BRUTAL BREAK UP

I'm literally having a mental breakdown right now, because i had the balls to leave my gf i was about to marry. We were two years together. HOW THE FUCK DO I COPE? The 2 hour leg day didn't help.

  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Bro why the fuck did you leave her then, if you're the one dropping someone you shouldn't act like a little crying bitch

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      You left. What’s the problem?

      You cope because you must. That's the secret of adulting.

      >i had the balls to leave
      Did you want to leave? Are you regretting that decision? Or did something happen?

      >Did you want to leave? Are you regretting that decision? Or did something happen?

      I posted my 'mini story' in mental health thread of some kind so some anons might remember and told me to gtfo of the relationship.

      Those who don't know this was the original post: My gf is thin and hot, but she started shit talking to me when we have an argument and she won’t shut the fuck up. She will even make fun of me. She never cleans my home because she says it’s not her house despite her sleeping her 4-5 days a week and eating rice cakes on my bed and always leaving plates on the table after eating. Whenever I bring it up she told me that my house was a mess before she met me and that she helped me cleaned it twice(4 months ago was the last time) she told me that she has a house of her own to clean ( she lives with parents) and they even have a female cleaner from Phillipines or something.

      Fast forward to yesteday morning, i called her and told her that we should stop seeing each other and i blocked her from everywhere because when i told her she was chill but she was trying to reach me everywhere

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        You’re definitely way too immature to be getting married that’s for sure.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          You broke up cause the bitch ate rice cakes in your bed a day refused to be your maid?
          Good riddance, she deserves better and I can bet she's getting dicked down as you read this.
          God your a gay.

          the problem is not her, its you, you dont know how to be a man and how to set boundries.. and you blame her for testing you hahaha

          she will never have sex with you

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I’m gay and I meant him and her as a pair are too immature. They don’t even clean where they live lmao.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              okay than i misread have a nice day homosexual FAGGGGOOOOOOOT

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                lmfao

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        That sounds childish as fuck. But hell, if the only qualities holding you were "thin and hot", you're better off alone.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        You broke up cause the bitch ate rice cakes in your bed a day refused to be your maid?
        Good riddance, she deserves better and I can bet she's getting dicked down as you read this.
        God your a gay.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Eat shit, his future wife was becoming a slob and wouldn't do basic shit after he worked 9hr shifts.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            moron plz, she isn't his fucking bitch or maid. The pussy got fucking butthurt cause he looks likes a bitch and she called him out. Then he whines and cries like a bifch on fucking IST of all places. Shit won't be eaten, however his ex is def getting eaten by a real man. One who can take care of her without crying like a gay over fucking rice cakes.
            What a fucking moron. Someone will treat her right, and someone's doing it right now 😉
            Stop being a fucking bitch and man the fuck up.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >she deserves better and I can bet she's getting dicked down as you read this.
          hope your wife cucks you piece of shit

          You’re definitely way too immature to be getting married that’s for sure.

          No, i was doing fine in the relationship i was always there for her.

          the problem is not her, its you, you dont know how to be a man and how to set boundries.. and you blame her for testing you hahaha

          >the problem is not her, its you
          i merely blame myself aswell for some of the things i did, but bro i mean she even talked with her ex. she had male friends, shit beyond the 'rice cake example' and her excuse is that i was insecure and that i should just ~~*trust her*~~, the thing is that im sure she didn't cuck me but why is this shit allowed in 2022? I ended up being controlling and not letting her go outside but she started hating me for it, that was the main reason i gave up, basically this is the reason, it's just that events started happening and the rice cakes example happened 5 days ago.

          unironically the 8 hour arm workout will fix it

          will try it on friday, i got off work because i work in the weekend.

          Sounds like she is a brat and was fucking with you bro, don't freak out you just got used to her and now you feel weird or bad it always goes like that when you break up chill out bro all in all you did well. And FOR THE LOVE OF GOD DO NOT I REPEAT DO. NOT. FUCKING. GO. BACK. TO. HER. You don't know the amount of power breaking up gives you, this bitch is more confused than you right now fucking entitled cunt didn't think this was possible fuck her bro she robably wants you more than ever right now. If you tried to fix shit like her disrespect etc and didn't work it's justified to break up you did well man. It's not worth it to be with a bitch that doesn't respect you, ironically now she respects you more than before. Many such cases.

          >this bitch is more confused than you right now fucking entitled cunt didn't think this was possible fuck her bro she robably wants you more than ever right now
          yeah she told me that i should NEVER mention anything about my daily life because i could be fucking another woman in instant if we hang up and she told me she doesn't want me as a 'friend', i tried to make her chill but a break up is always a break up so i took the block her everywhere approach

          >. It's not worth it to be with a bitch that doesn't respect you, ironically now she respects you more than before. Many such cases.
          bro thanks but it's really hard, we were together ALL DAY

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            take this opportunity as a chance to better yourself

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            You did right to leave her. Don't ever allow a bitch to disrespect you. And with the torrent of shit she was throwing at you it makes sense not to even bother training her to be good. With someone like that you just list off the problems and say "it's over".

            Don't reconnect. Move on.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >she even talked with her ex
            >you didnt break up with her the second she told you this

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          SIMP ALERT
          anon you’re too much of a fag to realize, but his ex was a bitch and his dumbass shouldn’t have gotten engaged in the first place. Have fun being a slave your your ugly ass gf

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >You broke up with him because he drank protein shakes on your bed and refused to clean up after himself? Good riddance, you deserve better KWEEN go get the dick of a better man at DA CLUB. He was a gay
          You sound absolutely retarded.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            People who eat in bed should be shot

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          the problem is not her, its you, you dont know how to be a man and how to set boundries.. and you blame her for testing you hahaha

          kek she's not your maid and you don't live together. You're an entitled moron.

          But yeah, you should both break up. You're too immature for this shit

          >t.roastie
          >and you blame her for testing you hahaha
          she "tested" him and he responded correctly by cutting contact with a bitch who clearly thinks she is 14 and that you can "test" your man and get away with it.

          >If she was cheating you did the right thing
          Dude she dropped my self esteem below zero. We were talking about my body one day and i told her i literally don't know anyone in my circle who is that lean and muscular, and she started rambling about that she knows guys who are better than me and that im delusional etc etc. that's just one example, another example she jokikingly said that im a 'little man' because im 178cm. The other time her best friend told her that i look skinny in that shirt and she told me about. there are more brutal examples that i won't get into. and when i confronted her she told me she was 'joking' or she did because i tried to talk her down and that i was making insecure that i thought i was the best physique she ever had (her ex was a dyel btw)
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          >Are you regretting that decision?
          no because lately shit was getting out of hand, i was losing conrtol and she was losing control aswell, she broke in my house 2 times because i had her blocked.

          she sounds psychopathic, I went from "you did the right thing" to "you didnt have any other option"

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        you type like a middle schooler

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I WONDER WHY

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Anon I remember this post, you included a pic of her on the sofa staring at TV a few days ago, glad you left her. I'm sure it'll get better in time.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Sounds like a spoiled rich girl who dated down for a bit of rough. Definitely no hint there of pair-bonding in either direction. Should never have got that far, just stayed a fling.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        the problem is not her, its you, you dont know how to be a man and how to set boundries.. and you blame her for testing you hahaha

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Haha I'm so glad I'm never getting in a relationship holy fuck some people say childish blahblah but most relationships have these kinds of problems it's a fucking waste of time even if it works one of you will die and the other will cry, it's absurd

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Haha i remember you. It sounded like you needed to grow a pair. Good job anon without respect there is no hope. You have to maintain frame.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >It sounded like you needed to grow a pair.
          checked, i did grow it. it was a clean descision but hard non the less, about the frame part tho... how do i maintain it? just be cold and distant? its been the hardest 2 days of this year for sure this far, still lifted and ate 6 meals tho lol

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Bro how tf do you decide to get engaged, let alone, date a bitch like that? I wish my gf did that it would give me a good reason to dump her, but no she’s an amazing and wonderful gf, but I’m simply not feeling the relationship anymore. That’s when it’s tough to break up

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        kek she's not your maid and you don't live together. You're an entitled moron.

        But yeah, you should both break up. You're too immature for this shit

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Good work lad, ignore the prissy Roasties and White Knights

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Come back when you're a man, chud

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >yea a man tolerates disrespect
          Simp

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah it certainly sound like she doesn't respect you and that's vital for a woman to give to her man in a relationship.
        If nothing else, do NOT marryu a woman that doesn't respect you.
        Break up is hard, it feels like shit, I know it does. But fuck man, you would suffer even more down the line if this shitkept up and escalated. You'd invest more time, energy resources into her, and her disposition is shit right now, unlikely to get better later.
        As shitty as it feels this is a case of choosing to suffer now, to avoid greater suffering down the line.
        I suggest you cope a lot with working out, sleeping regularly being productive and start thinking about how you will find and meet new women.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >can’t set or enforce boundaries
        >weak body
        >gets into emotional fig he a with gf

        You got work to do anon

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        jesus christ you dumped her literally over nothing. she sounds pretty based

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >based
          You don’t even know what based means you pathetic simp

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Good. She's a lazy cunt. You were on your way to being stuck with an obese slug. Plus what kind of loser eats rice cakes?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >clean my house
        >no, it's your house
        >we're done, bitch. (lies)

        I just got out of a BRUTAL 10 year relationship after it came out in a fight that I fucked her sister in college. You are like a little baby.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          How is he like a little baby? He told her to do it and she refused so he dumped her. The bitch thing to do would have been to tell her and then do nothing when she refuses.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            He didn't even tell her that was the reason, he lied about the reason when he broke up, like a petty moron.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Seriously doesn’t matter as long as he dumped her ass

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Why didn't OP just clean his own house?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Eating in bed is a massive red flag to begin with. It shows an inability to compartmentalize aspects of life, and is an indicator that she'll get fat.

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You left. What’s the problem?

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You cope because you must. That's the secret of adulting.

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >i had the balls to leave
    Did you want to leave? Are you regretting that decision? Or did something happen?

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Why’d you leave her anon?

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    If she was cheating you did the right thing

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >If she was cheating you did the right thing
      Dude she dropped my self esteem below zero. We were talking about my body one day and i told her i literally don't know anyone in my circle who is that lean and muscular, and she started rambling about that she knows guys who are better than me and that im delusional etc etc. that's just one example, another example she jokikingly said that im a 'little man' because im 178cm. The other time her best friend told her that i look skinny in that shirt and she told me about. there are more brutal examples that i won't get into. and when i confronted her she told me she was 'joking' or she did because i tried to talk her down and that i was making insecure that i thought i was the best physique she ever had (her ex was a dyel btw)
      .

      >i had the balls to leave
      Did you want to leave? Are you regretting that decision? Or did something happen?

      >Are you regretting that decision?
      no because lately shit was getting out of hand, i was losing conrtol and she was losing control aswell, she broke in my house 2 times because i had her blocked.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Sounds like she is a brat and was fucking with you bro, don't freak out you just got used to her and now you feel weird or bad it always goes like that when you break up chill out bro all in all you did well. And FOR THE LOVE OF GOD DO NOT I REPEAT DO. NOT. FUCKING. GO. BACK. TO. HER. You don't know the amount of power breaking up gives you, this bitch is more confused than you right now fucking entitled cunt didn't think this was possible fuck her bro she robably wants you more than ever right now. If you tried to fix shit like her disrespect etc and didn't work it's justified to break up you did well man. It's not worth it to be with a bitch that doesn't respect you, ironically now she respects you more than before. Many such cases.

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    The pain goes away over time. Basically you need time to elapse to fade your memories and feelings.
    Getting another girl can help replace the memories and feelings with new ones as you get excited about a new person which helps push the old person into obscurity.

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Let’s see some pics of her !

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Kek. Based Crane poster

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You did the right thing , what an absolute fucking bitch, what kind of selfish disgusting piece of shit eats rice cakes in bed and doesnt clean up? I tell you whores crumby fucking whores , im surprised you didnt knock her out cut and dumb her on a street corner naked with a bunch of smashed up ricecakes stuffed up her vagina and asshole , what a stupid fucking bitch, jesus christ you can do way better than that, a stud like you shouldnt have even got with a crumby bitch in the first place anon, what where you thinking?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Kek based whore stuffer

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Holy Fucking BASED

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Hello? Based department?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      > nobody acknowledges this is women trying to be "one of the guys"

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >marrying after 2 years together
    Kek, both of you aren't the brightest

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    unironically the 8 hour arm workout will fix it

  12. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Grind some rice cakes up to a fine dust then blow it into her eyes, get rice cakes cut thin pieces and insert them under every nail then get awhole pack of rice cakes glue them together and ram the rice cake dildo up her ass no lube then get leftover rice cake dust mixed with water amd pour it into her ears teach her show her what it means to belittle a monster then murder every one of her family members friends the lot wipe them all out leave her with nothing

  13. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Who needs to cope dodging a bullet the size of a cargo jet?

    You're freaking out because you're a man and you were laying foundations for decades of plans. It will pass when you realize that woman would have destroyed, pissed on, and laughed at all the ways you were going to make her life better.

    It sucks right now, but not because of any loss by leaving her.

  14. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    op here again last question: how do i get rid of the beta thoughts that i low key feel sorry for her and for wasting her time aswell and that i ''used'' her to my advantage and after all that manipulation i ''destroyed her'' ? because she was literally crying told me that i made her feel like shit and that i destroyed her and that she cried more with me in one month than she ever cried in her life. i feel devestated when i think of this but then i remember her actions and think she is manipulative. how do i know for sure tho?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >she destroyed you by making fun of you
      >cries as says YOU destroyed her
      Even worse OP she is manipulating the situation even when she has nothing to lose anymore. For once be a moron and slap that bitch first interaction.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      it doesnt matter what you do, you cant get back together and you cant help her.
      only time will heal

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Textbook female manipulation. You're supposed to say "oh wow sorry. I guess I really was an ass for dumping you like that after wasting two years of abundant joy. Let's act like this never happened. Come over for makeup sex and let's pick a venue afterwards for a Fall wedding".
      She's never felt this way about anyone before and you're just so special to her and hurt her so bad you have to take her back now. I promise I'll stop leaving the cupboard door slightly ajar you can hit me as punishment if you want just please take me back and love me again I'll kill myself if you don't.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Textbook female manipulation
        Yup. Some of you are so young. Ignore all crying, or become a textbook pussy. Sounds harsh, but its an unfortunate necessity.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      You should go back to her. You’re both retarded enough to dance this dance over and over.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >You broke up with him because he drank protein shakes on your bed and refused to clean up after himself? Good riddance, you deserve better KWEEN go get the dick of a better man at DA CLUB. He was a gay
        You sound absolutely retarded.

        moron plz, she isn't his fucking bitch or maid. The pussy got fucking butthurt cause he looks likes a bitch and she called him out. Then he whines and cries like a bifch on fucking IST of all places. Shit won't be eaten, however his ex is def getting eaten by a real man. One who can take care of her without crying like a gay over fucking rice cakes.
        What a fucking moron. Someone will treat her right, and someone's doing it right now 😉
        Stop being a fucking bitch and man the fuck up.

        Simp levels approaching critical, captain.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      You choose what you think if you're conscious of thinking the wrong thing. Talking yourself up is an option instead of talking yourself down. You have the choice to take medicine or poison. Always take medicine.

      Tell yourself "I did exactly the right thing. I didn't lose shit by dumping that disrespectful cunt. She was a drain, I'm much better off without her" etc... Get into the logic of it, and list all the upsides while ridiculing the measly "downsides". No more sexy time with her? So fucking what? What value did that actually bring to your life. A life lived for small pleasures is inevitably a miserable one outweighed by life's annoyances, because we get used to pleasure.

      Women are a means to an end. If you're not having kids with her, then there's no point to monogamy, and if she's not good to have kids with then she's worthless.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Saved

        Thanks anon

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Because I felt that exact same way like when my ex (she left me tho) broke up, it was when I started letting those beta thoughts govern my relationship, and when she was truly crazy for me was when I didn't give a fuck, and focused more on myself, work, and my sport (swam in college) would also entertain other girls flirting with me and this made my ex so jealous but also crazy for me because I got more female attention then she got male attention.

      Then in the last half of our relationship I cut that stuff out and focused on our relationship blah blah blah sappy bullshit and she lost interest in me and got some new dick.

      Only after the fact I realized that females are sick creatures that say they want X but they really want their minds to be yanked all around up and down, and ride an emotional fucking Rollercoaster and just get obsessed with a selfish sick cunt mothafucka.

      Tl;Dr realize all the shit you feel guilty about is actually what she craves and wants, she wants to be on a mental rollercoaster. Her crying like that? It's a fucking novel for her. It's exciting. It's the low part of the highs and lows.

  15. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Not my problem
    don't care
    go back

    [...]

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      this, why do other cucks even bother posting in this shit, and where are the cocksucking jannies

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >jannies delete /sig/ right when I'm about to be told how to rid of the ultimate garden gnome but let this trash hit bump limit
        IST jannies are the most retarded

  16. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You probably should have done chest and shoulders instead of legs

  17. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    OP I'll be your devil's advocate

    you did the right thing. most of IST are dependant gays who will endure anything in order to get cuddles and pussy.

    real men like us won't tolerate that shit. if your gf is not willing to change for you then good ridance. who the fuck gets married nowdays anyway.

    next time put boundaries from the start and always give a shit. I tend to imagine smug pepe and gigachad in my head it works everytime idgaf

  18. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    She sounds like a cunt, you did the right thing and will be happier in the long run

  19. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Be thankful you had someone for as long as you did anon. I thought I was over being lonely, but recently I've been feeling it again.

  20. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Work lats

  21. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Your ex gf belongs to BBC now

  22. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    at least it wasnt 4 years buddy. remember the reasons you left and that when you miss her you only miss the idea of her and the actual person she was, was a fucking slut whore who deserved to die and lied to you about ever loving or caring for you because she wanted a college experience instead of you, under the premise of asking for an open relationship and pushing the reasons as you were the one who was bored and probably wants one anyways

  23. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    HOLY FUCK I just broke the engagement to my gf of 3 years

  24. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    My ex of 3 years dumped me 6 years ago and I still hurt every day. Your gf sounded like a stuck up cunt though

  25. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    DO YOUR GODDAMN JOB JANNIES YOU PUECES OF SHITFUCK YIU

    [...]

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Fuck off newfag. Good off topic threads are usually top tier because I really just want to hear the segmented opinion of IST bros sometimes, you know? /LULZ/ is full of losers who can't relate at all, why should he post this there?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >good off topic thread
        you mean WAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH GIRLS WAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH WAHHHHHHHHHHH WAHHHHHHHHHHHHH

        and then listening to countless autistic losers psychoanalyze shit they know nothing about?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Yes, beyond fitness; aspiring to understand women enough to manipulate them into fucking me is why I do this. Yes.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >comes to IST to try to "understand" women from these fucking autistic losers
            You are beyond pathetic

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Your post reveals more about you, than those that visit this place.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Read red pill stuff idiot. Its all there. Women are a solved game.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              >Read red pill stuff
              and the IST "knowledge about women" comes full circle.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                At least I get laid bucko and women don't talk shit to me.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >trips
                Okay I'm listening. Point me in the right direction chief.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              >Read red pill stuff
              and the IST "knowledge about women" comes full circle.

              samefag

  26. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I hate women haha

  27. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    this reminds me of a lookism thread, the containment is spilling out

  28. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Just ended with my gf too a few months ago. Now I'm crushing on this girl I barely know and I hate it. I just wanna be a Chad not a romantic.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >I just wanna be a Chad not a romantic.
      You have years, maybe decades of propaganda in your head that you have to delete and replace with reality. Most of us do. The sooner you get to rewriting the script in your head the better.

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