>cute girl made another excuse not to hang out again

>cute girl made another excuse not to hang out again
How do I not let this affect my workout? I'm bummed and know I won't be able to lift as hard.

  1. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    >not using rejection as motivation
    ngmi

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      How do you do this? Psychological stuff always turns my time in the gym to shit

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        Just go. One off day isn't going to kill your gains.
        Better to work out even just 5 minutes rather than sitting at home feeling sorry for yourself.

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        let the hate flow, she ditch you and you still want that bitch? Aren't you enough? Show her and all the world

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        undesirable outcomes happen. you can't do anything about them after the fact. if you're the type of person to linger on these outcomes then this undesirable event goes from a single instance to a farther reaching temporary plague on other aspects of your life for essentially no reason or benefit. if something shitty happens then i mitigate the consequences as best i can, learn what i can from the situation in hopes of preventing future negative outcomes of a similar nature occurring, and look ahead to whatever is next.

        if we were to take your situation then:
        >qt3.14 isn't into me. i'm going to workout and improve my physical appearance in an effort to appease her
        pathetic but prevalent. lots of anons use this as their primary fuel.
        >qt3.14 isn't into me but that's her loss. i know who i am and who i'm capable of being. i'm going to workout and improve my physical appearance so that a girl like her in the future will never dare reject me
        still pathetic but a little less so. allowing someone else to dictate how you view yourself so heavily is ultimately weak. taking steps to improve yourself whether to appease someone else or in spite of them are two sides of the same coin.
        >qt3.14 isn't into me and that's okay. i'm going to workout and improve my physical appearance because that's what i want to do. improving myself brings me joy in of itself. if that improvement results in me attaining things that i want then that's great but that's not the goal
        this is where most people should get to eventually. finding a partner that you're really attracted to and respect is great and it's certainly a piece of the puzzle for attaining happiness but to hold the idea that "finding a good partner = happiness" is a recipe for disappointment. thanks for reading my schizo rant.

        • 4 months ago
          Anonymous

          What is happiness for you anon? (I know it's not a permanent state you achieve, life is full of ups n downs)

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        Get more experience and learn.

        Go watch the pajeets that sell cellphone accessories in the mall. They always try to talk to you right? And you always brush them off. They get told to fuck off 100 times a day. But they still grind and go for the next sale.

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        Because you arent supposed to feel sad you gay

        Youre supposed to feel hate, like a man

        Unlike what your disgusting marvel or disney movies have taught you

        Hate and disgust are the 2 greatest motivators in this world, youll come to learn this

  2. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    No one cares about your petty problems

    [...]

  3. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    >>cute girl made another excuse not to hang out again
    stop talking to her bro
    theres thousands of cute girls out there that would be happy to hang out with you
    you just cant find them caus eyoure hung up on one that does not want you

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      I mean I know you're right but the problem is finding them and then approaching them in way that isn't weird

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        The best way to win is not to play. Pussy - just like happiness - is supposed to be a byproduct of success, not the goal. Just focus on something else to keep your mind off of it. Besides, most Western women aren't raised properly and are very narcissistic and promiscuous, so you aren't missing out.

  4. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    stop simping retard 99% of women are ctrl c + ctrl v you'll find another one in no time

  5. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    If she fools you once, shame on her. Fools you twice, shame on you.
    Stop talking to her and move on.

  6. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    >was bummed because ghosted by crush
    >favorite uncle dies the same week
    Yup…

  7. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Bro life is full of fucked up days, if you don't find a way to function regardless you're not going to make it.
    Not that there's necessarily anything wrong with it some people just aren't built for success.

  8. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    easy.

    KYS.

  9. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    >>cute girl made another excuse not to hang out again

    Find another girl, stop being a gay, shes worthless

    She thinks youre worthless and unattractive. stop caring about women you low test gigacuck simp

  10. 4 months ago
    Anonymous
  11. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Imagine her sucking your best friend's or dad's dick

  12. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    onto the next one

    give girls excuses to ask you out, not the other way around

  13. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    You're a normal human. Rejection sucks. It'll gradually get easier, but that's the price we pay for actually connecting with people. Small price, honestly.

    Don't listen to these autists that tell you "NO EMOTIONS OR CONNECTIONS BRO". That's not a life worth living.

    Feeling bad isn't a problem.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      it is when you fail every single time and try a lot.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      Peak normalfag

  14. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    If she doesnt want you as a DYEL she doesnt deserve you shredded

    Lift laugh love xo

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