in there. run all up on you. bet youd like that

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >absolute state of sexless married men

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                kek, great reply chain

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Nta, but if you aren't trolling please kys.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >absolute state of sexless married men

                fucking LOL

                the thought of some sexless boomer typing out that post really tickles me

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        It actually is. Having bland, but easy sex 2-4 times a month is still a lot more sex than all but the top percent of non-married men get, with the added benefit that you don't have to work for it. Even Chad still has to put in some effort of using tinder or going out. A married man can just say "hey want to have sex" and there's a chance it happens right there, no additional work.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Married 7 years and this is the truth. The best thing is to be honest with your partner. I had to completely change my mindset about sex and be open with my wife. I would want it every 3 days or so and she was wanting it more like once a week. Differences in libidos is normal especially when you have children.

      Hopefully you actually like your wife for more than just sex.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I been dating my hs sweetheart for 10 years. Getting married next year. We still fuck like 2 - 5 times a week. Once every 10 days sounds pretty shit. That being said even if it were the case it would still be worth it. Longterm love and securing my bloodline means more to me than frequent casual sex. Modern dating looks like trash. I couldn't even imagine jumping through hoops just to get a date these days.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >I been dating my hs sweetheart for 10 years.
        So you're what, 25-26? Lmao, get back to us in 10 years kiddo.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >Lmao, get back to us in 10 years kiddo.
          only one of us ages

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >I couldn't even imagine jumping through hoops just to get a date these days.
        this. for me it was only a few years ago and its still hard to imagine i was doing that bullshit. sifting through roasties, getting all cleaned up to go the bar, buying drinks, listening to terrible club music, buying cabs, buying dates, swiping through nutty feminist and chud dating profiles to find the 3-4 women you would actually consider out of 100. Having the same bullshit conversations over and over with different people. Hanging out with people you hate just because youre a coomer and want to fuck one particular pair of tits in their friend group. And then doing all that just to coom in a girl a few times. Glad i gave all that up.

        [...]

        found the larpers. why do you post demoralization moshe?

        >DA JOOS are trying to stop me from having anonymous sex, they want me to get married and have a normal family
        absolutely mindbroken

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >I couldn't even imagine jumping through hoops just to get a date these days.
        this. for me it was only a few years ago and its still hard to imagine i was doing that bullshit. sifting through roasties, getting all cleaned up to go the bar, buying drinks, listening to terrible club music, buying cabs, buying dates, swiping through nutty feminist and chud dating profiles to find the 3-4 women you would actually consider out of 100. Having the same bullshit conversations over and over with different people. Hanging out with people you hate just because youre a coomer and want to fuck one particular pair of tits in their friend group. And then doing all that just to coom in a girl a few times. Glad i gave all that up.

        [...]
        >DA JOOS are trying to stop me from having anonymous sex, they want me to get married and have a normal family
        absolutely mindbroken

        >I couldn't even imagine jumping through hoops just to get a date these days.

        So much this. The current world is broken

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Unironically people are memeing about the incels but not factoring in that most guys these days are actually volcel because of how bad it's gotten

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Modern dating looks like trash. I couldn't even imagine jumping through hoops just to get a date these days.
        yep. i wish i could have gotten what you have. now im stuck here hoping to god i can find a decent woman but my chances are looking slim

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I’m married and have sex twice a day still… hasn’t died down yet, but I am always worried that it will after a longer period of time. We had a lull where it was more like 5 times a week but back to twice a day. I don’t think I could handle once a week.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I don’t believe you’re married and fuck twice a day but on the off-hand that’s true, you’re 1% of the 1%.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          he's either a pornstar or he cums in 2 seconds, I don't see how I will keep my energy up and have time for a full time job, gym supposing he s doing that too since he s on fit, commuting and 2 full sex sessions

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I been dating my hs sweetheart for 10 years. Getting married next year. We still fuck like 2 - 5 times a week. Once every 10 days sounds pretty shit. That being said even if it were the case it would still be worth it. Longterm love and securing my bloodline means more to me than frequent casual sex. Modern dating looks like trash. I couldn't even imagine jumping through hoops just to get a date these days.

        found the larpers. why do you post demoralization moshe?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          How the hell am I demoralizing? I stated that even if the sex wasn't as frequent I'd still prefer a longterm relationship for the continuation of my bloodline. The exact opposite of what garden gnomes want. If you think 2 - 5 times a week isn't feasible you either suck at sex or married a used up whore.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >If you think 2 - 5 times a week isn't feasible you either suck at sex or married a used up whore.
            If you can maintain sex 2-5 times a week then you fuck like a sissy and last 10 minutes max.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Not him but I could fuck 5 times a day for 20 minutes easily because I’m /fraud/ and have a bottomless appetite for pussy. I also live in real life and know they no natural woman can keep up with that and there is 0 chance of that type of shit when you’re married.

              Good sex twice a day in a married household ain’t happening

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >I could fuck 5 times a day for 20 minutes easily
                You say that with the naive confidence of a simp who had never fucked for so hard and so long that he's gotten chafe/blisters on his dick from overuse.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                my bro i've chafed my dick but blisters?

                if u had blisters on your dick it's not from overuse MY MAN lol

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                bro what? your girls pussy made of construction paper?

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              LMAO are you serious? You need to stop jerking off so much. I only cum via sex and go anywhere from 30 - 45 minutes ful thrusting powerr every time. Stop jerking off and do cardio. Never seen a self own this funny

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                im with this dude, i jerk off a ton, im fat and i dont do cardio, and i blast my wife for 25-30 minute sessions 3x 4x a week easily

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Blisters on his dick means his girl isn't getting wet enough and there's too much friction. Aka she isn't aroused. What a self own

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                blisters on his dick would mean he has fucking syphillis or something retard

                you cant abrade your dick enough for it to get BLISTERS you fucking virgin jfc

                LITERAL 13-14 year olds in this thread

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I wasnt taking really taking the whole blisters comment seriously. I just assumed he was exaggerating and meant there was so much dry friction that he had major irritation. If he non ironically has blisters thats a serious problem lmao

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                stop typing you sound 12

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I'm married as well but I'm the one with low sex drive due to shift work and never having energy, it sucks. On the flip side it's really true that the person that says no controls the sex, I get it when I want usually.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        wanna bet this guy's wife is fucking other dudes? women act very quickly if they believe their "needs aren't being met"

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >gay
      >partnered up for 15 years now
      >still fuck him every day of the week most weeks
      >usually fool around a couple of times a day too, just cuddling or making out on the couch, mutual JO, whatever
      >standing permission to fuck other guys on the side as well for both of us, which i do occasionally if they're hot and available and so does he. it's actually super hot imagining him getting ruined by someone lol. occasionally leads to threesomes some times (rarely tho, maybe like every other month?)
      >come into this thread
      >read about the sexless lives of joyless straightfags

      homophobes hate us cuz they aint us i guess. imagining the seethe as they return home to face the reality of their harpy's dusty coochie explains so much

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >gay cuck
        absolute fucking degeneracy

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I’m gay and I think you’re disgusting and you’re probably ugly as fuck too.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I've been married 22+ years and we still have sex daily, usually twice, because I laid down the law early and I don't take no for an answer. We have beautiful children and a loving home to show for it, you have a blown out asshole. You will never be good enough and you will never go to heaven.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          "The lady doth protest too much, methinks"

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Nobody gives a fuck what you think but everything I posted is true. Believe it or don't, I couldn't care any less than I do right now.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Enjoy your monkeypox & AIDs

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >sire children and become a patriarch for your own family
      not if she ain't giving it to ya, champ

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Most accurate response ITT.

      Would add that the once a month it's a bit too close to the lower side.

      >. lived with my ex for 12 years and worst case scenario we had sex once a week.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Come back when you’ve been married 5+ years
      Guess ill never be back cause im not begging a roastie to be in my presence via contractual financial ruin

  17. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >wife
    >3 times a month
    lmao, what the fuck is the point

  18. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Just touch her body and tell her how good she looks everyday, when you can you make sure you are showering together.

    >t have sex with my wife atleast 5 times per week

  19. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Yes, turn to a board filled with autistic incel losers instead of actually talking with your wife. You sound like a fucking loser lmao

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Seeth

  20. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    This, is a huge issue for me.
    Feel my wife has no desire for me.
    It is very painful.
    She no longer looks at me with desire.
    We will have sex or she will blow me but
    I can tell shes not really into it

    I am unsure of what to do about it.
    It just makes me sad.
    We have a 1 year old, and the sex has been terrible since we found out she was pregnant(she had a lot of pain and morning sickness)
    she has basically been a sack of useless do nothing since she got pregnant

    she doesn't cook
    she doesn't clean
    she doesn't fuck

    Really don't know what to do. We used to fuck twice a day for years. the sudden drop in sexual activity has really done a number on my self esteem.
    >but of course you can't express these things to your partner
    >as there is nothing more sexually disgusting to a woman
    >than weakness.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Is this a poem?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Yes.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        No.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Nice blogpost gay, but couldn't you just have a conversation with her about it while not framing it as your weakness, but hers? You could literally start it with "are you OK?"

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Hey thanks for the advice. I have tried talking to her, and I have expressed my dissatisfaction.
        >she says shes depressed
        >because her brother died in a motorcycle accident last year.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          The solution is staring you right in the eyes buddy. Tell her youre going to buy a motorcycle and drive around at 150 miles per hour every day she doesnt have sex with you

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            This is the best advice I've received.
            Thank you.
            Real talk, I did inherit from her dead brother
            >a bunch of 45lb plates
            >a bench/squat rack
            >a kettle bell
            >dip bars

            So now I have no excuse not to work out, since I'm softer than I'd like to be.
            >which may contribute to my wife not wanting to fuck

            Need to build up a routine with weights because really all I do now is yoga.
            Of course I will also need to find a motorcycle

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Fucking kek

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Go to a therapist anon

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I think i'll just make a podcast instead.

  21. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    tell her that you expect sex from a marriage. if she still doesn't want to have sex get another wife.

  22. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Unpopular opinion here but you must be doing something wrong if your wife or girlfriend doesn't want to have sex with you.

    In my experience you should never really ask for sex, instead you should just go make your wife wet and then fuck her hard. Make her feel good and that she is wanted and needed, make her believe that your dick is hard because of her and she will be happy. I have never once asked for sex and I have never asked can I do X or Y thing to a woman. Asking stupid shit like that will only kill the mood. I know incels and retards who can't fuck are going to debate me about this but sometimes wives and women in general just want to get fucked hard by a real man and not made to suffer through a tender lovemaking session by a some unsure guy that goes about his day like a wet rag.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Second dis

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      This is right.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      This, just rape her

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        kill
        yourself

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Dumb moron

  23. 2 months ago
    Anonymous
    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      cried laughing

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Gets me every time

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      This guy is such a fucking Chad

  24. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    The only people who have relationship problems are men who date a roastie(gf who has experience before you)

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      This is the sad truth. Which means 99% of people will have problems.

  25. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    The wife is unironically me... sex gets boring fast.

    Every gf I had ended up sexuall frustrated and cheated on me instead of breaking up...

  26. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Man I'm glad I don't have to deal with this shit anymore. I was in a relationship for 4 years with a fertile piece of meat and in the last year it ended up being like a 15-25% success rate when I tried to initiate sex.

    I was getting more and more horny and more resentful with every time she turned me down. I am an attractive man with a body most men can dream of, I would get embarrassed for trying to have sex with my GIRLFRIEND when she would turn me down, had a way of making me feel like I was some perverted freak for wanting to have sex. A couple times I even went into the bathroom and wanked my cock off just to spite the bitch. Then I'd sit in bed next to her wishing she'd just fucking break up with me so I didn't have to deal with this shit anymore.

    I'm thinking FUCK this I should go and fuck that slut that tried to put the moves on me at the bar last weekend. Eventually she broke up with me, fuck knows, I think she's gay.

    I'm convinced MOST women are pretty much not attracted to men in the physical sense, only an idea of them and an idea of their social value.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Same here buddy. And yet I still miss her even though the sex part was horrible. Fuck falling in love

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        It's terrible bro. It's like being starving and having your favourite meal right there next to you but you can't eat it. You'd rather it just fuck off so you can't see it.

        Nah don't miss that shit bro we deserve better.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >Nah don't miss that shit bro we deserve better.
          I know. It gets a little easier each day.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Maybe you're just an insufferable gay

  27. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >married
    >has money to waste on a tren cycle
    get her pregnant you retard fuck

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      He wants to have more sex not less

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I got more sex when my wife was pregnant than I've ever gotten sex per week

  28. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    my wife is uninterested in sex and her pussy barely gets wet but i blast the living fuck out of her every other day regardless. increasingly aggressively

    imagine fucking marrying someone who doesnt fuck you. ?????? my wife may not be super into it and slutty like i like but she gives up the pussy and i rub her asshole and slap her tits and etc . i make it fun for me somehow

  29. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    For most of my relationship whenever I wanted sex I used to try and get her horny by rubbing her inner thighs and moving towards her pussy and sometimes it worked of course and sometimes it didn't. My girlfriend eventually told me two things that changed our sex lives for the better: Firstly, that the buildup from just kissing and making out, maybe stroking her hair or caressing her neck would make her a lot more horny than trying to go straight for the goods and more importantly, that she usually got in the mood for sex very late at night but she didn't want to wake me up since I had to get up early for work. Maybe you just have incompatible schedules in that sense, maybe there are ways to make it work. Maybe you could have quickies too and she just doesn't know whether she likes them or not.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >the buildup from just kissing and making out, maybe stroking her hair or caressing her neck would make her a lot more horny than trying to go straight for the goods

      Seconding this

      >she usually got in the mood for sex very late at night but she didn't want to wake me up since I had to get up early for work

      God I fucking feel this one, she always wants me when I’m not around or otherwise unavailable and she never wants me when I am.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >she always wants me when I’m not around or otherwise unavailable and she never wants me when I am.

  30. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    tell her what you just told us

  31. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Is this the thread with the old farts complaining about their dead bedrooms? lmao

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      wait until youve fucked a girl like 1000 times. man i wish i could fuck LITERALLY ANYONE. like i would just pick any fat random bitch and go at it

  32. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    If you had more sex before tren, then your personality changed. If it hasn’t changed, then I would breakup before cheating.

  33. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    sumbody post dat shit about da fat bitch overheating and needing her mega gulp...lol!

    i dont know why i typed that like that i just wanted to, dont judge me

  34. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Well at least he still has sex almost once per week, last time i fucked my gf was 3 weeks ago and she doesn't show any sign of wanting some in the next weeks. I refuse to masturbate so I jus have to cope

  35. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Funny, but I think I'm in a similar situation. Gf isn't really interested in sex and she almost never makes a move anymore.

    I'm getting IST and probably what she needs is a bit of jealousy. By pure human nature, the moment she sees any common friend or random chick complimenting or jokingly hitting on me she will go into "must fuck my man to assert dominance" mode. I don't like to play that game but I guess it's for the best.

  36. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Tell her you starting taking tren and are spending too much time on IST and have decided you're going to leave her for a femboy.

  37. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >spending hundered of hours and money on a hoe that will only sleep with you every two weeks
    Married fags once again BTFO

  38. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Put her on 5 mg Anavar a day OP and see what happens to her sex drive.

  39. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    How often is it like this bros? I feel lucky my girlfriend will have sex basically every single day and give me a blowjob whenever I want

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >girlfriend
      yep

  40. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    to anyone reading this thread, welcome to IST, where a big percentage of posters are gays LARPing as bros attempting to get you to not want to fuck women.

  41. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You're bad at sex

  42. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Talk to her about it.
    The primary purpose of marriage for centuries was to give both partners a safe socially acceptable outlet for sexual urges. If she doesn't want sex anymore she's failing the marriage contract. Talk about what you can do collaboratively to fix it.
    That might mean fucking other women.

  43. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I just took a big stinky shit and it smells like onions (actually typed onions btw, not zoy) really bad and its stinking up my home, oh man I'm such a poopy stinky silly boy what is my family going to think!

  44. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >asking
    >not spontaneously initiating foreplay at your behest

  45. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm not sure what you should do.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >marital rape
      Is that where the woman takes half the man's property and income for the res of his life?

  46. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    hey mrs anon we are having less sex than is ideal for me and i'd like to have a conversation with you about it.

    i want to have sex X times per week but we only have sex Y times per week. sex is very important to me; when i ask for it and you reject me i feel hurt and rebuffed, like you don't love me or want to spend time with me. it's not just about having fun - your willingness to have sex with me is something that i interpret as a sign of how much you care about me.

    i'd like to know why you often refuse to have sex with me and if there are things we can do together to get you in the mood and make sex more desirable for you. is sex fun for you? if not why not? are there things in your life which are getting in the way of sex and preventing you from wanting to have it, or wanting it at all? are you too busy or too stressed? am i asking you for sex at the wrong times?

    what do you want from sex and how can i give it to you?

    if the problem is stress or not being in the mood in the moment then i think maybe we should plan some date nights and create a structure around when we have sex. people think that sex should be spontaneous but i think that being able to plan to have it at times which are low stress for both of us and know and expect that it will happen will make it easier for us to put ourselves in the mood, rather than just hoping that the mood strikes us both at the same time.

    sex is very important to me and i consider regular sex essential to a romantic relationship. i will not feel loved in a relationship that is not sexual, and i cannot stay in a marriage if i don't feel loved by my wife.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      this post was written by a woman

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >i want to get women to have sex with me
        >should i consider what women think and need and want?
        >nah lmao
        seriously moron, actual scientists have done actual research into marriage and relationships. we know how to fix this shit empirically.

        99% of the time women refuse sex because
        1. they're not in the mood
        and
        2. they're distracted by worrying about other things

        if you know what they like and plan in advance you can help them get into the mood, and if you can fix their shit then not only will it not be distracting them anymore they will get horny as fuck for you for being their problem-solving knight in shiny armour (which is what really makes women wet, if you want to know, according to actual fucking women)

        "dude just rub her vag harder lmao"

        anyway i won't post again.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >onions-ence and female endorsed way get women in the mood.
          Make sure you wear 3 masks while you’re banging her too anon

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >if you can fix their shit then not only will it not be distracting them anymore they will get horny as fuck
          That's not what the science says shweeety:

          https://www.sciencenews.org/article/some-chores-linked-less-sex

          Bitch ass beta men who do household chores for their women get less sex, not more. No woman wants to see men take on their role.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Why's that a bad? Sometimes you gotta talk to women like they're mentally handicapped.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >talk to women
          already playing a losing game.

          just go fuck someone else, OP, and make absolutely no effort to hide it. she'll shape the fuck up real quick. or divorce you, but in that case she never had any intention of shaping up to begin with.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >i'd like to know why you often refuse to have sex with me and if there are things we can do together to get you in the mood and make sex more desirable for you. is sex fun for you? if not why not? are there things in your life which are getting in the way of sex and preventing you from wanting to have it, or wanting it at all? are you too busy or too stressed? am i asking you for sex at the wrong times?
      >what do you want from sex and how can i give it to you?
      Nothing is going to dry up a vag faster than asking this gay therapist-approved shit. And even if that were not true, 99% of women are not self-aware enough to even know the answers.

      Women become attracted a man based on his physical characteristics and behavior (as well as, often, the behavior of others towards the man.) You need to empirically figure out which combination turns any specific woman on.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Did you just larp a conversation with my wife?

  47. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    ITT:
    people who have never had sex or aren't/never been in relationships give marriage advice

  48. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    God damn after looking at that chart what’s the point of her even being around? My chart would be separated by half hours instead of days also.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >My chart would be separated by half hours instead of days also.
      Hahaha...12:00...12:02...12:07...

  49. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Half of them, "i feel gross"
    Stop being gross then

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah I’m not sure why OP would except that as an excuse. Maybe he’s gay.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Accept* christs sake

  50. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Probably because you’re taking steroids.
    Normal people don’t find this attractive

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Nobody tell him about tren smell.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        You mean the piss smell? Yeah I’ve noticed that.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          lol natty dyels mad af.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        You mean the piss smell? Yeah I’ve noticed that.

        It's really something else. I'm in a four-person apartment and all of us are on tren.
        Entire bathroom just reeks of tren piss.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          what the heck was does that smell like?

  51. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    she's not getting it from you so she's either getting it from another guy or is open to / looking for another guy

    women nowadays are catching on to the fact that their libido isn't low but that they're just no longer sexually attracted to their boyfriend / husband

  52. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Why do amerifats women hate sex so much?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Being fat ruins sex drive.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Bybthe time they are marries they have been railed by so many non committed Chads and Tyrones that a husband seems beta, lame and unattractive to them

  53. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Do sharting amerifats really?

  54. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Imagine marrying in a western gynocracy. Women add no value anymore except for their pussies. If she ain’t even giving that up to her husband that makes you the ultimate simp. The copes from all the oldfag cucks justifying their dead bed rooms in here are hilarious. Better you than me kings.

  55. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Just fucking leave. Why waste your prime years of the scant few you get in a lifetime on someone who clearly doesn't want to be with you? Divorce is expensive but you can always earn more money. You can't get more time.

  56. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    So who is right in this debate? The roided up boomers who barely have sex with their wife once a week or the raging dyel incels who have clearly never been in a long term relationship encouraging you to cheat on your wife? I really can't decide.

  57. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Unironically "rape" her

  58. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    this guy asks his wife for sex every single day? lol find a hobby bro

  59. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >help me cope with my bade decisions
    No. You fucking betabuxx, we told you not to get married so deal with the consequences

  60. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >I just came back from the gym, I feel gross (didn't shower until next morning)
    There it is, proof women don't even work up a sweat in the gym. They just go there for attention.

  61. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Women's sex drive isn't as high as men generally. There's a reason why fags fuck everything that walks and have 10000 sex partners in bathhouses while theres no straight or dyke bathhouses

  62. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You've trensitioned
    You're a trenny

  63. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    The solution is to never marry. It's completely pointless in the western world anyway, and any married fags telling you to change your mind as you age are irresponsible for suggesting it.

    The point of marriage in the past was to have a contract, both through the law and through God, binding you together. No fault divorce has erased the binding nature of marriage as a whole, at most you can argue that the state sanctioned robbery of a man's assets during divorce is the sole factor differentiating marriage from dating since the former is no longer any more committal than the latter otherwise.

    Don't marry. Then when she withdraws sex, have a talk with her about the importance of intimacy and ask if there are things she wants you to do to get her in the mood. If that fails, make an ultimatum and dump her should she insist you live as a eunuch for the rest of your time with her.

  64. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Got the opposite problem. I don't want to fuck my gf, haven't done it properly in months. Every time I try to initiate it goes shit too so I've stopped. I don't know how to please a woman, never did but I've gotten even worse because I don't remember the female body.
    Coping with porn, not good but I'd genuinely beat her if not for it, I get so fucking angry even after 3 days. What do?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Stop watching porn then idiot. It's probably why you don't want to fuck her in the first place.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        She'd turn me down even if I did, and even if we did have sex it would be shit

  65. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >2014-06-18
    >we were 20 minutes early
    lol if this old boy is over and done with start to finish in 20 minutes i'm pretty sure thats why his wife never wants to have sex

  66. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I feel like I should start recording this and making it public data. Anyone want to colab on recording this?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Im about to send this image to my wife. Ill start keeping track of excuses and update you in 3 weeks.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I'll put mine in google sheets and share it in bigquery for all to see. I can combine ours when the time comes. Same schema as the one in OP so DATE, SEX, EXCUSE

  67. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You probably arent doing enough around the house. Ask her if she's comfortable with your contribution to the household workload. Just print out the sticker chart, and be a good boy and do your chores so you can earn some sexy time!

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      When there's no more room on line, the memes shall walk the Earth

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Surely this is a joke

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >t. zero good boy stickers

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Good marriage>Bachelor>Incel>Shit Marriage
      This looks like hell

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >be him
      >wash dishes, feed baby whatever makes it puke with the clean dishes, rewash the dishes
      >repeat 5 or 10 times a day
      >threaten wife for solicitation if she trys to rulesmaxx me

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >put seat up and down again 10 times
      >get sucked off
      >this is le "bad" marriage

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Poor dude

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      wtf is a dog house

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Dog house means when your wife is mad at you and doesnt allow you to sleep in the house, so you sleep in the dogs house in the backyard for shelter

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Would abuse the fuck out of this system, fuck this retard bitch for thinking she's actually done something

  68. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It's a power dynamic. my girl used to think i was superior to her.I'm pretty sure she even used to brag about me. but now she probably realized i'm a needy lil bitch. i'm starting to look hella good though and we'll see how long it lasts when she realize i can just pick and choose

  69. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    My wife is fat and I dont really feel like having sex with her much at all anymore. More time for things that actually interest me, so its kind of a win. I married her a year and a half ago but we've been together for 11 years. Way she goes, bubs

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >More time for things that actually interest me, so its kind of a win.
      this is the sound of your T dropping.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Maybe. I play music when I'm not at my 9-5. Why would my fat wife, her Instagram videos thats she wants to watch with me, and all day on the couch be more interesting than my music? Answer is that it is not.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          that's all fine but where did your sex drive go, my man? are you resorting to porn?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >sex drive
            I dont want to fuck my wife and am a loyal, conscientious man, so I will not sleep with other women, either, so at this point my dick just doesn't care anymore, because it doesn't matter
            >porn
            Big time, brother, it's the only way whatsoever I can get sexual gratification and not be on top of something I find not sexy or even attractive.
            Just make sure you're making a good call lads, I didnt.

  70. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Don't take no for an answer. Don't rape her, but if she says no, ask her why. Keep telling her you want sex. Basically just filibuster her. My wife and I had this problem for a while. Finally one night I just didn't give up. After an hour and forty minutes she broke and said "fine, just be quick." As a courtesy, I was quick. Two nights later the same song and dance started, but I brought up that "two nights ago you wasted two hours, if we just do it now you can save that time." Surprisingly, she listened to reason and we had sex. Now we basically have a tacit agreement, that when I want sex, I get it, but as a courtesy, I finish quickly. Marriage is all about compromise.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Now we basically have a tacit agreement, that when I want sex, I get it, but as a courtesy, I finish quickly. Marriage is all about compromise.
      wow, sounds amazing!

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I mean, yeah, but jerking off with your wife's pussy is better than with your hand.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Maybe, but after jerking off, at least there isn't some damn wife hanging around thinking of dumb things that I have to deal with.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >yeah but my wife just lying there it's better than your hand
          KEK, I think I'd rather slash my wrists than get married at this point, especially to a starfish.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      You have a fucked I’ll marriage, mate.
      And begging and talking doesn’t help at all.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      pffffffft ahahahahahhahaha do whitebois really?

  71. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    U gotta quit putting the pussy on the pedestal

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