I feel like being fit may help people have the confidence to finally move out and take on the world on their own. And if you always are at your parents house, it can’t be good for social gains.
If you did never move out do you think that may have stunted you chances at social progress? Another thing which goes hand in hand is those of you who went to college, did you commute from your parents house? These things must be terrible for ones social life. People should want to move out so they can explore the world. So if you never move out, is it becuase you are not as interested in being a part of the world?
People make fun of this picture but everything about it is based
>he made it
>has supportive mom who will take sick pics of him looking ripped
>is in the middle of making him a delicious dinner that hits all of his macros
Real
Whatever helps you sleep
Yeah but he’s a roidchud so I don’t know if that counts like making him
Yeah and he never brings girls over becusse he lives at mommy’s house. Kys
My mom let me fuck a girl when I was 18
Although yes it is cringe how some mothers won't let their boys be men, is this some primal thing?
>Although yes it is cringe how some mothers won't let their boys be men, is this some primal thing?
Are you Caucasian, African or Hispanic? It's different for those in the east, Asians and the Indian subcontinent I imagine. You can probably see it for yourself with the tiger mom archetype
Its hard to claim manhood at all if you need moms permission
dude, chill with the "kys" you fucking gay. i see you all over the board and you say it all day long to everything anyone says. how about you fucking have a nice day. you don't add anything to any thread. you just type like a fucking underageb& dumbass teenage gay. kill self. nobody's gonna miss you . and i fuckin mean it
>I feel like being fit may help people have the confidence to finally move out
It may or it may not.
>So if you never move out, is it becuase you are not as interested in being a part of the world?
When you get to the "this is because of that", you inevitably get into the bullshit territory since you're just making things up.
There can be too many reasons for people not moving out/not engaging with the world outside.
So why haven’t you loved out?
>you loved out?
I am all loved out, I have no more love to give.....
No. Moved out.
If I do that, Will that bring back the love?
No.
Oh, there with the infantile "why" and with assumptions. Cute.
>If you did never move out do you think that may have stunted you chances at social progress? Another thing which goes hand in hand is those of you who went to college, did you commute from your parents house? These things must be terrible for ones social life. People should want to move out so they can explore the world. So if you never move out, is it becuase you are not as interested in being a part of the world?
YES. This gay and dumb economy makes it impossible to comfortably move out, and I had to live at home for my entire duration of college. I vowed to move out by the time I turn 23 no matter what.
You should want to have your own place naturally. If you don't want to start your own life without mommy something is wrong. Plus living at home is pure woman repellent.
>Plus living at home is pure woman repellent
People on IST ask the dumbest questions. Just lift or don't.
>Did being fit make you want to move out of your parent house
yes
but I didn't mmove out
So why don’t you
You are a glowie
for what? i pay my share of utilities and property tax. i have my own space with kitchen and bathroom with my own entrance. why would i throw away money to live alone?
it's in the works
for the last decade
cause I'm a sperg
If I ever move out of me Mum's house I'll be moving right into your's
Because rent for s shitty 1 bedroom apartment is almost my monthly salary
EU fag btw
no I moved back in with my mom and started building a home gym in the basemant
she cooks me chicken and brocolli and salmon for dinner and tells me to keep working hard 🙂
I fell for the "move out so you can bang bitches bro" meme and then lived alone for three years and only had sex like 2 times.
>Living at home
>Don't pay rent
>Small home gym
>Mom cooks me meals
>Dad spots me on bench
>Do most household chores so parents don't have to
>Gonna get a job soon & go back to school next year
Life is good. Why would I pay some landlord for a shittier living situation?
>Listed all those things but gf was suHispaniciously left out
kys pussy slave
People can’t be happy alone. It’s just how it is.
>My mom treats me like cattle
>I don't make my own meals
>I let others control my destiny
Pathetic.
>A loving mother cooking you a meal is tantamount to being cattle
Actual mental illness
I know that I'll die a kissless virgin regardless, so why should I seek to move out just to pay rent for nothing?
That's the Spirit
Don't care didn't read not leaving mom
If gf doesn't like mom then she's not a good gf
I had more luck with women as a homeless drug addict than I did living with mommy.
Why is it such a bad thing for a guys romantic life to still live at home
It's basically the perfect story of disqualifying factors. Kind of sad that it comes off as developmental delay when shits so hard nowadays. A kid who has to wagecuck in a grocery store or restaurant in certain cities is basically fucked because it's not the same housing market our parents were handed. Lack of privacy too. Women want independent driven men.
No. Living in New York made me want to leave. It was either GTFO or stay in mommy’s basement getting no bussy.
No man, I'm stupid.
>If you did never move out do you think that may have stunted you chances at social progress?
Being a literal schizo incel from 19 to 35. I can't even begin. I'm a 44 year old virgin now.
>Another thing which goes hand in hand is those of you who went to college, did you commute from your parents house?
Nope. I ended up staying in the same city and I dropped out of uni 1 year in to schizo-maxx. I resumed studies when I was 35 and I finally got my degree.
Degree in what
An MFA in Updog.
So you aren’t schizo incel anymore?
>So if you never move out, is it becuase you are not as interested in being a part of the world?
Autism is a bitch.
I'm not. I have becomed jacked during the last year.
Being jacked means you are not incel
"social gains" are a fucking myth
Either you have a social circle or you're simply fucked.
Winners win more, losers rot.
Meetups didn't do shit.
Talking to people at bars doesn't do shit.
Haven't tried martial arts, but based on prior experience it's probably going to be the same as with the others.
How do you think many average guys get a social circle? I remember high svcool and how I could tell certain people did well because of how they could act socially.
I had a social circle for years and years a big one. I went ape shit on them and freaked out one night. After hanging out with them a few more times I decided to ghost them all and get sober. A lot of social groups are held together by drinking and drugs and stuff. I have a few close friends I’ve met since then but one has died. A lot of what you think you know is smoke and mirrors. Btw not a zoomer I’m 28
Social gains can’t be made up for by doing adult group activities. Social gains are made during school and college.
Well, if it's good enough for my spiritual uncle, it's good enough for me. With all luck, I'll be able to keep my hair the same way he did, possibly from lack of social stress. I think it takes a special person to live that sort of life
Ted was very lonely.
There’s apparently a lot of letters Ted wrote to his parents complaining g about how lonely he was and how it was their fault in how they parented him for not being able to make friends or get a girlfriend.
>Get put in hospital as a baby
>No visits with parents allowed
>Lives his first six months of his life with no family or loving care
He has a legitimate gripe, but with the hospital, not with his parents.
There are rumors that they, and especially his mother, were domineering to some extent, and I believe that since le mommy can fuck a man up. Also if he's susceptible to being sensitive after his time in the hospital, they should've been a on the side of being supportive to help him acclimate
>t. vaguely similar circumstance
They let him skip grades and go to Harvard at 16. Being younger than your peers isn’t going to help your social life
Its genetic,probably the most genetic shit there is, looks can be improved or even faked.
Social gains not so much, you either have it or you dont and if you fake it and even manage to do so succesfully you end up really tired and hating your life.
>if you fake it and even manage to do so succesfully you end up really tired and hating your life.
This. It sucks, but socialization as an infant and toddler is what determines your social ability. You really can't "become" more socialable after about the age of 5 or 6. I forced myself to be social and outgoing for like 6 years after highschool but I was always exhausted from social encounters and I ended up hating myself because I was always fucking up social cues and getting anxiety before every party. I'm 30 now, and despite my bitterness at the knowledge that I'll never really have a lot of friends or whatever, I am significantly less stressed out and happier with my life.
The older I've gotten, the more I find the whole "socialization" thing to be bullshit. Most of your experiences in life are determined by the decisions your ancestors made. Yes, some people are set up in a way where they can unconsciously respond to stimuli and be just fine. We are not at the stage in the cycle, normies are. It's truly a blessing to know that we are the strong men of this cycle, and we have it within ourselves to break the cycle completely.
Bro what are you talking about. I'd much rather be able to have lots of friends and be comfortable at parties than be nervous at parties and have no social networks to rely on or discover opportunities from. Intelligence has nothing to do with that.
This has nothing to do with intelligence and I never claimed that it does.
I'm confused by your post, in that case.
These people have followed a certain life trajectory that's warranted by previous generations of strong men. We don't have that luxury because our ancestors weren't strong enough to create it for us. As the strong men (or future strong men) of this cycle, it's our privilege and responsibility to create a better world
bro you're just a fucking loner sperg get over yourself
You definitely can become more sociable by growing your confidence in some cases. I was really quiet as a teenager but now I enjoy going to talk to all of my buddies at the gym and the staff too. Realized I'm an extrovert as an adult. I love making new friends and try to wherever I go.
If you have the genetic predisposition, yes
To be honest, I know a guy who's really fucking social, few people have had anything nice to say about him and vice versa.
It's all bullshit, normies hate each other. I swear, the fear of loneliness is what makes them seek each other out.
It's a bit blackpilled, but this is more or less true. Nobody, NOBODY wants to make friends with the weirdo loner. And that includes you, anon, reading this post. If you enter adulthood without a social circle, you're probably going to spend your life basically alone. People become less able to make new friends as they age, so if you're trying to make friends for the first time after highschool, you need to know that it's going to take a whole lot longer than when you were a kid, and you need to be prepared to be a casual acquaintance for at least a year before an adult really considers you an actual friend.
>CRE and RE is so cold that even IST has shills trying to get any spark out
Or just don't be a bitch. Adding a qualifier to whatever you want to do doesn't actually help you anymore than just doing it.
I refuse to give money to some chinese landlord for the privilege of living In a house I don't own amd won't inherit
I'm attractive enough that girls don't care I live at home and my mom makes her self scarce when I bring a girl over
Living at home to 25 these days I think is fine. If you have a group of friends, renting a house would be ideal. If you go to college I'd want to be on campus with others for sure. Often college friends are friends for life, which can help professionally. The cost you save the first year living at home isn't worth the overall lose of losing out on the social side and creating good bonds with friends during those crazy social times. If you're living at home you should make sure to have 2 years of verifiable income, a decent credit score, and save up for an fha loan. That'll get you a place. Get at least a 2bd and rent a room out if you're poor. That's what people should really do. Moving out to rent aimlessly with no friends and not hundreds of matches on dating apps wanting to meet up is pointless. If you have a group of friends and get matches none stop on dating apps, it's probably worth the money to move out and have some fun in your 20s.
>If you did never move out do you think that may have stunted you chances at social progress?
yes
>Another thing which goes hand in hand is those of you who went to college, did you commute from your parents house?
yes
>These things must be terrible for ones social life.
yes
>People should want to move out so they can explore the world.
I agree.
>So if you never move out, is it because you are not as interested in being a part of the world?
No, it's more like housing costing 2/3rds of your wage makes it not worth it. And if you're a wagie it's still not worth it. It's one of those things where having a girlfriend and splitting rent makes it easier, but in order to have a girlfriend you should probably move out. I don't drive either cuz I have dcd which really limits my options but I've been working on it.
people who think this is the cringiest thing in the world are wrong.
>omg his mommy is taking his picture of him being rippe dholy shit what a fag lmao get a life get a house get a fuckin lmao lmao
fags
people who think there is NOTHING a little weird about this are also fags
my parents start sulking if I don't eat their goyslop. it's kind of weird lol
Back when I lived at home my mom did at first. She quickly became the supportive parent while my dad openly tried to tempt me with junk on purpose, he seethes till this day that I am in better shape than he ever was.
It ia unfortunate that humans can act like your dad
I'm 31 and still live with my parents. I live in one of the most expensive regions of the United States. I am a pathetic loser with a pathetic job. I pay my parents a significant amount of money in rent because I would rather the money go to them and pay off their properties rather than to a landlord. I'm never going to have friends, sex or stop being a worthless scum sucking piece of shit loser anyway so it doesn't matter. I have no desire to own a house or anything really.
I went to college and lived on my own with roommates for 4 years and it was okay but I was a loser there too so I just felt self-conscious being around normal people. I never thought I would move back in with them after graduating but when I turned out to be a retarded pathetic loser that's what happened. Whenever my parents are gone, like they are right now, I feel freedom, but since I'm an incel I don't do anything actually free like going out late, having friends over, girls over, etc. I just use the "freedom" to listen to movies/tv really loudly and that kind of shit. And this is what I would do if I lived alone anyway.
Every single day I literally pray before going to sleep that I will somehow die either in my sleep or the following day. I am actively researching methods on how to kill myself but I fear that my severe anxiety will make me never do it.
I’m sorry anon. I’ll pray things change for the better for you. Are you at least fit? That will help socially in case you get a chance in the future.