How do you fix this? Literally in the time between foreplay and putting the condom on my wiener goes limp
>inb4 stop watching porn
I already don’t watch porn.
Dealing with Performance Anxiety
How do you fix this? Literally in the time between foreplay and putting the condom on my wiener goes limp
>inb4 stop watching porn
I already don’t watch porn.
I'm so tired of talking about sex on the fitness board
Can we get a /sex/ already. That would solve ISTs entire problem
it would but the mods are gays so they won't allow anything that makes the board better
Try liking the other person.
I'm 29 and I've never even came close to witnessing a vegana or a pair of breasts in real life (I'm straight). I'm a kissless hugless handholdless dateless virgin.
>witness vegana
PFF AHAHAHAHA MY FRICKING SIDES
You're past your younger years, so while you shouldn't feel shame in failing to marry before 30 (as few do), you should feel concerned if you continue browsing the literal fitness board & yet accomplishing nothing but busting nuts against the wall & wallowing in comfortable self-pity.
when my gf lifts, i make some sort of hamburger with her belly and lick the sweat in the middle
When I was 29 I was married and had three kids already. How do you frick up this bad and not just take the L and kys
Fricking loser.
I had this too. With my first partner I'd go hard->soft->hard->soft in seconds. Like in the 2 seconds it takes to grab a condom I'd go soft. She said she had never seen anything like it. I think it was nerves + ADHD.
thats crazy man I didnt know you could get adhd on your dick
I've always wondered how the hell a man with a 30 second tiktok brain possibly enjoys himself having sex, it's funny to observe.
Finger up your ass
I would argue of you go limp you're not actually turned on or attracted to your partner.
You have a latex allergy.
Be comfortable with toys. My last partner was external only and she just used a vibrator about 3/4 through and it felt better for both of us. No performance anxiety PLUS vibration. Guaranteed orgasam for all.
Toys are friends, not foes.
I always get this with new partners. Honestly I think it's because my first sexual experience was... not very consensual.
I've just got to be comfortable with the person tbh. So assuming you're talking about sex with a partner or close friend, then talk to them about it! Ask if it bothers them, make it clear that you're still attracted to them even if your body betrays you sometimes. Ask what other kinds of things still work when your wiener won't cooperate: oral, toys, watching porn together, whatever.
It can even be something you play with. Putting on a condom is always a bit of a bore and I usually go a bit soft in the process, so sometimes afterwards I'll tell my partner that if they want to get properly fricked they have to do something (usually something a bit degrading, spread their ass and beg, gag themselves with their own fingers, etc.) to make me hard.
If you're like me once you feel really comfortable and the pressure is off, you'll find that staying hard won't be nearly as much of an issue, and there's plenty of wonderful ways to frick or be intimate that don't require your wiener to be hard anyway.
>the condom
>OP has no children
You have low testosterone as a result of living in the modern world, and are not able to counter this as you clearly don't lift 1/2/3/4. I suggest as well partaking in tantra.
However, your body isn't made to have sex with infertile vaxxies for "fun". The White race was made to breed.
Oh, almost forgot.
https://discadia.com/blyat
>condom
I had never wear a condom in my life. For me it's an absolutely comical concept, and it's absurd people take it so seriously and consider it normal.
It's just very very weird.
I'd have anxiety too if I was a shitskin.
Stop using condoms
>I already don’t watch porn.
Liar. You've been yanking your wiener in a death-grip.
Use your nose. Her smell will keep you horny